BALDING Through My 20's - Its Time To SHAVE My HEAD BALD

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BALDING Through My 20's - Its Time To SHAVE My HEAD BALD

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In this video Tom Shares with us the moment he shaved off his balding hair after dealing with male Pattern Baldness for 10 years.
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@victor_lucco7 3 ай бұрын

It is strong to have to face baldness when you are young, but remember in life you lose worse things than hair

@jackcarver8234 3 ай бұрын

yeah but its on the top of ur head, not like u could hide it under ur feets

@victor_lucco7 3 ай бұрын

I also have baldness that does not show me is different, I do not hide I shave and let it grow a little and I feel good

@gloriouskatatsumuri 3 ай бұрын

@@jackcarver8234what does that even mean?!

@jackcarver8234 3 ай бұрын

@@gloriouskatatsumuri that mean everyone and girls see it, and prefer hair way more often than you think so try convice you that u are great without hair but only girl opinions matter. Of course bald is better than a Big receiding hairline

@emelianoallen301 3 ай бұрын

@@jackcarver8234only girls opinions matter? really bro? if your self worth is based on women’s opinions in this life you’re done for.

@NAMEDTODIE 3 ай бұрын

Suits him so well, never needed to be worried

@dakaiez919 3 ай бұрын

Looking good, good choice. It's really liberating isn't it? I did the same around 2-3 months ago, having massively receding front and balding crown. Used to live with a cap on my head, was extremely anxious about it, hated the look when I saw it. Then found the channel, watched for a few days and decided to do the deed, felt amazing just taking it off and was at ease and so much happier/comfortable with myself straight away. Best decision i've made, no more worries and trying to hide it.

@ChillCash 3 ай бұрын

The ironic part is that I look much better with a buzz cut than I ever did with long hair! 😇🙏 Easier to nourish my scalp this way too.

@richardevans7035 3 ай бұрын

Balding at the crown is the worst, it happened to me

@brendan5419 3 ай бұрын

I was part of the cap gang. the longer you wear cap the more curious people. become about what your hiding. I was in work 3 years before i took cap off was so awkward. Although i dont think i look as good i feel way more relaxed and confident in myself

@ColzyNonsense 3 ай бұрын

Idk why, I think it’s because this guy is the one that I feel like explains the same emotions I feel and same stuff I go through with my struggle of balding but, it’s time. I’ve seen your videos pop up just like he did and I always find myself coming back to see testimonies, and this is the one that gave me the confidence to go this upcoming week and do it so thank you!

@lannyfromcanada3485 3 ай бұрын

You got this bro👍

@ColzyNonsense 3 ай бұрын

@@lannyfromcanada3485 I did it boys. The missing piece of confidence is back! My barber and I had a great laugh about it

@BudaMac 2 ай бұрын

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻👴🏻🪒

@Jaggerbush 3 ай бұрын

Just remember - most of the people youre gonna know in life at your age, you havent met yet! We're only gonna know you THIS version of you... And it looks great!

@NeilofBeeston 3 ай бұрын

You do look great. I shaved my head bald 4 years ago and got nothing but positives. I have been shaved bald since. It’s a really cool style.

@Edit.Name. 3 ай бұрын

I'm not bald, but with this channel I feel part of the brotherhood

@ben0789 3 ай бұрын

I shaved my head when my sister pointed out my bald spot.

@r12004rewy 3 ай бұрын

Brilliant mate you look really good, your advice to shave your head and not leave it too long is so true, years of worry and torment can be avoided just get those clippers out and shave it off. I personally felt so much better I admit to reducing the length over a matter of years but finally took the plunge and shaved it all off and I absolutely love being bald, I'm addicted to shaving every couple of days and even top it off with bald shine .

@Jaymonroe88 3 ай бұрын

I’m 36 got a full set of hair but it’s thining just a little at the front I always said to my self when my hair starts to thin I’m taking it off which I’m doing next week at the barbers all booked nervous but excited at the same time going for the buzz cut. And I’m grateful that my hair just starting thinin now got to enjoy my teens 20s up to mid 30s. definitely don’t wanna be one of them guys that are trying pull there hair around to cover the light patches with 5 hairs on there head I’m going out with a bit of dignity 😂

@bkjdskjdkj 3 ай бұрын

You should do a series on people who choose to be bald. I haven't paid for a haircut since COVID started. I have shaved my head to nought ever since then.

@brandondolan4009 3 ай бұрын

Interesting read.. what made you decide to taken it off and keep it like that? Was you experiencing hairloss?

@buridah328 3 ай бұрын

You can’t join the brotherhood if you’re not a blood brother

@bkjdskjdkj 3 ай бұрын

@@brandondolan4009 no hair loss here. Thick head of hair, I just think being bald is so cool and everyone afterwards always suits the new them.

@istvanbally2817 3 ай бұрын

Hear the man! This channel makes all the difference! And you, sir, look really cool!

@lassebongo126 3 ай бұрын

You look really good, great choice! 😊

@paulf6973 2 ай бұрын

I can remember noticing my hair receding in my early 20s, and then later thinning, and the sensation was being aware of my mortality. Part of me dying, and never coming back. 20 years later, I still haven't gone properly bald yet (difficult to predict, from family background), but I wasted more time and energy than i care to admit worrying about it. I always promised myself that i would shave it when the time came, and I've told friends to be honest if the 'sunroof' becomes obvious, but that's easier said than done, letting go. It's inspiring seeing so many men on here embracing it, and bravely confronting this stigma that has worn them down for so long, taking ownership. A good friend of mine wears a system, and fair play if it helps him, but the clippers seem a more liberating way to go. Everyone always looks so relieved afterwards. And knowing plenty of bald people (incl a woman), I know i don't care about that, neither does anyone else

@tonyjenkins3937 3 ай бұрын

Bald is Beautiful get brave get Shaved 🪒

@eliethia_munay 3 ай бұрын

✌🏽

@meinkanal7443 3 ай бұрын

Bro looks fresh as duck! Awesome story you shared. Can relate & felt the same!

@brentparsons2365 3 ай бұрын

He seems like a lovely bloke

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

Absolute top bloke

@AssasinPlays 3 ай бұрын

Great editing on this one!

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 👍

@BBWlver 3 ай бұрын

Welcome brother👨🏻‍🦲

@buridah328 3 ай бұрын

We ride or die

@mrphil3879 3 ай бұрын

I've just shaved my head with no guard about 2 hrs ago, I've had long hair for a while and had it tied back I just couldn't do it anymore so off it went, I used to have my hair like this years ago

@ChillCash 3 ай бұрын

Excellent decision. More attractive and more masculine!

@MBJK_baby 3 ай бұрын

Best decision ever mate!

@BudaMac 2 ай бұрын

🪒💪🏻

@edpone8600 5 күн бұрын

It is really hard to imagine going bald so young. I am in my mid 50's and my hairline is excellent still. No medicines at all. Genetics and your ethnicity play important parts to this.

@richardevans7035 3 ай бұрын

Looks much better and you look younger,

@keaganlloyd672 3 ай бұрын

I went fully bald at the age of 20, and I have made peace with it . The only thing that still really bugs me …is that I cannot grow a decent beard..I’ve managed to grow a goatee but even then it’s rather insignificant.

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

You’ve got 10 years for your facial hair to develop mate. I had nothing at 20 and an extremely mid beard at 25. It was only at 29/30 that I saw its true potential

@ranveervaghela7030 2 ай бұрын

I am 24 and bald. What's your age?

@mondyst2430 3 ай бұрын

I’m 39 lost my hair 11 years ago had a system for 5 years and just one day woke up and shaved it off but I’d rather bic it with a razzer which I did and been happy since sometimes a wear a hot if it’s hot as ill burn

@SewTubular 3 ай бұрын

Went through the same thing about 10 years older. Started shaving my head by my 40s. Shaved is definitely better than half a head of hair.

@Meshwork123 2 ай бұрын

Looks good. Accentuates your eye colour. When you’re an old codger like me, they’ll be plenty of other things to worry about.

@astralofy 6 күн бұрын

dw bro im 21 yo and im bald too i have hair but my hairline is lil fucked up😂 so im bald now and i feel real cool ngl, better than fist time when i shaved my head.

@c.mirashi 3 ай бұрын

Man im 20 i see balding well people say im by no means ik getting bald and its just my hair are thin, But the truth is in getting hair fall and from past 1 year ive seen significant change in my hairline and hair density/volume I feel like I should shave it off all, but I still haven't found ny soulmate and I've never dated anyone and i feel like this lowers my chances of dating anyone its sad

@viesturs6321 3 ай бұрын

Dont worry when you accept yourseld wethee it be full bald or buzzcut it will increase your confidence in yourself making it easier to get girls then if your insecure about it, trust me.

@jodleeray 3 ай бұрын

Someone who likes you for who you are won’t care that you’re bald. My nephew just had to shave his head for a surgery and he looks awesome. He is only 20.

@flynnmiddleton7102 3 ай бұрын

I recommend finasteride if you want to keep your hair. The choice is yours. Don’t feel pressured either way.

@MBJK_baby 3 ай бұрын

I’m a woman and I’m only 18 so I’m still worried about dating however I love bald guys. They always have better confidence than guys who are struggling with hair loss. I know it’s hard mentally as some women won’t like it but a good woman won’t care and a great woman will realize the money saved from not doing crazy things to try to save your hair can be put towards her.

@chanakya6941 3 ай бұрын

Welcome bro

@Christelijke-apotheek-preken Ай бұрын

Feel so sorry for the guy. No wonder he has a lot of emotions. Look how he had so much hair. Such a good look.

@wutangtimmy3064 3 ай бұрын

Never seen a person look like he was meant to be bald as much as this guy

@ClashKing_Anime 3 ай бұрын

The biggest challenge going bald is making peace with yourself. You start with the buzz cut, then move to shaving. But hey, ask yourself, do you really need hair on your head to look good ? Look at the rock, vin diesel, kratos ;) it's not a disease, it's an hairstyle. Accept what is given and carry it, your confidence will outshine it. Shaving bald since 5 years, and rolling with it.

@vanaconsulting 3 ай бұрын

Looks really good. Better than with the hair,

@scrappy-2694 3 ай бұрын

Hi I’m new to the channel. Im 28 years old and I came across your channel while looking for hair loss advice but everything seems to be so expensive and in my situation I can not afford a hair transplant. I’ve been thinking of shaving my head just to get it over and done with but I’m genuinely scared because I feel like everyone will laugh at me I also have combined adhd which makes the thoughts even worse. Do you have any advice to help me though this difficult time. Love your vids and thank you in advance for listening to my story.

@ahtijansson9283 3 ай бұрын

in my opinion (i'm a woman) bald guys are so much better looking than balding looks cleaner and more professional

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

they all look the same, such a boring look to have

@donaldallen9804 3 ай бұрын

@@dinamo.slavonijahow is it boring?

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

@@donaldallen9804 cause you cant change it. You can onoy be bald for the rest of your life and nothing else. Its boring.

@drizzlydr4ke 3 ай бұрын

@@dinamo.slavonija you must be fun at parties

@shyman99 3 ай бұрын

@@dinamo.slavonija - Men don't change hairstyles. Women do. Men change facial hair and clothes. If you want to get a perm, feel free. But masculine men will think you are a .....

@Master-hb8ny 3 ай бұрын

Я был модельной внешности, девушки вешались на меня. Я начал лысеть рано и 3 года назад облысел полностью. У меня теперь куча комплексов и девушек стесняюсь. Буду делать пересадку волос

@loveudon6972 2 ай бұрын

He needs to get a ham radio and start wearing cardigans now

@IWannaBeFamous647 3 ай бұрын

You have to leave things that are gonna leave you.. Looks so much better than you trying to hold on.

@mehditalib Ай бұрын

I first thought was, okay shit, but no reason to cry! Than I realized that brother got mimics like he is crying all das long …

@m4rtas419 3 ай бұрын

Yeah looks better and masculine. 👍

@healthfreakgg 3 ай бұрын

yet again another guy who looks way better bald, haha!

@dylancini5056 16 күн бұрын

He could have kept it for a few more years, I dont understand why thining hair has to be shaved. A reciding hairline can look good.

@buzzcubb 3 ай бұрын

I actually think he looked good before as well as after. There’s nothing wrong with a guy losing his hair. It’s totally natural.

@wassupjg 2 ай бұрын

looks great

@LaszloGalffy 3 ай бұрын

many thinning people are wearing a hat and i think being bald is so common nowdays that hat is just doing more harm. Literally no one cares about your hair, whether one is bald or has hair. Hat just reinforces insecurity. By the way, most people assume that if you wear a hat, you are probably balding

@DemocracyManifest 2 ай бұрын

Bro went from selling insurance to selling blue crystal with Mr. White

@user-tk9hg8gk7n 13 күн бұрын

Man he looks like Luka Doncic 😅

@mrrocknroll5284 2 ай бұрын

Or you can save for hairplugs. Instead of shaving it off then deep down inside regretting it months later

@Baldcafe 2 ай бұрын

What is to regret when months later you can literally be in the exact same position you were in before you shaved it off. It’s a hair cut not cosmetic surgery lad c’mon

@jordanreid2619 3 ай бұрын

My hair line is getting fucked I’m 27 lol

@shyman99 3 ай бұрын

Sorry you were a late bloomer. Better late than never to finally become a man.

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

Honestly not a bad innings mate

@smcdonald9991 3 ай бұрын

But why do people feel compel to comment on someone's baldness? Would it be acceptable to say to an obese person "Oh gosh you're really getting fat"?

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

He actually makes this point in the full podcast coming soon

@neilyb4590 3 ай бұрын

Some so called friend will always point out baldness and weight gain they seldom mention weight loss in case your ill

@cem1838 3 ай бұрын

Exactly! And if you say anything, you're met with "lighten up. Learn to take a joke." But truthfully, we're fair game for teasing. It is demoralizing.

@Jay-oh1li 3 ай бұрын

Because baldness is largely a male problem. If women suffered from baldness to the extent men do, there wouldn't be a word about it.

@atomicpunk8031 3 ай бұрын

It normally sends me into deep depression

@1337Kryptiiq 2 ай бұрын

I love his hat. What's that kind of hat called/

@Baldcafe 2 ай бұрын

We call them flat caps. originated in northers England. They call them Bonnets in Scotland apparently.

@1337Kryptiiq 2 ай бұрын

@@Baldcafe Thank you for the quick response as well as your videos!

@thanostsarbos1197 3 ай бұрын

What's his age ?

@elfinzilla 3 ай бұрын

Good for this guy! He looks great! But as someone whose treated hair loss successfully for over 10 years with Dutasteride, you can keep your hair, there are options!

@ChillCash 3 ай бұрын

Not all hair loss is equivalent, bro. Nor is it caused by the same things. That type of stuff only works for certain areas of the head also. And honestly, I think men look better with less hair. The only thing we need are our eyebrows lol.

@lucas953 3 ай бұрын

Chemical castration

@RoxusRemo 3 ай бұрын

@@ChillCash It's good you like being bald however most others would agree it's not bad to want to keep your hair. I personally got a transplant recently as I felt like it really was part of my identity and I just miss being able to have a bit of individuality. Sure it's a strong, brave thing to embrace it but I think people should just give men less stick for treating it or getting a transplant too!

@brownsey1 13 күн бұрын

@@RoxusRemoThat's a fair comment.

@Ghost-oq8fw 3 ай бұрын

He looks like Locke from LOST

@InspireRise-kk8uf 2 ай бұрын

Top G

@stuartharvey3762 3 ай бұрын

Fit

@donaldallen9804 3 ай бұрын

Shave 🪒 it off be bald be free

@hannesbolman4710 3 ай бұрын

The Problem with all that channel is , dudes looking awesome without hair bec there already know that , so there are showing it to the audience more likly

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

Extreme pessimism

@joEmusic99 3 ай бұрын

@@BaldcafeI’m surprised you could make out what they’re saying because I couldn’t 😂

@Tazza81 3 ай бұрын

Even if you are not good looking, every bloke looks better with a shaved head than a receding hairline. Also highly recommend if you have a weak chin or a double chin to grow a beard.

@bartdegryse9345 2 ай бұрын

glow up

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

great, now you look like every other bald clone with a beard, thats really something

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

Projection 101

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

@@Baldcafe keep coping, i can see from miles away how emotionally destroyed by hair loss you are. lil princess was too scared of finasteride and now your bald head puts bread on your table so you can't even go for a transplant anymore you'll have to do an actual job then. youre not foolin nobody.

@Yiahi65 3 ай бұрын

Castration cope

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

@@Baldcafe why are you deleting my comments? Did you got hurt by truth? When i started baling i wasn't happy about it, but you recorded yourself on the edge of a mental breakdown. Hairloss ruined you and you are not fooling anybody. The only readon you are doing this is cause it puts bread on your table, and God knows you don't wanna do acutal job. Delete this one too you little insecure baldie.

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

@@Yiahi65 one more unique baldie. Hit tje gym bro and grow a beard 🖕

@ChillCash 3 ай бұрын

Buzz cuts > mop heads

@gloriouskatatsumuri 3 ай бұрын

Got to disagree.... But a buzz cut / shaved head >>> balding

@ChillCash 3 ай бұрын

@@gloriouskatatsumuri On the contrary. Check the compilation on this channel, every single one of the guys looked better afterward lol! A man's appearance is genuinely cleaner and more masculine with less hair. I'd recommend keeping your eyebrows though of course. 😅

@gloriouskatatsumuri 3 ай бұрын

@@ChillCashagree but they're all balding. None of them have mops of hair. Mop heads = full head of longer hair, which would usually look better than a full head of hair shaved. If you're losing your hair though, a shaved head is 100% better.

@dinamo.slavonija 3 ай бұрын

keep dreaming

@ChillCash 3 ай бұрын

@@gloriouskatatsumuri That's actually quite subjective because I personally think my buzz cut ironically looks way better than my unmanageable hair EVER did. And I used to have a comb over! So we'll have to agree to disagree. Even if the men weren't balding, they'd still look better with the buzz cut. Also, having long hair is a bit feminine mate.

@backtothebarber 3 ай бұрын

Guys you really dont have to shave your head unless you are planning to work on healing your follicles. Or unless you want the bald look. It shouldnt be a defeat. I reversed a decade of hair loss using natural products and simple tools. I help men get their high school hair line back on my channel.

@donaldallen9804 3 ай бұрын

😂

@Baldcafe 3 ай бұрын

Why don’t you show your face and your reversal of your decade of hair loss in all your videos? I only clicked on 3/4 but could see you show yourself apart from one picture where you are wearing a hat like in your avatar too.

@joEmusic99 3 ай бұрын

@@Baldcafeobviously still insecure and can’t accept it. BALD is not YOU. YOU are bald. But yeah, let’s all take some medication for the rest of our lives and get surgeries that don’t last but for a decade 💀

@backtothebarber 3 ай бұрын

@@Baldcafe Good question. As you know, the difference between 5000 new hairs and 20k new hairs is drastic. I am getting out my theories and my faceless videos so by the time I am on camera, there wont be a doubt. You can regrow hair, but people are looking for the "hair transplant" aesthetic and that takes quite a while to duplicate if you saw the pics. From most peoples perspective, I dont supposed to grow any- so even these old pics should raise eyebrows. Believe me, I will and they will make the "scam" posts about me more than they do you. I have no doubts and to be honest with you- so confident that proving it visually is secondary. Lastly, most bald men where hats because we cover ourself, Ive done that for over a decade now too. You know this. I like your channel.

@backtothebarber 3 ай бұрын

@@joEmusic99 Bald is as much you is telling a woman her alopecia is her or a diabetic that, they should accept it. Or any illness should be accepted. Thats the difference between us, you think balding is hair loss, when it is an omen of a heart or prostate disease. They dont tell you that fibrosis or calcification is everywhere but the scalp is sensitive to it and DHT. Not only am I fixing the hair loss, I am focusing on the greater issue, Early death.