Yes sir!

No go away it's not right 😢

✊❤️

Me😅

Hi

I was one of them.

@@joycevitecoskisilva luckily my parents split when i was super young, like 3 years old. i had to witness the night one of my friends/neighbors parents decided to get divorced when we were like 12 and that shit was so sad and awkward for me to experience i had to have my mom come pick me up bc they were all crying and the dad dipped out😭

true

Facts

That's for sure. I think that this is the only blink-182 song that has ever brought me to tears. I grew up in a household that was chaotic and very much like what they're describing. I never thought I would be on the other side of that. I never wanted that for my children. My daughter's father decided he does not want to be involved but we're doing fine without him. She's about 10 weeks old now and she is the fattest and cutest little baby I have ever seen. Those cheeks, I just want to eat them lol. Sometimes I feel bad for him because he's missing out but then I remember that he's keeping himself away. This song is helping me cope with this whole thing. It's not about us, I didn't want him anymore. I left him before I found out I was pregnant. I gave him the chance to be in his daughter's life. I told him if he wanted to be, I was not going to stop him at all. Like we wouldn't even have to go through the courts, I wouldn't care. He has chosen his path which is to continue on like nothing happened.something is wrong with him. I really think he's either a narcissist or a sociopath or a little bit of both. Anyway, that's not a digit him, that is really the truth. I found out that he goes through life using whoever will let him. I'm just so glad that music like this exists to help those of us who need the help. I actually read somewhere that people that listen to rock music are more emotionally well-adjusted. This is because it deals with the things in life that aren't so pleasant. IE this song.

you said it brother

It's not right

@@Diego-z1hTheir anger hurts my ears

Sorry for your Loss brother.

@@user-kb7ue7hg2y thank you brother. Dealing with his mom still trying to get her help. All my love and thanks again means a lot

@@JustjessejMushrooms can legitimately be pretty magical brother. They don’t call them that for nothing. My daughter is turning two in August. She’s all we got man. I couldn’t imagine if anything happens to her like that. I don’t know if I could keep it together. Sometimes I struggle with it now.

Right...

Yup...

I was 15 that summer my parents got divorced. Than this cd dropped. Im 33 now. And love this song but deff hits way harder than it did than.

@@alexwarren4583 I feel ya. I was in third grade when my parents split. That was 1986 I'm 42 now.

my folks divorced twice (yes after 2 marriages to each other) and are now married happy as hell a 3rd time after 40 years together on and off but the damage it did to my brother and i probably will never get repaired. i think today's culture is to blame more then anything, people just don;t realize they HAVE to tough it out when kids are involved if it is at all possible

Tell me dude. I start to cry everytime I sing that.

Same

Its actually "What stupid poem could fix this home, I'd read it every day"

Same, this song is so impactful

god bless u

@@Vincent-vn7xo God should be capitalized. He deserves no less.

Man i can relate. I also make the same promise to myself that i will become a better parent than my parents ever will. Let's be better yes?

oh god, grammar police!!@@mauser8515

😊

Right there with ya brother! 🤙🏼

Also here taking a trip down memory lane with the band I grew up listening to. Their new song just hits me

@@RJG88 yeah, it’s a journey I didn’t have planned but glad I did. Can’t wait to hear more of their new album. 💿 I’m feeling so old 😂

same

It's a happy emotion......bitter sweet but i couldn't be more happier the past has came back but not to haunt us......all feels well again .....x

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The one thing I have learned from both my parents is that people comstantly change. My parents have been divorced for 20 years and i'm only 22. I guess you could say that ai'm lucky becauase i don't remember them ever being together. I still see both of them on a regular basis and I love both of them with all my heart. They have sacrificed so much for me and I'll never be able to repay them. The biggest thing they have ever taught me is how tough it is to work on a relationship. I've seen both sides. My mom has been with several different partners and my dad has been with my step mom for 19 years. I've seen and heard every fight as well as the love they give. I don't think it as simple as people make it out to be. My ex step dad for instance was a one of the nicest and most generous people I know, but there was another side to him that wasn't so nice. He had a rough childhood (He was beaten with chains) and sometimes a different side of him cane out. Ir's funny because he inspiredbi me to persue a career in engineering, but I've seen sides of him that no kid should see. I guess my point is this, it is not as black and white as people make it out to be. I have dealt with stuff that no kid should have to, but it also made me who I am today. You just have to try and make the most out of your situation. Nobody's life is perfect, but the important thing is to do the best you can with what your given.

I'm struggling with my mom and dad right now :/ they divorced before I was born but its a constant custody battle. I lived with my mom for 13 years, then my dad took me for 2 years, now I'm back with my mom :/ I relate to this song.

I love you. You do what's right by your kids.

David Hudson the point of the song is saying its selfish and destructive to divorceinstead of. working things out, marriage is just a game of forgiveness and how much your spouse can be forgiven by you for their mistakes, its basically "how much shit can you take?" For the first 5-10 years

Congrats, my friend!

Awesome buddy, greetings!!!!

we are same age my friend

1987 babies, let’s go!

100% agree, their music got me through some rough times

I could be wrong but I always thought they were referring to the parent having a holiday as in their free time or happiness away from the kids and or the other parent.

Words of a mature person who has got the t shirt ,stay strong and be blessed by God .✨️🫂🙏

I'm here!!!!❤

😥 i know right

Make that 182%

travis and tom is one of em

@@deborahgrant3714 if you're saying the Travis and toms parents divorced, mark's too

Tom and Mark got divorced and Mark gets the custody of Travis

No shit...me too.

Ummm...

and jumping motorcycles over the grand canyons and doing PSAs on breast cancer

Omg that is so true...Especially the Travis part! :)

this is pretty accurate.

You obviously haven't been married for too long!

@@EdwardCBurton as long as its not cheating, everything can be forgive even not forget bro. No matter how long ur marriage.

Apologizing every time doesn't help either. Both sides need to be willing to look at their faults and if one side is always battling and the other is always apologizing the marriage is doomed.

I'm glad to hear that. Something else that may help you guys. It sounds stupid because I heard it on that show How I met your mother. A couple agreed that whenever they're fights would get too heated, they would say pause and come back to it later. I hope that helps. Personally, I'm listening to this tonight because my daughter's father decided he did not want to be involved. He's mad at me for escaping his control. She's almost a month old and we're doing fine without him. I honestly feel like you did me a favor by staying away. I told him either step up now or I'm not going to tolerate you popping in and out of her life whenever it's convenient for you. I'm not going to let him do that to my daughter. My dad wasn't around because of my mom keeping him away from court orders and stuff. It's not that he didn't want to be around, it's that she prevented him from doing so, legally. Am I angry at him? Sure because our daughter doesn't deserve this but like I said, we'll be better off without him.

​@@ariskusuma6578I agree with this 100%. Cheating is the one thing I can't come back from anymore. I've started saying, I give somebody one chance to be training and then when they do, that's it. They're gone.

Bruh they just made a new album 😐😐

Tom isn`t back.

That's like having a step dad, it aint gonna be the same.

+Heleghen good

Tom will be back.. I hope.

Cool story man!

me too, but I use Nokia 5320 Xpressmusic

#metoo

Nike 128 mb mp3

And I have had a 8 MB MP3 player!

Still rocking this shit!

hey hey, just saw them at Lollapalooza Argentina 5 days a go.

Yeah still here 😅

🤘

yeeeea bud

twenty years now lost ! 1:10

it's not roight

Makes me so glad my Mum had a great taste in music back in 2001

Jeez has it been that long I was barely twenty years old man I used to love this song ❤️ Tom's voice Punk Rock TV 🤩 miss those days.

fuck, my parents' legally separated 9/11/01, almost exactly 20 years

@@StephenMatrese if by almost you mean five months from now, then yeah, almost - sorry dude, I just had to do it, don't hold it against me ;) for real though, sorry you had to go through that B.S. ✌

I always wished i could have his voice. And whe nyou seen people trying to imitate it it's so cringey lol. But yeah, incredibly distinguished/hauntingly-beautiful voice.

voice perfect

Probably a lot of post production too

@@thenickfoxx mz

I try. Fail

6 January 2024 also :-) Love it

screaming it on 01/17/24 :’)

Same here🥺

Same 😂

Listening to the new(ish) track One More Time and it had me in my feelings. Haven't thought about Blink in over 15 years... God, time goes by fast.

😭😭😭

100 fucking percent dude !

why u don't call superman.

Will be fine mate he is a tough dude

@@platabluesky37 supergirl

18 and 30 now brother 🤟🏼

Exact same. Started listening to em in 98, when I was 14. Now 38. Crazy.. where did 24 years go.

I turned 35 on 7th of april bro

Since 14 and im 33 now

Feeling this is another song where they have a pretty good harmony.

Exactly, mark without Tom is too flat and boring and Tom without mark is just too much of that pop punk voice, and many people enjoy that but it’ll never compare to them together

Amazing 🎉👍

"Man. When that first chorus hits"...I always thought that too. It cranks so hard. Spot on brother

🤝🤝🤝 100%!

Exactly, still

Pop punk will never be the same without mark hope he feels better to

Much love from chris and the almighty God we have i know youve asked and he will heal you and you will be cancer free pray for it and it can happen trust me

amen

Preach brother

Amén

Mine has lasted 3 months

The Cul-de-sac King mine's lasted 4 years

mines lasted...oh wait its my whole life

Gandalf's has lasted since he left the Shire

getting my blink-182 tattoo in 2 months im 16 haha been a fan forever

***** im glad im not 14 anymore though

Cyan Junkie I cant believe I missed these awesome songs when I was still a TEEN damn

Cyan Junkie lol I remember jamming to this when I was a fetus. reminds me so much of gestation

Cyan Junkie I was 4 years old when this came out.

Cyan Junkie I was 15 - 16 years old when this was on MTV. The channel itself has gone to shit and at no return. It should be nuked!

Hailey Buchanan Happened to me when i was about 10(parents had been together for almost 20 years), my father drove my mother out. She wanted custody but he took us so he didn't have to pay support. That lead to her being so ashamed to have us over in her new apartment one she left cause she couldn't feed us that she told she was busy; this happened until we stopped trying. My father was never around either and i lived in an isolated country in the gulf. I grew up alone and disconnected; I feel you, Hailey Buchanan.

I'm sorry Carbon Matrix I hope it's better now and if not I hope it gets better for you.

Hailey Buchanan Unfortunatly sometimes divorce is for the best. no child should ever have to hear his parents fight all the time

Thank you but, I'm now better than ever :D

My parents split When I was 9 months old and I have no memories of them ever being together. My Father is in California and my Mother lives in Virginia. I currently live with my mom. The first time I heard of them actually fighting was from my father up until then i thought it was normal for the parents to be split. When i was 8 years old he started talking about her and what a bitch she was and how I should come live with him and one story he told me (Which is true) was that when they were about to split she slammed her own hand into a door, called the cops on him and told the cops that he did it. The only thing that kept my father out of jail was my big sister who told them that he didn't do it. Every summer and winter break from school I fly to California and stay with him. During this period he tells me stories of what it was like living with that "bitch" When I get home it's not as bad. My mom never really talks about my father. At home i have a stepdad who is pretty nice to me and treats me better than I think a stepdad should. But I feel bad for him because my mother is always on his case because he works long hours and she thinks he's cheating on her. Currently in California with dad listening about how mom is a "bitch" and I don't what is real and what he is making up to try and convince me to live with him. Many times (and I know this isn't a problem for most kids) but many times a year when i visit him he tries to give me wayyyy too much money like he once handed me 400$ for doing nothing, and I just feel uncomfortable accepting that money but it's rude to decline it -sincerely confused (I made a funny xD) get it like sincerely confused actually confused which is true? anyway I'm terrible at jokes ahaha

This was me in LA last night 🖤 great show!

Where in AZ? Phoenix?

@@jackielynatoli577 at the desert diamond arena in Glendale

FOR SURE, not a 90s kid tho, BUT FOR SURE

I got laid to this song…. Just kidding I’m still a virgin hello Jesus

They're getting back together for the kids

Born in 63 and and love ther music

idk, I still like old blink best anyway, the first few recordings. After that Blink went downhill and Angels and Airwaves beat anything they were doing. Tom made the right decision to pursue a path to develop himself. Even the last Blink album before he left, Dogs eating dogs, is basically proto Angels and Airwaves. The reunion of course is good news though.

So true

Yep, but some of those little selfish fucks don't care. You'd think they would want their parents to be happy, but instead they want them to Stay Miserable For The Kids.

@@jeremyc9593 Or option C: they wish their parents had established a stable home for them so that they didn't have a single parent upbringing. Not all couples divorce due to extreme toxic relationships. Often women have children out of wedlock or simply get "bored" of their marriage or seek a better relationship with another man. A better relationship with another man in the absence of a severe problem isn't quite worth the harm done to children. Yeah, it's better for a kid to be raised by a single parent than a pair of toxic parents, but it's merely the lesser of two evils. Hardly a good situation in either case.

@@Tamarocker88 Very, very true.

@@Tamarocker88 It's the parents that make those relationships toxic. If parents weren't so selfish and had an attitude of divorce is not an option I believe there would be a lot more happier families. But everyone is all me me me me me these days so obviously there are way more parents and children that are unhappy because everyone is selfish. Myself included.

@@Neil072 If more people had the "Divorce is not an option" mentality, fewer people would rush into marriage. There would be fewer marriages, fewer families, potentially more of the marriages would be happy.

Just like they thought.

I wasn't scared I was the oldest and I was always the mediator it seemed, I had two younger sisters and my mom would be beating on the door when her husband would lock it in the middle of the night and we all had school the next day.... I tried to keep the family together. I wish people remembered what I tried to do. Seems it was all for nothing these days . Nobody talks to anybody these days. I don't know what family means anymore. Oh well, we deal and try to survive. I miss my family

@@peacechildrasta91 Man that sucks, but remember you can find "family" and love in friends etc. too.

@Hasan Arif same

@Hasan Arif thx

Lol

I wish he was still with Blink 182

Jordan S what happen to him?

fax

@@rodolfotsang4327 became an alien hunter and conspiracy theorist.

@@rodolfotsang4327 A series of events, basically he was being a douche to the other guys, specially to Mark, he created Boxcar racer and invited Travis, and when asked by him about Mark, he told him that Mark refused the invitation, but the reality is he left him out, and when Travis found out, they called him out on his BS, then they got in a hiatus for about 2-3 years, then the next album, the one called Blink-182, had to be produced at Tom´s pace and liking, because reasons, he kept neglcting Blink to focus on Angels and Airwaves, which kept pushing Mark and Travis´s buttons, to the point that they would diss him in interviews, citing him as the reason why albums would take so many years for them to produce and why they would be lacking in quality, he even stopped going on tours, and they had to bring other players in his place, eventually they had a major falling with Tom´s agent, altough Tom claimed he had nothing to do with that. No one is sure if Tom quit or if they kicked him out, the guys claim his agent just told them "Tom.Is.Out" and Tom claims he learned he had been kicked out via the press. But the fact is, it is very evident Tom was being a douche to his supposed best friends, included one who he claimed was like a brother.

You my friend are great

300 likes Thanks everyone!

Wubster Belle omg thats what I just thought

excellently stated. power through it...

I hope someone who needs this will find it well say.

Thank you for the kind words. My 2 beautiful boys had to witness this. I lost so much time with them due to family court. No one ever wins in a divorce and I now can only imagine what they were thinking. It's been almost 20 year (I'm 41) and I can see the pain my kids felt. Mom and I get along great now but I wish is was always that way. Hell, we were kids ourselves getting a divorce. Love you all.

@@rjenkins79 Hello, my name is Gustavo from Lima, Peru. If you go to a coach, psychologist or psychiatrist, they will advise you on therapy. However, you can start by changing your mindset. If you have a positive and warrior mindset, you will be able to overcome any trauma that life has given you. Hug and be very happy!

I needed this comment 15 years ago..

Stay strong brother just focus on yourself and your kid.

Oh man! That story... I give u some of My force!

well, i mean it's better to split if one person isn't happy. obviously it's good to stay together for the kids if they're really young, but if it's a toxic relationship, no sense in being together. i've seen marriages where the love's gone, it's really just a contract, and it's pretty sad.

😪

Oh friend, very hard, it's true no one rules anyone's heart. Who should be in our lives will be and welcome, who does not want to be, then continue long ... Greetings

I share a very similar story to you, life's hard so stay strong! Never change for anyone and don't be influenced by anything, be yourself trust me.

DoubleJumpDude Yeah, I've kind of figured that out as time went on. You should never lower yourself to anyone else's standards just to fit in. If you feel like you have to do that, than you should not be around those people. Thanks for the support.

And my mom gone in 2008 this is song and adam song help me :( thanks blink 182 but blink now break up :(

"have been listening to blink since I was 3 or 4 years old" - sorry for you mom, but yeah, youve been listening since you started walking, yeah, right :D

Menah Suvaree in my dads truck maybe? Yeah, there's no way I could do it on my own unless I was super toddler or something.

+Aelita sry to hear that! :/

Thx honey. These things happen sadly :(

+Aelita You'll get over it, trust me i did.

thx :) Im already feeling better its been 2 weeks and I happy to see them happy again. So everything is better.

+Aelita Don't let it define your life.

Pick a good one friend. ;)

One of the best comments I've ever read. Faith in humanity is strong.

Same here :S

Same for me. It would be amazing if it wasn't so crest-fallen.

Keep your naivety. Just wait until you realize how many stupid stupid adults there are in the world.

I think the title isn't meant to be taken literally. This song is told from a kid's perspective, "this house is haunted", "it makes no sense at all" are things a kid would think in a parents divorce situation, not understanding what's happening around. I think "stay together for the kids" is not an imperative sentence, but a description of what means to a kid for his parents to be "together". And I think that's implied in the line "and if it's what he wants, and what she wants, then why there's so much pain?", which I think is the kid showing the real meaning of the song: A son wants his parents to be happy, whatever they are married or not, because he'll be happy too. A divorced couple can raise a healthy kid if they had a friendly break up. But if they aren't happy (as you're saying) there's no point of being together.

Same! And damn. I can't believe it's been 20 years. I literally blinked (no pun intended) & I woke up as an adult with a mortgage & family.

@@jayde.moonstone.6458 keep it up guys! head high always!

💌

yeah, I feel you. It gets real shitty when they have both passed

Same 🥲

Lmao

Til Tom Filed

lol user name matches comment

so you haven't had groceries for 13 years?

GuzzyBear after a while you learn to adapt without food

Thanks Obama well at least you can joke about it.

Sounds like you've been punky brewsterd lol

I think he stayed long enough for us

+Pink guy b0ss

:(

none left b0ss Tromix Mixtro

+Pink guy you're right, but I don't think he really wants to come back for now...

You should have made better decisions.

❤❤❤ bro, literally same. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who still cries...with a different meaning now. I thank them for being there during the worth part of my life

100%. Thanks for ur words! 🤝

:'(

@@etilicometalbangers it's not right.

Not the same without Tom

Siluman Beriman that thing from doctor who used to scare the shit out of me when i was younger

The other 50% are destroyed by marriage.

I do too

Spaaam

same

Same ❤️👍🏻 💯

Is the bset

Same with Adam's Song.

It's really evoking, isn't it?

Yes

Hell yes. I'm 31 as well. 👍✌️👊

“Felling this” ;)

32. And I was 15 when I first saw them.

I’ll be 31 in October 🤘🏼 This song hits harder now that we’re older.

Same. Tom DeLong puts it in a way that strongly resonates with me

@@keirstinfairclothpetersen3874 It shows that divorce, while in some cases necessary, puts a lot of the burden on the kids. You don't get rid of the actual issues, you just kick the can down the road and tell the kid to deal with a broken home, shared custody, and tons of mental trauma (not to mention the kid's usually 7-10 years old). Relationships are a lot of work and issues will pop up. However, once you're married with kids, you need to work through them and figure out a way to make it work. Otherwise, your kid will have no idea what their doing when they get married themselves.

When i heard this as a kid i hated my parents. When i hear this in a loveless lonely marriage i love my kid's.

Me too. So much emotion.

Its by far my favorite 182 song because of the insanely powerful chorus. They nailed it

Thank you!

❤

What is that mean? Iam so stupid i cant understand nothing

@Hunter Vonnegut I'll look em up, though I must say.. Crywank is a bit of a great band themselves.

He actually says “it burns strong for seven years”

+AlceusRydanx v true

+AlceusRydanx preach!

+Dylan Depaula haha :')

true 👍

+Dylan Depaula kkkkkkkkkkk

Yep

Sure does.

:)

Yep.

I just now for some reason got hooked back on them 5 years later