Being "Nice" After a Bad Date Is A Problem 😬

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There are mainly 2 scenarios that occur after going on a date: 1). You enjoy it and look forward to getting to know them more or 2.) You believe you have a clear "not for me" after the date is over. So what do you do? As women, we tend to want to avoid this guy/conversation or "kindly" reject them slowly into the friend zone. But KINDESS is not the best solution following a date, rather, it's CLARITY! Listen as my husband Arden and I share why it's important to communicate after a-good or bad-date and how you should progress if you believe this person definitely isn't for you or could be your future husband.

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@ThokoTwala Ай бұрын

Having a man on really gives a different perspective, so please have him on again❤️ I think also Arden being able to draw from his experience with dating, gives it more insight and depth.

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

I’m glad you think so too. It really helps us understand and bride the gaps!

@user-bl2zy6hg6n Ай бұрын

I love the authenticity of this conversation, wish it could have been longer, and more topics have been touched on.

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

I’ll be having Arden back on mode and more so please share what other topics you’d like to hear from a guy’s perspective!

@katregensberg7777 Ай бұрын

Great except the microphone quality.

@TheSingleManPodcast Ай бұрын

Great episode! Love the dating talk as a Christian single man 🙌

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@ellenmensah6624 Ай бұрын

Loved this podcast and the 'scenery'. It gives a warm and settled vibe. This episode in particular is necessary as people have these awkward questions that they don't know or maybe are too shy to open up about. Plus its from a Christian perspective, so an even biggerrr bonus 😃😊🙌✝️

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

Really! I think we get so in our heads about conversations like these its helpful to have an outside scope. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!

@ginelleruffa5889 Ай бұрын

Love the wise advice you & Arden share from both a male & female perspective! More conversations together please ❤

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

Yes ma'am! On it😉

@aylindominguez943 Ай бұрын

Love love loveddd this conversation! I was just having a similar conversation with some trusted mentors and this was the cherry on top! Loved the cozy setting for sure.

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

I love having a guy speak to it because it almost gives women permission to not do the typical nice step away but direct more helpful communication!

@3BALL4 Ай бұрын

Did this guy ever get rejected or was he doing all the rejecting? Also, prayer over this is a waste of breathe. Humans have agency and if one person is praying for a relationship to grow, nothing is stopping the other person from walking away. I bet the girl sending this guy the letters was praying.

@ChristianBevereAuthor Ай бұрын

Prayer is multi-powerful. It doesn't coerce anyone into anything but rather aids us into seeing and walking in God’s will clearer, when we do it with pure intentions and open heart. And my husband was sharing positions he shared the hard conversations of not continuing a relationship since that was the topic for others in that situation. But hey I think he's a 100/10 so idk who could say no to him😂😉