"Should I Seek Revenge?" - Nouman Ali Khan

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"Should I Seek Revenge?" - Nouman Ali Khan

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Nouman Ali Khan - Official - Bayyinah

Жыл бұрын

In this short Dream BIG 10 day Arabic Intensive class clip, Ustadh Nouman sheds light on the boundless mercy and forgiveness of Allah, and emphasizes that the power to forgive ultimately rests with Allah alone, and it is not within our jurisdiction to determine who deserves forgiveness.
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@F.N_NOORZAI_ Жыл бұрын

I just want to be healed by Allah to the point of forgetting what others have done to me 😢😭

@dewis7659 Жыл бұрын

Aamiiiin..

@shimmerjaysondelalu Жыл бұрын

Oppression is something instance i cant advice you concerning it, but illah make it easy for us 😢 Subanallah

@kainatmikael9761 Жыл бұрын

Same as me may Allah help us

@kausamsalam8543 Жыл бұрын

Ameen🤲🏿

@cosynests4387 Жыл бұрын

One can forgive but forgetting takes all lifetime 😢 especially injuries given by your own blood relations .

@awesomekindness5711 Жыл бұрын

I am going through a lot of trials right now, please keep me in your duas brothers and sisters and for Allah to accept my duas

@NAURYEONN Жыл бұрын

Same may Allah help us please also pray for me

@awesomekindness5711 Жыл бұрын

@@NAURYEONN Ameen and I will do In Shaa Allah

@NAURYEONN Жыл бұрын

@@awesomekindness5711 thnks

@NAURYEONN Жыл бұрын

@@awesomekindness5711 btw what're are you going from

@awesomekindness5711 Жыл бұрын

@@NAURYEONN May Allah gives us all ease

@aribakhan9214 Жыл бұрын

This lecture has saved me in so many ways both in this duniya and akhirah 😭 thank you ustaad

@slaveofallahazzawajal Жыл бұрын

Seriously subhanallah

@MM-eq4ez 11 ай бұрын

Your dignity and honor can't be taken by the words of others. If Allah favoured you with Honor , no one can take this blessing from you.

@saimaahmed4612 Жыл бұрын

This is the best lecture I heard in my life. May Allah forgive us all. Because we don't want to forgive others on their mistakes but rather want to see them suffer😩

@ayya5990 Жыл бұрын

Iman is Wisdom, indeed ✨️🫶

@user-bg9vd2es7m Жыл бұрын

I will remember this hadid . Allah for give me and others . Allah mercy me ameen .

@samra3654 Жыл бұрын

I want to be healed so that I can forgive people who have wronged me..I tried to forgive them but can't because I am still in excruciating pain..

@bayanali3337 Күн бұрын

so hard to forgive

@loveofAllah440 Жыл бұрын

SUBHANA ALLAH Ya Allah forgive us and give us more wisdom to learn about Islam Ameeen

@hadithoftheday3858 Жыл бұрын

Abu Bakr asked the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): Teach me a dua that I may say in my prayer. He said: `Say: O Allah, I have wronged myself greatly & no one forgives sins but you, grant me forgiveness from you & have mercy on me for you are the Oft Forgiving Most Merciful.’ (Ahmad)

@rashiqabegum1149 11 ай бұрын

Can you share it in Arabic?

@kausamsalam8543 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. What an important message you’ve shared about our Faith, MashaAllah. “You cannot allow that pain to turn you into a pharaoh.”

@zaviansyed7701 Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry if I’m making no sense, however, I don’t think I can appreciate this lecture. As some of the wrong words have mentioned like “revenge”. A victim who has been wronged for that person maybe Allah is the last resort to seek justice. As this world is not perfect. If you don’t always see justice here. And the right that’s been given to every human being to seek justice from his/her Lord. Sometimes that’s the only thing a victim have. this video pressurize a lot on victims reaction and villainifying of victims reactions. It’s true. Sometimes some pain causes us monstrous behavior, but when a person does not see any justice from this world. This is why it’s super important that we at least can hope that our creator is just and he will do the justice. It’s not revenge it’s simply the matter of hoping for justice.

@humnaasif34 4 ай бұрын

I feel you... I just lost another friendship and I said Allah this time I'm not seeking any revenge or not even having a slightest thought of revenge so I leave this matter upto you cuz you clearly know whay did they do wrong

@ahmadnazary2434 Ай бұрын

Salam aleykum, i trink you totally misunderstood What he Said. Maybe You should Watch it again

@herakhan1609 Ай бұрын

I feel you and it's okay to want justice and to have hope in Allah but here the lecture was about not saying things from yourself about Allah like he mentioned you should not say Allah is not going to forgive you as a Muslim we cant say what's Allah is gonna do ...we can pray n trust him but it's totally on Allah to forgive that person or take revenge.

@towhidaislam9239 Жыл бұрын

May Allah subhanu wa tayala bless you and your family with endless happiness and success in duniyah and akhirah. Ameen.

@aisha4su Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@salmaNiyas05 Жыл бұрын

Before commiting a crime to anyone, he has commited crime to Allah, absolutely Allah is the one to decide..so true...this will in shaa Allah change me n heal me..n all...jazak Allahu khairan ustad ...may Allmighty bless you n your team alwayz..Ameen.

@tarekahmad2978 Жыл бұрын

There is a delicate line here. Of course there should be justice. I don't see it as revenge, its just justice and letting go and getting rid of the trash. I also think that the messaging is a slippery slope, because when someone wrongs someone else, that is A LOT DIFFERENT than wronging oneself. Especially in matters of the heart. Lots of narcissistic people who you hope are brought to justice but don't let it consume you or your thoughts. Let go, get these toxic people out of your life and let God deal with them.

@ISLAMINREAL04 7 ай бұрын

Asalam U r my teacher may Allah bless all of u❤❤love from Afghanistan 🇦🇫

@kathybryant5643 Жыл бұрын

This gentleman has the most beautiful lessons and messages. His knowledge of Islam is amazing, and his understanding of the needs of the Moslem struggling with his faith is astounding. His delivery is so loving, understanding, and comprehensible. Allah, keep this gentleman safe to continue his messages...Ameen

@nub2999 Жыл бұрын

The absolute answer to my question …. Searched all my life for this. Thank you NAK ❤

@bayanali3337 Күн бұрын

it is not easy to forgive. So hard to control yourself from taking revenge

@peacepeace4256 Жыл бұрын

100% right SubhanAllah. May Allah forgive all those who wronged me.

@MuhammadSajid-yq9ct Жыл бұрын

Great messages in each and every videos posted.. جزاک اللہ خیرا

@shymaj9601 Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah! Mind blown

@mahdhimohinudeen9977 Жыл бұрын

Subhanallah! May Allah give this scholar a long life, aafiyah and use him for the hidayath of billions of people! Aameen!

@crescent416 Жыл бұрын

This video is incredibly helping me to getting through my sadness,anxciety, full of anger.. Allah yerda ankum

@AhmedAliRecitation Жыл бұрын

Mashallah May ALLAH Bless You Ustadh 🌺

@Sal-imm Жыл бұрын

Masha Allah so true. Illness first in ourselves and in Ummat i Muslima collectively.

@fishbarbeque8540 Жыл бұрын

The Cristians say "god helps those who help themselves" So us as MUSLIMS, can take a bit of that knowledge. You don't revenge but sometimes someone needs to get one type of recompense for there actions.

@mudasirashraf1074 Жыл бұрын

Allah 😢 جزاکم اللّہ خیرا🌻

@davalediga1540 22 күн бұрын

Dear sir your teach is exellent and its in morally Total being a Hindu I truly believe in all religion and I truly believe that all religions are really right. Please do your great work continue. Thank you sir.

@Cowboy72 10 ай бұрын

Man this video changed my life, flipping this guy is logical and so wise....Man He have my respect. He doesnt play politics like todays islamic people in religion

@kirankhan4667 Жыл бұрын

Much needed video.. Someone hurted me. Badly and when opened ds, this video came... ❤

@jaffarsamoon6711 Жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu Khair n kaseera va alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatullah wa barakaatuho 👌🌹☑️❤

@kingrapid Жыл бұрын

I love the way brother Nouman breaks everything down mashaAllah. Beautiful and with wisdom.

@zonairaali7902 Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah Beshak Allah is the one WHO do justice Allah pak plz🙏🏻 forgive me if I have done wrong to anyone 😢😢😢

@twaha1000 Жыл бұрын

I believe an important aspect has been neglected here by the sheikh. An oppressed person awaits justice and Allah will not forgive the opressor unless the oppressed himself forgives the oppressor. And on the day of jugment,the oppressor will have to give away his good deeds to the ones he oppressed depending of the degree of oppression. And the oppressed will accept those deeds readily as they will be valuable and thus the oppressor will be cleared and the oppressed happy.

@twaha1000 Жыл бұрын

If the oppressor did not have enough good deeds to pay for his oppression,the oppressed bad deeds will be removed from him and assigned to the oppressor.

@Alexandra-yi6dw Жыл бұрын

Its not forget but is that when you forgive them for the sake of Allah is much better for you than take his good deeds ,Allah will reward you much better than you taking revenge to them , anyway they will answer to Allah for everything they have done if you forgive them or not they will be answering for everything , so the best is to forgive them and clean your heart to go to Allah with kalbin selim , a clean heart

@dr.lubna78 Жыл бұрын

@@twaha1000 I want to write here a single sentence by ALLAH. ALLAH is able to forgive all of your sins except shirk. Isn't so ???? So where is the concept of forgiveness by people . As he almighty knows what's hidden inside our hearts, our prayers and tears in loneliness. Here, in In pakistan there is a tradition of begging forgiveness from relatives before going to Hajj or umraah. There are several possibilities of unavailability of a person you ask for forgiveness or a person says. No .. I'm not able to forgive you go to Hajj and waste your prayers . Forgiveness is actually KAFFAARAH. Because repetitive mistakes in Deen or dunya is not always forgiveable. ALLAH never said that I can't forgive that, that and those .... Common sense clues towards Allah's powers and RAHMAT . EACH AND EVERYTHING IS DESCRIBED IN OUR HOLLY BOOK ABOUT WHAT ALLAH DO AND WAHT HE DON'T. Regardless any firqa MASLAK , there are several questions are hidden there in QURAAN.

@twaha1000 Жыл бұрын

The concept of forgiveness of people in not found in the qur'an. Its hadith,but the Qur'an does give us a hint that we will not be wronged on the day of Judgement. So Allah will not forgive if the oppressed has not been given justice.

@ShayTurkmani Жыл бұрын

@@twaha1000that’s just a fake lame excuse just to comfort someone. Oppression can only be resolved by your own fight against the oppression. If you read hadiths prophet saw had to fight against Meccans not just sit back and wait for oppression to be forgiven till day of Judgement . We studied these Ghazwas from childhood. You have to fight oppression otherwise no one will do anything

@Geebee67 Жыл бұрын

MashAllah brother thank you for this reminder. You are one of a many few on the internet today who has taught me and so many I know, thankyou.

@muharslan 5 ай бұрын

Aoa Nauman, I love you my brother. Your talks always give me not only deep understanding of Quran, Hadidth but also help me improve morally. ❤

@tehminaaftab9171 Жыл бұрын

May Allah give you jaza for bringing muslims back on right path

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

attaining the 7th HABiT .. is CONQUERing the ENEMY by thoroughly UNDERSTANDing & EMPATHiSing with hom / her ..

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

enemy - centric people become ZOMBiES

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

neiki kar dariya mein daal .. 🦁 THiNK like this ..

@Hundura-k3y Жыл бұрын

You are just too much. Masha Allah!!

@akakonoha Жыл бұрын

W❤'Allahi, we are grateful to Allah for Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) for his sacrifice for us 😥

@ashahmed2 Жыл бұрын

Wallahi i so needed that. I was a victim of thinking like that. May allah forgive me. And i have forgiven everyone.

@samrasiddique5852 Жыл бұрын

Hey Ma Sha Allah Ya Shiekh! Stay blessed... 💖

@maryammirza7119 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful wholesome advice SubhanAllah. Sometimes we do get so carried away in our pain/agony that we lose balance. May Allah swt protect us, may He swt forgive us and may He swt heal our hearts/souls ameen sum ameen

@LADYZEE702 Жыл бұрын

I swear I always love the humor of NAK when he is talking about a really important thing. "One week in the barbecue because I haven't forgiven them"😅 Subhanallah! I e heard this statement from people for real! Alhamdulillah Allah is Allah

@dr.uzmaazim9652 Ай бұрын

Ya Allah please heal us all 💔

@WintermelonSnow Жыл бұрын

Needed this!!!❤❤❤ May Allah keep you steadfast Ustaz!

@khadijafatima9240 Жыл бұрын

O Allah i am weak so make me strong, O Allah grant us Paradise with those we love

@dr.lubna78 Жыл бұрын

Some of us people nether hate anyone nor believe in revenge. It's nature. It too difficult to change our habits and mindset after fourties.

@nabeelurrehman Жыл бұрын

JazakAllah elkhair for great reminder. Ya Allah plz forgive me. This lecture has opened my eye. Ya Allah forgive me & give me/us strength to bear losses n hardship. Please help us in remaining patient. Ya Allah gather us all in Jannah. Aameen

@destiny_reached Жыл бұрын

Shukar Alhamdulillah... this video appeared at the right time... JazakAllah khair💐

@afshanasif1728 Жыл бұрын

jazakAllah o kheran kaseera ustaadh May Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala increase you in aafiat ilm e nafey and Emaan...May Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala increase you in Rizq in every sense Allahumma Aameen

@mariammohamed8239 Жыл бұрын

زادك الله علما وحكمة

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

ch - 96 1st verb - read 1st NR - to drag last NR - - last - Qaf - Raa - Baa

@user-wo3sr4wm5f 6 ай бұрын

Alhamdulillah.. Im so glad I got to see the lecture. Alhamdulillah

@zaheedarazak506 11 ай бұрын

Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alahi wassalam was always forgiving. When he was hurt by his enemies Allah SWT sent Jibrael Alaihis salaam to punish the people but they were forgiven by prophet Muhammad sallallahu alahi wassalam. He did not take revenge but made dua for their guidance and their generation

@isolamutmainah3700 7 ай бұрын

Just what I need, I didn’t know forgiving someone is this hard I always thought it’s like a switch that you can just turn on easily, but now that I’ve been hurt by someone very close and dear to me , I keep telling myself not to dislike this person and whenever I try to console myself and put it pass me , it makes me feel more angry. Another issue is that the person didn’t know that they’ve hurt me by their actions and I can’t bring myself to tell them, cos I will definitely blow things up , cos I’m still angry and the last thing I want is to hurt this person with my word or approach.

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

ch - 68 1st verb - write 1st NR - to compromise last NR - to make slip last - QUL

@user-bg9vd2es7m Жыл бұрын

Tears feels couse of Allah i m afraid Allah by this hadid . MashaAllah baina .

@AA-df2iz Жыл бұрын

May Allah bless you🤲🏻

@muhammadsharif7990 Жыл бұрын

Good lecture. Btw, seeking justice, protesting, pointing out injustices, shying/distancing etc. is not necessarily seeking "revenge"

@nizamuddin667 Жыл бұрын

Very amazing seriously... I was in desperate need of this lesson... Thank you

@yusufyahaya930 Жыл бұрын

Allah is the beginning and the end of all matters

@KA-bw3wf Жыл бұрын

Nice mind shift👍. Allah help us all.

@An_Gha_ 10 ай бұрын

It's totally natural and normal for the person who has been severely hurt, to have thought and feelings like that especially in the first stage. It's important then to go ahead and go learn about haqq al nass, justice, forgiveness etc. Lastly, I just want to remind us that repentance includes saying sorry and rectifying the wrong done to the person whenever possible. Who does not that, has no asked real forgiveness to Allah, has no repented and Allah says in Qur'an he forgives the ones who repent. So do no think that Allah can forgive who does not deserve it. Allah is just and Allah is the wali of mumininin, so also yes make sure you are a muminin, focus on that, bettering yourself, each day.

@saadiasattar8558 Жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah kher Ustadh Mohtaram

@Sir_Vigilant 10 күн бұрын

Iran needs to see this😢

@bayanali3337 Күн бұрын

lmaoooooooo

@afhamulfahimin3963 Жыл бұрын

This guys is amazing really...i love him

@muslimakhan3555 Жыл бұрын

Allah hu Akbar❤

@sujin2881 Жыл бұрын

As far as I know you can take revenge but you can't cross the limit when you are taking revenge. The thing is the memory doesn't die, the people don't ever feel ashamed of what they have done, they never says sorry for their actions then why should we forgive them? Or not to take revenge? We have to forgive them though they are not sorry? Why? Please answer this. #NAK

@user-lm1oo9hf5f 5 ай бұрын

You have right to take revenge in same limits but if it is uncontrol then leave on Allah because Allah is more just than us

@sujin2881 4 ай бұрын

@@user-lm1oo9hf5f yeah obviously. We can take revenge but we can't cross our limit in order to do that.... Forgiving always isn't the solution. At least one should gain the power of taking revenge for himself too so that he/she doesn't feel inferior, then they can forgive if the wants or really take revenge.

@realo6 Жыл бұрын

Allah really gave NAK wisdom and knowledge

@nazreenismail1072 Жыл бұрын

Let go and just Let Allah 💚

@spamemail6598 Жыл бұрын

Our Prophet (pbuh) said: "Those who are merciful will be shown mercy by the Most Merciful". Who will not be in need of Allah's mercy on the Day of Reckoning? Allah will show mercy to those who are merciful, and justice to those who are just. Who would prefer Allah's justice to Allah's mercy?

@pendosemei2847 Жыл бұрын

JazakAllahu khairan ❤

@starry-eyes451 Жыл бұрын

Subhan ALLAH 🥺🥺

@xatareinunddreiiger2538 6 ай бұрын

It depends on what the person has done, god knows our hearts and intentions

@fahr.879 Жыл бұрын

[𝘼𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧] Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The person who is strong is not strong because he can knock people down. The person who is strong is the one who controls himself when he is angry." (Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1317)

@alishahudda3738 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah. Great Message

@amreenmostafa5440 Жыл бұрын

Thank-you brother for explaining so well ❤❤❤MashAllah

@MukhtarAli-ld5zj Жыл бұрын

Amazing Ustadh.

@abdulaziz3044 Жыл бұрын

Amazing explanation.. just needed it

@Arwiedi Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah…Jazaakumullahu khairan

@haniaabid1698 2 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah

@izzy.i 6 ай бұрын

Some people are just pure evil that they don’t deserve forgiveness.

@mariajennaharrismaria7013 Жыл бұрын

Subhan Allah

@rukhsananaz6838 Жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah khair

@yashoos Жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah Sir Noman

@s.h.2697 2 ай бұрын

I'm actually not sure what is intended here. Huqooq el Ibaad (rights of a person) are different - we know through hadith that on the Day of Judgment we will lose some of our good deeds to people we have harmed etc. This is from the perfect justice of Allah - that anyone who was wrongfully hurt/abused etc. will have their haqq given to them on that day. May Allah guide and forgive us all.

@farahja3023 Жыл бұрын

It was an amazing video, JazakAllah khair ❤️❤️❤️

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

*' FORGiVE & FORGET '* is the only SOLUTiON to this .. which is TOUGH .. it's almost a DECADE .. i still canNOT STOP thinking about any of it ..

@frames999 Жыл бұрын

it is 10 years of TORTURE .. HARASSMENT .. BULLYing .. FRUSTRATiON .. ANGER .. it will take me same number of years to come OUT of this TRAUMA ..

@angeldust7591 Жыл бұрын

You can forgive but Allah never forgets. :)

@rutbarutba8856 2 ай бұрын

Nice informational video thanku

@bushraali5263 Жыл бұрын

Jazakllah khair

@sheebaikhtiya1110 3 ай бұрын

It's getting harder for me to forgive my close relatives for all the hurt they have caused me by their behaviour. Let Allah give me strength to forgive them so that Allah forgives me