Becoming A Spiritually & Mentally Healthy Mother

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@mamamlk 6 ай бұрын

I have learned that having a space that is "mine" is extremely beneficial on chaotic days. Our children are not allowed in our bedroom unless they ask permission. This leaves our room tidy, toy free and quiet. Whenever I am feeling overwhelmed I am able to escape to that place even if it's for a single moment and reset.

@jocemunozx 6 ай бұрын

I’m 27 with 3 under 3 and i honestly can’t tell you how much the Lord is speaking through you. Thank you Milena ❤

@Simplelivingslowliving 6 ай бұрын

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@heathermcdill7697 6 ай бұрын

I have been very focused on the hard parts of motherhood lately and my motto for this year is “I can either get better or get bitter” when it comes to hardships

@lifeinlilac161 6 ай бұрын

Hi sweet Milena! I just wanted you to know I have been binging your videos lately and you are truly someone who does wonderful work for the Lord. Youur videos, especially regarding marriage and children, are really helping me. I'm a almost 43 year old Mama of four and I wish I would have had someone like you in my life when I was younger. I can only pray that my daughters will grow up to be like you and my son will want to marry someone like you 💜 Take care, sweetheart and much love!

@daniellereijnierse1562 5 ай бұрын

Same 😍🥹 I LOVE watching such inspirational video’s of her 🤍

@Kaileycupcakes 4 ай бұрын

I’m 21, not yet married or with children but she has opened my eyes and ears so much. She is such a great example. ❤

@jeslovesjesus 5 ай бұрын

Milena you are ✨GLOWING✨ As a single mom, I really appreciate the encouragement. ❤

@Soulsuitcase 6 ай бұрын

Milena, could you please do a video about biblical discipline and how you strive to follow it personally in your home? God bless 🤍

@daniellawhittaker5542 6 ай бұрын

I love your point about following well seasoned mothers and not always consuming the more “relatable videos” 💕💕👏🙏🥰

@SimplySami13 6 ай бұрын

God’s perfect timing!! i’m a new mom (2 weeks postpartum) and it’s been a struggle trying to find time with the Lord and i needed this encouragement today ❤

@thelearninghomemaker 6 ай бұрын

God’s timing is so perfect!! I NEEDED this encouragement!!! Thank you so much for walking in obedience, Milena!!☺️🫶🏻

@madisonmaricle9265 6 ай бұрын

I was about to say the same! God is so good ❤

@sierrala9903 6 ай бұрын

I'm only 8 minutes in but I needed to comment! This is spot on with everything I have been going through. I've realized that I have been an unhappy, frustrated mother due to being overstimulated and in a constant battle with a 4 year old that doesn't listen. God has been showing me the areas that need mending and these points are exactly what I've been focusing on. Thank you for this video. Spot on. I'm excited to see change made and to be in a joyful mood again. 💗✨

@nataliadamascena 6 ай бұрын

Samson's sleeping and snoring quietly in the background was so adorable!! 😆🤍

@laemaollennu3076 5 ай бұрын

I was looking for this 🤣🥹😍

@bereniced2494 5 ай бұрын

It's Dalila though 🤭✨

@mrsverovalera 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for this Milena. Nothing has ever made me feel closer to God than bringing my 3 children into this world and trying to raise them in the way that he expects of us. I still have so much space to learn and grow and I thank you for sharing this with us.

@Cng0411 6 ай бұрын

Yes!! I’ve learned i cannot, not eat lunch or breakfast. I have to eat something, even if i don’t get to breakfast, i need to eat a lunch and vise versa. i noticed when 5pm hit, i just was so irritable.. but also started realizing i was hangry & needed to fuel up!! Lesson learned.

@mary-kate9165 6 ай бұрын

Not a mom, but thinking about family planning soon. This helps me a lot with thinking about what life will be like with kids. Thank you for reframing my mindset ❤

@mommyjaslynn 6 ай бұрын

Oh oh milena I really needed this 💓

@kimberlyperez5173 6 ай бұрын

Sis you’re glowing! 🥰 So Beautiful. You’re definitely someone I look up to, 🤍

@karlieprozanski8250 6 ай бұрын

Wonderful encouragement ❤thank you fellow sister and mama

@vitalykhvar4568 6 ай бұрын

You are a blessing!! Your glowing!! God bless you!

@bettinak.4 6 ай бұрын

I can't wait for your wisdom on this!!!! I have to wait until tomorrow

@cschultzy 6 ай бұрын

Omg. Pure excitement to see a new video... please don't stop. Ever. ❤ we just love and appreciate you!

@stephanieo8925 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for these:) the key words help me. To love and teach. For my kids to play and obey. So so helpful. And about the hard days… whew that was such a good perspective.. I have a lot of those days with four little kids and it’s so hard for me and I beat myself up a lot. But I know I apologize to them and we make amends and move on. It’s just hard to move on. But this is encouraging to hear this perspective♥️

@KatieVision. 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. What you spoke in your video has been a wake-up call for me. I have been viewing motherhood from such a worldly stance. I am pregnant and expecting a daughter in a short while. I have found myself looking to mothers on social media sharing their journeys and more often than not they only share their struggles and the burdens of childbirth and children. Thank you for shedding light on what God’s word says about children and parenthood. I have turned my attention back to the Bible and I pray I would seek wisdom there first before any other resource. Thank you for sharing the truth through your platform ❤

@jesusiskingofmyheart 6 ай бұрын

loved this video, as always. thank you for sharing this piece of wisdom with us. God bless you sister 💓

@jessicajohnson3196 6 ай бұрын

What a beautiful message❤

@michelleannaaao 6 ай бұрын

so many good words in this video! I dont have children yet, but I do have 2 German shepherds, 8 years & 1.5 years old, & it's so true that you set the tone. Even w dog training, (not that human children are anything like dog children), if you come at your dogs annoyed & short tempered they will not understand why or what you want from them! I think that even extends to relationships with our friends, family, neighbors. The world around us. Being intentional & self-aware can be so humbling at times! Thank you for sharing

@astridmendes9947 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Milena. Everything that you have said is just so CORRECT ❤

@chelseaweisensel9921 6 ай бұрын

Love this! Thank you for the works of wisdom it’s truly from the Lord✨

@Noturbasikbeautyxo 6 ай бұрын

I love when you do these videos Milena. ❤ I feel they are so encouraging and helpful! I have a 2.5 year old and most of what you mentioned resonated with me. Now that I’m a mother I have found that not over consuming social media has been so helpful. There is definitely so much negativity between mothers online it’s so sad. Living in the PRESENT, TRUSTING God and relying on him on top of doing what I believe is best for my child and family has been the best advice.

@shaunafarrington 23 күн бұрын

I need to say that the Lord used you in this video in so many ways for me today. First was 1 Timothy 2:15- I read that this morning and The Holy Spirit really spoke to me through it and you confirmed it. Also, I have an 11 month old and a 2 year old. Me and my husband are in the roommate stage right now and we actually had a really long talk this morning about it, about how we can fix it. And of course the enemy really got in my head saying this is the beginning of a failed marriage. But God. The part where you said the order things are supposed to be in, child of God, wife, then mother… I really put my role as a mother first before everything. So I wanted to say thank you for your obedience in this video.

@katie5513 5 ай бұрын

So beautiful and encouraging 💞

@MommyMinistry 6 ай бұрын

Milena! I’ve just downloaded The Full Armor of God study and have only made it through you and Nava’s intro and I’m already encouraged, uplifted and on guard!🙌🏾 I am going to do my best and follow your suggestion of reading one chapter a week!😅 I am so thankful for your willingness to obey Holy Spirit’s leading in creating this! It is so needed in my life at this very moment! Thank you so much for your Yes to God and the sacrifice to pour out so much wisdom and truth! Love and prayers for the both of you and your beautiful families!💕💕💕

@lazycow001 5 ай бұрын

I'm so glad I clicked this video. I'm definitely I'm a season that feels heavy. We just welcomed our third little blessing last November. Since then things have not gone how I had visioned. I have been humbly put in place. I am not in control of my life, but I can work to make our circumstances better and easier to live with. I'm definitely a high strung mom and thank you for using thar term. I needed that.

@SewwithLiebe 5 ай бұрын

I can’t believe the transformation the Lord has worked in you since I started following you postpartum with your second born. Your softness and gentleness and Christ-like joy is unmistakable and so inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤

@alysiam3559 6 ай бұрын

Wow I really needed this! I’ve been struggling mentally and reading Gods word everyday has been changing everything for the better❤ I love what you said about trusting God and not trying to do it all yourself, or protect your child from something. And we need to be more proactive about date nights. We don’t ever do those /:

@elizabethmcgrath537 6 ай бұрын

Awesome! Good timing :) thank you :)

@EstefaniaMitchell 5 ай бұрын

Perfect timing for this video!! I shared it with all my friends 😍

@snjezanasnjezana8332 5 ай бұрын

I will just say.... What a great topic, great content and great words. Love it, yes I find myself in many mention stuff. Such a greatful video.❤️

@itsmejanii 6 ай бұрын

this video came just in time 🙏🏼❤️

@elisedowden20 5 ай бұрын

this is so so beautiful. the part about you repenting and being an incredible beautiful witness to your children made me tear up bc I can relate to a T. thank you Milena so much.

@tressawoods 6 ай бұрын

The dog snoring 😂😂

@kimacker8594 6 ай бұрын

Milena, thank you for this. You have such a beautiful way of explaining how we are to live to be obedient to God. I learned also that it is very important to put God first, then my husband and then the children. You are correct, things will not flow and go correctly if not in that order.

@ambercristan3765 6 ай бұрын

Timing is always right with your videos ❤

@carsonreeves2943 6 ай бұрын

These videos always come at the perfect time, thank you, Holy Spirit 🙌🏻 thank you, Milena! You are a such a blessing 🫶🏼 praying for you and your family❤

@wellnesswithsammi 2 ай бұрын

You always have such beautiful words Milena🫶

@Molg4989 5 ай бұрын

You nailed this more than I ever could have imagined!

@173paige 6 ай бұрын

Im so happy when Milena uploads 🥰 Feels like having a chat with a friend & also feeling encouraged at the end of the videos ❤ Thank you for your patient endurance of serving the LORD Milena ❤❤❤❤

@shaelynbrooke6306 6 ай бұрын

loved this! thank you 😊

@MegaTelenovela 5 ай бұрын

I love this Milena ❤thank you and thank God for you 🙏🏼

@nataliadamascena 6 ай бұрын

I'm not a mother yet, but I aspire to have a beautiful family like yours someday! I love listening and learning more about God through your life. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Milena! I'm always excited whenever you upload. May God continue to bless you and your family! Sending you lots of love from Brazil xx

@madalynewilliams6680 6 ай бұрын

I needed this❤

@chrisses99 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Lord for speaking to me through this video, also thank you Milena, following you here on yt has been such a blessing to me!

@jennarobinson9086 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for posting this! I am pregnant with my third baby and sometimes feel like I fall short with the other two definitely was trying in my own strength. So this was encouraging to remember to rely on the lord ❤

@Dana-mb1hd 5 ай бұрын

Milena ❤ thank you for this video it is definitely one of my favorites of yours. I’ve watched you grow beautifully over the years and I look up to you in many ways ❤. PS my dog is one of my triggers as well during nap time!

@theasianjenn 2 ай бұрын

I’m not even a mom yet, and I loved this video and message. Thanks so much for sharing! ❤😊

@elizabethnichole4094 5 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this Thank you so much

@sarahburchill1342 5 ай бұрын

You are such a blessing for mama's like myself, Milena. ❤

@malindashumpert7956 6 ай бұрын

This is the video that I needed today aftera long day of studying and resuming back tomorrow ❤

@BrianaArnao 6 ай бұрын

This is so encouraging 🤍

@alychiriboga2511 6 ай бұрын

You have the best content for families and mothers. I truly feel like the Holy Spirit is working within you. Bless you and your family. Thank you for this ❤

@ErinNicole617 6 ай бұрын

Holy Spirit filled as usual, great video 💖

@cheyenne7300 5 ай бұрын

I absolutely loved this video. I have 2 kiddos under 2. Definitely felt the Lord's presence during this video. Thank you 💗

@claudiaortega9036 16 күн бұрын

Wow Milena. 21:45- 25:20 really spoke to me. The Lord always speaks to me through you because I respect your advice and opinions. Thank you Jesus 🙏🏻 thank you sister!

@ciarajohannessen204 5 ай бұрын

One of the best videos you ever created, PERIOD.

@amandawilson712 5 ай бұрын

What a blessing this was to me

@lizzyweiglein5041 6 ай бұрын

Oh my… God this was you. You brought this video to me when I needed it so much. Thank you Lord Jesus🥺Milena you are such an amazing servant and disciple❤️

@leahgillette7508 6 ай бұрын

Perfect timing! I just love your videos Milena!! I am watching this while breastfeeding my 1st! He was born last week🥰

@Anariin 6 ай бұрын

I LOVED the snoring dog on the background! 🥰😇

@Everycloudgold 6 ай бұрын

Great timing Milena! I just found out I’m pregnant with number 2 and my baby girl is only 10 months and I think I had the baby blues. I really need this ❤

@gaylevonholt 6 ай бұрын

Supporting each other as Moms in a spiritual way is so important.

@EmilyGS31 4 ай бұрын

I want to say that I love how you can hear your dog snoring during this video! Haha its a great background noise 😊 A peaceful sound! Love your videos, I just found you- thank you for your Biblical content!

@kateatkins8778 6 ай бұрын

Just wanted to leave a comment saying that I tried to watch all videos on your channel and went way back and for some reason those old ones just didn't resonate with me. I don't know what exactly was the reason but something just wasn't there. Meanwhile right now I can't skip a video of yours no matter the topic (I'm not even a mam now but still watched this one with full attention). Just wanted to say that your channel changed so much from early days and that change is beautiful and astonishing. And same happened to your appearance, woman, that stile of yours right now is top class and I'm so here for it!❤

@marissamann9450 6 ай бұрын

I’m a new mom with a two month old little girl. This video is really helpful because my husband and I have noticed that we have to try a lot harder to prioritize our marriage during this busy time. Keeping God in our marriage and new role as parents is not easy but so important!

@syotos03 6 ай бұрын

I really enjoy your videos. Thanks for sharing your insight!! I would love if you could reference the Scriptures you refer to, and if possible the study you referenced about how the parents relationship effects the kids. Thanks :)

@ASMR_TheCrunchyOne 6 ай бұрын

Hi Milena. Thank you so much for your content. I wondered if you could speak to fear surrounding current events. I am reading the word more & praying lots but i still feel fear and i would love to experience the peace that passes all understanding but i find it hard. thank you x

@ASMR_TheCrunchyOne 6 ай бұрын

Also very random but advice around bedtime boundaries as it is such a stressful process for us and takes so long so date nights are hard as much as i would love to implement them

@jessicasmith1417 6 ай бұрын

THE VIDEO I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!! So excited, and so proud that you use your gifts for the Lord❤ keep it up, sister!!

@aixabal 6 ай бұрын

Milena, could you do a video on how you navigate through social media fasts? I struggle in this area and have been battling with comparison and feeling easily influenced. God bless ♥️

@angel-fk6rn 6 ай бұрын

though i am close to milena in age, she is definitely like a spiritual auntie of some sorts, or a big sister that i can look to for guidance and inspiration as a young Christian girl/woman growing in the Lord. 💕 & sadly, she has people trying to go against her, and trying to pick her apart daily, but i know the Lord is doing a great work through her and i am thankful to know of her and have Christian influencers like this to look to for guidance.

@mickh6684 6 ай бұрын

I think of triggers as challenges. Something is challenging me and it’s something that I can practice and get better at and eventually overcome.

@leilacamuslamnaouar 4 ай бұрын

I would love a video on honoring parents!

@Nicole-jz8yd 6 ай бұрын

I feel “triggered” by my dogs’ barking as well. With babies that cry, toys that make sound, dogs barking, etc. it is very over stimulating. I’m getting so much encouragement from your videos to make changes to make our home peaceful 😊

@jaquelynfelix3412 5 ай бұрын

I love your videos 😊❤

@bethburleson6684 6 ай бұрын

oof. conviction about honoring parents... yike

@chelsaecathey7395 6 ай бұрын

I’ve just come across your channel and I’ve been binging!! I’m not sure if you’ve already covered this, but could you talk about how you study the Bible?

@bettinahaller7987 5 ай бұрын

I love your videos, they're full of Gods wisdom and brought me so much closer to what me being a wife should look like. Such a blessing! Thank you! Could you do a video about how to raise your children to "play and obey"? I have the feeling, with all the positive choice I let my children have (gentle parenting e.g.) I still want my children to respect me and I want to have the final word...but sometimes I don't know how (mine are 4,5y and 2y)

@TV-tg3wx 6 ай бұрын

It’s calming. Thanks I am currently expecting baby number 4 too btw very at the beginning but i am constantly thinking that it will be hard and sort feeling scared. Do u think you can make a video of thoughts about having 3+ kids just curious of your mindset about it

@ourwildflowerhaus 6 ай бұрын

what a beautiful video! thank you for posting this 🤍

@renevanzyl7084 6 ай бұрын

Paul refers to the torn in his flesh. Though he did not use the word trigger, it does indicate that he had a stumbling block or issue that caused him to sin. Triggers are those stumbling blocks that cause you to sin. Example: I am grumpy when tired, and therefore, my trigger is not having adequate rest and then sinning when I am overly grumpy with my kids. Loved to hear what others think. Kind regards

@narrowpathfarm 6 ай бұрын

God is doing an amazing work in you

@mjalphonse 5 ай бұрын

Great video Milena! Also, does anyone know where the kitty came from? I thought their new kitty was orange?

@amylouise6387 6 ай бұрын

I am taking a short break while my children play (so only watched the first half of the video so far), but this is great advice! Thank you :) I do have a question on honouring our parents - my mother was abusive with a lot of mental health issues, and abandoned us when I was a child. When I became born again in my late teens, I chose to forgive her (which is an ongoing process for me), and after lots of effort was able to find an address for her. We exchanged letters for a while, but I could see that she was still a very damaged person and the letters caused so much pain for me. Eventually, she just stopped writing back to me. While a part of me felt that rejection all over again, a part of me was relieved. I have had no contact with her for about ten years now. I love her, but don't want her in mine or my family's life. I need to protect my children, and don't trust her. But I sometimes wonder, am I dishonouring her in my actions, by not pursuing a relationship with her? Thank you if you are able to read this.

@sxtaos 5 ай бұрын

I’m in a very similar circumstance. I have to just keeping praying on it, reading his word. For me it’s not speaking Ill of my mother when she’s not around, however to not have a personal relationship with her as it effects everyone, me and my family. It’s still a process for me so I would advise you to keep praying

@miroslabarosas701 6 ай бұрын

I been LOVING this new Milena ♥️ today was definitely a video I needed to hear 🙏🏻 I have a question with no bad intentions but when you use the words Religion or Church how are you referring too? Like the Christian community, or specifically a religion? I’m just thrown off sometimes especially with the word ‘religion’ how now it’s being misused by many people in their speech. I can’t comprehend in what terms are they trying to use it as??

@ashb2404 6 ай бұрын

A family without order... My analogy would be like a boat wirhout a rudder... Or a sail boat with a bunch of holes in the sails.

@YelyforJesus 6 ай бұрын

Milena, wonderful video! Also I love you hair. Can you share the color I believe we have the same hair color. I want to get away from the blonde highlights and doing my hair all the time. Thank you. You look beautiful. Glowing.

@seekingtruthandcompassion1707 6 ай бұрын

We call ours movie night and have popcorn or chips and dip or dessert but if we have a baby sitter we will go for dinner and talk about all the things

@Nixie_the_Pixie 5 ай бұрын

Yes! Who is influencing you! I was literally talking to my husband the other day about how I’ve changed a lot of the media I consume to be more Christian focused. A part of me was concerned that I’d become a “Bible basher” (what a lie!) but why would I want to be influenced by the world more than I am by the family of Christ?? It was so convicting!