Boyfriend Used Me For My Money And Cheated So I Ghosted Him And Took His Business. #redditrelationship #reddit #redditupdate
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@Telltales.7 ай бұрын
Opise Dopsie forgot to put the thumbnail!
@SanuineTheDarkJester7 ай бұрын
Don't forget to put a link to the original post.
@twgok137 ай бұрын
How many red flags does she need to throw him out 🤣
@SSFighter17017 ай бұрын
She has 10 cats so like... yeah... Edit: I'm a cat person and could never imagine having 10 cats unless I lived in a mansion or something that had plenty of room
@DaShikuXI7 ай бұрын
She could have a matador wave a red flag in her face and she still wouldn't figure it out.
@user-fw7fj3df5r7 ай бұрын
@@DaShikuXIbut it was LOVE 😂😂😂
@XVIIstarPt_7 ай бұрын
Dude was a walking Soviet Union flag
@DaShikuXI7 ай бұрын
@@XVIIstarPt_ Under a blood moon
@FaizatheTempest7 ай бұрын
This is why you should never forgive cheaters
@somethingclever89167 ай бұрын
If you can't forgive infidelity you should leave. It was her fault that she didnt leave earlier
@Alexander248717 ай бұрын
If they cheat once they will cheat again
@Arkryal7 ай бұрын
I like OP's style. She's patient and forgiving, but when pushed too far, she isn't vindictive, she's methodical and efficient. That makes her much more formidable. I admire that. I'm sure her emotions were all over the place, but they never dictated her actions, she used her brain the whole time. Yeah, she was duped by a charismatic loser who fabricated a lot of stories to cover his true nature. That happens to a lot of people under a lot of different circumstances. We all have a tendency to see what we want to see, more so than seeing what is. Some people prey on that and get quite good at it. I can't fault her for falling for the wrong person. What matters is how you deal with it. She handled it well. She did only what she needed to to secure her own happiness and security, and knew that if left to his own devices, he would be the instrument of his own demise. If her observations of him and his family are accurate, and they blame others for the self-imposed inequities in their lives, then just sitting back and letting him self-destruct is the ultimate F-You. Don't give him a scapegoat.
@wazzzam7 ай бұрын
OP....bae these red flags are HUUUGE
@Justicar25037 ай бұрын
What the bf expected when cheating an air fighter.
@frankiemendez22197 ай бұрын
Ok, 10+ might be too much, but if he knew about it beforehand, he only has himself to blame Edit: Jesus Christ, the guy had way too many red flags
@TAC9_7 ай бұрын
bro ur not taking care of the cats so dont even criticize op bruh and theres nothing wrong with 10 cats i have a lots of cats at my home in ca bruh
@frankiemendez22197 ай бұрын
@@TAC9_ bruh
@WolfODonnelfan6 ай бұрын
@@frankiemendez2219 bruh
@randomguy64797 ай бұрын
man could you start showing us the accounts that post this and links to the original post
@qq847 ай бұрын
You can find them with a full text search, but yes, he should link them.
@austinflores21397 ай бұрын
4. Don’t trust anyone. Don’t mix love and money. Sorry, my love IS my ride-or-die. Don’t mean to sound mean, but if my partner didn’t take care of me when I was sick, made love to me like he wanted me, treated me with love and respect, I wouldn’t be with him - I wouldn’t drag dead weight around, and ignore a million red flags. There are good people out there.
@sanddagger367 ай бұрын
idk, great that OP got out but I feel like the title is clickbait. She didn't really steal his business she just stopped supporting him and supported her sister instead. Also she gave him way to many chances despite knowing he was a cheater. and finally she seems to enjoy social media stalking him and his side chick and taking pride in their falling out despite having no real proof they ever did. OP needs to stop even thinking about this guy.
@zk60197 ай бұрын
so this woman was financially supporting a man she wasn't even related to? why?
@KDannXII19 күн бұрын
She saw more red flags than in a chinese parade and said "this is fine"
@josieegold67584 ай бұрын
I commend her for rescuing those fur babies
@boblee79984 ай бұрын
Trust me the landlord dosent give two fucks about this dude. Of hes been a landlord for long wnough... ppl like this are easy to deal with
@megamania93937 ай бұрын
lovingly thats a lot of cats. Granted my Cousin has had far more cus she fosters them but still, its just a lot of cats.
@user-fw7fj3df5r7 ай бұрын
I had a close friend that had 23 during pandemic because in her town they took it seriously. They had to have passes to travel. When her town opened up I visit her and I could smell 👃 it from her visitor parking space and I immediately put back my overnight bad. 🤢
@leolienneBonne12 күн бұрын
10+ cats is crazy
@cassieeeeeeeeee7 ай бұрын
idk why yall want the post link but these might be made up (not all but still)
@lmusima32756 ай бұрын
This is why women should never build men up, never relocate for him too. It never works out well. Red flags 🚩
@TrueBlunty2 ай бұрын
tbh the bf can use u saying "i took his buiness because he cheated and used me" yea companys based of that kinda monopoly always gets sued. was a nice story till it became fake
@SelflessHero4 ай бұрын
Love it.
@quinnquinnquinn123127 ай бұрын
I’ve discovered the pattern with these videos: whenever it’s a man getting cheated on the comments are allways angry/hateful towards the wife (which I think is completely valid) but in this video, where a woman is getting cheated on all of the comments are blaming her for some reason like why is everyone here so negative
@lemonz08806 ай бұрын
yeah, its sick... i hope these commenters stop thinking in such a blue and pink kinda way.its only holding them back
@lmusima32756 ай бұрын
Hypocrisy isn’t it. Why should a woman be responsible for a man’s bad decisions. He chose to cheat, so too he should suffer the consequences
@Seia894Ай бұрын
You’re so intelligent 🎉🎉🎉
@kevinmcgowan77887 ай бұрын
Just leave him jeez
@Centiwing7 ай бұрын
did you watch the video
@diogocosta28847 ай бұрын
Post link?
@bigtex89917 ай бұрын
Women love Pookie and Ray Ray
@dannyyoroi19556 ай бұрын
Nick how do you fumble a suger mama
@eduardoledesma55687 ай бұрын
Wtf is AP?
@Zid92197 ай бұрын
Affair Partner
@Hereditary_D7 ай бұрын
Did yall pray today? Cause if you didn’t….
@kidm0bius1903 ай бұрын
sooo she just bragged about possibly committing numerous felonies and fraud...
@kidm0bius1903 ай бұрын
Also, she is your next resident crazy cat lady.
@DocMartn253Ай бұрын
She was 100% in the right until she started throwing away his items and giving them away to other people. She ended the situation being just as much of an asshole as he was.
@sweetyroy199118 күн бұрын
She paid for that😂
@quitenerdy17 ай бұрын
Holy sheet did she need to drone on so long? We get it you're leaving.
@WilsonGodoyUmBrindeAEssaPorra7 ай бұрын
OP went to the red flags as if they where a checklist 😂😂😂
@tek5127 ай бұрын
Turns out she actually cheated on him first. Additionally, her boyfriend was the one with all the money. She was using *him* the entire time. Rofl. Gotta love these Reddit posts.
@Ryuu-lt7bl7 ай бұрын
Where's the link to that? Why's it not included?
@UmeshKumar-um7ze7 ай бұрын
Source: Trust me bro
@qq847 ай бұрын
cool story bro
@randomloseranddull15602 ай бұрын
Nice story, please stop.
@AECH_CH7 ай бұрын
So she stole his clothes? That's not revenge, that's just theft. The rest seems fair enough according to his prior behavior, but you can't take back presents, they are not your property anymore.
@saitejtarun34857 ай бұрын
If she has the reciept to those items, they legally belong to her and not considered theft
@AECH_CH7 ай бұрын
@@saitejtarun3485 No, a receipt doesn't change reality. If the clothes were used by him for a prolonged period of time, the courts will rule that they were his property, which they morally and legally are ofc.
@holyroman65417 ай бұрын
She bought them for him to get on his own feet, but it never happened. Fair enough imo
@AECH_CH7 ай бұрын
@@holyroman6541 This is not debatable. The moment you gift something, it's no longer your property...
@Fushigorizz7 ай бұрын
@@AECH_CHshe spent her own money on it + it's not like u write a check to the person ur gifting it to plus if u have the receipt regardless of it's a gift or not it's ur and u don't have any proof anyone wore it. Debate ended