My grandmother used to say, you can be poor and still conduct yourself with respect for yourself. You are a reflection of your parents. Grandma was a smart lady.
@jasperhighwind6119 Жыл бұрын
When I was a child, I was often told that I was “trying to be white“ because I will speak proper and have my pants up. My parents came from the hood, and my parents said that I would not be like that. So they taught me a different way and help me transverse in society better. The consequence to that was I wasn’t accepted by my own people; especially our women. So, I stop dating black women. I still help our community, and I still stand up for them; we share a lot of commonalities, and go through a lot of the similar misfortunes. but it is a shame that we are ostracized by our own people because we may sound and dress a little different. Irony of ironies.
@mistermr.6938 Жыл бұрын
Stop basing your "community" or your "people" based on color. Your community and "people" should be people that have similar beliefs, goals and ambitions. Not because they look like you.
@pinkwonderpower7906 Жыл бұрын
I got that too, the talking white thing. Why is it striving and speaking well - being white. What an insult!
@asxulxetesteronsxez538 Жыл бұрын
@@mistermr.6938 thing is, people do both at the same time. People want to be around others with the same ideas and beliefs and behaviors. And the easiest identifiers are physical and visible. “Acting white” just means that you don’t act the way that people I want to be around do. Moreover, you act the way the “other” group does. If your color is very important to you, and your culture is important to you, then those lines become blurred.
@valmuniz6222 Жыл бұрын
As a teacher of 13/14 year old kids, I see blacks being meaner to each other than whites would ever dream of being. All races have bullies- but the successful black students are bullied by blacks who hate school and hate society norms. I’m old but we didn’t do that - why are we going backwards? I know it’s not “cool” to do well in school- but it’s really hard for my black students 😢 They are strong and will succeed- their white friendships and blacks with similar beliefs will support them.
@DD-xf1yd Жыл бұрын
@@valmuniz6222 I'm White. My sister was a teacher, for about 30 years, in an Inner-City Neighborhood (Grades 2 - 4). Back in 1993, I remember her saying some Students would shame other students who were doing their work, & trying to succeed. They'd scold them with the phrase, "What? You trying to be White?" I was shocked!! I had no idea how difficult it was, for Inner City students who wanted to "succeed". I realized they had to be really STRONG, to continue on the path to success, because they had so many people who were trying to tear them down.
@angelwest7968 Жыл бұрын
I'm a black woman. I completely support her message
@Minji68689 Жыл бұрын
I don't
@andriaolopwi6871 Жыл бұрын
@@Minji68689bc you want to be a victim 😢
@ForeverEngland76 Жыл бұрын
@@Minji68689 No one cares 🙄
@Minji68689 Жыл бұрын
@@MovieFan13 no
@Minji68689 Жыл бұрын
@@MovieFan13 idgaf ab how the Irish were treated, it is not and will never be as bad blk ppl were and still are treated around the world.
@jacksaintjack2844 Жыл бұрын
She hit the bulls eye when she said how about making self respect a part of black culture.
@joycegray-xu1uu Жыл бұрын
Yes she did. I care about myself too much to go out in public looking like I just got out of bed.
@Sam-km8hu Жыл бұрын
@jacksaintjack2844 self respect is and always has been a part of Black culture. So in my opinion she's stereotyping for white views
@shimmer47717 ай бұрын
@@Sam-km8hu True. It's a fad these days to put Black people down for views... some Blacks fall for it. Smh.
@timeoffnow2 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 60 year old white man from Detroit. I have a world of respect for you young men! Keep doing what you do!
@beckycottrellbabazam3 Жыл бұрын
I’m a 67 yr old white lady and I absolutely LOVE you guys!! Strive to find a sweet girl like that, who has a brain, and common sense, and pride in herself. As always may God Bless and protect you. 🙏👏💜
@LyricMichelle Жыл бұрын
You love these black men, speaking negatively on what ? Bonnets that black women wear , you as a white woman, yes? Interesting
@juliennef1698 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree she’s a keeper a real lady with a lot of class 🙏
@unique-q9o Жыл бұрын
you’re in black business , see your old ass out.
@Sam-km8hu Жыл бұрын
@juliennef1698 you don't even know her so how can you be so sure?
@TheCPMartin Жыл бұрын
Uncouth is not showing manners and not respecting social norms in most situations. Uncouth is being too loud, swearing, aggressive, not respecting person space etc. Basically just being a disrespectful menace in society.
@lisaquigley-moon9583 Жыл бұрын
My brother 😩 I love him but we could not help him.
@TomMelchizedek Жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous and she has a great soul
@lorrilewis2178 Жыл бұрын
She is.
@000_x9 Жыл бұрын
My black friend never left the house without a 2-3 hour ordeal. She had to do her calisthenics, shower lotion all that stuff then iron her jeans and shirt then do the hair thing then spray it all with this and that. While I looked like a white hippy chic. She had the best grooming and cleanliness and organization of anyone I ever knew. And neither one of us had money then. It does not take money to be respectable in any of those ways.
@cbogolo Жыл бұрын
A og would have hung up those jeans in the bathroom during the shower and took those wrinkles out. Lol
@000_x9 Жыл бұрын
@@cbogolo not a female. You had to have a center crease or you weren't sharp in the 70s.
@estern001 Жыл бұрын
Being a snitch is criminal culture. A snitch is someone who committed the crime with you and talked. If you had a crime committed against you and talked, you're NOT a snitch.
@Yessamassaa Жыл бұрын
Not always. But yea usually it’s a dude making a deal for his benefit. Most don’t tho cuz I end up underground. But even just a Witnesses agree to testify is also deemed a snitch. And puts they life at risk. It’s not just about being involved. Cops already know they won’t get any info at all from neighborhood. Bc everyone knows- u don’t talk to cops. It’s ingrained into the dna at this point. Siding on the side of the criminal will forever keep this shit alive.
@drillingig2368 Жыл бұрын
They alll got snitch wrong sadly
@backtoasimplelife Жыл бұрын
I think how the word is being used in that culture is a snitch is anyone who talks to the police or other authority figure and gives out information about a crime/ something someone shouldn't have done.
@estern001 Жыл бұрын
@@backtoasimplelife I think you're right. I just think there is a difference. And that difference matters.
@KegstandOG Жыл бұрын
I don't think it's bad for anyone of any color to want people to look respectable when going into their business. Crap, parents teach your kids the difference it ain't white or black it's about self respect, dignity and a lil common sense.
@noblevictory2200 Жыл бұрын
I call them punk's or vermin. Too many so called 'thugs' consider the term as flattery 🙄
@MsDesiree39 Жыл бұрын
bingo
@jameshouse9627 Жыл бұрын
Success starts in the home, discipline, hard work, study. America is open for all. Your life IS what you convince yourself it is. Its real vs fake, everywhere you go. Stay away from fake people. Keep company with real. 💯
@evan258 Жыл бұрын
Man I got the whitest dad ever who was born in Pensacola, Florida (basically 20 mins from Alabama) and he said the EXACT SAME THING! He would NOT let me leave the house in my PJs, said no hats in Church or when I am dressed up, NEVER let me sag my pants and much more! People were so surprised cause he has such a strong southern accent and people think he is some redneck but he is a Southern gentlemen! He use to always tell me I need to respect myself and not dress like a bum and have good hygiene. He use to tell me that if you don't respect yourself how can others respect you?
@publictoilet1970 Жыл бұрын
My dad was like that too. He taught us absolutely no hats on at the dinner table. Now my boys do not wear hats at the dinner table they immediately take them off when they sit down.
@brandon.brooks4872 Жыл бұрын
Just stopping thru to say 850 STAND UP! (born & raised in both Montclair & Crescent Lake) Anyway, big ups to your pops and to you... your dad sounds like he was a great man, a guy I'd like to meet.
@fionaspath3332 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 70 yr old white woman...every person should have respect for themselves...You all understand this...And I respect you all for it...I was raised that everyone is equal....we are all the same...💛
@Notwokeorbroke Жыл бұрын
My mom’s famous words growing up, “don’t act like an uncouth heathen”!!!!!! I grew up in southwestern PA! 😂😅😊
@loisrogers9042 Жыл бұрын
My mother, white, born in the countryside of Vermont, always wore earrings and a touch of makeup and lipstick. Not just to go out, but at home too. Cooking, housechores, didn't matter. It was a matter of pride and making herself feel better. My father's mother made comments about her thinking she was better. Crazy.
@zenhaelcero8481 Жыл бұрын
Anywhere there are people trying to do well for themselves, there are people nearby wishing they wouldn't.
@ruthsaunders9507 Жыл бұрын
In VT I was always accused of being a rich snob just because I dressed half way decent. I just was a shy poor kid that knew how find treasures at the thrift store. I tried to tell them where to find the good stuff but they were too good for the thrift store. Some people...
@libertybell8852 Жыл бұрын
My mom did the same thing and worked herself like a DOG! She works harder than 2 men half her age still 🤣 but anyway, she struggled with depression BADLY, and they didn't do a lot of medication for depression back then, nor could we have afforded it if they did. So she had to figure out how to cope and still function to be there for us kids. She would wake up, make her bed, get dressed and ready for her day, do something with her hair and use a bit of makeup and perfume. Then she'd clean up the house so that she "didn't get dragged down by the mess." That's how she battled it. She didn't always feel like it, and people judged her as snobby and some even called her a whore because she was always "made up," but she felt better about herself when she looked good and THAT kept her from sinking in her depression. She gave me the same advice when I was horribly depressed and she'd call for progress updates 😂 not to ask how I felt, because she said that always made her feel worse, buy she'd ask if I did my hair, makeup, made my bed.. to take my mind to a productive place rather than the rut I was in. It probably saved me.
@laurelbrennan6295 Жыл бұрын
@@libertybell8852 Your Mom was a smart lady. And in her darkest time, passed on her values and experience to you, to help you. Probably the most important thing she did for you. 💖
@loisrogers9042 Жыл бұрын
@@ruthsaunders9507 Exactly. Me too
@karmenraper7262 Жыл бұрын
Self respect and confidence are the most attractive characteristics you could have. Hands down! You could be the most beautiful person physically, but if you’re a douche bag, you looks no longer matter!
@AnonYMous-qi2ol Жыл бұрын
Officer Tatum would appreciate this channel, especially Brandon.
@stephaniefarrant Жыл бұрын
I was just saying to my husband today that lefty society has appropriated the word 'thug', because if you ever call black people thugs, lefties say you're a racist because you're using the stereotype that black people are thugs. That's not a stereotype black people have! That's a stereotype for ALL young people who do thug things, like drinking in street corners and being a public menace. I grew up in a poor town. The place was riddled with thugs of all different skin colours. Why have some black people appropriated the word to mean bad black people? I don't get it.
@wheredidthetimego8087 Жыл бұрын
Hollywood did that! Started back in the 80’s
@jimmybobsap8729 Жыл бұрын
hell the word Thug is from Thuggee in India which were not very nice guys lol
@AdeboFunkyVoodoo Жыл бұрын
Lefty society? You genuinely believe that people on the right do not propagate these same negative stereotypes? When good ole boys see a black man jogging, assume he must be a criminal running from a crime and shoot him dead in the street: what exactly do you think is going on?
@commonsense4207 Жыл бұрын
They live in Victimhood. They have to make Everything about they are the Victim when in Truth they be the Attacker They be Scamming and they just can't Stop Scamming it is the Criminal Mind Set and when they are Caught it's Racism it's Everything and Anything and Anyone but them the Criminal doing Felony Crime and Attacking Law Obeying Citizens and they need Something to justify there Felony Criminal Attack many Times on White Woman and Many of Times the Attacker is a Black Teenage Convicted Felon that is Doing the Attack on the White Woman and that is a Fact of Todays World in these Democrat Areas thanks to Democrats Soft on Felony Crime. and there is Many White Woman and Men that want to be and have Children with a Black Person just so they can Show Everyone how Non-Racist they are for Nothing Says I'm not a Racist as White Woman Giving birth to Black Kids or a White Man having a Black Woman Give Birth to his White Kids and it all Go's Wrong when the Criminals come Knocking and there are Lots of Criminals/Underage Criminals in Democrat areas so you don't have to Wait very long. just Saying Careful who you have in your Life and who you have around your home and Children and don't do something so Stupid so Show anyone your not a Racist for if anyone Thinks your a Racist That's there Problem for they will Always think your a Racist No matter What you do and they will only end up Taking you for Everything you have. Just Saying put Good Law obeying Citizens in your life Race and Color Don't matter What they Stand for and What there About Means much Much Much more. People who have Felony Convictions and been in Prison and are or was Criminals/Underage Criminals is not what you want in your Life no matter if there Family or not or your partners Family don't have them around and in your or your Children's lives it will be only Trouble for you and your Children. I'm just Saying Don't live that high risk Lifestyle for Bad Things happen to People who do live that high Risk Lifestyle
@cashscience Жыл бұрын
Ask yourself this: Was it black culture that pushed "thug life" down the population's throat, like it was something to look up to?
@meg8294 Жыл бұрын
I definitely think music has a huge influence over black culture. If we look back in time, “black” music shifted from people like Louis Armstrong, Marvin Gaye, the Temptations, MJ etc to gangster rap of the 90s, which still dominates today. Aretha, Tina Turner & Patti Lebelle didn’t twerk half naked and sing about the color of their bootyholes lmao. Hollywood created this monster imo
@kathleenking47 Жыл бұрын
It was the 90s, which caused much OF black culture to go DOWNHILL C DELORES TUCKER tried to warn us 😔😵
@BBnSam1215 Жыл бұрын
That “black” music from mid last century was fire. Great stuff.
@karladenton5034 Жыл бұрын
I was just coming to say the same thing. I'm old enough to remember the huge impact that black musicians had on the early years of rock music. Little Richard, the Supremes, the early days of the Jackson Family when MJ was a little kid, Earth Wind and Fire. I could go on and on. Rap music had the potential to become something akin to bardic poetry and I am sad that the early potential was perverted in the 'gansta' culture
@BBnSam1215 Жыл бұрын
@@karladenton5034 i friggin love Earth Wind and Fire. They came to my town but the tickets sold out before I could go.
@meg8294 Жыл бұрын
@@karladenton5034 Completely agree. I’m 26, but I started working in nursing homes around 7 years ago and the music that my black residents would request really opened my eyes to the shift in black music
@TheJungletarzanboi Жыл бұрын
I’m Hispanic and I love my BLACK family. I always want the best for you. Culture is embedded in customs and habits. It’s tied to upbringing and nurture. Whatever negative culture was instilled in you is not the defining point of your life. You can choose to be correct and present yourself as you were meant to be. Just another decent human being with his pride intact and self-respect immaculate. We’re not different. You’re beautiful people. Show it.
@bloodoftheunicorns2621 Жыл бұрын
What people call black culture is really hand me down red neck/cracker culture. We “adopted” their culture because we lived with them during and after slavery. If you look up how southern white people were described it’s a one for one comparison to how Black people today are described.
@aquarius-woman5364 Жыл бұрын
The why are Hispanic men the second most criminals after black men? Do you think bonnets are worse than criminals Hispanics?
@elizabethbradley4301 Жыл бұрын
Everyone is good, so the whole trashing on "white people" has to stop by everyone as well. Its not normal or nice behaviour and seeing people who are also half white and half black repeating stuff like this about their own families for a handout and favouritism, I wouldnt say this is a great part of this culture. There is one thing to give praise but for a family or culture to succeed you need to call out your own bullsh1t as well. Noone is just beautiful or amazing just because they are black and this goes the same for any "community" and the excessive praise for a skin colour or sexuality needs to calm down
@herbertharris7316 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and same with my Latino brothers and sisters, I love you all just the same.🖤❤🤎
@TheJungletarzanboi Жыл бұрын
@@herbertharris7316 😉♥️
@cyndib511 Жыл бұрын
Your discussion reminds me of something Thomas Sowell said about dangerous neighborhoods. Something about the vast majority of people who live there never engage in criminal activity, and a small percentage of criminals ruin the neighborhoods for everyone. You get that.
@extanegautham8950 Жыл бұрын
Girl is right....and, she speaks English clearly so that everyone, not just black folk, can understand her...what a concept! that you live in a world with lots of different people...
@blossombolton9829 Жыл бұрын
I try so hard to understand these guys but I miss a lot of it because they slur their words. It's a frustrating experience because I really would like to hear what they have to say, but I just can't understand them.
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
@@blossombolton9829What guys?
@courtneyb6953 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! So glad to see this young later speak up. I do not allow my young daughter to watch certain things promoting the foolishness. How you carry yourself says a lot.
@PJnTEXAS1 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 63 year old white woman and I love and appreciate you guys. Love watching your videos and they give me hope for my grandchildren's future! The answer is LOVE and standing UNITED. I was raised in a home where we did not use the 'n' word. Still, to this day, I cringe every time I hear it used. It's just heart-wrenching. No matter the persons skin color, I hate to hear it come out of anyone's mouth. It just feels so disrespectful. 😢 You guys were talking about mindset, my Mama said that she had lived long enough to see that skin color had no influence on a bad attitude. Some folks are just bad, that's it. And I choose to not be around folks like that and that includes some of the folks in my extended family.
@lmtellsho6283 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone can afford college, but if you own a computer, you have everything in front of you. Education is a lifelong process. Pick a subject and learn every thing you can about it. Dont go full time...take a class. Then take another. The longest journey begins with a single step. If one goes on a vacation, one checks a map and plans the route. It is the same with life...pick a destination, plan the route, take it one move at a time.
@AP-gb3eh Жыл бұрын
Well said ☮️
@shimmer4771 Жыл бұрын
I'm in college, now. I have a degree in Business and working on my bachelor's degree. I'm 25.
@NiceyP0123 Жыл бұрын
Going out in public without cleaning yourself. Bc you can’t tell me someone in a bonnet, pjs, and house shoes, took the time to wash their ass and brush their teeth. 🤢
@LyricMichelle Жыл бұрын
Niggas don’t wear all 3 at once dawg.
@aquarius-woman5364 Жыл бұрын
What's on your head? Looks smelly and nasty?
@rodseel4545 Жыл бұрын
It's nice to see an honest heartfelt conversation between all of you. It comes across as authentic and touches on real questions.
@lennywells51 Жыл бұрын
You guys give me a lot of hope!!! I'm 67 yr old white guy but I appreciate all races. I don't want you to be white I just want everyone to use some common sense!!! Please keep your culture but your culture wasn't always about the hood culture!! Thanks for the video! Y'all's take (yes I'm from Louisiana) is very refreshing!!
@Kanikalion Жыл бұрын
Respect is key, and it starts with self-respect.
@colleenmonfross4283 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy (and relieved) to hear rational, reasonable thoughts come out of the mouth of a young person, black, white or whatever color! This young lady makes complete sense. The minute I hear or see anyone, regardless of race, present themselves in a positive light, I immediately give them respect. It's all in how you present yourself.
@LarrySalamander Жыл бұрын
The new crib looks nice fellas, proud of all you boys for seeing how far you’ve come as men. Y’all are some great leaders for the youth 🙏🏼💯
@MonteC68WC Жыл бұрын
Salute young men, you guys got good mindset. Good is good and bad is bad. People can learn alot from you guys. Respect.
@ianmedford4855 Жыл бұрын
Brandon doesn't want to get shot or robbed? That's it. Pull that man's black card.
@ericpalmer2754 Жыл бұрын
NO ...your looking at a man who will be highly successful in life because he has self respect & gets it ..that is coming from a 60 yr old white dude ...Hats off to all you guys , your making changes for the better for those your age
@LilBatGirl Жыл бұрын
I think when you are young, you have an attitude that says you should be able to dress any way you want and it's the other person's fault if they don't have the intelligence to look past it. But as you get older, you know that the way you present yourself speaks volumes. The way you dress is a visual language.
@karendavidson4897 Жыл бұрын
Loved your comment so true, ( visual language) that’s a perfect way of looking at it thank you. Big wave from Australia 👋
@coldhardtruth333 Жыл бұрын
No this hasn’t nothing to do with when you’re young . Excuses. You’re part of the problem..
@akirahunter9977 Жыл бұрын
You gentlemen are self educating, and it takes opening up your mind to help you learn and grow… Great talks
@CaptainSisko1972 Жыл бұрын
I have been say this for years. We have lost pride in ourselves. How you present yourself will determine how you are treated. With exceptions of course.
@theswordoftruth-dn9yc Жыл бұрын
You guys are right about the "music"!! Rap music has destroyed so much of what the black community had overcome ( from the "Jim Crow" south), by rising up an being pillars of the black community, but also as an American citizen. They had pride in what they accomplished, and owned their own business and home. Now, why is that bad? Because, rap made it cool to be a thug and/or a thugette⁉️ People are individuals no matter what your skin color! Live up to your own ideas and dreams for your life, with the underlying meaning to your life, being to be the best person you can be, no matter what anyone else thinks you should act like. I see a lot of black people with more of a tribal attitude towards life and forsaking their individual identify. That's sad, and will lead to an unhappy existence😢 You guys seem to have it together! Praise to your parents for raising you right. THANX for the discussion!
@glenyoung1809 Жыл бұрын
Black culture created jazz and blues, two very American inventions, they influenced rock music and other genres. Original rap music from the 80s genuinely expressed the black experience. However there were many opportunists who cashed in on black anger, the whole thug life and gangsta culture being cool, meanwhile those pushing the songs, lyrics and attitudes got rich while black on black crime stats rose. You’re right about the tribal attitudes, promoted by the far left through constant BS terms such as racism, white supremacy etc. Play on their inferiority complex and innate victimhood to exploit them. Look at the political spectrum to see who wants to exploit blacks politically, luckily it looks like more and more ‘minorities’ are waking up to the manipulation and saying ‘no more!’.
@phnigra111 Жыл бұрын
@@glenyoung1809 🔥🔥🔥
@elizabitty213 Жыл бұрын
It’s time to pop the stereotype bubbles and move forward! 🙌🏻😎
@LyricMichelle Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 girl stop
@lamiglass1 Жыл бұрын
One of the greatest things my pops ever taught me was ( when you leave this house make sure you go out looking like you give a damn about your life, like you wanna run shit and like you have more ambition than anybody else out there. ) those words have made good things happen for me because every job interview I’ve been on they took me serious and treated me like I was gonna one day run that company. And when I go anywhere I get treated like I’m peoples best friend! Moral of the story is attitude,presentation and your ambition level will make or break your life!
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@trishgatley6542 Жыл бұрын
YES Brandon again Spoke well💕👍
@mdunawaym Жыл бұрын
I graduated high school in 1978. I was blessed to go to a school with kids of all races. My black friends usually had higher grades than I did, but there was always one or two black kids in the school who would cajole them about acting white because they were smart. It hurt me back then to hear them accused like that, but they succeeded. I'm still in touch with a few of them, and they are doing fine. I worry about the one or two who accused them though. I am a 63 year old white guy who does physical labor for a living, and I do love it. But no one ever accuses me of acting black. We are all made in the image of the same God, and I celebrate the success of all of my friends, and never think about what color their skin is. It makes me so mad that those who can't try and tear down those who can.
@BuzzBeKillin Жыл бұрын
The moment she finished talking every dude on the screen instantly fell in love LMAO!!
@ronlopo6269 Жыл бұрын
Again love the way you guys air a subject and then talk it out
@bparkinson5397 Жыл бұрын
You guys are the best, smart, informed and sensible. I love your videos. From a 76 year old white man in England!
@davidhay6235 Жыл бұрын
Keep growing gentlemen. You don't have to agree on everything....you teaching yourself to think, reason and grow is the wonderful thing about your show
@lisachapman99116 ай бұрын
FACTS!! Thank you young lady!! ❤️
@barbaraperteet2408 Жыл бұрын
SHE IS RIGHT. SAD TO SAY. THIS POSION CULTURE HAS TO DIE OFF BEFORE ANY CHANGE FOR THE BETTER WILL EVER HAPPEN. 🥴.
@marymobley Жыл бұрын
Accept or reject people based on their character and integrity. This girl is 100% correct that going out in public like that is a very good marker for some kind of mental health issues.
@JacobHolker Жыл бұрын
What’s great though, and you may not have thought about this…YOU ARE changing people…this is how others start believing in themselves, staying classy and striving for more while not blaming others. You are part of the culture change. This will help all those who watch your channel, regardless of race or position in life. Keep on keepin it real!
@BabyRastasaurus Жыл бұрын
So i live in Panama and here the black locals just showed me what it means to dress appreciate. There is outfits for at home, for in our hometown, for on the mainland etc... I love it. I've seen my neighbor dressed like a queen for town meetings and in old stretched out pyjamas when we wash laundry after a rainy day 😂. People here already understand how important this is
@travr6 Жыл бұрын
I am attracted to black women but it's rare to find one like this woman.
@samkim3329 Жыл бұрын
First off, much love from the East Side, OKC!! What people need to understand is that you are judge on how you dress, how you carry yourself, your manners, and how you speak. You represent your family, culture, and what you think about yourself. You are your own “business card.”
@paularubina3778 Жыл бұрын
Greetngs guys, from Philadelphia 🎉
@kdeleon401 Жыл бұрын
Mo'Nique said something similar and the internet went after her too!
@Splendiphy Жыл бұрын
Content A1. Love the og crew and the new additions. Agape my brothas
@soaf1985 Жыл бұрын
I have never liked seeing anyone out in their pyjamas and bonnets on. And I have seen white and black women doing the same. Yes I get there are times when we are going through struggles, but for some people it is just lazyness. What example are you setting for your kids when you can't even be bothered to get dressed properly to take them to school? I was raised in a Jamaican household and this sort of behaviour was never tolerated. Good hygiene standards and looking presentable was a must.
@kingjames6568 Жыл бұрын
I think requiring a respectable appearance in a public business is more than acceptable, and it doesn't matter if it's black owned, white owned or green owned. I'm sick of this whole race s**t!
@RacecarSpelledBackwards71 Жыл бұрын
Uncouth is like inappropriate or just not in good taste.
@Angelthedog Жыл бұрын
Great video. Thanks, guys.
@kkrenken895 Жыл бұрын
You guys are on it! Thanks!
@georgelong6571 Жыл бұрын
Another great show guys!
@lisalambert883411 ай бұрын
You young men should be so proud of yourselfs, Your ahead in your class.😎😎😎😎😎
@backtoasimplelife Жыл бұрын
This topic needs more attention within the culture. Thanks for bringing it up.
@shavinehill4574 Жыл бұрын
I agree with this message
@memorymedia6188 Жыл бұрын
Cartier Family ROCKS!
@kfnccook Жыл бұрын
I love watching you guys because you're not screaming. You're not all over the d*** place and you've got your stuff together. Thank You I don't care if you're black or white
@karamcdonald1012 Жыл бұрын
Nice job once again guys!!!
@3YearsApart1613 Жыл бұрын
There is a black owned men's store where I live, run by a father and son. Those men look so sharp when I go in there. I feel like I need to dress up a little before I go in just to respect them and to have them take me seriously. You think those men would come to work in pajama pants?? Hell no, they are helping lawyers dress for court. I'll pay $100 for a dress shirt in their store because when I walk in, they look sharp, and I take them seriously. Looking presentable isn't a white thing, it is something you do when you want to be successful, plain and simple.
@valienterf Жыл бұрын
Totaly agree with the supersmart lady, you guys great job in the channel. 🎉
@BudgieBardot... Жыл бұрын
I am from the UK and this was very interesting to me. Where I live I have only ever seen white women go out in public in PJs. I even said to my Husband once that I feel they don't have respect for themselves to go out in public like that. I also live near a church and the black church goers are always beautifully turned out.
@ScreeminMeeme Жыл бұрын
This beautiful young woman nailed it! It's all about self-respect and acting in a dignified way. Women of every race should reflect those same qualities.
@MrChillerNo1 Жыл бұрын
more content like this! i like reactions of series, clips and memes, but this is actually educational. ✊🏿
@morganr4426 Жыл бұрын
I am not black myself so I can't even pretend to know what it's like personally, but I have seen my best friend of many years struggle. He is a phenomenal human. Extremely intelligent, eloquent, kind, hilarious, caring, one of the hardest working people I know, just all the good things. But he's expressed to me that he has struggled throughout his life with feeling very judged by others in the community, being told he isn't "black enough". Simply because he chooses to wear preppy clothes, loves school and speaks better than anyone else I know. He has been teased and mocked for "talking white". What's so crazy about the accusations against him is he knows black history like the back of his hand. He loves being black, and the way he dresses, speaks, or behaves doesn't make him any less black. He told me he has experienced the teasing, harassment, and hateful comments for a as long as he can remember. Of course not everyone treats him this way, plenty of people uplift him. But I never realized how much he'd dealt with until he opened up about it. Thankfully the older we've gotten the less it bothers him because he sees now that anyone who puts him down isn't worth listening to. But it still happens to him and I just don't get it. He would be a wonderful representative of any community, no matter what race he happened to be. Your race is your race. There is no specific criteria that must be met. Just be yourself and the people who genuinely care about you will appreciate and uplift you. Those who don't cheer you on when success happens, and instead hate on you for it, aren't worth your time or energy.
@ralphpal Жыл бұрын
African Americans and people from the islands ( Jamaica, Trinidad, west india ) have 2 different cultures Don't lump them together
@morganr4426 Жыл бұрын
@@ralphpal what?? I never brought up people from the islands and I certainly wasn't lumping anyone together. That is literally the entire point of my post, that we should not be lumping people together. That there is no single way to be black or express yourself as a black person. I was simply discussing my friend's experience as a way to illustrate that point. And I clearly said that not everyone does that to him and many people in the black community treat him no differently and praise his successes. I suppose I could have put the caveat that we live in America, but I thought that was a given, as the video was discussing being black in the U.S. I am not pretending to know even the first thing about the black community in other areas of the globe. But I'm not disparaging anyone from a particular part of the world, nor am I generalizing all black people from all countries. I only dislike the people, of ANY race and from any nation, who try to dictate to others how they should behave or present themselves simply because of their race.
@aquarius-woman5364 Жыл бұрын
You wrote a whole book about your friend. If you care about black people, fight racism.
@dougward659011 ай бұрын
The newcomer has a great smile. I love you guys.
@KevinGonzalez-gc5iu Жыл бұрын
You should definitely watch The View episode with Tim Scott. They tried so hard to isolate him from other blacks. I’m curious as to what you all will think
@KA-xs7vl Жыл бұрын
We are our own worst enemy sometimes. 😢
@janstein3857 Жыл бұрын
She is absolutely right
@eileencastillo6323 Жыл бұрын
There were Black millionaires in Tulsa, Oklahoma in 1921. There were thriving Black communities across the country in 1921. So....... there always have been successful Black citizens. If Greenwood, Oklahoma would have been allowed to grow to this day. There would be a great deal of generational wealth passed on by these Black prominent citizens to their descendants that they should be enjoying now.
@TinyMaths Жыл бұрын
I mean, who the hell would want to visit their local dentist office in PAJAMAS???? The only way I see that as acceptable behaviour is if you were a hospital in-patient and had to visit the hospital dentist directly from your ward bed. And as for people calling this business anti-black for requiring a basic level of decorum; what planet are they on? Just when I thought expectations for blacks could't get any lower, the perpetually offended took it down another notch.
@yogadoodles Жыл бұрын
It’s class not culture for any race. She’s so right.
@LyricMichelle Жыл бұрын
It’s class/- socioeconomic. It takes hours to do a black womens haur, a bonnet makes it so that she saves money and takes her hair down for work and other events. But we don’t care, right?
@nathanstrickland6508 Жыл бұрын
Ok, I'm going to ask. Who is the new guy?
@gypsyfiresign10648 ай бұрын
My vvery Southern belle Grandmother would always say, “don’t act common”, meaning act respectfully & don’t embarrass your family.
@zataha3 Жыл бұрын
Very refreshing to hear yall discuss these topics
@samantharose1144 Жыл бұрын
Love you guys ! ❤
@tonyharty3666Ай бұрын
In the 70’s black guys were the best dressed guys on the street. Vietnam vet USN. Chicago.
@theoriginalthinker9199 Жыл бұрын
Hey guys, I'm 65, black. Gangsta rap, angry black man movies like Do The Right Thing and Malcolm X, along with crack cocaine, destroyed the black community. Before that, we were on our way.
@davidcoe9384 Жыл бұрын
BE YOUR OWN PERSON .... KEEP THINKING DUDES
@whitechris720 Жыл бұрын
Growing up dirt poor and being white in black neighborhoods taught me skin color means as much as shoe color.
@JimBikeTN11 Жыл бұрын
It would be fun to hang out with those guys, and I'm 67
@natelee363 Жыл бұрын
white redneck here been watching yall for a long time yall have great conversations keep it up
@daniellebarrett6914 Жыл бұрын
I live in NW Indiana and the local utility company is in Gary , I needed to pay a bill at the office and when I walked in there was a sign that read no lingerie allowed 😮
@angelmoon1959 Жыл бұрын
Why and Who is the main question that needs to be asked makes people feel like this ? my money is on American MSM
@GeorgiaMostly Жыл бұрын
I work at a recruiting office in a primarily black area. Shocking how many applicants come in in pajamas, trashed/smelly clothes, bonnets, etc.
@Bucky5068 Жыл бұрын
She is not wrong! Good for her!
@curtisperry3633 Жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, you all made some good point, but the #1 Issue in Black America is that we are still living with "HOUSE" & "FIELD" mentality. That is the one thing that does not allow our culture to come together to be better. REAL TALK!!!