I can add my two cents since my channel is literally about traveling the USA over the last 2 years as the theme of my channel. I will say you're generally right: no city is perfect! I made a video about this, and having been to over 20+ cities recently and spent a long time (months in some cities to try it out), I will tell you that you can't expect to just visit a city and expect women to flock you. In fact, if you don't develop yourself as an awesome person: good personality, good job, good physique, good fashion, etc., you're still going to do bad. Some cities have better weather, less racism, more diversity, less diversity, more racism, worse traffic, etc. I have yet to find a "perfect" city or close to it and that's something we need to be fine with. I've been and lived in many of the cities mentioned (DMV, etc.) and let me tell you, if you're expecting some significant jump in results just because of your city, be prepared. Sure, it may happen if you're coming from some really terrible town, but if anything, it just gives you some more opportunity to practice and improve yourself. One may see that as demoralizing but it's about perspective. It's an optimistic opportunity to find a better city for you to be your best self

Dont apologize to your haters. Asian boys growing up in america needs to hear your voice.

I'm sorry to hear you experienced racism. I appreciate you were just giving the reality of it, not really too emotionally impacted by it, just to give tips. I think you gave a lot of great points. I think it would be great if you can add some data points / evidence to your tips too for credibility. Great work!

Great vid. This issue has been covered, but you're the only one to give real solid practical advice. I used to blame geography for my lack of success, but you're right. Do the leg work, push past the internalized racism, & lvl up.

SOUTHERN COAST asian male here, southern girls in the south surprisingly do give you play especially in rural areas where you're the only one there! (just being different becomes a commodity) although BIG CAVEAT you must be baseline normie tier or upgrade yourself as much as possible.

I'm from Utah and the Asian population here is growing. Also most East Asian men I came across In Utah are all 5'10 or taller, a lot are even taller than 6'1, especially at the University of Utah, which is like the biggest University here.

It would be great if you can do a video on groups or communities of girls (aside from asian and white) that you feel asian guys can make good inroads with. For example, are perhaps Hispanic or black girls more interested based on your experience? Are there subcultures you seemed to do well in? That could be helpful

Excluding online dating ofc, race factor is just about invisible as long as you don't fit under the negative stereotypes. In turn, this depletes Asian men confidence which hinders their chances in dating. As long as you arent the nerdy, skinny, short stereotypical Asian guy, close to no women will factor race. With that being said, I think location in dating is going to affect all races about the same. In bigger cities it's obviously gonna be harder due to competition.

I grew up in the DMV for like 13 years of my life. I literally only seen 1 AMWF couple once and it was at the Duelles Airport. Fairfax is WMAF central. Only area that that worse ratio imbalance is The Boston area. Las Vegas is probably the best play for AM in the US. I was invited to a party in Boston literally every Asian female except one lady was with a WM.

5'7 Asian American guy here. Lived on the West Coast, Midwest, and South. West Coast = SF Bay Area - sucked, too many dudes. LA and SD - dating life was the best here. Midwest = was in Minnesota (Minneapolis St Paul). Had a great dating life here, but just my experience. South = Alabama/Mississippi - sucks

I recently got interested in situations about Asian male dating because i see a lot of Asian women dating and marrying more and more white men. I’m passed dating so I’m going through my experiences during my prime age in the 1970s, 80s, early 90s. It was absolutely difficult for Asian guys back then and I think it is still today, we are least wanted by most non-asian women. I grew up in the eastcoast NY and part of my life is now in Washington State. Seattle is bad surprisingly. I agree with you with many points. Looking good, being confident helps. Yes, dressing up helps a lot. In my opinion we don’t look good in buggy jeans, baseball cap, loose t-shirts, etc. If you look messy and basically below average in looks, it will be difficult. White guys just looks better wearing jeans, long hair, and heck even wearing suit and tie. Same for tall black guys. I know because most of my teen and late 20s I hanged out with all-white guys in a rock band. They all easily get girls. Eventually I dated several white women far in between, mostly in the eastcoast, but it was a struggle to get them to go out with me.

Hawaii has lot Asians

do a video on why asian females only date WM, or why some AM only date WF.

If SF is way better than LA. Why do I see way more AM in relationships esp interracial relationships in LA than in SF. SF is the WMAF capital of the US and has more WMAF than AMAF there.

Ironically, I found most racist comments made toward me in SF Bay area California. As diverse the area is --its the most segregated.

Best asian dating is in Harrison, Arkansas.

Nothing good to see in mid west or south really Even for travelling It's west coast for California East coast New York Florida New Orleans Is tourist though

Just wanted to share my experience here. I too grew up in a predominantly white area. I moved around quite a bit trying out different cities. I've lived in big metropolitan cities with lots of Asians to small cities which are 95% white. What I saw is, the amount of Asian males dating success is about the same. This may seem strange but here me out. In big cities with lots of Asians, Asian guys do have more success but only with Asian girls. And if you're really whitewashed like me, you might not even fit in as those tight-knit Asian communities have different interests. If you're an Asian male and you feel more comfortable with more westernized girls, whether you live in a big city or small city, it's about the same. Actually, if you live in a small city with mainly white people, you actually stand out more and have higher chance. But ONLY in person though. Forget online. You gotta go out there and actually meet these girls in person and yeah you can be successful. Not that it's easy. As asian guys, whether you live in a big city or small city, you gotta go out there and do the hard things such as getting fit, dressing well, do well in career AND on top of that, gotta go out there and find ways to seek communities and meet people. A white guy can just go online and get dates but we gotta do it the hard way. But to get out there to meet people in real life, you gotta take up hobbies. Luckily, I like to dance so I seek out dance communities, not for purpose of dating as they can see that coming from a mile away but just to make connections. The thing is though, you gotta put in the effort to learn to dance. See what I mean? That's the difference between us and white guys. White guys just need to have a decent job and use an app. For us, we gotta learn skills and take action. But what's the alternative?

Very interesting channel, but my perspective is a bit different. I am a gay white male who is very attracted to Asian men, which has some similarities to what you're talking about as far as the CONTRAST of Asian men in comparison to white men. I think that Asian men should be very confident in their desirability for several reasons, many of which you touched on here and in a few other videos. First off, look at the average American male, white men, in particular. After 25 years old, post college, most of them look like crap. I don't know how women could be attracted to them, in comparing to the average Asian guy, who in my opinion, presents a much better package. The Asian men that I notice, albeit as a gay man, are well groomed, well dressed, gainfully EMPLOYED, respectful, and they're not shlepping around in plastic flip flops, baggy cargo shorts down past their knees, a shitty t-shirt and baseball cap, and minimum 50lbs overweight! Yes, I know there are exceptions. Bottom line, is I think Asian guys got a helluva lot more going for them than they may realize. And, some of the racism may really just be jealousy. Go get-em tiger!

Why don’t you have any videos with you and your white gf?

Avoid Las Vegas at all costs!