Autism life is not easy, I am an autism mom, my son is now 16yrs, it had been a battle since his diagnosis at 2 but it is worth the fight, he went from non-verbal, low functioning to mid-level and a honor roll 10th grader... blessing sis

I am such a proud internet auntie! Why did I get emotional when she started eating her strawberries😭😭😭

I know we only see a few minutes inside your family's life but Vaughn I just you to know that you are doing a phenomenal job being Anne's mother♥️ . You're a successful, sweet, beautiful, loving,strong,wife,mother,daughter,sister and friend! You inspire me.

Mom you have every right to raise hell!! We are our babies biggest and sometimes only voices. I’m learning to respect and honor my boundaries and feelings as a mom and a woman. Too many times we let people convince us that we are being emotional or overreacting when we should trust our gut. Small scratches or not

Vaughn, your a great mom. Don't go second guessing yourself. I'm glad you followed your first mind and went to the school. I don't think you overreacted at all. Vaughn, I'm a psychiatric nurse practitioner with a couple of tips for you and anyone suffering from anxiety from time to time. 1) Take about 5-10 deep breaths and say a prayer to calm down. 2) Take a walk if you can. Exercise really helps anxiety and I know you do that all the time. 3) Practice mindfulness daily. Mindfulness is focusing on positive things or positive thoughts ie; I have a wonderful family and my dtr is fine. Anne is not in the hospital or in any danger at the current time. Mindfulness really helps to keep you present, put things into prospective, stop the racing thoughts, in turn decreasing anxiety. Works like a charm. 4) Pay close attention to your sleep hygiene. When sleep is bad, anxiety is high. One thing I suggest for many of my patients is liquid melatonin. Liquid works better than the pill version. Good sleep hygiene really helps to prevent anxiety from going so high. 5) Know that every thought is not a valid thought. Just cause you think it, doesn't make it true! 6) Your automatic thoughts will contribute to the anxiety ie; did someone do something to Anne? That's why mindfulness works well because it changes your thoughts. Just want to help. I hope I didn't offend anyone. Thanks for sharing your life with us. Happy Holidays! Love, love, love your channel.

Around like 5:20 I lost it... I’m the only special needs/autism mom that I know. I’ve been trying to meet groups of moms who get it. I explain so much why certain things worry me more than the average mom but it gets frustrating.

It’s probably my own anxiety speaking but I don’t think you overreacted at all. I’m glad you allowed yourself the time to be reassured that she is in a safe environment.

Sis, as a person with no children, I want you to know that you are not extra when you are concerned about your child. It is your job to protect her and be vigilant about her care. That's your job!!! Don't ever feel bad or apologize for being an "extra" Mom. I salute you and Anthony.

I had to stop watching and comment halfway. Vaughn you did the right thing! It’s always better to be safe than sorry, and your not an extra parent. Your a concerned loving mom who is doing the right thing for her babygirl. I’m so proud of you, your doing great mama.(I’m a new first time mom myself, my son is 3 months old. I love watching your vids to get momspiration 🤗❤️)

I was so waiting for this. I just love seeing Miss Anne. I’m sitting at the therapy center right now with one of the two Autism babies. I will be here until 6pm when the second one is done. But I feel you about things happening and you wanna know what’s up. Little Mama came home with scissor cuts throughout her hair! Of course nobody took responsibility for it. They just kept saying it didn’t happen here. But they had done SEVERAL projects using kids scissors. Even if she had done it herself, which she probably did, I still wanna know that she was supervised properly because scissors should NEVER make it to her head. Period! So I typically sit in the parking lot until both kids are done. Am I overprotective much? 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️❤️ Edit: OMG I need that sock!!! It’s perfect!! I have one that falls on purpose all the time. Nobody ever told me why! 🤯😮

Hearing her sing the Bingo song made me so happy. You’re doing a great job!!!

I love seeing Anne’s progress!! You’re a great mom!!

It’s so calming to see how patient you are with Ann.

As a school nurse to the special needs population, I’ve seen/witnessed children biting and scratching other children. Some kids also cause self inflicted scratches to themselves. So I wouldn’t be quick to blame the adults. But I definitely can understand your frustration.

My 20 month old daughter saw the strawberries that Anne was eating and said "stawbear'.. now shes crying and asking for some. Lol. I guess I'll be going to the store to buy some later.

She is SO precious and I don't think you are overreacting. You're her mom, it's what we do!

That was a happy moment to see her using her fork! Great job Anne! And you’re doing such an amazing job Vaughn❤️

Yo when Anne used the fork to eat her strawberry I legit smiled so big! Go Anne go!!! Vaughn you’re super mom ❤️

It is so hard to leave ur nonverbal child with someone. I feel ur pain cuz my son is the same way and I’m so anxious and freaking out about everything when he’s not in me and my husbands care. It will get better and I hope they tell u something. ❤️ blessed

Continue to be a hands on mom. No need to explain your heart. You are a loving mom who wanted to know and there is nothing wrong with that.

I’m so happy that you made the decision to go and observe Ann in the classroom setting. My daughter is developing at a slower level than her peers (she 11y/o) and I still go to her school and observe. My daughter is testing on a 3rd grade level when she is supposed to be in 5th grade. As a mother/parent we try not to be that overly protective person but you want the best for your child.....(peace of mind). It’s hard but you are doing a great job.

Gurrrrllllll....I'm with you! Motherhood is the toughest hood on the planet! But we got this....trust your gut it never lies!

When she ate the strawberry with the fork my heart melted ❤️ such a smart girl👏

My daughter has apraxia which is a severe communications disorder and I get anxious leaving her she’s 2 so I don’t leave her often unless it’s with my mom. I asked my daughter speech therapist about the peg system as well so I can incorporate that her in daily routine. I have started learning sign language so I can communicate with her in others ways. Thank you for the videos .

I’m not an Autism mom but my sister is and I completely understand some of the struggle. OAN I’m so proud of little Ms Anne!!🧩💙

Mom when you have anxiety please please do your breathing exercises... I promise you it helps... Breathe in slowly as you can and breathe out slowly 10 times in a row and it’s not a cure but it works

I'm an extra mom. When my daughter went to daycare I was on top of everything. We as mothers just want our children to be safe.

I’m an autism mom too. I’m struggling with so much at the moment. Its been a hard journey, but the love i have for my daughter always talks louder. Thank you soooo much for your videos. I can’t even explain you how much they help me. God bless your family (sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language)

I am not an autism mom, but I had something similar happen to my baby when she was only 9 months old in daycare. She went to daycare only part-time and no one could tell me what happened. I completely understand how you feel. You are doing a great job and never let ANYONE make you feel that you are overreacting. That is your job, to protect your child. You are doing great by the way! :)

Hi Ms. Vaughn, You are not a freak out Mom, you are a very loving , caring and attentive Mom. Anne is your child and you are very concerned about everything that goes on with her. I would be concerned if my child had scratches. You are correct, it’s not a child’s fault, it’s the adults who supervises them. I love the social stories and visual aids that are recommended for Anne. Anne was so adorable singing the “Bingo song”. I’m glad you talked to Anne’s therapy supervisor. I’m also glad that you got reassured that the environment she was in was a good one . I’m also glad that you found out where the marks came from. You are so correct, everyone will process things individually. You are doing a great job making sure your daughter is well taken care of and getting all the help she needs. Thank you for sharing. Anne is progressing along well. Shout out to #Harkla Body sock for reaching out to you with their product.

You’re doing an amazing job Vaughn. No one can judge you because they’re not in your shoes. You handled the scratch issue much better than some. Parents have gone up to schools cursing everyone out for much less without even seeking clarity lol keep up the amazing work being an advocate for sweet little Anne. You’re blessed to have each other! Thanks for sharing with us!!

The singing, the fork, and this entire video is a testament to little Anne’s growth and your commitment to her success. You and Anthony are doing a beautiful job raising her. To see her progress is a blessing.

Her singing B I N G O just melted my heart! Sweet girl.😍

Wow so glad you figured out what happened to her with the scratches and you feel so much better. You are doing such as awesome job with her, and I was so excited to see her using the fork. I was over her moving my hands to help her, lol!

Vaughn girl, you are a role model to so many moms!! Keep posting and sharing your beautiful truth despite the ups and downs. Life is life and your life is such an enjoyable journey to watch. Anne has such an incredible gem with you and Anthony as her parents, so stay encouraged and know that we are so honored that you continue to share your moments with us 💕

You are doing amazing! Being a mom is the toughest thing I’ve ever done, my son was speech delayed at 2 and I did not play with being an advocate.. it drove my family nuts “talking” for him but I just wanted him to know I had his back ❤️❤️❤️

You are your child’s advocate. As an educator, I always encourage parents to advocate for their child. You were NOT overreacting at all. As you mentioned, the therapist is responsible for her and her alone. They have to be more observant and document any issues that occur. They have to be your eyes when you aren’t there. I enjoy watching these vlogs because I teach 6th graders and have a few students with autism in my class each year. Continue doing an amazing job as a mom! ❤️

For the sleep issues, maybe try a weighted blanket or weighted teddy bear as well as a sound machine. My son enjoys the white noise and ocean sounds to fall asleep to.

Vaughn...you're a great mom. Trust yourself. Trust your instincts, they won't lead you wrong. Anne will flourish and thrive!

You were NOT overreacting. Girl, I don't even have kids. Just two God babies who I love like they're my own. And if one of them came home with scratches all over their face trust I would be up at that school getting down to the bottom of it. Your child is beautiful. I love her facial features. Looks like such an old, wise soul. Those eyes! Anyhoo. Love from her Internet auntie in California 🙋🏾❤️

I don’t have any kids, but I love these vlogs from you! I love all of your content! Great job Anne! 😍

Anne may be expressing her "But I don't want to go to bed" self, like me, LOL. I loved when she tried to guide you out of the bedroom. Smart baby! Have you tried using weighted blankets? I've read where they can be very helpful because they give sensory feedback to the body and reduce anxiety. Anne's joy with her body sock is written all over her face, she really loves the feeling it gives her. I loved using "Social Stories" with my students (I was an SLP for over 30 years). Anne did quite well for a first time attempt at bedtime. You know I cracked up to see how she was practicing it the next day. Share that with her therapists, we love that kind of thing. I'm happy to see that the staff of the program Anne attends are so open to working with you to relieve your anxiety (which is understandable) and increase your understanding of how the program works for Anne. Working with parents is just as important as working with the students.

I am happy that you were able to get the answer needed, I was worried and she’s doing so well I am very proud of her. 💕

I’m so proud of you and you are doing such a great job . I love u Poo. I can’t wait to come up and see yaul 🥰... Meechie was letting you know that she’s watching over you and Anne and you are protected . Anne is doing sooooo well . #proudAunt🥰

Anne is doing so well and you are doing a great job, and you didn't over react.

Wow Vaughn! Thanks for sharing your journey with Anne and autism! Your patience and persistence is a thing all of us moms need to see. Mothering is not for the fainthearted.

My grandson has Autism also diagnosed at age 2 and he’s almost 4 now, my daughter is afraid to let her son out of her sight! . U right with everything u said.. and my baby chase is not talking yet .. but I got faith in GOD that he will talk and be ok in life.😘😘 I had to add you are very good mommy to Anne.. she is so lucky!

5 minutes in and I can relate to everything you are saying. In my circle, I am the only mom of a child with autism. It would have been great if I had a platform like this 20 years ago.

Definitely try getting her a weighted blanked. The weight is a sense of safety and comfort for them.

God bless you Vaughn. I can't even imagine the daily struggles. Salute to you for being so persistent.

Lol @ Ann trying to sneak and pick it up with her fingers. So adorable! 😂💕

5:55 I love the little natural hair "style hair" sticker on the morning routine chart. So cute!

I am a single mom with a 7 years old who is also on the spectrum.... I can't tell you how many times that I got no explanation as to how my son gets various injuries from his ABA day program. I had to remove him because I kept getting the same stupid unacceptable excuses. Never can figure out why or how he was hurt. I'm like the accountability was none existent. You are not over reacting. I flipped out and took him out.

Good job mom! Never feel sadden or like you’re overacting. She’s your baby & you want to protect her as you should. I watch your vlogs and you are amazing with your daughter

Blessings and light to you Vaughn. I’m not a parent but I can understand how it is to love and care for a child and to be overprotective. You are fine! Nothing is too big or too small when it comes to your child! We are rooting for you both.

you’re doing amazing sweetie! 😭🙏🏾

I love seeing all her learning and growing. ❤️

Those morning and night routine folders need to be done by all kids that age. I think I need to use this for my little one. She is all over the place sometimes, and argues with me about going to bed EVERY night! This may motivate her.

You did the right thing by investigating. As a parent of two (a 15 month old and 4wk old) I will NEVER get too comfortable with others taking care of my children in the absence of my presence.

Awwwwwwww she’s so sweet, she just warms my heart 💜. You’re doing a fantastic job. God Bless You 🥰😘💕

I love watching the interactions and new experiences Anne is having. Bless you and your family Ms. Vaughn!

i'm over here yelling Yaaaaaayy! about the fork as if ya'll can hear me...Good Job Anne...What a wonderful moment. You were not being a freak out mom, you were simply being a concerned Mom. I dont think you overreacted at all & I'm glad your observation gave you peace of mind. Thanks so much for sharing! Hi Anthony! :)

This vlog has Helped me SO SO SO much!! You pretty much verbalized EVERYTHING spot on...Thank You and keep up the amazing job girl! ❤️

You two are so inspirational! Thank you for sharing your life w us! 💜

I currently supervise BCBAs and licensed therapist. You are doing a fantastic job! Keep asking questions and seeking answers! You deserve to know about any incidents concerning your child!

I hardly ever comment on videos. But I need to tell you how proud you should be of yourself. You're absolutely right... Every mom's experience is different. But what I can tell you is that you are a dope mom. Don't let anybody else discourage you from your instincts. You know what's best for your child. BTW, my mother's last name is the same as your married name. I think you're married to my cousin. Much love! Keep up that excellent Mom work, love.

Yes, find your own way. Im so proud of you. Proud of Anne too. 💜

Thanks for sharing this journey. You are really educating us as you learn yourself.

Better safe than sorry. You did the right thing.

Thanks for showing this. What an awesome Mom you are! Grace & Peace!

Absolutely! You should not let this slide. Austism or not! When my son came home with scratches on his face I asked the teacher what happened and why wasn’t I notified. They should contact you when incidents happen. You have to keep them on their p’s and q’s when he comes to your child. Also, consider moving the lamp away from her bed. That may help.

This was a awesome vlog!!! I was proud watching Anne eating with that fork! Your a great mommy 💖💖💖💖

While I am not a parent of an autism child, I advocate for my kids who have life-threatening food allergies, so I understand the importance of advocacy. ALWAYS be extra! Extra involved, extra detailed, extra investigatory, extra present, extra every damn thing! We are their advocates, no matter what. No apologies, no hesitation. I love your channel and stand with you, super mom!

I have to say that I’m so proud of you and Anne! 💙💙💙

Vaugh, parenting is stressful in general. I totally relate. I was just having a similar moment today about my 22 year old son. Yes, sometimes you are stuck on when to let go and allow them to experience life. As a mom we feel the need to ALWAYS shield them from harm. My son deals with depression and anxiety. Some days are rough, like today. I truly understand. Just know that you are doing an excellent job and she appreciates EVERY effort. You got this Mom!!!!!

You are doing a wonderful job🤗 I love Miss Anne’s little personality and watching her grow up💕

When she said “name-o” my eyes filled with tears 😩😍

Wow. You are such a patient, communicative and hands on mom. Good job!💜

Go Anne!!! I’m rooting for her!! You’re doing such a great job! Keep your head up Vaughn❤️❤️❤️💪🏾💪🏾

I watch a lot of your videos. I am a mom and I work for a non profit organization advocating for adults with developmental disabilities. This video touched my heart today. I felt tears of joy with you celebrating Annie’s achievements. You are doing an amazing job and Ann is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing yours land Ann’s life. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and strength.

You are not overreacting at all! I’m a Behavioral Interventionist and I work with autistic children in the home and at our office and you absolutely have the right to be in observation without asking them. I think you’re doing an awesome job continuing her work at home bc I work with parents who don’t and it’s hard for continued progress. She’s doing so well! Keep praising her for her accomplishments and keep going strong mama! You’re doing amazing ❤️

Glad you got to the bottom of the scratching issue. Omg when Anne was wating the strawberries with the fork,I was just smiling like 'yeah Anne you did it '. Great job!! You are a great mom!

Glad I found your channel. You are a phenomenal mom. Keep up the good work.👌🏾

Sending you and Anne lots of love and support Vaughn. You are doing a wonderful job!

I love watching Anne grow! It warms my heart! She’s beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️

Beautiful transparency. Thanks, sis.

This just happen with my autistic daughter last week and I'm just getting over the anxiety of her being at therapy without me. My husband has been helping me through it. Thank you for always sharing.

It’s rewarding to see her overcome and learn new skills! Go mom & go Anne!!

You are such an awesome mommy Vaughn! You are doing an amazing job with Anne.

You are Awesome!! I’m so proud of how you handled your concern for Ann. That is your right and responsibility as a parent to know what’s going on with your child. Ann is a blessed little girl to have parents like you and Your husband. She is thriving beautifully from the love and nurturing she receives. God bless you. Continue the great work you all are doing with your precious baby girl. She’s adorable and smart. Also , I love that she was getting a head start on her night routine😀🙏🏽❤️

This video is so real! It takes a special person to love on such a wonderful child!! Anne is so blessed to have such loving parents! This progress at the end of the video!!!... I’m like a proud Auntie!! 😅🥰

Thank you for sharing this personal matter of your life with us. You and your daughter is doing a wonderful job. I am praying for strength for you. Keep up the good work!

First of all I loved how you’re talking to us in that hat.😂Thank you so so much for sharing your life with your viewers. I think you are so wonderful, loving and awesome. All the best.

Im here sis!!!! Love yall hi ANNE!!! ❤️❤️❤️

You’re an AMAZING mom. Keep doing what you’re doing! I pray God continues to give you strength as you continue to grow as a mom! 🙏🏾❤️

Anne is doing amazing, was so happy when she used the fork. loved her BINGO singing, MsVaughn you are awesome, admire your resilience to keep trying throngs new and old 💕💕

You’re a great mom. She is soooooo beautiful omg! 😍

You are an inspiration to all parents not just those with kids on the spectrum! Your patience with her is so encouraging and it is a joy to watch her success, step by step and day to day!

I love this series on your channel. I have a almost 3yr old and I’m definitely a little on the helicopter mom side. He is my first and only. So I don’t think you should ever feel bad about having questions. My friend taught me that because his child is on the spectrum and he said you have to be your child’s voice ! Thank you for sharing !

My child isn’t special Needs but his first few days of going on the van to daycare, one of the kids scratched his face. I freaked out!!!!!!! It had me on edge. So girl. I get it. I had to realize that sometimes things happen and the adults don’t see it. And kids touch each other too. It’s a lot of growing pains.