As a person with a psych degree, I've never heard "narcissist" in class as much as I've heard it in these damn tik tok videos😂

Black women don't even use the word "simp" I'm dead lmaooo

I can't believe sis came for black women wearing glasses with our nice clothes. Like bitch... im blind? and a lot of people dont like inserting contacts into their eyes. I- lol

I agreed the most with how black women treat each other. Sometimes other black women have taken one look at me and turned the other way or blatantly judged me even though we shouldn't have any problems. I try to say hi or introduce myself, sometimes it's received positively, other times not so much. We're both black women, why the bad energy?

The only conversation black people need to have is why do certain black people get on social media and complain about other black people all day long.

6:33 glasses have never been that serious😂

Her complaint was really someone wearing glasses while dressed up? Smfh she wanna say something so bad while having nothing to say. Rushing into discussions she wasnt ready for. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Woman-“Quit putting on all that eye makeup and eye lashes” Dee-“Girl mind yo business!!!” 😂😂😂

What they all said we're true but like you said not everyone went through this. I am born in the Caribbean but moved to Canada. Raised by my father, had a fun childhood and my father made sure I had all that I needed got the love of a man that many women never got from their father's. I consider myself blessed because he made sure I knew my worth. Made my own mistakes but even now as an adult he never ridiculed me for any of my mistakes and just reminded me how great I am. We need more men/black men like this. Oh yes I know my mother and have a great relationship with her but she got sent back to my country when I was 15.

Shout out to all the black queens 👸🏾

Another one is, specifically to black mommas, they need to stop being jealous or toxic towards their own fucking daughter SPECIFICALLY the daughter because it happens way too damn much

As a BLACK WOMEN myself, these ladies were SPITTIN FAX!!! damn… I’m glad that we can be honest with ourselves and admit that black women need to hold ourselves accountable as well, unlike the black men who are all under the other “black men aren’t ready to have this conversation” video. Black women let’s continue to educate, heal and grow!

I'm glad you said something about them eyebrows cause I was gonna keep it to myself also 😂 I made the same face.

8:06 💀 the blinking took me out

The man in the glasses can't be a simp or a feminist solely because he went on to spiel that men are supposed leaders, providers, etc. Like, if that dynamic is what some women want, fine. But none of those traits have anything to do with feminism or being respectful to women. Not committing domestic violence (emotional, physical, or monetary) against a partner shouldn't be seen as some higher achievement, it's the bare minimum for a healthy relationship no matter your gender.

Dee was ready to fight about that eyelash comment. Felt attacked 😂

The second guy is giving black republican incel tease from his looks to his message

I think the only thing that resonates with me in this video is how us black woman treat other black woman. I think that’s the only thing (at least talked about in the vid) that I’ve seen in black woman from all financial and social standards

0:37 that “OOP.” and that cackle 😂😂😂😂

1:42 the male pick me/nice guy made me cringe too much

8:05, The way her face changed had me flabbergasted!!🤣🤣was not expecting that.

Black women really can’t get a break… Not to mention, Black MEN & WOMEN as a WHOLE have A LOT Of work to do! 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

When she talked about from gay men, she’s talking about the manosphere that pretends to tell black women what they need for high value men. There’s a rumor that Kevin Samuels is gay.

9:18 😭😭😭 I swear you read my mind! Her Disney villain brows spoke louder than her.

Alot of the things that we do as a community can be linked to slavery. People will say that slavery is over (years fact that it actually isn't is a topic for another time) but the mindset that comes along with that is NOT. That's why it IS important to heal because all of these are generational and its difficult to break when you don't ACKNOWLEDGE where it comes from. Some people are able to acknowledge and accept that and do better but not enough of us ARE. Before we were colonized we took care if each other as a community. Everyone played their part and we weren't divided the way we have been since colonization took over. Women have been the nurturers and in order to work have depended on their kids to help with the younger kids. My siblings took care of me while my mom was at work. I took care of my sister and one of my brother's kids since age 10. It didn't stop me from being a kid though because I'd take them places with me. When it was time for me to go hang out with my friends I did that. But alot of kids have missed out because their mothers had them taking care of their younger siblings. It still happens and it's not fair to those kids.

3:44 She is speaking facts!so I try to change it !when I see other black women Around like at the store or At the gym I smile say hello or whatever just to let them know there’s no threat. I don’t feel the way you think I feel. sometimes you can tell even through a mask that someone is giving bad energy!! Once they see me smile it changes there attitude. I wish it wasn’t like that you don’t always have to be offensive not everyone is Looking at you in a negative way! We need to stop all the stank looks!! And start embracing each other. who’s gonna lift us up if we don’t!!!!!🥰🥰💜💜💜💜💜

The men vid popped up for me first and Im glad because the intro had me cracking up

I don’t think any group that can only find benefits to the behavior of another group would ever have any complaints about it, what negatives do women have with simp behavior to even address it? What negatives do men have with “pick me” behavior to even address it? Women can always spot a pick me, but never a simp, men can always spot a simp, but never a pick me, I wonder why that is? it’s very interesting in my opinion.

I'm curious where are videos about the conversation white men and women are not ready to have? I wonder why you don't see them? Keep up the excellent work, Dee love your content

Bro dee just Saying random stuff through out the video got me weak 😂😂💀 Edit: 9:44 the funniest 😂😂💀

Sigh, let me get my meditation music ready for after this.

I’m scared for this one 😂😂😂

I recognize that a lot of this is true and I'm super thankful that none of this hits home for me.

I attended a community college right out of highschool so I didn't get that sorority experience. HOWEVER I'm definitely like you Dee. I'm not trying to fit in with anybody. I'm me. I'm going to do wtf I want and represent what I WANT to represent and I'm not about to kiss ANYBODY'S ass for shit. I've been fired from many a job for that very reason (and also because timeliness has been an issue for me in the past). I'm not good with authority and I'm always asking questions. So no. That wouldn't have been a thing for me.

What is annoying to me is that men in general tends to think that they are not included in feminism. Feminism is literally equality and equity for THE SEXES. It is there for you too boo🤦🏿‍♂️ it is perfectly fine to be a feminist.

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Ok Dee! The puff is puffing todayyy ❤

8:08 dee is so shadyyyy😂😂😂

Not terrible parents 😬🤦🏾‍♀️ and I hate that simp 💩 real men aren’t simps another lit reaction video Shanelle get it u go girl happy 2022 🤎 the channel these convos b good arguments well some

Love to all my sistas,no other woman for me on this planet other than a black queen!

Y'all hate Kevin Samuels cuz he speaks facts y'all can't handle or don't wanna hear foh🤣🤣🤣

Dee, you’re so reasonable with tons of common sense. I know you would never do it but I’d buy and read an advice book that you authored

A lot of these are about how black women treat other black women, which should definitely be talked about, but they don’t talk enough about how black women treat black men. Like in the “ conversations black men aren’t ready to have” video

DEE cracks me UP OG😭😭😭💀💀💀💀

Those eyebrows had Dee shook and we all know it lmaooo

This one was ass. Nobody talking about deep rooted problems they throwing jabs lol

Her face when Steve urkele came on.

For the guy talking about simps… do he want a award for not being a shitty human being?

4:05 this is true. I see other bw and sometimes they give stank looks. But I get that it's a women thing & a young adult thing at times so I just try to smile first, wave first, be kind first. There is def an assuming its smoke & a sizing you up energy like observing your hair, clothes etc to see what "type" of bw you are. I would love to see less judgement & more embracing. You can rock wigs & your friend can have locs like it's really okay.

Someone has to say it….. Sandra wearing her glasses probably ate her up at her own party because why does that bother you so much to make a video about it?!🤨😂

It was smart to post both sides

I agree with the glasses thing the big lashes don’t look right with glasses 😂😂but why can’t somebody wear glasses with a formal outfit

The Willie Lynch letter, look it up.

Wow this is actually really sad. 😔

ppl need to stop debating gender topics on tiktok its just argument food 🍲

Like I said in the other video, the faults fall on both sides.

9:18 was unexpected 😂

The first guy was funny to me lmfao.

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didn't hear an actual problem

Is that woman talking about the "Projects."

1:54 why did I expect bruh to be like that?

Nobody said anything of value in this video

Not gonna lie they weren’t spittin like the black men video

3:38 *+1 hidden story unlocked*

The lady at 11:54 looks like Lola from Shark Tale

Imma piss a lot of people off but I feel like it needs to be said, I didn’t hear anything about women needing start taking accountability, or I maybe reaching when I say this

Hey dee💕♥

Alot of women are calling men simps now it's the new thing

Some these I was like um ehhhh... A lot of these have truth to them but some of these i.e 8:06. I disagree with as a young black man. I get her message about how black women treat each other. However, let's not pretend that colorism doesn't exist and "all black women" have "similar if not the same struggles". General struggles yes, perhaps, but struggles based on phenotype, no...let's be real about that. Growing up I saw how in predominantly black spaces how darker skinned unambiguous black women are treated vs light skinned or mixed girls were treated. It's not the same, by any chance. I won't even go into the details of why it's not (I know this lady knows that). Let's also not pretend that Biracial, multiracial, or ambiguous women (and men) don't try to cling to blackness because they know they are generally not accepted anywhere else. Plus the historical concept of the one drop rule... These days, blackness is not forced on anyone like that. For those that are like, well they (they=white and other non black people) see us (light skinned, biracial,or mixed people) as black. No they really don't. Thus why you get the questions "What are you...what are you mixed with...?" It's because they don't see you as black until you say it or in sone cases act like it. It's your choice to identify with what you actually are. Heck, even black people don't see mixed people as truely black in my opinion. Hence the whole exotification of mixed women and children. Notice I didn't say men because I bet this lady also knows that if she had a brother that looks like her (and is light skinned or mixed), his blackness has likely been challenged by his peers. Or if a mixed woman goes with a non black or white man, shes no longer part of the group. Mixed people are pulled in and pushed out of the "community" I know that much because I have seen it. It's sad and shouldn't be a thing. I advocate for mixed people to have their own space and still be a part of the black community because they are half black. It seems like this lady (if she doesn't have 2 black parents) is trying to project her ideal that all black women are the same (including herself) and that her struggles along with others that look like her matter too. Not a message that is genuine nor clear-cut. I strongly disapprove. It's a multifaceted convo.

I heard women say that plenty of times

First clip is just wrong, black women do know how to parent but i think they meant single black mothers, but just because you are a black woman doesnt mean you are going to be a terrible mother, most black women in a 2 parent household i would say have more quality than toxic traits to "pass down" to their children

6:28 😂😂😂😂

I don’t know what the First Lady is talking about because African black moms really take care of their kids a lot.

First hey dee

You're so fine... Love the hair 😍😍😍

10:48 why was she so boring😂😂

Heyyyy dee

And no light skin women don’t go through what brown girls go through wth

Shrugs

Actually shocked I thought there were going to be a lot of pick men's telling women they have let their men lead if they want their relationships to succeed.

You have braces.. how did I not know this

Lord people must have just had awful childhoods.

The one about gay men was a lil… chi🙄

What's with the generalizations? What happened to nuanced conversation.

One of the reasons a black man will go to a woman outside of his race. Would be because all that black man ever was seen, viewed, or pictured as just a friend. Someone not “black enough” someone that isn’t “thug enough”. Or basically not good enough to be with them. So is it so wrong that that black man finds someone no matter the race uplifts him, has his back, treats him as an equal, treats him with respect, sees him as a good provider, and worthy to be the father of their child and to be a good role model to their possible children, to stand side by side with and most of all worthy of that woman’s love and eventual hand. Love and respect has not race

The one about “simps” is so off because BLACK MEN created that term to degrade black men who value women.

i shouldnt b this focused on someones eyebrows but that shit was distracting like 🤨 wat lol she had a point tho

Y’all didn’t have the same energy as the black men video.. I guess y’all really not ready for this conversation 🤷🏾‍♂️..

besides that one guy, there's no one talking about how black women treat black men. That's a conversation I know they are not ready to have. They avoid it like the plague and try to switch it around.

Shorty was Right.. Gay Men & Straight Women hold ABSOLUTELY NO SIMILAR VALUES when dating or even Married so Black Women especially shouldn't be listening to people who made a culture out of Imitating Black Women.

That stuff some of y'all be putting in your hair that make it stank!

Dee: Is yo titty out? That shit had me dead

First

Y'all Black.................. Woman be running around in Herds. Like Herd Animals!

Title should be Black American woman ..

These comments are proving the point. They not ready for this conversation 😭 they talking so much in the black men video but not taking accountability

Here come all the angry women lol

She tried to come fir KS and the LGBT at the same time. There's a word called misandrist.

Kevin samuels be spittin facts sometimes idk why y’all won’t listen to that man ATLEAST sometimes lmfaooo