Before you start dating Japanese, you must understand “KOKUHAKU”

Before you start dating Japanese, you must understand “KOKUHAKU” - Japanese interview

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Do you know how Japanese people begin loving relationships? In Japan, there is a tradition of "kokuhaku" (confession). This is an important component of developing a romantic connection with someone you're interested in. Today, I'll interview people to learn about "kokuhaku" and what an ideal kokuhaku looks like. If you are interested in romance with a Japanese person, please watch the entire video!
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@miaouscleaumonocle 2 ай бұрын

3:09 That tiktok dance in the background 😂

@g.mungehr640 2 ай бұрын

I know people who go on 15 dates over 3 months and still don’t don’t know if they want that person as a boyfriend/girlfriend. 🤔 😮

@francesdeaver6371 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations on another interesting interview. You all do a high quality job, and hopefully your channel will continue growing so that more viewers have a chance to appreciate your efforts.

@kevinduboe 15 күн бұрын

I did not know. Very helpful! Thank you. I plan to visit next year in April/May.

@TandokuOsaki 2 ай бұрын

Ellie's bright smile always makes my day 😊

@BxBL85 2 ай бұрын

My pretty Japanese girlfriend did kokuhaku and then did I to her.. But we were seeing each other for almost a year before that. Now we live together and plan our marriage for later in 2025.

@bishop51807 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations😊

@airlinesecret6725 2 ай бұрын

Ellie is so pretty

@Szilard_HUN 2 ай бұрын

yes, she is so beautiful.

@robertmartens7839 2 ай бұрын

@@Szilard_HUN She is just a regular Japanese girl

@warrior_of_da-Tetragrammaton 2 ай бұрын

She’s all right

@PPB_Army 2 ай бұрын

Awesome a new video!!

@arthurdanielles4784 2 ай бұрын

Good video! It is important to distinguish between 'Kokuhaku' (confession) and the western etc 'Proposing' ie down on one knee ! 'Kohuhaku' is NOT a PROPOSAL of marriage! HOWEVER, it can lead to getting closer to the one you like, making them 'special' AND lead to DATING. Because Japan is a very FILIAL / PATRIARCHY family based country where such can be extremely volatile or COMPLIANCE dictates following the RULES the parents dictate to the child et ? Some parents will NOT allow 'dating' etc during school years.. college a little more relaxed.. BUT! 'Kokuhaku' exists as a means for the Japaneses to confess their feelings in an accepted traditional form. NOT that rejection cannot happen!!

@amphibious3381 2 ай бұрын

One year ago I started dating my girlfriend, now we’re engaged!

@LXRY 2 ай бұрын

I knew this channel would get big

@robertking9824 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your content😊 🇬🇧

@DarkLordoftheOldRepublic 2 ай бұрын

Noted... maybe we have a chance 😅

@Fredderey 2 ай бұрын

Thanks to all the interviewees. Personally, I believe the first confession should be face to face, body language for me is essential, the sms textures are for immature. Then I believe that confession should be repeated every day forever with small gestures. I prefer to be single than to be alone in company.

@miguelm.a7462 2 ай бұрын

It is not that is not done I guess abroad, I guess It depends of the country, but usually confession looks more like a teenager thing, normally you get close to that person and usually kiss that person, when you have signals that tells you that she or he is into It too, then you keep moving on with the next steps obviously that doesn't meant necessary that you are dating, usually in one moment someone should ask the question about if you are in a relationship in case It is not clear, but obviously you can confess too that is other way

@pepedrago9849 15 күн бұрын

Here in Finland, when I was young we used to say to a girl, "I like you, will you be my girlfriend?". Isn't that a somewhat similar to kokuhaku?

@andreaambrosini9711 Ай бұрын

Now I understand why she was yelling “confession!”

@Bubbleetuna 25 күн бұрын

There is spanglish which involves mixing two languages together. Is it common for janglish; a mixture between japanese and english?

@g00dn3t 2 ай бұрын

Can you find Japanese ladies with dating experience abroad if they feel dating without kokuhaku is possible? I feel it is possible if they like the guy enough and probably have heard that confessions are not common outside of Japan.

@npavdaj 2 ай бұрын

If I’m in an Omiai Agency and got a match for dating and talk to that person for a month, does the relationship still require a “kohuhaku” to advance to the next step?

@hirenvadher1782 2 ай бұрын

“SUPERB” video! Ellie, what are your views on “KOHUHAKU”?

@hypermonk33y56 2 ай бұрын

actually in my country with have almost the same thing, but its only popular in the 90s. but nowadays people use dating apps so i guess its unique to japan

@kewintaylor7056 2 ай бұрын

Its sure unique in japan and maybe korea but not china…😂 And dating app have a lot of scam… Most ppl in my country stay single or dont have kid…😢

@bbb_888 2 ай бұрын

Take notes! Take notes!

@casualweekday-ytshadowbang2469 2 ай бұрын

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@Tawanhua 2 ай бұрын

At what age do people stop doing kokuhaku? Like they just hook up and now their together without any confession because I only imagine people that are still in school that does this, so people like 22-35 would maybe still do it but those near middle-age wouldn't possible do it.

@bahamut7028 2 ай бұрын

分かった but i want to start a friendship first 嬉しい😁🤗

@memotsubasa93 2 ай бұрын

so pretty...

@noddy1414 Ай бұрын

Ellie 😍

@twolee7110 2 ай бұрын

take my KOKUHAKU,, Ellie!

@casualweekday-ytshadowbang2469 2 ай бұрын

Kokuhaku by comment.

@ryuu21 2 ай бұрын

Kokuhaku was something very important for people like me born in Showa period (80's)😊.

@vader6203 2 ай бұрын

Ellie chan ni kokuhaku shitai kimochi man man❤ I really want to confess to Ellie chan ❤

@SkygirlGamingChannel 2 ай бұрын

I am genuinely confused that this isn't seen as normal. How else do you date without a "confession"? I grown up in Swiss so maybe it's different in other countries but I cant picture out how.

@azarishiba2559 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking actually the same. I'm Costa Rican, and I have never had a girlfriend before, but everytime I wanted a relationship, I did a confession to see if my feelings were reciprocated or not.

@SkygirlGamingChannel 2 ай бұрын

@@azarishiba2559 I mean most cultures may not have a name for it and there's for sure some people which just get too close to each other before they did a confession but I don't think that's the norm. I mean without a confession I wouldn't even consider somebody as a partner and get past a certain boundary. Also, don't give up. You can do it. Confessing is difficult so you should be proud you tried.

@AI-ex5rw 2 ай бұрын

This is lot better than the situationship we have in the west 😂 people would be dating for over 3 months without knowing if there going out or not. Everything is situationship now in the west 😂

@Enzo-tk6cv 2 ай бұрын

6:22 Why does it take 3 months for her to know the person she's flirting with ? 😮

@wigwam3270 2 ай бұрын

Is she related to Kimono Mom?

@finnjls 2 ай бұрын

Im about kokuhaku to this host right here

@alfjones6377 2 ай бұрын

Ellieさんは非常に美しい、ほかの女性たちもんだよ。

@danparker8254 Ай бұрын

Did you know in the US we have a sort of reverse kokuhaku where you must tell your lover you are no longer interested in them? Of course the US is an amalgamation of cultures so we don’t follow any particular cultural trait.

@dz4265 2 ай бұрын

You are all so beautiful

@unisangalaxystudio 2 ай бұрын

I think having a relationship will never ever ever happen to a guy like me am 28 pretty much blew my teens and 20s. On my next trip abroad am just going to rent a Japanese girlfriend and call it a life.

@sansebastiansj 2 ай бұрын

So I must say in Japan "I kokuhaku you?" :)

@arafisolo9877 2 ай бұрын

Saya suka vidio nya sayang ❤❤❤❤

@arcticredpanda4598 2 ай бұрын

Yeah but Japanese will Kokuhaku before one night stand and break up tomorrow. It's just a formality.

@arthurdanielles4784 2 ай бұрын

Text.. 2:56 NO! A Japanese girl of quality! would NEVER accept that ! A true 'KOKUHAKU' is face to face !! DISCREET! Behing lockers, in some other quiet part of the school OR hometown et To text is lazy, lacking substance! NOT worth pursuing. 3:43 A love letter is not unusual! Another good way ! Shows the person you have taken time over it!