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@21s 4 жыл бұрын

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@thomasjones9920 4 жыл бұрын

This guy is an inspiration for how to live your life as you get older. Forget the myth about your 20s, 30s or 40s being your "prime", life should always get better and better as you mature and develop as a man.

@younggrasshopper3531 4 жыл бұрын

Rodin fuck yeah, 26 years old here and pretty stoked

@gordongekko2781 4 жыл бұрын

I'm in my mid 40's now, and have found that life gets easier with each decade.

@joselanda433 2 жыл бұрын

@@younggrasshopper3531 I’m 70 and I still don’t get tired while running

@younggrasshopper3531 2 жыл бұрын

@@joselanda433 any advice for long term fitness?

@JaredLaswell 2 жыл бұрын

I just turned 30. Wife left. And I found out I'm way too nice. It has helped me to find out 30 really isn't old from getting back out there and talking with people.

@kenewangtsosane2348 4 жыл бұрын

This man's book changed my life for the better. I have read it 7 times. I am more confident, purpose-driven and unlikely to settle for mediocrity. I thank him greatly. Love from South Africa.

@kenewangtsosane4361 3 жыл бұрын

@@Sk-fg8bh No more Mr nice guy - Robert Glover. Hope this book helps you to become a better man.

@kingpin377 3 жыл бұрын

It seems there is still hope in this shitty country

@amit77 3 жыл бұрын

How have you improved your dating game

@kenewangtsosane4361 3 жыл бұрын

@@amit77 More confidence when approaching and talking to women.

@amit77 3 жыл бұрын

@@kenewangtsosane4361 better results? U getting laid a lot more? In more relationships?

@ernstrobertalmgren9057 4 жыл бұрын

An absolute legend, saved my life!

@ByRaymondFerguson 3 жыл бұрын

He saved mine too

@lelandkwong 4 жыл бұрын

This was pure gold. For those looking for hard facts and statistics, you're thinking too hard and missing the point. Go out there and get some action, the ladies are waiting for us. Thank you 21 studios and Dr. Glover.

@matthewbaumann630 4 жыл бұрын

@Dan T That's true!

@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын

I always recommend his book, No More Mr Nice Guy. Great talk, great resource for men @21Studios Conventions!

@ByRaymondFerguson 3 жыл бұрын

I am successful by many others accounts and thought I had it all together. Except my marriage sucked. This book changed EVERYTHING FOR ME. I’m only a few days out from finishing the book and getting a copy for my wife and brothers. I am including them in this journey. When I give my wife the book I am also giving her a card with my boundaries on them. Let’s see how this goes. I am looking forward to a more fulfilling life and marriage. One with no secrets and pure real ness. I am no longer a nice guy but a real good man.

@abdelkarimmohammed9066 Жыл бұрын

I don't recommend giving it your wife. More a guy thing. It'll be much better if *show* it to her, understand?

@richardsmith8504 3 жыл бұрын

Just found this guy, what an inspirational speaker , and “nice guy “.😎 When the student is ready the teacher will appear.

@jake18111996 3 жыл бұрын

This guy has put cherry on the top of my life. But the guy who completely changed my life is coach corey Wayne . If you are interested in this area then I highly recommend you to check his KZfaq page!!! Best of luck for your future mate!!!!

@I_luv_my_fans 4 жыл бұрын

This was hands down the best talk of the convention. Balanced and informative

@chuckmartin935 4 жыл бұрын

he speaks of count of monte cristo- a book written in the 1800s that is still an awesome read today- because it's about revenge - and the count serves it as a COLD dish.

@smb2265 2 жыл бұрын

One of "THE BEST" Videos I've seen in a long time. David is a national treasure

@nobodysperfect06 4 жыл бұрын

His book is very eye opening

@cracklingsoda 3 жыл бұрын

this book was like a revelation to me when i first read it. going to the roots, to the fucking childhood, that's what he fucking did.

@user-ye2ej4gg9b 4 жыл бұрын

you should also invite "Alpha Male Strategies" he is also very good.

@Rawyalty220 3 жыл бұрын

He’s a clown

@ARdave311 3 жыл бұрын

@@Rawyalty220 how? Ams teaches gold dude, just apply it you’ll see

@raytotherose10101 4 жыл бұрын

21 studios is like the father i never had

@andylindsey 3 жыл бұрын

32:36 That was golden! I'm gonna remember that one. :)

@MrMaverickD 4 жыл бұрын

Well done ! Great speech , great book , great man!

@Kdizzledub19 4 жыл бұрын

27:50 . Love Dr. Glover! He is awesome

@umeshpujari2634 4 жыл бұрын

This video has changed my prospective towards women in general. I used to have resentment against them but the way you explained it why they are that way... now I have started having respect for them.. I used to hate women for not liking me. And they dating multiple man who are bad ...

@MyFaraz786 4 жыл бұрын

check out his book man it will blow your perspective ten folds

@umeshpujari2634 4 жыл бұрын

Yes man... it has actually blown my mind.. I read his book online but still got the paper back version for honouring his work

@trevorr8834 3 жыл бұрын

Just heard Dr G is coming to the 21 convention in 2021. Awesome 👌

@tonyoliver9728 3 жыл бұрын

Love this guy.

@kylemedeiros6907 4 жыл бұрын

Loved the book. Loved the speech. Glad the Q and A was only 5 min haha

@user-ye2ej4gg9b 4 жыл бұрын

I buy all your books in Amazon! Amazing books

@Mrbobster87 Жыл бұрын

Glad I found glover

@GENzReactions 3 жыл бұрын

I loveeee you soo much guys❤️❤️❤️❤️ know l give advice to my dad about him being passive, nice guy, female nature Nd he really listens ☺️☺️☺️

@xaviermercado2079 3 жыл бұрын

I got the book on order great 👍information keep speaking 🔊

@Trinhnguyen714 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you kind sir

@aromals555 2 жыл бұрын

I'm actually dowloading this man's stuffs, what if this kind of videos could be aginst YT policies in future. So much of facts and insights.

@yevhen-bondariev 4 жыл бұрын

The actual talk about Boldness in the Era of #MeToo starts at 27:50

@travisbickle473 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks legend

@vincivedivicilextalionas4036 3 жыл бұрын

Youre a goddamn champ

@fazalhazh3511 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you bro

@Rawyalty220 3 жыл бұрын

What a g

@princerockless2000 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks broo

@youngmirre8874 4 жыл бұрын

Yea you should invite alpha male strategies that guy really changed my life but this guy is really good too thanks

@michaelbrideau1070 4 жыл бұрын

This was great

@porter2241 4 жыл бұрын

Dr GLover.👍🏻

@arthurclarke983 4 жыл бұрын

A lot of good material here and I bought his book as a result. Now- was anyone besides me struck by his comment that one should just live the NMMNG life without talking about it to your wife/GF "because they aren't interested"? I think he is absolutely right-- but think about that for a minute.. You are guaranteed to get a minute-by-minute commentary on every random thought SHE is thinking, and she'll bitch that you "don't open up to her", but if you do, she's not interested? Hmmm. It almost seems like the ladies don't know what they want...

@remc0s 2 жыл бұрын

Who else misread the title as "Baldness in the Era of #MeToo"?

@guidoretro 4 жыл бұрын

About women being more sexual than men, the book "Sex at Dawn" talks about that. You are right, Robert.

@mgtowarena9636 4 жыл бұрын

So what are your thoughts about ALL of the sexless marriages? Even when men still meet the burden of performance. Theres countless articles, Ted Talks, all about sexless marriages.

@guidoretro 4 жыл бұрын

@@mgtowarena9636 About sexless marriages? that they are people that prefer to be unhappy and follow society mandates than be happy and free of other people telling them what to do.

@mgtowarena9636 4 жыл бұрын

@@guidoretro Regardless of what you claim that they prefer... do you have any other thoughts about it other than anecdotal statements?

@guidoretro 4 жыл бұрын

@@mgtowarena9636 I don't know what you want me to say, that's what I think, that women are more sexual than men and that marriage is a culturally imposed thing. Tell me what are your thoughts and maybe we can discuss this.

@mgtowarena9636 4 жыл бұрын

@@guidoretro Yes, I agree that marriage is a social construct. As for "women more sexual than men" I dont agree or disagree with that notion, however, all the sexless marriage talk that I hear/see/read about might suggest otherwise that women are not more sexual than men. Make sense?

@morganalexis6147 3 жыл бұрын

Idk what it is but his boundaries are so attractive!

@ARdave311 3 жыл бұрын

What do you mean by boundaries? Thanks

@morganalexis6147 3 жыл бұрын

I love his authenticity! It's the way he hones his power as a man. He's very loving and kind, but also really powerful/strong as a man. As a female, hearing him talk, I feel very safe, and like I could approach him vulnerably without fear of being assaulted emotionally for my vulnerability as a female. And what he says is so true too! There is nothing more safe to my own soul than a man that is unapologetically man, in not harsh or hard ways. It makes me feel so safe. He's very masculine and it feels so good to watch

@morganalexis6147 3 жыл бұрын

@@ARdave311 and, the part where he realized he doesn't have to listen. That's good boundaries! Also when he says give me the guy version, that's also really good boundaries too! He's willing to be authentic, and be so true to himself but still loving in his views of women. He presents his need, bc he does want to hear what's being said, just in ways that he can hear.

@ARdave311 3 жыл бұрын

@@morganalexis6147 thanks for clearing that up for me Morgan! One thing I like about him is he knows how to be kind but also masculine. I’m a recovering nice guy but my nature is kind, I want to keep the kindness but show the masculine, a lot of times nice men are seen as feminine and that’s what I don’t want

@morganalexis6147 3 жыл бұрын

@@ARdave311 yeah! I love so much that he isn't compromising his masculine needs. In this way he is leading which is so attractive ☺️

@iseektruth64 4 жыл бұрын

Just finished reading his book. Anybody in the Tri-Cities area of Eastern Washington want to form a group and work on it together?

@31manhood 4 жыл бұрын

Interested

@iseektruth64 4 жыл бұрын

@@31manhood ekwariobuss@gmail.com

@ByRaymondFerguson 3 жыл бұрын

Anyone in the Delaware area?

@basedandbearded 3 жыл бұрын

@@ByRaymondFerguson I am 👌

@ronhoek69 Жыл бұрын

"Give me the guy version". Great advice.

@fredivalente3586 4 жыл бұрын

This is fucking amazing he is so right in everything

@bigtimbolim Жыл бұрын

37:20 Life changing advice in just a few minutes right here

@bobak5126 4 жыл бұрын

What kind of activities are available for men in the Midwest and who are not religious?

@robertvantassel102 4 жыл бұрын

"Save it for the one you love" .....lmao

@Jack-zr3mx Жыл бұрын

I heard a story on how test pilots, back in the day would swap wives. So that if one of the pilots would die, his pilot buddies would take care of his wife, for life.

@danpenia219 4 жыл бұрын

The Wayne Dyer of pick up

@christianpaul-cp6746 3 жыл бұрын

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change!

@smartduke4739 4 жыл бұрын

Is there any UK pick up community WhatsApp group we can join for free?

@DanThomas1161 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a nice guy (read want to be nice to people) and I truly don’t give a fuck that women hate me for who I want to be in human society.

@shaun8062 3 жыл бұрын

What "Red Pill" book is he talking about?

@artix86 4 жыл бұрын

What is the real title of the "Calemony crystal" (?!) book that the talks about?

@WorstViktorEU 4 жыл бұрын

Count of Monte Cristo

@artix86 4 жыл бұрын

@@WorstViktorEU Thank you.

@chenugent 3 жыл бұрын

this man sounds 70 years old but looks 50

@alimemari1646 4 жыл бұрын

starts at 27:50

@vassilimina9312 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks lol

@smartduke4739 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Man

@davidcombest1134 4 жыл бұрын

Shoot thanks

@andylindsey 3 жыл бұрын

48:13 Hilarious!

@Mrbobster87 Жыл бұрын

Maan i wanna come.... When is there one in Houston?

@21s Жыл бұрын

Orlando this October

@1stRedCommander 2 жыл бұрын

Dr.Glover is RSD explained

@morganalexis6147 3 жыл бұрын

Wow! I really like you! ❤️

@user-el3rk6os3p 4 жыл бұрын

24:19 Sheeesh... I erased my porno stash today.

@joeygk11 4 жыл бұрын

Good stuff but he didn't really focus on topic of boldness

@thim0 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, he did, look at his head!

@Lekid23 4 жыл бұрын

Go on Operah and make women great again! :)

@acamacho023 4 жыл бұрын

54:00 Men in village: tag out man tag out! Chief: Take my sloppy seconds bitch, this is my house!

@user-el3rk6os3p 3 жыл бұрын

23:45 How is it possible to be at peace facing own death?

@spiketrademark1099 2 жыл бұрын

If you are not you are living wrong

@user-el3rk6os3p 2 жыл бұрын

@@spiketrademark1099 thanks, but how is my question.

@arthurclarke983 4 жыл бұрын

NOTE THIS: At approx. the 13 min. mark he asks: "How many of us here hate women?" then states not a single hand went up. Yesterday I did a search for Red Pill, and most of the articles attacked it as "radicalizing men", "misogynistic", and how hateful the members/commenters were. That is exactly the problem; I don't hate women- far from it. But I do hate feminism for its smug condescension that merely to question their claims is to be aberrant. Guys need to call "B.S." on this and not be afraid of the outrage that will surely follow.

@pseudonymous8702 4 жыл бұрын

The movie The Red Pill is more or less about this. Any time men's issues are discussed, it is lied about and smeared in the media.

@eztli 4 жыл бұрын

good talk, misleading title

@haidenmorgan 4 жыл бұрын

You guys need to have Coach Corey Wayne come speak!

@craigothedago7763 4 жыл бұрын

Corey Wayne's advise is absolute garbagee and will put you back in hell.... He is ugly and insecure...he advise on always pleasing the women in bed is very nice guy behaviour...keep away from Wayne..

@cutedoglilangel799 4 жыл бұрын

Dogs grow up too fast 😢 but they stay adorable forever 🐶❤️

@loln00bsify 4 жыл бұрын

hell yeah dude

@trailerfitter2 4 жыл бұрын

He's read Sex At Dawn.

@matthewbaumann630 4 жыл бұрын

Sex at Dawn is kinda sketchy. The author won't even defend it.

@morotetsuke 3 жыл бұрын

Lol....if you're going to ask me a question about stats, facts, and data I'm going to tell you next. Perfect champ...perfect. All PhD's aren't the same folks!

@j-efaw 3 жыл бұрын

That pissed me off

@sanjivb53 3 жыл бұрын

Pinned: 17:35 to 17:50

@travisbickle473 3 жыл бұрын

Fuck yeah

@charlesj97 4 жыл бұрын

What is a red pill convention?

@SilvanaDil 4 жыл бұрын

I'm no feminist. Some of what this guy says makes sense. OTOH: bankruptcy in middle age + three marriages = idea on how to make money off men. Dicey.

@matthewbaumann630 4 жыл бұрын

Do you have a better idea on how men can be successful?

@InGrindWeCrust2010 4 жыл бұрын

FWIW: He was unmarried for a LONG time before marriage #3. Says he didn't get it mostly figured out until that one, and wouldn't have got married again if it weren't a good bet.

@Rawyalty220 3 жыл бұрын

@Mailbox 2002 bold honesty works for u? I’ve only recently started doing it and haven’t had any success yet but my self esteem is better

@TeetotheZee 4 жыл бұрын

So it boils down to "women like sex" and "be confident". He is quite like a PUA in he makes lots of claims of how many women hit on him, and his past as a minister definitely helps him gather followers. I don't see where he addressed the challenges of Metoo. I did enjoy his book, but this talk is pretty weak and self-promoting.

@randojones2030 4 жыл бұрын

Haven't been laid in 7 months. Though I have been pushing myself in other regards. Soon

@kysersaucey 4 жыл бұрын

Getting laid is like going to the bathroom. When it becomes your #1 priority, you'll stop everything your doing to get laid. Until then you'll just hold it.

@randojones2030 4 жыл бұрын

@@kysersaucey indeed. It's just not a priority for me at the moment.

@redshark9537 4 жыл бұрын

Seven months? So, you're married then?

@randojones2030 4 жыл бұрын

@@redshark9537 no I still have my money and freedom

@redshark9537 4 жыл бұрын

@@randojones2030 If you have your money and your freedom, you are in good shape. I went much longer without sex and without freedom when I was married. Don't get married.

@user-cm9ij5cz3c 4 жыл бұрын

Be bold, be strong, but be very wary of your interactions with women? Prioritzie your life, your project, your development - do go for the good ones, but observe women first, don't storm into anything with them.

@philosophicalmonkachu7711 2 жыл бұрын

Nicely articulated... it helps me,in things to keep in mind ..

@luked2735 4 жыл бұрын

Rollo and Anthony should grow up and join forces again.

@edwin-jq4dp 2 жыл бұрын

12:16

@jp3mcpherson 4 жыл бұрын

Invite “Alpha Male Strategies”

@elathiaskade7311 4 жыл бұрын

He doesn’t address the family courts, nor does he comprehend the modern cultural expectations of younger women today, growing up in woke society. This is the boomer version of “just be more alpha, bro” just “be more energized”. Nothing will change if you don’t change culture, laws, and social expectations. This is not a personal issue, it is a societal one.

@bobak5126 4 жыл бұрын

As I see it, we are all at different stages. He mentioned going through bankruptcy in his late 40s. Whatever you decide to do has risks. Nobody knows how long we have left so it’s up to us to take our life by the balls or coast with the flow.

@monkeyfaceyou 3 жыл бұрын

excuses, excuses

@izzywox8246 Жыл бұрын

Shit needs to change but that doesn't mean there aren't successes in the mean time. He has a strategy for success. He can't solve all of society's problems for men lol

@aaroninternet4159 2 жыл бұрын

We are also heavily wired for sexual jealousy over our partners, and the asymmetry between the sexes of the root of that jealousy shows us how our behavior was directed in our ancestral past. His theory we shared mates in the manner he described is highly implausible. Our shame around sex is wired to make us engage in sexual activity in private in an effort to hide this valuable resource which is unwise to advertise to competitors. David Buss, who he mentions, states we are and most likely were serial pair-bonders. I'd recommend David Buss' interview with Lex Fridman. Also he really never mentions anything to the effect of being bold post MeToo, which is an interesting conundrum of how to act on correct impulses which may be rejected, or worse, may be interpreted as harassment to bad faith actors who have been brainwashed by victimhood ideology.

@emanuel_soundtrack 4 жыл бұрын

sex is bad, save for those you love. ....

@kenyattanyirenda1213 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@stevedavenport1202 4 жыл бұрын

50 Shades of Gray because they like getting boned by billionaires.

@donaldwymer2791 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like Apostasy...if you jumped ship without Jesus. You're out of bounds. You get what you say because it's what you settle for. Your words. There is no Good COUNSEL aside from JESUS, My Words. Choices...

@nonnon57 4 жыл бұрын

I think No more mr. nice guy describes something more nefarious then casual people pleasing, it reads like a diagnostic theory for a un-named personality disorder by the rose tinted manipulative liars 'nice guys' are.

@nonnon57 4 жыл бұрын

@Bill Sanders This must be a angsty nice guy.

@alexhormann8931 4 жыл бұрын

Hmm, i just don't buy the idea that men of a tribe shared their women. Or tell me where this "woman-ownership" syndrome comes from? I guess a man's wiring is simply the certainty to be the father of his pretended offspring.

@LikeToWatch77 4 жыл бұрын

Humans are complex. There have been many different mating strategies across the ages and the economy of mating has changed as the societies changed. My understanding is that there were many different mating strategies just within the various Native American tribes depending on if they were agrarian or hunter gatherer and if they were matriarchal or patriarchal. I believe that our days of pair bonding may be coming to an end and the future of human mating in the modern economy is going to be more tournament mating based. For a more complete discussion I suggest the book Sex At Dawn.

@LikeToWatch77 4 жыл бұрын

@Dunston - Sorry I don't mean to be dismissive but you just described tournament mating strategy. In tournament mating it is just as you say, a select few males have sexual access and a large number of males have no sexual access. That is the direction we are headed yes. If you want to understand the overall concepts I suggest the book Sex At Dawn.

@LikeToWatch77 4 жыл бұрын

@Dunston “We are not a classic pair-bonded species. We are not a polygamous, tournament species either…. What we are, officially, … is a tragically confused species.” (Robert Sapolsky) It's not a perfect analogy. I believe a pure tournament mating style would be like wild horses or bulls or lions. Under those mating schemes the alpha can only maintain his hegemony for a few years at best. Humans cannot maintain a pure tournament style at all. That would require extreme mate guarding because a male cannot tell when a female is fertile. However because of society's lowered standards of chastity for women in modern times we have moved in the direction of a more tournament like mating scheme. Keep in mind that the sexual market forces are directly affected by actual market forces. The sexual economy and the regular economy are interdependent.