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Borderline Triangulation & Fearing the Hoover

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@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Please sign and share the Stop Narcissistic Online Bullying petition Change.org/stopbullies
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Please ask questions leave your locations!
@Dubjaxfilms
@Dubjaxfilms Ай бұрын
Petition signed. From London
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Thanks buddy!
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
Good evening, David! Thank you for answering my question, and cleaning it up, so to speak! Love your humor!! I hope you have a great week also! 😎❤️
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Thank you Rory, you better have a really nice week too and watch where you stick your finger!
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
@@daviddemars😂😂😂😂
@paulsenzig9097
@paulsenzig9097 Ай бұрын
​@rorywright5692 Hello Rory how are you doing. Bad storms went through Wisconsin tonight
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
@@paulsenzig9097 Hi, Paul! Hope your feeling well! Just been working outside a lot! We might get those thunderstorms soon! 😎❤️
@davet.9364
@davet.9364 Ай бұрын
Big Dave from Tennessee again - Thanks David. This time you answered with clear examples showing the difference between Never Again/Forever and 2 or 3 chances. Makes a lot of sense.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Good, thanks for telling me Dave!
@KJ-ns8lk
@KJ-ns8lk Ай бұрын
After 28 years of being on antidepressants I am 100% off them and I have no depression. I’m angry the doctors kept telling me I can never go off them. 28 years of flat emotions. So Cal.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Oh no. You're okay now. Enjoy your new and improved self and I hope life is beautiful for you!
@twocandles1108
@twocandles1108 Ай бұрын
Fearing the hoover is serious.
@emilemerten6535
@emilemerten6535 Ай бұрын
from south africa Hi David Thank you for the video. I will work on reducing stress. It feels like I don't have control over anything it feels weird.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
You have control over yourself, just not your environment.
@emilemerten6535
@emilemerten6535 Ай бұрын
@@daviddemars Thank you David
@RonDrake-g6x
@RonDrake-g6x Ай бұрын
Married to diagnosed bipolar/BPD female for 18 years. 2 children. I adopted one. Final discard 2 months ago. Rumination is terrible. Can't sleep. But I feel like that if I'm going to be alone now, id rather do it anonymously. Alone where nobody knows me. Is this normal? Why do I feel this way? Shame? I still have this want/need to help her. I feel sorry for her. And I understand that I shouldn't. Anonymous. I see that as freedom.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
I understand and I'm really sorry Ron. I will dive into this today.
@calebkeegan3023
@calebkeegan3023 28 күн бұрын
Same
@alimccreery755
@alimccreery755 Ай бұрын
Hi from Sacramento. Good video 👍
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Hi Ali!
@saraibrahim1524
@saraibrahim1524 Ай бұрын
Hey, I'm Sara, 20 years old I was recently diagnosed with BPD and I'm trying to learn more about it from your own videos, I went through alot while growing up and I'm still fighting to get out of this environment to be able to heal, I recently learned about my splittings and my splitting get dangerous the moment I feel I'm in danger or stressed out but I'm managing through it slowly
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Hello Sara, please watch today's video and see my response. Thank you!
@JKDVIPER
@JKDVIPER 13 күн бұрын
Imagine you show up to game day, and do well, no problems popped up, any activity, any endeavor, and have an expert Monday morning quarterback decide you stink. 😂your supervisor, your coach, your family, your spouse, all say, “Nope, this ones a winner. And have a person in power say, “Naaah, I’m good. He stinks.” 😂❤
@jennywalsh338
@jennywalsh338 Ай бұрын
Jenny from Los Angeles. Enjoy your stories & insights.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Thank you Jenny!
@Happy-Me.
@Happy-Me. Ай бұрын
Hi David. Thanks for trying to answer my question. All I want to know is what a pwBPD will go through during a psychotic break, is it the same as a breakdown and how does it effect them long term and with future relationships.
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Oh okay, I will try to answer that for you. Thank you!
@elfmix
@elfmix Ай бұрын
Actually not a bad New Zealand accent there.. excellent try. (I'm also north island NZ).. you really are enjoyable to watch and I have learnt a lot. cheers
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Thank you very much mate!
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
Hi, Victoria! Great to see you! Thanks for bringing that song to my attention! I listened to her singing and jelly roll singing it, and a couple others. It makes you think, for sure! 😎❤️
@janettepointon2540
@janettepointon2540 Ай бұрын
Please why has my ex blocked me , he is seeing someone else, thank you for your videos
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
I'm sorry Janette. I can only assume he does not want you to interfere.
@calebkeegan3023
@calebkeegan3023 28 күн бұрын
Same my ex narc w someone im sure even tho she would deny amd keep us both plus others tramp
@victoriamuniz9851
@victoriamuniz9851 Ай бұрын
Victoria from the Bay area lot of therapists are doing reaction videos on Jelly.Roll Somebody save me.I would love to hear your opinion on this Sonia. Lee also. did a spit off of Somebody Saving me.I would love to hear your opinion
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Hi Victoria, I couldn't find it until I saw Rory say more about it so I will watch it.
@victoriamuniz9851
@victoriamuniz9851 Ай бұрын
@daviddemars Thank you.I would love to hear your opinion on both singers, Jelly roll and Sophia.Lee Because that's how I would have acted 5 years ago but not today.
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
Reaction Therapy is one site I watched. It was very interesting. Want to look at a few more when I have more time! Thanks, Victoria!😎❤️
@victoriamuniz9851
@victoriamuniz9851 Ай бұрын
@rorywright5692 A few years ago, if I had heard this song I probably would have thought. Why doesn't somebody save him Today I no longer think this way. My first thoughts are, I can't save you Jelly Roll. You have to save yourself. This is not my responsibility I can love you from Afar but I can't allow myself to bond with your trauma. I've come a long way rory
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
@@victoriamuniz9851 You sure have, Victoria!❤️
@SurnaturalM
@SurnaturalM Ай бұрын
I already asked a question about the recent MRI results and some cognitive tests I've did, they discovered that my brain didn't function properly, and the amygdala didn't formed / work as it's supposed to. I'm from Alsace, France, but I am currently living in Québec Canada for my work, Ivujivik, to be precise. The doctors absolutely refuse to give me any diagnostic. I don't feel a high range of emotions. That would be normal or angry. I care about my immediate family, my kids, elderly parents, but others, I'm afraid I don't care much. I'm just curious about what you would think about this. Your videos are informative, and I appreciate your humour. I just want to inform my family if it's something that is hereditary and don't want to hurt them without knowing it. P.Z
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
I'm really sorry but I can't day much about it. I am not qualified to discuss such matters. Please consider seeing a different Doctor. Maybe there is no diagnosis?
@cindyc
@cindyc Ай бұрын
🤗🕊🌞
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Hi Cindy!
@RelRodriguez-he1ll
@RelRodriguez-he1ll Ай бұрын
Hi David, healing family from California. Thank u for ur advice on my fears. I will for sure start looking into talking to a family lawyer to know my rights and what he can do and what he can’t do. It’s weird. Well everything he does is weird. All I asked my ex fiancé regarding the kids is to meet me somewhere the first couple of times they see him. I told him I wanted to be present those first couple of times to make sure the kids emotional being is stable. I want to b there to make sure they feel ok and safe since they think their father is dead and are just confused. Don’t u think this is like common sense ? Their father is refusing and doesn’t want me to b there. He just wants to pick them up after being out of their lives and a total stranger to them for the almost past year. I feel like he is running away from being in front of me after what he did to us. I’m thinkin full of shame ? Or memories will come bak? What do u think? No matter what it is, I want nothing to do with him. I just need to b there to make sure my kids will be emotionally ok. Do u think this is normal for me to ask for me to b there the first couple of times? I’m askin cuz to him it’s not normal and that’s y he says he’s takin me to court. I just want ur opinion. Thank u David
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
I think what you request is healthy. If you dont want him in your children's lives then remind him of what a failure of a Father he is. If you do want him in their lives then go through the courts.
@RelRodriguez-he1ll
@RelRodriguez-he1ll Ай бұрын
@@daviddemars thank u. No I don’t want him in my children’s lives. I’ve been healing and feeling a bit better every day. I don’t want him bak. U have taught me tons thank u. But he’s the one that tells me he’s gonna take me to court cuz I don’t let him pick them up.
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
Hello, David! I hope you are having a wonderful Sunday! I know I am, here in sunny Ohio! My question is- Do you think Their addictions are used as a triangulation against us to further torment, control, and manipulate us? Another way they can hurt us both emotionally and physically?😎❤️
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Hi Rory! I will bring this up today, thank you.
@rose-sk2qv
@rose-sk2qv Ай бұрын
Hi. Do you think its possible to feel so sad, and miss something so much you can feel the hurt but no longer cry , just feel the hurt .
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
Hi, Rose! Great question! Although I don’t hurt as much over this, I seldom cry cuz of being ridiculed by him so many times for shedding tears! I would say to myself I will cry later over something he had done or said so I could cry in private. But those tears were never shed later. Hope I’m making sense!
@daviddemars
@daviddemars Ай бұрын
Yes and I'm so sorry Rose. Maybe depression.
@rose-sk2qv
@rose-sk2qv Ай бұрын
​@@rorywright5692hi you are making sense, sorry for my late reply, its because my notifications don't let me know until days after the reply , but yes it's as if you've run of tears but tears are important and not bad
@rorywright5692
@rorywright5692 Ай бұрын
@@rose-sk2qv I’ve had same things happen with notifications, and my comments being deleted!
@calebkeegan3023
@calebkeegan3023 28 күн бұрын
Yes on off 4 yr plus long distance nightmare w single mom narc 2 dads of course no longer w....called her out so many x too left ten months 6 months 9 months now 3 plus months new betrayals and timelines i already noticed i wanna tell her i know thar affair lasted more than 2 months more like over a yr or longer...i fig it out...plus she has devastated me shocked me w disgusting modern woman entitled behavior...long silent treatment the worst private fb oh ya the worst is a long distance relationship allowing visits every few months while trying to push her away back to block her no contact ruminating kills me..fearing hoover always tho i think i made huge narc injury good f off
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