ഈ bold strong എന്നൊക്കെ എത്രയാ...| Rima Kallingal Part 2 |

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ഈ bold strong എന്നൊക്കെ എത്രയാ...| Rima Kallingal Part 2 |

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About our guest:
Rima Kallingal is an Indian actress, contemporary dancer and film producer who mainly appears in Malayalam films.
She was a semi-finalist of the Asianet reality show Vodafone Thakadhimi. She moved to Bengaluru to pursue a modelling career and later participated in the Miss Kerala beauty pageant, in which be she became the first runner-up. She made her Malayalam film debut with Ritu (2009). She was spotted by director Lal Jose on a magazine cover, who cast her for a goat herder role in a Tamil film Mazhai Varappoguthu. The project didn't materialise, but she was offered the lead female character of Varsha by director Shyamaprasad for Ritu, which eventually marked her acting debut.
She was much appreciated for her performance in the movie 22 Female Kottayam. She won the Kerala State Government award for Best Actress for the film. She has acted in several films after that like Indian Rupee, Rani Padmini and Santhoshathinte Onnam Rahasyam. Her latest movie is Neelavelicham where she essays the character of Bhargavi. This movie is a remake of the 1964 movie Bhargavinilayam which was scripted by Vaikom Mohammad Basheer. The movie was based on the short story penned by Basheer himself. Rima stars in the movie opposite Tovino Thomas and Roshan Mathew. As of now the teasers song are out and the movie Neelvelicham releases laer this month.
In this four-part series that delves into various aspects of her personal and professional journey, Rima explains how misses being busy with her craft as an actor. How life has changed for her over the years. She talks about how post marriage to the director Aashiq Abu, Rimas's career nosedived as married actresses were not being considered. She talks about her TEDx talk as how the anecdote about the fish fry was blown out of proportion and misinterpreted. She says that it hurt her family and she has now chosen to speak about it. She talks about her struggle with mental health during covid and how dancing helped her get back. All the controversy that she has death with especially the skirt controversy she talks about that as well/ She talks about feminism and why is it relevant. This is a wonderful conversation that tells us the story of a woman who chose to raise her voice for others.
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@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Watch Part1 here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z72orcuGrs_WYn0.html

@nebhum Жыл бұрын

@ Dhanya Varma need a clarity when you use a broad term like system . Be specific . You introduce her as an artist , activist , but she wants to be known as an artist in the first place . It’s confusing .

@aishwaryanair4209 Жыл бұрын

Can you please add subtitles?

@vinodvinodgr4915 Жыл бұрын

എന്ത് കോപ്പ് കണ്ടിട്ട് ആണ് ഇവളെ സിനിമയിൽ എടുത്തത് എന്ന് എനിക്ക് മനസിലാകുന്നില്ല ഗ്ലാമർ ഇല്ല അത് പോട്ടെ പ്രശ്നം ഇല്ല അഭിനയിക്കാൻ അറിയില്ല ഒരു ഫ്രോഡ് ലുക്ക്‌

@riddhiiraj Жыл бұрын

I had tears when chechi mentioned about how we women have a shield to hide our feminine side instead we showcase this bold courageous side just to feel seen and heard. Women supporting women is such a wonderful feeling. Beautiful episode ♥️ I am sure many women could connect to everything she mentioned.

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

True..pls share

@SJ-zo3lz Жыл бұрын

@@iamwithdhanyavarma @ 16:10 is just epic ! എല്ലായിടത്തുo എല്ലാ കാലത്തും എല്ലാ conflicts ന്റെയും ഇര ഏറ്റവും Physically weak ആയവർ തന്നെ. Women particularly is a vulnarable category within even vulnerable categories ! ചൊല്ല് വരെ ഉണ്ട് "നമ്പൂരി നായർക്കിട്ട്, നായർ തിയ്യനിട്ട്, തിയ്യൻ പറയനിട്ട്, പറയൻ കാടനിട്ട്, കാടൻ പെണ്ണിനിട്ട് " എന്നോ മറ്റോ! മറ്റ് മതസ്ഥർ പാപികൾ എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞ് കൊന്ന മത യുദ്ധങ്ങളിലും ഏറ്റവും അനുഭവിച്ചത് "വലം കൈ കൊണ്ട് നേടിയ " പെൺ അടിമകൾ തന്നെ !

@mrxxx7467 Жыл бұрын

@@SJ-zo3lz Not Really.. ഈ പറഞ്ഞ പഴംചൊല്ലു തന്നെ നോക്കൂ.. ബ്രാഹ്മണർ, നമ്പൂതിരി മറ്റുള്ളവരെ ഭരിച്ചത് physically superior ആയത് കൊണ്ടാണോ ? അതുപോലെ തന്നെ അടിമകൾ യജമാനന് കീഴ്പ്പെട്ടത് നോക്കുകയാണെങ്കിലും ഈ ലോജിക് ശരിയാകില്ല..

@willywonka9174 Жыл бұрын

so you are presupposing that being bold hides your feminity ? i didn't understand that narrative.

@riddhiiraj Жыл бұрын

@@willywonka9174 Feminine side like vulnerability, compassion, sensuality, and so on.

@jisnamariageorge6486 Жыл бұрын

"You can have the best partner in the world, but the system is designed for you to fail as a women" - ✨ Well put Rima. Great interview ❤

@Iswaryaaa Жыл бұрын

Exactly the best words

@jiyar9838 Жыл бұрын

" I don't think marriage adds anything to you..especially if you are a women..it's a huge minus for you everyday..it's a very regressive system..it's not designed for women to succeed...it's clearly defined to put you within a system...it's religiously designed..binding system .. "I don't think it's a person ...you may have the best partner in the world ..but the system is designed for you to fail you as a women" " Gender is gender everywhere.. So true

@BertRussie Жыл бұрын

I just want Rima to know, that there are a lot of us out here who understands what you went through, who admires and loves you for what you do and hopes and prays that your spirit is not defeated. Solidarity to you Rima and to all those "bold" women fighting for their rightful place in the society!!!

@shajnakoloth Жыл бұрын

ചിലനേരങ്ങളിൽ ഒക്കെ ചിന്തിച് പോയിട്ടുണ്ട് ഒന്ന് വായടച്ചു ഇരിക്കാൻ പറ്റിയിരുന്നെങ്കിലെന്നു...but നടക്കില്ല ചില നേരങ്ങളിൽ നമ്മളൊരുപാട് ഒറ്റപ്പെടും എന്തിനുവേണ്ടിയാ.. നമ്മളായിട്ട് നിക്കുന്നതുകൊണ്ട്.. Its very very hard to stand alone in a Crowd

@SimV239 Жыл бұрын

It’s better to stand alone in a crowd, instead of standing in company of those who’ll make you feel lonely in a crowd.. there’s a a saying that goes, “In The world that benefits from your self-doubt, loving yourself is a rebellious act” . Society hates it, when you don’t fall into their box. So be it. Keep paving your own path.

@DeepakKumar-ju7pe Жыл бұрын

ഞാൻ റിമയുടെ നടിയുടെ ഫാൻ ഒന്നുമല്ല പക്ഷേ റിമ എന്ന വ്യക്തിയുടെ അവരുടെ നിലപാടുകളുടെ, അഭിപ്രായങ്ങളുടെ കടുത്ത ഒരു ഫാൻ ആണ് 😊വളരെ നല്ല ഒരു ഇന്റർവ്യൂ ❤️താങ്ക്സ്

@smitha7870 Жыл бұрын

You voiced the view of millions of "the married women" perhaps......and Dhanya yet another feather on your empathetic interviewer cap🎉

@reshmaraj8088 Жыл бұрын

Njan ഒരു govt.employee ആണ്. പക്ഷെ റിമ share ചെയ്ത അനുഭവങ്ങൾ മറ്റൊരു തലത്തില്‍ ഞാനും അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു. ഒന്ന് സംഭവം നമ്മുടെ aspects ഇല്‍ അഭിപ്രായ പറയുമ്പോള്‍ അവൾ strong, bold,അല്ലെങ്കില്‍ paranchaal അവള്‍ക്ക് മനസ്സിലാവില്ല തുടങ്ങി നമ്മൾ ആഗ്രഹിക്കാത്ത label നമ്മക്ക് അവർ അങ്ങ് ചാര്‍ത്തും. പിന്നെ എനിക്കും പ്രശ്നം ഉണ്ട്. Mindathirikkam എന്ന് വിചാരിച്ചാല്‍ പോലും അത് പറ്റുന്നതല്ല 😢😢

@TasteCrushbyThesni Жыл бұрын

റിമ സംസാരിക്കുന്നത് feminism ഒന്നും അല്ല...she is truly speaking what every woman suffer...if the previlaged and famous women is suffering like this...then just think about ordinary women around us...Women face ചെയ്യുന്ന fact അവർ bold ആയി പറയുന്നത് കൊണ്ട് Just ഒരു class of people avare feminist എന്ന് മുദ്ര കുത്തുന്നു എന്ന് മാത്രം....

@spdrg86 Жыл бұрын

True aanu. . I can completely understand this as I am also going thru the same. . Like she said, even if your partner is good you kind of have to face such challenges.

@nivedyavs2044 Жыл бұрын

' Feminist' is not at all a bad term..നമ്മുടെ society ആണ് അതിനെ ഒരു bad term ആയി ചിത്രീകരിച്ചത്..because they are so much afraid of losing their privileges from this patriarchal system

@nivedyavs2044 Жыл бұрын

I believe everybody who desires for gender equality is a Feminist

@TasteCrushbyThesni Жыл бұрын

@@hp1802 even i agree being feminist is not bad at all...but aa interview മൊത്തം റിമ share ചെയ്തത് ഈ ഒരു കാരണത്താൽ total industry തന്നെ അവരെ മാറ്റി നിർത്തി...അവസരങ്ങൾ നഷ്ടമായതിനെ കുറിച്ചും ഒക്കെ അല്ലെ...feminist എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു corner ചെയ്തു അവർ face cheytha അവഗണന യും മാറ്റി നിർത്തിപ്പെടലും അല്ലെ അവർ share ചെയ്തത്...അങ്ങനെ മുദ്ര കുത്തേണ്ട ആവശ്യം ഉണ്ടോ....അവർ അവരുടെ views and personal opinions തുറന്നു പറയുന്നത് കൊണ്ട് professionil നിന്ന് പോലും മാറ്റി നിർത്തേണ്ട കാര്യം ഉണ്ടോ....

@user-lw2zu4bk7o Жыл бұрын

Because swanthamayt onnum cheyyunnilla. Barthav cheyyunna padathil abhinayikunnu. Barthav nte business nte oram pati poknnu. Alland swantham aytt onnum illa. Athanu ivalude prashnam.

@sijimenon84 Жыл бұрын

This episode brought me tears. Let these struggles pave way for a better place for women and an unbiased society. Thanks for this one. ❤️

@Iamvee149 Жыл бұрын

Omg yu are absolutely right when you talked about marriage.. it's only making worse for women! And it's not about the partner, i have the best partner he s my best friend too, but the system sucks! It really making me worse each and everyday and the moment i married, it's all changed for me 😬 but not for him.. that's totally unacceptable..

@abhijithvj9430 Жыл бұрын

I'm a transgender physically a boy who have a female heart inside. What Rima said is true I'm just 21 year's old who is fighting to live one day peacefully. Just seened myself on her word's and it's it's make tears on ma eye's too❤️❤️....

@fai9856 Жыл бұрын

female heart?

@divyaunny2189 Жыл бұрын

Please subtitle this interview . So many girls and women will benefit frm listening to this very crucial conversation. Love your conversations Dhanya mam. Just so organic and i look forward to them ♥️

@sarithasugunan986 Жыл бұрын

I saw the notification that the second part is out when I was getting into the car. I usually listen to songs while driving. But I couldn't wait till I reached home, so I decided to play this instead. I teared up many times during the interview and was crying when she asked for the break. Rima, I wish that you get to fulfill all your dreams and dance till eternity. Dhanya, thank you so much for bringing such beautiful people on your show.

@faw330 Жыл бұрын

Overnight everything changes for the woman, nothing changes for the man. Oh my Rima, so so so true. You said it just like that, but how impactful that one sentence is, how many chords it might have struck !!!

@mathswithnoora6887 Жыл бұрын

So true😢

@noularahim7755 Жыл бұрын

Interviews of this sort has to happen more. She is the voice of many voiceless women out there . What a magic , power and clarity in her words ! More love , power & strength to you ❤️

@sreejeshlohidakshan7620 11 ай бұрын

റിമ ചേച്ചി 💖💖💖💖 happy ആയിരിക്കു..... നിങ്ങൾ നന്മയോടെ ചെയ്യുന്ന കാര്യങ്ങൾ ഒക്കെ വിജയിക്കട്ടെ..... നിങ്ങൾ ആഗ്രഹിക്കുന്നത് പോലെ ജീവിക്കാൻ സാധിക്കട്ടെ..... സന്തോഷമായിരിക്കട്ടെ എന്നും....❤ പലതരത്തിൽ ഉള്ള ജൻഡർ ഉണ്ട് ഈ ലോകത്ത് വൈവിദ്ധ്യം നിറഞ്ഞതാണ് ഈ ലോകം..... ഓരോ വ്യക്തികൾക്കും അവരുടെ ജൻഡർ ആയി ജീവിക്കാൻ സാധിക്കട്ടെ.... ഇന്ന് അല്ലെങ്കിൽ അടുത്ത് തന്നെ എല്ലാ genders തുല്ല്യമായ നീതി കിട്ടും ഉറപ്പ്.... റീമ പറഞ്ഞത് പോലെ ലോകം ഓരോ നിമിഷവും മാറിക്കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുകയാണ്..... Be Happy..... Cool❤❤❤❤റിമ കല്ലിങ്കൽ ഒരുപാട് സ്നേഹം 💖💖💖💖💖

@rosegratius8070 Жыл бұрын

Most of the time I was in tears watching this interview.... Seeing Rima speak for others and the struggle she had to put up in order to do that even though she said its not for others she did it but for herself .. it is a fact that resonates in every girl's or woman's heart. It really is the truth. Even though Rima could not put every hard feelings or the utter nakedness of the struggles or fights she had with this world just for voicing or pointing out the inequalities thats all around us, it's all understood. I personally can put or imagine that pain or devastation she could have gone through. And I am not dumb not to think that in reallity for her it could have been far more worse. PS: watching me cry my husband asked what are you watching. Dint answer at first but as kept on asking ... With a vague smile(you won't understand) I said it's an interview. He was like 'but why'?

@introvertmtunofficial Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Please consider, (1) Dr. Shashi Tharoor (2) K.K Shailaja Teacher (3) T. V. Anupama IAS (4) P. Rajeev (5) Dr. Divya S. Iyer (6) Muralee thummarukudy (7) Prof. Rajan Gurukkal (8) R.V.G Menon (9) Dr. B. Ekbal (10) C. J. Kuttappan (folk artist)

@vivekd5236 Жыл бұрын

Shashi Tharoor veno😌

@ananthurgopal9868 Жыл бұрын

@@vivekd5236 why not ?

@diyaeliza Жыл бұрын

So many places where I shed a tear when I watched this interview. Dhanya, I hope you continue to do this. These interviews help people all over Kerala to understand women and change their mindset. Just like Rima said, its not I went through this so u also go through the same attitude anymore. Instead, I will give her what I didn’t get. What a powerful thought Rima!! One woman empowering and only empowering another woman. That itself can do wonders in the society! I feel like Dhanya is like a therapist to many that they come and are able to open up and share a unique side to their personality which they don’t share anywhere else. Kudos to the entire team! Rima… u go girl! 😊

@jineshjinu5816 Жыл бұрын

The best part of the interview..... The screen shows... "To be continued..." 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 Wat a talk👌

@athulvinayak7217 Жыл бұрын

റിമ fish fry വിഷയം സംസാരിച്ചപ്പോൾ അതിനെ കളിയാക്കിയ ഒരുപാട് പേർ ഉണ്ട് . ആ കളിയാക്കിയവർക്ക് Dining Table-il വച്ചിട്ടുള്ള വറുത്ത മീനിന്റെ എണ്ണം മാത്രമേ അറിയുള്ളു . അടുക്കളയിൽ വേറെ ഉണ്ടോ ഇല്ലയോ എന്ന് അറിയില്ല .

@karolin6918 Жыл бұрын

Hi Dhanya, i love the kind of questions you ask, probing the artist to back their claims with valid reasons and their own lived reality. Thats quite thoughtful, it shows me how you are conscientious about the content you are putting out there whilst also respecting the individual opinions of the artist.

@abhishekprasad8846 Жыл бұрын

I personally want to continue this interaction endlessly. The disconnected neural wires in my brain really started enlightening each and every second while listening to the interaction b/w Rima ma'am and Dhanya ma'am✨️. I truly believe that there's no other platform in malayalam had explored the kind of angst within her in an empathetic and enlightening way than with this channel♥️.All my preconceived notions about Rima kallingal just exploded through this interaction😇

@DrHailin Жыл бұрын

Very true ❤️🔥

@sharonjose543 Жыл бұрын

Ch പി ഒ ഒ pp പി ó oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo 😊

@archanaprasanth8946 Жыл бұрын

I never felt the activities of wcc are that successful, inspiring etc( ofcourse some exceptions are there ) . But Rima as a person is very very inspiring.Her views on the system of marriage is so so true. "problem is with the system,not with the person "...Kudos to your spirit 😊

@spdrg86 Жыл бұрын

I too felt emotional hearing the reality that rima shared. .its true that how good your partner is won't make anything the same for a married woman. .unmarried me was so much vibrant, independent and had enough time n energy to do everything I loved. .now everything's changed. There are so many small yet very big changes that has happened. .its truly the system's pblm. .

@gayathrisrandomstuffs9281 Жыл бұрын

What stuck in my head is when she said everything changed for her over night but nothing changed for her husband... Even after 5 yrs of marriage I am still realising how hard the system is made for women... Hw life have changed 360 degree for most... And not even 1 degree for our so called better half... Blame the better half or the system??

@SimV239 Жыл бұрын

Your better half, like you, is also a product of patriarchy that also consisted his mother who raised him to fit the patriarchal society 😀 women are equally responsible as men in creating this messy misogynistic world. Ask yourself what you can do, to rise above this. It’s not impossible. We as women can start with saying a simple NO. You’ll upset a lot of people along the way, but you’ll also find, some people will respect you for your stance. There’s internalised misogyny in everyone, In you too! As you complain, you’ll find that many a time, you’re subconsciously using casual sexism against other men & women or your own children. We need make a conscious effort to come out of that. communication is key. Normalise having conversations about taboo topics, involve men in those conversations. Another thing is break the chain: make sure you raise your children differently, if you have a boy & a girl, raise them as equals, when they bring their partners home, be a good mother in law to them😊

@gayathrisrandomstuffs9281 Жыл бұрын

@@SimV239 The changes should start from now... If people are ready to unlearn... And I'm able to happily witness some...

@shameenanavasa7596 Жыл бұрын

We get tired of being bold and strong . I often feel that. Our feminine side needs to be celebrated and nourished. Bold women are often taken for granted 😞

@keepitcivil123 Жыл бұрын

Spot on. I often think how ironic it is that a man with an opinion is a man but a woman with an opinion is opinionated, bold, outspoken and what not! And that's something as basic as an opinion. Thanks for the episode Dhanya.

@unnirajac8617 3 ай бұрын

Do you remember how prithviraj was treated initially due to his bold and outspoken nature ?

@sarigasaji Жыл бұрын

Dhanya mam, it's really inspiring to see how you guide a conversation so effortlessly into the person talking their mind out. I love watching your interviews and Rima her spirit, her perspective on things, the fights she has to do as a woman, it hits you on many levels.

@praveenakrishnan4581 Жыл бұрын

റിമ പറയുന്ന ചില കാര്യങ്ങൾ സത്യം ആണ്. പക്ഷെ ഇത്രയും സ്ട്രോങ്ങ്‌ എന്ന് പ്രൊജക്റ്റ്‌ ചെയ്യുന്ന ആൾ, അങ്ങനെ അല്ല എന്നാണ് മനസിലായത്...ഏതു കാര്യം ആയാലും ചിന്തിച്ചു ചെയ്യണം.. എടുത്തു ചാടിയിട്ടു കരഞ്ഞിട്ട് കാര്യമില്ല.. തെറ്റ് പറ്റിയെങ്കിൽ തിരുത്തി... മുന്നോട്ടു പോവണം.. അതല്ലാതെ കംപ്ലയിന്റ് ചെയ്തിട്ട് കാര്യം ഇല്ലാ. നമ്മൾ ജീവിക്കുന്ന സമൂഹം എങ്ങനെയാണു എന്ന് വികാരം കൊള്ളൂ ന്നതിനു പകരം പ്രായോഗിക മായി എന്ത് ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റും എന്നു ചിന്തിക്കണം .. There is no age limit, she can start fresh., wcc പ്രവർത്താനവും മാറ്റാൻ പറ്റും. നന്നാക്കാൻ പറ്റും... കുറെ കൂടി വിശാലമായ ചിന്താഗതി വ്യക്തത വരാനുണ്ട്.. ഇത്രേം കോംപ്ലക്കേറ്റഡ് ആക്കണ്ട കാര്യമില്ല. ഔചിത്യം കുറെ കൂടെ വേണം

@funwithjohailiya446 Жыл бұрын

Rima you are speaking for me , speaking for us, speaking about all the women out there .. you are saying what we are going through.. I remembered my grandma who told me once.. Patti aayi piranalum pennayi pirakaruthu.. I understood that statement years later, after my marriage.. I forgot who I was..

@omanasam4716 Жыл бұрын

അമ്മേ മാതാവേ എന്റെ നിയോഗത്തിന്മേൽ കരുണയായിരിക്കണേ, വളരെ നാളുകളായി ഞാൻ പ്രാർത്ഥിച്ചുകൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്ന വിഷയത്തിന്റെ മേൽ അവിടുന്ന് അത്ഭുതം പ്രവർത്തിക്കണമേ.

@friendzfriendz5791 Жыл бұрын

What she told about is very true..for Women..everything including how she is addressed from Miss to Mrs changes

@elizabethnx Жыл бұрын

More power to you dear Rima ❤❤ You are the voice of many.. Thank you Dhanya❤

@annjose8849 Жыл бұрын

This episode is just fire🔥🔥🔥 people who are still trolling Rima can watch this and feel ashamed of them self.

@night_traffic Жыл бұрын

Eth ee jaadayeyo😂

@alankrishna7739 Жыл бұрын

True.bt.they.will.not.undertand

@nehajoseph9087 Жыл бұрын

This was an eye opener, helped bridge the gap between reality and glamour . Another strong example that mental health is so so important- what goes inside someone’s head has nothing to do with how he chose to present himself to the outside world. The struggle Rima goes through to get a job and peruse her passion and maintain financial independence gives a lot of power and encouragement . It’s also a reminder to everyone to be happy, content and help others rise

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Thanks..

@newtothisworld54 10 ай бұрын

What she have told about marriage is 99%% correct

@freebirdindia3911 Жыл бұрын

What a girl this is.. So clear in her thoughts..

@vidztalk8236 Жыл бұрын

Rima emotional aaya oru dialogue... Nammal Karanam ellarum affect aakunno.. ith njanum face chwyyana oru karyam aanu.. nte vitile odd one out njan aanu. Vere pole aanu.onnu mindaathe irikkoo ennu kelkkanam ennum. But nammal paranjond irikjum. Ith avanavanu vendi koodi cheyunna fight aanu.

@faheedaansar3931 Жыл бұрын

Same avastha

@danip815 Жыл бұрын

Sathyam

@sharenthomas6005 Жыл бұрын

Even though rima is the person that we are lauding here.. Its dhanya fr me who is the star... The way she weaves a conversation and being able to connect to each one in such a comfortable pace and bringing out the best from each one.. Shattering all the preconceived notions we have abt some people and starting to like each one with a brand new affection.. Kudos to u dhanya.. All power to you ❤️❤️

@parvathyps1770 Жыл бұрын

Dhanya ma'am you are such an inspiration 😇. I am in love with your interviews♥️. Pls continue doing this . Waiting for the part 3

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Thanks.pls do share part 2

@zindagii4ever Жыл бұрын

All the hate she's getting for the strong statements made over time😭😭😭 I felt so bad for her 11:20-11:40 .....More power to you Rima ❤️..........Kudos from a men transforming in thoughts and grasping new thoughts

@PepperStory Жыл бұрын

I just love watching your interviews,it gives a different perspective of people beyond the cinema screen life which is so much empowering.

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Thanks..do share

@becomingbiomed6300 Жыл бұрын

I barely comment for the videos I watch. Rima has always remained my absolute favourite from Neela thamara. I have grown up from my school days watching her. And she as a woman is so amazing. I Identify a lot with her and I am awed by the things she express and put out to the society from her beautiful brain. Even though for a period she stayed out of the industry for whatsoever reasons, She has defined so many other things like female friendships and womanhood in this age in Kerala(which is tough). She has worked so well as a socially responsible individual and stayed commited to her responsibility of framing the scoiety through her deeds. I for a fact felt interviews in mollywood has degraded and became such a crap content (like the ones with veena) and interviews made no sense with questions like when are you getting married, and other unwanted personal stuff. So happy to finally watch a classy interview. I also follow Dhanya as a very educated woman and for asking real well researched questions to her interviewees. I am literally doing my assignment along with watching it. Quoting what Rima said, Art and cinema is so powerful. Use this platform to rightly express good thoughts that needs to be shared with the media. If we are actually working towards an empowered society, we should discuss matters worth the empowerment. Loved watching you Rima! Once again thank you for giving us such a wonderful interview.

@aparnabanerji877 Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful conversation! So organic. Rima has always inspired and will continue to inspire me as a woman. The clarity of thoughts and perspectives is just🔥 ♥️

@Regina_Phalange. Жыл бұрын

When I was a child, I used to feel bad for all those freedom fighters who had to sacrifice their lives so that we all can relish our freedom. Deep inside I was secretly relieved of the fact that I was born after all those bleak years in the history n was glad that I was not born one of those martyrs.. As time flew, again I felt lyk we are fighting for our freedom just lyk those martyrs and may be there is high chance that I die like a martyr.. But just like Rima said, I really don't want to die a martyr.. I want to " live" before I leave..All of us have our rights to live according to wot our heart says.. Anyway, if I die today,M not goin to miss this wrld a bit. But I really wish for a time when all of us can njoy to d fullest n when we think of our death, we truly crave yet another life here..

@cheriansusan Жыл бұрын

As usual different perspective and super questions...could you get Navya Nair once...I feel she has this connect to the ladies...like one among them ....her thoughts can resonate with a larger strata of the women ...her use of Malayalam to start with.....

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Pls do write in to her

@BertRussie Жыл бұрын

I totally agree. Navya is a perfect ambassador for Malayali feminism because of the connect and relatability she has with the larger section of Malayali women.

@giftycv5280 Жыл бұрын

Yea pls bring Navya... She can connect more with our Kerala culture and it will definitely reach to more Malayalees

@myscribbles_ Жыл бұрын

Even if you have part 10 of this interview am ready to watch ❤

@night_traffic Жыл бұрын

Eth ee feminichiyude thallukalo😂

@kaira6531 Жыл бұрын

Im so glad that the interview has 3rd part I dnt want a end for this beautiful talking

@ashithasivadas2950 Жыл бұрын

I really liked when the question was ( neither intentional or not ) around her husband but Rima diverted beautifully back to the system at fault and not the person at hand. Sometimes we people tend to be focus on the person than look at the bigger picture. I'm glad that I live in a generation where we have women like Rima to look up to❤

@shanaramla6435 Жыл бұрын

Great interview, without diving into anything personal, but letting her speak her mind and giving her a comfortable space, dhanya ma'am, you were amazing. Reema ma'am, you are so inspiring and someone every woman should look up to. Wishing you all success in your life

@merin_here_am_i Жыл бұрын

Marriage is not designed for women to succeed.. its true in a way .. i agree...To overcome that is our challenge..But we can achieve..

@anusannan3557 Жыл бұрын

Was waiting for part two....thank you Dhanya ❤❤

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Do share and support

@shibbyskaria8325 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you have given such a forum to express one's feelings. Wish to see more of such episodes to unfold. Thank you, Dhanya!

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Dp share the video

@bglr2783 Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately cannot agree with Rima on marriage. Some women flourish in marriage. If she failed as a woman after marriage, could be because of the industry she is in and on how vocal she was about certain things. Even Ashiqur faced a lot of trolling because if his views. It's not the same in every profession and also some marriages give women the wings to fly.

@sweeetysuvees1309 Жыл бұрын

I hv flourished in marriage. Plus I know of men who say they don't want to get married..Only one thing I agree here is...overnight everything changed for her not Her husband. Then she needs to ask why.

@Insightahub415 Жыл бұрын

Nice interview ❤️. I just loved it 💖

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Do share and support

@jeriljaison1412 Жыл бұрын

I loved the interview and i truly respect her emotions. But I had to disagree on a small part of what she said...Grace antony is such a wonderful actress but she was always casted for 30+ aged charecter roles even if she was so young.Why did that happened? If Rima had such great acting skills obviously she would have been casted for these roles or considered in the first hand.Anu sithara was already married when she was in her career best and acted in movies like Ramante Edenthotam.I dont think marriage is what blocked Rima from her career. If you want to exist in cinema (or anywhere else) you have to prove your worth.If not,directors will obviously cast someone better.

@sweeetysuvees1309 Жыл бұрын

Kajol,Ashiwarya,Rani in Bollywood.

@abithakathy6471 Жыл бұрын

Lovely conversation. A topic very less spoken but that has to be discussed continuously for the emerging change in our society. Thanks for this episode and yes we all are forced to be bold for our existence, rather than for being who we really are!!! ❤️

@j-j-j6 Жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I feel and go through.. I wonder how other women don't feel the same.... Most women are even afraid to like my social media posts on feminism.

@prajithap.v5985 Жыл бұрын

Please invite parvathy thiruvothu to this show

@DK-ff6jg Жыл бұрын

There are thousands of women in the world who has succeeded in their life and career after marriage and even after becoming mother. Even in USA, Europe and India every where marriage changes a women`s and men`s life. Its about taking responsibility and succeeding in life. It your feminist mentality making you think like this.

@mangalyamadhu5735 Жыл бұрын

I love the fact that everybody coming to the show have a safe space to be emotionally vulnerable ❤

@commonbeing9359 Жыл бұрын

Feminine + intelligent + classy Rima is a package of this whole📍 Such a graceful lady💖

@aparna3846 Жыл бұрын

Its true... If we women keep fighting to make our life normal and equal, it benefits the future generation.. ❤.. I hope we get to see like 4-5 parts of this fantabulous interview❤

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

4 parts yes

@ayshabinthnoor Жыл бұрын

I can see myself in Rima's rage. Yes. I am also exhausted but i am hell bent on living my life tge way i want. ❤🔥

@ellisjoy5192 Жыл бұрын

Dhanya connects well with all her guests

@Shakkiraahamed Жыл бұрын

What you said about marriage is very very trueeee🙄🙄🙄

@anusha9518 Жыл бұрын

Yep 🙏

@Kaappilover13 Жыл бұрын

Somehow reminded of the song, " thum itna jo muskura rahe ho...., watching this, ❤️

@karthikaanil5188 Жыл бұрын

Rima chechi's feminism is really a slap on face for all pseudo feminists who degrade such genuine human being like Rima chechi. It's 21st century and pitty that women still have to fight for being in their own element.

@liniejohn1585 Жыл бұрын

Manju warrier kick started everything including wcc and conveniently backed off from everything for her selfish motives...and all others lost their career and happiness...such an opportunist she is and she is hailed as a saint😅😅😅

@fidaummer2233 Жыл бұрын

I am listening to this now and really do not want this conversation to end... Please 🙏

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

You have another part coming today evening

@DrHailin Жыл бұрын

Most heart touching episode,, the struggle of a woman,, the struggle of a gender,, the struggle of pure existence,, the struggle a man never would have ever faced,, the struggle the society puts upon us just to be you,, jus to exist as you,, jus to breathe.. The best episode ❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@anusreemnair2602 Жыл бұрын

She taught us most respectfully what is feminism and the way you should deal with what you want...really appreciateble and an eye-opener

@aishwaryanair4209 Жыл бұрын

Love love love! I cried listening to all this. This is every woman out there. Every mother, every wife, every sister, friend out there relates to it♥️ Can you guys please add subtitles in English so I can also send this to my friends who don’t understand Malayalam?

@gokulmurali9124 Жыл бұрын

@14:45 that was a really nice and fine question

@sayanasai2921 Жыл бұрын

Love you Reema . you really inspiring me, am very thrilled about your words and all that and I'm awaiting for the next part🙌

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Pls do share the video

@rajprad9120 Жыл бұрын

Such an honest interview.. You are too genuine for your own good.. talent like yours will be explored in a big scale at some point..hope you get lots of interesting projects movies, music albums, websites etc.

@anaghasasindran8055 Жыл бұрын

I really had tears in my eyes. Thanks a lot for this episode Dhanya chechee and Rima.

@regi_lalr5382 Жыл бұрын

14:45 good question 👏🏻

@archanasmenon5335 Жыл бұрын

Rima ❤ you have said it. I felt like you appeared in the interview just to convey my struggles.....infact struggles of many women....God bless you....❤❤❤❤❤

@jesteenajoy7598 10 ай бұрын

Rima had a clear point while answering Dhanyas questions..she dint even go out of topic or blabber some random thing…I felt she worded out everything so accurately that any women would be feeling🙂

@hasnafathima9092 Жыл бұрын

Dhanya, you always bring the best out of people.

@priyajoseph3914 Жыл бұрын

Great interview, thank you so much for bringing such an inspiring person on your show. Rima i wish all your dreams come true, keep going❤️.

@sethulakshmi8134 Жыл бұрын

malayalathil subtitle undayirnnel nannayirunnu....kurachoode manasilakkan ellarkkum pattum

@meghageorge6491 Жыл бұрын

Dhanya Mam, your observation and questions..🙏 it's beyond and all.

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much...do share the video with your friends and family

@drsethulakshmi8986 Жыл бұрын

She is severely depressed. I can totally feel every words spoken by her. But this a phase everybody will go through atleast once in their life. We will come out of it Rima. And instead of fighting and depleting your precious energy, just relax and stay calm...

@The.Fox.Box21 Жыл бұрын

Worth watching! And I want you to know that men too suffering from (some) the after effects of the conditioned cocoon! And also there're men with the same vision ❤

@shifnaabubakar2299 Жыл бұрын

This interview is everything 🤍🤍. Thank you Dhanya. You prove with each new episode tht how good of an interviewer and person you are. You could have let Grace speak that nonsense and create another mamta/swasika, or highlight the tears in this interview for more reach. But you didnt. I have mad respect for you for that 🙏.

@j-j-j6 Жыл бұрын

Marriage has depromoted me into something less than a human being.. People just started demanding me to stay in a lower position with no basic human rights..... it was, and still is, the huge injustice world has shown to me.. every place I go, every person I meet, expect me to be less than my husband.. I was being frowned upon for fighting for my rights.... People just couldn't understand.... How dumb can people be.... And the truth is, there is no way back... nor forward. The status of a divorced woman or a single woman is even more damned...

@lizbastian4567 Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to hear this 😢

@safnaashajahan5512 Жыл бұрын

Very true

@asmadanishzidan2448 Жыл бұрын

The one friend she told 'shabna'..she is just amazing.kudos ❤❤

@asmadanishzidan2448 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to say this... recently I had gone through a news which happened in 2020-2021....e WCC enulla sankadanayum adhile membersum ellam avarvarude thalparyathinullavare support cheyullu..not for the ordinary people..the person's name mentioned above I knew her personally..but never knew lots of things happened in btw..i will attach the news about them..there is no survival for people who doesn't do justice..karma is a boomerang.

@asmadanishzidan2448 Жыл бұрын

PPL in film field supports only people who stand with their dirty business..##justiceonly in words##

@MmjTalksMumthasMansoor Жыл бұрын

Inspiring us a lot….❤ Ingane cool ayi life nokkikanunna alkkare iniyum kondu varuuu Ma’am…Great job 🙏

@sonasunil1093 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤ so relatable and real

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Thank you..pls do share

@saranyas4694 Жыл бұрын

Please try an interview with sobhana maam🙏🙏

@IamLijo Жыл бұрын

Great interview.. love it ❤️👍

@iamwithdhanyavarma Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it

@ronsworld8703 Жыл бұрын

Rima eniyum uyaranghalil ethumm.....eniyum eniyum uyarumm.....

@sreelekshmivivek4410 Жыл бұрын

More power to her🔥

@sunithac1915 Жыл бұрын

Great interview, waiting for the next part.

@vishnupriyaav911 4 күн бұрын

Eniku karachil vannu...Rima ye eniku neritu ariyilla, actor enna reethiyilum athra sredhichitilla, pakshe seeing Rima as a person I just wanted to hold her hands and stay near her. She reminds me about myself. Also I am kind of having a guilty relief that there are others like me..Reminds me that the many women around us are just simple human beings who could never let their guard down