Bruh- when you are struggling to get notes down in class and the girl next to you already has hers printed it in sans serif and highlighted 😟✋

People say this to me 💀👺

@@tealmarble5444 lmao I lost so much grades just bc the teachers hecking want us to take notes of EVERYTHING

🥲 that was so triggering (I’m a doctor)

Your* :)

This makes me giggle

H O W 😭

relatable i stayed up still 4 last night i am falling apart mentally and physically 🤠

I’m the 1k LIKEEEEE Sorry it just so satisfying

​@@mayamartin7359 somehow I read ur reply as:"it made me jiggle" Don't ask lol

lmao

2 of my freinds room: yup totally not here

I just saw your comment in Isiah Photo

@@sanmariyajoseph1126 😂🤣 in that case I love your sub list

@@trashbug4843 😂

Basically my aunt lol,

Being at that on aunties house like:sorry it's messy...but you can live the floor and literally feel BETTER....like....

mood

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IT WAS SO FUNNY

I was criticized for my handwriting all my life, now it's so neat people just say I must be a sociopath..I swear, I can't win lmao 😅

Yes. You get me.

100% lol. Our feeble attempt to control something in our lives

Saaame

Gay

@@coreyalan3675 no one care

@@coreyalan3675 imagine using gay as an insult in 2021 🥺💅

@@saltymarshmallows316 why would someone even be offended? Imagine someone thinking with was anything else? This video she seems pretty happy to me.

So true (why am I the first one to comment/reply)

I made the likes 1k 😎

it's really not that hard. I've been getting up at 5-6am since I was a child. Never needed an alarm clock in my life and it absolutely never felt like effort. However it's also true I go to bed at like 10pm

this is so hilarious because that's literally exactly how it works with most veterans that i know. i mean, just casually getting up at 4 in the morning, doing earth breaking workouts, and then being early for the morning shift.

@@blazejecar HOW??

@@dhriti4001 idk man. I got up early and went to bed on time as a kid and i simply kept that up. Now I'm tired af after 11pm automatically and even if i stay up exceptionally long on new years or sth, i can go to sleep at 3am and still wake up at 6-7 without an alarm. I also dont drink coffee or anything. I wake up, can immediatelly roll out of bed onto the floor and do pushups. It's honestly great. Some people tease me for being a "grandpa" who goes to sleep at 10pm but honestly i wouldnt give it up for the world

@@blazejecar damn that's great of you are able to to do all that and not feel tired, like i wake up at 6 for school too and yet I can't bother to wake up even one minute earlier on days when I don't have it or when there's nothing important

Very true I recently changed to homeschool (by recently i mean like 2 years ago )and had a very good role model right after transferring and I instantly started changing the way I thought I’m still working on when it comes to fitness and health but I was able to learn to be a lot more mature and I’m 15 now but when I think about when I was still in public school my immaturity blinded me to having meaningful relationships now I feel like I am able to actually have relationships that last a lot longer not just love relationships but friendships too

i’m the mf who wakes up at 530 on purpose but then i just lay in bed reading fanfiction

Nah I'm like an infection. Had a roommate who had their shit together and me, who flops upwards. I'd literally literally nothing all day and things jist went my way. Next semester he was literally just like me. Good Lord I ruined the man.

I started waking up really early but it's 5:00 am for me, I'm not a morning person, but then i remember that I'll have a lot of time to study so this inspires me

my brain is wired the opposite direction and I see it as a way to compare myself.

HOW DO U DO IT

Same

Same...

Too relatable to mention xD

ya it take hard work and discipline to get up

I never heard my alarm even tho I turn it on, alarm won't wake me up

bruv why cant i just be organised and have my life put together like that is a fucin privalige

@@qualitycontrol05 or you just put a little effort everyday until you reach that goal..?

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Same

Uhm…this is me 🥲 Apart from my handwriting sucksss

‘Be yourself, everyone else is already taken’ 😜

Literally

True! If only people knew these things. 🤍

Exactly, and they might be achieving all those things in a fruitless and misguided pursuit of satisfaction. Nobody works crazy hard because they're happy.

For anyone who feels like that and wants others to know: don‘t wait for others to recognize it by themselves (there is a chance that this won‘t happen), a true friend will not judge you for having issues/flaws/fears or whatever (also I think sharing your weaknesses is very strong) Don’t get me wrong, I highly agree with the original comment too :)

*laughs in insomnia*

Me lol

Uhm…this is me 🥲 Apart from my handwriting sucksss Also, workout and yoga..but protein shake before, then breakfast. And I journal after I do breakfast and before I go to bed, but I go to bed way to late 9/10

@@user-wy5kx2zv6v omg so quirky🤣💀

@Louis Kingsta sorry to hear about your insomnia! Hope it gets better ♡︎

I'm concerned that I can relate to that. Except the yoga and smoothie bowls part lol

Before my kid is was gym at 4am, shower and cook breakfast, then work at 7:30. Starting the day how you want just makes the whole day seem better

That sounds so cool but kinda unrealistic, it's like, does this actually make her happy or is it just for image ... I wish I was like your aunt but I'm your uncle instead lmao

@@skaio.5279 Exactly.

U can't never eat sugar. Sugar is also important for our body! But u probably mean sweets right?🍧

@@skaio.5279 Some people are built like that irrespective of whether that makes them happy or not. Even my mother is like this. She is a workaholic. Now at the age of 58, she has achieved well beyond her means and education. She is extremely active and knows lot of stuff about many subjects which other people in that field do not know. The key to success is work. Thats pretty much the entire truth.

Is your aunt marcia kilgore?

Why doesn’t this have more likes 😂😂😂

never heard anything more true

Lmfao 😂😂

This isnt me but it sounds accurate 😂

+1 for an actually original joke

Oh i thought, it was can i Beat u

wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are

@@EmptyEmpathy If you do nothing about the person you are, yes it is a waste. And that’s a good thing. Wanting to “be” someone else who is doing things right creates aspiration and motivation. We should all want to “be” someone great.

If I was them I would just ruin their schedule lol

I want to be you but not with the effort it takes

Yeah I went to a school in an area full of rich people and everyday was like this, it's kinda depressing

Except me and you!

Tbh, a lot of those ppl are probably hiding depressions, anxieties, eating disorders, etc. from everyone else. It's always the people you expect the most and the least

I guess I am worthy opponent

@@septimiusthedestroyer7394 I feel ya

my handwriting looks different every time so i cant really look like ONE specific font

I actually have disgrapia, a disorder where I struggle with keeping sentences straight, properly spacing letters, and keeping up with things like notes, so my handwriting is always messy

@@arion2931 literally me! it changes constantly :"( also insee youre a dsmp fan POGGIES :D

Your handwriting is influenced by your personality so you can't forcefully change it

@@arion2931 your pfp 👀

Lmao I also want to be her now

Literally 😂✋

I'm more a fruity pebbles guy, but yeah totally relatable

I'm more of a captain-berry-crunch kinda guy, but yeah totally relatable

Dude! That’s what I tell my mom and grandma, by the time I get up at 9am they’ve already done some yard work, cleaned the house, washed a few loads, washed the dishes, taken a bath and are clean and well dressed… I’m about to make breakfast ‘-‘

@@Chuleta_9 You made BREAKFAST!? sometimes, I don't even feel energetic enough to make a damn toast.

At first I thought I heard 'Can I mate you?' 😅

Course you do.

"... without having to do all the work you did?"

Mood

That’s exactly what happened with me and my friend today

Yeah hate that, my handwriting is a mess and inconsistent and theirs might not be perfect but it looks so good and consistent

my handwriting isn’t ugly but it isn’t pretty either, and ever since i was little i used to be jealous of the girls who had nice handwritings lol with time i’ve tried improving it and it definitely worked but it will never be neat and clean like i want it to be :|

😂😂😂

You know people with bad handwriting are smart and pls don't say 'well I'm not smart lol' cuz first it ain't funny second everyone is smart in there own way and third don't let others bring you down by the smallest things

Saaaaame

Oh my god same 😭

It's ok! Take the time you need to recharge and take it slow :)

The time you wake up has literally nothing to do with anything as long as you get the amount of sleep you need.

Does the time you wake up affect your acne? Lol I am intrigued

Health too

For me it means someone having a mature and strong relationship with Jesus. So 3 different people and we already have 3 different views on this topic. Interesting indeed!

@@TheRealSimeon That seems pretty derogatory against literally anyone not born into or prescribing to your specific denomination of Christianity...

@@MsScarletwings You know, the wonderful thing about Christianity is that anyone can become a follower of Christ. Jesus died for the sins of every single human being on this planet, all we need to do is receive that free gift through faith! I've seen what people are like when they have a strong and mature relationship with Jesus. They are really remarkable people! I hope to be that way one day!

There’s more to having your life together than just finances and relationships. A lot of people have both and are just putting on the appearance of happiness. I think mental health is also extremely important along with regular health too, but if they go wrong, you entire life will be a mess

My mom always did that, and now at my own place I catch myself doing it too, especially when a lady comes down lmao

@@DowntownLAKid I certainly hope you clean before she "comes down".

@@derp195 yup! lol

@@derp195 yo

If you think about why they do that it's kinda messed up. They want you to compliment them so they clean the house. They can't just clean it and let it be they need that compliment so they'll say it's dirty just so you'll respond positively

I can say I agreed to it, I used to watch lots of productive KZfaq videos and they somehow always motivates me to be more productive and organized

Then why my brother doesn't clean his fucking bed when mine is spotless!

@@yooooo8652 😭

My best friend in school was like that

Lmaoo the world would have ended by then 😂😂😂

Ok I should stop reading comments I am very offended because all these comments actually are like 'imagine having your life together' cuz I do and I luv it and I'm not sending hate I just kinda hate how everyone is saying having your life together is a dream come true or its to good to be true

@@farah-mt6dx This seriously wasn't meant to be hate in any way to anyone, I'm sorry that my comment offended you. :) xx

@@elleetn it's fine I knew u were joking but just kinda felt offended by it but it's okay lol don't worry about it

@@farah-mt6dx But for some people it really is too good to be true, for example I have ADHD and I can only try to imagine what it would be like to live like this because I’m literally mentally and physically incapable of this…

I haven’t ever struggled with high functioning anxiety before but I’m an overachiever and a perfectionist that used to (and to some degree still is) constantly kicking myself down, even when I’m already on the ground. Like, I have a great amount of mercy and tolerance for the imperfections/flaws and mistakes of others but it would be a gross oversimplification if I said that I need to extend that kindness and understanding to myself more. I have been learning how to love and accept myself more these days and finally try to see myself in a not-so-highly-critical light like all the frickn’ time! I just wanted to say that I’ve learned it’s okay not to be perfect and it’s quite literally impossible as a human so STOP PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN JUST BECAUSE YOU AREN’T PERFECT! Fact of the matter is… you never will be. Remember to love and accept yourselves as you are everybody 💝!

I’m so sorry. Just wanted to tell you that you will always be good enough. You’re great. Even when you don’t think so. I know a lot of “perfect” Instagram models who fans will tell them “I’d kill to look like you” and everyone thinks they look perfect. But in reality they’re some of the most insecure people and obsess about their appearance, constantly touch their face, freak out if makeup isn’t perfect, take 4 hours to get ready and are always late, blow people off when they feel “ugly”, etc. they’ll use FaceTune and photoshop apps for hours perfecting their photos, which end up half the time never being posted bc “it’s not good enough”, they’ll delete n freak out over comments that are any way negative about their appearance (no matter how tiny), spend so much money on injections and makeup and hair stuff, spend hours and hours taking pictures to get the right pose that makes them look thinner or on the good side of their face, freak out if anyone dares take a candid picture of them or posts it and insists all friend pictures be taken on their phone so they can edit and post it, spend hours lurking and comparing their looks to other Instagram models and feeling awful, not do live streams/video they can’t edit or spending lots of money to get expensive equipment and software so they can, won’t take pics without ring lights, have tons of anxiety about it, etc. In reality they actually look like average girls without all the makeup, lighting, and photoshopping. They have acne and bad skin, they are shorter or weigh more, they don’t have as big lips or small of a waist, and some look barely unrecognizable IRL like a totally different person. A lot of people think they’re perfect but most of them just have such bad anxiety about looks that they go far out of their way to make it look perfect by whatever means possible. And all those hours and hours of wasted time make them feel worse. They’re not happy esp when they know they don’t look anything like that IRL, it just gives them a short quick fix bandaid boost of self esteem when they get comments calling them beautiful, but then they look in the mirror and get depressed. It’s really sad and I know one girl who tried to kill herself twice over not looking perfect on Instagram and being obsessed with looking perfect physically online and the toxic culture and enabling surrounding it.

@@kx_xx It’s so sad how this is a 100% true and that it only keeps on getting worse, because the more you alter all of the pictures you post online, the more insecure and depressed you’ll feel because you realize that that girl looking back at you isn’t actually really you. Everyone would do well to repeat the following mantra from day to day so you won’t get sucked into the never ending vacuum of perfection. “Beauty doesn't matter because in the end, we all lose our looks and all we have is our heart(and soul).” Ann Curry

Same here! The worst part in my case is that everyone believes that I can achieve/handle anything and everything I'm handed. Even my husband believes that. Of course in reality I'm not capable of everything and when I protest and refuse to do certain things, they brand me as stubborn and unwilling. As if not wanting to do something is a bad thing.

Thissss 💯

very true, its good to see them still be friends. it can be alienating either way.

I get what you mean but I feel like the opposite happens to me, organized friends lowkey judge me

I'm pretty organized and I feel as if a lot of people are mean abt it, I just can't live my life without it 😪

I respect the respect. But for me, it’s hard not to feel spiteful towards these people. Because yes, they’ve been able to keep the simple daily functions of their life manageable when I, like many others, sometimes struggle to get out of bed. And often I don’t feel impressed by this productivity, I just feel isolated by it. You know? “You we’re able to get up at 5 or 6 am when I can’t even get in the shower”

Who said anything about pitting women against eachother though?? Only you brought that up. The video is made by one person playing 2 characters so of course it looks like women because the creator is a woman, but these type of people aren't just women. Sorry not sorry but I do hate these kinds of people because they are the ones who create the "standard" for the way the rest of us have to live. It's like the semi-joke about how 8am work/schooldays suck but morning people decided to make that the rule while the rest of us were still asleep. The deadlines, the workweek, the expected start of days, etc are all decided upon by them FOR us while some of us are so debilitated we can't meet those standards and fall behind in this strict societal structure they created. It gets to the point where it's an ableism problem tbh

Me: psss Alisha come here Alisha: what Me: come here Alisha **comes** Me: **gives hug** Alisha: why are you hugging me I don't even know you?!?! Me: oh... But a random guy on the internet says that if someone has good handwriting that means they're stressed and need a hug.. So I gave u one. Alisha: *.*

Ahhh so THAT's why my handwriting was at its best when I was at my most anxious!! Thank you for the explanation/insight! :D

Not always true tho. I have a very good handwriting but thats only bcs i very genuinely love hand writing stuff. Like i am a comp science student and all my actual notes are typed, so i take out time every day and write some random paragraph from some book into my diary bcs i really love to write by hand.

Not always of course, but I also didn't go into detail. It's not just necessarily good handwriting, because there's so many variations of good handwriting- in this case I was referring to the baseline, when it's unflinchingly straight, because that's a sign of tension. That, coupled with a couple other traits, can sometimes lead to font-like handwriting. But people who practice handwriting often can't be categorized with the typical traits of graphology; so yes, in your case that's probably not the case

Exactly ! I like to put extra effort into my handwriting because it helps me get the feeling that I control something, that at least this aspect of my life is clean and under control, especially when I’m in a stressful day, or just not feeling great day !

i feel for him. he's probably keeping himself like that to distract himself from those things.

@@hitormisshuh I don't think it's to necessarily "distract." Yes, it could be a possibility and could help for a little while, but you will at the end of the day have those trauma feelings coming back at you. It's more about how you precede those experiences by reflecting and growing from them as a person

@@anjafrohlich1170 Since when has meditation been escapist behavior? I suspect there may be some envy motivating these comments...

@@anjafrohlich1170 No one knows if he got his life together immediately afterwards, neither does it matter if he did got it immediately together. What matters is he pulled through and it shows.

Probably 1/2 of my accounting students have perfect handwriting. My handwriting is a hot mess. I feel a little intimidated, lol.

@@aina3387 my handwriting is that of an 8 year old and thats being polite to myself. I usually can’t read my own handwriting

@Tayshaun Emerson that’s tuff 😂😂 I can’t even sign my name. My signature is different every time. Now i think i need one of those doctor signatures 😂😂

Isn’t there a thing about how smarter people have crappy handwriting?

@@nylotical I mean that's definitely not true 😭😭😭

Look imagine you have fight yourself and alone fight every problem that comes with life so technically you know you have to win every time so you are like all charged up prepared yourself for that's which makes you positive from outside but internally you are a warrior not survivor and well Every warrior have to well fail once in awhile which makes you perfect human in my opinion who fail and get up and fight back

Chin up king, we’ve got you I promise

Anyone need tissues?

And then you catch a cold and can't do the things you gotta do to keep your body away from hurting

@@oopsie3415 When that happpens you take some tylenol and you'll be down for maybe 2 days so you call and cancel all your appointments (depends on how important) and bring hell to those that don't understand how health works.

Yea but some people have way less issues lmao

True, but normalizing issues doesn't help.

Sure but some people literally don’t have any or are pretty minuscule because they are normal people. These people exists they are called normal and productive people.

@@tfries72 While I understand your point. I do agree that some people have less issues then others. (Like Jiminie has said as well in a previous comment.) But I'm not sure if someone doesn't have any at all. It's totally your opinion to think that though. I just personally think that everyone has problems, but some are really minimal. (As you said as well) Also, I don't really consider anyone to be "normal".. since everyone has such different interpretations of it. (Like you, with your interpretation that they're productive people.) Also since you said "some people" I'm assuming that you aren't including yourself (I could be wrong though. And I don't mean to be insulting when I say that, everyone has them). I mention this because if you got your information about this from someone else or your impression of someone else's life. It probably isn't as accurate rather then if it came from you directly. Also, thought I should let you know that you kinda sounded like a smart-ass in your comment and a little patronizing too. (I say it directly, because I'm not sure how to phrase it nicely) Not sure if this was your intention, but I just thought I should let you know for future reference.

@@gingercakerules I’m definitely not the norm I was just saying in general but more than likely You’re right everyone has their issues no matter the severity and it’s relative

Same. Mine looks like a child’s scribbles

Sorry to hear that you deal with that, but I’m glad you’re making progress. Stay strong

@@badpiggy2403 thank you! (:

wow i wonder if i'll be able to do even half of what ur capable of. Depression got me so far that i am afraid of actually getting better.

that is freaking awesome, dude. I admire you for the work you've done. best wishes.

I'm glad you're getting to places where you want to be. The adjustment I imagine, is hard. I hope I can get there one day.

Couldn't agree more. I used to be the girl in the video, one of my friends was even jealous of me. Reality was I was in a cult and felt pressure to do those things. I am doing a lot better now sleeping in til 9am and having a messy kitchen lol

You are on a social media platform saying this.... God dam the irony.

@earth star - as a person who’s still struggling to get their life together, I needed this.

Working hard under current standards (ie trends) aint getting it together. Living life the way you need it is getting it together. You may need that afternoon nap. You may need more carbs for a sustainable e energy level. You might need more metime n less rushing around.

Lmao. What about being 40 makes you think we'd kill ourselves *less*? The prime of our life is over by 30, by 40 you're aching and cracking, and that's assuming you've lived a physically non traumatic life. Most of us are crippled by 25 or 30. By the time I'm 40 you're damn right I'm gonna kill myself. I just gotta work up the nerve to step in front of a truck since I don't have a gun and hanging is terrible.

i relate to your question and i feel that for me it is because 'getting your life together' with examples like this random video from the internet in mind looks like a checklist which was not written by you. makes you focus on and stress about things that may be of absolutely no significance to you specifically. earlier this month i made a list of goals which i personally would like to work towards and my life is changing for the better in little steps :)

You just put into words what I had been going through for years... 🥲

Just like the person who comment before me, I think it's mostly because of pressure. The more we think we 'have' to get our life together, the more we become stressed, pressured and ended up in this viscous cycle of 'I can do better. Why can't I?' And the thing is, people operate and work differently. For some people, being totally organised and having structure helps them. It works for them. For some other, they see method in madness, they have another approach and method in live. I am sure there are many other way to live too. This sounds cliche, but find what works for you. Good luck for your journey. Sending you best wishes ✨✨✨

If you try to do everything at once, you'll just get overwhelmed and end up getting nothing done. It's good to make a list of things you want to achieve, and why you want to achieve them. I make a list at the beginning of each year with achievable goals to be completed before the year ends. Stuff like "save $x by the end of the year (so that I can eventually buy a house). Find a cleaning routine that works for me (because I don't feel happy sitting in a messy house) etc. It's important to not set them too high, or you'll just be disappointed. Its super rewarding and motivating when you achieve even the smallest of goals. Eventually, you'll be where you want to be :)

This happens when my mania really peaks lol

Wait... Did she live in Iran? Cause that's literallt somebody i know who moved like at the beggining of 6ht grade. She has all of these things

@@louchevalier8709Sadly, she’s Malaysian..

@@4R4B_ Oh ok!!!

right like a fing toddler wakes up at 4 am all of sudden he is super hard. Man life waking at 4 am man pity me wooo is me ???????

No. Only pigs wake up after 12:00, well manered people get up early and prepare everything and are mindful of time

@@tomotomi2182 ok

@@Turnpost2552 there's nothing wrong with waking up at 4 am assuming you go to bed early and get your 8 hours of sleep. Its actually better in terms of knocking out some duties/hobbies/workouts before needing to get ready for work/school. Just don't be going out for runs in the dark at 4 am unless you wanna get mugged.

@@tomotomi2182 wtf...

Start living for yourself versus for others… once you find that , you will relax.

@@MediaBuccLA I wish it was that easy, however I don't have a good identity more than that I like math...

@@SuperCaptain4 I can relate

Yah some people that dont know me well think i have my shit together 🤣 but reality is, not that much. I just dont wanna look weak

@@SuperCaptain4 yo the same tf