How to Night Wean Baby (6-12 months)

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How to Night Wean Baby (6-12 months)
Are you feeding your baby several times during the night and dealing with night wakings? Or do you have to rock your baby to sleep?
Find out how to night wean your 7 month old baby. Jilly explains a gentle, No Cry approach and the Ferber/Controlled Crying sleep training method. Get tips from a lactation consultant, nurse and mom to get your baby sleeping through the night!
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An exhausted mom asked me for help with night weaning her 7 month old, who wakes frequently throughtout the night and has to be rocked to sleep each time.
When your baby is younger, feeding or rocking your baby to sleep works and helps them sleep well. But your baby is developing. Her sleep patterns change as she grows to become more like an adult’s sleep patterns. It’s a great sign, but waking throughout the night and not being able to self-settle is often a sign that your baby needs to learn to fall asleep, and stay asleep, on their own.
Signs that your baby’s sleep pattern is changing:
• Restlessness
• Difficulties falling & staying asleep
Step 1: Set a healthy sleep foundation
The best way to fix baby sleep is by setting a healthy sleep foundation, before we fix the night wakings.
Biologically appropriate bedtime:
• If your 7 month old has 3 naps/day, bedtime should be between 7: 30- 8: 30 pm.
• If your 7 month old has 2 naps/day, bedtime should be between 7-8pm
Tip: Keep track of nap times to find an ideal and appropriate bedtime.
When babies get overtired, it causes them to fight bedtime, wake more often and wake earlier in the morning.
Peaceful Bedtime Routine:
This is a routine of consistent activities that take place at a specific time, in a specific order every night to help your baby settle down for the night.
Your baby gets consistent behavioural cues, to cue her body and her mind to relax and get ready to sleep.
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Watch Awake Times
Babies and toddlers have a biological need to sleep often during the day. Your 7 month old needs to sleep every 2-3 hours consistently throughout the day, every day. Babies are wired differently, so the better a baby sleeps in the day, the better they will sleep at night.
If the last awake time is too long, it could really affect her night sleep and make her wake more often.
Step 2: Night Weaning
A sleep association is the condition or the prop that a baby associates and so needs to fall asleep.
There are independent sleep associations like white noise, or her sleepsack. Dependent sleep associations require your assistance, like rocking or feeding to sleep, or replacing a pacifier.
Now she’s getting older, we want to slowly wean off you helping her get back to sleep. If a baby has only ever been rocked or fed to sleep, they won’t know how to fall asleep alone.
Night Feedings
Most 7 month olds can be weaned down to 1 night feed - check with your pediatrician first. Many can fully wean off night feeds.
I have a guide on my website called ‘Weaning Night Feedings’. It will help you determine when your baby is ready to wean off night feedings, and also how to do it.
How to Stop Rocking Your Baby to Sleep
A Gentle Method: Good for sensitive/affectionate children
1. Do your bedtime routine
2. Rock her until she’s drowsy, but don’t let her fall asleep
3. Slowly and quietly put her in her bed as she starts to relax and doze off
4. She will probably complain, so you will give her lots of hands-on support while keeping her in her bed. Pat her, rock her side to side, touch her head.
5. If she gets really inconsolable, pick her up, calm her down and then put her back in her bed.
6. She will start to get used to it. Wean off hands-on support and give verbal reassurance instead.
7. Wean off the verbal support and gradually remove yourself from the room
You'll get less crying with this method, but it does take 2-3 weeks.
A Quicker Method:
Similar to the Ferber method or Controlled Crying.
1. Do your bedtime routine
2. Put baby in her bed
3. Leave the room for about 3 minutes
4. Come back and give some quick comfort to your baby
5. Leave room again for 5 minutes this time (increase each time if possible)

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@poojachandak8532 3 жыл бұрын

The most helpful video ever. Something I can actually do

@Babysleepmadesimple 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! We are so glad that you found it helpful! :) Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@Anonymouslyhighlyopinionated Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your free content on your website. It saved my neck as a new mom. I was able to sleep train my first with just that info, but my second is tougher 😅 I’m hoping you have a Black Friday sale because I’ll be needing help with this kid

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment! Yes, our Black Friday sale begins on Monday!! Please visit our website: www.BabySleepMadeSimple.com, on Monday to purchase the program which best fits your child's needs. If you need help selecting the program, please send us an email at: support@babysleepmadesimple.com, and we can help you :) Kind regards, Ingrid, BSMS Support Team

@hope4change2012 Жыл бұрын

This was so helpful, thank you!

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Happy to help! If you need any help with your little one's sleep, you can start here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-regression-survival-guide Artemis, BSMS Support Team

@tarawyatt8969 4 жыл бұрын

So helpful thank you so much

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@love.adenkay1794 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your videos! I just knew your channel. And it’s very helpful. I have 7 month old and sleep is disastrous. To start, we have bedtime routine but it’s always a disaster because he starts to cry in bath, then to putting on clothes, still fussy and crying. Then i feed him to sleep but needs pacifier afterwards. Then he wakes up at 10pm, 11pm, 1am, 3am, 5am, 6am. I feed him every time he wakes up because this is the only way he knows how to sleep. I’m very very tired already. 😢

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Hello and thanks for your comment! It sounds like your baby needs to learn some independent sleep skills so that he can get better sleep during the night (and you too ;). Our 21 Days to Peace & Quiet program would be perfect to teach him these skills. Please find more information here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant. Please let us know if you have any questions! Best, Ingrid, BSMS Support Team

@ConsciousSista9ether 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@nicolejimenez2487 3 жыл бұрын

I really felt like you were talking to me because my name is Nicole and my 7 month old acts the same exact way as the Nicole you mentioned. I’m so glad I found your video! So much helpful advice

@Babysleepmadesimple 3 жыл бұрын

Hi there Nicole. Thank you for your message. We're so glad you find our content helpful. You can also check out our 7 month old sleep guide here --> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/7-month-sleep-regression This will help you understand what to expect from your LO's sleep at this age, plus it's got many tips on how to get them sleeping better at night. Try implementing these tips for a few days and then let us know how things work out. Good luck. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

@msnic313 2 жыл бұрын

Same!!

@janekariuki254 4 жыл бұрын

I needed this refresher, thanks.

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

We are glad you found it helpful! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@cosmiclullabies1306 6 жыл бұрын

Very interesting! Thanks!

@Babysleepmadesimple 6 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you enjoyed it! Let me know if you have any questions.

@cosmiclullabies1306 6 жыл бұрын

This video helps a lot. I have a 11 months old baby and he is not sleeping very well lately, I think is about the teeths...

@Babysleepmadesimple 6 жыл бұрын

Yes teething can often disrupt sleep. Soak a washcloth in chamomile tea, then freeze it. Allow baby to suck on the washcloth at bedtime. The cold numbs the pain and the chamomile reduces inflammation. Or, of course, a cold teething toy works well too. Good luck!

@cosmiclullabies1306 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot! I'll try the washcloth in chamomile tea tonight :)

@dreambeehypnosis Жыл бұрын

20-30 mins to get my 8 month old to sleep sounds like a dream. He’s relentless

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

You can learn all about 8 month old sleep expectations by clicking on the guide below. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/how-to-beat-the-8-month-sleep-regression The great news is that your little one is the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently. This is truly the key to longer stretches of sleep every night! We can definitely help you get your LO’s sleep on track and get your entire family sleeping better. We can provide the best support to your family in our 21 Days to Peace & Quiet program. In this program we offer 4 step-by-step sleep training methods. You choose the one that feels best for your LO. We have super gentle & gradual all the way to quick & efficient. Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament. Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package, Support package and VIP package! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family!

@lindsey2070 4 жыл бұрын

This saved me!

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Lindsey, I am so glad to hear that our video has helped! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@cristinavilchez6607 13 сағат бұрын

Hi, thank you for this amazing video. Your Exhausted Mom's Starter Kit is no longer available. I need help with an easy routine.

@Babysleepmadesimple 7 сағат бұрын

Hi Cristina, We are so glad to hear the video has been helpful! You can click below to access our new starter kit! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/lm-em-starter-kit Also, if your LO is older than 5 months, definitely look into our 21 Days to Peace and Quiet Routine. This is truly the best way to get your LO sleeping peacefully and independently all night long! CLICK HERE to join--> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Please let me know if you have any questions! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

@femargolis 2 жыл бұрын

When I fist started sleep training last week I would go in and pat my son on the back. He was comforted by this and would relax and go back to sleep. But after a week his response changed. Now he gets so mad if I didn't pick him up. So I stopped going in. I seems to upset him more. So not I'm not going in at all. He cries but seems to go back to bed. I hope he's ok and the crying gets less and less. Thanks for your videos. Love them!

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Francine, We are so glad you are enjoying our videos! Definitely check out our 21 Days to Peace and Quiet program if you feel you need additional support during the sleep training process :) Our support team answers personal questions Monday-Friday and we offer 2 zoom calls per week! Happy to help! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@Skt3576 3 жыл бұрын

It’s a great video with great advice. I’m just wondering if I can use these techniques with baby with severe reflux? As I have to keep him upright for at least half an hour and can never put him to bed drowsy

@Babysleepmadesimple 3 жыл бұрын

Hello, You can definitely still apply these techniques to your LO with reflux. You just have to modify a bit! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@alexandrialynn723 3 жыл бұрын

I did this with my reflux baby but I modified it to what he needed. He is a very assertive baby and does not cry unless he is upset rather than hungry, scared, etc so I had to do the cry it out method. I waited until his vomiting turned into spit ups at 4 months and I especially made sure he ate enough during the day. As a reflux baby it’s important to make sure they are eating enough calories for their weight in order to sleep at night. My baby is very tall and heavy for his age. 18lbs and 26.4 inches at 4 months old so he needs the calories of a 6 month old during the day (with the exception of maybe 1-2 feedings at night) in order to feel fully satiated so that he can sleep through the night. I hope this helps.

@terrafinlay2615 5 жыл бұрын

This is hard on parents that both work and have opposite schedules. If i put my baby to bed by 8 pm....he will be awake around 6 am.. when my husband has just gone to sleep and when I am getting ready for work.

@Babysleepmadesimple 5 жыл бұрын

Yes having parents on opposite schedules takes some customizing. Most parents want a bedtime that will help their baby sleep as well as possible overnight, and typically earlier bedtimes do this. But you can certainly try a later bedtime if that works better for your schedules. I hope it does! All the best, Jilly

@devanburnham62 4 жыл бұрын

What about if my baby puts themselves to sleep during naps and going to bed in his crib but wakes multiple times to nurse during the night. Currently still at 12 months

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hi there Devan. Please check out our 12 month old sleep guide here --> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/12-month-sleep-regression . It has lots of tips on what how to help your LO sleep better, plus it will let you know what to expect from your baby's sleep at this age. Also, you can check out our guide on night wakings here --> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-toddler-night-waking-tips Hope these help. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

@alepid1 Жыл бұрын

I feel that’s really hard once babies are older (around 1 year) and they stand up in the crib. Might even be dangerous leaving them crying there alone as they might try to climb out…

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Hi Alessandra, It is definitely an added challenge when our babies start to get taller! However, sleep sacks can be VERY helpful. Not only does it keep babies warm all night long (in a safe way), but it can be a deterrent for climbing out of the crib. We have helped train hundreds of babies over 1 year of age and the majority don't try to climb out! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Team

@oanastefan987 5 жыл бұрын

Hi! First of all thank you for this video, it came in a time of great need for us. My baby is 6 months old and currently co sleeping with me in the bed. He has short feedings during the night almost every hour and, even though I'm exhausted, I don't mind it that much, but I'm concerned about the fact that he seems to be tired all the time now. My husband insisted on trying the Ferber method - I'm kind of against it - but it failed on our fist try. Our baby never sleeps on his tummy and, even though he mastered rolling over from back to tummy very early on, he seems to get stuck when he's on his tummy and, as a result, cries uncontrollably. I'm not comfortable with doing the Ferber method knowing he can't chose a sleeping position to his liking. What do you advise us to do? I want to give the gentle method described in the video a try, but when I pick my baby up and he's crying, he starts searching for my breast and gets even more upset if I don't offer it to him. - I'd like to wean him from night feedings because I'm pretty sure nursing is a sleep association for him, as he's eating well during the day and is quite chunky. Thank you!!

@Babysleepmadesimple 5 жыл бұрын

At 6 months your baby can learn the skill of settling himself to sleep. When he can fall asleep on his own at bedtime, he'll be able to resettle himself any time he stirs during the night (without needing to nurse.) Sleeping longer stretches will help him and you not be so tired during the day. (Plus it helps babies eat better during the day too. ) You don't have to do Ferber. There are MANY ways to teach babies to self-settle. I recommend starting with my Exhausted Mom's Survival Kit. This is where I walk you through exactly what to do to help your baby settle easier and sleep longer. You can sign up for it here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/exhausted-moms-survival-kit After you've gone through the kit and are doing the steps, we work on getting baby falling asleep on his own. After the age of 5 months, babies DO have this ability. We just have to guide them. I help parents do this everyday in my program, 21 Days to Peace & Quiet: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program It's definitely possible to get your little guy sleeping better. Check out the above links and let me know if you have any questions. All the best, Jilly

@ashleyalston417 4 жыл бұрын

My 13 month old co sleeps with us and nurses through the night almost. How can I stop this ? We are expecting in August and I cant have 2 neversleeping

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Ashley, Congratulations on your pregnancy! I am attaching our one year old sleep guide and night weaning guide. I would check these out since they will give you some helpful tips to get your 13 month old sleeping better before the new baby gets here! /Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/weaning-night-feedings www.babysleepmadesimple.com/1-year-old-sleep-tips-toddler

@miriamkhanani5888 4 жыл бұрын

Hi, thank you for this video. I tried sleep training my baby but he flips over to his belly and comes to the edge of the crib and starts to scream. he does not know how to turn himself back. I went in his room and turned him back but then he started to do it everytime like every minute. Any suggestions what should I do??

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hi! Babies rolling onto their tummy in the night can be so scary! You don’t need to reposition your baby, unless they're upset. Once a baby is freely rolling back to front, and vice versa, it’s fine to leave them. This means they have the muscle strength to move themselves into comfortable positions and ensures that they can move their head and neck at will. Here’s some info from the National Institutes of Health (NIH) Rolling over is an important and natural part of your baby’s growth. Most babies start rolling over on their own around 4-6 months of age. If your baby rolls over on her own during sleep, you do not need to turn her back over onto her back. The important thing is that your baby starts every sleep time on her back to reduce the risk of SIDS. And also that there are no soft objects, toys, crib bumpers, or loose bedding under baby, over baby, or anywhere in baby’s sleep area. (source: www.nichd.nih.gov/sts/about/Pages/faq.aspx) * AND NO WEDGES OR POSITIONERS IN BABY’S BED! If baby rolls onto her tummy and gets frustrated because she can’t roll into a more comfortable position, you may need to help her onto her back temporarily. This is normally a very short phase (less than one week.) Give baby lots of open floor time during the day to practice rolling and build strength. Good luck! / Leena, BSMS Support Team

@miriamkhanani5888 4 жыл бұрын

@@Babysleepmadesimple Thank you so much

@cosmic_dork_den9773 4 жыл бұрын

any tips for babies that are rooming with parents no option for their own room

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hello! How old is your LO? Many of our tips can be applied to a room sharing situation. Black out the room and have white noise near the crib so your LO can try to sleep through any disturbances. :) Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@intangalistri2765 4 жыл бұрын

Hello, thanks for your video, i will try your method i hope it will work, i try for few day already but she keep complain and crying so loud like tantrum when i put her down, is it because she overtired or i dont get her cue? Should i keep pick her. Up again every time cry?

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hi there Intan. How old is your baby? Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

@intangalistri2765 4 жыл бұрын

My baby is 6 month 1 week right now, do I need to avoiding nursing her on nap time too, or i should work it out 1 by 1

@taraoconnell7820 2 жыл бұрын

Lol I’m here for my 18 month old… still having night bottles

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

We would love to help you in our night weaning guide! See here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/weaning-night-feedings/ Artemis, BSMS Support Team

@crystalkennethpineda4359 Жыл бұрын

What if our baby’s bed is in our room? What do you suggest to do for night weaning?

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Hi Crystal! If your little one is in your room, we suggest creating some distance between you and the crib (if possible). This helps so that your LO can't smell, see or hear you as easily. You can book a private consultation for personalized information if you are still struggling. Found here: programs.babysleepmadesimple.com/30-minutes-private-consultation-checkout/ Kind regards, Ingrid, BSMS Support Team

@Therecipestore0920 9 ай бұрын

Heyy!! My baby (7m old) takes 3 naps and although however hard I try, she does take her last 4th nap which is post 6.30-7pm, which pushes her bedtime to 9-10pm. Despite trying my level best, I’m not able to skip her 4th nap. Any advices on how to skip her 4th nap and get her to sleep early by 8-8.30pm? 😓😓😓

@Babysleepmadesimple 9 ай бұрын

Hello! At this age, we would recommend 3 naps consistently and an earlier bedtime. This will really help! We can help you achieve this in our 21 Days program. Please check out the link below and let me know if you have any questions! We would love the chance to chat with you on Zoom and support your family! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

@maikendao 3 жыл бұрын

If I reduce the amount of time for nightfeedings, lets say from 10 to 5 minutes, wont the baby wake up more often to nurse because she wasnt full after the first nightfeed?

@Babysleepmadesimple 3 жыл бұрын

Hello! You will want it to be a slow process. You can work on gradually reducing the night feeds, but then you need to compensate and get your LO to eat more during the day (reducing calories at night, but increasing during the day). You can also check out our step by step night weaning guide here! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/weaning-night-feedings

@katrinelukins2082 3 жыл бұрын

What if im doing all this, baby falls asleep on his own, but wakes up 45 min later, I just give him the pacifier, he falls asleep again, but still wakes up every 2 h during the night? He is 7 months old.. he was a grate sleeper... and usually woke up a maximum of 2 times to eat but I’m sure he doesn’t need to eat every 2 h now...

@Babysleepmadesimple 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Katrine, Thanks for your message! It is great that your LO is falling asleep independently. Babies that can fall asleep on their own, but often wake up in the middle of the night or shortly after bedtime are often overtired. Check out our 7 month old sleep guide. There are awake time recommendations inside and following awake times can be extremely helpful for your LO! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/7-month-sleep-regression

@mosaicmotivates7662 2 жыл бұрын

This sucks for me I work til 7 pm and by the time I get bathed and her down it's 830 but I have no control of it but i will work more on a routine better

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

That is so difficult. You can always do a shorter routine. Can someone else help you so that she is fed before you get her? This would help to shorten the routine :) Clare, BSMS Support Team

@waqasyounas9949 3 жыл бұрын

my 9 month old baby has habbit to feed when she feel sleepy she sucks nipple for more than 20 mintue how can i change her habbit becuase i am again prevent

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

Hello! Please check out our 9 month old sleep guide for helpful tips! :) www.babysleepmadesimple.com/9-month-old-wont-sleep Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@kayleeharrigan1399 Жыл бұрын

My 11 month old wakes up to drink up to 5xs a night I’ve been trying to wheen the formula and water it down but he cry’s and crys

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that. Your 11 month old can definitely be night weaned (unless your doctor says anything different). We'd love to help you night wean AND get your son sleeping through the night peacefully and happily in our program: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant/ Click the link to learn more! Do you have any questions? Artemis, BSMS Support Team

@daisyxox2991 4 жыл бұрын

Hello =) my 7month old wakes every hour at night. I need to do a few changes and jot down his naps etc. Just wondering, he can stand in the cot ! What do i do when in the middle of the night? The minute i put him down he gets back up x

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hi there mom. Waking every hour is hard. But don't worry. We're here to help. Please check out our 7 month old sleep guide here --> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/7-month-sleep-regression It's filled with tips on how to get your LO sleeping better day & night. Also, you can sign up for our free Exhausted Mom's Survival Kit here --> www.babysleepmadesimple.com/exhausted-moms-survival-kit. It's a step-by-step guide that will help you create a bedtime routine, a schedule for your baby, follow awake times, etc. Hope these help. Good luck. Panagiota, BSMS Support Team

@fatimaal382 3 жыл бұрын

My baby naps about every two hours in the day some naps 30 minutes some an hour he naps about three naps but at night he wakes up every half hour he’s almost seven it’s killing me I need sleep and he feeds three time I’m trying to wean him it’s so hard idk what to do

@Babysleepmadesimple 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Fatima, The best way to help your LO sleep through the night is get him to fall asleep independently. This will really help. Check out our 7 month old sleep guide for more helpful tips! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/7-month-sleep-regression Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@nicolefrog Жыл бұрын

Me with the name Nicole, thinking I’ve screwed up: 😭❤️

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Definitely check out our website for more helpful guides and programs! www.babysleepmadesimple.com We would love to help!

@mariarutsigurardottir3859 17 күн бұрын

My 8 month old baby who is used to co-sleeping and breastfeeding. We are trying to get him to fall asleep on his own in his own bed, but the problem is that he always sits up on his own immediately when i lay him down. How best to tackle it?

@Babysleepmadesimple 17 күн бұрын

Hello Maria! Thanks so much for reaching out to us. Teaching your LO to fall asleep on his own is definitely the best way to help ensure he learns to sleep throughout the night independently. This is a wonderful and vital skill! I would give your LO lots of sitting practice time during the day. Sometimes though, it can be helpful to just give your LO space to lay himself down in the middle of the night. In our 21 Days to Peace and Quiet program, we help parents conquer sleep training step by step. We would love to support your family too! CLICK HERE to learn more- (especially before our summer sale ends)!!!-->www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant

@maximmaillot7159 4 жыл бұрын

I start To night ... my baby 5 month sleep while breastfeeding... and cry when i try to put ton in the crib😔😭

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hello and thank you for your message! Check out our 5 month old sleep guide here for helpful sleep tips! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/sleep-training-5-month-old-baby-tips

@baileypowell3271 Жыл бұрын

I work nights and dad works days. He lets baby sleep when baby wants to nap. Baby doesnt sleep well at night and dad gives baby a bottle to sleep. How can i help my baby sleep????? And get dad on same page? He never wants to hear it from me bc hes already had 3 prior kids and thinks he knows it all. My baby is 9 months about to be 10. And dad says baby will sleep all night when baby is ready. Please help me bc i know hes wrong.

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Hi Bailey, It can be really exhausting when our LO's aren't sleeping well! I would definitely recommend looking into our 21 Days to Peace and Quiet program. You and your husband can do the course together and learn about the benefits of teaching your LO how to fall asleep independently and work on the course together. This could really help! I am linking you to the program below! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

@bugajk25 Жыл бұрын

My 6 month old sleeps great but wants an 11pm and 4am bottle 🤷🏻‍♀️ I can give him a pacifier but that last for s few min then he cries for a bottle! He eats and zonks right back out 🤷🏻‍♀️ so I feed him so I can sleep He goes to bed at 7:30 and I put him in the crib and he puts himself to sleep! He wakes up around 7am happy as a clam But at 11pm and 4am it’s hysterics -

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

It can be so exhausting when our LO's are up so much in the middle of the night!! Definitely check out our website for more helpful guides and programs! www.babysleepmadesimple.com We would love to help!

@jesystar 9 ай бұрын

Hi!! Sounds like the story of my life right now... did anything help?

@carreraera Жыл бұрын

I’m trying to get my 10 month old into her crib from co-sleeping, one of our biggest problems is she wants to nurse back to sleep every time she wakes (often). However, I work overnights 3 to 5 nights a week depending on rotation and she stays with my sister while I work. Not only does she sleep up to 4 hours in the play pen at my sisters, MUCH longer than I’ve ever managed in the crib, but she also will take her pacifier and just go back to sleep. Do you think if I move her crib to her own room this could help? It’s currently in my room at the end of my bed. The gentle method has not been working for us very well but I refuse to just let her scream it out… please help! 😭 Thanks for the tips!

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Hi Carrera! Are you currently trying one of our programs? Or, is it another gentle method? At this age many children thrive in their own sleep space and do really well in their own cribs. In our 21 Days to Peace & Quiet program, we go over how to transition out of co-sleeping in lots of detail. I would highly recommend checking it out; here is the link: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant. Please let us know if you have any additional questions, we would be happy to help! Best, Ingrid, BSMS Support Team

@mosaicmotivates7662 2 жыл бұрын

my daughter is 9 months old and she doesn't even eat really only to self soothe I need to break this habit please help. I work 12 hours and single mom by intention so I dont have the help.

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you are doing a great job for your daughter. We can definitely help you in our program 21 days to Peace and Quiet. In this program we offer 4 step-by-step sleep training methods. You choose the one that feels best for your LO. We have super gentle & gradual all the way to quick & efficient. Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament. We have an option that includes personalized support and I find this to be so beneficial during the sleep training journey! Jilly and members of our support team answer questions 7 days a week in our private FB group and we host 2-3 Zoom calls per week! You will always feel like you have the support you need every step of the way. You can find out more info on the program here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program Happy to answer any questions you may have, Clare, BSMS Support Team

@christinachristou4914 Жыл бұрын

I need help with my 7 month old !!!

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

Hi! You can learn all about 7 month old sleep expectations by clicking on the guide below. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/7-month-sleep-regression The great news is that your little one is the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently. This is truly the key to longer stretches of sleep every night! We can definitely help you get your LO’s sleep on track and get your entire family sleeping better. We can provide the best support to your family in our 21 Days to Peace & Quiet program. In this program we offer 4 step-by-step sleep training methods. You choose the one that feels best for your LO. We have super gentle & gradual all the way to quick & efficient. Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament. Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package, Support package and VIP package! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family! Sincerely, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

@alittlepreachy Жыл бұрын

My 12 month old screams bloody murder even if i rock her and walk around the house with her. She will just keep screaming until she can nurse. I start to feel guilty like what if she is actually hungry or thirsty. I've tried the pick up, put down and just laying her back down without picking her up. She just keeps screaming

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

It can be SO exhausting when our LO's are up and screaming all night long. We would love to help! You can learn all about 12 month old sleep expectations by clicking on the guide below. www.babysleepmadesimple.com/12-month-sleep-regression The great news is that your new toddler is the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently. This is truly the key to longer stretches of sleep every night and creating a really strong sleep foundation! We can definitely help you get your LO’s sleep on track and get your entire family sleeping better. We can provide the best support to your family in our 21 Days to Peace & Quiet program. In this program we offer 4 step-by-step sleep training methods. You choose the one that feels best for your LO. We have super gentle & gradual all the way to quick & efficient. Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament. Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package, Support package and VIP package! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family! Sincerely, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

@naimahtaylor9215 Жыл бұрын

My son is 15 months he wakes up at 3 am every night with alot of energy and we give him a bottle and then he still stays up for hrs this has been going on for 3 months I’m desperate for it to stop please any help ?

@Babysleepmadesimple Жыл бұрын

This sounds so exhausting! It could be that your LO needs some schedule adjustments and some positive and gentle sleep training! The great news is that your toddler is the perfect age to learn how to fall asleep independently. This is truly the key to longer stretches of sleep every night and creating a really strong sleep foundation! We can definitely help you get your LO’s sleep on track and get your entire family sleeping better. We can provide the best support to your family in our 21 Days to Peace & Quiet program. In this program we offer 4 step-by-step sleep training methods. You choose the one that feels best for your LO. We have super gentle & gradual all the way to quick & efficient. Each step of the way you get advice based on your baby’s developmental stage, energy levels, and temperament. Definitely click on the link below to learn all about our DIY package, Support package and VIP package! www.babysleepmadesimple.com/baby-sleep-consultant Please do not hesitate to reach out if you have any questions about our program. We hope to get the opportunity to support your family! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Client Support Manager

@bumblebeez1995 4 жыл бұрын

None of these tips work I already do all of this and my baby still wakes up at night and won’t sleep for 3-4 hours at a time. He’s been doing this for months and will occasionally sleep through the night.

@Babysleepmadesimple 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Courtney, Thanks so much for your message! Is your LO falling asleep at the breast? If so, that could be the reason your LO is waking up so often. Nursing to sleep is a sleep association and we really want our LO's to fall asleep independently so that they can STTN. I would highly recommend checking out our sleep program. We teach you step by step how to get your LO to night wean and fall asleep independently. We’re currently having a Spring Sale. This gives you 30 days of personal support with our sleep training program, 21 Days to Peace & Quiet. Jilly walks you through each step and shows you exactly what to do every night. Plus we answer questions 5 days/week inside a private FB group. So you really get all the direction and support you need. Here’s more info: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program Let me know if you have any questions! Alyssa, BSMS Support Team

@daisymonsalve1485 4 жыл бұрын

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@alexandrialynn723 3 жыл бұрын

These methods didn’t work for my baby either. He simply had to cry it out. BUT that doesn’t mean it won’t work for someone else. What helped me the most was making sure my baby ate enough calories during the day for his weight to properly sleep during the night, blackout curtains, white noise, setting a strict nighttime routine (jolly jumper 5-6pm, bath 6-6:30pm, down at 7 when he was rubbing his eyes but still awake) and then sticking to that while I trained him. Hope this helps ❤️

@DanandAbby 11 ай бұрын

What happens when your baby just plays and laughs and stands up when you try to stop rocking via your method?

@Babysleepmadesimple 11 ай бұрын

Hello! Thanks for reaching out. I would love to help point you in the right direction to the best resource! How old is your little one? Best, Alyssa, BSSM Client Support Manager

@DanandAbby 11 ай бұрын

@@Babysleepmadesimple hi, yeah sure she’s 11 months today :)

@reynaalfaro7639 2 жыл бұрын

Is it the same for a 9 month old? He gets super restless at night n Co sleeps with me and fights his sleep every night. N stays up late.

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

Yes definitely. We can also help you with this in our program 21 days to Peace and Quiet. Take a look here and let us know if you have any questions: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/21-days-to-peace-quiet-program Clare, BSMS Support Team

@amandaingels6068 2 жыл бұрын

My baby is almost 10 months old, we cosleep all naps and all night, she wakes up at around 9-10 am, sleeps 3 hours during the day (divided into 2 naps) and fall asleep at around 9/10pm Do I still need to put her to bed earlier?

@Babysleepmadesimple 2 жыл бұрын

Hello! If your LO is sleeping 2-3 hours during the day and 11-12 hours at night, that is great! If you are looking to go from cosleeping to the crib, definitely check out this resource for some helpful tips!! Best, Alyssa, BSMS Support Team www.babysleepmadesimple.com/how-to-stop-co-sleeping/

@jameshaperkins6050 5 жыл бұрын

My baby is 7 months. We are co sleeping and she still has small night feeds. The pediatrician gave us the okay to cut off night feeds at 6 months. I want to start sleep training now! She's teething now, badly..so should I wait? ..also her crib is in my room, should I move it out and begin sleep training, or start with it in my room then once she gets better sleeping through, move her out? Not sure if creating a whole new environment will make it better or worse 🤔

@Babysleepmadesimple 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Jamesha, If your baby is teething badly (crying, fussy, not eating well, chewing on everything and restless) then I wouldn't start sleep training. Waiting just 2-3 days can make the process go easier. I recommend you sleep train baby where you want her sleeping long-term, so move her crib into her bedroom when or before you begin. Have her hang out in her bedroom during the day so she can get used to it. I find that babies adapt to switching bedrooms pretty easily. It's more of a big deal for us moms! Having a video monitor can really ease your worries. It sounds like you're ready to begin! I recommend you begin at bedtime. The way that your baby falls asleep at bedtime sets her up to sleep well at night. My free Exhausted Mom's Survival Kit walks you through what to do. You can sign up for it here: www.babysleepmadesimple.com/exhausted-mom-survival-kit Good luck! Jilly

@hankblade977 5 жыл бұрын

hello there, sorry to bother, but i am facing the same problem that you were 6months ago, just wanna know how was your baby's sleep treating? which method you'v tried out? did it work?thanks a lot.

@tammytherealistdtb1070 5 жыл бұрын

My 8 mo old has been sleep trained since 2 mo old we were co sleeping up until 7mo he went back to his bed. He has no problem going to bed at his normal bedtime which is 8:30pm and he would wake up every morning around 7am. He has a good dinner at 7pm followed by a 6oz bottle with cereal. Normally that would get him through the night and he would sleep straight through until 7am. But since he turned 8mo old on Aug 13 he is waking up every 4 hours wanting a bottle of formula. I tried replacing it with water but that doesn't work he has a fit. What can I do?

@BMmeryem 5 жыл бұрын

Hello! Why would you replace the formula with water? I think your baby is having a growth spurt and needs to eat more to get through the night, don't worry too much about it. I would give him the first bottle around midnight and then give him his pacifier until 7 or 8 am.

@tammytherealistdtb1070 5 жыл бұрын

He doesn't take a pacifie he's not. a pacifier baby he hates pacifiers and if I give him a bottle at 12am he wakes up wanting another one at 3am and then another bottle when he wakes up at 7am his normal time He just started this when he turned 8mo on Aug 13. I understand he may be going thru a growth spurt but there has to be other options right?

@tammytherealistdtb1070 5 жыл бұрын

I'm a first time mom and I'm just trying to find other options so my baby won't be overweight.

@BMmeryem 5 жыл бұрын

@@tammytherealistdtb1070 hi, no worries there is no such a thing as an overweight baby so I would advise you feed on demand because they go through growhh spurt and you want to make sure he gets all the nutrients he needs. Feed him when he's hungry and don't worry about his weight. If it's once or twice a night I think its reasonable. I know many people try to make baby stop feeding early for convenience sake but I personally don't think its good for them to be hungry. Good luck xx

@BMmeryem 5 жыл бұрын

@@tammytherealistdtb1070 hehe i feel you! i think you might give him one bottle and let him cry for the second one at 3 am...don't worry too much about it you will figure it out :)