Boredom in metrimonial relation: |urdu| |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

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Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

3 жыл бұрын

How to handle boredom in relationship with spouse: Prof Dr Javed Iqbal responds to a question in a session.
#wifeandhusband #metrimonialrelation
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

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@mariachohan5703
@mariachohan5703 3 жыл бұрын
I gave my husband all whatever I can and I always tried my best to communicate whatever I m feeling but he always took me for granted and whenever I said him that u r so important for me u r world to me he said tou ab yh aik bt m sari zindge sunu ga kya nd it is not that I hv been saying this thing to him daily but on and off it is very difficult to make a man happy after becoming his wife according to him what he can gave me was just physical attachment 😢😢😢😢and then he left me for no reason! he didn't divorced me and also didn't want me with him .... It's my request to all who r reading my comments give love to ur wives and respect them praise them and make them realise that you love them!😢😢😢it's really hard for a girl to bear all this
@zorroali6303
@zorroali6303 3 жыл бұрын
Yeh rishta dono taraf se parwaan charhta hai, Sometimes women also feel that this man should br pressed max so that he can’t look around and he should act like a puppet... Women must make his men like a KING so that She can have life of a QUEEN.... 👍 BEST FORMULA 👍
@allaboutblender1647
@allaboutblender1647 3 жыл бұрын
Very sad, actualy he dsnt desrvs ur love and attntion, best wishes for your future.
@MK-yf1vk
@MK-yf1vk 3 жыл бұрын
I cn feel ur pain sis😭 Same happening with me nd im pregnant too.having the most severe depression i cant explain.he nd his mom emotionally abused me throughout the time on different issues.nw when i conceived he left me at my parents place nd didnt contact me
@thefooderspecialist4383
@thefooderspecialist4383 3 жыл бұрын
@@MK-yf1vk ALLAH ki zaat ki gai ziadti nai bholta
@alikazmi7525
@alikazmi7525 3 жыл бұрын
میری بھن اللہ کی زات اپ کی مشکلیں اسان کرے ،،پنجتن پاک کہ صدقے بی بی فاطمہ سیدہ خاتون جنت سلام اللہ علیہ کی پاک چادر کہ صدقے اپ کہ خاوند کو ھدایت دے اور اپ اپنے گھر اباد ھو جائیں
@faisalzafarkhwajazafar4188
@faisalzafarkhwajazafar4188 3 жыл бұрын
Cheating, betrayal, selfishness, indifference, disinterest and lying is killing this relationship these days. People lose interest and attraction in each other.
@shahidmahmood6932
@shahidmahmood6932 3 жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیر بہت ہی اچھی باتیں ہیں اللہ تعالٰی ہم سب کو عمل کی توفیق دے آمین
@lifeteaches4477
@lifeteaches4477 3 жыл бұрын
This relationship is dead in West & on struggle phase in Pakistan. I think smartphones have created a big challenge in such relations.
@saimarehman6573
@saimarehman6573 3 жыл бұрын
Yes my husband work at telenor and remain so busy.... Infact always his phone is everything for him
@DIG3T
@DIG3T 3 жыл бұрын
True....it is destroying my home and 18yrs of marriage as husband is into dating apps
@domesticmomlife7436
@domesticmomlife7436 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kalsoomjaved4580
@kalsoomjaved4580 2 жыл бұрын
Yes bcz fn mn sb kch available hota hi awse logon klie.bad qisamti se jo limmits hmain Quran pak mn btai gai hain un ko cross krne ki wja hi rishton mn twazun khtam ho raha hi.
@searchfortruth6889
@searchfortruth6889 2 жыл бұрын
@@saimarehman6573 so the prob is not mobile phone, its materialism
@wszaks3842
@wszaks3842 3 жыл бұрын
Mostly husbands does not like to listen this sort of communication but always said behs mat karo. so end result is anger hate etc
@everythingispossible9382
@everythingispossible9382 3 жыл бұрын
😞
@sanasameer486
@sanasameer486 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I personally suffering from the same situation.
@muhammadumarhashmi3146
@muhammadumarhashmi3146 3 жыл бұрын
Aap right ho asa h hota
@muhammadumarhashmi3146
@muhammadumarhashmi3146 3 жыл бұрын
Husband's nami loago k biwi s kuch sunana achha ni lagta
@drhina8780
@drhina8780 3 жыл бұрын
That's true Communicating and discussing something to husband related to their odd behaviour comes under arguments
@ayeshamariyam1418
@ayeshamariyam1418 3 жыл бұрын
اللہ پاک ہر شوہر کو ہدایت دے اور اپنی ذمہ داریوں کو ذمہ داری سے سنبھالے
@traza2185
@traza2185 3 жыл бұрын
Our her wife ko bhi jo wo zalim hoti hien
@ZeeshanHaider33938
@ZeeshanHaider33938 3 жыл бұрын
Ayesha ap married hain?
@traza2185
@traza2185 3 жыл бұрын
@@ZeeshanHaider33938 app rishta dhond rhy ho aik mere liay bhi plz
@Gtv1000
@Gtv1000 2 жыл бұрын
عایشہ صرف husband کو ا
@muhammadjamil1597
@muhammadjamil1597 2 жыл бұрын
عائیشہ مریم. . . آپ کا نام کتنا متبرک. اور پاکیزہ ھے۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔اپنے نام کی لاج رکھیں اور عائیشہ اور مریم بن کر دکھائیں۔ ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ جب آپ اس دنیا اور اسکی ھر چیز سے بڑھ کر اپنے شوھر کو اھمیت دیں گی تو قانون قدرت یعنی عمل اور رد عمل برابر ھوتے ھیں کے تحت آپ کو وہ کچھ حاصل ھو جاے گا جسکی آپ تمنا کرتی. ھیں۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ اپ نے ایک بات دل میں سوچنی اور ایک دن میں کئی دفعہ دل میں دہرانی ھے۔ " اسمیں شائید. میری غلطی ھو " جس دن آپ نے اس فقرے پر یقین کر لیا آپ کی زندگی بدل جاے گی۔ازمائیش شرط ھے۔
@nigellaonceagain7453
@nigellaonceagain7453 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been married for over 26 years Alhamdolillah and if you met us you would think we just met. A Marriage I feel is a cooking pot of a variety of ingredients with patience being the fuel,You will need a handful of respect including acceptance of your faults, a dash of passion, a spoon of empathy and compassion stir in some value add in a cup of friendship and allow it space to release its own individual flavour. Don’t over stir Or mould out of character. Spending time doesn’t mean shopping or eating out putting more strain on an already strained wallet, activities you can do together going for walks,simple picnics,cooking, gardening, playing games etc can bring closeness and laughter
@hellokitty-lw2mb
@hellokitty-lw2mb 3 жыл бұрын
Love the analogy you used here. This comment was a pleasure to read
@sheezariaz8920
@sheezariaz8920 3 жыл бұрын
MASHALLAH 😇
@hasbasmamavlog1280
@hasbasmamavlog1280 3 жыл бұрын
You are lucky ma shaa Allah
@shehnazbaig4977
@shehnazbaig4977 3 жыл бұрын
Maa Sha Allah subhan Allah
@thelaibslife1379
@thelaibslife1379 3 жыл бұрын
Yah most of the time we don't have enough money to go for hoteling nor for shopping but we spend quality time. We don't use cell phone when we sit together. Peace of mind is more important than luxury life we both are working and please pray for me May Allah blessed us with happy healthy kids Ameen it's 6th year going to our wedding
@massagefortruth6811
@massagefortruth6811 3 жыл бұрын
💐Dr.sahb me aapko apne ustaz ki tarh sunta hu masha allah hme aapse bahut kuch sikhne ko milta he Allah aapse razi ho. 🇮🇳India rajsthan ❤️
@brightstartiktok2m925
@brightstartiktok2m925 3 жыл бұрын
There is no doubt that the future of our nation must and will greatly depend the type of education we give to our students......
@muhammadarsalan8859
@muhammadarsalan8859 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you(sir),you are spreading maturity in society through your knowledge and giving our society a new and broad way of thinking and analyzing things
@ravinderbhat6163
@ravinderbhat6163 3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Sahab has saved my marriage.....God Bless you Dr. Sahab.
@sadiaasad7513
@sadiaasad7513 3 жыл бұрын
Bhai keep on listening so you don't forget
@realknowledgeitv9542
@realknowledgeitv9542 2 жыл бұрын
Read Quran in ur language
@pa2359
@pa2359 5 ай бұрын
He just said set boundaries, how he save your marriage
@DontOpenThisChannel
@DontOpenThisChannel Ай бұрын
Allah has saved your marriage.
@themultitasker9332
@themultitasker9332 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes communication creates fights
@InfoRangOfficial
@InfoRangOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
سر آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کی ہیں اللہ تعالی آپ کو سدا خوش رکھے آمین..
@siddiqze
@siddiqze 3 жыл бұрын
I find it extremely disrespectful to share jokes specially related to spouses. This is the root of all relationships as all the relationships are created based on this relationship. Love your spouses for the sake of Allah SBT. Any injustice committed will be a sin on our part for which we will be questioned.
@iryaprince840
@iryaprince840 3 жыл бұрын
Sir agr spouse sunna hi na chahy to kiya kre??bar bar in ki ignorance ko ignor kr deti hu phir b whi sunna hi nae kuch b..kiya kits jaye
@raheelsharif6316
@raheelsharif6316 2 жыл бұрын
@@iryaprince840 dear madam find out the cause of the problem , Kon SE waja SE ho la taluq hogya haii ho reason dondo and cheating selfishness
@_farhatkadri_1003
@_farhatkadri_1003 2 жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah... This session was really beautiful. Actually very little communication creates miracles 👌👌👍
@KanwalsLife
@KanwalsLife 3 жыл бұрын
MASHA ALLAH stay blessed Sir Apki videos sy hamesha positive vibes ati hain 😍 I wish k hr insan apko sunana shuru kar day to sary fasad hi khatam ho jay families ma
@nighatnoor3472
@nighatnoor3472 3 жыл бұрын
‏بال، کپڑوں، جوتوں اور بناؤ سنگھار سے زیادہ اپنے مطالعہ، شعور اور گفتگو پر کام کریں...کوئی بھی دس سیکنڈ یا زیادہ سے زیادہ ایک منٹ تک آپ کے بناؤ سنگھار سے متاثر ہوسکتا ہے...اس کے بعد آپ کو گفتگو ہی کرنا ہوتی ہے....!!!🌸
@faizrasoolfaiz3827
@faizrasoolfaiz3827 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct suggestion
@doua-zia-
@doua-zia- 3 жыл бұрын
Dr sab app 100% such kah rahy hy.jab her waqat tahzek orr byintha tanqeed ky rawaiye ka samna karna parta hy to insaan zinda Laash ban jata hy orr phir rozana jab shohar boly main to aik laash ky sath rahta hon tooo insaan roz marta hy .......😢😢
@kaneezaskari2062
@kaneezaskari2062 2 жыл бұрын
im married from 8 yrs Alhamdulillah my husbnd so caring,loving nd responsible person ...even when i hv some problem he take carr of our kids gv him food,bath everything nd he always says if u dont with me how can i live without u...but never say k 'mai tmse bht pyar krta hu, if i asked him do u love me he always says no...
@Vs0105
@Vs0105 2 жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah❤️
@bilalcorner8567
@bilalcorner8567 11 ай бұрын
MashAllah.
@fauziamunir7221
@fauziamunir7221 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifuly explained, JazakAllahu kheir
@ahsanulhaque1092
@ahsanulhaque1092 3 жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah keep teaching of us like this and I love when you make understand openly ❤️
@farheenanjum8901
@farheenanjum8901 3 жыл бұрын
اسلام علیکم جناب اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا کرے اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کی حفاظت فرما آپ کی عمر دراز کرے آمین یارب العالمین
@stealthisgreat
@stealthisgreat 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! For the kind video you made Dr. Sahab.
@IMN0tVer3
@IMN0tVer3 2 жыл бұрын
u have such a positive thinking about this relationship...if every man understand these little points so every house will be paradise
@shahidtahir77
@shahidtahir77 3 жыл бұрын
Personally speaking..it's all based on mutual respect.give repect,take respect...love begets love
@sabaishfaq2309
@sabaishfaq2309 3 жыл бұрын
@@Curiosityoffsite aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
@BushraComputer55
@BushraComputer55 3 жыл бұрын
Sir "Allah" aapko lambi umer se nawaze......🤲
@IkPtipolitics
@IkPtipolitics 3 жыл бұрын
Dil cheer dia apki is guftagu ny. Asa laga Jasay Mari hi bt hurai hu. Main St kuch nh nh sakti. Allah apko ajar dy
@shehnazbaig4977
@shehnazbaig4977 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful talking dr saheb, jazak Allah khairan kaseera
@dramnarasul-dermatologist366
@dramnarasul-dermatologist366 3 жыл бұрын
Very well said sir, Spouse is the Best Relation in the world 👍
@sheezariaz8920
@sheezariaz8920 3 жыл бұрын
You're an inspiration ❤️🌸
@amirshahzadshahzad3418
@amirshahzadshahzad3418 3 жыл бұрын
Assalam.o.alaikum sheeza
@sameerahali807
@sameerahali807 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully explained JazakAllah khair
@nkk6465
@nkk6465 3 жыл бұрын
بہت عمدہ ترین میسج Salute
@AliAhmadAwan
@AliAhmadAwan 3 жыл бұрын
Bht Zabardast baat! 👏
@brightstartiktok2m925
@brightstartiktok2m925 3 жыл бұрын
Love you
@sumairavirk1466
@sumairavirk1466 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Ali bro
@adnanasrajpootji7195
@adnanasrajpootji7195 3 жыл бұрын
Love day par rakhte Hain 🖕🙄
@tahabaloch5281
@tahabaloch5281 3 жыл бұрын
I always watch ⌚ your videos and liked your channel......Ali Ahmed Awan
@mubasherzaidi8286
@mubasherzaidi8286 3 жыл бұрын
Dr javed ap bht qabil doctr ur ak achy insan hain keep it up mein apsy milna chata hn kc din mein khd be dr hn phd kr rha hn
@sohailshaikh1334
@sohailshaikh1334 3 жыл бұрын
Pataa nahi insaan Kyo nahi samajhtaa ki ye duniya hamesha kaa thikaana nahi hai.. Dil bahelaane ke liye Jannat hai naa ?? Allah Taufeeq de.. Ameen
@syedahijabzahra4092
@syedahijabzahra4092 3 жыл бұрын
بےشک۔۔۔۔آخرت کی زندگی
@rashdawaseem1689
@rashdawaseem1689 3 жыл бұрын
Great sir....yours talk is always impressive and heart touching.JazakAllah
@muazkashif4761
@muazkashif4761 3 жыл бұрын
You are so knowledge able and great person!God bless you!
@asimfiroz4527
@asimfiroz4527 3 жыл бұрын
ماشاء اللہ بہت خوب آج سے اور زیادہ توجہ دونگا
@aqstarrzz415
@aqstarrzz415 3 жыл бұрын
Kis pe ?
@foodwithmood9924
@foodwithmood9924 3 жыл бұрын
@@aqstarrzz415 😆
@aqstarrzz415
@aqstarrzz415 3 жыл бұрын
@@foodwithmood9924 😜😜
@scatteredpearls4483
@scatteredpearls4483 3 жыл бұрын
سر یہ شعر حفیظ ہوشیارپوری کی غزل سے ہے۔ دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے
@mshahbazriasat
@mshahbazriasat 3 жыл бұрын
بہت خوبصورت باتیں ۔۔۔ شعر جو آپ نے سُنایا وہ غالباََ حفیظ ہوشیار پوری کا ہے
@muhammadishaq7112
@muhammadishaq7112 3 жыл бұрын
Sir u r blessing for all of us..May u live long
@muhamamd784
@muhamamd784 3 жыл бұрын
This relation is so beautifull plz guys always respect girls they r so cute
@iqrashahzad6366
@iqrashahzad6366 3 жыл бұрын
I6du6
@junaidmuhammad8266
@junaidmuhammad8266 3 жыл бұрын
haahahaha!
@hamzamalik7305
@hamzamalik7305 3 жыл бұрын
😊
@hafizumer251
@hafizumer251 3 жыл бұрын
Zabardast sir
@naveedmemon4055
@naveedmemon4055 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@munirmusawar8111
@munirmusawar8111 3 жыл бұрын
سر میاں بیوی کے رشتے میں اکتاہٹ صرف اور صرف برے معاشی حالات، مرد کی مردانہ طاقت کی کمی کمزوری، بیوی کا اولاد پیدہ نا کرنا، عورت کا منہ پھٹ ہونا اور مرد کا ہتھ چھُٹ ہونا ہے،. ان سب سے بڑھ کر یہ دو مختلف نیچرز کا ملاپ ہوتا ہے، اگر دونو کی نیچر نا ملے تو شادی کے دوسرے ہفتے ہی اکتاہٹ ہونے لگتی ہے.
@musafirayaznaik6934
@musafirayaznaik6934 3 жыл бұрын
بہت عمدہ ، میں آپ سے بہت فائدہ لے رہا ہوں
@rasheesyed8834
@rasheesyed8834 3 жыл бұрын
Boht achi batein ki apne dr saab...jazakallah
@umairbinarif728
@umairbinarif728 3 жыл бұрын
دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے حفیظ ہوشیارپوری
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi...
@MUHAMMADYASIR-pl2qr
@MUHAMMADYASIR-pl2qr 2 жыл бұрын
@@aminaraza4060 hy
@deebars7413
@deebars7413 3 жыл бұрын
It’s the best of luck if you find a loving and caring person in your life as a soulmate , a husband or wife . Both have to be flexible and honest with each other. Marriages take a long time to settle. Communication is the key. I was so shy to communicate when I was angry about something and used to get silent and never say anything. My husband gets the credit that he changed me , he helped me changing this annoying habit of me. I had that self pity self harm habits but I worked hard to get rid of them and be positive.
@raheelsharif6316
@raheelsharif6316 2 жыл бұрын
Nowadays communication is totally lacking in our society .instead of blaming another partner one should find some mistakes in ourself then try to blame ..this is the biggest problem in our relations now
@irumemaan976
@irumemaan976 2 жыл бұрын
@@raheelsharif6316 ............0.........................,................................................................
@rangzindagikay-5
@rangzindagikay-5 2 жыл бұрын
Great job Masha Allah bht humble aur dheema lehja hai Aap k samjhane ka really like a professor 👌
@Mahaahmedvlogs
@Mahaahmedvlogs 2 жыл бұрын
Kia bat hai sir aapki...♥️😍amazing logical example I hope sab ko yeh bat samajh ajaye jinki life me AISA Kuch problem hai...sir Muhabbat to miljati hai but izzat se Muhabbat Karna or usi izzat se rishte ko nibhana hi Kamal hai
@muneebkhan7465
@muneebkhan7465 3 жыл бұрын
If you really love eachother's company you will never get bored.
@syed__.
@syed__. 3 жыл бұрын
Sir ager koi asi bt Suny na shoher bt hi na Sunay to
@asmapsychologistofficial2153
@asmapsychologistofficial2153 3 жыл бұрын
اگر کسی کو نفسیاتی مسئلہ ہو ocd یا بائی پولر یا کوئی بھی صحت سے متعلق مسئلہ ہو تو ہم سے رجوع کریں۔اللہ سب کو صحت مند رکھے شکریہ ..
@aqstarrzz415
@aqstarrzz415 3 жыл бұрын
Dimagh kharab ho gia hay pakistan ke mahol ko dekh ke or sun ke.....in sab logon ko fix kar do please 🙏
@iaman00b65
@iaman00b65 3 жыл бұрын
Great service for all families in this video
@s.ksharingkanwal1551
@s.ksharingkanwal1551 3 жыл бұрын
mashaAllah amazing and true sharing stay blessed bro bht bht jazakAllah 🥰🥰
@sasajjad3437
@sasajjad3437 2 жыл бұрын
'دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے' یہ شعر حفیظ ہوشیارپوری کا ہے۔ غزل کا آخری شعر : حفیظ ان سے میں جتنا بد گماں ہوں وہ مجھ سے اس قدر بر ہم نہ ہوں گے
@syedibrahim3322
@syedibrahim3322 2 жыл бұрын
Agar sab log use samaj jaye tho insha Allah saare fasad SE Bach jayenge
@quratulainainee2210
@quratulainainee2210 3 жыл бұрын
Sir if you see my comment please make a vedio of family behavior in which parents give more values and respect to earning child and always taunt jobless child and alwaya give examples of others
@mansoorahmed9578
@mansoorahmed9578 3 жыл бұрын
Sir you are inspiration to medical students plz also make videos for students THANK YOU 😍
@Fatima-rz8qg
@Fatima-rz8qg 3 жыл бұрын
Bht pyari batin ki Hain ap ny sir. JazakAllah
@malakbarkatali3429
@malakbarkatali3429 3 жыл бұрын
Good wife is gift of Allah take care of this gift
@ammarhafeez5991
@ammarhafeez5991 3 жыл бұрын
Nice bt bro
@drzalikhairfan9046
@drzalikhairfan9046 3 жыл бұрын
Conditions getting worse when you r living in a join family and husband is more inclined towards his siblings and parents..uo apko usi tarah treat krna shuru kryega jaisy usky ghr waly apky bary ma sochty hai.pyr krna duur ki bat bs taunting behavior shuru hote ha bat bat pay...am a doctor.going to hospital in the morning and back to home in the evening..at home my husband is trying to find my faults and taunting me for everything..this makes me very 😢.. sometimes I want to get out of this relationship but bcz of my kids I can't take any step
@adeelkhan7065
@adeelkhan7065 3 жыл бұрын
Shohr tani hui rassi pe chalta ha joint family system ma.. Mgr m ye sochta hon k job k sath bachon aur ghr ko time dena ktna mshkl hota hoga apke leye.. Kya aisa ni hoskta k aap kch arsa job skip krden.. Phr jb ghr smbhal jaye to ksi moqa pr phr s shuru krlen Beharhaal sbr ksi b rishta ki kamyabi k lye bht zrori ha dr sahiba
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for you..they have an ego problem..do not appreciate that u r working..may Allah guide n protect you 🤲❣️
@mohammad4548
@mohammad4548 3 жыл бұрын
Pursue your job so that you can get out of this tensed environment for some hours of the day ,, otherwise the house wives develope all the hypertensive diseases before age..n yes susral wants a deaf n dumb robot , who can't even breathe with her own wish n will.n they treat you like paun ki juti, even servants of the house have more respect...but mufaqat e amal happens ,it can take five to ten years or so but surely Allah rewards the sabir..
@sultansahib3304
@sultansahib3304 3 жыл бұрын
@@mohammad4548 jahan ye sb shuru ho jaye wahan mamlat ka Sahi ho Jana Aik mujza he hae... Warna bs azeyat he hissy main ati hae...ab wo sabar py depand karta hae k ktna arsa wo azeeyat leni hae
@ashowbizchannel4883
@ashowbizchannel4883 3 жыл бұрын
U are right..joint family m rhna aziyat sy km ni🙏🙏🙏
@hcgdco2537
@hcgdco2537 3 жыл бұрын
Bht zabrdast ser...sari mery dil o dmag ki batyn ki hn apny...
@raheelthegenius878
@raheelthegenius878 3 жыл бұрын
Dr sahab your intellactual thinking and thoughts are really admiring, i always follow your great advise.
@beenish434
@beenish434 3 жыл бұрын
We lack the appreciating attitude, so we loses the best relations, plus ego is another big issue among males
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 жыл бұрын
True
@fizanasif4625
@fizanasif4625 3 жыл бұрын
Fake...
@sanasameer486
@sanasameer486 3 жыл бұрын
It is true
@fizanasif4625
@fizanasif4625 3 жыл бұрын
@@sanasameer486 Then you women's don't have understood the reality of men's till today
@muhammadharoon3591
@muhammadharoon3591 3 жыл бұрын
Ye un logon k liye ha jo parhy likhy Han ya un me kuch shaoor hy jahil logon ko izzat dy k daikha to wo khud ko pta ni kya samjny lag jaty Han aik parhi likhi biwi ko an parh shohar bht mushkil zindagi ho jati hy.
@saifuali2654
@saifuali2654 3 жыл бұрын
Very so much reality ........ Izat do tu ulta sir pr cherh jatay hain k hum tu ye hi izat deserve krte hain.....
@BasitAli-ql1zd
@BasitAli-ql1zd 3 жыл бұрын
Great topic sir you are such a nice man God give you long life
@shhhh9780
@shhhh9780 2 жыл бұрын
Jis nay nhi chahna hota usk liy kuch b krlo wo nhi chahega, sabar Nmaz aur bachon ki khatir brdasht krlyn, dil p na Lyn, aur Allah sy ajar ki khatir iss Duniavi zindagi myn brdasht krlyn dua kryn k Allah uska dil bdal dey, kbhi b hurt na Hon blk zayda khubsurt healthy happy rhyn, confident, tundi bad mukhalif sy na ghbrah aey aqaab yh to chlti H tujhy uncha uraany k liy, na jhgra kryn, pyar pyar sy achy ikhlaqi sy rhny ki try kryn, phr b na bny to usko usk Hal py chor dyn, bahir sy dhky kha k ya to aqal a jaygi ya phr Allah apk liy so darwazy kholdyga agr chor b dey to, so never b hurt yourself please.
@mihbaarmalik5117
@mihbaarmalik5117 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful propagation Sir. But with due respect, I'd like to do a little correction regarding poetry which you used. The poet's name is Hafeez Hoshiarpuri, not Tufail Hoshiarpuri and it's 'Dilon ki ULJHANEN bharti rahen gi Agr khch mashware baham na hn ge.'
@muhamamd784
@muhamamd784 3 жыл бұрын
Bwain bohat poyari hoti hain insan mai akal hni chye only kesay bewian hamari itni khidmat krti hain
@queenfalak6439
@queenfalak6439 3 жыл бұрын
Bilkul bhai
@fouzianoreen9102
@fouzianoreen9102 3 жыл бұрын
Sir.....mashaAllah yr health n weight is getting more maintained ....keep it u... ( physicality )PQ is improving...
@NajeebKhan-ks8ty
@NajeebKhan-ks8ty 3 жыл бұрын
Well said dear & you have been very impressive right from your education days, stay blessed. Najeeb Khan, writers colony if you remember
@khurramali007
@khurramali007 3 жыл бұрын
Sir In-Laws Start Treating Daughter-In-Law as a Maid After Some Time.
@ayesha7766
@ayesha7766 3 жыл бұрын
That time won’t last forever, one day he would regret and
@waheedabashir4898
@waheedabashir4898 3 жыл бұрын
There are two reasons why parents marry their children off 1. to preserve ones chastity 2. To continue the next generation of offsprings Nowhere does it say to bring home a maid. In Islam no where does it tell you to be a maid. If your in-laws wanted that then perhaps they should pay for a maid. However, If you wish to increase the love between you and your spouse then you can support your husband with his family but it’s not obligatory upon you and one shouldn’t feel shy in expressing that.
@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366
@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366 3 жыл бұрын
Ap thora ca kam kr lain gi to mot nahi a jati...apny parents or apny lye bhi to kam krty han ap. Ladles admiyon sy sub kuch chahti han.....or family ko help out krty waqt selfish ho jati han
@ummakaash3380
@ummakaash3380 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes?? No! All the times
@MNTL_Venomofficial
@MNTL_Venomofficial 3 жыл бұрын
@@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366 app ki language bta rahi hay k app kitnay mohazzab Hain aur kis Tara treat kertay Hain logo ko
@zafar6e
@zafar6e 3 жыл бұрын
دلوں کی ۔۔۔۔الجھنیں۔۔۔ بڑھتی رہیں گی ۔ اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے
@farhanghani9774
@farhanghani9774 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video of you tube channel... Allah Pak bht kamyabyan ata kry Ameen
@AbdulMannan-mz4vk
@AbdulMannan-mz4vk 3 жыл бұрын
v. well convey your message. or yehi rishta hy jo jannat main b qaim rhta, so indeed this relationship is big blessing or gift for us. Allhumdullelah🙏
@arshdhiman9039
@arshdhiman9039 3 жыл бұрын
Love from india thanks ji 👌👌👏👏
@lifehacks9760
@lifehacks9760 3 жыл бұрын
Love from Dhanbad Jharkhand India ❤️❤️
@salmanzabha7428
@salmanzabha7428 3 жыл бұрын
What a amazing Explained
@lifehacks9760
@lifehacks9760 3 жыл бұрын
@@salmanzabha7428 bilkul
@romeoprince4164
@romeoprince4164 3 жыл бұрын
وہ کام👨‍🏭 ہی مت کرو جس 🎗️کو کرنے کے بعد معافی🙏 مانگنا پڑے👉
@foziakanwal2866
@foziakanwal2866 2 жыл бұрын
Apki ye pyari batain meri dua h sab k dil pe assar kare ameen
@TalibHussain-bx2cp
@TalibHussain-bx2cp 3 жыл бұрын
Great sir. I would love to see you once in my life sir🥰
@safiafaisal4254
@safiafaisal4254 3 жыл бұрын
sir ap ke sari batin thek hain.. mgr yoh husband jo apni wife ko ar beechon ko time nhi dety .. joint family m rhty hovy ; parents ar bhen bhiyoun ke waja sy... un k bary m kiya khin gy..
@snackworld5001
@snackworld5001 3 жыл бұрын
😑
@mehsharhabib1692
@mehsharhabib1692 3 жыл бұрын
Love from india...
@sajjad3636
@sajjad3636 2 жыл бұрын
Bohat Acha massage dia ha aur bohat achi baat ki ha
@upwardsacademy
@upwardsacademy 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou very much sir g . U r so great . I m really very thankful to you for this vedio . Because it will change me . And like me others 🙏🏿🙏🏿
@ARWORLDinUK
@ARWORLDinUK 3 жыл бұрын
Husbands aisa kuch sun'na b pasand nhi karty aur na he ye batain samjhty hain kash apki soch har mard ki soch hoti
@wow..2860
@wow..2860 3 жыл бұрын
Yes u r right
@ARWORLDinUK
@ARWORLDinUK 3 жыл бұрын
@@wow..2860 😊
@user-jj5ei5sz9c
@user-jj5ei5sz9c 3 жыл бұрын
مجھے میرے شوہر کے ساتھ رہنا وقت گزارنا بہت اچھا لگتا ہے اور شوق ہے مگر وہ بیرون شہر کام کرتے ہیں مہینے بعد آتے ہیں تو ساس انکو میرے لیے نہیں چھوڑتیں اپنے ساتھ مصروف رکھتی ہیں ۔اس بات سے ان حرکتوں سے میرا دل دکھ گیا ہے کبھی لگتا ہے کہ میں گھر میں ہوں ہی نہیں پھر چپ کر کے روتی رہتی ہوں ۔میرا دل ٹوٹ گیا ہے ۔ میری شادی کو سات سال ہو گئے ہیں میری خواہش ادھورہ ہی ہے بہت رونا آتا ہے کہ مجھے سمجھ نہیں آتی کہ میں کیا کروں۔ اگر وہ مجھ سے بات چیت کرنے لگیں تو ساس کہتی میرا دل رکنے لگا ہے چلو ھاسپٹل لے کر ۔۔۔۔۔ پھر میں ان دونوں کے درمیان نہیں آتی ۔ساس اپنے پاس سلاتی ہیں شوہر کو ۔۔۔۔۔ کیونکہ میرے سسر فوت ہو چکے ہیں 😭😭😭😭😭😭 خدارا میرے لیے دعا کیجیے
@sadiqaminkhattak3058
@sadiqaminkhattak3058 3 жыл бұрын
Phr bety ki shadi q karwai hy ? Shadi na karwati ,to sari zindgi sulati apny bety ko apny sath,pata nhi kesi maaye hoti hyn ,k doosron ki betyon ki zindgi barbad kar deti hyn ,Allah poochy aesi maaon ko ,apni betyon ko to damad k paluwon se baand k rakhti hyn ,or bahu ko bety se door,
@aminaraza4060
@aminaraza4060 3 жыл бұрын
Allah pak apke liey Asaniyaan paida Karey...ameen
@kashifsaleemchudry8018
@kashifsaleemchudry8018 3 жыл бұрын
Try something new
@parvenakhtar4791
@parvenakhtar4791 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@foziakanwal2866
@foziakanwal2866 2 жыл бұрын
Bohut hi sachi or achii batain ap ne samjhaye
@ajambashir4263
@ajambashir4263 2 жыл бұрын
Great sir .......sub sae pehli baat feeling hoti hae ..feeling not want money.........aap ke baat Bagair kahay samaj jaye aap ke khushi mae khush aap ke dukh Mae aap ke sath it's real relation of husband and wife.....which not between us last 30 years my deeply experienced.....practically things settle kerna too much difficult in life ....wohi samaj sakhta hae jis pee guzarti hae.........Allah bless you
@AbuFatima
@AbuFatima 3 жыл бұрын
Once a wise man said; You can’t live with a woman and cants live without a woman.
@Maria-vp6iy
@Maria-vp6iy 3 жыл бұрын
Ha ha🤣
@saqibhussain4021
@saqibhussain4021 3 жыл бұрын
You are really a wise man
@samarbaloch263
@samarbaloch263 3 жыл бұрын
U r right sir Communication is key but man would say u r always complaining... even discussing in soft n positive way that what I'm going through because of your ignorance . Eventually they pretend they r victims and you r evil 😓 what to do in that scenario
@saimashahid9239
@saimashahid9239 3 жыл бұрын
@samar baloch this is so so true
@shawakhan9073
@shawakhan9073 3 жыл бұрын
ماشاء بہت خوب جناب اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر سے نوازے اور دنیا و آخرت کی خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین ابو عبداللہ خان
@desisimplevlogs1
@desisimplevlogs1 3 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah sir very nice & beautiful words
@umairiqbal2880
@umairiqbal2880 3 жыл бұрын
میں تو کہتا ہوں پاکستانی مردوں کو شادی سے پہلے کورس کرانا چاہئے کہ بیوی کو کیسے رکھتے ہیں اس کا احترام، اس کی خواہشوں وغیرہ کو کیسے سمجھتے ہیں اور پورا کیسا کرنا ہے
@parvenakhtar4791
@parvenakhtar4791 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@umairiqbal2880
@umairiqbal2880 2 жыл бұрын
@@parvenakhtar4791 tnx
@lodhi9337
@lodhi9337 3 жыл бұрын
سول ہسپتال بھاولپور میں ڈاکٹرز کی دستیابی یقینی بنایں کرونا کے مریضوں کا کوی پرسان حال نہیں
@nasirshabih1405
@nasirshabih1405 3 жыл бұрын
Are you in your senses
@Mashooqali110
@Mashooqali110 2 жыл бұрын
Again smart effort shows different result.nice job Dr sb.
@yahyagamerz2035
@yahyagamerz2035 3 жыл бұрын
ALLHA PAK hum subki zindgi pur skoon guzare..ameen
@drsyedarsalanjafri1597
@drsyedarsalanjafri1597 3 жыл бұрын
مرد کو ایک محبوبہ کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے اور بیوی محبوبہ نہیں ہوتی اور نہ کبھی محبوبہ بن سکتی ہے اور مرد بیوی میں محبوبہ بھونکتا رہتا ہے اور پہلی بیوی تو کبھی محبوب نی نہیں سکتی دوسری تیسری یا چوتھی بیوی شاید محبوب بن جائیں اور بنتی بھی ہے آپ دنیا میں بھی اس کی مثالیں ہیں جس نے بھی کبھی محبت میں تاج محل بنوانے ہیں یا اور بھی کوئی عظیم کام کرے ہیں تو اپنی پہلی بیوی کے لیے نہیں بلکہ وہ اس کی چوتھی پانچویں چھٹی ہوئی ہوتی ڈاکٹر صاحب اس پر کوئی اپنی ماہرانہ رائے دیجئے کہ ایسا کیوں ءوتا ہے
@nageen90
@nageen90 3 жыл бұрын
What if communication is done but action is never taken even aftr communicating... doesnt tht bring more hostility
@samanrajputofficial8197
@samanrajputofficial8197 3 жыл бұрын
Same funda with me
@fatimarehman3031
@fatimarehman3031 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly ...action is taken and than again the same🤣🤣😡
@elec-techsolutions568
@elec-techsolutions568 3 жыл бұрын
Great motivational words
@waseemmohd6254
@waseemmohd6254 3 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair sir Allah apko sehat mand aur khush rakhe
@kiulmstutorialvideos2820
@kiulmstutorialvideos2820 3 жыл бұрын
میں تو احمد فراز کا یہ شعر کہوں گا عشق بھی کھیل ہے نصیبوں کا خاک ہو جائیں کیمیا ہو جائیں
@arts_adventure111
@arts_adventure111 3 жыл бұрын
Communicate kr b len to b koe Faida nai hota jb Dosra sunta he nai.aur agr sun b ly to admit nai krta apni ghalti.
@AZN.EDITSS
@AZN.EDITSS 3 жыл бұрын
Waqe asye hi hy sis
@mahnoorali2944
@mahnoorali2944 3 жыл бұрын
True,sunny ka or glti manny ka hosla hi nae hota
@traza2185
@traza2185 3 жыл бұрын
Think app foran toke deti hoon gi Galti kerne ke kuch din bad smajahna chiay oure pyaar sey Gunda ban ker nhin
@trashwithibbi8531
@trashwithibbi8531 3 жыл бұрын
You are such a positive person MA
@oneall2785
@oneall2785 3 жыл бұрын
Dil ko Thandak pauhnchti sir ko sun ker.. Doobti kachtiyo ko bachaney ko baat kertay sir hameesha. jis hud tak mumkin ho saath jurey rehne aur ALLAH per tawakal ki naat kertey sir.
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