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@majincookie5716 Жыл бұрын
25. No driver liscene. No car. Live with my family. No boyfriend. I feel deleted and depressed. All my friends doing better then me.
@matthewserpas54269 ай бұрын
I felt this way before. At 23, I got my license. Bought a car. Lost 70lbs. Broke off all my credit card debts and a pretty decent job. When you use time to your advantage. Instead of saying “ damn I’m 25, I haven’t done anything” I now say “ damn in only 25 years old”
@Mag_14183 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 today :( I miss times when birthdays were about celebration and not realizing how far you are behind your peers... Or realizing that you will only get less attractive from this point on... Feels bad, man
@muntashirrahman25293 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday. I totally relate to what you're saying about birthdays. I'm in my mid-twenties and my five closest friends are already married!
@TRINIGIRLHANNAH2 жыл бұрын
I feel the older women get the more beautiful they get. Change your mindset. Older women can be beautiful as well. Peaking in our 20’s as women is false
@basicsmoothbrain76242 жыл бұрын
THat's just what men say women age badly after 25 screw that noise.
@tessy282 жыл бұрын
Nah I'm more attractive now than I was at 21. You need to exercise, keep your health and body right, eat well, sleep well and worry less, the intense stress causes rapid ageing and health issues. Just let it go.
@evacope17182 жыл бұрын
I turned 25 and for the first time in my life I wanted to cry instead of celebrate. I feel like an overgrown child with nothing to be proud of
@RookieCookieWookie3 жыл бұрын
I so relate to this! I turned 25 last November. While I know Im young, I still have that feeling that Im running out of time. And everytime I see people my age or younger being more accomplished than me, it just sucks!! It sucks big time!!! Younger me really thought that my 20s would be fun lol....
@iamnidal3 жыл бұрын
"Whaaaat?? No waaay .. why thoooo!!!" ... That's how I imagine younger me reacting to 25 y/o me X"]
@cortniturner18312 жыл бұрын
@@iamnidal Same. I'm 23 and still live with my parents. I have no job but I got my permit and drivers license after taking my driver's test. I failed the computer test twice and finally got it on the third try. And I got lucky on the driving part bc of covid, I didn't have to go on the road. I did it in the parking lot and I remember being really nervous cause all I wanted to do was pass. The lady who was watching me drive between cones surveyed everything I did but after it was all over, she told me what not to do and said overall I did really well and she said I passed! I was so relieved and happy that day. Other than that, living at home is pretty nice. I do schoolwork and contribute doing chores but sometimes I feel like it's not enough. Like I need to do more. I look at others now and then and feel so bad about myself seeing that people who are younger than me are being successful and are going off to college. But I try to focus on the good. If I do my work everyday then I will get ahead much faster and I should graduate by next year. I'm thinking of going to college and becoming a veterinarian.
@alwalkemdown78782 жыл бұрын
I turned 24 on Monday in I still stay with my parent tell me why I thought my 20s would be fun but it’s the opposite in I think no matter what goes on in your life by the age of 25 its about enjoying we are young and still growing as people dad by day we not perfect we are trying by working and going back to school have fun in life you don’t won’t to regret you 20s do what ever make you happy we only get one life and pray 🙏
@bibaolaitan51892 жыл бұрын
Me too..
@reddamaniac54392 жыл бұрын
@@bibaolaitan5189 get your CNAs in 10 days
@sh79b Жыл бұрын
I just turned 25 last month. I am jobless, live at my dad's and have no driver's license either and almost all my peers are either making big in their careers or getting married and I just feel so overwhelmed all the time. I lost my mother to cancer 2 years back and i haven't really had any motivation since then. It really helps knowing that there are other people who feel the same and I really hope anyone struggling now eventually feels motivated or content or happy with their life.❤
@MultiKlaudia143 жыл бұрын
It feels comforting to know other people in their 25s feel kinda same as me... I am just like you, still live with my parents but I don’t particularly dislike it, I love them and get along with them quite well! I don’t have a driving license yet too :( I have a graduated job though and it’s going well... but I am still a bit incomplete... hopefully it will get better 😌
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I'm glad to hear you have a graduate job and its going well for you! You're doing great just as you are but I wish you all the best with everything 💕
@alwalkemdown78782 жыл бұрын
@@haddyjats How are you doing now as of today with driving and job searching because I stay with my parents and I can’t drive in I’m young I’m turning 24 in 1 week in I’m back in school to finish up my degree I’m going to my junior year of college
@alwalkemdown78782 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now as of today and are you still staying with your parents and don’t know how to drive because You not alone but I’m turning 24 in 1 week
@bibaolaitan51892 жыл бұрын
Also can't drive, and I am almost 24. No boyfriends. I work for my mum. And I hate it. And I hate living with her.
@omarfaheem2 жыл бұрын
When I was younger I pictured that by the time im 25 I would have a good social life and enough money to enjoy life. However no one told me that after college most of your friends go their separate ways, some get married some go abroad for studies some just get busy with life and all you have to yourself is your job. Just turned 25 a few months back. Im making enough money but it's a remote job so I'm at home all the time. Don't really have many friends and don't really go out. Its very lonely and depressing.
@charmainephasoana68502 жыл бұрын
I wish I was working. I don't go out, the people in my life stay very far. I hardly talk to them yahh
@milk1135 Жыл бұрын
we can be friends lol
@mihailodukic6012 жыл бұрын
I am 25 . Final year of studies . Studying something I totally hate. Just going to have a piece of paper that's not even worth hanging on a wall. Learning web development on the side. Had some opportunities to Freelance . But I feel totally lost. No friends . All alone . Really sucks.
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
We will definitely get through this! Thank you for sharing, I hope you are feeling better about things now! 🤗 wishing you all the best
@ArifRahman-qj4ny3 жыл бұрын
I am 25 and still live with my parents. Cannot drive. I do have a job and pay bills though. But it is kinda disheartening that I don't own my place yet. In this day and age it so expensive to pay those kind of things. But maybe we live in different contry in the world but I think it is pretty much the same what I experienced right now.
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
It's expensive here too so yeah I think a lot of people are in the same situation right now! It is disheartening but we just need to be patient, we'll have our own place one day haha :D
@classicleslie69143 жыл бұрын
Housing is absolutely TOO expensive for us post-millennials. No joke too expensive our previous generation even say that housing was way cheaper than it is now
@classicleslie69143 жыл бұрын
Experts are also concerned about the housing cost today
@tomemh3 жыл бұрын
It's very rare to find such a genuine video on KZfaq! I've only ever found a few this open and direct over the years. Your transparency is captivating. I was in a very similar situation to you when I was approaching 25... I'm now 30 and happier than ever. Never stop believing in yourself and what you truly want to do.
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow thank you so much, that's such a lovely comment. I'm glad to hear you're so happy! :) I won't, thank you!
@IntegratedSpirituality113 жыл бұрын
I will turn 25 soon and going through a kind of crisis.. But more than all the material things, at this age I have a strong spiritual faith and connection, I am an independent thinker with a baggage of knowledge and people I love and love me.. And this is all that matters
@a.j.taylor1322 жыл бұрын
I just turned 25 two months ago and I feel so overwhelmed already. Seeing this video brought so much comfort to know I'm not alone. This video is so transparent, so real, so honest....thank you so much for this!!
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
💕💫
@lucasnooker3 жыл бұрын
I am in the same boat. not long since been 25. now finally starting to try and sort my life out, learn to drive, get a career and move out etc. hopefully within the next year, didn't really take life seriously until I turned 25 then all of a sudden it was like a switch went off in my brain and I'm finally doing something about it but yeah life is hard. I still feel like we should enjoy it while we can in the meantime though because life is going to be even harder once we leave the nest lol
@alwalkemdown78782 жыл бұрын
Same mane I’m still with my parent don’t know how to drive I’m young turned 24 in 1 week and feel lost try to back to school and finish up my degree
@holup5035 Жыл бұрын
Im 26. No college, no real job skill - I tried to be frontend developer since i was 22, even got a job with lowest salary possible (cause i have no degree) but got fired for no reason(other juniors were fired too, might be due to covid), tried to do CS degree last year but i was overwhelmed by juniors (19-22) who were much better at anything than me so i dumped it... I really have no clue what to do... Depressed, drinking too much and living with parents who still belive in me. My younger brother is living alone, have a lot of money and stuff. Every friend has a good career, only I have nothing. Fck the life, I feel so bad for my younger self who belived that in 20s Ill finally have my dreamed life.... Life is fcking depressing.
@haddyjats Жыл бұрын
hey, thank you for commenting! I am sorry to hear you're feeling down and trust me I get why you're feeling the way you do but I just want to say, 26 is still so young and you still have so much time to build the life you want. Maybe do an online course so you don't have to interact with people younger than you. You don't need to have everything figured out & you're so blessed to have parents that support and love you and to have a home with them ☺I hope you can see your worth regardless of what you do in life because it actually doesn't matter. Sending love!
@veranarosa85002 жыл бұрын
When I was a kid and teenager I thought in my 20's I would have a car, get hair and beauty certificate, work in a salon and live in an apartment that cost over $1000 but it didn't work out. Now I live with roomates that I hate (I plan to move to my sister and her family on September 2022 because I don't think I'm ready), I work at a car factory (I don't hate it, but I don't like it) and I have my G1 driver permit. Also, I'm 21.
@painexotic3757 Жыл бұрын
I think 18-23 yos is fine since most people are still in school or trying to build up their careers. it doesn't start to become a reg flag until you're around 24-25 yos lol. Most people I know didn't move out until they were like 22 yos.
@veranarosa8500 Жыл бұрын
@@painexotic3757 Update: I'm living in Bachelor Apartment that cost $950 per month and I work in a thrift store that I love.
@sayain65843 жыл бұрын
As a 17 year old getting this perspective really helps me get more wiser keep up the great content
@vanessachiunda72623 жыл бұрын
I wish I had people like this at 17
@thorfinn1193 жыл бұрын
There's a time for everything,we all have our own struggles👊🏽
@paigelovette81562 жыл бұрын
Just turned 25 4 days ago, no job in field, still dont have a driver's license, and yes I live with my parents. I cant stress enough how bad I want my life to end.
@pghwavy3692 жыл бұрын
I turn 25 soon feel weird
@majincookie5716 Жыл бұрын
Same I feel defeated.
@SelfCenteredGG101 Жыл бұрын
We are all in the same boat but don’t give up. Please y’all have to think positive thoughts even when you don’t feel like it.
@majincookie5716 Жыл бұрын
@@SelfCenteredGG101 I have no car, no ged, no listene and I 25, live wuth mom. It sucks
@ladorafilms41493 жыл бұрын
"I can't keep going through life feeling like I don't deserve anything or good enough to do anything..." - This is such a true fact. tbh, this is what I'm struggling with rn. I don't feel like I deserve anything or good enough. And I think it stems from my low self esteem and confidence, due to the struggle of finding a job in my field. I keep on saying life is unfair because employers always want you to have certain experiences, but not everyone is able to gain those experiences beforehand. I can't help but think, that employers just don't want to train the basics, considering it is a waste of time on their end...so I can't even get a chance to prove myself that I can pick up on the skills quickly. I keep on asking myself what did I do wrong? And truthfully...I didn't have proper goals, and work actively to achieve x y and z...so I regret that. I know i have to change this mindset, knowing that someone will give me a chance, but it's definitely an internal battle. Just trying to stay positive and hoping for the best! I hope the best for you too!
@iamnidal3 жыл бұрын
I can relate ... I wish you good luck :]
@ladorafilms41493 жыл бұрын
@@iamnidal thank you!
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for commenting and sharing! It's so so hard when you can't get a job in your desired field and I felt exactly the same way as you for a long time. But you definitely are good enough and your mind set will change. I found it helpful to realise that my job is not what makes you happy in life, like it will help to have the job you want but at the end of the day its just a job, The fact that you're self aware enough to understand that you need to change your mind set is amazing. I know how hard it is to actually change it haha but I really hope the best for you too! ❤️
@deelya1013 жыл бұрын
Turned 25 today and im in the same boat still trying to unterstand and see what is right for me Love that i found this vid super relatable i feel like im on a timer even if i dont want to rush myself sending love ❤️
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Aw happy belated birthday!! I feel you, there definitely is an unspoken pressure but we'll find what's right for us when it's meant to be ❤️
@CeeZee0013 жыл бұрын
Im 26, do have my own car and my license, but i did most my partying before that. Don't know if you'll see this since its about 3 months old but know that i feel like im in the same situation. I started college in Fall 2019, failed Spring 2020 but corrected myself and im doing good this semester with at least a 3.5 GPA, i almost got kicked out of college, and it's only a AAS. Just know that its better to be late than never. At least you understand your situation. Some people are 30+ and still live like their kids. Best of luck
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for commenting! You're so right that its better to start later than never :) and it's inspiring to hear you went back to college and you're doing good. I wish you the best of luck too! x
@vanessachiunda72623 жыл бұрын
I'm 27... But thank you for this.
@jorgepena69583 жыл бұрын
I just turned 24 today. I have no degree, maybe 30-40k salary seasonal, still living at home, I’m a dude. It’s getting to me pretty bad lol I’m old
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
You are not old! haha were still so young and have plenty of time to make the life we want for ourselves 🤗 and idk where you live but your salary to me is not bad at all lol 👀
@Twilight27044 ай бұрын
I'm turning 25 in two weeks and this was the video I was looking for, because I've been feeling that things are changing and I want to change for the best. You were really brave and honest for speaking up about what you felt, what was happening in your life and most importantly speaking on self-validation, self-worth and self-confidence. I feel everything you said and right now I'm motivating myself to accomplish the things I want for myself. Although we are not alone on this journey, it's important to believe in ourselves. It's been three years since you posted this video and I hope you're doing well ♡. Thank you for posting this video, sending hugs from México
@haddyjats3 ай бұрын
Aw happy birthday! 💕 thank you so for this lovely comment ☺️ wishing you all the best with your journey x
@aprillynn62213 жыл бұрын
I'm in my mid 20s and live on the margins of society. I do have a car and work full-time as a cashier, but still live at home. Sometimes I feel like people look down on me because I'm not in a career position.
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
ugh I know people are so judgy! But do you, as long as you're happy in life who cares what you're doing 🤗
@aprillynn62212 жыл бұрын
@@haddyjats Yes. The best thing to do is set proper boundaries and cut off ties with toxic people. I once had an uncle who I thought was fun to talk to, but found out over time he was just trying to get information off me to talk behind my back. 😒
@painexotic3757 Жыл бұрын
@@aprillynn6221 same lmao. I rem being 21 and feeling terrible working a minimum wage job because most of my coworkers were teenagers. I felt so old lol. But it pushed me to go back to school. I'm now 24 and luckily have a career now (picked upa trade).
@randomess014 жыл бұрын
I haven’t passed my driving test either and it’s really frustrating, but we can do it before the year is out sis! Really glad to see you back on KZfaq, shout out to TopbunsandCardies days ❤️
@haddyjats4 жыл бұрын
Ahh Ore, yes we can! Aw I know, the good ole days haha thanks lovely
@happyzombiikitti3 жыл бұрын
Im 28 and just moved in with my parent because of COVID DESTROYING my funds, furloughed from work and obliterated my career industry. I just got back to school online, learning how to drive, and applying for jobs in my career that know of my situation and can sympathize with that while progressing. It’s not just 25 year olds, we’ve lived through a huge economic depression and it’ll take a few years to get back GLOBALLY, if we ever do.
@brittanyguyton39873 жыл бұрын
Live life at your own pace.
@damageddoughnut Жыл бұрын
I am in a very similar situation as you, just two years later lol. I am 25 now, will be 26 in 4 months. I live at home. I am struggling with jobs. I have a degree in design, but its just not working out. I know we are not alone in this, and seeing your video really shows me that. thank you for sharing your experience. we are going to be ok
@abrilvonbunny62053 жыл бұрын
I just saw this, and its old... but... same... driving is a huge fear for me, and its kind of a huge step towards my job possibilties and independence... I hope I can take lessons soon, u should be proud! This video is lovely and it felt like chatting with myself ♡
@annahaverkamp98642 жыл бұрын
It's normal in many countries to live with your parents. I am 26 and I live with my mum since she doesn't mind. I buy her food, pay the bills. It's beneficial for both of us. I don't understand the point of renting, you basically give more than 50% of your salary to a random person who was lucky enough to inherit an aprtment/ buy it. I am saving up now to buy my own property.
@linapesz3133 жыл бұрын
You are ok...Stay at home as long as you can...We are in the middle of pandemia...Do not feel bad about anything
@Melly16yr103 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
You're very right! :) Thanks for commenting x
@Nintendofan7812 жыл бұрын
yeah i agree tbh you're better off this day in age. i wouldn't blame anybody staying at home its not worth getting a house right now.
@missmeganmoments2341 Жыл бұрын
I turned 24 today. I’m moved back in with my parents due to Covid and then was injured in multiple (not at fault) car crashes. Due to my injuries I had to give up my career as an early childhood educator. I feel like I’ve been frozen in time for the past year since my head-on-collision car crash. My whole life has been taken over by this car wreck. My weeks are scheduled around my many many medical appointments and trying to pace myself to be able to get through them all. I have a traumatic brain injury that effects my cognitive abilities. I struggle with planning and memory and it is so incredibly frustrating. Now I’m feeling bad for like posting such a negative comment. Im just really struggling right now.
@SelfCenteredGG101 Жыл бұрын
Things will get better. You are in a space where your a being tested but you have to believe there is light at the end of the tunnel and then there will be. Praying for you.
@haddyjats Жыл бұрын
Hey! Thank you for watching & sharing your story. I am so sorry this happened to you. Please don’t feel bad for posting negativity, because it’s not, its your life! I hope things get easier for you as time passes ❤️
@michael_braithwaite Жыл бұрын
As someone who has their life derailed by TBI I empathize with you. You'll come out of it strong due to the daily fighting you have to do. Enjoy the things you can, I wish you the best.
@catrinacraft2 жыл бұрын
I think you’re great! What in the world? Do whatever you want in this world! You have plenty of time!
@srikanthtangirala91913 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video and it feels comforting that I'm also kinda in a similar situation as I'm about to turn 26 in 2 months. The only difference is that I'm working after completing my master's degree last year and living far away from my parents but don't know driving yet which I'm ashamed of. I didn't get to learn driving because life got in the way after finishing my undergraduate degree as I felt lost and was confused about what career to pursue. I was actually forced by my parents to pursue an undergraduate degree far from home to another city in a different state because they wanted me to become independent and develop an extroverted personality as I'm an introvert, which I understand for the first reason. But I hated that because the atmosphere was far different where I came from and the people in that college of that city where I studied were biased towards outsiders and fake who only were friendly to locals. Because of that, I felt alone and depressed & it felt like hell for most of my time during the 4 years of my undergraduate degree. But I hang in there and somehow completed my undergraduate degree & moved back home. I took a short break to recover for a short period of time from what I had to go through from years of depression as my mental health deteriorated. But as my parents are strict, they thought I was wasting my time because of the break and not taking any steps to build my career. They pushed and pressured me to take action for choosing career options immediately to avoid employment gaps. So after taking a break of 3 months and under pressure from my strict parents to get back on track, I pursued a postgraduation course which was for 6 months and I had difficulty in finding a job in that field for 1 year. During that 1 year period, I did an internship which was for 2 months as I wanted to gain some exposure in the industry of another field and I didn't get the chance to learn driving as I desperate and trying hard enough to get a job. After 1 year of being unsuccessful in landing a job, I decided to move to a foreign country for studying master's and look for employment opportunities. After completing my master's, I got an unpaid internship at a startup and then it got converted into a contract role where I'm getting paid. Then because of the covid-19 lockdown, I didn't a chance to learn to drive. But everything is slowly reopening here and I plan to take driving lessons soon.
@charmainephasoana68502 жыл бұрын
Your parents sound like hectic people
@wildtv732702 жыл бұрын
I'm 29 I still live at home
@JustinePuku3 жыл бұрын
Loved this vid. So relatable… I’m about to turn 25 in two weeks and felt as if I haven’t done enough or I should be doing more etc. thanks so much for sharing!
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you for commenting! 🤗
@Briana1527323 жыл бұрын
Just turned 25 on November 6th and I can relate so much.
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Aw happy belated! Yeah it’s a weird one, but you’re totally fine! Xx
@andradeb26952 жыл бұрын
Wait were you born on Nov 6, 1995 like me? No way!!
@WanderWisdomHive1216 ай бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only person in this boat, I feel better for not being alone. We got this 💪
@tin8060 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this video. People I’ve met are making moves and I’m just so jealous. So jealous that I have to take an Instagram detox to take care of my mental health. I do have my drivers license, but I struggle to drive because I’m just so terrified. It’s what I get for staying at home all the time. Also I left a high-controlling cult a few years ago, which led me to a depression.
@telayajackson1.02 жыл бұрын
I'm scared. My birthday is a month away. I have a car, almost done with university, working a contract job, and need help apartment hunting.
@rebeccaprentice38133 жыл бұрын
I’m 22 and I can’t see myself moving out for the new few years because I’m hoping to be able to pay for my degree - and renting would be a waste but paying for a house AND a degree is virtually impossible despite a job and savings. And I think that’s fine! It’s taken a while to get to there BUT I think everyone is on a different path, everyone achieves things at different times and it isn’t a competition. Everyone’s lives are incomparable and so long as you’re doing what’s right for you that’s all that matters. Thank you sm for sharing🥺🥺🥺
@Laurenie3382 жыл бұрын
I might just cry 🥲.. MY PEOPLE
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for subscribing girl 🤗🤍🤍
@Poppa2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video, it helps me. Hope you’re feeling in better spirits : )
@MutesiMelissa2 жыл бұрын
I will be turning 25 this November but it's been haunting me since last year... plus why is everyone here so far born in November? :D Thank you for the content, I wish you, as well as all of you here, to achieve greatness, your dreams, and goals become reality...! blessings on blessings!
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
haha something about us November babies! Thank you for commenting, wishing you the same! 🤗💫🤍
@rajarshiroy55343 жыл бұрын
I am you exactly, also I am a textile designer, a bit more chubby and male. Hopefully we'll grow together, I'll follow your progress.
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Wish you all the best!
@royalprince56962 жыл бұрын
Just turned 25 last week ,i understand you
@2moreminutes2 жыл бұрын
I can empathize. Thanks.
@SmallGroupChatForcefield2 жыл бұрын
I relate 😭thanks for your honesty!
@fredlawrence23202 жыл бұрын
Sis you’re glowing
@haddyjats2 жыл бұрын
Oo thank you! & Thanks for subscribing🤍
@footballfan283 Жыл бұрын
Everyone has it’s own path on this journey that is called life. Because some people have achieved something earlier in life doesn’t necessarily mean you won’t in the future.
@shakilaoliver25425 ай бұрын
Thank you!! This what i need❤❤❤
@francescaraballo2248 Жыл бұрын
Don't feel bad. I still live at home at 25. I'm working on my bachelor's degree and I work as a paraeducator, so what I make is not livable unfortunately. I always feel bad about it but many people and my parents tell me not to feel bad.
@LinhHueTran3 жыл бұрын
This is so sweet. :)
@red_light_39373 жыл бұрын
Feel better because I relate to a f**k ton of this, yet I'm a year younger and learned how to drive because the pandemic, (less traffic and not going/doing too much was good for me). But worse because I moved back in w/rents ~3 years ago because I ran out of money and got dr0pped Un!. Am in a internship/education program getting some certs from the Community College and getting into tech. Here's to improving our own self worth's in our own ways.🥂🍻
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on getting your license! 😌 I wish you all the best with your college certs! & cheers to that 🥂 thank you for your comment ❤️
@officialsocialtv11793 жыл бұрын
You have my like, the video is so great and don't worry simple... go with the flow, everything comes in the right time :)
@AssocUSA Жыл бұрын
Yea, I turned 25 in august this year (2022) and yea tbh I feel this. Also it's crazy that the queen turned 25 at this age. LOL
@EllisSkyypage3 жыл бұрын
Tbh Im 24 years old and moved in with my bf here at his parents place cause I had a fall out with my parents and thought moving in with him was a good idea. But after taking time apart deep down inside I want to go back to living with my parents because it’s hard and mainly because I miss my family and I know I’m not ready. and my bf went through so much with my parents that he told me if I ever move back he won’t be with me anymore. But honestly I’m not sure if this whole relationship is what I want because I know there’s more to life that makes me happy. And I guess I still haven’t grown up and I guess it’s the fear of marrying and having kids and a whole family. Nothing wrong with it I’m sure it beautiful but I’m not ready for that and I know I’m not. I guess I feel like why should I give my all to someone when I haven’t even given MYSELF a chance to enjoy things for ONLY ME. But now I’m kinda stuck here because now my bf and I caught covid so can’t really do anything or try to return back to my parents home cause I don’t want to risk them. and my bf would tell me that I’m immature and would joke with me saying “ go run back to mommy and daddy” and It use to hurt but now I’m at the point where I just want my life to myself now, And he’s not a bad bf but I’m not sure if relationships are for me right now.
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this❤️ I feel like you know deep down what you need to do. It's so hard to actually do it though I know. But once you're all clear from Covid then for sure get yourself out... don't worry what your boyf will say. You need to do what's best for you!! No one else's opinion matters. Wish you all the best x
@EllisSkyypage3 жыл бұрын
@@haddyjats yes I’m fine now I actually ended up breaking up with him and moved back and it sucks but I’m back happy and now I want to do things the right way and work on me , myself and I and financially. I’m just happy that I’ll finally start my life for ME. It’s sucks that I had to hurt him but this is only for my happiness. I felt like he was happy because he had everything but I wasn’t happy and he could never see that because his world was complete and this whole fairytale but mines wasn’t. I had to do what was best for me.
@haddyjats3 жыл бұрын
@@EllisSkyypage aww amazing, I’m so so happy for you!
@charmainephasoana68502 жыл бұрын
@@EllisSkyypage hey how are you doing now? Are you doing the things you wanted and are you happy?
@sirgg38473 жыл бұрын
25 next month i m useless 🙂
@iamnidal3 жыл бұрын
25 next month too for me ... Pretty much useless too sa far lol
@gitgit92603 жыл бұрын
I will be turning 25 this coming friday oh my Gosh!
@isorozco5112 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with living at home at 25 and not having a graduate job isnt bad as long as theres work in process. Not driving though….
@moon8406 Жыл бұрын
Its nice im not the only one, my life sucks, it's not what i planned when i was younger, younger me would be disappointed also, but oh well going back to college, see if i can turn things around, i didnt live at all wich is a bummer cause i didnt live my teens either and now i just feel old
@weekendpapii30903 жыл бұрын
Put all your money in the stock exchange and get up and walk to another state or travel via car if youre bored. make sure, if you have a support system, to explain that you want to travel.
@Music4EverKanekavi7 ай бұрын
We can’t feel sorry for ourselves yo, you’re ducking alive damnit, go for it
@manuelacastano-mejia12115 ай бұрын
Hello! how are you? I liked your video. I understand you perfectly, At least you can work, or get a Job but I don't .I am also still living with my parents, I am 24 and the truth is I would like to be able to move but I'm afraid because I don't know anything about that, I don't have any experience. And the truth is that at this moment I can't move, I am studying in collage, I am an international student, I am legal in the USA but I can't work because my visa does not allow me to work, and I don't have my driver's license yet. The truth is that this situation worries me a lot, it is frustrating sometimes. I don't know when or how long I'll be able to make my life on my own.
@skullcrusher-gw5sx29 күн бұрын
I turned 25 today 😢
@hemantparakh6462 Жыл бұрын
University can be Shared for a 2nd May plan
@patkelley82935 ай бұрын
Find a way to provide service to others. Look at non profits that reflect your values. Personal fulfillment has nothing to do with financial success.
@husinneelove17662 жыл бұрын
everyday is a struggle
@woollygirl2473 жыл бұрын
when i feel 25, i cant relate most of discord server ughh
@POPDATA Жыл бұрын
She’s gorgeous she’s like a black Dua lipa
@haddyjats Жыл бұрын
Thank you! You’re the second person to say that… I don’t see it at all haha but thanks 😊
@ArmandoLuis13182 жыл бұрын
I mean you are still young ...
@nishantthakur1442 жыл бұрын
It's normal in India!
@NiKi-ij2ln2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@tonystark34622 жыл бұрын
You are not a bum ...its a perfect time to prepare to be a good wife. Be humble and find you a husband ....men dont care about your career. You doing great.
@deepikaa.182 жыл бұрын
❤️
@kylemckennie25992 жыл бұрын
24 own house own car own job independently poor af
@steverfc73 жыл бұрын
25 not that old to live with your parents I would say 50 to old and 25 half way to 50 also