this is sooooooooo true, we never run out of things to talk about :D awww you are so sweet! I hope we will meet you one day!!
@MarieLeopold_m7 ай бұрын
Loooved the chit chat part in the car!
@luciex50668 ай бұрын
Looove the talk on childhood. I grew up with divorced parents that never made me feel safe as they constantly talked bad about each other in front of us children and because my mom was very anxious which constantly put me in an anxious state (even small things such as her being really really cautious with my health to this day gave me the feeling of not being safe in my own body). Even though it's often with good intent, these little things reaaaally influence children when they're older. So for me making them feel safe and not being afraid of life is my goal 🥰
@amberspecter8 ай бұрын
But, at the same time, you don't want to raise reckless daredevils, so how do you strike a good balance? How do you raise kids who don't have a panic attack if they run out of hand sanitizer, but who also don't go dirt biking in a forest?
@luciex50668 ай бұрын
@@amberspecter it's difficult to strike the balance for sure, and i think it's normal to worry about your kids. In my case I constantly had to text where I was, wasn't allowed to go to a lot of places, was constantly called which gave me and my siblings the feeling that we aren't safe anywhere - there's a constant state of danger all around us. We were also super responsible children, so there wasn't that much to worry about. I can just talk from my own experience that the portrayal of a lack of safety all around me led to me being way more anxious as I got older. I wasn't an anxious child to begin with :) That's why I would give my children a little more freedom and trust so they have the opportunity to discover themselves. That doesn't mean that they can do whatever they want 😅
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
I relate soooo much to that, the part about not feeling safe, my parents literally fled their country and I took the permanent anxious feeling over. It's basically the main thing I work on in therapy, to re-establish a basic feeling of safety :') I have the same goal as you!
@oliviazhao91188 ай бұрын
you two really need to do a podcast. 🤩
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
mhmmmmmm see it as our video podcast :D
@valeriadavis61418 ай бұрын
your vlogmas brings me so much joy. also very obssesed w the coats jurgen is wearing recently. the leather and also the grey one. suits him so good !!!
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
so happy to hear :)) and yes Jürgen stepped up his fashion game!! I swear clothing can change a person entirely, never forget his skinny jeans phase :D
@kikiarhi53018 ай бұрын
The talk that childhood determines your adult way of living and thinking is 100% truee. I was planing on watching the podcast with Jeff these days, but you guys recommended it, so I am watching it Asap. Btw guys, I had sterotype that germans dont have a good sense of humor but with you two, I am just laughing and laughing. Love you 😍
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Ahhhh this makes me so happy hehe, humor is such a big part of our lives :) love u!!!!!
@effyst68258 ай бұрын
You guys!! We need a Winter-In-Berlin guide
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
a TRICKY one but yes!!!
@emmasophiadean85928 ай бұрын
i loveee your chats, so inspiring!!
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Love u!!!!!!!!
@janelowery68728 ай бұрын
You two are so great together
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
we love u :)
@xeniabecker7648 ай бұрын
Wow ich liebe es deine/eure Gedanken zu hören. Sie geben einen richtigen Mehrwert und Denkanstoß und überhaupt seid ihr beiden so inspirierend 🙏🏼♥️
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Tausend dank :') liebe Xenia!!!
@tetianaromanova26108 ай бұрын
I love your attitude toward the support system concept. I have a strong one, and until recently, I didn't realize how many people in modern society lack it and how it's being neglected amidst the booming individualism. I think this is a very important point. Love listening to your thoughts!
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
It's truly, next to health, the most valuable in life!!
@kimberlyclever50498 ай бұрын
Problem solving! Love it!
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Undervalued!!!
@kyraduetz96648 ай бұрын
loved it!! :)
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
love u!
@nicole.petitestyle69598 ай бұрын
Oh, mein Kleines im Hintergrund bei 2:30min 😅❤ Ist auch ihr Lieblingsgeschäft!
@manamori68948 ай бұрын
My dad always says “you are a successful person when you learn not to have problem with your problems” Berlin is a dream city ! Of course after NYC ! Xenia what is one place / museum you would suggest a person to go to in Berlin ? By the way you and Brenda have the coolest IG vibes 😃 Rue how can you be so cute 🥰
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Wooooow this is so good!! I suggest you should visit Nationalgallerie and Berghain hahahaha
@zeynepsayar2078 ай бұрын
This time Xenia is doing « 73 questions with Jürgen » ahahah
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
HAHAHA actually we should do that!!!!!!
@lillischwarze34278 ай бұрын
Ich bin eigentlich keine Kommentarmaus, aber ich wollte einfach sagen, dass ich dir bei den 3 Punkten so sehr zustimme! Gerade resourcefulness ist so wichtig 👀 Und zum Punkt support system: 💯 und deshalb haben meine beste Freundin und ich „building bonds“ geschaffen, ein Podcast, der zwischenmenschliche Interaktionen & Kommunikation thematisiert 🫶🏽 Keep the vlogs coming pls 🥰
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Ohhh wie cool, ich muss reinhören! Und wir lieben Kommentarmäuse ;))
@cristinamac-kay71758 ай бұрын
There’s my Xenia ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
@cristinamac-kay71758 ай бұрын
@@xeniaadonts 😘😘😘😘😘
@luciex50668 ай бұрын
Xenia in regards to your last video: Grace Beverley just uploaded a „how to set up for a successful 2024“. I think she also has ADHD, her system works quite well for me. When I set goals I use the SMART method (spezifisch, messbar, attraktiv, realistisch, messbar) in order to have realistic goals. And as soon as i write my goals down, e.g. „I want to work out three times a week for at least 30min“ I reduce them in my correction round because i tend to overestimate myself. My goal would then be „I move my body two times a week for at least 25min“. However, I'm not a big goal setter as my biggest successes have come unplaned. I last years I had 2-3 small goals, but they're not that difficult to achieve, however they aimed to improve my life a lottttt (one of them was to find a therapist)
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
I LOVEEEEE HER!! And your tip is SOOOOO GOOD, it is so smart (literally) because one of my main things is that I always overestimate myself too lol! And I love what you said that the biggest successes have come unplanned. You are wise :) I wish you all the best!
@AyH258 ай бұрын
How do you invest in friendships and make new ones? I have my sister and bf but sometimes have trouble taking initiative to reach out and connect when I am not seeing friends often
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
honestly its really not so easy, especially when you grow older. But from experience I can say, that it's something that you can't force and it happens in a serendipitous way. You can attract more serendipity by putting yourself more out there, visiting new cities, hanging out with different types of people etc!
@AyH258 ай бұрын
Ah fritzkola, I miss Germany :( I am looking forward to a hair tutorial, my guess is that you use Dyson ;)
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
Yessss the hair tutorial is coming for the 24th ;D
@helenveith56318 ай бұрын
wenn ihr das nächste mal in berlin seid, geht nachts zu dussmann, gibt keine bessere therapie
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
omg mehr Geheimtips! :D
@LisaWagner-ne8vh8 ай бұрын
How do you manage to keep your clothes dog hair free? 🥹
@xeniaadonts8 ай бұрын
HAHAHA is that ironic because you can literally see big fat dog hair on my sweater :D (answer is: I don't :D but I do bring my lint roller everywhere)