OMG EXACTLY 👏👏👏

Just selfish

She is s fake

Exactly!

She should stop trying to find love because a family member is ill?

So what He came at her stupid She was supposed to sit there and take it Sis is sin He is thirsty he want it to be about him If he thought it was stupid disrespectful GO HOME GO HOME Ge did not even have to tell her He Wanted TV Time If that's what she wanted to do Who's is the Judge her YOU GOT GUYS TRAFFICKING BOYS AND GIRLS Tell him to talk to those individuals Like that And he was Crying Crying about what he went through ITS NOT ABOUT HIM He sounds aggressive like he treats his women to shut be quiet crawl on the floor That why no one is with him Grow some balls Go home if you don't like what she did Haters

@@user-qy2fy3in4q You're the hater, since you seem to hate the truth so damn much

@@user-qy2fy3in4q I almost had a seizure reading this 🥴

@@user-qy2fy3in4q , Yup, I agree......all he had to do is leave, he did not have to demean her and you signed up for the show....plus she should not of kept him, that other guy told her what he did...

@Dekaennea stating a fact = me being threatened? And just because "men aren't objectified for their bodies", as much as women doesn't mean it doesn't happen, and it sure as hell doesn't invalidate it when it does happen dumbass

Right? Like he’s trying to explain his situation

She was trying to empathize with him and let him know that she understood where he was coming from. He sacrificed time with his daughter to be there for her just as well as well as she's sacrificing time with her dying mother to be there to find love

@@laquellemartin6245 Woman moment. No, she was trying to distract by making it all about her.

@@sneed3529 Well Said! She was trying to make him out to be the villain!

@@laquellemartin6245they both knew what she was doing, that’s why he scoffed and she apologized.

Now, let a man do that. See how he'd be destroyed.🤷🏾‍♂️

Right well some narcissistic woman are very abusive when they get called out on there childish immature behavior and tendencies that they show good man Yosef for calling her out.

Men have a right to express their emotions but saying she must be 40 and single for a reason is playing into some sexist bullshit. Lots of these guys are also close to 40 and single but people aren’t saying there must be a reason *they* haven’t met someone yet, it’s just accepted. Talking about her maturity is fine but bringing age into it sucks

Damn. What a shame he got treated like that.

@@rachelc6164 No... at age 40 she should know better and it's fine to question maturity of someone that age. She didn't even apologize for making the contestants strip naked. Huge red flag when someone doesn't take responsibility for their mistakes.

Are you guys serious? The Producers came up with the date not Clare!

attack the issue - how he communicated, stop making personal attacks on clare, attack the issue not the person, that's the difference between respectful & nonrespectful communication

zach clearly didn't move in to kiss clare, 2nd, she said at least 3x it's okay, and he continued to grab her

@@milwaukeemotor5995 here’s the moment she grabs him 3:20

He grabbed her neck as she was walking away. He walked away while she was talking to him and she grabbed his ARM...arm vs. neck...which is more uncomfortable? 🤔

@Massimiliano Giacometti exactly my point

Arm vs neck is still assault. Come on now, dont be dense.

Does he.....

I don't think he was insulting her but pointing out the lack of maturity for someone her age.

He’s just as bad or even worse for continuing to be on the show & staying just to insult her. He could’ve walked away, he isn’t acting his age either and embarrassed his daughter on national TV

@@lisa_squared Nah, it's only right to call people out for immature and toxic behaviour. Obviously nobody told her why she's single at 39 despite desperately looking for a husband and Yosef was the only one with balls to tell her what's wrong.

Yep, he telling her to act her age

Exactly, you can tell that she’s had weak men that supplicate to her all of her life which is why she was shocked at the FIRST Real Man that called her out on her buffoonery

Yosef was "respectful," not "restful," right?

He was taking the high road off the bat but no, he did start using adhomien attacks on her rather than having a respectful disagreement based on logic and sound reasoning. They both dipped below the belt unnecessarily.

Give me a break you say this man is of value and is respectable, he is an aashole, he said on the tell all that he would be ok with someone talking to his daughter the way he spoke to Claire. He did this to make himself look good and all he did was look stupid calling Claire names. You are one strong woman Claire for calling him on his bull.

@Karen Ouimet No no no no. Yes, he was in the wrong but Claire is not the role model you’re portraying her as. I know, she’s a woman so you feel you have to defend her because you’re also a woman... but that defense is worthless when it’s based in bias. She behaved immaturely on several occasions and acted out of ignorance herself. You can’t hold one individual accountable and not the others Karen.

Yes, a legend at being an emotional abuser to women.

@@tc4583 its kinda like you can't be mean to women now but she can embarrass men?

@@eyobbob998 Clare was wrong in what she did but Yosef should have stuck to that issue alone..instead he proceeded to say things like he was ashamed to know her and tried to shame her for her age so it was beyond what was necessary and spiteful.

@@tc4583 yea I get where you're coming from but she also said that he would never be the father of her child which is messed up.

@@eyobbob998 that was after he said the things he said to her that was meant to bring her down. The man is abusive. He had a legitimate point about the objectification of the men, but he didn't just stick to that point but clearly wanted to break her down.

I definitely agree. Clare is in the wrong and so is he. We can see this at the beginning of the season, every time Clare was sent home she’d yell and say that “I don’t settle for men like that” then why be on the bachelorette of all places and who is the common denominator? I wasn’t a fan of Clares from the beginning and I definitely not now. I agree with the guy (Yosef right? Idk) that the strip dodgeball was very classless. You’d think when Clare became the bachelorette she’d try her best to stick to the “I’m the oldest bachelorette” thing. I know the producers choose the activities but with how much Clare seems to be controlling the season I feel like she could’ve said something on the spot at any moment. That being said Yosef went to far. I’m not a fan of Clares but throwing dog after dig into her character ain’t cool when he could’ve said a few more meaningful words and just leave. Every time a woman tells someone off on the bachelor they get called a hero. Sometimes yes and this time definitely no. The bachelor is a very sexist place with double standards. I feel like whenever a woman like Clare talks about how strong she is she somehow puts men down while doing it. It’s very odd to me. I agree that the guys will try to appease her but they will hit their end too. You can only handle so much in a situation with that and after the most recent episode of her just trying to get to Dale...I think the turning point of the season is closer than we think

Holy crap they just aren’t fit eachother. Period. Everyone will have different outlooks in life, I look at this date looked at to be “so horrible” as a silly immature thing because it’s only the beginning of the season and they needs some eye candy footage for the show itself. A guy for her will just understand-the date was for fun. Not for anything negative, it just depends how you view it

@@HungryyHollyy this isn't actually real life though. These are created situations and are planned out and the people in control thought it was ok for the guys to be nude. And yes they aren't made for each other, that's obvious.

@@shainal.joseph5374 exactly what I meant by they needed eye candy for the show in general

@@HungryyHollyy that, plus drama

Yep, that's why she grabbed him when he was getting up to leave, she wanted to be the one who kicked him out.

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You can tell too!🤣 Her arrogant bubble got popped!😎

Right.

Clare lost it because he was disrespectful asf, as any self respecting woman being spoken to that way would react. Your perspective couldn’t be more off

Are you serious? He’s disrespectful, demeaning, emotional abusive

@@amrikarambaran8905 ☕☕☕☕☕☕ That "self respecting" whamen should strip on Live TV

@@stevewilson4718well she didn’t, but all those men sure did

@@arabellascomet that's why they are both getting called out because the "men" participated have no self respect. and she is one sly fox

Exactly my brudda

Yep so true

Agreed! The rest of those blokes were simp beta bitches! Real men stand for something and not fall for anything!👍

nah thats sigma male mindset

@@artcorbeau I can see that too.

He can't be alpha for being on this show, but at least he earned his man card back that day

@@silo3com Facts!

Stop embarrassing yourself

👆clown (@B Babich) alert

Narcissistic woman couldn't tell if a real man was infront of them there delusional to that and when they get called out on there wrong doings they gaslight that's so typical of them.

I caught that typical narcissistic tendency there they get dismissed and bring up other people who have nothing to do with the conversation she's practically gaslighting him by doing that.😂

She was just trying to relate to him at that point. She even said she was sorry when he said he still talking. Weird how people twist things into things that they aren't just because they don't like someone.

He knew she was a 39 yo when he signed up for it. He’s just trying to hurt her instead of exiting with class.

@@singuensful stfu

@@singuensful woman moment

@@singuensful period alert

@@singuensful ☕☕☕☕☕

I agree that Yosef got a bit messy toward the end there and went on for a while. And I'm not sure precisely how the conversation was edited by the producers (Clare did say she had been listening to him for 20 minutes), but I get the impression that the reason he went on for as long as he did was because, although he stood by his criticisms (as well he should, given that they were completely legitimate), he knew the situation was still awkward and maybe he was waiting for her to respond in either a more civil fashion than she did, or, possibly expected a full apology. Which she should've given, not just to him, but to all the guys.

@@multismashify u r right. Mark of a grown up person is when one admits of one's mistakes. But Clare just got bonkers, when she should have acknowledged how immature the strip dodgeball was. And also Yosef's aggressive reaction to her was only when she touched him (as if to push him). Prior to his aggressive rant, he did make a valid point(even though Clare defended herself by playing the victim card). If the same valid point were made by a woman to a man (eg. when Clare is shown voicing her opinions very vehemently), everybody would have applauded that woman.

@@aparnasrivastava7499 Just so we're clear, my earlier comment was agreeing with you. I'm on Yosef's side all the way here.

@@multismashify yeah yeah I got that. ☺️

@@aparnasrivastava7499 Cool. Just wanted to be sure. :)

Yea no let’s ignore she was aggressive when she put her hands on him 3:20

1) his sacrifice? He’s not the first single parent on the show. Not once did Amanda or Evan bass complain. And all the guys are sacrificing. Clare had to sacrifice when she was a contestant on the bachelor. If someone can’t handle that, they shouldn’t be on the show 2) strip dodgeball. The bachelor and bachelorette don’t plan the date activities. They never have. The producers do 3) more on strip dodgeball. Guys had to get in a Speedo for Hannah brown and be rated by a panel of judges. Girls did a pillow fight tournament in lingerie for Peter. Every year, girls get in skimpy bikinis and do sexual poses with the bachelor for the cover of cosmopolitan. Lastly, fantasy suites: where a girl gets to have sex with three guys in a week. Yosef is entitled as fuck 4) this show is about her. She’s the bachelorette. It’s not about the guys

Exactly.

Nothing he mentioned was even vaguely a "red flag". They were incompatibility issues at best. He could have just said, "I don't think we are compatible. I can't continue this process. I am going home to my daughter." Instead he said the way that her feelings were a red flag and what she chose to do on a group date that he wasn't even on was a red flag. Nothing he said served any purpose other than to either try to bring Clare down or get more airtime before he peaced out.

@@lordreyna6924 yeah that’s true, I didn’t notice at first because his back blocked the camera. Although to be fair, I’m not Clare’s biggest fan either so if my post came off as a defense of her, that’s not how I intended it 😂

Unbelievable right! He's totally arrogant and pathetic and it's of no surprise that his first marriage didn't work out either! He kept calling Clare "the oldest Bachelorette" but who looks this damn old at only age 30?? He's got gray hair on his sides and with those wrinkles in his face he looks everybit of 45!🧓🏼👎🏾

He's a grade A asshole. I was so raging when he said that. Dick. My blood boiled.

When someone says don't interrupt i have something to say and let me say it fully, that's not code to throw in random points. He was not about to let her gaslight him with some bs when he started speaking. She wanted to leave her dying mother so she could ask random dudes to play fully naked dodge ball for her. He chose to be there for her and she chose to waste all the mens time. She clearly knew Dale was it from day 1. I am glad he spoke up and left the show. It only took her 1 week later to leave the show with her man and leave all the so called men with no dignity left. Vying for a single woman's attention when she didn't care about any of them. Dale got his prize at the beginning of the show not the end.

The conversation was originally about Yosef bringing a complaint about an inappropriate stunt on the show to Clare, and Clare uses the "my mom is dying" to try and manipulate and turn the sympathy and conversation over to her when the original conversation was about Yosef's disapproval of a stunt. Simp.

Clare was playing the victim card when she said "I understand my mother is dying," just as she saw that she would be criticized. If someone's mother is dying, they wouldn't be on a reality show. And even if she were there, isn't it fishy that she decides to bring up her mother just at the point where she knew she would be criticised. But then, Yosef could have been polite by saying a simple " Im sorry to hear that. But I really need to say something." Both are idiots.

I agree. Pretty sure this woman peaked in high school and she's still trying to get the star player at 39 likely only for social status lol

maybe she was losing her balance and didn't want to fall and break her hip.... she IS the oldest contestant after all...

If her mother is dying what is she doing there ? Shouldn't she be there with her in her last moments

@@jimmoriarty4530 lol I never said I was pro clare anywhere in that comment now did I 😂

Dudes I only saw simps

Show have to be crazy for it sake but participant with clear head can collect information of other out of it.

I agree she doesn't deserve a husband or any man in fact. I wouldn't let her have cat or dog because that would be cruel and inhumane...

haha... Israelis cannot see how rude that is... every American though will say, right intentions, wrong delivery... he could simply say : we are not sharing the same values, so I am heading off... no need to offend or belittle anyone, simply agree to disagree...

He's a complete idiot

@@paulinethompson3197 Lol yes also, but also she is playing games

@@kalidevi26 You are right, we are less sensitive. BUT I do agree that he's behavior is really not ok. For me what bothered me more is that her behavior is also not ok but seems like she is not able to admit that ever during her season.

@@paulinethompson3197 found the simp

Hey, The Holy Bible is all truth and people are out to burn it. Just saying 🤷people hate to hear the turth because we are all liars and don't want to be found out lol

He's right but his delivery could have been better.

Didnt she said it herself that this line 'is SO powerful' last week?

Right! Like that had nothing to do with what they were talking about.

Here is what I dont understand Is this Go for what "line again" so we live in the Land of Free of America And we are not to say things AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN As many times as a citizen off the United states proud Republican Want to say No one dictates what you or I can say or cannot say or againnnnn how many times What you can do is CLOSE YOUR EARS or CLOSE YOUR EYES That should solve that Problem remember she is the star of her show Change your channel Or sign up for bachelor or bachelorette So 100 thousands of people can bad mouth you too Sign Male or Female Speak life not death about a person stop judging

@@user-qy2fy3in4q bit deep there. It's just a reality show, for entertainment. This is not The US election or such.

@@keln7804 Very well said! Lol 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

if he had even pushed her hands away she looks like the type to claim he hit her

@@raheemmcclashie8013 How would she claim that? They’re on reality TV...

@@janeryan2709 have u seen big brother?? Girl tried to do that to one of the guys in the house.

You are downright obsessed with 3:20. You have posted it in a hundred different comments. We get it. lol

@@daughterofolaf If he was the one who did that to her, you'd probably be singing a different tune, lol.

He didn’t age shame her. He said he expected more from her based on her age. That’s not age shaming. That’s valid.

Expressing your feeling that you expect someone of a certain age to be mature is not "age-shaming" especially when he has young daughters to raise and wants a partner to set a good example

@leoeoeoeoe and would you feel that way if the bachelor ordered the women to play strip dodgeball? No? Double standard.

@leoeoeoeoe Shush, your opinion is invalid

@leoeoeoeoe Oh, you're being sarcastic with the defense of this bs. Good show

@Ken H. 🤦‍♂️

Yousef is a believer in fighting against male and female nudity, hero like Martin Luther King ! So Claire can leave !

Exactly! What was his motive with this whole conversation. Certainly not connecting. Clare owes him nothing.

@Ken H. Yeah she’s immature too, but all that was uncalled for ya know ?

So was her putting her hands on him. 3:20

Plus he LAUGHED when she said that. 😐 This idiot creeped me out from the first night; this just validates the weird vibes he puts off.

@@daughterofolaf He laughed because her manipulation tactic was obvious you clowns.

i actually dont think she was trying to empathize at all. he pulled her aside to discuss red flags and she blatantly interjects with some aside about her mother to garner sympathy from him and redirect the conversation to her and he laughed because he saw right through the manipulation.

plus that daughter comment if you listened and were rational was 'what message are you trying to set up for my daughter'.... this means that, 'it should be fine for young girls to think that it is ok to make a man strip naked just to show that he is worthy of you'. His message wasn't about him but more about the message that that act would have on the relationships with the men's families if their families saw them do this. It is the same thing as your entire family seeing you naked and then you trying to play it off as nothing happened

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

No she stood up because he was full on agressive with her

He WAS right initially. But then he went too far, and revealed himself to be a total douchebag. Classic example of a non Alpha male trying to pose as an alpha.

Emotionally abusing a woman is being right? Lol please, he was going at her when he could've nicely explained his thoughts . He's an abusive idiot

@@elizabetht458 no she went too far and was the aggressor putting her hands on him 3:20

@@FaryalZubair77 She was classless, you're biased, and your gas lighting opinion is irrelevant Hes right, shes wrong. Get over it

If that’s a gentleman to you, someone who berates a woman for 3 minutes straight than that is truly sad. He made his valid points and Clare listened and he got nasty for no reason.

Hahahaha. Lady, I don’t know what “gentleman” with good morals you are referring to. It certainly isn’t this guy. In your book good morals include abandoning your children to go on a game show for weeks or months on end? Not only that but the entire PREMISE of this show is degrading to women and men alike. Certainly he has watched past seasons and the endless times WOMEN were objectified and degraded yet he still chose to come on the show. This guys doesn’t give a f*** about morals. lol

@@TheSuperNats um, wrong

@@TheSuperNats He didnt berate her, cant invalidate criticism by using buzz words fool

@@TheSuperNats no berate 'women', it is not tolerating nonsense. Being an adult, you should scone bad or none constructive behavior. If someone is bad, there's no polite way to teach a lesson. They have to hear the truth. That woman you look up to brings shame to small girls teaching them that men should get naked for you if they value you. period... that's a father's view point and it should not come out in a woman's emotional context.

He had great foresight, wait till next week. All the remaining men will feel a little empty vying for her attention but all getting left in the dust. She wasted all their time. The people who got voted out and the one that left have some of their dignity intact.

Thank you.

3:20 yea and let’s ignore Clare is the aggressor in this one. Putting her hands on him because he wanted to walk away

I cant believe people are defending him. Valid points doesnt make abuse okay.

That was abuse!

Classic victim mentality. She pressured a group of men to strip on tv for her attention. If this happened on the bachelor, the guy would go to jail for sexual harassment. He went about it wrong but his words were 100% correct and if you can't see that, you're just as classless as her

@みさきめい hands down thats so true.

also shocking that on "the bachelor" the women had to dress down in lingerie, perhaps you missed all those seasons?

Standing up for his values, what are great example..he really is very brave for doing that 💖

@みさきめい you can disagree, but that doesn't mean that you communicate your points in a disrespectful way, also he's a hypocrite, if you look on instagram he sent women private messages of himself in his speedos, byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

its also about how you receive/react to it

Damn right.

Agree 100 %. People saying he looks hot or model Material whatever. His face looks very severe and full of hatred. Everything he says here is so harsh and unnecessary. He should have just left the show if he wasn't happy

@@Overgifted Absolutely! He's totally arrogant and stuck up!👎🏾

@@Overgifted omg u couldnt have worded it any better.

@@Overgifted his behavior was rude but his message was 100% valid. What Claire agreed to let happen was trashy af and disrespectful to everyone. It was classless as shit bc if a man had done it, there would have been all sorts of hell. 39 yrs old and agreeing to shit like that is immature and classless like he said. He came about it wrong but he's right, I wouldn't want my kids seeing this woman as a role model.

@@D-AVGGamer oh yes. I agree with that too. Claire is an embarrassment to herself. But the fact that he has to sit her down and tell her how disappointed he is in her doesn't make any sense. Especially as a father. He should have just left the show. She was never going to pick him anyway.

Quit using buzz words to manipulate the situation. Garden tool got called out for being a garden tool, that simple

but she was the one who initiated the stripping part that wasn't part of it originally

she said that she was 100% on board and continued to defend this date on & off the show. she's a 100% complicit.

But, she agreed to it and she’s excited doing this segment.

" i think we should play strip dodge ball, this is my game my rules". The producers really forced her to say this what an evil patriarchal show.

Clare agrees to be the focus of the show. And while the producers may plan the dates, Clare certainly seemed like she wanted to exercise as much control over them as she possibly could.

I'm glad he said what he did! Good for him. I don't watch the show anymore. Too much drama! Crying by the girls and the men wanting to duke it OUT! Funny. How about a real show on real relationships! The hard work it takes to keep it going.

Serious double standard. I was really surprised that she had them strip. I can’t imagine it happening if the roles were reversed.

What clip? I’m so lost

Right me I saw it too Like I said Jealousy. He was thirsty and mad she did not pick him The rest of the real Men Real Men Did not go on tv and Clown like he did His actions was IMMATURE

@@user-qy2fy3in4q Yes because the 40 year old no eggs no kids no husband with no career old woman is totally in the right.

What does her mom dying have to do with sexually harrasing men?

Maybe she should be with her mom while dying instead of dating while her mom is dying

She should right next to her then That's on her She has time to see butt naked guys playing dodge ball, but doesn't have the time to meet her mother

Exactly!

You don't ignore the Bully You punch them in the face

She is a crazy bish, good men shouldn't stick it in crazy

I totally agree with you here

@ Shaina, Yep....she should of let him go and not the other guy, that was foul to me....

And so Is she

But Not Donald Trump ! With Beautiful Lovely Queen Melania !

@@thaliarubio4087 Thats why she’s on the show. It’s called the Bachelorette for a reason.

@@SomebodysWatchnYou hhhhhhhhhh thank you

Well lots of amazing ppl who are also single too lol

Take some accountability, just bc she's a woman doesn't make her a victim. She agrees to the game, she pressured them to strip and she let them hug her naked knowing it's going to be on TV. It may not have been her idea but being compliant and going with it makes her just as guilty. That's like saying just bc I didn't make the plan to rob a store, if I get caught robbing a store, I'm absolved of guilt. That's stupid as fuck logic and immature as hell.

@@D-AVGGamer " I think we should play strip dodge ball, this is my game my rules". The show really forced her to say this, what an evil patriarchal show.

Lmao she was the one acting disrespectful asf

Are you freaking kidding me? She out here doing nude dodgeball and claims her mommy is dying? Puh-lease.

@Stella Vi-ura "ok what those nude dodgeball and her mom dying have to do with how he reacted?" My point is she interjected her sob story about her mother being on her death bed just to take the attention away from him as the one speaking. And that her little sob story makes no sense given the context, because only a sociopath or histrionic runs away to enjoy publicly televised sexapades when their parent is about to die. "This isn’t the show for him but he still came for his 15 seconds." Irrelevant. That does not preclude a person's right to speak. "He has been disrespecting her from the beginning" Perhaps. I don't watch shows like this. But I do know that the bachelorette has kept him around all this time nonetheless. "and set a bad example for his daughters by how he reacted." That is strictly a matter of opinion.

@Stella Vi-ura "she said her mother is dying and she is giving so much too because he was saying he gave up being with his daughters to be with her." Again, my point is she only butted in to take attention away from the person speaking. And of course, it's a lame distraction in the context, because no one who is truly worried about their mother dying is going to desert her to seek international fame or prompt perfect strangers for random lewd antics on a reality show. "He wanted sympathy so many ppl on the show are giving up a lot. No one made him come on the show. And he has been showing a bad example for his daughters." Irrelevant. He was speaking and she interrupted. "And you say it yourself you haven’t watched the show. If you watched the show you will see he is an arrogant narcissist who has been condescending and have been throwing abusive words at her since the first episode. Like I said if you watch the show you would know Clare was never gonna pick him so he sabotaged himself and the producers probably told him to be dramatic for ratings." Nevertheless, he was still on the show. For whatever reason. "He went out sad and showed he is a walking red flag" I would say a woman that age behaving like a teenager on spring break at Cancun is the red flag here.

@Stella Vi-ura "not a matter of opinion it’s facts. If y’all saying his opinions of her are true the way he showed himself is also a bad representation for his daughters. That simple" Well, that depends on the example you want to set. If the lesson he wants to teach his daughter is to be a passive tool who allows her prospective mate to openly disrespect her by proudly and unapologetically galivanting around with naked women, fine. But I would venture to say no father wants his daughter mistreated that way. Because that would misogynistic. Again, opinion. It's that simple.