Becoming The Man You're Capable Of Being

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Talking points: potential, growth, mindset
We all have images of who and what we're capable of. Flashes of motivation and inspiration based on what we know deep, deep down to be true of us.
Getting from images to reality, from dreams to concrete fact, is the battle. The best one you'll ever fight. The following are simple (but not easy) steps based on years of work with men, endless hours of study, and mentorship with some amazing people.
(00:00:00) - Intro and where the challenge lies
(00:02:15) - Develop skills that matter to you, will improve your life, and improve others’ lives
(00:04:15) - Know (and take) the risk
(00:06:50) - Connect to your direct, felt experience
(00:11:37) - Express and transmit what you’re experiencing
(00:13:13) - Realize what it is you want, but pay attention to what life is saying you need
(00:14:30 ) - Pursue your fears and discomfort
(00:15:49 ) - Pay attention to your own darkness, and learn what it’s trying to teach you
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@Ajax-wo3gt 8 ай бұрын

Move your body. No matter what move you damn body. My ability to tolerate psychological pain is directly related to my ability to tolerate physical pain. My mental health and physical health have increased concurrently from the day I started the gym.

@scottland906 8 ай бұрын

I'm glad I found this channel tonight. There are hundreds of decent sized channels that discuss men issues but I have found most of them adopt Andrew Tate's or the "alpha-male" mentality. Andrew Tate is very good at diagnosing the problems modern men face (insecurity, excessive p*rn consumption, sedentary lifestyles, etc.) but his prescription for these problems is just to turn to vanity and vice. To just focus on making as much money as possible, sleeping around, etc. I'm finding that your advice is very practical and honest. I think what more young men like myself (22) need to hear is honest discussions about the struggles we face in a rational and nonjudgmental way. Good video.

@KanoShreds Ай бұрын

I really wish I would’ve come across this channel way earlier in my life

@Troy94 2 ай бұрын

This video came at the right time, I fully understand everything said in this video. I needed this, thank you.

@astaboomboom98 8 ай бұрын

I've been in the self help space a long time and mate I have to say, you have incredible content. Well balanced, deeply thought out and most importantly relevant to our nature as men and people. Keep up the great work man, loving it

@ManTalks 8 ай бұрын

Outstanding, thank you for tuning in and appreciate the kind words. Glad my work has supported you.

@Mr801guy Ай бұрын

Great list! Thank you 🙏🏻

@punkoj8263 8 ай бұрын

This Channel is so necessary right now. Give Thanks

@ManTalks 8 ай бұрын

Appreciate that

@daswars1768 Ай бұрын

I really liked the part of the shadow guiding toward character Building, an overall the video itself I quit not so far ahead to adopt all this things but I will do my best.

@dashonedj 8 ай бұрын

I'm right on the precipice of a major change in my life, a fork in the road if you will. And whether it's an ingenious algorithm, a coincidence of fantastic creators making related content, or just an alignment somewhere in the universe, there have been recurring signs over the last few days... Take the leap, be brave, do that thing you always thought was stupid but just might work. Give it a shot.

@evanavich6969 8 ай бұрын

me too, brother I wish you the best with your journey

@nathanielshapiro3603 2 ай бұрын

Really great I need to listen to this everyday until I have it memorized 😅

@sucram6262 8 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this. Thank you good sir 😎

@ManTalks 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for tuning in!

@Ja50nkAt 8 ай бұрын

Dang always hits at the right time, have a zoom interview tonight for a management position that could double my income and also get me out of my comfort zone, ready for it!

@ManTalks 8 ай бұрын

Nice man, hope it went well and you got the position!

@Burkesquest8 8 ай бұрын

That last one hit me between the eyes! 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

@Alexgomez764 2 ай бұрын

Very very impressive and important self work. Answered prayers right here. Thank you I hope u have Jesus in ur life.

@landry3341 8 ай бұрын

I love this channel, its simple and too the point without being a woman bashing red pill type of show. For a young guy working through beating porn and having self control in my mind ive learned a lot by what youve said. You are doing well!

@ManTalks 8 ай бұрын

Outstanding, glad to hear it.

@gabrielgreen9883 8 ай бұрын

Oh wow some of what u said today is badass!!!! That body experiencing is superb!!!

@mhb4998 7 ай бұрын

Been watching a bit of your videos the past couple of weeks. This one pushed me to buy your book, and I can honestly say I'm just excited to relate to ideas found in your discourse. This fact acts as fuel and provides me with the necessary meaning to press on, thank you.

@user-tl6ks9ik4o 8 ай бұрын

Love your flow and communication. Immediate subscribe, you got the gift. Thanks for the lessons

@jknock148 8 ай бұрын

Needed this bro thanks!

@ManTalks 8 ай бұрын

Glad it hit home for you

@Iamajn316 8 ай бұрын

Blessed to have Mantalks

@tatescharnberg1205 8 ай бұрын

Glad to hear this, thank you

@Hackmeat 8 ай бұрын

found so many channels on youtube but somehow you talk about the things in a diffrent way, a ways i feel more understood. Keep up the great work, you are very inspiring!

@TheZeek011 8 ай бұрын

WOW, this hit the spot.

@mattstreet4104 4 ай бұрын

Thank you man I am so glad I stumbled across your channel by accident. Really appreciate your content

@abelmore7 5 ай бұрын

Spot on. Thank you.

@trevor8983 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for the video, I love the information I’ve been given. Yes, I have been missing my body signals to my for a years. Especially, I agree with you at the part where you say that women feels that insincerity between Man and his body. It prevents you from building deep relationship not only with women, but with men as well. I will take this advices, thanks Man!

@yeyintaung9837 8 ай бұрын

Thz for your contents man,I feel like you are a big brother I never had❤

@BrianK76 8 ай бұрын

Thanks Connor - currently reading your book and was fortunate to share my story and join in on the most community Zoom call. Thanks for your content - rebuilding into Me 2.0

@ChrisPatrick8199 6 ай бұрын

This video speaks to me. Thank you so much. You articulate so damn well.

@renickpatterson4928 7 ай бұрын

Grateful for the wisdom you generously share. I’ve watched a few of your videos and they really resonate, especially this one. Thank you for what you’re doing.

@JaSouMilionario 6 ай бұрын

You are amazing bro! Cheers from Brazil

@zibanildo 4 ай бұрын

"Those who bother don't matter and those who matter don't bother"

@overdrammtic04 8 ай бұрын

Nice list

@adrianowallin 5 ай бұрын

What I didn’t like hearing was the need to connect with my inter feelings. As someone who struggles with addiction and now moving forward in life due to a medication , I feel stuck as I no longer deal with the anxiety or depression, but also know that I’m avoiding what might be real… 🤔

@wbwillie. 7 ай бұрын

Firstly, great video! Being completely genuine, it helped me clarify a lot of things. But, what do you mean on your last point? I've heard about the dark side before but mainly on using it as a fuel source for achievement.

@MuscleBandit 6 ай бұрын

If you don't bother to begin with then you can never fail - life hack 101 😂🎉🎉🎉

@mike569112 8 ай бұрын

10a of thousands? nah

@yourwindow2theworld 4 ай бұрын

Love your content. Do me a child lol (Israeli saying)

@brianp4819 7 ай бұрын

This is great content. However, I don't think its helpful to constantly relate things to wives/gfs etc. IMO this just promotes the sexuality/relationship-centric psyche that you have denounced in other vids. EVERYONE on the internet is guilty of contributing to this unhelpful and unrealistic (for many guys, especially teens like me) culture.