OOOOF, im diagnosed Boarderline. I need EXTREMELY defined and followed bounderies. Or I will walk all over the person. I felt so attacked the last min of the episode. it was me 100% oof. I have had that happen in the past. A bf on and off for 1.5 years. When it ended I was crying like the world was ending. I was begging pleading for him to stay. I was on the ground trying to hold him there. He told me he wanted to talk to me after a month of being broken up. He would NOT answer any of my texts, any emails, any messages till a month. No matter what I said. We met after a month. I had 0 interest in having him back as a partner. Not as much as I was pleading the month before.

I’ve been this person in some form or another for the majority of my adolescent/adult life. The hardest part for me to come to terms with is the fact that it is emotional abuse, which I do recognize and accept now. But to provide some insight as someone who is borderline, i live a life of baseline suicidality, struggling to see my purpose in the world or the purpose of the world in itself. So while I understand now it is a threat to say these things to people and place this burden, in my life it feels so commonplace I am basically communicating my truth in a desperate need to be understood that just so happens to place an enormous weight on another person because my daily life truth is uglier than I think most people could bear. I dunno. That’s my attempt at an explanation. That being said, I just got out of a relationship where I was eviserated by someone with traits of narcissistic personality disorder. First time I can ever say that. Truly life changing and soul crushing.

Hi I never write on your videos but I want to share something. I have BPD and because of those symptoms feel like the worst person and that I don't deserve to live. So I wake up and go to bed thinking about reasons why I should be alive. I'm also very tired... Day by Day gets harder. I feel like this message could even look like manipulation also and shouldn't be writing here in case anyone gets offended... I wish I would be another person. Anyway I wish a nice day to you doctor, you are very good man and watch all your videos. Thank you so much

I have Borderline and I haven’t ever done anything like that, atleast not to people outside of my parents. I don’t think I’ve done that with my parents but who knows. I was best friends with this girl who I strongly believe has borderline tendencies and it was an intense friendship, a lot of times I felt like I was her girlfriend. And it’s funny what you explained with how it can be enticing to be in a relationship with someone with borderline because it was like that with her. She would shower me with affection and compliments and she really needed me in movements and it made me feel really good in the beginning, the fact that someone needed me and all that.

I was married to an abusive man with AVPD & almost killed myself overdosing on meds and booze. I couldn’t stand how unlovable I felt with him and it was unbearable

I want to see Dr Honda with long hair. Please!

Hey Dr Honda- maybe you could do one on Scizotypal personality disorder- schizotypal? I feel like youd might actually be able to explain it properly and its a very unknown disorder to the mainstream, and very misunderstood

I need advice on setting appropriate boundaries within the relationship with a Borderline, if that's even possible. I don't want to trade him for another relationship but, I don't want to be the favorite person any more and I don't want to engage in the whole Borderline cycle. I'm just tired and feel emotionally drained. But, we've been married for decades and I can't see myself leaving at my age. I'm just tired of all the turmoil and insidious depression. It seems like our whole relationship has become all about the Borderline disorder and my need to avoid becoming a target, again. I just want to be a normal, happy person again.

Hard to hear but all things I do . It's just hard to hear how the past can effect the ones we love most as adults . And being bpd I can think of the ones I loved , that i have demonstrate these actions to.

Bob is so much better than the Guiermo guy

Dude has not even spoke a sentence. Wowser