Do her a favour. Leave her alone.

The internet playbook: I'm not getting attention so let me go after BM

I promise I won’t lose sleep ..

Isn’t this the same girl that said she used to date Glocktavious despite being raised by a traditional immigrant family.

She doesn’t date American black men?!?!? Oh no?!?!? What are we going to do?!?!?!?

Anton needs to realize just because someone is talking in a nice sweet voice while insulting bm , is doing the same thing shes complaining about. I don't rock with anyone being insulted because they have a preference but she started insulting bm in order to justify her preferences ( like Ebony K) there is a huge difference

brothers pay no attention to this. You’re going to see more sister say this it’s just a deflection technique… They know nobody wants them. They’re finished on the dating market and so they want to take one last shot. Just take a knee run out the clock. We’ve already won the game.

How can she speak on American black men if she doesn't date them. Please make it make sense?

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

Us Black Men are NOT missing out😂😂😂

No BM has ever said "you're a dark skinned woman so you should have no standards."

From the wise words of Jay-Z, “OK. “

Now, as a father of a daughter who has a dark complexion, this is very distasteful and disturbing to hear BM are caught up into the light and darker skinned women not deserving better or equal treat. Fellas that mentality is JACKED UP!! Some of you have mothers who are dark skinned. WOW!! Colorist: "prejudiced against people with dark skin. specifically : showing favor to light-skinned people over those with darker skin within a racial or ethnic group.😒😒😒

I love dark skinned women. I can't stand when they throw us all in the same category. There's nothing sexier than a woman with dark, flawless skin and natural hair.

Anton, that’s her experience. I have a dark skinned black daughter and her experience was horrible by the male black students who laugh at her and called her names. Anton you cannot speak for a woman

my black American brothers she basically saying she would accept the bare minimum just not by you Ninjaz you must go above and beyond but in reality Brad ain't spending money on Keisha like that either

Colorism is a real thing, but I highly doubt that she looked up each and every black man’s background to find out if they were black, American or not. FBA gets blamed all the time.

If someone is worried about the location of the date ESPECIALLY if it’s the first date,It’s not about getting to know the person.Secondly,If she never dated black men Why did she feel the need to share this online?Just continue living your life…lol

Is it me or is she throwing out about as many insults as she said she received? Lastly, men should not buy meals for women they just met. Coffee, wine appetizer at most for first dates.😮

Ok she doesn't date black American men? Who does she date? Is she married yet? Anyone put a ring on it yet? 😂😂😂

When my oldest daughter said she’s most likely going to end up with an Asian or White man, my brother and his friend were mad. Um she’s biracial and very educated. It’s not about the man being Black but who she’s around most of the time. Her boyfriend is Asian and she’s living her best life. It wasn’t a personal attack but they took it that way. How many Black people do you know take “Outdoor Living” and “Archery” in high school. She had a 50/50 chance from the beginning. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

Anton I think it’s incredibly important to keep in mind that women like her only have these prerequisites for men who are their direct counterparts. She doesn’t hold the arab, white, asian, or biracial lightskin black guy to the same standard.

Lookin like mr popo from dragon ball z thinking we care about them

She didn’t lie

I've seen her, she was in another video talking about dating Glocktavius....smh

As soon as she said American Black men "generally" don't ..... She lost her argument

Don't throw rocks when you live in a glass house and have soft feelings.

I do not blame her. She is completely right! They need our help to get ahead because the majority of them cannot do it alone. When they get ahead they will cheat and move on to the next one. So leave them out there to do it on there and always keep seperate bank accounts and split all the bills down the middle. So when they start losing their mind you can walk away drama free. If women do not meet your standard walk away and do not ever sleep with her. Easy Breezy!

Any women who will not accept a coffee date means she dont really like you.

She is as basic as a Toyota Corolla, but she has a right to her opinion.

She don’t date black men?! Ooh nooo 😱, what will I ever do with my life 😭… 🤣😂😅

I'm surprised you're even talking about this.Blk women can date others but rarely is another race offering up marriage to them. It's not really an option except a very small minority of them.

If we’re saying the stereotype around BM is incorrect why aren’t BW afforded that same logic? BM and BW are raised in the same culture right? So it’s illogical that only the BW have the issues in dating and courtship. Maybe we need to distinguish what class of BP we’re talking about. She’s clearly describing pookies not more middle class men. Same with women. Maybe the it’s lower class BW with rachet or “new money” values that are masculine and use men for their money. Maybe the more middle class BW DO exist and are feminine, classy, non-combative and aren’t “modern” in a bad way. Just tired of these monolithic ideas recycling on both sides.

Black men in the comments proved her point, entirely. Not only was she judged for her complexion, and to make matters worse, she was berated for having standards. If she was a non-black woman, she'd be praised for her standards. We're constantly told to choose better, but we're punished for it.

Anton started out defending her then the more she talked by the time it got to the end of the video we see why she got the comments she got and was well deserved 🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂

No that is gold digging because a coffee date or a nature walk should be sufficient enough to get to know someone. I’m guessing the cheesecake factory wouldn’t be good enough either 🤣🤣🤣

She thought she could fool BM with a so called educated look. We've seen educated spiritual religious employed 304s.

Who’s glocktavious 😂😂😂

I'm not going to judge her for her preferences. No one is forcing you to date her. Just skip her. No need to drag her. However, I will NEVER take a woman out to more than a coffee/drink in a bar FIRST date. Second and third dates, will progressively get better as I see mutual attractions and interest.

A black Haitian woman told me she not Givin up cookie til she get married....but she not a virgin 😮

always with the projection over ONE situation that they can't get over...

It's all good she has her own opinion good for her.

Yeah nah I don't have a disagreement with her at all. If she doesn't want to date black men and won't accept a coffee date that's on her. I'm not dating her so no sweat

Coffee dates are safer and why meet a stranger at night and give mix messages.

She never said that she does not date Black men; what she said was that she does not date AMERICAN Black men.

Guys are responding with their "emotions," that's why they miss addressing her talking points and immediately attacked her. Yet, men speak of women being emotional as though men don't. SMDH!!! 😒😒😒

I wouldn't go on a coffee date because I don't drink coffee.

Funny how people will make such broad strokes of groups and only experienced a very tiny sample size. Sis, how many black men have you dealt with to determine all of this? You dated black men in every state? How about the black men that don't spend time on the internet? Even 100 trolls on the internet is not a sample size of american black men. If you want to date outside your race, just do it! Stop blaming everyone else.

This is laughable... show us receipts on a black man saying "you're dark-skinned. How can you have standards"? I don't believe a word of her foolishness

*Here we go. A 2 with 10 standards. The internet has inflated these women egos.*

I normally don't come on podcast like this. But the black American men I know are very busy and making money. When you talk bad about black American men's, let me know what circle you are in. The black men's I know are Doctors, lawyers, Anesthesiologist, Nurse, Business owners, etc. You are hanging out with the wrong crowd.

I love dark, black women with black features. I’m married to one. I’m a dark black man from America. To everyone online, stop generalizing. If you decide to stereotype a whole segment, that has to do with your limited experience.

Starbucks is expensive woman 🤣🤣🤣

These are the same Keisha’s who have so much opinion about what black men like and are the first to somehow victimize themselves when black men express a preference of a certain aesthetic (i.e. complexion, shape, etc.)

People attack me all the time, you open your mouth and you will get attacked. They didn’t take down your channel honey so stop crying about some comments.

She was 50% off, but had a few points. One thing, though: she said "Black American Men" feel that Black women deserve crumbs. A coffee 'Feeling Out' date is not crumbs. This man is paying attention to you, and unless you're going 'Dutch',, what's the problemon? Also, she mentioned a few scenarios which I can see as problems, but who told you to let those happen. Going back to your car to smoke is a choice, and if you chose it, that's on you, since you could have said no. But, overall, she has points, and flawed thinking.

Why is she running the hell out the filters 😂😂😂

🧢 most of the comments was women talking about her.

Btw, for the ladies scrolling.......a coffee date is a display of intrest in you and an offer to get to know you without wasting too much of our time and resources. Im encouraging all young men in my vescinity to offer coffee dates, if you both click, then feel free to do something more.

5:44 She said that it was a specific group which to HER IS MOST however most on the social media are attacking woman for how they look on social media. The good men outside of that most are not attacking woman on social media. I will be glad when social media creates a censorship towards vulgarity of comments where they auto delete in the FUTURE. So her experiences of this clip is on the basis what has happen and again we allllll know she is not talking about the good ones Anton the sad part all of the men think they are good the incels are swimming in your GOOD SWIMMING pools Anton 😂

She busted that's all I have to say.

I am sorry. It is unfortunate for her. She dont deserve to be verbally attacked for talking. But on the flip side of things. It is funny when you wanna show interest by courting women these days. They tend to use them men. And still be sleeping with the guy who won't even get her a big Mac.

She made a video saying she will not go on a coffee date with a friend or a man . She NEVER mentioned race at any point of the video but blk American Men ONLY went off on her talking about her dark skin because they are MAD about her not wanting to be on a coffee date. She could've been talking about any race but they got offended which is wild and very telling.

She's obviously lying since she has openly said she used to be involved with glocktavious Pookie and Ray Ray.

It's some truth to what she is saying...

Thank you Anton 💯

She is saving Black men's lives. Have a long memory gents.

She not lying

Bruh to each his or her own but my Opinion .. She Borin AF

If a woman is NOT seeking to be married, there is NO reason, at all, for a man to take her out to an expensive dinner. Dinner dates were part of the courting ritual between men and women seeking marriage. Women, of today, who are NOT out to use men for their money 🤑💰 should NOT expect expensive dinner dates. If you do, expect the man to seek s-e-x because money 🤑💰 doesn't grow on trees. My mother always told us to NEVER accept any gift 🎁 from any men we weren't interested in because 1) It's wrong, 2) It sends the message that you're going to sleep with them and 3) It hurts 🤕 men and will, eventually, hurt 🤕 you when you least expect it. God 👑 knows it's true! I have seen women use certain men and play games with them. Yet, when they think they've met "Mr. Right" he's ALL wrong. In the words of my mother, "God 👑 don't like ugly! You will reap what you sow." The Golden Rule remains the same: Treat people the way you'd like to be treated. 🤔 If you have no interest, whatsoever, in a young boy or a man, you should NEVER accept anything from him and don't mistreat them. We all have souls. Learn to leave people with their dignity!

I think that colorism is blown out of proportion . I’ve been black my whole life had homeboys cousins, all kind of man conversations. In my circles, a woman’s complexion was never a debate only when describing a person color comes in as a description

Is she lying though?

A solid 2

Wait hold on is she talking to you or the computer😂😂😂😂

This is part of the reachback. This is how they date: Pookie (Baby Daddy) Brad (Sugar Daddy) Productive Black Man (Step Daddy)

More propaganda coming from these chicks like her, us black men don't say shit like.

The updatable always has to more to say and offer nothing. Shout out to all my passport bros.

She looks really young and probably has a very limited experience with American Black men. She probably is the child of African or Caribbean parents and grew up in a predominantly white area but I'm just guessing off how her views and experiences.

Black men have standards, even in their younger years. But instead of being transparent and leaving a toxic woman or a woman that doesn't fit their standards early in the relationship, most will give her subpar treatment and/or bread crumb the relationship based on how they categorize her while leaving it up to the woman to figure it out and break the relationship off eventually. That's what frustrates women the most about men's standards.

She’s 100%correct!

I love coffee. If u don’t like it “BYE”.. 👋🏾

Bw like her swear Brads want them when it’s chads flipping and skipping them lol.

So, is she saying no black men meet her standards? Of course not, so the question is, does she meet the standards of the black men she wants? She's not wrong for having high standards, just as long as she knows that the higher her standards, the more attractive and cooperative her female competition becomes.

Good for her

wtf is bean juice ???

Anton, very few men in the comments are talking about her skin color or how she looks…they are asking who are you to say no to “a coffee date” when I’m just trying to get to know you and see if we are compatible.

I have a new rule now. Every first date I go on from now on will be a coffee date.

Skin tone isn't on my list. I love dark skinned women.

Yeah, men already be lying but black men are terrible towards each other and their women. Not ALL but most aren’t there when it matters. I would like to see better.

When I picture a young black American man, I picture a happily married man with a wife and children.

She got on a wig. She would be automatically disqualified from even speaking to me in the first place 💯

The internet has allowed ALL KINDS of people to voice their opinions. Now she is mad at the internet being the internet. ALL of this for views. SMH

I think we have a habit of generalizing when we give opinions about topics like this. Why get so upset about her opinion if you know you don't fit the description of the men she's describing?

These the women who say “date who you want but don’t mention BW” lol

30 seconds i cant get back

Why is it always the 1's that think they are a 10 and have all the unrealistic standards and are surprisingly STILL SINGLE 🤔

Girl thank you

One thing that these modern women dont understand. When we find a woman that qualifies and is marriage material, we will give you everything under the stars within our power, out of love. We want to love women, but unfortunately, most dont deserve it.

You’re not getting the “wife of ten years” benefits package on the first date I don’t know you like that sweetheart 😂

I have gotten ice cream at Beach and a walk along the shore for first date