"get yourself busy; study or work; you'll become useful to yourself. when you become useful to yourself, you'll become useful to your family." Goodness gracious is this true. Of course there is no one sentence you could read to a young man to guarantee that you change his life for the better but this is about as close as you can get.

He seems like a good uncle. I'm so sorry that he has to deal with this.

Sir, you are a decent honourable man.

You can tell how heartbroken he is to see what his nephews committed I feel very sympathetic to him I can see he's a good man who is trying to teach his kids right from wrong I have nothing but respect for this guy I would feel heartbroken if any of this happened to anyone I knew

He just taught me a good lesson as a teenager“Get yourself busy study and work become usefulf to yourself then be useful to your family”

Such an impressive guy. So sincere and knowledgable

Aww, he seems like a nice guy...Others may judge him, but this seems like an honest conversation...

What an amazing, insightful, and touching interview. I wish I had an uncle like this. So genuine and sincere the way he speaks of his family.

What a kind and honest man. For some reason it is a breath of fresh air to hear this man speak. He is one of the few real men among us.

This is an eloquent conversation about how a young person can be recruited or easily caught up in jihad. Thank you Ruslan Tsarni for sharing how influence and radicalization happened in your family. So much sorrow and horror for the victim's of this horrible crime...my heart and prayers are with all of them. And yes prayers for Ruslan and family, what a nightmare to live thru... imagine this is your uncle, or brother that did this.

Very great and honorable man. Very self aware, kind, and thoughtful.

This man is an honorable heartbroken man! I feel for him!😗😗

I think he regrets so much not talking to the younger brother jahar before all the tragedy... he's going to live with that guilt for the rest of his life. It's like he said he wished he had talked to him but well... peace to his soul and jahar's...

this is what i call a real man he is aware of his own human flaws and corrects them in real time.

I am Musilim from Libya ,Living in Libya I agree with this man,this is how you represent Islam ,I am proud of this man

This is an excellent interview and I have a great amount of respect for the uncle for being so honest and all-emcompassing in expressing himself and his thoughts on the terror that his nephews wrought and the circumstanes that may have led up to it. And I'm so glad that he showed such respect for the victims.

I think this man is sincere, real tears, real emotions, from his side this is all he knows.

At the end of the day, 6 lives perished: the 4 victims and the lost souls of 2 young men. These touching and lucid words from the boy's uncle come to remind us that suffering is unconditional and universal. Their grief, although confronted with confusing senses of injustice for the rest of us, is as deep, strong and heartrending as anyone else's. Seeing a beloved person becomes so spiritually rotten and harmful must be as hurtful as seeing him/her suffer or die. We should comfort one another...

This man seems very sincere, intelligent, honest and proud to be an American. He carries himself very well!! I think he was a great uncle and tried his best to help his nephews but they went a different way and this gentleman was smart enough to distance himself and his family from the terrible people his nephews became. You can tell he is very sorry for what has happened to the victims. God Bless you and your family and may you continue to do well!!!

at 13:40 he names each of the dead victims...that was touching

I like what Ruslan says, I like his mannerisms, I feel comfortable listening to him. Ruslan seems to be an honest dude, it's so sad that in his existence, as peaceful as he is, that he has to be associated with the legacy of terrorists, of Dzokhar and Termerlan. Peace and love Ruslan, best of luck, and I hope you have fruitful life.

“Tamerlan, get yourself busy. Study or work. Become something useful to yourself. When you become useful to yourself, you’ll become useful to your family. And there may be some extra left, and you’ll be able to share it with whoever you want. This is the path you want, this is the path you need to have. Anything else beyond that is confused.” Ruslan was too good for Tamerlan.

this man seems to be a very responsible citizen.Thank you man for being a good human being.

13:44 he names the victims is honorable. Him crying for the older nephew breaks my heart. He loved those boys although his relationship with his brother and wife was rocky. Hope he heals he should know he has the right to mourn his nephew. No one should tell him otherwise despite his nephews actions

He's an honest person. I'm glad we have immigrants in America like this man.

I have so much respect for this man. I really do.

Oh man. You can see the heartbreak and disbelief written on his face.

I hope Dzhokar reaches out to him,he seems like a good man. This whole situation is just sad.

Ruslan is truly a great man. He should be someone that ALL Americans should emulate.

Thanks for posting this ....more need to see it.

His English vocabulary amazes me! I would like to know more about this very interesting man.

Uncle’s last words are golden: “T didn’t just ruin his own life and hurt a ton of people, he destroyed D’s life as well.” That my friends, is pretty much nothing short of a cardinal sin in the Caucuses, cuz you are supposed to protect and be a role model for the youngsters in the household, and the entire family in general !!! So much human potential and innocent lives lost in vain…😢😢

Great interview. He's so honest and composed at the same time.

It must be a horrible feeling to know your loved one is accused of an unspeakable crime and the world makes you feel like you have no right to even grieve for them because of what they did. This man is so hurt; I hate that the bombing victims and these boy's family and friends are going through this. I mean, this man has to sit by helplessly and watch the world potentially destroy his nephew. It breaks my heart for all involved.

I'm happy i have an uncle like this. Some people are just one advice away from destruction.

Very tragic for everyone involved. My heart goes out to all the families on both sides of this tragedy. He put so much of this in a perspective I hadn't considered.

The uncle is a good moral man. May he find peace.

this breaks my heart

Such a great man. I have so much respect for this guy.

I appreciate the views of this introspective uncle. His views are balanced - well researched, sympathetic of different views and cultures, and generally knowledgeable. I am sorry such an admirable man would find himself in this very bad predicament, associated with loved family members who have carried out such heinous crimes. I hope that people will not judge him alongside of the perpetrators. He strikes me as a kind, loving, knowledgeable and honorable man.

The way this guy talks is so intelligent, he doesn't come at you like he is a part of this family problem but almost like an outsider looking in. I like the fact that he doesn't stick up for the brothers but really explains it the way he sees it and the way it really is

He expressed what was on his mind very clearly and casually...

The uncle seems like a very good, honest, and sincere man.

Amazing how well composed Ruslan is through all of this. Can only be grateful how open he is being with the press.

Dude is so lovable!!

this man is extraordinary

Wow, what a powerful interview. Ruslan is wise man.

i don't even know this guy but he seems really cool those

You are a good man and I'm sorry you have to be associated with this tragedy.

A very fascinating, telling and passionate interview.

those boys seem very much left alone without a direction in america with their parents being back in chechnya ..and the way their parents are,especially mother, had an influence on them inclining towards more radical views..so they got caught up in those spheres in cambridge which is unfortunate..and no matter how sad he is now, their uncle doesn't seem to have cared much about them either, he didn't even want to see Jahar...seems like these boys,especially the younger one Jahar, were left without a family and/or reasonable guidance in america and eventually lost direction.. very unfortunate for everyone involved in this incident..

Wow great interview

As an aunt who LOVES my nephews like they were my own sons, I TOO would be so angry at my brother for helping turn my nephews into monsters!😪

This Uncle seems like a good Man. It is a shame about his family. But at least this man stands up like a Man. I sure can respect that.

Wow. Very emotional.

This is a very intelligent and thoughtful man.

Seriously an uncle have no control over a grown up, he is not the father. He can't discipline nor give order to another man child in order to make thing right even fully aware of something is wrong. Somehow only the authority is equipped sufficiently to handle terrorists effectively and stop terrorism , not a closed family member who happen to be the only decent human being left in this evil family.

This guy is a well spoken intelligent speaker.

WOW... He actuallly remembers the names of the 4 people that died that day the bomb went off..... He thinks about them often...

Amazing man.

This interview is deeply moving and extremely important on a number of levels. In terms of the investigation, Tsarni seems certain that such an operation could have been planned entirely locally. On a more personal level, you can see the frustration and regret he has for his alienation from his nephews. Anyone who has tried to talk sense into a 20-something can relate to this. The "demons" he's speaking about are not limited to Islam; there are versions of them in all religions and ideologies.

I feel sorry for him! There is no doubt that he is a good person!

OK. Thanks.

Seems well spoken & honest. Can't be easy considering....my sympathy to all the victims.

I appreciate his speaking out. He did clear up a lot of things. First of all, he's absolutely right, Islam and Chechnya had nothing to do with this. Tamerlan Tsarnaev wasn't some jihadist diehard muslim. He only acted like one because it gave him an excuse to fail at life. This was a man who knew he was failing at life, and wanted the world to pay for his shortcomings and for everyone to know his name. He brought along his younger brother who was a stoner deeply in debt, failing out of college, and without any direction. Terrorizing a whole city gave them the power they knew they'd never have in life. They didn't care if they were throwing away their lives. Their lives were meaningless anyways. These two had nothing at all to do with Chechnya. They never lived there, barely ever went there. They grew up in Kyrgyzstan. They never settled anywhere they lived. They were just as unable to fit in within Chechnya as in America.

I'm sorry for the loss of your nephews.

A great guy and uncle.. I'm sorry your nephews disappointed you in more ways than one. My heart is sad for all sides.. It is just a sad and heart breaking case matter.

This guy is very well spoken.

this is heart breaking. Uncle Ruslan, I wish you were my uncle, I hope you move on brother, you did your best.

this is a good man.

a very intelligent insightful man

Thanks for you’re Honesty - I felt the same way when I Sean there pictures. Two good looking young men - what happened? We better find out or more of the young will be lost.

I feel so sad for this family. :(

GGG in the future?

Uncle made me cried..

couldn't agree more!

On Frame : 2:54 he makes the most relevant point. "What are you doing for work?". If the people who have joined these terrorist groups had real jobs and lives, a lot of this BS would stop. They are enticed by the drama and attention and many do this because they have no real wage to support themselves or their families.

All people shouting conspiracy theories, just LOOK at him. This is a man of strong convictions. Any person with half a brain can tell you that he was talking genuinely.

U can see the hurt in his eyes

I like the Uncle. He seems sincere and he is sad about his nephews being bombers.

First, he is a lovely human being and he even feels bad about calling them losers! You can clearly feel his pain and shame to know that his family was behind this horror!!! I do think he misunderstood the question about whether he thinks his nephews are guilty, I think he thought he was asking about innocent vs. guilty. I do absolutely believe that the older brother influenced the younger one who looked up to him. The responsibility of being born first, you’re supposed to be Responsible and guide your younger siblings to do the right thing and he steered him in the worst direction😞😢 Now, as for hearing the children and whomever else in the house, it totally reminded me of that viral BBC video of the man giving the interview via Skype and the children burst in 🥴🤣🤣🤣 I can never think of a video where I laughed harder!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I really like this guy.

Wise words, Uncle Ruslan.

This uncle has been very compassionate to the united states community and helpful with understanding about his nephews and shedding light about their backgrounds.

smart man

I don't see anything bad about this uncle. All he's saying is that he put shame into kids and would kneel in front of the victims that were injured and killed in the Boston marathon. Am I missing something? Am I really that ignorant?

This guy reminds me of my uncle very wise man

The uncle seems like a very good man.

Ruslan Tsarni should just spit it out. The mother is a major culprit. You can easily see that Tamerlan got his facial expressions (genetic) and religious zeal (psychological) from the mother. Ruslan has contempt for the mother and does not feel that she is a genuine Muslim. I bet that Ruslan also feels that her poor parenting contributed to a confused, supremacist, jihadist son. From watching videos of her, she is so emotional and uneducated to me. Her brain has not developed beyond high school. I did not detect any higher level thinking/cognitive function from her interviews whatsoever. Just religious brainwashing.

tarmelan was a radical and dzhokhar was misled

Respect this guy.

How could he know what is going on if he was not in close contact with the family for years.

I am muslim and when my hindu teacher once asked me( many moon ago).What do you want to do in life?.I replied with my faith and conviction what allah wishes or if allah wills it meaning insha allah.I did not in my mind use allah as a mean to terrorism and kill or terrorise or bully my neighbour.For a muslim to say insha allah is not a predisposition to murder in any shape or form. Listen to the uncle when interviewd by many journalist.At that time he sounded fluent in English as in charge.

he is very cunning as his accent has changed now when interviewed as if he is not fluent in English!

What an honorable man!

You are a decent human

If Richard Ramirez, a more aggressive male killer can die in prison at age 56, I wholeheartedly advocate for Dhokar to rot in prison and die around the same age. The same punishment for differing concentrations of evil thoughts.

maybe if you Mr. TSARNAEV had been a better uncle to them and not disregard them, none of this would have happened? You, being in CIA, KNOWS what happened. May God have mercy on your soul.

this man is clearly the most reasonable one in their family, anyone who cant see that is clearly under a misapprehension.

This is a good man ♥️🇨🇦