Same here. Be careful what you wish for

Exactly.

ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!! Sex is PRIVATE!!!!

Women never get to think about their happiness.

@@frenchbluehenNot all woman are like that. I’m certainly not lol

My thoughts exactly!!

It’s ok if it’s just a girlfriend exploring and having fun together, but you’re right, most marriages fail in that lifestyle.

@@MickeyMack-og8mv Girfriend or wife I’m not participating. That’s how people end up Dateline 😆

Right lol

Or… stay with me… here’s something waaaay out in left field but what IF, huge IF, we forego the portal and not have sex with other people while married and instead if your marriage really sucks this bad, get a divorce and skip the BS? I know it probably hurts your brain 😅

@@JuveDeNile People are free to do what they want, as long as it doesn't harm others. Add to that the betrayal factor. If you make an agreement, stick to it. If you don't then you unilaterally change the agreement. Legal marriage is a contract. It's a business arrangement, as far as the law is concerned, and as far as morals go, I've mentioned the agreement/betrayal of it. That being said, your insult is unwarranted. All you've done is pointed out how I secure you are with your own intelligence, b)c you know zip about me. Let me guess, you're a "Christian" who doesn't completely follow the rules but that's "good enough", right? If the head of Christendom, the Vatican, and it's agent, the Pope, knew what you lived like, you'd be Excommunicated. In the very near future good "enough" won't be 'Good' enough. These are the New Rules, you're outta the Loop. So obviously you don't know what you're criticizing. Quite the skill in judgement you have there. As far as my intelligence goes, you'd be left in the fetal position if you had dumped into your head what I have in mine. Care to introduce yourself in a diff way or should I leave with that? It's your life and you're gonna live it, regardless. Try giving discernment a whirl, rather than judgement viewed from your own position.

Or just don’t have the “get-togethers” at all. Only have a party of 2

Some people don’t view sex the same way, I know that might be hard to understand. There’s nothing wrong with swinging if all parties involved are consenting and committed to the boundaries they set. It didn’t sound like Aubrey wanted to do this, and her husband didn’t commit to the boundaries either. But sex isn’t this private intimate thing to everyone, sometimes it’s just a way to enjoy yourself, that’s all

@@flyingblind5677 Totally agree. It's when side deals go on that's the issue. In this case (as in most, if not all), the original agreement was honoured. So side effects; lack of trust, feeling of betrayal, etc. but the activity itself is no diff than math. It works. 'How' it's done is the real thing. And then there's agendas. "Let's try it" can mean just that. Or, it can mean a setup where one party thinks it's trying when the real thing is expose them to it so I can get more, which isn't disclosed. Few things to unpack but the lifestyle is fine.

I feel like that would’ve been better. I’m surprised they didn’t do that.

@@lkb-il8iy Me too. Maybe the wife didn't want to rock the boat too much

It never ends well