So true

God bless him he is so kind

A true leader😭😭💓💓💓💓

Im the 1000th like ;D

Yes! Can’t wait to see them expand 💙

Exactly

Yeh that makes sense

Well said

100 percent true facts

Dancing pineapple i’d rather sit alone most of the time too

Uuuuyes

who doesnt love gos am i right?

gos bless

@@ramennoodles8546 gos bless you too

@@ethanerfani9864 yes...gos bless you too

Love this!

Yo 69 likes i cant ruin it be this comment is considred a like (nice)

Well the thing is a lot of introverts know how to interact socially, they just prefer not to. So while it is nice that these people are giving others company, not everyone wants company even if you feel they need it However, this is great for people who are socially awkward because those are the people who need practice but don't always get the chance to get it

@@David-gj9qr exactly. Some introverts even tend to have good social skills because of their habit of observing people. Not sure how much of us are that way though.

Yes I am an introvert and I also have social anxiety and anxiety so I would never choose to sit alone bc when I sit alone I feel like people are judging me and then I have a panic attack bc I am very uncomfortable and scared. So.this would really help me

This comment right here officer, hes the one ruining the wholesome

😂😂😂😂

Why is this so accurate tho?

“It’s my last peace” ....*hides pack*

Fun Fact: In you give them your first time, they would just keep doing it all over again, so just DONT give it to them, who cares if they die of hunger lmao

They won't care period, no matter what age. If you're sitting alone why not give yourself some company? LMAOOO idk. How about join clubs... Maybe you'll gain friendships with other people and have someone to sit by during lunch.

I'm sitting alone during lunch as I type this, lol. Don't care and I'm happy.

I can relate

Most people manage to find friends at school. At one high school that I transferred to, I didn’t know anyone, so I walked home for lunch. I happened to be walking through the cafeteria one day, and I saw a girl from one of my classes eating alone. (Her family moved all over the world). She looked miserable. I asked her if I could join her for lunch. She said “yes.” She then met a group of girls and asked me to join her group. I attended summer school at a high school where I didn’t know anybody. We didn’t have meals, but there was about 15 minutes of time between classes. I took two classes. During the time between classes, I got a library card, and checked out fiction to read at home. During the break between the first and second hour of my second class, a girl walked up to me and said I looked lonely. She asked me if I wanted to be friends with her and her friend. I said “yes.” I was doing okay/surviving without friends. I didn’t need rescue from a welcoming committee.

Same

Initially, but once they start feeling comfortable andmaking friends they only come out of their shells.

@Dracoambrose Are u slow?

@@mik7564 Most people prefer to be in their shells. I honestly would go talk to people if I wanted to but I like alone time. Being around people 24/7 is so stressful and you barely can have anytime to think on your own. As someone who lives in a loud house with 7 other siblings, I feel the need for alone time so I get alone time at school

But didn't you see how quickly he gets in their space then respects and moves out of it? It says, "I am here if you want a friend but I can also leave you alone and let you have your world."

@@ao-ei9pp bro are you me? like did you steal my skin as a suit or are you alternate universe me?

Oh I know that feeling when I transferred to my new high school (I was in my Second Semester of Junior Year) and I was introduced into a group at a table but I felt so invisible cause nobody even acknowledged me. I got up and almost broke down cause I felt like a nobody

did online last year, just had my first day. been isolated without friends for over a year now and i thought going back to in person school would change things. i guess its just gonna take time for me to adjust, but i cant tell u how alone i felt

Introverts: we are all alone together

I remember during lunch, I would go to a side hallway near one of the staircases and eat by myself, because talking with people throughout the day can be emotionally draining for me. So it’s good for me to be by myself to regain that energy back. Not to say I don’t enjoy my friends. I just prefer being alone.

I'd just drop out if such a thing were to happen at my school. 😂

Introverts do not want to be alone majority of the time. Plus you have to understand that lots of Introverts are pushed into the mindset of "better alone" by being left out in the first place!

I'm an ambivert but more leaning in the introvert side. I was the class president and i perform (singing or dancing) in school programs. I also play basketball a lot with my classmates and friends. I have a lot of friends back when i was in school, but most of the time I don't go eat lunch with them. Usually i prefer to eat alone. I eat where there are not many people around. I don't feel left out or i don't feel lonely at all. It's just my personality. So the idea of a stranger talking to me suddenly and eating lunch with me so that i will not feel lonely, irritates me. If you eat lunch with me, it must be because you genuinely want to be friends with me. But when you approach me thinking that i'm lonely and desperately need people to be with to be happy, even though you don't know me personally, then you better not think of talking to me.

It's hard for some people to open up sometimes.

haha nice one kid. What a great audience to tell your joke to. You know cause reddit and 4chan aren't enough.

people r annoying sometimes it's enjoyable to be alone

Negan not just white people. That's a stereotype.

They're probably jaded and they know he's popular, they expect it to be fake.

i agree lol

Wtf💀😭

as someone who sits alone, is basically alone in highschool everyday, every hour...I found nothing wrong with this statement if it applies to school only. because I personally believe nobody cares about me at my school. I've only experienced this once in 6th grade and I felt happy.

@@somebodyontheinternet39 Jesus loves you!❤️

@DripSupply ?

yeah, as long as i’m NOT a part of it 👍

@@Monkemonkemonkemonkemonkee 💀💀

Kiara haha I feel you.

Then you can say "I'd rather be alone, thanks." Or does that anxiety makes you sit with people when they approach you?

Kiara same

Kinda me 😂

That profile pic though 😂

I relate omg

High school was the worst for me besides senior year and always will be. I was restlessly bullied and ignored and it wasn't until I moved schools that things changed. I was unhappy, depressed, and obsessed with my phone. I had no friends and no one liked me. Now I'm 19 years old and have a job, a lot of people I know from 12th grade still chat with me online, or say hi to me while at work. My coworkers are so understanding and do there best to help me out. For me, high school was never easy, and I wished it was.

Facts

I saw both sides of the spectrum I was really unpopular and picked on in jr high, but was popular and a “cool kid” in h.s and they’re completely different experiences, the unpopular thing can really get to you

Your probably to young to understand. But compared to the challenges you will face later in life, high school is super easy. You’ll wish you could go back. Don’t be afraid, just be ready.

That’s beautiful. From whom is it ?

@@sunnykenfack3288 Reginaldo Rossi

some of those friends you don't want in your life

sadly that’s not true

I don't agree with you. I don't think some people are fit to be friends together.

robert brown atop pitying us it makes us feel bad for our self and embarrassed

2 B THANK YOU and yeah im a she

2 B alrighty

People don't rly deserve to be alone...everyone should welcome anyone😁😇

@credance Some people WANT to be alone, get used to it.

Yeah you should first ask their permission to film them lol

"yeah we are doing this story about cool kids basically feeling sorry for you weirdos, sign here so we can exploit your likeness and image? initial here, yes. Perfect. Thanks weirdo X"

mason ciaramitaro For real

dude's just trying to get into college, not gonna lie I admire the hustle. started a club, got on national tv, from haiti -- dude could legit get into harvard if he applied

voteZDLR but he gave up on sport where he could possibly get a scholarship

Stay Alive TØP Yep

Laura Dolman yeah, I'm glad I don't go there

Laura Dolman Just say “I am anti social.”

THE WORST NIGHTMARE

Right😂

I was gonna comment this exactly

Same.

Introvert can mean a lot of different things I suppose. I consider myself one, but feel like someone reaching out would simultaneously off set some self esteem issues if I thought they were genuine. And I'd appreciate it. If they're kind enough to reach out in the first place also probably kind enough to understand if you wanna be left alone. I just see it as a net positive

Exactly, imagine minding your own business thinking about something, being in another world. Having literal shivers and being so happy inside because you’re thinking of your dream job, goal. Then someone comes up to you, sits next to you are try’s to talk. It completely catches you off guard, completely. You went from thinking of glory and doing what you love, to seeing some unknown human trying to get you to speak. I have to force words out sometimes, but mostly i’ll straight up ignore you. Don’t take me out of my own comfort zone and expect to to react so happily and become your friend. Don’t you dare except to to do that… i’m giving you a message, get away from me that’s what ignoring means! Take the hint… Treat me like a ghost I prefer that.

The media not understanding human interaction for the thousandth time and trying to spin something positive into a negative.

Did no one else catch that? Just about made me throw my headset lmao

ah yes, those are the people I want noticing me.

I was flabbergasted when I heard that.

Lol I assumed he wasn't getting one in the first place 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Łîbbÿ UwU this... i felt this

@melanie ~ lmao, ikr?

but I mean you gotta socialize to get over the anxiety

same

@@Lyonessi you can't "get over the anxiety" but socializing at your own pace with people you trust might mellow it.

Deavon Manson awkward

Deavon Manson right?! Way to lower their self esteem

Mogwai 75 he was just asking a question.

Deavon Manson is that me?

Maybe those kids were kids that actually liked being alone one of them as holding a book

Same. This one time my whole class but me went to a field trip. Then I sat alone at a table, surrounded by other tables full of people. All I could do was look at my food and feel isolated.

I’m still in high school. People do occasionally talk to me but there a difference. It emotional just angers me. If they touch me I get so mad but I try my best not to give any reaction. I just shut them out and fully expect for them to leave, they do. So that’s that.

It’s good, as long as it’s not EVERYONE cuz I don’t like that.

This is my situation right now!

u in 2017 wanting to have friends u in 2030 u being Anti-Social

Same for me, even in college. Luckily I can eat in my house on campus tho

Especially on the days when your “friends” aren’t there and you’re left alone

That was me in middle school before I met my best friends

Same. They would tell you that you have no friends and call you a loser and loner, and stuff like that. But genuinely, does having lots of friends make you a good person and all?

ROBLOX_Variety better to have a few real friends than a bunch of fake friends, amirite?

A Normie your right I guess

@@RandomHandleLol1738 you're right

A Normie your wrong

I'm not Superman. I'm Mansuper. Same dude i would go to library and do all my HW or Walk outside my school i wish i had this club in high school

I'm not Superman. I'm Mansuper. You're literally all over youtube.

We dine together? I heard we die together. Woops.

Diet Bleach these really mean girls kicked me out of a table i was already sitting at

That’s actually what I did when there was no pandemic and when it was all good I wanted to stay home at times cause I didn’t. Have no one to talk to and now I’m graduating from highschool in less then a week and I’m so happy

I'm getting 32 on March the 25th. I assume you getting 33 this year.

Ben Well I like to sometimes, I get to do my own thin. I get to watch KZfaq, focus more on my art, but I get your point

This is a group for people who don't have an option but to be alone. You probably have friends you'd go and sit with.

I do. Or at least in my situation.

LJK Designs LTD Oh, that makes more sense

Amazart Productions i guess at least give them the option so that way those who dont want to eat alone dont

Right!!

Your username reminds me r/niceguys

WAsucksblackducks right.....im antisocial and so during lunch if just hang out in a bathroom stall watching anime on my phone is preferred it that way

WAsucksblackducks if it doesn't fit you that's fine but there are thousands of others that would benefit.

but it would be nice..you might need those social skills in the future. :^)

WAsucksblackducks I concur.

But some people don't want to be alone

why the fuck would yo ueat in a bathroom? lmfao do people actually do that shit? just eat in a cafeteria like a human being you savage.

Ericka Johnson god bless you.

Ericka Johnson hi ericka..you have one new friend here..🙋🙋🙋

Ericka Johnson eh it happens

That stinks. No one should have to dine in the bathroom... it's a basic human right to eat where you should be eating.

i agree and can relate to you deeply Though im still suffering having to go to school everyday T__T I feel misunderstood in a way by most people but i really cant blame them since im not really saying anything lol

@@walwal6449 same. I’m going to 10th grade next year and I haven’t had real school friend since 2nd grade. I started being quite in 3rd grade because I noticed that cafeteria ladies were staring at me and it made me feel like I was some sort of exotic animal. So I decided not to show any kind of emotion and talk to others to see if they would stop staring at me but they didn’t for the rest of my elementary years. That ruined me becuz now I went through my entire middle school years without talking, and I was alone without any real friends becuz I didn’t know how to talk to others by then. I was depressed and felt alone even when my siblings were around. I still feel as if I’m being watched and I don’t know how to socialize anymore.

@@o.v4069 damn that sucks It has actually gotten better in my part, though I still dont talk that much at all, I've gained "friends" (idk if they really considers me as their friend lol) that is ok with me being quiet. We usually play card games with each other so that's why I dont need to talk much and that's how I also started to go around with them. And they also included me despite the fact that I never really talked... I hope things get better on your end! If you dont mind some advice (you could know/already do these already but these are based on my experience): If you dont like to initiate talks (like me lol), see if any of your classmates tend to play anything (card games, football etc.) and ask if you can join too! (Assuming there are people who still play stuff in 10th grade). Also try to always say "yes" whenever someone tries to include you in some activity (unless it is something you absolutely dont want to do). One of my issues back then was that I had a tendency to be stubborn and decline doing things with people when they tried to include me and/or befriend me. It will prompt them to approach you again in the future and make them less afraid to ask again^^ Then again it depends on your school and your classmates, at my middle school and my classmates, there were always supportive and mature people so it may have been easier for me but it may be different for you;;

@@walwal6449thanks a lot! I’ll try my best.

@Lazar Freak LMAO ACTUAL ME IN REAL LIFE NOT THE ANIME CHARACTER

@Vison T lol

Same here

you're better off

At least I'm not the only one🤗

general ken obi

Your father's lightsaber

I guess they would ask if you want company or not. doesn't make sense forcing company on someone that doesn't want it, that would be worse

I liked to sit alone so I can eat like a slob, thats all.

I like being by myself.

007K same LOL I never finish my food

007K j

Never say never lol

No.

lol what

00 Lmfao

take me seriously How?

How did you stay in the same school for 8 years or are you from Australia or something?

Pepe Pepe probably primary and secondary school attached so an academy(?)

DubaiSparklez513 that's kinda sad

Start reaching out to people or change schools, or change your outfit. High school is very shallow, people judge you based on your clothes, but high school is also a very small part of life so don't worry.

omg i thought that girls always were the ones to have friends easily because they would normally talk to you and say hey. In my school i will sit outside where there are kids together but i be alone or go to libuary in winter/raining days to escape the crowded cafeteria. Middle school was worst and in elementary i was bullied the most. Alot of things happen to me as if god hated me. I actually never had best friends and the only thing i went out the most when i was younger are my cousins but rarely. Now that im 18 its kinda sad that i see kids who have friends at my neighborhood hang out and me not even having one. I used to go out when my brother was there and that was actually fun because i will go out and he didn't like it because it was his friends. when he left i had noone and was ignored my my neoighbor who my brother hanged out would call me names like scarface cuz i had a scar. Middle school was very fashionable (nice clothes)and my high school it was more like together cool fest or your weird kinda thing

DubaiSparklez513 which school you at my man let me visit you

Its been a year now. Any luck?

*Thats illegal*

Actually I sit alone most of the time simply because I don’t have the ability to socialize so I’m often boring, awkward and uninterested😭

Same

@@lem8540 same

@@oopsalldrip8816 2 years later, turns out I had avoidant personality disorder😭 so I guess your assumption is correct

@@oopsalldrip8816 2 years later, turns out I had avoidant personality disorder😭 so I guess your assumption is correct

Ahhh. Yeh its good to have somone around you, you can feel unacepted and issolated. I guess teenage years havent changed atleast good people like here have came.

Ikr smh

LMAO

Marie lmao

ㅋㅋ

i am convinced that humans can't survive long without human interaction.

Molly Kawaii_ not really, it's awkward af tbh

Molly Kawaii_ not at all.

1m

Aww it will happen soon:) God bless

Start a group Riley, never too late.

Riley Corkery too bad loser

TexasMade817 hahahahahahaha

Oleg Aprelikov 😂

SPACEMONKEY288 that's crazy that one guy would give up making 100s of thousands even millions a year in the NFL just to do meet kids. Why not do both?

your absolutely right. an amazing example they are setting as well

SPACEMONKEY288 My HighSchool is this way :)

Oleg Aprelikov What’s wrong with getting out of your comfort zone? Taking risks is the first step to be able to do something big, something that you could’ve never seen yourself doing.

Nick Knapp True.But if any of my main friends not there,I just sit at my side friends table 😂😂😂

Exactly, always have a backup

NIKE_LIFE_55 I need someone to explain it to me too

Nick Knapp I am used to it lol.

NIKE_LIFE_55 same here

Stonks

ok?

Grow a pair!

@@ericguerra6576 is easy to say,but it really takes time.

@@adrianhernandez5868 still waiting, aye??

That was worded awful

Because people don't want friends?

sério? isso nunca rolou nas escolas que eu estudo, só se a pessoa tem uma característica muito específica tipo; veio de outro estado ou país, ou tem alguma característica física que soa interessante.

@@ambre4329 pelo menos nas escolas que estudei sempre foi assim.

Na minha escola geral se apresenta pros alunos novos e depois os professores meio que sugerem que eles andem com certos “grupos sociais”

Same here, in Chile

her

much better option and it gives them the choice but either way this could really make the one difference someone really needs

MASHED-POTATOES why do you say that!?

probably talking about the prostitutes and other people wanting your money

TheNewYorkMimes That was deep

Not if you have real friends

MemeLord no one has true friends, everyone would just like to believe they do so they could sleep at night.

Flamma the undefeated Syrian gladiator, that describes me but sometimes I think I only prefer it because I usually am alone 😂

then they can just tell the guy they prefer being alone I don't see what the problem is

Lmao that's what I feel too

yeah thats some people, but a lot of people dont have friends to talk to, so what they could do is just ask if someone wants company or not, and they could say no or yes.

Flamma the undefeated Syrian gladiator I'm lonely because I have no friends at school or outside school because nobody wants to be my friend. How can you want to be lonely.

Chris 12 most people don't want to be alone at that time or they would be.

Bob M yes they would How can u say every kid in the world doesn’t wanna be alone just because it’s lunch time

Chris 12 some would but not most

Chris 12 I did not say every kid in the world, you said, most would rather be alone and I disagree because if most wanted to be alone, they would be.

I was like this because I’m an introvert but people would assume I’m the “typical school shooter kid” if I sat by myself so I tried making friends. Glad I graduated

same

@misssophisicated i have social skill issues but thats not the reason i sit alone, sitting alone is relaxing and i don’t have to say a word

Its even worse! BEing an introvert with social aNxiety and lack of social skills is TOUGHH

Are you homeschooled?

Yeah I don't buy that's since I was an introvert myself and I'm still am, but I discovered that at the end of the day people will always have something to say even you, so if you stablish a simple conversation you and the other person will always have sometimes. To say and can always learn something from each other, so that social anxiety is plain BS.

SpiceYourLife .... you’re the reason why people with social anxiety don’t want to talk with people...

@@girl-di3nn I don't think so. Why, because I listen to what people have to say? That's absurd! That what I do, that's how I socialize even thought I'm being an introvert myself whether I was forced. To do it or not it really open a whole new door where I don't need to have any anxiety to socialize.

c.r videos well it just depends if you’re alone because you want to (which is normal everyone does once in a while) or if you’re alone cause you got no friends and stuff. If they approach you you can just say no I’m fine I just want to be alone or be like I’m really glad they came and talked to me. Either way it’s good. What is not ok is sitting alone cause you got no one to talk too

You have to sign up for it. They dont single out random kids

c.r videos I would run away or be like "please don't, just go away 😐😐"

get up johnny boy that's so depressing

They probably ask if you wanted them there or not.

Jaqen H'ghar Exactly.

jinwool but some do

StuntRider20 ayyye, good for you, hope that goes easy

teach me master

This is so cute aw congrats

Bang her master

I relate so much I got.transfers right now and it my senior year also I feel really alone in the school .

That sounds really great. I'm glad you could find that.

Congrats man

loyal blink me honestly

Nope. Not acceptable. You have to spend your free time with me.

Just say you do

loyal blink I just want to listen to K-pop

But you don’t, that’s why you’re here.

Yeah that’s true. I hated sitting alone back in elementary school but now that I’m entering my 3rd year of high school, sitting alone is actually pretty comforting. I have a small group of friends I like to sit with at lunch, we’re pretty chill and we let each other do hw or study if we need to

Exactly. I like being in my own little world most of the time.

I'm pretty sure you can say like, "hey, nice to meet you. I want a bit of alone time, but I appreciate the gesture." Some sit alone because they want to, but some of us are just bad at making friends. It's a good program, but I do agree that they should ask like, "yo you need a bit of company?"

nat rod Lol, I highly doubt the majority of high schoolers that wanted to eat alone are that eloquent in their speech

@@uncleiroh4650 no one at highschool has ever spoke that way for the 3 years I've already been there, at least at my highschool lol

You dont need those people who wont give you the time of day, work or your future, trust me!

@@_no_9671 Thank You for the advice I feel a little better now 🥰

Avetis Berberyan lol lunch was way to get away from all them lectures yes. But the only time I could socialize with friends I never saw outside of school. Since they lived miles from me