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@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

I just wanted to take a moment to thank each and every single one of you who has left a comment on this video, I am truly blown away by the compassion, understanding and love I have been shown. From those of you who have offered advice to those of you who have also shared your own life experiences dealing with the issues I have spoken about. The response has been humbling and I’m an overwhelmed by the kindness of this wonderful community. I wanted to let you all know that I have seen and greatly appreciate you taking some time out of your busy lives to show such support and community spirit, thank you! You are all legends 🙏🏻👊🏻💙

@edwardhudson9851 Жыл бұрын

Just meditate on this fact mate.There are lots of people who CANT do what you are doing and have done thus far and I'm sure they'd love to:0)

@darkangellew Жыл бұрын

This is my dream fella & you’re about to be living it! Please be in the moment & appreciate all the hard work you’ve put in, as it’s incredible work, I think so many are proud! It definitely connects people & I think that’s what people need more of, so know that even if you feel it, YOU’RE NOT ALONE! You will travel & meet soooo many beautiful people which will help not only your social needs but also great for videos, to see how meeting these people changes both lives & just a deeper insight into human connectivity 🙌🏾 we want to see you succeed but know life does what it wants so yeah just live in the moments my man!!! Congratulations again as it’s a stunning build!

@scottcarder9543 Жыл бұрын

I'm very sorry for your loss bud and I know how it feels brother. Losing someone close you love hurts so much mate

@graeme66 Жыл бұрын

I would love to spend my days traveling about in a van I could live in go anywhere you liked each day in a different location unfortunately my time for doing that has passed me by plus no you tube when I was younger how times have changed but I also know what you mean about having someone there to share your experiences with hoping everything works out for you in the future and as I said in my previous comments do what you want and need to do to make your life a happy one stick in bud,👍

@leeorr9071 Жыл бұрын

Stay single will because it’s easy in life and can sleep with anyone you want no one telling what to do and believe me the best thing I ever done was be single and I had kids because women are just about money and her mates . Pluse it’s not lake years ago you got married and had kids because the world difference now and people who get married they end up splitting up its 95 percent that people spit up so stay strong you will look back and think am better single so take care lad from Liverpool

@nickh4726 Жыл бұрын

Will I bumped into your channel at a bad point in my life, everything I ever had had changed beyond my control, 16 year relationship, lost my home, my dog, made redundant and at the age of 40 back with my parents, what you have done and are doing is a inspiration, you have made me laugh and cheered me up on grey days, stick with it mate. The chapter is waiting to be written. 👍🏻👍🏻

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

It’s comments like this that make everything worth it, I hope you find your happiness friend and keep on fighting for what you want, massive respect for sharing what has happened and I wish you happiness and send thoughts of strength

@nickh4726 Жыл бұрын

@@WillsWhereabouts I had a motorhome for 10 years, also lost that. I had some amazing adventures and see some amazing places, I’m looking into doing a self build but using my car at the moment. I love what you have done with the van. Life is on the up for me and I’m pushing myself to do things I have always been afraid to do. Keep going and don’t give up on finding your happiness. You are a top geeza, if I ever bump into you I’m gonna buy you a beer 🍺

@misiasert1348 Жыл бұрын

Bet you miss your dog the most 😉

@nickh4726 Жыл бұрын

@@misiasert1348 I’m lucky as I do still get to see her every few weeks but it’s not the same as coming home to the love of your little dog every night 🐶 and yes she is what I miss the most 👍🏻👍🏻

@deanrussell2224 Жыл бұрын

Hope things work out - same thing happened to me at 50 - it does get better

@jaybadder4233 Жыл бұрын

Good on you mate, it makes me proud to see guys talking so openly and freely about their mental well-being. It helps to break the stigma around it. We are all here for you, fella :)

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks Jay appreciated 👍🙏

@aaronhowardjudd Жыл бұрын

Will, I'm 53, If only I had the opportunities and freedom to pursue these adventures when I was 27. KZfaq is a gift, take full advantage. I admire your honesty and integrity and really enjoy your vlogs man. It's natural to feel apprehensive and you are doing the right thing by airing your fears. It shows you are secure in who you are and what you are thinking. Go with the flow and follow your nose.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this appreciate it 👍✊

@lindalambert2677 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so honest Will. You’re still a human being with the same struggles as everyone else and we all love you for your honesty

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you Linda, so kind!

@fletcherbravo Жыл бұрын

Great honest video, I hope you figure it out. I'm 52 and am currently in the same boat. Enjoy Cornwall Will, I hope you get the break you deserve.

@gavinm894 Жыл бұрын

Hi Will, I found your channel about 2 weeks ago and have been working my way through your van build videos whilst randomly picking others to watch. I've been off work with mental health issues for the last three months. During that time I had to say goodbye to my dog (in my pic) on the 26th July as she had cancer. She was 16 so we knew the end was coming but being told she had cancer and we had 3 months max with her it really knocked me for six. she managed two months. You have given me the drive to get back up on my feet and move forward with my life. I'm now looking at getting a small van and doing a conversion to a micro camper for me and the missus to get away for long weekends. You really inspired me get get going away. I hope I have the opportunity to meet you in person one day as I'd like to say 'thank you' face to face and shake you hand. Keep being you Will, I'm sure you will get everything you deserve on life. If you ever find yourself in Sheffield and in need of a hand hit me up, I owe you one or two. 😉

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your own experiences with me, I’m so sorry about the loss of your dog, they are not just pets they are family, I wish you every success with the build and hope you find happiness out on the road 🙏🙏

@erinwilson2869 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for opening up Will. I support you 100%, let me know if you ever want to meet up in Scotland!

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@linbinnash Жыл бұрын

Don't be scared bro, we are with you.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Appreciate it Gavin 💪

@baconlips123 Жыл бұрын

I went through similar in my 40's , lost 7 family members in about 18 months including my mum, ( lost my dad a few years ago ). Ended up on meds etc and not wanting to be here anymore, but getting through it slowly as I'm sure you will do. Been here since the Galaxy days, keep on doing what makes you happy, and actually puts you in " your " happy place and no one else's. Peace brother.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your own experiences it really does go to show you never know what people are going through, sending you thoughts of wellness 💙

@johnarkell2662 Жыл бұрын

Cracking video Will, you've probably helped a lot of people just by opening up and being honest

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

If it helps just one person then that’s a win!

@hammockinparadise Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry you lost your grandfather and your grandmother earlier in the year. That alone is a reason for you to be feeling all of these emotions! I’m also sorry to hear that your relationship ended. All of these events close together take time to heal. Give yourself the needed time, and take care of yourself.

@magnejohansen9640 Жыл бұрын

Will, you are not alone. I'm sure you have lots of friends around you everywhere. At all times. Use us, talk whit us, and you never be alone. Your so lucky, in so many ways.

@PaulMessner Жыл бұрын

Alone again? One thing I’ve found over the last couple of months is we are not on our own Will. I hope you find that balance mate. I’m still trying to find it, but a few changes have stopped the big wobble. You’ll make a top fireman by the way but whatever you do….do what makes you happy. Stay safe….Mez.

@jantampos5314 Жыл бұрын

Rooting for you!! Keep sharing your adventures to give others the courage to do it too!!

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks Jan, and thanks for joining me

@jantampos5314 Жыл бұрын

I’m also 27 and still figuring out my life here in the UK. So just take your time and enjoy the adventures life brings to you.

@waylandbarker1179 Жыл бұрын

I suffer from anxiety and depression , so totally understand how you feel . I struggle every day but won't let it win ..I hope you achieve your ambitions and become a fireman and be able to enjoy life .all the best wayland

@pujanrai5536 Жыл бұрын

You are not alone. We are with you. You inspired to to do something ourselves.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@BamBam-gs7eb Жыл бұрын

I suffer from depression, anxiety. Even now (in general) it's not really spoken about, I used to try to escape my issues but they came with me. Guys need to talk more, support each other and we can make it. Life is hard enough solo. You're doing a great job.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment and sharing your thoughts and experiences, I totally agree that people in general need to talk more openly about how they are feeling and support each other more

@unclegargas Жыл бұрын

Appreciate the honesty! Saw some comments that seemed to disregard the concerns so I figured I’d just chuck this in here, making a life changing move like this is going to be frightening for most people - and I’m sure most viewers would agree. But you got this bud! Best of luck with the new job, hope it helps. Cheers from Norway!

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment, yes 💯 agree any change is daunting and somewhat frightening and I am so appreciative for your supportive words!

@DS315LUFC Жыл бұрын

Good video. Nice to get insight into someone you regularly watch, positive or negative, we are all human and have struggles. You are making great use of this platform to share for your benefit and the benefit of your fans. Keep smiling.

@johndobson5375 Жыл бұрын

Wills I love that you are as CAC handed as I am. When you get going and meeting other vanlifers you will have a ball.

@sixxdb Жыл бұрын

Well said man. There's an irony to being anchored to making content, when the subject matter is a life of relative freedom - it's almost a paradox. For me, I have watched loads of your stuff, I think it's class, and I'll continue watch whenever you post. But you don't owe me anything. You don't owe anyone watching anything. You've given loads of your life to a lot of people. You owe yourself the life you want. If we get to see parts of that it's a really good bonus. Nice one again Will - top lad

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this comment, really appreciate your words and shows you get the thoughts that I was trying to relay. Thank you for joining me and showing such support, you and so many others have shown just how amazing this community can be!

@scarpy1495 Жыл бұрын

Brave lad. Find comfort in whatever makes you happy. So many people enjoy your videos. Be proud. X

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this lovely message I am humbled by your support

@casanders9098 Жыл бұрын

So sorry about the loss of your grandparents. You need to do what makes life work for you! Best of luck, prayers for your future. 💕

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your condolences and support, it’s is very kind

@lus3003 Жыл бұрын

I honestly watch this channel because I love your personality - real and unfiltered.

@NoProGoPronto Жыл бұрын

Thumbs UP just because your taste in music is exceptional! You're never alone because you have ALL of us from all over the world riding with you. Safe Travels! 🙂

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this, love the people in this community ❤️

@stevemac6120 Жыл бұрын

I must say I was so moved by your openess towards the end of the video i actually shed a tear because i know how you feel, have watched you since the Galaxy days and myself struggle with loneliness and depression. Persevere with your adventures as things will look better at some point, chin up matey love your videos!!!!

@richardgreenway8826 Жыл бұрын

Will appreciate you being honest and open, it's refreshing in today's world. I enjoy your videos. Hope you get the balance you are looking for.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you Richard I appreciate you watching and leaving the lovely comment 💜

@chrisdavies73 Жыл бұрын

The panic attacks and depression can be overcome. Learning to live on your own takes time, you will overcome it👍

@RH-xf4vf Жыл бұрын

Huge respect to you Will for being so honest about this. Yes, it really is lonely. And, no, it really isn't 'over-thinking it' as someone suggested.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@Boppa1260 Жыл бұрын

Being alone is a power that very few can handle.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

It is a very powerful thing indeed

@michaelthompson1819 Жыл бұрын

I was going through a break up a few years ago after a very long term relationship and a friend talked me into walking the Hebridean way solo,I wasn’t sure at the time,spend a week walking and camping on my own,but it turned out to be one of the most memorable times I’ve had,met some great likeminded people,saw some wonderful sights and have got memories that will last a life time,I’m sure once you get down to Cornwall you will meet lots of great people and have a great time. Looking forward to the next video Cheers

@Yuricthebold Жыл бұрын

Never apologize for being honest. Good on ya! Good luck with the future! Looking forward to seeing where you move forward!

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks man 👌

@djwadsa2387 Жыл бұрын

dude sooo proud to see you come this far.. you will be okay XD... this is just the beginning. and cooking with will is back yay.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words I appreciate it as this was a though subject to tackle but I believe in truth and openness, thanks again and yes more cooking to follow 😂

@djwadsa2387 Жыл бұрын

dude followed you since the Galexy ( even saw you went down to rochester ). you have come so far. it will get lonely at times but remember you have a hole community here behind you. your followers and other van life content makers. just know this you make great content and you give off a great vibe. you a legend just remember that.

@douglasmowat7143 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Will. I’m a lone traveller at 73, wife died 20 years ago .I deliberately seek out isolated places and more often and not find kindred spirits who also seek out isolated places . The planet has become my closest buddy…….but it’s something that caught me by surprise. The stillness of a beach in the pre dawn light gives me great fellowship. Please what gas struts do you use. I need some. Hugs Douglas

@tugwilsond8907 Жыл бұрын

Your videos are fab Will. Whatever you do mate, good luck and enjoy your life, that’s the main thing 👍🏻

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you Daniel, your kind words mean a lot!

@paulmorris3022 Жыл бұрын

Hi Will i have followed you for a couple of years now and you have always been honest and shared your feelings with people like us that you don't know but are going through the same problems. we can relate to what your going through and it shows that not everything is as it will seem. whatever you decide to do to make yourself happy and content and we will follow your journey and take a leaf from your book. all the best buddy

@thomaskemp7362 Жыл бұрын

Well said Paul

@HMarije Жыл бұрын

I usually don't comment but on this video I had to. I have deep respect for you Will! I think you're doing an amazing job with sharing your thoughts and difficulties in life. It makes your channel real and inspiring. I also understand your worries about feeling alone. Maybe it helps to see this period in time as 'temporal' but precious and healing for you as a person, before you meet someone and start sharing your life. You're now just preparing for that moment ;) Anyways, please keep going the way you do! Big hug from The Netherlands! :)

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your inspiring words, definitely something to think about 🙏🙏

@rbuss1984 Жыл бұрын

Congrats to you and safe travels! Have no fear, we are all here with you! 🤘

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

This community rocks 🤟

@bobbicatton Жыл бұрын

You have a great deal of self-awareness. I am confident you will find the balance you're seeking😊

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I’m sure I will find the balance, it’s just a learning curve as with most things in life

@Dragonfly4489 Жыл бұрын

Love the honesty Will. I have gone through the loneliness myself in my life. You are doing it right man.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you! The support means so much!

@nobby1969 Жыл бұрын

Will, I don’t even know you fella but watching your vlogs over the last few years has been a joy, you don’t give up, you are a funny and honest lad, you say it yourself, you are living most peoples dream, I hope you get to where you want to be but don’t give up mate! Keep up the great work and best of luck with it all. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@kathleenhickey7460 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Will for your openness and honesty. You are bein brave. Always be true to yourself. You don't owe anything to anybody. We're all alone in reality. Keep on keeping on, you never know what's ahead of you luv. BIG HUGS kiddo. From a much older irish woman. 😉

@jasconroy4383 Жыл бұрын

Your personailty is what makes the videos and the fact you keep it real I think is what resonates so much with viewers as others have also commented. Keep doing you bro. Looking forward to seeing what adventures you can get up to.

@markclayton626 Жыл бұрын

Good video Will, I’ve followed you since your Nepal days, they were what got me hooked, your whole experience there in a country I’ve visited from the UK a few times, I’ve always enjoyed your openness, your ups I feel good, your downs I find myself sending beams of strength to you through the airways. I know a couple of years ago now I mentioned to you, long before the stealth camping that maybe you should trek across to Nepal from the UK, that would make great viewing, even more so in a van, but that’s me being selfish I guess as it’s you that does the trek and I the viewer just watch and enjoy your journey and adventures, your young enough to do that in the future, look at Gabriel traveller, one of your KZfaqrs, he’s still pumping out it out day after day, but again, he’s not you and your not him, but Will, your very young, (27), you’ve got lots of time in front of you, there really is no rush for you, take your time, work hard, relax well, and follow your gut feeling, but not instantly is my advice, if you have a idea, then sleep on it, maybe sleep on it again then take then put into practice the process of what you feel for.. I along with thousands and thousands of subscribers want only the best for you Will on your journey of life, static or on the road, that’s totally down to you. Best, Mark

@matthussey3932 Жыл бұрын

Very relatable this man. You’re doing the right thing about finding that balance and becoming grounded in your own head. I used to be a band tour driver/guitar tech doing everything at at thousand miles and hour visiting some fantastic places but something was missing something massive. Just that structure and discipline and sharing experiences with someone special. Love the channel mate and best of luck with the fire service application. Stay safe and well my friend. 😊

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this comment, it’s nice to hear people have lived a life Style though not the same very similar circumstances and can relate to the issues I have raised, thank you again and take care, massive respect ✊

@matthussey3932 Жыл бұрын

@@WillsWhereabouts no problem my friend at all. Just be bloody happy and find what you need to make you grounded and at peace. It can be a tough road finding it pardon the pun but well worth it brother. 2012 I was on and off tours etc having “the time of my life” but it just seemed empty. Something missing like chicken in your famous fajitas 😂. But I took myself out of it and had some reflection time. Found an amazing girl did the whole dating thing then we found a flat together in the arse end of the isle of Sheppey of all places. Fast forward 9 years we have two girls a 8year old and a 2 year old. Go on so many adventures together and just have the best time. I always see life as a ladder. Just keep climbing buddy, but also don’t be afraid to jump down a few steps along the way. Be cool man. 😊

@neillowes9232 Жыл бұрын

Nothing but talking from the heart will , smile - be happy , be safe mate

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Truth is life, thanks man

@mOOREY20008 Жыл бұрын

If I ever come across you on my travels I will shake your hand WILL , you should be proud of the person you are and I’ve enjoyed watching your videos 👍🏻. You do you 👍🏻

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏

@JJ-fromDK Жыл бұрын

My man, Will, for a 27 year old, you have a lot of wisdom, please continue with youtube, in or out of vanlife, your jolly spirit and wise afterthoughts will bring joy and use to other people, thank you for this video :0)

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the very kind words of support, I appreciate it greatly ✌️🙏

@muratmo2558 Жыл бұрын

Bro I've been watching your videos for a long time now. I've always been jelous to some extent but thank you for being so honest and open about the "real van life" if that makes sense, no one really wants to talk about the struggles. Keep your head up brother, stay strong and follow your heart.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment, I think it’s important to be honest so I appreciate when people understand.

@aventyrivardagen3007 Жыл бұрын

Doing what YOU love to do makes the best movies… Love your honesty! 👍🙏

@joanneturner4674 Жыл бұрын

Honesty is the best way for your mental health. So sorry for your loss of your grandparents. Xx

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kindness and sympathies

@rockyroo5800 Жыл бұрын

Love watching you will I hope you get to live the life you want and find that balance, I really hope you find someone to share your memories with

@mrchrista469 Жыл бұрын

All the best with whatever you decide Will. I’ve really enjoyed all of your videos and can understand how hard it is for you. People will understand and support you regardless of what you decide to do. Take care of yourself.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to write this lovely message, I really appreciate it

@terripinan1876 Жыл бұрын

One of the best and honest rants that I have heard for a long time, no self pity, just honesty and realisation. I think that a lot of people are feeling how you are now. I pray that you get into the Fire Service as I think that they will do well to have you, as will your partner. Good luck Will and keep us informed of what and how you are doing. I have following you for a little time now, and really enjoy your honest postings, along with all the inventive words. Keep at it Will!

@hellodarren Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this Will! I'm hoping you find that structure, just do whatever feels right. You can still make videos about whatever you get up to and we'll still watch! All the best mate!

@ronaldgiles4009 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so honest. Think being full time you’d really have to have a plan of where you’re going and what you’d be seeing. At this time with gas prices it’s a great idea to have a “ regular” jobs and to do more local trips. People always think they have to go long distances but concentrating on UK might be a start for you. Good luck in your journey and May you keep those great memories of your grandparents in your mind.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the kind words, I will never forget my grandparents as they have been an inspiring light through my life, and I know they will carry on inspiring me.

@amysmileyreid95 Жыл бұрын

I’m a manc depressive myself so I know how you feel. You’re staying positive which is a good thing and your videos are an inspiration. So sorry to hear about your grandparents as well, and Wallis. Keep your chin up pal, and thank you so much for sharing your life with us

@emmanuelnd3564 Жыл бұрын

Broo came to Greece

@codenamenel Жыл бұрын

Being a Manc is depressing on its own though, jheeeeez

@amysmileyreid95 Жыл бұрын

@@codenamenel I meant manic

@codenamenel Жыл бұрын

@@amysmileyreid95 it was a joke 😉

@amysmileyreid95 Жыл бұрын

@@codenamenel I know it was

@suzq217 Жыл бұрын

My daughter is a KZfaqr not travelling but she also feels it's a lonely career .... I wish you all the best Will and hope you find your path to enjoy YouTubing and another fullfilling career too. Well done to you X

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you Suz Q, your daughter is right it can get very lonely at times , I hope she is happy in her path though and enjoys it, hopefully I will find the balance soon, best of luck to your daughter and I send you both happy vibes 💙

@Domocantgetausername Жыл бұрын

Will honestly mate, don't apologise for being real and opening up. I keep coming back each week regardless of thumbnail, title or what the video is about. You do you, the rest will come in good time as you work through things

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@bobscullion3533 Жыл бұрын

well done for being so honest and talking about how you feel, wish you all the very best big guy

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Many thanks 🙏

@iainross7807 Жыл бұрын

Mate I've followed you for a few years now. Your honesty is your greatest strength and stick with it. I wish you all the best.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks Iain, you and so many others are amazing with your kind words, appreciate it more than you know

@iainross7807 Жыл бұрын

I think that your videos have seen alot of people me included through some very dark times. You should be very proud of yourself I know you have your own struggles.but believe me you have eased so many others struggles. So much respect mate.

@0iangell Жыл бұрын

Great to see your honesty. Fire service is great for the “community spirit” and social interaction especially with your colleagues. Its one of the rare work places where you’ll know other fire fighters full families and be not just work mates but mates for life.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

The fire service seems like that type of environment so thanks for confirming it for me

@chrisbernard8985 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so honest Will, try to keep your chin up! I’m 45 and still trying to find a good balance in life. It can definitely be challenging when what u used to do for fun becomes your job, just like anything in life it takes some getting used to. I look forward to watching all your video’s and can’t wait to see where life takes u next!

@jonathanrodger2867 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing that with is Will mate. It's never easy to open up about your feelings. I honestly think a wee dog will help. They are fantastic companions and the responsibility of looking after one will help give you some routine. Respect on going for the fire service job pal. Hope you get in.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the comment, I’ll have to wait and see about a dog when I know more about the fire service, have to take into account the hours that will take up and I would never leave a dog for too long on its own

@john_and_mayo Жыл бұрын

Great one Will, great to touch on a taboo subject, this one filled me with I admit a little trepidation and mad me feel for you. I’m recently single again mid 50’s and still heading out in October solo for a gap year or 2. I enjoy your vlogs and your honesty you have a whole life ahead of you, your outlook will be different in a week or 2 keep on trucking!

@joedoyle5311 Жыл бұрын

Will, you are the man.... from a person who suffers with mental health issues, at times you have brought me back from going over the edge.. stay cool Will🤙

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thankyou bro, stay safe and stay strong 💪

@ThoseHappyDays Жыл бұрын

Well said pal, very insightful and honest 👏

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏

@claireweeks7926 Жыл бұрын

Hey Will, just watched your video and you’re so right to talk about this stuff. I’m self employed and struggle with the exact same issues working by myself. I also need to be around people and also really struggle when i don’t have routine. It’s taken me a long time to realise this and make adjustments so that I have the interaction with people that I need and now understand the importance of routine. Of course I still have off days but then I think we’re all the same there and at the end of the day we’re all just trying to get through life making the money that we need whilst making memories and finding the right balance. Just keep going, you’re doing great and you’ll find your cliche. Xx

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Hi Claire, thank you so much for sharing this with me as I am seeing that more people are dealing with the same issues, it does give a glimmer of hope that it is definitely possible to find the correct balance when hearing from people like yourself who have experienced this, respect to you!

@davidkimber1 Жыл бұрын

Will mate, don’t over complicate things, get a good job, enjoy the banter with work colleagues and make the odd van life video when you want to! All the best, will keep watching even if there are fewer videos.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks David, who knows what will happen but the support means a lot! 🙏

@draigygoch Жыл бұрын

Please don't give up, you have loads of fans who enjoy your content, stick with it !

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@jamiecharnley221 Жыл бұрын

You've got so much positivity for us viewers and it's eye opening to see what happens behind the scenes. Big respect to you for this. Been watching your videos for years and always put a smile on my face.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Appreciate it Jamie, thank you

@LeeKAspinall Жыл бұрын

Cheers Will for opening up. I also feel lonely and often question my purpose. So does my dad who is in his mid fifties. And I guess many more people do so. So mate you‘re not alone :)

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your own feelings on the topic of loneliness, there is a kind of sense of togetherness in knowing we are not going through it alone

@sun-sea-solar Жыл бұрын

I love how organised and clean everything is. Not just this van but every build is perfectly finished. My van get used every month but looks like a 10 year old built it 😂😂

@chox2001 Жыл бұрын

Mines used day in day out it’s rough and ready subject to change at a moment notice. The important thing is things are placed to help and save time.

@kimorsel8769 Жыл бұрын

Didn't think you were being ungrateful... You need to do what you need to do.... Wish I had worked this out when I was 27.... You're honesty is real and you will find your balance, it's all good mate....

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Amazing words thank you so much

@Oururbanhomestead1966 Жыл бұрын

Maybe write down all the free camping spots, what's at each spot, local places to get cheap food extra. You can then create a guide for other van lifers

@nickforsyth2153 Жыл бұрын

Will it takes such a big man to open up like you have. It’s your channel and you decide what you want to do not us. Your core fans like myself will follow along whatever you decide to do.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Nick, your words mean a lot thank you for the support, I am so grateful to the lovely community I have here!

@dontaejordan1936 Жыл бұрын

Will, what you are doing is an inspiration to many people, myself included. I am mid forties and still haven't found my balance. When you think you have it, something happens that shifts your balance, I suppose that's life. Keep doing what your heart tells you and enjoy. Tomorrow is promised to nobody 👊🏾💯

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

👍👍

@autoknight747 Жыл бұрын

It’s great watching you on your journey. Wishing you amazing times and the best scenery out on the road!

@lewpv Жыл бұрын

I can't find the words to say apart from Thank you and I appreciate you; you've been so open about what's happened and the struggles you have been through, which ultimately creates awareness. I live in a van full time and I suppose I have been expecting it to be as golden as you see it in the media but there are certainly times which hit you more than others, so I appreciate you talking about the lonliness and then gaining a sense of community. Hope all is OK!

@philiproberts6947 Жыл бұрын

Please please go to St Ives,its possibly one of the most beautiful places in the UK. Your not alone fella don't ever think that! Thank you for been so open and honest about your struggles and losses. It takes a real guy to open up like this let me tell you. I for one can't do it and often have some very dark thoughts of my own! I think you as a person would take great reward from working with people of struggles of there own,your a naturally likeable bloke who is genuine. No matter where life takes you stay true to yourself and don't change who you are😊

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

I genuinely don't have the words to convey my gratitude to this comment, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me, I appreciate you and the support.

@Elkott Жыл бұрын

Get a wee dog to join you on your journeys, that'll help with the loneliness

@y.m.i.n.6538 Жыл бұрын

Definitely 👍

@playeroflife Жыл бұрын

Fully agree. We all feel the need to be loved. And you can't get a better example of instant love than having a dog. Best of luck buddy.

@davenjahtisan Жыл бұрын

Or a cat 😁

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

I have often thought about a dog, but if i do get more structure in the form of a job I would not want to leave a dog in the van alone for long periods of time, especially in this heat that would not be fair.

@nfowler Жыл бұрын

You have a lot of people supporting you, when you get lonely think of your family, friends and read the good comments

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@alessia0064 Жыл бұрын

Do what you need to do Will, we'll all still be here for you xxx 👍😊💖💖.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏 ❤️

@RollingRoutes Жыл бұрын

Welcome to the club! Try not to worry too much about loneliness - the best thing about having a van is that if you don't quite find your people in one place, you can simply pack up and move on to brighter places and people! It's an absolutely beautiful conversion, well done and enjoy! P x

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you and it’s always good to see things from another’s view point to give some perspective, looking forward to finding what works for me!

@bencairns6581 Жыл бұрын

I sympathize I suffer with anxiety, depression, what the doctors are putting down to a form of PTSD. Most of what causes these issues are the reasons I ended up in a van in the first place. I found that vanlife has helped me, and has given me a safe space. We’ve met a couple of times at vanlove and Overlander, and found you great to talk to. Although, I am not an extrovert like yourself, I do enjoy contact with others, and at times it’s just what I need. Unlike yourself I work in a structured environment, and have contact with other people most days, which helps my mental health. It’s scary going full time, but it soon passes. You’ll find your comfort zone, and get into a routine of vanlife. Keep it up, enjoy your videos.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you Ben for your openness and kindness, I am hoping to be able to find a balance and believe that having some structure will help me gain that! Hope This finds you well!

@comm744 16 күн бұрын

The people I have met that are the happiest “Van lifers “ are by nature, loners. Great videos btw! You have shown the real struggles of building a useful camper van. Cheers mate.

@valerycarpentier852 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for being opened about mental health. I love your honesty, and I hope you find your balance. Take your time, get yourself in the right frame of mind, and I’ll always be here to support you. We all love you Will! ❤️

@mingdenasty6054 Жыл бұрын

Will you're an bloody inspiration, thanks for being so honest. I'm currently converting a van on my own after the end of my 24 year relationship. I lost my wife, my home and find myself living back at my mums. Coverting a van on my own is both a challenge and a future means of some kind of freedom.I'm both nervous and excited about the whole process. Hope you enjoy your travels and hope to bump into you on the road one day.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Hope your journey goes the way you envision my friend thank you for sharing your experience 💙

@oakleyhaig5072 Жыл бұрын

This is why your amazing your happy to express your feeling to everyone and show people that it’s not all easy even if it looks it I hope you find someone new and enjoy your adventures with someone even a friend but keep going your amazing will and fire service sounds amazing as you love to help people

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks Oakley, really appreciate the comment and yes the fire service could be just what I need

@andybrown6179 Жыл бұрын

I thought this was probably one of the best video’s you’ve done so far. Honesty, vulnerability, and some great advice. I’ve watched it 3 times.👍🏻

@joemd5043 Жыл бұрын

Great video as always Will, probably my favourite of yours so far! Really honest and good to see you process and talk things out. Because of you I bought and converted my own Ford Galaxy about a year ago and it’s been a huge help for me mentally. Thanks for using your platform to open up and inspire those struggling, it was a huge help for me and I’m sure a lot of people watching.

@Flash685. Жыл бұрын

Love you mate! You’re doing this adulting malarky very well. Keep doing you and you’ll find your balance 🙏💕

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Many thanks, it’s a work in progress

@pratsonfilm Жыл бұрын

Great video mate - and very sincere and honest. Know exactly what you mean about not having structure. Self-employment isn’t everything it’s cracked up to be for sure. Love the directness with this one 👍🏼

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thank you, appreciate it so much!

@KevinNordstrom Жыл бұрын

Just found your channel. Man does my stress level go down watching you. Been dealing with PTSD and depression from combat over the years and vids like this help. Keep at it brother.

@antonakimou Жыл бұрын

Yes Will, you finally done it… well done that man👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 This journey you are taking us on is an absolute honour, in every way. Thank you for sharing it with us, we all love it.

@RachelTScott Жыл бұрын

Hang in there Will life isn't easy for any of us. Set a schedule for getting videos up and stick to it. Maybe even twice a week. Sorry about your losses Lad. You do you and we will watch.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks Rachel, especially for the condolences

@victoriabyrne431 Жыл бұрын

Bless you, Will. Just wondering if having a little dog as a travel companion might help with the loneliness. x

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Maybe in the future, however if I get into the fire service I would have to take that into account

@garymilnes4851 Жыл бұрын

@@WillsWhereabouts Honestly, I dont think the fire service is for you, it is a very noble job, but, you have the soul of a wanderer, plus you also have to consider the huge mental strain that the firemen face, The idea of a pet is actually a very good one,

@garethlewis2680 Жыл бұрын

Good idea. Dogs are good company 👍👍

@garethlewis2680 Жыл бұрын

Good idea. Dogs are good company 👍👍

@garysimpson3170 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate your honesty and understand where your coming from the important thing is you do what makes you happy.

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks Gary 🙏

@briantheminer Жыл бұрын

Yes, wondered about Wallace, a shame that. But, onwards you go, adventures lie ahead

@WillsWhereabouts Жыл бұрын

Thanks man, yes it’s a shame but as you say onwards to new adventures! Thanks for joining me

@michaelbromilow9938 Жыл бұрын

Great video Will.. keep up the good work pal.. there’s thousands of us here routing for you.. I was in a similar place at your age too.. so I ended up getting a dog.. it gave me a purpose and responsibility and got me out more to enjoy nature and the outdoors.. then 8 years on I got another and now it’s a fucking nightmare 😂 but I still wouldn’t change it for the world.. I’m sure you’ll meet up with plenty of people on your travels mate and when it gets too bad just get Neil to come pull you out the shit 😂