Being busy all the time is a habit you made. You can unmake it. | Dan Pontefract | Big Think

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Being busy all the time is a habit you made. You can unmake it.
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One-third of us are suffering from chronic stress in the workplace. Other studies suggest that half of us bring our work stress home, creating stress in our personal lives.
Being busy has become a cultural obsession. But it's not the golden badge of honor we think it is. Dan Pontefract points out that there's a big difference between being busy and being productive.
The best productivity hack? Schedule a break. That means eating lunch away from your desk. Saying hello to people around you. Keep a graph in your mind that has 'action' on the x-axis and 'reflection' on the y-axis. Where do you sit on that graph?
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DAN PONTEFRACT:
Dan Pontefract is Chief Envisioner at TELUS, where he heads the Transformation Office, a future-of-work consulting group that helps organizations enhance their corporate cultures and collaboration practices. Dan is an adjunct professor at the University of Victoria Gustavson School of Business and is the author of several acclaimed books. Follow him on Twitter at @dpontefract.
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TRANSCRIPT:
DAN PONTEFRACT: The current approach today is essentially we've entered into a culture of freneticism-that's a Big Think word, and that means we're really busy. But I believe we've created the business on ourselves. Ultimately we've become distracted by- squirrel!-the next thing that pops into our head or the next thing that pops onto our device or the next thing that pops into our laptop; we're addressing it. And for some reason, we think it's a good idea to attend to every notification, every want of an employee, every need of a boss. And so we are loading ourselves up with more to do. We are ultimately working on the next thing while we're doing the current thing at the same time. We think that multitasking is a badge of honor.
We think that "do more with less" is the corporate mantra that's going to take us to gold medal plates. And it's frightening. And what we need to do is to take a step back and say, "How did we get here, is it good, and what's in store for the future?"
Right now, I mean ultimately, our team members, our bosses, our leaders are walking around like zombies, and it's not good. We go from one meeting to another. We're in a peripatetic state. We're just ultimately going from the 8:00 to the 9:00 to the 10:00 to the 11:00. We used to go out for lunch and pause, but now we go get lunch, we bring it to our desk and we stare at another device trying to catch up with everything we haven't done between 8:00 and 12:00, and then we go to the next meeting at 1:00, and we end up at 5:00. And then maybe we pick up the kids or we've got to go to soccer practice. And instead of looking at the soccer practice and the kids at that soccer practice we're looking at our device, because there's eight more texts and 15 more emails that have come in. And now it's 7:00 and you've got to make dinner. And at 7:00 and it's dinner you're like, "Well, I don't actually know how to make dinner anymore," so you order. And then while you're ordering you're attending to all your social streams.You're saying, "Oh! Well, I forgot how much I like dopamine, so I like those red things on my phone and my laptop that say, 'Hey, I've got eight likes on Instagram and 24 likes on Facebook'. Maybe I'll post more."
And then all of a sudden 16 more emails come in and you've got 14 more tasks to do because now you're at 9:00. "Well, I don't know, maybe I should just watch something." And so you binge watch Netflix for the fifteenth time and then it's 12:00 and you do the same thing over again.
So, for some reason, we think this is a good thing. We think that being constantly busy without having the pause, the meandering of thought, the marination in the moment; we think that we've just got to be constantly on and that's a good thing. But it's not. What we're doing is creating balls of cortisol. That means that we've got cortisol emitting from every orifice in our body.
We see that the APA is telling us that our levels of stress have increased since 1980 to a point where one-third of us are suffering from chronic stress in the workplace. We see other studies that suggest that half of us bring that state of stress home creating personal stress in our personal lives. So how is this good, when we're walking around with balls of cortisol emitting from every orifice? I don't see where this ends well for us in society...
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@THEBATMAN28AHH
@THEBATMAN28AHH 5 жыл бұрын
The type of people who bother me the most are those who don't necessarily NEED to be busy, but still bury themselves with work and proceed to complain about not having free time.
@InfoSopher
@InfoSopher 5 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this video with 2x speed because you feel like you have so much to do?
@JD2jr.
@JD2jr. 5 жыл бұрын
I used to have an extension that let me play at 3x. I miss it.
@InfoSopher
@InfoSopher 5 жыл бұрын
I suppose you miss it half ot the time. Ha, haha, ha? ;-D
@legarsdesplantes2223
@legarsdesplantes2223 5 жыл бұрын
1.5 speed is better!
@gustavnilsson6597
@gustavnilsson6597 5 жыл бұрын
1.55 is the sweet spot
@Cyberspine
@Cyberspine 5 жыл бұрын
I'm very busy procrastinating.
@who_we_are______5926
@who_we_are______5926 5 жыл бұрын
SAME AS FUCK!
@adriangalvan7872
@adriangalvan7872 3 жыл бұрын
This video came at a perfect time as I am currently hitting a moment in my striving for my business success where I hit a mental wall. Feeling guilty for feeling tired, I’m struggling with my self worth. And now, I see that I was in desperate need for a breath of fresh air in recollection. I can breath again and see it as a necessary part of my success. And not one to be ashamed of. I need more time with friends and family. And less grinding.
@SomethingStrange1579
@SomethingStrange1579 5 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree. You're only busy for the things you're not interested in. If you had a passion for something, youd make all the time in the world for it. Focus comes where the interest exist.
@curioussoul6059
@curioussoul6059 5 жыл бұрын
stevenstrumpf7 Truth, and lucky for us, we live in a world where we can interact with our environment to create changes :)
@SomethingStrange1579
@SomethingStrange1579 5 жыл бұрын
@stevenstrumpf7 agreed
@SomethingStrange1579
@SomethingStrange1579 5 жыл бұрын
@@curioussoul6059 😁
@2LegHumanist
@2LegHumanist 5 жыл бұрын
I'm busy because I have to pay 25 times as much for a modest house than my parents did. Owning a home and car and to make ends meet, something the previous generation took for granted and managed on a single income, now requires two high paid householders to be constantly working. Women have to have their babies and return to work 6-9 months later. And earning that kind of money requires constant re-education. And degree inflation means that while my parents could get away with not even having a degree, I need several and to constantly be working on the next professional certification.
@johndough6225
@johndough6225 5 жыл бұрын
I'm screwed. The thought of raising a family stresses me out to no end. Wish I could coast on 30 hours a week so I could enjoy my life, but that ain't happening any time soon. Oh well, at least I didn't have a kid in my teens like most of my co-workers in the fast food industry.
@2LegHumanist
@2LegHumanist 5 жыл бұрын
@MrCaptainkirk1984 Did you read my words? Which ones suggested I can't afford it? Also, what makes you think I'm paying more than I would be if I was renting? If I were renting my house I'd be paying more, not less. My wife and I make very good money. The point is that we need to make very good money to achieve the lifestyle our working class parents did with much lower earnings. #ReadingComprehension
@2LegHumanist
@2LegHumanist 5 жыл бұрын
@No Ma'am **face palm** What a ridiculous assumption to make when you don't even know how long ago my parents bought their house or where they live, how modest my house is, what my buying options are or where I live.
@2LegHumanist
@2LegHumanist 5 жыл бұрын
*Also you are commenting on you tube in the mid morning* Yeah, cos on the internet everyone's in the same timezone. FFS.
@dmaster225
@dmaster225 5 жыл бұрын
@No Ma'am I think he means adjusted for inflation, considering you could live the nuclear family lifestyle (house, kids, car, stay at home wife) in the 70's by just having a minimum wage job.
@felixmarinjr.66
@felixmarinjr.66 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so busy I didn't have time to finish watching this. Just kidding, I did watch this and totally agree. It's okay to slow down and just chill sometimes...
@lovepeacebliss
@lovepeacebliss 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes? all the time!!
@felixmarinjr.66
@felixmarinjr.66 5 жыл бұрын
lovepeacebliss you are right! Haha
@balisongkid1
@balisongkid1 5 жыл бұрын
Mindfulness. The word you are looking for is mindfulness.
@futurehofer1564
@futurehofer1564 3 жыл бұрын
I wasnt paying attention and when he said squirrel I got shook lol
@drunkenrampage1588
@drunkenrampage1588 5 жыл бұрын
Busy people aren't watching this video.
@OldBloodRKR626
@OldBloodRKR626 5 жыл бұрын
We're watching it while making a return truck 👌
@FedJimSmith
@FedJimSmith 5 жыл бұрын
Me while walking mindfully ~ KZfaq notification: new big think video
@WeegeeSlayer123
@WeegeeSlayer123 5 жыл бұрын
How to stop being so busy: Watch KZfaq Poops for a few hours.
@emeraldknight347
@emeraldknight347 5 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this at work right now!
@nO_d3N1AL
@nO_d3N1AL 5 жыл бұрын
Essentialism is the answer. I highly recommend Greg McKeown's audiobook on this.
@McLKeith
@McLKeith 5 жыл бұрын
Thankfully, I am retired and don't have to do anything I don't want to do.
@evolve3986
@evolve3986 Жыл бұрын
My god so true - but this stresssd me out like no means with the run through of the day !
@88HaZZarD88
@88HaZZarD88 5 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ ... this is so true ...
@mrhidetf2
@mrhidetf2 5 жыл бұрын
oh what a nice Vid... SQUIRELL
@HealingNatureMeditation
@HealingNatureMeditation 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent!!💜
@brendarua01
@brendarua01 5 жыл бұрын
Meditation - and a nice whisky now and then :D
@greenanubis
@greenanubis 5 жыл бұрын
My boss would quickly find a way to manipulate me into reflecting about work.
@efstrix
@efstrix 5 жыл бұрын
say that to my masterthesis
@niabride7636
@niabride7636 5 жыл бұрын
Good, good thats about me. He is talking about me. Heal me.
@keyorempi
@keyorempi 5 жыл бұрын
How can I say hello to someone in an elevator in a culture where strangers don't usually make small talk.
@Lopes736
@Lopes736 5 жыл бұрын
I want to get busy! I'm so tired of my hand.
@chrisose
@chrisose 5 жыл бұрын
Constant meetings are a way for the incompetent to feel like they are accomplishing something, even if all they are succeeding in doing is wasting time.
@doc2590
@doc2590 2 жыл бұрын
Our society, conditioning/programming have made us this way. Whenever I talk to anyone, at some point they always say, well what have you been doing lately, and unless I have a long list of things I have done I feel inadequate, lazy, inferior or like I am wasting my life. This is all bs. Life cannot be wasted practice being at peace. Life is not a competition nor an emergency.
@fandiks
@fandiks 5 жыл бұрын
I think it will be great if add some animation
@dlsspy
@dlsspy 5 жыл бұрын
axis ≠ axes
@S2Tubes
@S2Tubes 5 жыл бұрын
It sounded more like axies, the plural of axy, than axis (axus) or axes.
@kurono1822
@kurono1822 5 жыл бұрын
I need to opposite video: how to stop being lazy
@Koeras16
@Koeras16 5 жыл бұрын
By laziness I understand the tendency to procrastinate while knowing exactly that I need to do something more meaningful. Laziness is in my experience just the consequence of a poorly established value system. Create short term and long term goals. Ask yourself some meaningful questions. Is what you are doing right now the best thing you can do in that current moment ? What do you need ? What do you want ? How could you come closer to those small and/or big goals ? What would make your life a little bit less awful? (etc). Establish a mind map in which every step is explained. Be clear though. "I want to become a billionaire" is as unclear as saying "I want to become Superman to kick bad people ass". Well you see the idea. The process matters. Good luck!
@lovepeacebliss
@lovepeacebliss 5 жыл бұрын
Easy: do what you want yo do, not what you "have" to do
@Koeras16
@Koeras16 5 жыл бұрын
lovepeacebliss - Quite often you have to take care of the things you have to do, to be able to do the things you want to do. But yes of course, if the motivation is born through passion, laziness wont be a trouble.
@gustavnilsson6597
@gustavnilsson6597 5 жыл бұрын
The similarities might not be so far fetched as one would think
@lovepeacebliss
@lovepeacebliss 5 жыл бұрын
@@gustavnilsson6597 yup. i use to procrastinate my car maintanance. Now that i have a job that i enjoy that relies on my car, my car is in top shape.
@bamboor
@bamboor 5 жыл бұрын
¿Is that what YOU think?
@AtlasReburdened
@AtlasReburdened 5 жыл бұрын
Whoa, a sensible segment on Big Think.
@sunnymenghani1021
@sunnymenghani1021 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! What a nonsense that guy spoke with confidence
@SeanTheDon17
@SeanTheDon17 5 жыл бұрын
He is acutely aware of the modern human condition. I bet Marx would be proud.
@johnpleung
@johnpleung 5 жыл бұрын
what does this have to do with Groucho?
@user-zu1ix3yq2w
@user-zu1ix3yq2w 5 жыл бұрын
How 2 focus
@paulmalatesta8740
@paulmalatesta8740 5 жыл бұрын
cool
@sakuradeva555
@sakuradeva555 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not rich I gotta cook my food.
@CharDhue
@CharDhue 5 жыл бұрын
How its " we" when we just watching youtube?
@joshparrott8841
@joshparrott8841 5 жыл бұрын
One remedy: MEDITATION
@LeonidasGGG
@LeonidasGGG 5 жыл бұрын
Just say: "No."
@melissaconway9145
@melissaconway9145 4 жыл бұрын
If you're not busy then you're wasting time.
@bebica2012
@bebica2012 5 жыл бұрын
We are in modern slavery that's why we can't have a break
@247617
@247617 5 жыл бұрын
Clearly your well off as far as finances if you can even claim to say something like this
@Koons97
@Koons97 5 жыл бұрын
How does neurotically checking facebook posts make you acquire wealth exactly?
@GumbyTheGreen1
@GumbyTheGreen1 5 жыл бұрын
But he's not just claiming to say it. He's actually saying it!
@Gulgathydra
@Gulgathydra 5 жыл бұрын
4:24 ERROR:CRITICAL FAILURE:ERROR Do not engage strangers in elevators. That's how elevatorgate started. Saying hello to a stranger is a hotel elevator these days will get you ousted from the hotel. It may cost you your job (donglegate), your credibility, your freedom, your life. This Boomer is not 'hip' with the current year. Do not take this advice. Do not talk to strangers in enclosed spaces.
@shanegallant9018
@shanegallant9018 5 жыл бұрын
3 points to this... First, I believe it's been scientifically proven that multitasking is a myth. What ends up happening is one thing gets done at a time in pieces, along with something else, or a couple of other things. Second, I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing everybody rushing to an early grave. 3rd... "Squirrel !!"
@yasmine7649
@yasmine7649 5 жыл бұрын
okay but how to be busy ?
@pinkroses135
@pinkroses135 Ай бұрын
There's too much bullshit
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