Your mum and dad have been together for over 10 years and you can’t even remain loyal for a year ? You are not ready for a relationship tf

NK just likes to cap for capping's sake.. man said he wouldn't mind his girl bringing in another man. Shut up fam 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Joseph will need back surgery soon because he's really holding this whole season on his back fr

It’s not called “insecure.” Some people just don’t want that mess in their relationship.

This society has made it more then okay even amazing to be adulterous🤢🤢

i’m convinced Nk and Guddeh are doing a ting on the low

its obvious the only one with sense and self respect is joseph

Guh deh just likes to disrupt normality. Anything remotely normal or standard he has to screw his face up and be against it. He's a very annoying individual.

This is just dumb you shouldn’t compromise sexual for your partner. If you don’t want to then you don’t no one should guilt you into it

At this point, I'm assuming NK is just slow and confused. How the hell are you going to describe this as a compromise? Compromising means to find a middle ground, which would involve both people making concessions. There is literally no middle ground with a threesome because either we do it, or we don't. Only one of us is sacrificing our morals & dignity.

Monty, Joseph and Lani back Must really hurt carrying this season

Blue therapy is putting Bkchat out of business.

Sorry but I hate Guh deh’s attitude about it. Not everyone want to do 3some and it doesn’t mean that they’re insecure. You shouldn’t do it to make someone happy and that’s what the question is about. Stop trying to please people, you will lose yourself.

Cl blue therapy is more entertaining than this, but I’ll still watch this 🤣

threesome relationships don’t make sense find a man & just commit to eachother not a difficult concept, unless ur central cee

If you can’t comprise doesn’t mean ur partner should cheat on you💀cheating is not okay and never will be, stop tryna normalise stupidity 😭

I don’t get why Guddeh is confused as to why people don’t want a thrupple?? like it’s so normal 😂

Joseph is definitely carrying the season and I like Jaes dress sense and he’s funny lol. Monty is confident

Why is Lani a whole mood. “Yeah I’m not mature” straight up though 😂😂😂

Why is loyalty and commitment hard 💀 leave him sis

This is how I know I’m doing well in life. Because I’m only 20 and my mentality is not like these fools

Lani said every 4-5 years for 3some, coming like World Cup lol

This cast will never replace the originals. Blue therapy is keeping the show alive

Every week this show makes me deep how grown adults lack basic comprehension skills.

Mr Guhdeh is always fighting with himself 🤦🏾‍♀️like doesn’t even know when he does it 😂be calming down

Is that the Prada bucket hat on monte’s head that Deborah has been searching for?

this show really could have been a pioneer for social media debates and representing black people in a great light. instead it’s an embarrassment

Not Nk saying compromise, just know your worth doesn’t matter if he’s been your man for 1 year. Leave and find someone who will want to be with you and only you.

Why did Shelby start singing please 😭😭and why is gudeh wearing a Bali 🤣🤣yh it’s time to go to my bed

NK’s family needs to see his behaviour

Why is this even a discussion 😭😭😭😭 if u don’t want a relationship say so, it’s not that deep.

Oh lord forgive us for some of us don’t know what we do 😪

Wait why on earth did that girl just start singing like that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

“If U ask me question I’m a pure virgin”😭😭😭😭😭😭

Trust sexually fluid people to say sex is not that deep but base a majority of their identity on it. Such hypocricy. It's not an insecurity to not want another person in your bedroom when you are with your partner, it's just standards. NK is basically saying if you love your partner, then you'll allow them to cheat on you in person. That's got nothing to do with love my guys, that's what we call lust. This kind of thinking is extreemley manipulative and self centered. It's just the grown-up version of 'if you love me you'll have sex with me' kind of logic. Cheating is cheating, check the definitions, doesn't matter whether it's behind your back or in your face and is regardless of whether you're involved or allow it to happen. Just because you may be okay with it to a certain degree doesn't make it right. Maturing and being an adult is learning to seperate what is right and wrong from what you personaly like or is the norm. The definition of a compromise stems from being in a bad situation and having to settle for standards that are undesirable. If these standards are caused by nature and are not your fault then a compromise is simply necessary but if these standards are a personal expectation then that's an issue.

NK gets too stressed it’s funny 😂😂😂

I like Joseph’s thinking

Joseph has always been himself since day 1 with his opinions

Joseph and Lani are my faves. Carrying this show. I’m loving Monty aswell !!

Joseph carried as per, Monty was also reasonable even lani. Guh deh.. he was annoying, he just screw face the whole time and his points made no sense

It’s only been a year, how can you be bored already ???

Guh Deh always Tryna act like some super progressive individual...talking bout he'd never get insecure. MATE. you will even you Guh Deh. It's natural that we compare our performance to others it's human. Stop acting divine mate

They should just keep Monti Joseph Lani and Jesse and bring back the old crew. This is noise to my ear no one can even debate in an intellectual manner. The rivalry alone between Lucas and Adrian was epic. I miss that

I like that the guy in the light blue shirt tried to bring some order

Numbers one don't agree to anything that disturbs your spirit. Relationships mean compromise at times but not to affect your partners spirit and feel forced into something that doesn't sit right with you.

i couldnt take gudeh seriously in that confession but i totally agree with what he said! THE DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!

Bring Paul the provider on here 😂

i love dude in the blue. he is me in a conversation. let everyone speak their opinion. then we can go in detail.

guh deh is fighting with himself😭😭😭😭he’s just screaming when people are talking

Guh Deh a year is a long time??? If you are asking to spice things up after 1 year, what is going to happen 3 years later, 5 years later, 10 years later? Every year you'll be coming to me with this request. The guy should just be single and done because what's the point in having a regular person???

Can we get some more serious topics? This is what makes our community look like a joke. And someone tell guh deh to remove that rubbish from his face.

Lani always coming thru with the stories

Shelby always looking for a way to remind us she’s a singer

LOOOL. Gudeh is showing another side to him on this show. He ain’t built for this shit

NK and guhdeh put me off of them every week

The topics just seem to be getting dumber and dumber

I hope this non sense doesn’t get normalised lol

What is actually going on in this episode🤣🤣why is guddeh wearing a balaclava and why is Shelby singing

If you need a 3rd person in the relationship The person who is requesting it doesn’t want you in the bedroom simple as

what are these topics even, childish af. you’d be surprised to learn there are 30 year olds on this show smh 🙄

Out of all topics is this what they pick out 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Adefolake always sounds like her nose is blocked 😂

This uncle in blue is moving Like he’s mad civilised. Look at him trynna go around in a circle

Guhdeh won’t kill me with his outfit 😂🤣

Always Joseph. So much respect for him. Dnt change man

*God has left the chat* dbillionz10 has left the chat* decency has left the chat* self respect has left the chat* nonsense and sexual immorality has been added to the chat* I could go on

Fam a man needs to just stay single and live your life instead of sticking with one woman and asking for the woman’s permission to bring another person into the relationship

The Guhdeh Renee warned us about is showing. That guy needs medication. He’s not okay, he’s not even making sense lmao. Can they take him off pls.

i love and hâte this show

In this episode I came as captain Jamaica 🦸🏾‍♂️🇯🇲

Mums I just want blue therapy, these brain dead individuals are no longer the main attraction.

Montys Dms are gonna be loookin brazy now 😂😂😂

someone said guh deh looks like he's about to drop a drill tape featuring lil nas X LOL

NK said comprise then he said it’s greedy😂 this guy

Guhdeh thinks he is always right init, 🙄🙄🙄 He sees everything as an attack or double standards like.... I feel people alter his opinion for his sake and I disagree with him About the 50/50 it’s not 50/50 if the other half does not accept its not insecurity its morals I don’t know I feel like gay relationships are more fluid than straight relationships because the other may not be attracted to the same sex and not feel comfortable accepting or be open it is what it is , sex is all about feeling comfortable

Relationships are not for everyone.

I luvvvvvvv lani and her honestly 🤣❤️

This show is beyond toxic. How can man say “if your man wants to bring someone else into the bedroom it means you’re not doing it right.” BYE ✋🏾 I cannot continue to watch this shit. The immaturity enrages me.

“You spice suttin up cause it lackin seasoning”-Joseph, wod wod wod wod wod 🤧🤣✅

Guh deh face the whole show.....who is he rolling his eyes at constantly lol

I'm starting to join the Lani train. I like this woman

1:18 is NK slow? That's saying is the EXACT opposite of compromise. 💀😂

I feel like this will be the last season of bkchat..

Reapect to everyone involved with the show, but I would love to see Backchat to pick more insightful subjects to discuss. Give the cast a chance to discuss meaningful life situations rather than trivial topics.

If you love your partner and they love you, you should be enough for them

There are different ways to compromise and this situation is not one you do that with ESPECIALLY if the girl doesn’t want to

LANI and her Disney Princess crown 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

‘I’m not a predator oh’ Joseph is too funny 😂😂 he brings sense and banta. This topic is sad though, this generation is a bit sad, why would you bring someone into the relationship

monty is on the pick me spectrum. i don’t know where on it she is, but she’s up there.

Is no one gonna talk about the Pink Ranger at 2:32 😂😭

No one: Jesse every 10 seconds: “Okay ladies, ladies” 😂

Am I the only one day that hates it when they suddenly switch sides *cough cough NK* make up ur mind, back ur statement. First you stated the girl should compromised so the guy doesn’t cheat🤮 now all the sudden you wanna play angel and say it’s just greedy...

They're using the word "compromise" way too loosely

Thumbs up 👍🏾for Joseph please,he's such a breath of fresh on this show,he's very mature and speaks so much sense 👏🏾👏🏾

I miss the old cast man😭

They had to have got some new cameras cuz i ain't never seen BKChat look so crispy clear 😂

I don’t get how NK switched up like that 😂😂

Guhdeh looking like LBadderz😂😂😂

Scared for where this generation is going to. God forgive us🤦🏾‍♀️

Jae speaking facts though I acc like him lool