Beauty Pageant Contestants Share Their Horror Stories

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Beauty Pageant Contestants Share Their Horror Stories

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Women who competed in beauty pageants share their wildest stories!
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@NicoleFoti 4 жыл бұрын

The first girl's roommate was totally sabotaging her hahahaha

@SjofnBM1989 4 жыл бұрын

Oh 100%

@jserotta 4 жыл бұрын

Yasss girl 100%

@kat8223 4 жыл бұрын

How is that funny?

@tamtamr9081 4 жыл бұрын

TOTALLY

@connectthedots4169 4 жыл бұрын

Get a grip, it’s one of those embarrassing memories you can laugh at down the road! Not everyone watches these videos to make themselves upset, you being the example.

@Lauren.E.O 4 жыл бұрын

The lesson: if you don’t have a horror story, you’re probably someone else’s horror story

@Lauren.E.O 4 жыл бұрын

Elle BC A villain who is totally unaware of their villainy? I’d watch that Disney movie! *Castle being destroyed by magic blasts* Hero: You’ll never get away with this, Villain! Villain: I know I can’t move an entire castle myself, silly! That’s why I’m deconstructing it first! OR for horror Last girl: I won’t let you burn the sorority! We’re going to survive! Slasher: That’s the spirit! Don’t let anyone burn your friends. Trolls can be *so* cruel. *starts spilling gasoline around the house*

@odetothemasses 4 жыл бұрын

@@HelenGPitts you said 🤖

@neckbackcripplinganxietyattack 4 жыл бұрын

Lauren O oh! Oh...

@alynn6967 4 жыл бұрын

Lauren O LMAO FACTS

@thisisanuncreativeusername2745 4 жыл бұрын

Helen G. Pitts bot

@blue_birdy64 4 жыл бұрын

I want to see the first girls picnic pictures so I can get a better idea of what prom dresses someone would wear to a picnic

@DarkAngelwing2 4 жыл бұрын

I know I was dying to see the difference

@BeccaMoses 4 жыл бұрын

my prom dress totally would’ve worked with a beauty pageant picnic theme tbh

@gigachadcooper7381 4 жыл бұрын

666 likes

@myosotismalva 4 жыл бұрын

She was too kind, that roommate was a mean girl probably jealous 😕

@dt4654 4 жыл бұрын

people who literally still hasn't grown up,and think they are still in school.

@Giuchini26 4 жыл бұрын

Overly nice people like her frustrate me so much sometimes and in these kind of stories lol . I hate confrontation too but sometimes you need to stand up for yourself 😭😭😂

@danielalizcano6648 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, but still if they sent you an approved dress and your roommate told you not to wear it and your in an environment where there's a competition it was kind of naive of her to listen to the roommate instead of the people that are trying to make her win ¿Right? (Still the roommate was a bad competitor and I hope she's grown from that childish behavior)

@Lana-pb7ij 4 жыл бұрын

You should do doctors sharing horror stories or fathers or students. The point is that we need more of this because it is great

@BlackCelticsFan 4 жыл бұрын

Lana that would probably end up being a HIPAA violation if they shared stories about their patients

@charvik3320 4 жыл бұрын

BlackCelticsFan im not sure but doesn’t it only apply when their name is mentioned??

@Lana-pb7ij 4 жыл бұрын

BlackCelticsFan well the nurses shared their horror stories so I think it might be ok

@deven5296 4 жыл бұрын

Lana Middle school students! Their the most awkward so some of their stories must be good?

@Lana-pb7ij 4 жыл бұрын

CaffineBro well I’m a high school student and this is my most awkward horror story: every year my school takes the entire school on a picnic, last year we went to some hills and there was a weird canal of water there too.we set up our thing on top of the highest hill and after 6-7 hours we decided to go back home so we packed and started to go down the hill I was holding most of the stuff so my basket was so heavy. While I tried to cross the canal I fell soooo bad into the canal in front of the entire school and apparently it wasn’t a river it was dirty water 😭 so there I was in the middle of nowhere socking wet in front of everybody and my stuff all over the place 😂

@erintomatoes 4 жыл бұрын

The green shirt girl could totally be a news anchor just with how she talks

@hisokah8r 4 жыл бұрын

Or she could be Micheal Jackson

@connectthedots4169 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, she was great! 😂

@lexiexfaith5874 4 жыл бұрын

Softie_Snapped. com girl you look five

@lx9414 4 жыл бұрын

Erin Rose yesss I love how she talks

@xoxoreyah6975 4 жыл бұрын

Softie_Snapped. com and act five

@mahrukhfarooq 4 жыл бұрын

The first girl is so me. I tend to overdress for casual occasions and usually underdress for big events. I have no shame though.

@YACABE 4 жыл бұрын

I'd rather overdress than underdress.

@ameengrewal5208 4 жыл бұрын

I'd rather underdress than overdress rather But that's probably because I am a teen going thru the whole idc stage

@aminahisra4410 4 жыл бұрын

Thay girl who put the stuff in the corner should have been disqualified on the spot

@rayoko_tube 4 жыл бұрын

Ami Israel i agree. Real shady.

@brittherik9531 4 жыл бұрын

I was sitting there barbecue sauc......

@emmymarlene5022 4 жыл бұрын

Okay??

@brittherik9531 4 жыл бұрын

ADDISON GEISTWEIDT actually from vine ;)

@emmymarlene5022 4 жыл бұрын

ADDISON GEISTWEIDT actually it’s a vine and I do know how does it have anything to do with the video

@jsjsjjsjsjksjsjsjsjsj4061 4 жыл бұрын

Barbeque sauce on my tiddies

@xthia 4 жыл бұрын

Emmy Marlene okay??

@rissa_x 4 жыл бұрын

if your director have you an approved outfit why would you change it? it’s a competition why would you even listen to you roommate?

@vampirexion 4 жыл бұрын

Naive. I've been there with work. I think the best of people and people....are evil. So.

@anniekraykray 4 жыл бұрын

She also said she was new to competitions.

@free2saywhatever 4 жыл бұрын

Because it was a picnic. And her roommate told her it was super casual. I’d have done the same thing if i was new to pageants and I was unfamiliar with them. But her roommate taking an hour to get dressed and hogging the bathroom should have been a warning though.

@Amy_Nicole_Sabas 4 жыл бұрын

exactly. i felt bad for her all the way up until she said there was an approved outfit by the pageant director. come on -- even if you're new to something, that should be a no-brainer. the pageant director is not going to approve an outfit that doesn't fit the dress code.

@deborahstephens863 4 жыл бұрын

Well, it’s a competition, and that just proves she doesn’t have the leadership skills and sense yet to win. She probably learned and did better last time. I did super well in my first pageant too without training, it’s just about common sense and knowing when someone is sabotaging you.

@janicebeane51 4 жыл бұрын

You should do sorority horror stories

@SD-uz1cc 4 жыл бұрын

Janice Beane read this as “security” and like... yes?

@aminahisra4410 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh yes I'm sure those would be crazy. So many girls living together is always gonna create drama.

@blainejudd5693 4 жыл бұрын

The first story reminds me of the scene in mean girls where Cady dresses up as a dead bride because Regina George told her to 😂 the roommate was sabotaging 100%

@elenamontoya7114 4 жыл бұрын

Blaine Judd it was an “ex wife”💁🏽‍♀️😂

@verynormalusername 4 жыл бұрын

regina didnt tell her to do that, lol

@musicgal421 4 жыл бұрын

Blaine Judd that never happened. Cady wore it on her own. Maybe you’re thinking of Legally Blonde? Vivian tells Elle it’s a costume party so she comes as a bunny

@akshayakaivalya3452 2 жыл бұрын

Regina didn’t tell her sh just assumed that’s what u wear on Holoween

@b1njjj95 4 жыл бұрын

Your roommate totally set you up and was laughing at your naïvity. Never, *EVER* trust your 'friends' at a competition.

@theonewnocensor 4 жыл бұрын

b1njjj95 .... unless they dont join the competition and is there for genuine support 👍

@domingamurray3032 4 жыл бұрын

Current Miss Roanoke Valley here 👋!! I’m so proud to have the same title Ashna once did.

@ashimamathur22 4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🥰❤️

@vandananishad3164 4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 💜

@vitaminademorango 4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!! 💛

@MonaLisaFire 4 жыл бұрын

Dominga Murray ❤️❤️❤️

@mymo_on4722 4 жыл бұрын

Congrats!!♡♡♡♡

@lilatwyx2789 4 жыл бұрын

For the first story I was already going "oh nooo girl nooooo" and it just got worse xD

@Kuralai95 4 жыл бұрын

Wow, the second story is terrifying. Not sure how I would have handled it.

@steph4133 4 жыл бұрын

That first horror story is actually my total nightmare, that’s literally the worst feeling

@lucia_kidtech 4 жыл бұрын

The second story is terrifying and I have something similar happen multiple times in theatre.

@areneej1 4 жыл бұрын

Can you do theatre kids or people in musical theatre share horror stories

@recoil53 4 жыл бұрын

BF has something close - drama teachers share horror stories.

@lucyschraff4893 4 жыл бұрын

recoil53 do you have a link?

@spisie130 4 жыл бұрын

Oh noooooooo noooo I can imagine

@dinosaur7115 4 жыл бұрын

I have a horror story

@iexist7755 4 жыл бұрын

Oh I have some of those

@sarahsvay 4 жыл бұрын

Can you guys please do a driving instructor horror story lol, I’m curious

@SusanaDownes 4 жыл бұрын

When I competed internationally, when they would give us “smart casual” as a dress code, if your outfit doesn’t have a sequin; you’re under dressed.

@nicolemeneses3323 4 жыл бұрын

How horrific is it that the judges and the public pick a girl that shows that shes so great, but you dont actually know how she is backstage!! You could be picking the most horrible human Being in the contest

@trungduong4040 4 жыл бұрын

In bigger pageants (Miss Universe, Miss World for example), the organizations often hire so many supervisors to manage the girls. If one contestant misbehaves, it is often reported and she will be unplaced.

@SusanaDownes 4 жыл бұрын

Trung Duong yep! At Miss Earth, we have team managers who relay back behaviour of the candidates to the organisation. There were so many girls who were crowd favourites that didn’t make it as finalists because of their behaviour.

@rhanerenai2797 4 жыл бұрын

They did so for the president, so

@rayoko_tube 4 жыл бұрын

That's what I always wondered. Like what are the girls like behind closed doors and behind curtains...

@pratyushapilla3505 4 жыл бұрын

Ah I introduced Bollywood and Kuchipudi to Texas's Miss America state pageant! Love it!

@jessicazeller8060 4 жыл бұрын

Pratyusha Pilla And you slaaaaaaaaayed.

@pinupdollsarabeth 4 жыл бұрын

This was a local town pageant and it was my first. I had a very dedicated dad who would do anything for me. We we're told walking in "make sure you know where your shoes are at all times. Some girls like to take one shoe". So scared for that I had my dad hold them while he's in back waiting for me to come off stage. I continue to do the set and I realise my dad is the only dad/ parent holding 3 pairs of shoes. She made me and my dad paranoid. Luckily we made it to the regionals however we know now she did that to throw me off.

@annlocke8268 4 жыл бұрын

I had a pageant roommate try to sneak her boyfriend into our room at the Miss Teen NY pageant which is very strictly forbidden. She ended getting kicked out of the pageant entirely because she caused some other issues as well but I was 1st runner up so all’s well that ends well.

@princesayoleasa 4 жыл бұрын

Aww love how humble they are love that the first one tried to do a Bollywood dance and if that dress would have ripped at my core I would of improved and did a hard core belly dance instead 😂😂

@honestydavis2289 4 жыл бұрын

princesayoleasa i was just thinking this 😂

@unicorn.taetae3221 4 жыл бұрын

I'll come back once the comments are better

@imai4829 4 жыл бұрын

Same.

@lidaasghari832 4 жыл бұрын

Come back

@mikaylamichael8238 4 жыл бұрын

Omg I’m so happy she got crowned even though her dress messed up 😭 I’m from VA

@stanypensaert3720 4 жыл бұрын

I once wanted to join a pageant but bathing suits and chest hair don't match...

@ewvolleyball 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been in the pageant “community” since 2nd grade and it’s not nearly as crazy as you think it is. A few moms are a bit Psycho but everyone is really nice. Worst things that happened was a girl tried to tell everyone what place they were gonna get obviously she said she would get crowned division queen and the sad thing is she did.

@stha03 4 жыл бұрын

3:05 girl you seriously had to consult from one of the staff The director is right.....pageants are like kind of games though

@monroerobbins7551 4 жыл бұрын

I had a friend into beauty pageants, and guess what happened in her last pageant at age 16? She was the runner-up for a state one, and she actually started dating one of the first people who lost, a body builder who was stunning. The two got hitched, and have a dog now and a beautiful little boy.

@nonocheri817 4 жыл бұрын

y'all should make a video about Wal-Mart horror stories 😂😂

@mrsgollum 4 жыл бұрын

That second story reminded me of Drop Dead Gorgeous

@summersbythesea4261 4 жыл бұрын

Danielle has great delivery. She looks like Olivia Culpo to me, but it’s probably the hair.

@LaPinya 4 жыл бұрын

Very convenient video, Buzzfeed, considering I _just_ applied for Miss DC USA yesterday.

@gracie8714 4 жыл бұрын

I honestly love the second girl... she’s such a mood 😂

@olivedizzy8215 4 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's true when even if things are falling apart around you(literally). Just keep your cool, there's power and beauty in that.😄

@marinasilveirasilveira9371 4 жыл бұрын

In the wise words of Gina Linetti: “DANCE, DANCE, DAAAANCE!!”

@2DeathComesSlowly1 4 жыл бұрын

More pageant horror storys!! 🧡🙏

@norahcarden4161 4 жыл бұрын

I remember when she won miss Roanoke valley, I was actually there

@jamievee8375 4 жыл бұрын

7:51 Honestly if a mishap happens stopping to fix things makes it look worse than if you keep going. I remember I lost a shoe at marching band practice one year cuz I was wearing slides. I kept going through my sets on the wet field with one shoe until they stopped us, then grabbed it lol

@johnwhite7144 4 жыл бұрын

I use to LOVE pageants when I was smaller I think I started doing it when I was 7 or 8 years old.I went to a Tray pageant, if you don’t know what a tray pageant is it’s like a pageant that you dress casual for.In the tray pageant I was in, I wore ruffle leggings with a shirt that I’m not sure if it was sleeveless or not but I wore a yellow necklace and I remember that I wore a fur vest thing with a smoky-ish eye makeup.In this pageant you have to tell a lister person your hobbies, what you do in your free time, your fav toy, etc. EVERYONE that competed against me had the words,” I love to ride in the tractor.” I live in a Southern state wear that’s very like “ClAssIc” to the judges.And everyone had the brand Matilda Jane on and no makeup whatsoever maybe lipgloss.If you don’t know what Matilda Jane is you can look it up. I wasn’t wearing Matilda Jane because I was being more original and making my own outfit not a set.I got pretty much last place.I did my hair and everything while the other girls curled their hair and maybe just put a headband.I don’t do pageants anymore because of this because sometimes it depends on the judges and who’s parent is who and politics.It truly isn’t fair and it made me feel like I have had a jealousy problem when really it was realistic for someone to think that.(This is my dads acc bc I can’t have my own I’m a girl so I know how it feels, have a great day!)

@oliver18754oliverwarders 2 жыл бұрын

Things like this is a valuable lesson for everyone everywhere to be very picky before you help anyone. Take a long time before you trust anyone even a little bit and before you help them.

@keyheafam 4 жыл бұрын

Omg the Indiana lady lives in my area and I did the same pageant

@NeoMikey 4 жыл бұрын

Wherever you are in life, just continue to dance. You've got this.

@sonam7453 3 жыл бұрын

We need part 2

@uslqq1627 4 жыл бұрын

I LUV THESE VIDSSS

@choisoobin2469 4 жыл бұрын

This is how many people knew them when they were the Boldly ⬇️

@Goldenbrii 4 жыл бұрын

The reason she won is because she decided to persevere even after her entire outfit fell apart and i think that’s great tbh

@mcnoneya 4 жыл бұрын

Snapsnap2413 i was thinking the same thing. These things are all about leadership qualities.. plus good looks 🙄. But yea I can definitely see that helping her. She didn’t give up when things got tough.

@aldc1697 4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations, I made this comment exactly 600 likes

@mariyahhhhz 3 жыл бұрын

6:05 I CRACKED UP PLEASEEE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rubybjorklund8630 4 жыл бұрын

who else loves these videos!!

@SuchAClassicGirl-dx2ip 3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh a local! Hey hey from Roanoke!

@crashvds777 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been in a pageant twice Both times was in the hospital about 3 days prior I think that maybe they’re not for me

@Sandhyavijayasayee 4 жыл бұрын

Watching this after finishing insatiable series ....

@demonchild6749 4 жыл бұрын

On the last story, you got high marks because you continued to problem solve while you had the problem hanging over you, thats a talent right there!

@finnmurphy1480 4 жыл бұрын

Please provide captions for future videos.

@laylasasa7905 4 жыл бұрын

Omg i love this channel!

@kcl060 4 жыл бұрын

Boy, it's a cold, cold world in the pageant community. I'm good the girls all rallied to protect the one against the bully.

@lin5840 4 жыл бұрын

At 4:22 she reminds me of Anne Hathaway

@joannafyfe2535 4 жыл бұрын

The second girl reminds me of Colleen Ballinger so much

@graceelizabeth130 4 жыл бұрын

Joanna Fyfe oh my god me too!!

@shinylittlegoldfish 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, both are wildly unlikeable!

@user-hb3qv1eh5e 4 жыл бұрын

You don’t need a crown to be queen 👑 But if you like doing pageants, keep doing your thing! 💓 Gosh, I wouldn’t win😂 Cuz I can’t walk in heels, But I still love myself! 💕 And that love is real! Believe in yourself, you can get what you want! 😘 Whatever you got, don’t be afraid to flaunt! 😁

@christinamann3640 Жыл бұрын

Keep calm and dance on

@divyashenoy9918 4 жыл бұрын

Ashna had been in dhar mann s videos .. i love him and she is so beautiful

@hamnaiqbal761 4 жыл бұрын

Omg Ashna was in Dhar Man's videos

@poulomi__hari 4 жыл бұрын

Throw in some jewllery when you don't have time to finish your makeup...

@g0rg0n31 4 жыл бұрын

YAS QUEEN literally queen, I like horror TwT Maybe thats why im lonely

@emmymarlene5022 4 жыл бұрын

Maybe it’s cause you can’t spell literally

@g0rg0n31 4 жыл бұрын

Ya that’s right

@jessicazeller8060 4 жыл бұрын

I have so many pageant horror stories...

@chloe5196 4 жыл бұрын

And that’s on Patty Bladdel

@Jiddy12345 4 жыл бұрын

Roanoke!!

@christinesmith1827 4 жыл бұрын

Represent! :)

@astarlitwishforyou 4 жыл бұрын

As a dancer, I can confirm that Bollywood girl absolutely did the right thing! The first rule of any performance art is that *everything* you do onstage is intentional. Scarf falls off? Novelty costume choice. Shoe comes undone? It's so you can see my feet better. Smile, improv, convince them you meant to do that. So when you make a mistake you absolutely _cannot_ stop, or run off, and you _must_ perform to the end. I know keeping a smile on whilst internally keyboard smashing in panic must have been difficult-- kudos for getting through and for your win!!

@luhvly4695 4 жыл бұрын

So you know the first girl, isn't she an actor for Dhar Mann?

@lilasianboi9820 4 жыл бұрын

god the second girl was gorgeous 🥺🤩

@AmeliaRosalinaTheHedgehog 4 жыл бұрын

That never happened to me before

@undercoverfro 4 жыл бұрын

I had a beach photoshoot and one girl told me my hair was getting too frizzy/thick from the humidity. Then she said ‘here, I’ll fix it’ and she dunked my head into the water.. lol

@Runzi333 3 жыл бұрын

Not telling newer contestants stuff should actually disqualify you from participating. It shouldn't be a backstabbing contest and when it is things get awful really fast.

@coolturtle6286 4 жыл бұрын

Why didn’t the first girl just change quickly?

@yasmin4281 4 жыл бұрын

unless it’s a sports event, how can you be dressing casual in a PAGEANT??? 😂😂😂😂 literally 99.95% of your score is looking beautiful 😂

@sammypickering3125 4 жыл бұрын

Tyra and you’re 110% wrong 😂

@yasmin4281 4 жыл бұрын

sammy pickering lets be real tho 😂

@sammypickering3125 4 жыл бұрын

Tyra I’ve competed in pageants for years and I can tell you that you are completely wrong. These girls who compete work their butts off preping for months to have 3 minutes on stage. But you’ll just laugh at this reply so I don’t know why I’m trying. If you actually want to talk about this then dm me on I say @_samantha_pickering 🤷‍♀️

@shivani2152 4 жыл бұрын

My jaw dropped when she said she’s from Roanoke Valley... ME TOO

@sadem1045 4 жыл бұрын

4:11 I'm a Purchase Alumni. How 'bout that.

@bunnylacy2097 3 жыл бұрын

Something I learned from pageants is casual is always dressed up so formal is full glitz Lol.

@jamiedavis1824 4 жыл бұрын

Me listening to this like bedtime stories

@math_plant 3 жыл бұрын

Me realising I would probably do good in pageant events cause I overdress for everything

@vtheteenagewitch 4 жыл бұрын

Omg they are vicious

@emmadorman2343 4 жыл бұрын

I had clip on earrings and my ear turned red and swollen but I got first place

@trinityausby1870 4 жыл бұрын

U could of brought a second dress and shoe and bring extra makeup and some hair stuff and went to the bathroom and change when u got to the place to picnic

@rabiamalik7743 4 жыл бұрын

6:06 she sounds like maranda sings hahahahahaaaahhhh😂😂😨😵

@ujeifk55 4 жыл бұрын

The pink jacket girl really (to me) lookes like the girl from dhar mann

@myragroenewegen5426 4 жыл бұрын

This makeup mirror story is everyone's worst nightmare in any competition. But also, the competition kind of set up situations that could lead to confrontation. The role of looks and aesthetic presentation in these competitions has always been out of proportion and controversial and it's the one area where time and resources are never really equal at the outset. Create more unexpected tension than already there about how long people have to get ready and you could be throwing lots of people under the bus. The malicious contestant should have been thrown out. But ,as with the picnic situation, people have all tried so hard-- Maybe these women have hurt themselves so many times to play this kind of zero-sum game already that rationalize hurting each other. Things like a picnic that's really just for the pictures or organizers making access to makeup mirrors more difficult plays into inherent tensions. I'd have imagined some people would practically sleep at their makeup mirrors, when beauty and upkeep has these kinds of stakes.