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BEST AGE TO GET MARRIED.

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North American Desi

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@Zeebarback.
@Zeebarback. Ай бұрын
The simple answer is when you get matured physically and mentally. Now it depends on environment and relation aware
@parvezhossain999
@parvezhossain999 Ай бұрын
Marrying in early 20s is the best, for all times
@silenthill1035
@silenthill1035 Ай бұрын
I am 41 and still not married. I had many opportunities to get married early, but I kept delaying, thinking that once things get a bit stable I would. I was so wrong ! All I have to say now is that learn science and technology from the West, but learn about relationships from the East. I am soon going to get married, but it's nothing how it would have felt had I married 15+ years ago.
@debitscredits1276
@debitscredits1276 Ай бұрын
I got married at 39. Marriage only happens when Allah wills it. Not a day earlier or late. No matter how much hard we try it will only happen when He has written for you. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try but have faith Allah will make it happen iA. Alhamdulilah! I’m content with my married life and husband. Pray for a good spouse and in-laws. I’m lucky in this regard. . Believe me it makes a difference
@tumblevid
@tumblevid Ай бұрын
Not a day earlier or late, Whether one time or four.
@zainabtaqi9650
@zainabtaqi9650 Ай бұрын
Beshak
@BorderlessBulletin360
@BorderlessBulletin360 Ай бұрын
Lol😂.
@rehangul6587
@rehangul6587 Ай бұрын
Behroz and Batool you guys are intellectually deeper than many content creators but something seems to be missing to make it more interesting. But still keep it up, don’t give up, both of you have potential.
@rehangul6587
@rehangul6587 Ай бұрын
I personally strongly believe that late marriage is better because marriage is not a luxury but huge responsibility. You need to enjoy independence in your life before jumping into making family. So for me based on my experience, later the better.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
At the end of the day there is no right or wrong answer… there are simply pros and cons… thanks for your perspective
@osamaakhter3976
@osamaakhter3976 Ай бұрын
I completely agre with most of your points. Most of the people dont look at soft traits like adaptability, aggression and others. During my marriage, i was 26, and my wife was 25, allowing us to mould and explore difficult and different situations.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
💯 same has been true for us…
@romanakhorasani2436
@romanakhorasani2436 Ай бұрын
I was 25 and my husband was 38, arrange marraige. Never had ANY unusual issue.. if we compare we had the same struggle what my other cousins or friends had. We ALWAYS understood each other very smoothly Alhamdolillah...
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
That’s wonderful… may you long years of happy life together…
@user-kh2mg7yu6n
@user-kh2mg7yu6n Ай бұрын
You married to father aged man😂
@user-kh2mg7yu6n
@user-kh2mg7yu6n Ай бұрын
What if when u turned to 30 and that time ur husband medically unfit to satisfy you?😅 Because when humans upto 40years they fall in medical complications.
@user-kh2mg7yu6n
@user-kh2mg7yu6n Ай бұрын
​@@NorthAmerican-Desi when she turned 30yo her husband is not more young as she in 30. So many medical complications can be happening to 40+men women
@ThomasEdison-dd8ms
@ThomasEdison-dd8ms Ай бұрын
@@user-kh2mg7yu6n that’s just your narrative. Movie stars are always marrying young girls and guys both as per their own satisfaction. You want to set your own standards for everyone. Many young girls are happily married to older expats in Philippines and Thailand.
@urduadabkaynaam
@urduadabkaynaam Ай бұрын
دل ناامید تو نہیں ناکام ہی تو ہے" لمبی ہے غم کی شام مگر شام ہی تو ہے "
@s_k_47
@s_k_47 Ай бұрын
KZfaq algorithm please please please share this video to more people feed. Very rarely I come by videos where I watch the video and feel it was time well spent.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Many thanks for your support
@rasikh27
@rasikh27 Ай бұрын
Keep up the good work! If I must be honest, why this video hit harder was feeling the mutual connection. As in, it felt like I was getting well informed advice from my relatives on this topic.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Many thanks 🙏
@puneetutfamily3454
@puneetutfamily3454 Ай бұрын
Excellent topic chosen! Assuming, any legitimate age below 28 yrs is EARLY AGE GROUP marriage and above 28 yrs is LATE AGE GROUP marriage. Assuming, the other factors and constants (biological, social and financial) are normal, if possible... Marriage must be accomplished in the EARLY AGE GROUP to achieve healthy family structure, biologically healthier children, better social relationship, stronger emotional bonding within the couple and the family, better personal + professional / financial growth. In the LATE AGE GROUP marriage, a person becomes more calculative and marriage becomes more like a DEAL and CONTRACT. All the Pros of LATE AGE GROUP marriage actually become Cons, later in life. Those Pros do more harm than they helped/contributed earlier. It is a wrong notion in society that marriage is a responsibility + liability and it hinders the personal+professional growth of individuals. Rather, with cooperation, couples can grow faster and higher than singles. Kids are the most precious asset of a couple. The scientific fact cannot be denied that healthy kids can be achieved only through the EARLY AGE GROUP marriage.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks for your builds - and great perspective on this topic…
@fizalmehram
@fizalmehram Ай бұрын
Seeing such an amazing content produced by our Pakistanis is so impressive. You guys deserve a million subscribers for this high level of intellectual content. Please keep it up and make more and more videos like these. Love from Pakistan ❤❤❤
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks please do keep supporting the channel with your views and likes 👍
@josephsm4661
@josephsm4661 Ай бұрын
Best age for men to marry is between 35 and 40. Best age for women to get married is 25 to 28. Best age to finish women' education is before 25 (max. PhD). Best age for women to finish their first 2 deliveries is before 30.
@thegenprince
@thegenprince Ай бұрын
😂 so until then men should be celibate? What a nut case 😅. And it gets harder to find a partner once you cross 25. Internet is unfortunately exposing young people to shit advice. Marry early folks 😉😁
@manhoosnick
@manhoosnick Ай бұрын
No one wanted to marry my but then when I got my visa at 38 then suddenly har aik ka istikharah bhi green ho gya.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Hahaha I hear ya…
@Sainto0
@Sainto0 Ай бұрын
Same but abhi visa lgna hn bs 😢
@manhoosnick
@manhoosnick Ай бұрын
@@Sainto0 bass inshAllah phir larki walon ko bhi jawab acha aayega khwab main.
@SaraThePharmacist
@SaraThePharmacist Ай бұрын
You are gorgeous, Batol!! Beautiful couple MA❤ Enjoyed the video
@muhJaw
@muhJaw Ай бұрын
Girls get mature early is not the reason, man need more time to get settle to provide well That is the reason I guess.
@mypleasure7388
@mypleasure7388 Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this in my early 20s had a lot of clarity from this
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Glad to know you found it valuable
@sajidhuin
@sajidhuin Ай бұрын
ll the pros and cons in the video were revolving around materialism. There are two marital models: 1) Classic: The husband works and the wife takes care of the house and children. 2) Modern: Both the spouses work to meet both ends. In my opinion, it is best to mary a younger woman in the classic model since she could be groomed according to the husband flexibly. The top most thing while selecting a wife in classic setting is to guage her capabilities as a mother. In the modern setting, both of them should be of the same age group. There are two major advantages in marying early in both the settings: 1) More time can be spent together in terms of physical relationship. 2) Children will be able to see younger parents. Marriage is a distraction for materialistic people. They should pursue it after achieving their goals. One of the problem in South Asian culture is that we are not taught about maintaining relationships.
@mahboobjamil9885
@mahboobjamil9885 Ай бұрын
Mashallah guys u guys r Awsm . Very intellectual topics. Keep it up.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks a lot
@softwareengineer5764
@softwareengineer5764 Ай бұрын
its all about fate. Sometime you get sick, something happens that can never expect. God has decided the right time. even people try but they cannot make it happen.
@ZararAhmed-m1q
@ZararAhmed-m1q Ай бұрын
I am 27 seven and i want to get married at 29 in 2026 winter What will you suggest about this. either it is late or early
@shammiiikamiii1074
@shammiiikamiii1074 Ай бұрын
I think divine blessings plays instrumental role when it comes to marriage.
@urduadabkaynaam
@urduadabkaynaam Ай бұрын
24, 25 is the Best Age !
@mjiqbal810
@mjiqbal810 Ай бұрын
Most of what you said probably applies to people (guys/gals) grown up in Pakistan or maybe India. The perceptions and outlook to life of 2nd generation (kids borne and raised here in the USA) are different than what you think. Anyway, good discussion.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Yes and no… some / most of the things are universal… they do apply question is still which one do you weigh as more important of a factor….
@drwaleejanaeem
@drwaleejanaeem Ай бұрын
But considering people don't make enough money back in Pakistan to own a separate house. They're going to live in a joint setup and this doesn't work.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Here it is critical that both spouse are working so they can start and fund the new life
@tausifhassan8595
@tausifhassan8595 Ай бұрын
Could’ve covered the content in 15 minutes. There was redundancy in the content.
@shkhan8016
@shkhan8016 Ай бұрын
I like your video,❤. Another big issue is children marriage in north america. They refuse lots of perposal and keep looking potential partners and rejecting each other for small things.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Yup.. we are still some time away from that… but see it happening around us too often… although I must admit I believe it’s the life most important decision ie who you marry and hence should not be taken lightly
@nadeemahmed36
@nadeemahmed36 Ай бұрын
ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب عمدہ انتخاب
@Thefunlifehour
@Thefunlifehour Ай бұрын
Loved this video
@mannanabdul8688
@mannanabdul8688 Ай бұрын
Thought full discussion 👍
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks
@shahidafwan1102
@shahidafwan1102 Ай бұрын
Some good points
@cartoontv1907
@cartoontv1907 Ай бұрын
Allah apko or sab ko khush rakhe Ameen , i also want to have my life just like your's in coming time Inshallah😊
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks
@user-kh2mg7yu6n
@user-kh2mg7yu6n Ай бұрын
Marriage should be done in adulthood. The advantage of getting married early is that your children become young in your youth.
@ahmedmohamed-on9lf
@ahmedmohamed-on9lf Ай бұрын
For men 26-29. For women 18-22
@shakoormuhammad2376
@shakoormuhammad2376 Ай бұрын
لڑکیوں کی شادی زیادہ سے زیادہ 18 سال اور لڑکوں کی عمر زیادہ سے زیادہ 25 سال کی عمر میں کر دی جانی چاہئیے
@saiali
@saiali Ай бұрын
It is very difficult to get married or to find your spouse.
@shaistabegum9206
@shaistabegum9206 Ай бұрын
Kuch log to 70 saal tak bhi mature mahi hote or shadi 25 mai lerlete hain sari zindagi rote bilakte apni zindagi bhi. kharab kerte haun or apne spouse ki bhi.or kuch log by birth mature hote hain.immature ko to kisi age mai bhi shadi nahi kerni chahiy
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
True
@drwaleejanaeem
@drwaleejanaeem Ай бұрын
I think marry early is really good for all the points that you raised, but one thing must be kept in consideration while marrying early is not to have kids. This issue needs to addressed to the potential couples considering marriage.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Yup having kids is what really changes things… so need to time it well..
@muhammadidrees444
@muhammadidrees444 Ай бұрын
Paa please change your channel name like CNN or BBC or GEO news because you have very good anchor
@user-ix5qd1bp4q
@user-ix5qd1bp4q Ай бұрын
If life = 3 Hours , then @ the age of 20 years old best.then go up to 40 year then 60 then after life is a bonus ?Who knows who cares go up to 100 ?Minimum Budget to enjoy life simple ways .
@hanam_11
@hanam_11 Ай бұрын
But if we get married early, then we have to born kids in upcoming 2-3 years.In Asian context, people have kids just after 1-2 years(females tend to do compromises and sacrifices in most of the cases).
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Having kids is and timing that is a different ball game all together… with its pros and cons a separate topic
@hanam_11
@hanam_11 Ай бұрын
@@NorthAmerican-Desi need a separate topic ❤❤
@muhammadidrees444
@muhammadidrees444 Ай бұрын
Paaa financial analysts never became relation analysts
@bushrasheikh8629
@bushrasheikh8629 Ай бұрын
What should be the age difference between husband and wife to lead a satisfied life ( satisfaction on all the levels)?
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
I believe there are again pros and cons to that… there is no right or wrong answer…
@sulemansadiqvirani4866
@sulemansadiqvirani4866 Ай бұрын
What do you do when you have responsibilities from college life to take care of your sister and parents?
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
You should marry some one who is not a liability,… rather can share responsibility… so a working and earning spouse…
@sulemansadiqvirani4866
@sulemansadiqvirani4866 Ай бұрын
​@@NorthAmerican-Desi Thank you, that's the difficult part to find someone, finding content person is difficult now a days when we are so much materialistic
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
I agree it’s not easy…
@muhammaduzairahmed8694
@muhammaduzairahmed8694 Ай бұрын
I really like u guys 🎉 Pakistans top talent
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@zahidahmedofficial5778
@zahidahmedofficial5778 Ай бұрын
Boys 25-29, girls 18-25
@user-yz9kn5yz4d
@user-yz9kn5yz4d Ай бұрын
I am 31 and single.
@dudebro755
@dudebro755 Ай бұрын
wrong, marry early
@silahkhan6811
@silahkhan6811 Ай бұрын
I think ye qismat ki bat hai... Hmare hath me ni h
@alimustafa.2606
@alimustafa.2606 Ай бұрын
Stable life and mature complete.bas
@muhammadidrees444
@muhammadidrees444 Ай бұрын
Paaaa behrooooz please don’t dominate to innocent wife
@zelmanito
@zelmanito Ай бұрын
You forget, marriage is optional. Just because our culture in west or east says to marry, does not mean its necessary. For some its better not to marry.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Agree it is optional… and I do subscribe to that…
@inticfc7734
@inticfc7734 Ай бұрын
It’s not optional. Islam asks us to get married.
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel Ай бұрын
​@@inticfc7734 indeed these people are doing kufr by judging other than what Allah have revealed
@keyboard-7073
@keyboard-7073 Ай бұрын
Anyone answering me ! may abhi tak itna settle b nai hua k may Pakistan may electricity bill day sakn nd my age is 28 nd salery is 40,000 mery khyall may mujhy nai krni chaiyay jb tak may settle nai hojata
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel Ай бұрын
Hazrat Ali married when he had nothing, what if you will be in this situation till death?
@muhammadidrees444
@muhammadidrees444 Ай бұрын
Paaaa please please smile smile smiles
@Jai_Shree_Johnnysins
@Jai_Shree_Johnnysins Ай бұрын
What if someone is not independent even at 30 years old?
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
I believe being independent is a pre requisite
@m.kamranrafiq9238
@m.kamranrafiq9238 Ай бұрын
I think, seeing the condition of Parenting model in Pakistan, one should never marry before the age of 25. Before 25, it's all drama and emotional immaturity.
@umarabdulrehman3395
@umarabdulrehman3395 Ай бұрын
Good
@user-lp4xh6eo6e
@user-lp4xh6eo6e Ай бұрын
For Boys the Best age of marriage is 28 and for girls the best age of marriage is 25.
@umairiqbal2880
@umairiqbal2880 Ай бұрын
Am 35 still single and happy
@fabolousfour1266
@fabolousfour1266 Ай бұрын
It depends on individuals
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Agreed
@deathwai7648
@deathwai7648 Ай бұрын
​@@umairiqbal2880yeah some are 45 abd divorced never judge your present happiness
@theinternetguy4426
@theinternetguy4426 Ай бұрын
Its subjective always
@sabihawaheed1476
@sabihawaheed1476 Ай бұрын
Great job
@careandcurefoundation7415
@careandcurefoundation7415 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
@aliakramsialkot871
@aliakramsialkot871 Ай бұрын
Before starting you sey my personal experience. And in video you used word research 5 to 6 time . So sorry 😔😔😔
@khawajamazhar9188
@khawajamazhar9188 Ай бұрын
She seems to be the one who likes to have the last word 😅
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
💯
@shakirhusain7987
@shakirhusain7987 Ай бұрын
Why is that with some people!?
@muhammadidrees444
@muhammadidrees444 Ай бұрын
BBC mean Behroz Batooool cast
@Sainto0
@Sainto0 Ай бұрын
😢
@tauhidalam2692
@tauhidalam2692 Ай бұрын
Musalamaanon ko shariyat k mutabik jindgi gujarni chahiye
@Tausif-khan-3304
@Tausif-khan-3304 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@muhammadidrees444
@muhammadidrees444 Ай бұрын
Paaa behroooz try to talk with smile face you are not in office
@khawajamazhar9188
@khawajamazhar9188 Ай бұрын
He is ...in her office 😂
@emnargroupllc8925
@emnargroupllc8925 Ай бұрын
keep it up guys!! @BahrozNBatool
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks
@technicalgamer44
@technicalgamer44 Ай бұрын
bro had more brighter forehead then my future. just tzke it easy.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Fully agree to that..
@aliakramsialkot871
@aliakramsialkot871 Ай бұрын
Sorry 😔 with respect Your video not so much useful. Sorry 😔 if you mind.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Sure… no worries
@AbdulPAK
@AbdulPAK Ай бұрын
❤🇵🇰💙
@aliakramsialkot871
@aliakramsialkot871 Ай бұрын
Very week statement s....
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
👍
@aliakramsialkot871
@aliakramsialkot871 Ай бұрын
@@NorthAmerican-Desi Kuch bataty han . Kia wakey hi AAP ko NAHI lag Raha AAP ki video time wast this.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
@aliakramsialkot871 I guess it was such for you… thanks
@indy500tabasco8
@indy500tabasco8 Ай бұрын
👽👽👽👽parents decide our life partners usually uncles daughter👽👽👽👽
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
:)
@dr.saharfatima9826
@dr.saharfatima9826 Ай бұрын
Boring
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
👍
@rehangul6587
@rehangul6587 Ай бұрын
Behroz and Batool you guys are intellectually deeper than many content creators but something seems to be missing to make it more interesting. But still keep it up, don’t give up, both of you have potential.
@NorthAmerican-Desi
@NorthAmerican-Desi Ай бұрын
Thanks … would love to know what you think can be done better… thanks for your support
@nadeemahmed36
@nadeemahmed36 Ай бұрын
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