20 Things Confident People Don't Do

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There are certain things confident people don’t do and that sets them apart from everyone else. It’s important to understand that true confidence greatly differs from arrogance. And there are certain things that distinguish one from the other.
Learning how to be confident is an important part of self improvement. When people believe in themselves and their abilities, there are things they simply don’t do. For example, they don’t over-focus on appearance. That’s because when someone is self confident, they have a healthy relationship with their appearance. They don't try to be someone they're not, because they understand that self acceptance is a vital element of self confidence.
Furthermore, self assured people get their sense of satisfaction from their own accomplishments. They understand that success comes with continuously improving their strengths. They’re also able to accept their own weaknesses, and instead of complaining, they just put more time and effort into endeavors where they know they'll have more likelihood of success.
When it comes to self confidence, truly confident people tend to have the upper hand. Not only do they make things happen, but they inspire others as well. So learn to embrace these behaviors yourself to increase your odds for success. This, in turn, will lead to more confidence.
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@BrainyDose 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! Can you think of any other things that confident people don't do?

@MonsterMom7 5 жыл бұрын

I think it was correct BUT even confident ppl have their off-days, it's impossible to be all that all the time cuz life happens! AND cultural differences! One point ypu said "confident ppl don't ask for permission, they go after it" (something like that) Yes and No, depending on where I am. In Denmark i dont need to ask for simple thing as going to bath room or stand up while ppl are rating and say excuse me! BUT if I was in Japan it would be rude & disrespectful to not to ask or say excuse me, they see it as lack of knowledge, class and manor! So some of your point can't be aknowleged in other culture, this Is western society and again some western countries just do things differently! I agree with all what you're saying, but 1. Even confident ppl have bad days 2. Cultural differences! But it's a great list and I agree on most. But we gotta also aknowleged ppl are different and for some means pisting a selfie confident to them (maybe they weren't confident before) or it's their way to show I'm okay! My reason to do it is my past as an addict, when I don't post my selfie with my dog for a week ill receive dusin of Calls "are you okay"? And that's because I never posted Me in the past life as an addict, and I'm an artist and express myself through pics! But I know what ypu mean, but ppl who post their diner, car or vaca often shows lack of selfconfident! See what I got/went to! But Im not going to show myself cuz I don't like my appaerence! Im not sure if you get what i mean, but there are there gray areas these lists forget, and some ppl might feel bad cuz they're at the beginning of their Journey to become selfconfident / building self worth! Needed to point it out to those, as I fear some feel a set back cuz they do certain things! Overall awesome list, love your channel! Xoxo monstermom 😁✌️

@vijayv6836 5 жыл бұрын

BRAINY DOSE My grandpa. would always say that when you take up something then do it with Full confidence. Otherwise don't touch it.

@vijayv6836 5 жыл бұрын

Tonia Mendonca Hi Tonia. Are we as human beings in a society completely independent like islands? Isn't it about getting a clear grip about a problem and acting decisively? I believe in a SWOT analysis, strategy and action. Confidence is a by -product. It will be there as a guest because you've got the formula right.

@brenttesterman3171 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't watch videos titled '20 things confident don't do'!

@jimweiss2939 5 жыл бұрын

BRAINY DOSE fart

@aaliyahbutler4773 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people are not afraid to compliment and encourage others

@uncleankie9436 5 жыл бұрын

aaliyah butler ..more bullshit

@vijayv6836 5 жыл бұрын

aaliyah butler Perfect

@MarquiseBLXCK 5 жыл бұрын

aaliyah butler very true...

@Tomi_janet15 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@monicasojka2738 5 жыл бұрын

Well said love!! It's a beautiful thing to see the light that is other people!! We're supposed to lift up others

@dimbulb1178 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't chase after people who reject them.

@Sebadoh1994 4 жыл бұрын

Dim Bulb that’s a big one

@amug3536 4 жыл бұрын

Well said!!!!

@mitchsalawine5420 4 жыл бұрын

Very great insight Dim Bulb...you seem pretty bright to me!

@pyramidhead138 4 жыл бұрын

Steve Urkel wasnt confident then

@meerubyvue1148 3 жыл бұрын

Yup!!

@JoshuaVaxe 4 жыл бұрын

Confident: being able to see your weakness and strength Arrogant: Only sees strength Insecure: Only sees Weakness

@merlindataladro6253 4 жыл бұрын

So true

@kellyroberts7268 4 жыл бұрын

A great author/ philanthropist wrote," you are what you think all day."

@rachelngatia3753 4 жыл бұрын

@@kellyroberts7268 true

@JoshuaVaxe 3 жыл бұрын

@@msprecious3498 I never said it was a strength, it is a weakness where you are unable to see your weakness. You are right, arrogant people are ignorant to see their ignorance.

@nishobit.1293 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. It really brings a lot of clarity to my mind.

@euanelliott3613 4 жыл бұрын

The most confident thing you can ever do is not give a damn what others think of you. When you do that, you come off as strong and this attracts others to you. Never be needy. Believe in yourself.

@rachelspeck1230 Жыл бұрын

I care what the people I care about think. I even care about my chihuahuas feelings and what she thinks and how she feels…. I don’t Consider myself wildly insecure

@rosiestewart870 5 жыл бұрын

just a few days before my 89th birthday, i realize that i have learned most of these thoughts and behaviors as i have aged. when i was much younger, i had none of these qualities. my childhood did not encourage confidence, nor did a disastrous first marriage. i only began to gain confidence when i was 50. it's never, never too late.

@chandrayeedey7462 5 жыл бұрын

*It's not too late, it's never too late* ! Wish I too had an adorable grandma like you ! Lots of love.

@lizyerolemidesemale5201 5 жыл бұрын

Rosie stewart - so happy to find someone else who finds wisdom with age!

@julieb.9812 5 жыл бұрын

Happy Birthday, Rosie.

@mariedowner5490 5 жыл бұрын

I am 83 now, and wisdom grows by the day. I did not have clue about how to navigate my thoughts and beliefs when I was young. If you pay attention carefully you might end up someone you really like❤️

@Sam-vs5kg 5 жыл бұрын

Happy birthday rosie!

@anitacarter8060 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't put others down to feel good…🤷🏻‍♀️🙌🏻💫✨⚡️

@vijayv6836 5 жыл бұрын

Anita Carter 200 perfect

@TwinklingMysticShot 5 жыл бұрын

Oh, people have put me so down to feel good themselves so may times... Idk what to do with these «friends» anymore...

@joeydinero9300 5 жыл бұрын

@@TwinklingMysticShot they're trash and your not, end of story.😐lol

@charlesschauer8927 5 жыл бұрын

That's a big one

@plymelikeitsajokeillkillul2414 5 жыл бұрын

Common opinion

@CC-gg1kf 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people work on themselves - inner work, overcoming any fears or insecurities. They take accountability for mistakes and learn from them too.

@SophieLovesSunsets 4 жыл бұрын

I always find the biggest signs someone is insecure is when they're loud, obnoxious and full of their own self-importance. They're always bragging about their 'accomplishments' and 'talents' and things they have done in their lives but you never see any proof of it ... they're just full of 'stories'. Where as the most successful and gifted people I know are the most humble, kind and down to earth people. Confidence is silent. Insecurities are loud.

@marriselv4784 2 ай бұрын

This!!!!

@Jay-ec9po 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't look for approval by others

@FirstLast-js3ip 5 жыл бұрын

Confident ppl dgaf

@leahjohnson2923 5 жыл бұрын

I wish I had that😔 but you no I can work on that.........ir try to..ill get it.........evenually!!☺

@Jay-ec9po 5 жыл бұрын

@@leahjohnson2923 haha don't give up! Take it slow and you'll get there step by step :)

@leahjohnson2923 5 жыл бұрын

Thx.....will do🙂

@vijayv6836 5 жыл бұрын

Jane Leah Confidence comes from clarity about a situation. Clarity leads to decisive action. Decisive action with clarity leads to results. Results means a degree of success. One success makes us confident to handle another.

@Achilles94627 5 жыл бұрын

True confidence is quiet and humble - it's not loud, aggressive and boastful. Confident people follow their moral principles and do what they believe to be right, even though it may not make them 'popular' in the short run. Forgiveness and a willingness to try to be kind and on good terms with all people is also a sign of confidence and integrity.

@Mariajbh2 5 жыл бұрын

Yess!

@unknownwarrior5672 5 жыл бұрын

Then i guess i'm naturally confident.

@selaine826 5 жыл бұрын

Not true

@MusicLoverMusicLover-es6mi 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, can relate!

@InthePlaceofGodGen 4 жыл бұрын

Very true

@felixvelez6074 5 жыл бұрын

Happiness comes within, NOT from relationships with other people. Very good point. It's like they say, you most Love yourself, before you can Love someone else!

@shelanel5348 3 жыл бұрын

I'm confident enough to admit that I need a lot more confidence😭😁💪🙈

@sama9342 3 жыл бұрын

I clicked on your channel your playlist says a lot about you 😂

@shelanel5348 3 жыл бұрын

My play list?

@myyoutubechannel9137 3 жыл бұрын

I believe I will give you some of mine confidence

@shelanel5348 3 жыл бұрын

How lovely thank you.

@myyoutubechannel9137 3 жыл бұрын

@@shelanel5348 Stay safe ok 😁😁😁

@liabakar 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people share knowledge with others. They help others grow, as they themselves grow.

@kingmichaeltheearchangel3593 4 жыл бұрын

Only IF Those People We are Sharing with are *Worth Our Time. I can agree with this in that stand point.

@Leo-rh6rq 4 жыл бұрын

That would be tolerant, kind or intelligent people, not confident.

@kantimj 3 жыл бұрын

its true(there are too many fake people in this world)

@jamestommasin6542 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people can pass along knowledge, as knowledge can be passed from one person to another, Regrettably, a confident person cannot pass along wisdom. If he or she does try to pass along wisdom, he or she will be deemed as crazy by the other person. Here is wisdom, where is the center of the universe? The center of the universe is anywhere you are. See, I told you, you cant pass along wisdom.

@amarnanwani3959 2 жыл бұрын

That's what I am thanks 😌😊😅

@GS-st9ns 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't compete. They create a winning scenario in their head, then they proceed and graciously conquer, emphasis on graciously.

@MusicLoverMusicLover-es6mi 5 жыл бұрын

Very true!

@prosimian 5 жыл бұрын

They help others become better

@stevengrimes3723 4 жыл бұрын

so right !

@appalachiangirl6877 3 жыл бұрын

💙

@sarahcrane6940 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely, work part of a team instead of competing against another. Help people to achieve best of their abilities. Never feel threatened of some one else's achievements..

@franciscobecerra8093 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people believe in self improvement.

@Leo-rh6rq 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. That acceptance thing in the video seems like bullshit. You can accept and want to change a thing.

@rvind000 3 жыл бұрын

If they're already confident, how'll they improve further.

@lordbill55 3 жыл бұрын

@@rvind000 because they know they can and should.

@athinijaden6070 3 жыл бұрын

Fact I like that.

@BLoodyEx 3 жыл бұрын

@@rvind000 There's always room to improve in one field or the other. Like... do you know about finance, sports, psychology, history, religion, technology, etc. If u are confident u can accept that u don't know all about the world - u rather listen to experts/more experienced people in certain fields to learn from them. Like... I'd love to take advice from Donald Trump concerning finances and money, i'd also love to take advice from Elon Musk concerning tech, or from the Dalai Lama concerning religion, or from Mike Tyson concerning boxing. Because I know there's a ton of great people out there that know a ton more than I do in any field. One should simply be humble and listen when it's obvious he knows shit about something, never be arrogant or think u'll easily surpass people in a field or even come close to them. People with low self-esteem on the other hand cannot accept mentors, they'd rather talk shit about them, belittle them behind their back and so on

@johnvanvliet2076 4 жыл бұрын

I am 77 years young and at my age of 17 I decided what a wanted to be, and was was confident that I was able to achieve my goals..yes it took hard work and education but I had dream, my dream be my vision and the vision became reality..... the result.... I always loved my work and enjoyed the challenges and resolve them..... and there were many in my profession.... yes I am a sort of retired,but love woodworking so know I build furniture and Cabinets.... no no not at a high speed but as enjoyment, doing the designs drawings (custom work), the piece I envisioned..... I am a very content and active person and enjoy my life to the fullest extend possible, expecting to reach and celebrate my 100 birthday (my Mom past way when she was 102) but 100 be fine.......and hope and plan to do many more things and plenty of nice furniture pieces, (this is my signature to be left behind), for the pieces I build are for life as I pass on to eternity......yes I just love my life and its ups and downs!!!!!!!

@vijitgarg 3 жыл бұрын

I am inspired by your thinking. Keep your vision alive it will keep you inspire.

@Elizabeth-yg2mg 3 жыл бұрын

Inspiring--please write more somewhere. Older people have so many layers and so much wisdom.

@dnbdiva2227 2 жыл бұрын

Please tell us more 😊 Im sure you have a ton of stories!

@adeeperlook5866 2 жыл бұрын

Simply awesome! Wishing you even more of joy, happiness, and abundance in your life!

@thekajalflaneur Жыл бұрын

You should film yourself making your cabinets so we may see your legacy in all of its glory, sir?

@unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people don’t put down others to make themselves feel better.

@FirstLast-js3ip 5 жыл бұрын

So there is other reasons?

@gocoyle5560 5 жыл бұрын

I sometimes insult people to be funny

@FirstLast-js3ip 5 жыл бұрын

@@gocoyle5560 yea just

@georgiojansen7758 5 жыл бұрын

so on the workfloor you see a few not confident

@Mariajbh2 5 жыл бұрын

If they do that is because they aren't confident

@lindaturner628 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people do not care what others think and do not look to others for validation.

@yousaypotatoesisaypootato6977 5 жыл бұрын

Linda Turner I don’t care about what people think or other validation it just I’m so quiet and shy😔😔

@queenofthebutterflies5212 5 жыл бұрын

Word!

@wildflowerroces2829 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people makes other confident to

@candacecasey5634 4 жыл бұрын

The first is only true in the negative sense. Confident people are not afraid to examine their own behavior and don't take every criticism personally.

@kitrichardson5573 4 жыл бұрын

This is the worlds biggest lie “I don’t care what other people think about me”

@tammyschannel8809 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people don’t think they’re better than everyone else😉😉

@majimagoro8233 4 жыл бұрын

Ehh I think they sometimes do...

@Leo-rh6rq 4 жыл бұрын

Thats intelligent people not confident.

@merlindataladro6253 4 жыл бұрын

100% true

@majimagoro8233 4 жыл бұрын

@Way to Mars Haha You don't know anything about how confident I am...

@faster_xx 4 жыл бұрын

@@majimagoro8233 Lol that sounds arrogant not confident because confident people don't talk like this.

@amitdaswani6922 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people learn from their mistakes AND DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST

@denisso1688 3 жыл бұрын

Still living there!!!

@maynara5579 3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@mummabearcuddles7956 5 жыл бұрын

... confident people show kindness ✌🏻✌🏻👍🤗🌈🙌 😊smile it makes people wonder or pisses them off.. 😁😃😆☺️

@tauberdad1 5 жыл бұрын

@Gavigg75 llppp

@kyrenthomas1980 4 жыл бұрын

@Gavigg75 not all confident people, I'm confident and I make sure listen to everyone's feelings and their conversations. so before you go saying "Confident people step on you and don't realize " . some confident people actually do CARE about people .

@sravat1234 4 жыл бұрын

Why the rainbow

@lucyk2634 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't have to be kind to everyone just because they fear confrontation 😉✌️✌️

@K9angelBabe 4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@PracticalInspiration 5 жыл бұрын

Number 7 really struck a chord, it's totally true, confidence means standing up for what you believe, even if others disagree!

@stephaniec6458 5 жыл бұрын

Yes

@19ars92 5 жыл бұрын

Thats subjective, wouldn’t apply in all cases Would you call somebody “confident” even if the thing they believe or defend it’s as cancerous as racism feminism, flat-earth and other bullshit Not at all we got other names for those people and confident ain’t one of them

@mariacieloaquino3928 5 жыл бұрын

Very true! I see myself here.. 😉

@martyvenkman860 5 жыл бұрын

@@19ars92 it's still being confident. What are you on about?

@19ars92 5 жыл бұрын

@@martyvenkman860 not quite, its called being delusional

@jeff7775 5 жыл бұрын

#1 confident people don't overfocus on appearance. (Video shows stock images of perfect-looking young models. LOL) Ok...

@prosimian 5 жыл бұрын

Those are the only available pictures on the internet

@Greeneye623 5 жыл бұрын

jeff7775 I totally was thinking the same thing.

@kcsi1 4 жыл бұрын

Good point.

@candacecasey5634 4 жыл бұрын

You do realize that a person simply being good looking does not automatically mean that they are " overfocused" on appearance right?

@ephesians6139 4 жыл бұрын

@Pq M Thanks, minimum words maximum clarity.

@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175 5 жыл бұрын

They also stay calm even during stressful situations. This really doesn't apply to me personally, but I admire those who can.

@amintejani5824 3 жыл бұрын

We can all do better!!

@Rooster1508 5 жыл бұрын

I would add that confident, capable people are kind to those they interact with on a daily basis. The clerk that serves you. The neighbor that needs your help.

@FirstLast-js3ip 5 жыл бұрын

What do you mean?

@anitacarter8060 5 жыл бұрын

Rooster1508 .... AGREE!! 🙌🏻😉

@Dreamsareareality 5 жыл бұрын

This is true, everyone matters, the cook, the janitor. We are kind to everyone

@matthewbrown6163 4 жыл бұрын

1 thing I learnt from being a CEO - please & thank you costs nothing to say & mean a lot to those under your management.

@ManCity_Digest 5 жыл бұрын

A confident person doesn't need to watch this in order to be confident

@rakhshinda3538 5 жыл бұрын

And a confident person shouldn't change personality:

@beeweisberger7957 5 жыл бұрын

Ha true! I’m a work in progress!

@freddyjohnson6395 5 жыл бұрын

Its nice to get a little self validation to confirm your on the right path

@michaelsoeterbroek8768 5 жыл бұрын

Cordial Awuku I wasnt paying attention

@CheryelHutton 5 жыл бұрын

Sometimes a person needs a bit of guidance on the road to confidence.

@Sunshine-jz3eb 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people definitely aren't jealous.

@victorialevy431 3 жыл бұрын

A lot of people are jealous and insecure when dealing with me. I was homeless and in a shelter and a recent widow and other women were very jealous of me, even in that situation. I don't look bad, I watch my weight and try to take care of myself properly. I don't use drugs or alcohol. I smoke cigarettes and love coffee. I guess you can say I'm not like a lot of 59 years olds out here. I did attempt to have friends, but I guess my lifestyle just didn't go along with theirs. I stay alone because I'm a leader and not a follower. My boundaries are totally intact. I don't compromise and I don't apologize for others mistakes, just mine. Thank you for the great video. God bless you always.

@albertwite1457 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Victoria, nice to meet u my name is AL. And I like ur comment. And I'm also a Person who wants better things out if life and I don't need a boss I need people who are in tune and striving to be something more I'm life in maybe leave a legacy, Or more for my next generation. Take care and keep up the good work. Even if it's all 4 self.

@victorialevy431 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Al. I appreciate your comment. God bless you always.

@BLoodyEx 3 жыл бұрын

I love this comment. THIS is what I really strive for myself, being completely independent from society, giving a fuck on anyones opinion. You seem like a modern day Diogenes

@curtistinemiller1560 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people dont try to control others.

@xin2yu976 5 жыл бұрын

Curtistine Miller yes they are not control freak

@curtistinemiller1560 5 жыл бұрын

@@xin2yu976 Thanks....

@curtistinemiller1560 5 жыл бұрын

@@karol1 Why are you picking my comment to say I'm talking to you?.It is a comment .my opinion only Don't take it personal.My My.....

@curtistinemiller1560 5 жыл бұрын

@@karol1 Oh Ha,Ha, Bless you...

@plymelikeitsajokeillkillul2414 5 жыл бұрын

@@curtistinemiller1560 lol

@TheLifeFormulaa 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people make others feel good

@khanmehamood2891 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people make others feel good but not against their stand/position

@sylvialeads555 5 жыл бұрын

The Life Formula, I was thinking the same thing, but the video said something similar. Just wanted to let you know I was with ya

@suziepantheon6470 5 жыл бұрын

The Life Formula confident people just do their own thing and don’t worry about what others are doing. Hence, don’t go out of their way to coddle those that feel insecure.

@voiceovers7080 5 жыл бұрын

The Life Formula yeah

@glitchwitchery 5 жыл бұрын

Khan Mehamood. I agree. In order for a person to be truly confident, the person has to know who s/he is and set firm boundaries regarding what is not authentic to him/ her. Most things from other people will be inauthentic to the individual and will be dismissed by the confident person- and that will tick other people off. Hence, most people confident enough to succeed in life actually tick more people off than 'make them feel good.' Ask any actor who's won a major award how many of their friends actually congratulate them for the confidence to go and get it.

@soundarya.k7315 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people think practically, they accept their failures too..and they don't feel upset about it

@parveensharma3610 3 жыл бұрын

confident people don't need to show off. They are real

@christopherellis2663 5 жыл бұрын

21. Don't put up with fools or their bad behaviour.

@jenniferblohmichael97 5 жыл бұрын

Soooo true !

@lizquinn3568 5 жыл бұрын

Amen 😊

@alexcantlow2920 4 жыл бұрын

Fully approve always a bullshit excuse for lazy people. Then you catch them out and like come on Man don't give me that. I'm not doing all the work her I don't mind helping if your generally stuggling. But lazy people I will refuse to help. And I tell my mangers can you help so and so nope .

@candacecasey5634 4 жыл бұрын

Truly confident people seek to understand motive behind bad behavior rather than labeling anyone a " fool" for occasionally bad behavior.

@rachel3165 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Gandalf 🧙‍♂️ 🪄🦄

@tinabraxton4906 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people prefer self-respect over self-esteem. Respect must always be earned.

@danicepabillon6887 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@wanderingwonderer5442 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people have both self-respect and self-esteem.

@growtogether8014 5 жыл бұрын

Simple thing: confident people keep themselves open for learning everytime, anytime from anyone, no matter if that anyone is his competition or enemy.

@erikgification 5 жыл бұрын

confident people have overcome barriers and have grown past their wounds and are driven to better themselves and their life on a daily basis and believe in who they are.

@Esabelle 5 жыл бұрын

I would also add that confident people can take advise and criticism. Extremely confident people can even learn from insults- assuming, of course, that there is a sliver of truth from which to learn somewhere in the insult. XOXO, Esabelle

@vumeopower88 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, you should change it especially you're starting your new channel and you don't get second chance for the first impression !

@Esabelle 5 жыл бұрын

Okay, thanks for the tip!

@vumeopower88 5 жыл бұрын

@@Esabelle Like your new thumb nail pic

@Esabelle 5 жыл бұрын

@@vumeopower88 Why, thank you!

@Jule-mm4dr 5 жыл бұрын

They don't put others down to feel good.

@angelaferrario6031 5 жыл бұрын

My personal experience: aging and going through harsh things in Life made me more aware of what is really important for me and less dependent on everybody's opinion!

@jenniferhcsmith-5586 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely

@peteklinger6150 5 жыл бұрын

As someone that considers himself a " Work in Progress " , I aspire to be better today than I was yesterday and video's such as this are an invaluable tool for change . Thank You !!!

@staymad.3616 5 жыл бұрын

A confident person and someone who is snobbish and arrogant is not the same thing.Learn.

@florence1395 5 жыл бұрын

Emma Baddie, I’m trying to understand your grammar, I’m not being rude. Unfortunately arrogance can be confused with confidence, but they are completely different. And I agree snobbery is totally different. Arrogance & snobbery are not nice ways to have, but a confident person is someone to admire. But best of all is being nice & that’s not always easy! Take care x

@modupeolawinjobi4960 5 жыл бұрын

L o l

@MusicLoverMusicLover-es6mi 5 жыл бұрын

True Emma Confidence is being comfortable in own skin, flaws and all(something that has been a work in progress) grew up with inferior complex and low self esteem(everyone was better that me). Yet, we are all equal in God’s eyes!

@MusicLoverMusicLover-es6mi 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, have always admired natural confident individuals not the arrogant individuals!

@arizonadreaming4183 5 жыл бұрын

Why do people ignore you once they have money? That's not confidence.. Its arrogance ...rude.

@florence1395 5 жыл бұрын

I have never done the Facebook thing. Or any social media thing! I like my privacy & I’m not interested in other’s sharing their lifestyle on FB. I actually don’t believe most FB post that I’ve been shown, mostly it’s people showing off, I hate showy flashy people. I’ve never done a selfie as I find it’s too vain & this is just my personal opinion. I also prefer my own company, certain people just talk talk talk, I like to listen & if I want to chat know that other’s want to listen & care. And I will not do or go anywhere I don’t want to go. My true loved one’s are my life, I can be myself with them. I take myself out of situation’s where I don’t want to be, it feels good, I’m in control. I’m confident, happy with my looks, independent & content with my lot, but it’s other’s that can cause stress, so my suggestion, just a suggestion to a happy life, do what makes you happy 😊 Don’t believe these KZfaqrs who only show you their materialistic lifestyle, vanity obsessive nature’s, it’s all about me videos. It can cause you to feel less confident or happy with your life. And then they get paid. Be your happy, be confident in you, feel your best & never compare! 🤗 x

@TheHorsebox2 5 жыл бұрын

Ditto all that. 👍

@theoriginalThud 5 жыл бұрын

Very well said! 🙂

@florence1395 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 5 жыл бұрын

Yes. Although KZfaq IS "social media" if you are replying :) Even if you have no content.

@oscarpellicier6238 5 жыл бұрын

@Fleur I enjoyed reading and agree with many of the points you had made. As a seeker or "real life" I sometimes explore KZfaq commentators to see if there others who might share the same "real life" assessments of "how things really are" or if they share the a "math of life" that adds up to . . . . my belief that whatever we say, do, or intend: that the person or situation we are involve with (including ourselves) walks away a better person. I consider that the greater good of all things must prevail. Be happy and confident in many ways includes the positive balance of our conduct, actions, intentions, and neighborly love. Greed, self centeredness, being condescending, combative, opinionated, and immoral are traits that don't offend work and in many cases distracts from the inner beauty of one's personal strengths and process during efforts towards success. My personal confidence has come not so much from what I have accumulated materially, what I had done compared to what someone else hasn't, or where I have been (compared to someone else). My confidence (thus sense of happiness) has come for learning to Love, being thankful, recognizing the beauty and powers of others who have done positive things to help others without fanfare or recognition, learning to forgive, and identifying with "real people" such as yourself. Just knowing that I can give myself a chance, "that chance" that others, on many occasions, either don't give, don't know how to give, or want to give. I am very particular and selective with whom I associate and interact with. on many occasions I act and travel alone and somehow come across a decent person who will celebrate "the moment." There are just many "knockers, toppers, and doubters" who can't bare to express appreciation, joy, thankfulness, or just keep things positive. I am (feel a sense of happiness) for anyone who runs into someone like yourself. (maybe even someone like myself) . . . . maybe one day we will run into each other in happenstance and enjoy a happy moment during each other's journey. Wishing every one who gets a chance to read elongated note peace, love, joy, truth, and much blessings. May your confidence in knowing who, what, why, and when you are grow with wisdom and positive ripple effects in your journey.

@valentinacordoba0725 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people are not afraid to praise, encourage and love. Confident people are able to see greatness on others. We are happy people.

@michaelsmusic3532 3 жыл бұрын

HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!! I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :) Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ? HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ??? Thank you for any opinions ! ~ Michael & Emalie

@albertwite1457 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people are always willing to put family first , because of core values That were in stalled by a good mentor. And good parents.

@gideonsmart53 5 жыл бұрын

Nice video! In addition, 👉Confident people are not envious of others. 👉Confident people don't look down on others.

@AbduIIl 3 жыл бұрын

already have, if you watch carefully

@zipporahonyoni1094 3 жыл бұрын

Lovely

@sheilalawson773 5 жыл бұрын

Correct. I love myself and need no ones approval. Except the approval of my Lord JESUS. Amen

@dharmaraj9735 5 жыл бұрын

Good sheila

@beeweisberger7957 5 жыл бұрын

Don’t force your beliefs on others

@SarahLibogomalove 5 жыл бұрын

@@beeweisberger7957 by that comment you are exactly the opposite of everything this video is advocating for...stay blessed!

@SarahLibogomalove 5 жыл бұрын

@Chardelle Here we go.....

@sheilalawson773 5 жыл бұрын

Chardelle. I'm praying for you. JESUS is the only thing in this messed up world that is real. I feel for you. As I said, I'm praying for you. Why did you take my comment offensive.? No need to explain.

@nabuweyahmars1927 3 жыл бұрын

I am not a very confident person, this video has helped me realise that I do have some confident traits but can have so much more if I just keep learning and working on myself. Really enjoyed this video. Thank you.

@sarahcrane6940 3 жыл бұрын

Confidence comes from within, everyone has different perspectives of being confident. It's very rare that you find someone fully confident in all areas of their life. It's a great achievement to build confidence in all areas of life. I'm still a work in progress 😊

@angelmd43 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people do what's right and loving. :)

@battybethc 4 жыл бұрын

Amen! 🙏👍💛

@catthearts 5 жыл бұрын

This is deff something you have to work on and build esp when you didn’t grow up learning these...! Shout out to everyone who’s on the journey of building confidence. I’m deff on it! ❤️

@monkey-trial...6578 5 жыл бұрын

I got ditched by a friend who was very passive aggressive about ending our friendship. I think it was because I had outlived my usefulness as she climbed up socially. She overtook me by miles! When I stated to do well she came to see me give a talk. She seen me bomb in college trying to squeak through a project in which I was required to speak in front of lots of people! When she saw me do my thing afterwards she approached me saying how well I had done but her face said something quite different. It was as if she was disappointed I was straining to do well. Or how dare I improve my life. That’s what I saw in her demeanour. I’m still not where I want to be but I’m almost there. I’m. A decade older than she is and she hasn’t no reason to be jealous so, I’m asking you to chime in with your thoughts since my conundrum toes in directly with this topic! Thank you . ..

@ragantate3995 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve known too many chicks like that.

@camellia8625 Жыл бұрын

Going by your description she enjoys being top dog. She may now see you as competition as if your success somehow diminishes her.

@thousandyardgavri2785 3 жыл бұрын

I see myself as lacking in confidence but after watching this, I am actually more confident than I think.

@jenniferhcsmith-5586 3 жыл бұрын

Everyday is another step forward.

@kathrynphillips3710 4 жыл бұрын

True confidence is living life with integrity humility compassion and having respect and considerstion for others and themselves putting no one on a pedestool but treating all with equality equanimity and love..♥️♥️♥️

@ProbNutt 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people don’t scroll through the comments trying to find the list of the 20 things so they can skip seeing the video.

@verbena.7669 5 жыл бұрын

ouch!

@nibangperying2638 5 жыл бұрын

Lol😂😂

@kimwoodle352 5 жыл бұрын

😊 That's what I was doing. lol 👋

@youssefa.2251 4 жыл бұрын

Tfw youre busted af 😂👌

@maricrismagcaling526 4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@hawaiianhonu97 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with most! But I do not agree with “not focusing on weaknesses”. I think it’s important that confident people recognize their weaknesses and try to improve upon them when they are able to to be a better overall individual. :)

@bianca5353 5 жыл бұрын

This sounds just like ME 😁 shout out to all the confident people

@akiezhaguadalquiver3028 5 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@anelisakittson6014 5 жыл бұрын

Most of the time I'm pretty much confident and I have insecurities that Brings my mood down every so often.

@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people duck the spotlight whenever they can. :P

@nbbn2449 4 жыл бұрын

Yayyy

@theflowergirl333 4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@dnoray1 3 жыл бұрын

I don’t cling to people & always get a ask why. I’m usually happy from within and enjoy helping others be their very best.

@dubbyu4286 2 жыл бұрын

Confident people aren't going out of their way to ruin other people's day.

@esteemity5405 3 жыл бұрын

Hey, I loved that you added that you don't have to be an extrovert to be confident. Nice.

@michaelsmusic3532 3 жыл бұрын

@esteemity5405 3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelsmusic3532 Great question. What do you think she'd say in response to the news?

@michaelsmusic3532 3 жыл бұрын

@@esteemity5405 Hello, thank you for the reply but I'm confused by what you said about news ? What news ? My question that I'm trying to get some unbiased feedback with is when the subject eventually comes up HOW do I let her know that I'm 24 years older than her ? Don't want to shock the poor woman or screw up what could be an awesome future together.

@humairasheikh9203 5 жыл бұрын

This video covers confidence as a complete personality in all aspects. You are right,confidence building is a journey not a destination. Everyday life teaches us to be confident and learn things. It mostly comes from experience and willingness,openness to learn new things and improve. Well summarised and explained. Thank you for this.

@adiltube9355 4 жыл бұрын

Not carrying what others say is the easiest way to be 100% confident

@benoittherien4110 4 жыл бұрын

I relate so much!! i'm 31 and i started to gain full confidence when i started to work out my musical work 3 years ago .. i had 3 years of guitar lessons at the age of 15 and now i turned to singing and i do my own stuff accapella with the guitar riffs playing in my head at the same time .. at first i thought it was to late .. but now i'm beeing the lead singer in 2 different bands and i'll be releasing my own songs soon on spotify youtube and maybe on the radio !! never back down guys!! ;)

@TheMaiah13 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve always thought I lack self confidence because I am shy and introverted by nature. Turns out I am more confident than I give myself credit for!

@BLoodyEx 3 жыл бұрын

I know this feeling sooo well, don't get blinded bro. Took me 32 years to finally realise this fully. Most people out there in the world who seem extrovert are nothing more than insecure pricks who overcompensate their miserable lifes and need attention. Unfortunately, many times they blind other people into seeming great. Easy ways to spot them: They always talk/talk about themselves, their talk seems to contradict itself from time to time, u get a feeling that they don't listen at all - rather they try to belittle u/instruct u even without asking for help, when something stressful happens they instantly snap and get aggressive because they can't handle neglection in any form, they only have shallow friendships etc Bummers on the street who can handle neglection from whole of society and still give a shit are worthy much more than such fake persons.

@janake7 5 жыл бұрын

I love it! I can relate to some of those characteristics. I never seek approval from the masses I walk to the beat of my own drum!

@firsttenor76 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved this video. It will help people others to not focus on what everyone else is doing wrong, but focus on themselves to make sure they're doing the right thing. Everything will fall into place if you're honest with yourself and do what you need to do to succeed.

@josesaldivar655 3 жыл бұрын

Now Im champion of most of these. Graduations and successful projects cure insecurities. Being in peace with oneself is a good indicator.

@brooklynsanchez4759 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people are independent and have bigger goals in life in order to pursue their dreams...in order to achieve success ..🤓😎

@Terika- 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people do not talk to others about their plans: such as opening up a business or adventuring into something new. They act under the radar and share success once it has been achieved.

@Elizabeth-yg2mg 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Learned this one the hard way.

@dnbdiva2227 2 жыл бұрын

Facts 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@anachanteuse 5 жыл бұрын

I see i have become a lot more confident during the past 2 years but still there's a lot to improve. I'm enjoying the process

@micabell3677 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Many people told me im not confident. So all along i believed them even if i knew i almost perfect this list. The only thing that makes me not confident is believing they were right.

@noraelizabeth8412 4 жыл бұрын

“they eat healthy foods” as i’m eating a bag of skittles😂

@taimiamunkete2906 4 жыл бұрын

What’s important is that you’re eating it with confidence

@brockrain4618 4 жыл бұрын

Taimi Amunkete 👍

@DanLagos28 5 жыл бұрын

An amazing video that`s worth watching it over and over again as well as applying these principles too!

@meforyou8600 5 жыл бұрын

Love this - so inspiring. I want to propose an additional point: confident people know how to let go, surrender and trust their innate ability, as a human being (of light) to connect with the Universe/God/Source and tap into its unlimited power. Looking forward to your next video xoxo Anouche.

@finatics5385 4 жыл бұрын

There is a fine line between "not focus on weaknesses" and "not settle for mediocre". The very best of the best, understand that the small details, are what differentiate the Greats from the Icons. Some day, your weakness may end up being attacked by your competition in business or area in life.

@sarahhurst140 2 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't purport to know everything but rather seek out others who may know what they don't. They also don't hoard their confidence inside themselves. They mentor others while simultaneously being passionate proteges! Inspiring video! 👍

@lazerbotshims9795 4 жыл бұрын

Also its about turning your weaknesses into strengths which takes being aware and giving them enough focus to work on them or your new found confidence will be shattered. Long term confidence is about being aware.

@laquindaarceneaux3403 4 жыл бұрын

I see myself having a lot of these confident behaviors that keep me on my tippy toes everyday of my life and sometimes makes me put my brain 🧠 to work too much.

@ginaestril2768 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people don't always have to be fit as you said. Confidence is how you feel about yourself. Loving your self inside and outside no matter what people think.🤗👍💯

@CA-oe3sr 3 жыл бұрын

It feels so good to be confident

@Devotchka161 5 жыл бұрын

They don't put others down to feel good. That's a very important one!

@hienienguyen6766 4 жыл бұрын

This is totally me. I have learned to accept who I am. I enjoy doing things to encourage others

@carollancaster2389 2 жыл бұрын

Love 💕 this…It’s so very true. Thanks for the review on what confident people should be doing in their lives. They were all very good points!

@angelmd43 Жыл бұрын

That's me except for telling people what is right. Thanks for a good video brainy!

@lindanorris3226 5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING 💪

@virginiabenken1184 5 жыл бұрын

I see myself in a lot of confidence & good. Thank you!!!

@debwright3190 4 жыл бұрын

😮😮😮Good blue print for becoming a confident person . Thanks! Brainy👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

@joyrasavong3884 2 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right, do whatever makes you happy and make sense for yourself not for other.

@MindNow 5 жыл бұрын

*all of these things are great tips, but in order to be confident you need to be competent* Anyway, great traits of confident people. Thank you!

@FirstLast-js3ip 5 жыл бұрын

Denial is a friend of mine

@georginabuckle1067 5 жыл бұрын

I feel so blessed I have confidence but this video continue to help us along the way

@maryp9227 5 жыл бұрын

Confident people are willing to learn, grow and improve. That way, we become competent and that breeds confidence. ☺️

@mykldean 5 жыл бұрын

@@maryp9227 Thank you Mary. That is what I was going to say. I would like to understand this feeling better: I'm a bit sad to think that many people seem to say that they are already confident as if they were simply blessed with it and others just may never measure up.

@MindNow 5 жыл бұрын

RandomName IsBackk true that. I take back what I said because you can be competent, but if you don’t have the confidence to show your competence then you won’t succeed. I’d like to add that when you get good at something though, you will feel more confident about yourself :) Winny out... _for now_ 😉 Ps: thank you so much for your feedback

@vijitgarg 3 жыл бұрын

I am mostly inspired by this video. Willingness to see your inner world and your fault and willingness to change them will put you on the path of becoming of confidence person.

@theoneandonly2503 3 жыл бұрын

Confident people are usually graceful to other people in most situations, don't envy others, don't start drama to get attention or feel they are validated in their existence, don't feel threatened by others success. I especially appreciate the DON'T CLING ON PEOPLE.

@jeremywilson1727 4 жыл бұрын

A fantastic reminder of some basics often taken for granted worth sharing with everyone

@nmaluqman3408 4 жыл бұрын

Confident people don’t wait for permission to act,yes!!!

@raulcarlos1615 3 жыл бұрын

Hey!

@tessadi1407 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 😊 Great post !🤗🧚🏻‍♂️✌️💖

@DeanRendar 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reminding us the social struggle is already our victory when clanishness and vanity are no longer incorrectly overvalued. I dont feel like I suffered in vain, because although alone, each one of things have become my routine standard of conduct. Its reassuring to know that it is the end result and prize of a life well grown for.

@infj-tguy6275 Жыл бұрын

I see myself in most of these behaviors, tbh i never thought i was so confident but because of you i know i am, thank you for helpin me understand myself better 😊

@saritkumar9351 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brainy Dose for making this video. It helped me a lot

@emanuelmarqueztorres4222 5 жыл бұрын

I think people need to work on their weaknesses because that means getting out of you comfort zone which it's a good thing to do in life in order to grow. Very good video BTW!!!