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I was 15 when I found you and now I am a mother wife and entrepreneur and your impact in my life are indescribable. Thank you Shan I love you

Been a fan since LAID …literally grew up seeing Shan as an older sister lol parasocial shit for over 10 years! I’m still learning from her strength and vulnerability

The turnout of the audio quality on this video might be bothering you but this is truly one of the very best. The content is wonderful. It’s great that you got your sister in to help convey this message. My newest KPI is: learn what it means to “hold space” and hold space for my loved ones, my family and friends. I want them to feel seen and heard. I got about 7 more but this emerged from watching this video and watching “couples therapy” on prime. If I get this down, I think it could be such a game changer - it could change my whole life. Sending you lots of love!

This is everything I’m going through right now. Crazy enough I saw one of Lauren’s videos the other day talking about work life balance and how there’s no such thing. And now I’m seeing this. I just quit a job as an educator because it was destroying my relationships with the people I love. I spent more time at work or thinking about work than I did anything else. I literally couldn’t function outside of my job. Rarely eating, drinking water, and I don’t even have kids!! People will try to convince you that the hard work is what matters most but I work so that I can have a life not the other way around. Thank you for talking about this Shan!! Also everything you said about continuing Ed is why I love you. You show up with facts!

I won’t leave you Shan! You’ve made such a difference in my life. Love you guys!

I admire your fascination with psychology and even more so your obsession with Esther lol. I feel the same way about you. You’ve taught me so much over the years and I’ll gladly continue to support you! Glad you’re taking care of your family. Love you Shan!

SHAN! THANK YOU!!!!! Thank you for letting us in. Thank you for letting us into what you were feeling last year. Thank you for moving through your process and laying these bricks down. Thank you for letting us back in to what you've been building. This energizes me like no other. I met you at your 2019 LA book release because it was a gift to tell you thank you for your positive impact via your reach here. Five years later, that gratitude has just multiplied. Off the top because you asked & inspired from this video ... my current goals I am weaving into/focusing/expanding this year * physically healthy * family time * passive money * education - getting my BSN -> DNP * stack money from job * gonna sit with this video more and figure out what it looks like to make these into KPIs for the year. Your movements are on my vision board. You are my Esther Perel. I hella appreciate you. like for real for real. Sending you and your family the biggest hug.

Have been watching for years and truly my fav videos have been when you have let us see your goals for the year, what you’re happy about, what you want to change etc and I’ve always admired your business and also love and passion. While the business I’m building is different you are still an inspiration and will continue to follow your journey and wish you the absolute best in life for you and your family!!

Shan, you are most definitely the person I will be picking apart haha. You are beyond inspiring as a creator, as an educator, as a lover, as a mother and just a genral human being! Your content has inspired me SO MUCH over the last few years you have no idea. So I want to thank you for always being so raw and real because you encourage me everyday to try and do the same!

Love how intentional and transparent you are. You are refreshing

I feel happier just seeing you post Shan! I love to see your familia in this video and I love how you switch things up. You're innovative!

When the content is too real to absorb and you need to take a break at 2:33 but YOU KNOW you will be back for the rest. Shan, I been connected to your work from the SnapBack TGAW days IYKYK and, while there have been moments where I’ve circled out of sight of your sunshine (like Pluto), I have always and will always appreciate the vulnerability, authenticity, and resilience you have embodied from young adult to wife to mother to KPI Shannon… THANK YOU for ALWAYS showing up for YOUR DREAMS at the intersection of quantifiable SMART goals and continuing to be an inspiration to me. Just the other day I mentioned your TODOist app video to myself and found a pathway through a tough time. I’m so happy for you. ❤

i love that you broke down how you’re solving/building the puzzle of your actual success. not success to others but what your nervous system and heart would recognize as the life you want to live. i’ve been doing that process too the last 2-yrs and i “lost” social markets of success but i am so much happier, fulfilled, and interested in my day to day life. that’s priceless.

Shan I love that you are always honest with us

My journey with undergrad is very similar Shan - thank you for sharing 💛 I’m in a somewhat similar position in that I wasn’t able to finish due to money, and as I get into my early career I’m at this point of reflecting on whether it’s worth it to go back and finish, but I appreciate your point about owing it to yourself and your community 💛💛💛

I have been a long time fan. In grad school almost a decade ago now, I devoured KZfaq content that inspired me and elevated my consciousness. Now I’m starting a business and watching this video makes me realize I need to do a deep dive with all the KZfaq creators that got me past that mile stone to a new milestone. I’m not sure what my KPI’s are anymore, as a type-a person, this is a first. But as I embark on entrepreneurial dreams I’m going to be as disciplined as I was for my academic “laurels”. Taking time to quieting improve my craft and set say a meaningful goal of say 100 new upcycled toys and 200 new toys of my own design is a small stepping stone. But one I believe I can meet. Hopefully in that process, I’ll learn more about my new industry and start to really add value to the community.

“Think back when you felt truly in your skin” I have an identity disturbance so hearing that made me laugh at myself 😅

I've been following you since 2015. You've educated & enlightened so many souls & soothed so many hearts over the years. I'd even say how perfect your content is to help parents with teenagers on so many important topics. You have the most perfect approach I've seen thus far, & you have such a comforting, authentic demeanor. You're SO appreciated & I hope you're proud of yourself 💖👏🌷

You cant even imagine how much I needed to hear your story! THANK YOU for giving me hope!!

Thank you for sharing your amazing self- listening to your journey through life and yourself is such an inspiration and nourishing force for me.

You get it!! I'm so happy for you and proud. I only found you a year ago but it's been glorious following your journey.

Always top tier, authentic, quality content. Thank you Shan 🤗

I love this Shan! I love this next evolution of your life->career. You and Lauren share so much valuable info utilizing your own life as an example. Thank you and much success to you!

You have been an inspiration through my late teens and early 20s, thanks for the authenticity ❤

Love the way of framing your goals through KPI's and your sisters explantion of them. Mine (currently) is: 1. Buy a plot of land and convert it into a homestead where I receive 50% of my food needs 2. Facilitate the adoption of street dogs from another EU countries where street dogs exist to Danish dog owners 3. See my grandparents bi-weekly for lunch or similar activities 4. Set up a financially sound structure, where I earn enough to cover my basic needs, savings and small investments

i love you Shan! you inspire me beyond words. thank you for your continuous vulnerability and your general awesomeness!

Love u Shan!❤❤ this is really helpful advice as a fellow biz owner.

My year has been unfolding so beautifully according to my plans. I'm very happy about that. My KPI in terms of art was to expand my shop offerings and commissions. I've already worked 5 markets this year, set up my Ko-Fi shop, and finished a whole mural commission. I'm young and the world is scary, so I know my biggest priority is to do everything I wanna do and have enough money to do it comfortably. Point blank period. Last year I released a music EP and got a job I love in the arts, the year before I started publishing my writing on my website. I already have another mural commission set up for the year and I'm going back to school come the Fall Semester. I'm literally just that bitch and I have the freedom and love and support to do anything I put my mind to. And I know I'm on the right path because I never cease to amazed myself at how beautiful my art is. I'm going back to school to get more tools to keep doing exactly what tf I wanna do. Even when I go back I'm thinking of pursuing an interdisciplinary studies degree to really meld all my interests into one. You Shan have truly been a big part of my unapologetic pursuit of my dreams. Like literally since I was very very young, I'd look to you as such a shining example of someone doing whatever tf they wanted in relationship and in business. That's what we call in Atlanta some really fly girl, boss ass shit. Like it's hard to put into words, but there's such a beautiful thing about your presence that is very generative to your audience. I'd love to see a study of who has followed you over the years and what that impact has been. Because truly for me the impact has been so clear and constructive to my relationships and belief in my power to shape my reality into what i want it to be. And that's the nature of sex education I think. It empowers you to move freely and creatively in your body. Much love Shan!

Love this family 🤗👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼 another banger

Thanks Shan! For always having something new to share. For growing with us. For introducing me to the idea of a career in sexology (I am now an sexual trauma advocate)… I’ve been here since your hair videos😭😂 love ya💗

WOW. No KPIs to share as of now but this was an incredible video. You and Lauren have me wanting to do what I think is out of reach. Thank you.

This is currently happening to me and it’s been devastating me especially because there are people in my field trying to cause it 😞 This video is helping me so much!! Thank you!

Congratulations Shan, on the Ashley Madison documentary...enjoyed your insight on the topic.

I’ve been following your work since those girls are wild and bought your last book The Game of Desire (I also feel you on the name 😂). As a biz owner myself going into my 5th year and figuring out what’s next this is inspiring. Thanks for always sharing your lessons and growth so freely with your audience!

You never fail us by looking amazing! Your hair is beautiful ❤ My husband and I own a martial arts school and KPIs is key to follow! 🙌🏽

Hi big fan here low key 🔑 have a girl crush on you 🌸😂I am absolutely in love with your content and passion for all things love,sex,relationships. I am learning a lot from you! You are truly one the trailblazers in this. And you used social media and made your own lane. Now it’s not as taboo. I see this work blossoming and expanding . I am happy for your family. And I hope you can get the passive income from the work and value you have created and provided us. Ps I remember my dad sneaking watch this old lady talking about sex lol. You are my version of her,who I can relate to. The modern version. 😊

I love you Shan. I learned to make out from you when I was 17 and to see your aspirations and the evolution of your mind-in-action today is such a treat. Keep going MOTHA!

I love this so so much! Through breastfeeding to now completing my Masters in Counselling Psychology (resulting in me being a Clinical Psychologist) you have been my North Star in understanding how to position myself in efforts of best serving my clients.

Wanted to give this video a like but realized I already liked it. hehe. Been following you for YEARS but I don't normally comment. I'm a musician and I actually know what it feels like to post into a void. So I wanna make an effort to actively engage more with your content. Pls know that I look up to you and have been very influenced by you for the past 8 years probably! Much love from Berlin, Germany.

I love your content and don't want to be superficial... But, girl! I absolutely love the hair!

Loved this video ❤️

I've been following for 8 years . Found you through Amber's Closet

I’m so proud of you ♥️ you are my mentor 😢 The way you think is inspiring to me- goals ⭐️

Honestly, you and Lauren are stressing me out, in a good way 😅. There’s a recent video that Lauren made about how we should stop with the self help books and actually do something (paraphrasing). I was busy patting myself in the back reading all these books but not applying anything. Now here you come with KPIs 🤦🏾‍♀️. I’ll park this comment here and actually think about what my KPIs are then revert back to this comment.

I hope the podcast comes back. I'd like to see Shan interview and talk with Ester Perel.

Shan I just found you! Thank you for charing to the universiiiii

I think Shan is fantastic. I also think formal education is needed. To become a clinical psych is learning how to unravel your own biases, adherence to the frameworks to ensure work is accurate and to not overcompensate with words.

I love your sit down videosss🫶🏽

Omg Lauren!

I just love you

You are looking more beautiful than ever Shan. 😍

I love you Shan and Lauren! Two beautiful, deep and intelligent women whom I admire

here to stay :)

This is absolutely my favourite video of yours. You've been my esther perel! Very similar KPI as yours: 1. Family!! - i also wanted to be a working woman before I had my child, but my intuition has led me to come back to my son and be more hands on. Very uncomfortable move for my business but also the most aligned 2. Pursue education always. Just like you I'm pursuing to go back to school and get my masters 3. Find a new home for me and my family. We've been wanting to travel and experience life outside of Vancouver as a family and we're very close to making that happen this year 4.Create wealth !!

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Thiss! I know of so many people on insta who are biiiig sex educators but have no official education or qualifications and claim to be XYZ. It's so sad as I'm a UK qualified sex therapist yet insta doesn't care! So love that you urge others to bolster this! So curious what the consulting company is you used too? But I also love and wanna be Esther p! Hehe. Also filled out the form, but the link at the end is expired I believe x thanks so much for doing what you do x

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KPI’s Create a community of 1,000 that offers a safe space to explore intimacy, pleasure, and sexual wellness. Develop passive income by selling 70 items per week. Alleviate debt burden by increasing income by 30%

Shan you've been giving me sex education since I was in elementary school. Whatever you're up to I'm simply along for the ride lmao.

There’s a shift in dating and it may be affecting this channel

I love her feet so much man

Shan I unfollowed you because your life looks so happy and I was comparing it to mine and it was bad for my mental health.. I'm just telling you this a compliment tho :)

Damn this title isn’t my truth. Losing followers destroyed my KZfaq.

So inspired by you 🫅🏽✨

I love you and this, Shan! It’s been inspiring and affirming watching these kinds of videos beyond sex and intimacy. Always happy to support and learn from you! 🤍Char

I’ve been following you for a long time, and everything you put out has been meaningful to me in some way, but this video is particularly timing timely for where I am in my life. Love you 🩷… Also, you look 🔥 AF. The hair, the make up and the blue are perfect!