Your mom got her parenting right. I say this not because of her lecturing you against wrecking an innocent person's home and marriage. I say it for the fact that she had built the kind of relationship with you such that you could actually approach her and open up about having a crush on a coworker. I wouldn't take that kind of openness between parents and children for granted.

@@oliveoyl1802 my mama is a genuinely good soul. I’m very lucky. Thank you for your comment.

@@7thMack I have no doubt at all about that. You ARE lucky. Please never take her for granted. Treasure her and every moment with her. P.S. Momma should consider conducting parenting classes 😉

Wise advise from mom but you also deserve credit for heeding it🙌

@@paintitblack9712 That’s a nice thing to say. TY. ☺️

Amen, mine policy is will shake your hand if you take mine🤣

100%

that’s awesome! I agree!

So effing funny!!!!!!! TY. 😉

Haha

The son had more dignity, she forgave him very quickly.

Here the only one who paid for everyone's mistakes was her friend, she was treated so badly that she slapped her and she forgives her husband's wow

No seriously, I played that part over like 3 times I couldn’t believe the age difference

@@AmazingAmoy Where was this part? What minute marker?

That was incest. She was his nice. 👑

😭🤣

That was so telling.

So true 👍🏽

So true ,but through my life experience, trials,tribulations,the pain" my pain" I myself being tricked mocked,cheated betrayed" as the Bible says "you don't get good fruit from a bad tree" and also bad fruit from a good tree, and as I say there's people,! Would blame and tear that human being apart physically, and " mentally justifying there lies actions ,want,selfishness and sin" breaking the ten commandments,adultery ,etc " sin' it can be ingrained through families, grandmother daughter granddaughter like a pencil,and you can fight tooth and nail ,but that person is determined to see it through to the day they die," blaming previous, husbands boyfriends etc justifying there actions, tricks,,oh oh disappointments of there sad life ,wanting pity of whoever's in there company,to quite literally destroying another person,or previous partners, and ,oh so sad the children of any previous partner, there's an old saying look at your in-laws,relatives before you commit your self, its like a disease" because ,a friend? Or partner ? Can literally pull the wool over your eyes,gaining your pity, trust,and your solidarity you will always be there'like a devoted puppy," then its,capture"= next victim! Its like that fly catcher tropical plant

@@terencebarrett2897 so true and very well put!

Netflix loooves producing more and more lying cheating couple shows and films and romatacising it as if that's real love and passion without much consequence smh. Just excuses and selfishness

@@nawal10 so, so, true! And people wonder why society is going to pot.

Yes 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I agree

YES!! What a timeeee

One of my absolute favorites was “A Woman Scorned!!”

They’re the “after school specials” for adult women lolol

She always made a great mom. ❤️

She is a great actress

She lives the roles!

Just read she married Nancy Locke her long time sweatheart

Classic actress

so true

100% true

Once is one time too many, there can't be any more trust.

Agreed. I know of two wives who took the husbands back. Secretly, at some point, the men began the affair again and eventually left for good.

thank you for passing on such important wisdom. ya'll listen this women , I KNOW SHE RIGHT-

That's what my grandmother always said.

This is true.

I have had Jesus with me in my life since 1977, and its been the best relationship I've ever known.

@@susiearviso3032 best comment I have come across here

Agree

That was my favorite part hands down!

Them alone were worth the movie

Great sons!

They were hurt too especially the eldest, it makes else How couple can divorce and just say he’s my ex husband Or she’s my ex wife, but kids cannot say he was our father right....

Yes. She's got some great kids and a crappy husband. That shows that u that in life you really can't have it all. A nice successful career, a nice fancy house, a nice fancy car, wonderful husband/wife, wonderful kids, etc. You will always have some things but not others. There will always be some shortcomings. And you need to be content with that.

My father in law married a materialistic woman who had her half nudely pics she sent him, in search of a well off man..amongst the Jehovah Wit's hall of all places, yes like a whore does,.he's not allowed to even call his Son my hubby, unless its behind her back or his daughter,.they married 6 months after my hubby's mama died..Wicked huh..she had her digs into so well..got him to sell off his home and get her a condo..reason why we can't talk to him is so he doesn't spend any of his money on anyone but her..Needless to say she controls everything more less and got her needs met.

Jenny, I'm sorry. If you haven't done so already, take the word narcissist and study it, maybe it might give you some answers, but I hope not because it's never anything anyone wants, to have a narcissist as a parent but you mentioned some traits that made me want to warn you.

I find it very strange that movies normalise and glamorise infidelity, cheating and so many negative things out there. It's so hard for oneself to process these things in real life.

I was 6 years old when I walked home to find my mom sobbing and loading up the car with stuff. When I asked her what was wrong, she said, "your father decided to see another woman and he doesn't want to be married anymore". When he divorced my mother, he divorced us 3 kids. And I went from being daddy's little princess - the apple of his eye - to seeing him for 15 minutes once a year. Gone. Not even birthday phone calls. My siblings and I then fell prey to traumatic situations that children of single mothers often do. _Horrific abuse._ The decisions that adults make can have profound consequences that affect everyone around them, especially children.

​@@selfesteem3447 Not everyone who cheats is a narcissist. That word gets thrown around and the definition simplified way too often.

That’s all I have been saying, like an affair is bad enough but to have it with your wife’s best friend daughter, your have known since she was a child. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Fear borne of experience is worse than the unknown

Absolutely! Once the Trust Bridge has collapsed there is nothing to build on. The relationship torn apart. WHY would a person risk betrayal again? I walked after abuse and betrayal with PTSD. Never looked back. SINGLE since. Could not fathom that type of fear, pain, and brokenness again.

Okko9ok

Congratulations on your long marriage.... Family is everything

Catherine, 43 years is wonderful, you say you hurt each other in other ways. Even if you lived with your best friend,or your siblings. Living with anyone for that many years, you would hurt each other.43 years, many people do not live that long, so you have both enjoyed a good life. How I see your lives,you have had your best friend thru the good and bad times....bless you both.🙏❤️💞

Depends what you're sticking out.

❤❤❤

@@skyegroome223 yeah, he definitely took advantage of that. There’s no way you can feel right about dating someone you saw grow up from a little girl to an adult.

And sex. He was bad and knew he was doing wrong. Can't get away with sin.

I’m glad she smacked the shit out of Joan!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

But the mother helped shape the way the daughter sees herself and others. The mother helped program and led by example. A woman cannot do that to a grown man with a fully formed brain and personality like a mother can with a newborn child.

@@elizabethr4107 I agree with SOME of what you said. But, she didn’t deserve to be hit. The husband was a weirdo who slept with a woman he’s known since a child. He’s the one that needed all the aggression. Not the friend. We have to start blaming these men for stuff instead of always wanting to blame women. & not to mention her daughter was grown.

tghatsmwgy soe religions forbid opposit sexs being together alone ...baptistd , religious jews ets

omg did he get his kid back?

When did she have the time 😢 smh

I agree!!!

💯% agree !!!

She is just acting her age. Besides, she is the youngest of the three and the least experienced. She must also be missing her dad...

@@bmaak That’s no excuse to become a jumpoff.

She had no father figure

For better or worse... Her. Choice

Absolutely. I couldn’t forgive. I couldn’t. I hold grudges tighter than I’ve ever loved anyone.

Groomer

They don’t change

So true it her choice

100% correct.

Just as with gossiping - if they'll do it with you they'll do it to you

@@TheKrispyfort Whenever I hear people gossiping about other's behind their back I'm quick to say "My God if that's how you talk about them what are you saying about me"? It's a great way to shut that crap down. Works every time. ❤️❤️❤️

@@thelight1385 Nobody steals common sense..... When we share it for free. ❤️🥰❤️

It's the old saying: "If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you."

It's, "losing."🙂 I agree that he only cared about losing his partnership with that extra money. He didn't care about his family.

Agreed! And there’s no way in hell I’m going to Europe, or even a corner store with my “friend”. We’d have to go to counseling, too.

Thank goodness you offer some sanity here in the comments. There is an awful trend running through the relationship with her husband that she started to stand up about but got talked out of by her friend. They make anger the enemy. Anger is our friend and nudges us to make boundaries in ourselves and with others concerning who we are in the roles we play. Betrayal changes everything. That is sooooo true. It breaks down things, especially denial.

@@CynthiaSchoenbauer Preach, Ms. Kat. You’ve a good head on your shoulders.

He's a jerk because he wants the promotion, and his wife is naive. She shouldn't have gone on the trip with her friend.

Hello 👋 how’re you doing?

Yes

It's seemed to work out for a friend of mine... my soulmate... I agree with you but life is complicated. My friend and I agree to disagree. They have been together many years now. A puzzle I cannot solve.

Life happens in strange ways. Don't judge.

My Ex-Best friend P got married very young and because she became pregnant, she had the habit of always having her very feminine and gorgeous BF at her house (she wasn't feminine, not an excuse to be cheated on, but it helped), and eventually her husband and BF fell in love with each other, they claimed to be the love of each other's lives and couldn't fight the attraction... It happened rght during the time that P had a 2nd child with her husband, which maked it even more horrible. However, they got married and had their own children. My EX BF eventually moved on with her life, and forgave them, it would've been difficult to be at war with them forever, the kids were often at their Dad's new house and his new wife became their step-mom. Contrarily to my ex-husband, hers always paid the child support, took great care of their children, and the step-mom loved them, as well as the woman who stole her husband. Three very fine goodwilled people, except for that dirty betrayal. My friend was telling me about it while driving me to her new address, she said she felt like throwing herself out of the window and I remarked to her that she was going to take a huge risk (on the ground floor apartment 😂), those roses were really very dangerous with all those thorns😱🥺

Send them into desert. Like it that the movie ends with the flight of the adult women. A friendship is something important.

Thank you

Indeed, they are all criticising the girl but he is just a manipulative creep who had an affair with a girl he saw growing up.

True

I remember watching this movie it brings back sad memories. They play their roles very well. I love watching movies I have already seen. Thanks y'all for uploading.

What a lovely statement, and so true🙃

Well women don’t think Rational when their husband is the one cheating 💯

Beautiful comment

@@flowerchild777 sad

@@flowerchild777 sad

Me too! I caught that and was wondering if this was made first 🤔...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I saw that and I thought wrong movie!

Lmfao facts

Yes! Agree.

I agree too. It was good, but sad.

Yes, the eldest son was brilliant.

Great screenplay and great acting! Meredith Baxter was a great actress! I also saw her in another movie called A Woman Scorned... excellent!

@@mariacristinabruschi7700 yep saw her in that one too

I thought the same as well. My brother & I were raised in a very similar fashion. I thank God that my Parents were faithfully married for 64 yrs. I miss you so much Mom & Dad. 🇫🇷 Arnuad Bourbon Amaral

Absolutely I thought the same and was cheering them on

I Iove her sons, so caring for their Mom

@@arnoldamaral7406 are you single?

😆

If they do it with you, they will do it to you !

Yes. It was disgusting and beyond weird. I would never go back to him.

That was NASTY!

That’s why when his wife said it’s practically incest I stood up and clapped..

Yeah, he is a proper pervert. She would have to be insane to take him back.

That's because it's all kinds of nasty.

😇

Yep my mom cheated and it destroyed our whole family

Sryio61io

Thats why God says not to commit adultry.

Everyone, who loves those involved are effected. It's a very deep hurt

@@katiel1979 , my heart goes out to all involved 😪🙏🏾

Women are just as capable of *demanding* their partner give them instant forgiveness and just pretend the affairS didn’t happen.

Because they think you’re supposed to love them like mommy

Betrayal surprises and hurts deeply because many times it is coming from people you love and appreciate, family, friends, wives, husbands etc.

@@tamorap1614 The most interesting story I have seen in years. Real life issues, Thank you

Tamora you are Right. Love is a very deep and sincere Feeling. We trust the People we love. Hurts As if you hv been run over with a street cleaner. LOL When u hv done your Best let it go. Change Things, start with your self. And pray to God

I hope you got that tramp fired.

Omgggg did u slap her...??

I kept thinking all her outfits were awful and her hair style was not attractive on her at all.

That's what I was thinking !

Yes. The old saying you made your bed lie in it.

So often the adulterers next marriage doesn't last.

i have never cheated on any of my relationships

I’m so sorry you went through that

Sending hugs❤️

Waiting on the update lol 😆

agree!! why would you going on trip with someone like that?

Couldn't agree more

she also did women scorned. you guys should watch it. A M A Z I N G acting to the whole cast.

She most certainly IS!!!

I'm agree. "Meredith made for these types of TV movies". I heard she is lesbian, is that true? Not that i change my mind about her talent, just asking.

I was thinking the same thing! She is such a good actress, extremely versatile. She can play a wide variety of roles very convincingly.

IKR. Pathetic

Yeah easy to say that after he’s gotten what he wanted from her

I didn't take him literally . I interpreted it as him meaning, he made a mistake by getting involved with her & regrets it

Cheating women are equally as pathetic.

Me too.

Hi Audrey

They don't. They just muddle through and make a different life.

Maybe they realize that human beings are flawed, and understand we all have a sinful nature we struggle with. That not forgiving leads to loneliness and bitterness. In the scene where she was at the divorce lawyers office i think she realized this, because even though her friend got everything in her divorce she sounded bitter. Personally, I don't know what I would do in this kind of circumstance, but I'd hope I would have the strengh and humility to try to forgive and work through it.

@@yukijames1321 , thats true. Sometimes betrayal is something to painful to live with, because the hurt from broken trust is too much. As i said I dont know what I would in that position.

@@guerralg63 I think you make some excellent points. Don’t know if I could forgive but I’ll agree with you on something else. Thus is a majority Christian country and our whole religion is based on mistakes and forgiveness.

What a great comment section! Really! You all have a genuine understanding about forgiveness and family. Like others here... I too don't know if I could forgive in a situation like this.

they were banging again the moment that plane pulled away from the gate.

Yes, I agree and understand.

She should have dumped him

Agreed, it was more realistic that way.

Great take

In real life they wouldn't be friends anymore And a divorce would have been

yeah her sons were great. It was so sweet how they treated their mom ♥️🧡

This is the 3 rd movie where a guy uses office night work 🤣🤣🤣as an excuse to go and see his mistress😮😢,why do women/ wives never wonder about this,there are very few people working in an office at night,lolol,unless they are cleaners ...😅lies and betrayal are the worst.

Hi 👋 how are you doing?

Having intercourse with a 10 year old neighbor in 1928, getting her pregnant and she delivers a baby at age 11 in 1929! Oh wait by molesting the 10 year old neighbor you maybe didn’t molest any of your 3 daughters!

Good movie, all actors are brilliant In their rolls life like issues. Lessons to be learned. People Hurt you the most are the ones U believed, to be worthy of your Love for them.

Well said. I can love and support but I also always keep a part of me to me. Do not depend on loyalty, having allies (friends, family), because these people are all bad? No, just human beings. If a strong bond with people you can depend on are in your life that’s wonderful! Just don’t expect it, be independent in more ways than one, love and take care of yourself. Never put yourself or your future in someone else’s hands.

@@MrStar700 So wise.

@@sweetvictory5643 Thanks for your comment. 😌

Joan was WRONG! She was a cheating friend by keeping her friend in the dark just because it was HER DAUGHTER he was having an affair with.

Right on! Shameless both of them!

She’s really insufferable.

Lol

Punchable? True that. Now to add a new word to my vocabulary...

The daughter and husband only ruined one family, not 2. His.

The daughter and the husband started banging again the second that the plane left the ground.

I am so sorry to read your story - it must have been very hard for you to watch this movie - if you had gotten the house it might have caused too many sad memories for you - sometimes starting fresh is better - I hope you have some kind and wonderful girlfriends to talk too - you're strong, you can get past this and come out even better than when you started - I hope God blesses your life - Cheers from Canada 🇨🇦

Cheating is not always painful, it sometimes is a way out.

​@@janisewellington3971 there's better ways. That is horrible that you say that. Hope you don't mean it for your own self infidelity comes with a price. !!! You lose your family money and your house. Anyone who does it beware.

❤😊

Why do men even get married if they are going to cheat? What's the purpose of marriage then, if men will break the commitment that they made? They could just stay perpetually single and be with as many women as they want. 🤷‍♀

I like what you said because it's very true

Some wives refuse to have sex with the husband for years, decades. So the husband is married to a piece of paper, and when he has a second woman then it is his right and duty to himself.

Men do the same thing

@@nigellbutlerrr2638 then get a divorce!!! Don't cheat just get the freedom you so wish to have and spare her the pain and humiliation of your adultery

👍

She knew that her best friend was the one person she could take out all her anger and frustration on, because she knew her friend is the one thing that was steadfast in her suddenly upside down world. Her friend was her friend trow all of it and she knew that she could count on her consistency. She even defended her friend when the son tried to dis her

@@ElDrom_Belle You’re right! That’s very true.

But his name was on the deed. Marriage and property go hand in hand.

Didn’t they both betray her

@@madelainemadelaine2934 SMH. THANK GOD YOU ARE NOT JESUS, AND THANK GOD YOU ALWAYS DO AND SAY EVERYTHING RIGHT. I HATE TO TELL YOU NONE OF US IS PERFECT, AND THAT INCLUDE YOU. YOU MIGHT WANT TO TAKE IT DOWN A NOTCH.

Hello 👋 how’re you doing?

Yes, after a few years you will find the self value you didn’t think you had Lots of luck DONT give up on yourself‼️

No, not me.

The only people without value in the relationship are the cheaters..try and think of it as..you no longer have toxic people in your life..the space they left is yours to fill however you want to make you happy..a gift....

Good for you. It takes a long time to get through your emotions so you are a strong person

Yes,because you are free,strong and came out better than he did. Good job

Yep. And so are the younger women.

@@elyse443 Exactly. All parties involved.

Agree

in this case so is the young lady. And It is he moms best friend.

Although I agree... How accepted it generally is in our Society!!! So many male Celebrities marry gals half their age. And it's been done almost since the beginning of time, families marrying off a daughter to some older well off fellow, regardless of whether or not the daughter liked the guy!!! Not so long ago, most women were considered property, to be bought & sold. We may personally object, but just think about how prevalent it is: Harrison Ford, Chris Harrison, Clint Eastwood, Alex Trebek, Cary Grant, Michael Douglas, Donald Trump, Alec Baldwin, Charlie Chaplin, George Clooney, Eddie Murphy, Warren Beatty, Sylvester Stallone, Bruce Willis, Bob Saget, David Hasselhoff, Jeff Goldblum, Sean Penn, Dennis Quaid, Richard Gere, Mel Gibson, Mic Jagger, Dick Van Dyke... The list goes "ON & ON!!!" It almost seems a former Star needs to marry someone significantly younger, or at least have a young babe on his arm!!! So, while we may not like it, it's generally accepted by society as a "Status Symbol." With a number of Glamorous Female Actresses following the trend, as they age... Liz Taylor, Cher, & Joan Collins, to name a few. Thank God for the Few Great Celebrities Couples with Similar Aged Partners that manage to stay together till "The End!!!"

👍 they never “…stood up (TO) their mom…”, they stood up (FOR) her.🙏

Amen

Her friend knew and didn’t tell her, that’s really bad. Her husband shouldn’t have been forgiven before her friend though, but I guess when you share kids and life it’s different.

@@youcantfightme8282 Atleast she made her daughter move out

​@youcantfightme8282 plus he supported her financially

Two of the greatest actresses of my lifetime

Agree

I’m watching her now on reruns of Mike and Molly

My mother was 13yo when one of her father's friends "seduced" her. I have suspicions about the identity of my "aunt" who was born sometime after. Might explain why 17yo her, and 18yo her, thought having me and my sibling was a good idea.

​@@TheKrispyfortreading the most popular comments, then the last, remotely popular... your family dynamic is cryptic, like a made for TV movie. Good thoughts to you...

@@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits sad but true. Don't be a hypocrite though, young men are just as loose. So you can stop all this nonsense of blaming the women. It's ridiculous, each person is accountable for their own actions.

He always realised what he had, he just thought he could have extra and not get caught. Cheaters are so self-centered.

Me too

Facts 💯 classics

They will if they watch them on You Tube 😅