Becky's First Mother's Day! | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 197

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2 ай бұрын

How the Habersbergers are celebrating Mother's Day plus some Next Door posts hee hee
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Executive Producer | Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer | Eugene Lee Yang
Executive Producer | Zach Kornfeld
Podcast Producer | Rainie Toll
Audio Engineer | Jonathan Kirk
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@michellegargaro6365 2 ай бұрын

idk if anyone commented this but the 20-30 different fruits and veggie study also included whole grains, legumes, lentils, and spices :)

@victoria139 2 ай бұрын

Becky! The placenta gets biopsied to check for any issues that Henry could have later. So if the placenta ever had an infection or there was an issue with blood flow then you know to watch Henry for some specific issues later so they can be diagnosed and dealt with earlier than if you didn't know. Sometimes it's standard procedure in a hospital but it's probably cause he was a preemie and they're just being super cautious.

@heather9992 2 ай бұрын

Henny is already Eating the Menu!

@motherj1208 2 ай бұрын

My mil is amazing. My mother not so forgiving. As a mom in the trenches, I get it. When my kids have children, on Mother's day I will celebrate them and show support to them as I understand how difficult motherhood is. Welcome to club, I'm here for you.

@shelbyhanysh984 2 ай бұрын

Our rule is mom's with under 18 is priority and over 18 is up to you. We try to get everyone (all in laws included) in one place when we do something.

@julinelson1775 2 ай бұрын

Mother's Day when I was a kid, both sets of grandparents & us went out for a meal. That one no one cooks and everyone was able to see each other.

@MrNayuhinoka 2 ай бұрын

We Japanese eat Tofu raw. Super normal. Soft silky tofu with scallion, ginger and soy sauce is a common Japanese dish. It's so hard to find good tofu in north america though. I miss good quality tofu so much.

@onlyonefag 2 ай бұрын

soft tofu is so yummy! my brother did an internship in japan for a few months and he always tells me about how delicious and high quality the tofu was and all the different types!

@helmickkm 2 ай бұрын

I had a neighbor post on Nextdoor that “a person” was eating her pumpkins that were on her porch in October 2022. She posted pictures and it was clear a squirrel was the culprit, and no matter what anyone else said, she was ADAMANT that it was a person nibbling on her pumpkins.

@janellet8003 2 ай бұрын

Grandparents should be the one to commute to see the grandchildren on Mother’s Day. Especially if they have young children

@jennyhursey80 2 ай бұрын

There is Grandparents’ Day. It’s in September. There’s also Grandmother’s Day (October) & Grandfather’s Day (January). To me, a “mom in the trenches” is every mom. All stages of parenting are hard, yet rewarding, in their own ways. If I become a grandma, my focus on Mother’s Day will the mother(s) of my grandkid(s).

@rinq04 2 ай бұрын

just wanted to say the person you talk about in the beginning of the episode who makes the “the craziest thing about being creative” videos actually uses they/them pronouns :)

@kaylapotter2024 2 ай бұрын

To the The Try ladies that are mothers: you are incredible mamas, you matter & you are loved 🩷

@megster5432 2 ай бұрын

It's pretty normal for placentas to get sent off for testing after birth but I don't know why they didn't just tell you that to begin with. It's to check for a few things sometimes but not abnormal. Wild they didn't tell you out right or put that on your bill

@fastblood19 2 ай бұрын

Hearing about the bills after giving birth in the US will never not shock me

@michikomanalang6733 2 ай бұрын

42:17 “This one has, like, eyes.” “All lobsters have eyes, Becky.”

@marcushaslam5861 2 ай бұрын

The "doven" crossover episode we were all waiting for.

@b_ford72 2 ай бұрын

Happy Mother’s Day 🌷. I think it makes sense mothers who have children in their home still need a little more care than mothers with no children in the home/adult children but 🤷🏻‍♂️

@justsophia22 2 ай бұрын

My son absolutely only tried hot dogs after seeing Mickey Mouse eat them so Becky is definitely onto something 😂

@hiVanderLinden Ай бұрын

Me & my sister begged our mom to make us a peanut butter & banana sandwich because we saw Face (nickelodeon) say it was his favorite sandwich I hated it but I did try it 🤷‍♀️

@MyNameIs21Characters 2 ай бұрын

Omg so early !! I love you all I’ve been listening since EP in Covid you guys help so many people out I was a freshman in nursing school graduating this year! Happy Mother’s Day to all

@innermoppet3378 2 ай бұрын

Someone who has a child in the house under 18 is the one who decides how to spend the day. It's like usually once a kid is old enough to know what xmas is, is the year you start celebrating xmas morning in your own house. Up to then most people i know travel to family for xmas, usually whichever in laws were not seen at Thanksgiving but once a kid knows Santa, nope. Xmas morning is in the child's house.

@riribeasley4741 2 ай бұрын

0:49 Becky was so real for that 😭

@Moonlight1991_ 2 ай бұрын

will Matt be staying on the pod, even if Eugene is leaving?

@carriewilkinson8315 2 ай бұрын

We lived over five hours away from both grandparents and our kids were their only grandchildren. We would just celebrate whenever we could. We just moved a hour away, unfortunately my parents have both passed. This year we did Mother’s Day the day before at my in-laws.

@FlagCutie 2 ай бұрын

Happy Mother's Day Becks!!!

@Sakana_Ren 2 ай бұрын

Similar thing happened to me. Before my second surgery, I pre-paid for everything: surgeon, anesthesiologist, hospital overhead, hospital lab, etc. So, a few weeks later, I got a bill from the lab. I called to find out why. They explained that they had to send the samples to a different lab to get lab results. >.>

@krm1797 2 ай бұрын

The best way I see to make everyone happy for Mother’s Day: Dad takes baby to his moms while you go have lunch with your mom, your mom then comes over or dad comes with baby to moms mom and grandma watches baby while dad and mom go get dinner. That way each mom feels celebrated and everyone gets a little slice of baby time.

@FlagCutie 2 ай бұрын

OH MY GOSH DERRY GIRLS SHOUT OUT!!! Yes, Nicola and Jonathan Bailey are fantastic!

@honoluluw 2 ай бұрын

39:27 these nextdoor posts killed me

@AvoryFaucette 2 ай бұрын

omg Gracias Madre! I used to love going there in the Mission in SF, but I had no idea they also had an LA location. Super om nom.

@jmason1770 2 ай бұрын

I'm not a baker but I have successfully made bread several times using Maangchi's Fluffy homemade bread (Ppang: 빵만들기) recipe. It's not a difficult recipe and does not require a starter. Regarding the Instant Pot, I used a wooden spoon to a quick release. I love making yogurt with it! I'm on Next Door but I don't comment. I use it mainly for crime alerts, service recommendations and community info.

@jtkelley1873 2 ай бұрын

How does Matt eat so much food including tons of chips and still be a chiseled buff stud?!?!

@msCytrynka 2 ай бұрын

In Poland we have grandma and grandpa days in january so we don't have that problem 😁

@cinthiajimenez8143 2 ай бұрын

Happy Mother's Day

@ivylasangrienta6093 2 ай бұрын

I don't consider myself in the trenches, with an adult child. I'm out here living my best life!

@breejeanne 2 ай бұрын

Raw tofu is my son's favorite food, he eats it daily! 😂

@sophiekuhn5342 2 ай бұрын

I agree Becky, season 2 of bridgerton is sooo much better and i can’t wait for season 3 tomorrow

@abbylynne9798 2 ай бұрын

The conflict in the first season was so uncomfortable 😬

@sophiekuhn5342 2 ай бұрын

@@abbylynne9798 yeah it was cringe

@Namite0001 2 ай бұрын

you can eat tofu raw! it's one of my fave things

@musicorthemiseryxxo 2 ай бұрын

Any issue I have with a retailer that I think *might* be a problem, I usually am like “hey, who’s the manager” because honestly they’re the only ones who get paid enough to deal with that 😂 but also Becky, there’s nothing wrong with asking for things as long as you’re nice!

@edcdad1124 2 ай бұрын

Cooked tofu well seasoned is great

@dannimalsholderbro 2 ай бұрын

There is such a thing as Grandparents Day - its in September!

@iakopatton 2 ай бұрын

Here’s my take on this whole Mother’s day debate: where are the husbands, brothers, sons, and non-moms in all this? Okay, yeah I fully support new moms not wanting to drive an hour to for their mother to see their grandkids or have the task of hosting. And I also see grandmothers being upset by feeling sidelined. So why aren’t other people (their spouses and non-moms) taking on these roles. I think this “debate” speaks more to how much pressure moms feel and all the things they’re expected to do, even on a day meant for them, but I’m also not a mom so what do I know lol

@elizabethp7254 Ай бұрын

We host mothers and fathers day. We grill out yall come to us. We live here babies and kids stuff is here so everyone comes here

@Sakana_Ren 2 ай бұрын

Totally agree. Children should give presents to mom, not only on Mother's Day, but on their own birthday. @MexicanSamurai100 have made videos showing his son giving his mother presents on his birthday.

@AznBeachGirl 2 ай бұрын

My son went to toddler formula once/twice a day after 1 to fill in the gaps

@ruthcat6017 2 ай бұрын

Omg we celebrated my mil a day early 2 years ago, it just worked out best for all her kids, and i will never forget how miserable and guilty she made me feel on mother's day that year because we went to see my mom. Once we have kids, I will not be going anywhere on mother's day.

@ednasierra1083 2 ай бұрын

55:23 😮 I wouldn’t eat some stranger person cooking

@Sakana_Ren 2 ай бұрын

Tbh, tofu depends on how it's prepared. If it's eaten as is, then I could see the "ICK!" factor. However, it can be grilled, sautéed, in soups, etc. If you're into spicy, then I highly recommend mapo tofu. Tofu takes on whatever sauce it's cooked with. When you eat mapo tofu, then you taste the sauce not the tofu. Just sayin'

@elizabethp7254 Ай бұрын

Mom in the trenches is anyone with a kid under 18.

@asunbeam5479 2 ай бұрын

i think the issue i have with the phrase "moms in the trenches" is that there are genuinely people in trenches in the midst of war, bombings, genocide

@sohnilasyagunnam7388 2 ай бұрын

Akk

@bethyboop9327 2 ай бұрын

I don't understand why moms are the ones planning and coordinating mothers day? It should be the non birthing parent figuring everything out.

@malcolm_tito 2 ай бұрын

first yayy

@jdboy2000 2 ай бұрын

There is a Grandparent's day. I say Mother's Day is for the youngest mom in the cycle of matriarchy. Meaning if you have a child who has no children, you are the one celebrated on Mother's Day. Once your child has their own child you are no longer celebrated.

@joyoftessa 2 ай бұрын

4th

@user-uh6jm8hd5l 2 ай бұрын

Vegan Runner: "I hate to be the stereotype." Oh but you are. Costco Lady not everybody can. Let the child play in their backyard it good from them. Bee lady 😬 What I hear I may want to stay off Next Door.

@bug.me.with.a.caterpie 2 ай бұрын

Love how the two white women grill Matt on being a Karen... Check yourself 💀

@aliflanagan7669 2 ай бұрын

I mean...Becky was literally in retail, I'm pretty sure she can judge a Karen 😂

@aliflanagan7669 2 ай бұрын

Matt kind of sounds like an asshole customer on the phone 😂 they're not trying to trick you man, they don't get paid enough for that shit 😂

@bug.me.with.a.caterpie 2 ай бұрын

@@aliflanagan7669 All white women become Karens. And by defending white women you are proving my point. Women of color are the true heros in this world.

@stopbeingdicks 2 ай бұрын

@@bug.me.with.a.caterpie⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this is a weird take lol. Women of color are absolutely heros. But if your point is that all white women are Karens, someone disagreeing with that point doesn’t prove it…like unless they were a white woman being a Karen about it. but simply disagreeing doesn’t equal being a Karen…right? all I see is someone disagreeing with your point and instead of rightfully logically defending yourself (which def could have been done, like I said, woc are 100% heros, there is 100% a correlation between white women and karens, etc.), you swung and missed right past a good argument lol