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Жыл бұрын

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Welcome back to our Camp Series with Lucinda Fredericks! In this video, we get real about the ups and downs of equestrianism, as the effects of Bicton finally boil over.
As a rider, I know that falling is part of the game. But when I took a hard tumble at Bicton, I didn't expect it to have such a lasting impact on me. In this video, I share my raw emotions as I struggle to come to terms with jumping my ponies again.
I am so grateful for Ellie, who stepped in to ride Dee for me when I just couldn't. Her's and Lucinda's support and understanding helped me through one of the toughest moments of my equestrian journey.
I was reluctant to share this, as I do worry about the comments and my reputation in the industry. However, this day I was genuinely terrified to come to a fence on my own horse, and I think it's so important to air this to the equestrian world.
Lucinda's website: www.lucindafredericks.com/
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@elphick.event.ponies Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for these lovely comments guys, really means a lot ❤

@kelseyrides Жыл бұрын

we love you no matter what! you’re such an inspiration to me as a rider

@calumbrown9665 Жыл бұрын

You are so amazing at what you do your passion for this sport is like no other you got this Meg!!! we all believe in you TEAM ELPHICK!!!🧡

@tracibishop8582 Жыл бұрын

You ride amazingly and keep at it ❤️

@kara8586 Жыл бұрын

here for you, meg

@Sophie_Equestriann Жыл бұрын

❤

@jelphick4686 Жыл бұрын

As Meg's Mum (the Hobbit) I just wanted to say how difficult & upsetting this was to watch 😪 However, I also wanted to say a HUGE 'Thank You' to everyone who has written a message of support or sent a few kind words. I'm so grateful that Meg has such a lovely, kind & supportive community behind her, without you all it would be so much harder. Thank you xx

@serenkitchener7177 Жыл бұрын

Meg is a beautiful rider and like Lucinda said Dee is a real credit to you guys and the work you’ve done with her. You’ve totally and utterly got this, Meg ❤ no doubt about it!! Xx

@hellsgirvan7654 Жыл бұрын

You should be so so proud of your daughter my mum won’t even watch me ride (I’m 44) 😂

@alexschwebach3874 Жыл бұрын

You’re the best MOM!

@donnastill5417 Жыл бұрын

Now I’m crying again 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@topperhatschire Жыл бұрын

I'm a mother, too. It's hard for even me to watch! But she's been growing so much and she's going to get through this, too.

@mollynicholson2390 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing an honest, authentic representation of the difficult parts of this sport. Riding can be dangerous and scary, and it is refreshing to have that side of things shown by a rider we all look up to. This is going to make a lot of riders feel less alone ❤️

@elphick.event.ponies Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I hope it does as is such a strange feeling when you love a sport so much! Thanks for the lovely comment! ❤

@idajoh09 Жыл бұрын

Could not agree more, had a fall on my horse this winter myself when jumping and its sceary trying to get back bad menoties stay so well in the mind. But so glad you got help seeing what a well done Job you have done with this horse. Cant wait to see you get over this fair❤️

@laurenpaige2896 Жыл бұрын

Couldn't have said it better myself.. you have no idea how much it helps to see well established riders having these struggles.. we all go through it

@annjohnson8437 Жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I was thinking! ❤️

@georgiaadams8261 Жыл бұрын

I love how Lucinda can be tough but was so understanding and supportive when you were struggling.

@feichannel Жыл бұрын

It’s mentally, physically and emotionally challenging. Being open about that and understanding it is a huge part of making progress 👏

@TMHJ_Equestrian-Official Жыл бұрын

Hi FEI! ❤

@CowsforGalsOffical Жыл бұрын

FEI can you start paying attention to Rollkur??And the abuse in y'all's shows sometimes,alot of the riders who use Rollkur keep winning and the riders who abuse keep winning and it really is, unacceptable

@mollybelmont182 Жыл бұрын

The Golden Pony and Me, yes dressage is slowly being destroyed

@crystalbrewster5265 Жыл бұрын

It’s going to be okay Meg. Everyone who rides long enough has times like this. You are so brave for filming it and you’re going to help so many people who are going through the PTSD of a fall. Just remember all that adrenaline/anxiety is your body trying to protect you. You aren’t crazy, or overreacting , you experienced a dangerous and scary fall and you are having to convince your body that it isn’t going to happen again.

@angiedyer1511 Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏❤️

@jenniferhaas3874 Жыл бұрын

Well said

@gracephoebea Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love Lucinda as a coach. She's ruthless and SO gentle at exactly the right moments.

@Umi_Arisoficial Жыл бұрын

Hey, do you know why she cried? I didn't understand😓🥺

@ClemenceMisthearth Жыл бұрын

@@Umi_Arisoficial she had an accident and didn’t want to hurt her horse again

@WAMama84 Жыл бұрын

Meg. This sort of content is SO needed. We all have confidence issues. Fear. Hardly anyone shows the hard stuff, so it is so nice to see such a talented rider and horse struggle and work through it. Incredibly incredibly valuable content. Seriously.

@user-kk6kl9tv9f Жыл бұрын

yes 100% agree

@chloecotton6787 Жыл бұрын

Oh meg, I'm sobbing, exactly how I feel after my accident, constantly imagining it happening again, it's so nice to share and know that we all feel the same, we are all routing for you! Proud of you for knowing when to take a minute and put your pony first 💗

@elphick.event.ponies Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Is a really awful feeling isn't it. Although I came out pretty unscathed from my fall, it's the constant what ifs which are getting me!

@chloecotton6787 Жыл бұрын

@@elphick.event.ponies definitely, unfortunately I was not so lucky, however the love of the horse gets us through, I'm routing for you 🤗

@PaigeL13501 Жыл бұрын

@@elphick.event.poniesi feel the exact same way about confidence. i had a bad fall in september 2022 with my new pony and i am still struggling to find confidence to canter crossrails. my pony can be naughty so its really hard especially since i am a timid rider but i 100% understand you and I know that we will both find our confidence 🩷

@Cecrophia Жыл бұрын

Crying is emotional release, it's good for you. I think it's great that you got to see Dee jumped, she looked absolutely amazing and like she was enjoying herself. This is the horse you've trained and she's got real talent. I see this and I see a great foundation to build your confidence on.

@suzannechance5876 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@joanneday7518 Жыл бұрын

I agree very much

@billiemonroe8029 Жыл бұрын

I always feel like I’m the only rider that struggles with my nerves after a fall. Because I’m always surrounded by confident, accomplished riders. Thank you for posting this

@problemofevil_ Жыл бұрын

"You can't train bravery" this is going to be my life quote from now on cause I do recognize myself in you so much! No matter how much we love our horses, one thing going wrong can make us lose confidence, but eventually we'll get our confidence back with time and getting used to things not going wrong. I'm really glad you shared this with us, Meg ♥

@vickiehodges2341 Жыл бұрын

I so appreciate the honesty of this video, it takes real guts to share something like this.

@janeminwell4395 Жыл бұрын

Much agree.

@elphick.event.ponies Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤❤

@Sparkydutch_21 Жыл бұрын

@@elphick.event.ponies you are a amazing rider🥰

@agentk62 Жыл бұрын

I do appreicate you being raw, although I know how hard these vlogs are for you to make; being a rider who frequently struggled with confidence I feel a lot less alone when those who I look up to feel the same way. ❤

@elphick.event.ponies Жыл бұрын

Awh thank you, I hope you find yours again too! ❤

@shadue5169 Жыл бұрын

Meg, we all cried with you. What a credit you are to your horses. Lucinda is absolutely right. You just need a little help right now, which everyone needs from time to time - no matter which stream of life. You haven't given up, that is why you are still on this journey and why you are with Lucinda - you have have stopped at a fence but you are progressing through and that is important. What courage you are showing. A lot of people would call it quits but you aren't, you are facing your fears and we are all rooting for you. Dee has a wonderful heart and is bursting with natural ability and class. And isnt Lucinda and Ellie wonderful. I always love the vlogs with Lucinda as she is so genuine, so passionate. You are so lucky to be surrounded by these people who care for you and support you - You'll get through this.

@madlyneventing Жыл бұрын

Meg. You are so brave for showing this. I think many Equestrians struggle with this. I feel like we are just under an assumption that in horses we have to be brave all the time and not let anyone see our weak spots... That's not how it should be at all. This video is so honest and authentic for me, I feel like its very real of how riding is. Not everything is always sunshine and rainbows. I for one can understand exactly where you're coming from. I applaud you big time! This video means a lot.

@nicktempleton6943 Жыл бұрын

yes

@nicktempleton6943 Жыл бұрын

do you have tips on lunging my pony turns around on the lunge line why

@annejarvis7002 Жыл бұрын

Dear Meg, firstly thank you for your honesty & bravery. Your fall was brutal & clearly your concern isn't just for you, but mostly for your horse (typical of your loving care of your ponies). My trauma came from a car accident, but I had some falls from horses previously. Take the positives: you have got back in the saddle; you have successfully ridden not only your ponies but other people's horses. Furthermore, consider the complement from Lucinda when Ellie rode Dee - "Dee is such a credit to you & how you have produced her". I hope this experience with Lucinda, & all the emotions, form a positive start to your healing & the rebuilding of your confidence in yourself & your abilities & confidence in the awesome ponies you have so brilliantly produced. Never apologise for being truthful - there is no shame in that - entirely the opposite - it shows bravery, truthfulness & your awesome character. That's why you have such faithful followers & respect from us (& your sponsors). Much love, be well - it will get better - I know🤗x

@suzannechance5876 Жыл бұрын

Well said.

@emmysneyd1324 Жыл бұрын

Well done, you’re well on your way again. Stick with more of it 😊

@HollyJordan15 Жыл бұрын

Ah Meg, seeing you cry broke my heart. We love you so much. Thank you for sharing this raw honest side to riding & you could have easily not shared it. This came to mind; breakdown before breakthrough. Please let us know how you are? ❤x

@joanneday7518 Жыл бұрын

Lucinda had a lot of great things to say. She believes in you. This will get better. I'm so glad you will seek out help with a professional to move on from this as it's so hard to move forward after a fall like you had. Crying will do you the world of good and the relief you will feel afterwards will be worth it. We are all human and we do cry, thankyou for including this in your video. On another note, how good would a foal be between Dee and Marley. We all appreciate the ups and downs in your equestrian life, for me this makes it relateable to us as viewers. Thank you and *Hugs*

@marissamaggard9813 Жыл бұрын

I really admire you for this. Don’t ever be afraid to show the real parts of riding. This is why I love your channel - because you’re never fake and you always show us the real you! I had an accident 2 1/2 years ago that still affects me now and sometimes I don’t even want to canter, so your bravery with continuing to jump is so inspiring!❤

@ellenbell-mcmanus7433 Жыл бұрын

i love how honest lucinda is but shes also so lovely

@AnnabelleTheDark Жыл бұрын

This is such a huge part of our sport that not many dare to show. I cant tell how many edless cries ive had alone in my arena after things have been piling up emotionally. I dont wanna talk bad about other sports but we put our whole heart and soul in ours and our horses and you have been brave enough to show us all that and yes Meg, that is BRAVE! And relatable! Even tho I hate seeing you sad I feel less alone in my own struggles seeing you be honest about yours and this amazing communtiy being here for support.

@yourstrulyjocelyn9706 Жыл бұрын

Honestly. This made me cry because I realized how much she is just like me. I feel alone at my barn because nobody shows these kinds of things but this video made me feel so much better about my struggles.

@sarahmooney1243 Жыл бұрын

You are a breath of fresh air! Raw emotion, honest vlogs showing the highs and lows, good and bad… this is exactly what should be influencing our next generation. Thank you ❤

@slorugbug4164 Жыл бұрын

I wanted to thank you for posting this. It was such an authentic moment...that many of us have had from time to time. Riding can be scary...and it can be hard to get over a fall...especially from a horse fall. Take the time you need...it WILL come back.

@stellangios Жыл бұрын

Oh Meg. Post traumatic stress is so hard, no matter what it comes from ❤️ You're amazing to put this out there, because like Lucinda said it happens, and this will resonate with a lot of people. My own experiences were different but the tears are very familiar. And the thing is, no matter how much you might want to easily put traumatic events behind you, your body remembers. The moment you said you were wearing the dirty body protector from Bicton your whole breath and energy changed.... You dealt with it as well as anyone can, honestly. This is such a hard sport at any level and we all need to be *kind to ourselves* and look after each other. 💗💗💗 And remember that maybe you can't train bravery, but only those who have known fear can ever *be* brave

@victoriakent6324 Жыл бұрын

Mental blocks and anxiety are a huge part of the equestrian sport that tends to be overlooked. We have all been there. Thank you for sharing!

@jmequestrian9916 Жыл бұрын

As someone who has experienced many bad falls and A LOT of confidence knocks, it’s so refreshing to see someone posting about it. It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable on social media. Falls can be so traumatic, and years later, I’ll sometimes catch myself getting nervous again. Proud of you for trying to work through it. ❤️

@stefannyy7395 Жыл бұрын

Meggy you broke my heart ❤️ you’ll get back there with your super ponies, like Lucinda said they’re an absolute credit to you and are as good as they are because of you! Thank you for being so honest and not shying away from how a lot of us feel after a traumatic event. Live, laugh, love and support you ❤️

@princesssofiyagm Жыл бұрын

This took so much bravery. Not just to do this but also film it and put it out there for the world to see.

@jayreed7015 Жыл бұрын

It is hard when your confidence is rattled. You're very brave to show your whole lesson, the good bits and the less good bits. What an amazing instructor Lucinda is. So very knowledgeable and also compassionate and understanding. I'm sure she can help you get through this. And Ellie showed you how well you've trained Didi. She went really well. Keep going. Onwards and upwards they say. You can do it. ❤️

@zarawilson4974 10 ай бұрын

Omg I’m just watching this again after watching the new DD stallion reveal, at around 19:50 Lucinda said “look at her legs, she’ll be amazing with Marley.” No one even knew that there was a spoiler! It’s so funny how it was so obvious but no one knew it. So exited for her little foal though!!!!!! xx

@Scwibbles Жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing this side of horse riding, sometimes it's so easy to watch people online and compare and think how do they never have any bad days... You are an incredible rider and I hope to one day be as good as you. As my instructor said once when I had a wobble that one day we'll look back and laugh. Live laugh love you Meg 🥰

@makennafranklyn6 Жыл бұрын

As someone who struggles with anxiety like this while riding without even hitting the ground like you did, I appreciate you sharing this! It makes me see that I’m not alone with my anxiety while riding!

@kylieashman1415 Жыл бұрын

Ah Meg. Broke my heart seeing you so upset, but you also needed to let that out, and it was a great time for you with Lucinda, Ellie, Tina and Pete all there to support you. We all lose confidence that's the reality of horses, so brave to share that side with us all. You are such a talented rider and as Lucinda pointed out you produced Dee and what a gorgeous ride she gave Ellie and credit to you for that. Be kind to yourself and you have got this. So many people who have been watching your journey over the years are routing for you. Lots of love and hugs coming your way from so many parts of the world ❤

@saraahequestrian Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for showing your low moments! It’s so incredibly hard to do the normal when you get in your own head:( in a way it’s reassuring us more novice/low level riders that it can happen to absolutely anyone no matter how good they are and I’m so grateful that you’ve shown the ugly side to confidence knocks as it happens but no one shows it, you will get there, you are amazing remember that! ❤

@kippen64 Жыл бұрын

This looks like one of those lessons where you keep on learning from the lesson long after it's over because it takes time to process everything that you did in the lesson.

@gemmaross2066 Жыл бұрын

You are so inspiring honestly anyone would feel the same after Bicton. You have much more strength than you give yourself credit for.

@rachelmoore6730 Жыл бұрын

Hope you're doing ok now, Meg! I was tearing up watching this! Like Lucinda said, Dee is an absolute credit to you! She's so capable and so are you! Don't forget that.

@emilymacneill2007 Жыл бұрын

I have mentally been exactly where you are in this video Meg.. it isn't easy at all. You are filled with talent but when the mind takes over it really is hard to push past it. But you will and you'll come back and out of this moment in time stronger than ever and use it as a strength xxx Big hugs!

@fionasmith9973 Жыл бұрын

I don't usually comment but that was really hard to watch for so many reasons, but am so glad you posted it. Loosing your confidence is a funny thing, people often say it so flippantly, but no one knows what it's like until it happens to them. Sleepless nights, over thinking, double checking everything, excuses finding, lieing to yourself! I used to vomit in a morning if i was supposed to be taking my horse on a walk and trot round the block! the sense of foreboding was suffocating. My logical brain said "It will be fine, youve done this a million times", every other parts of my body and soul said "dont do it! something awful will happen!! Worse than you can even imagine!!". I did get over it and I think I am a better rider for it, and a more sympathetic friend to people who loose their confidence. Keep going, keep trying different things, it doesn't feel like it now, but you will get there. Huge hugs xxx

@mbconnemaras Жыл бұрын

Honestly was so tearful watching this! It’s a feeling that if it’s happen to you, you know how hard it is. Not long ago this was me, in my scenario crying about cantering because of a scare. It’s so hard to get out of your own head!

@emilyplatt8003 Жыл бұрын

Meg- I have so much respect for you. This is a massive moment for you, and it's an honour that you have shared it with us! You have no idea how much this will help you and how much it will help others. You are an incredible horsewoman. Huge, well done for opening up publicly and for sharing rock bottom- were all behind you, you've got this x

@lrkenielsen8856 Жыл бұрын

I had a big confidence knock one time while riding as the horse I rode slipped with his hind leg in the canter and fell forward onto his front knees. It scared the life out of me and I didn’t canter a lot for a good month or so. This video is so empowering to people who have had these big confidence knocks to show that it’s okay to have setbacks in your career whether it be a hobby or professional. You’re doing amazing and you’re such an inspiration to many people! We love you Meg!🫶🏻❤️ Lucinda did such an amazing job to comfort you after you broke down. She is an amazing trainer🫶🏻

@isabella0411 Жыл бұрын

As someone who is currently in the exact same situation with their own horse, I am so unbelievably grateful that you posted this video. Even though this is footage is raw and difficult for you to share, it has made me, and many other riders i'm sure, feel so much less alone. At times when confidence is lacking, to be together and share experiences can help us all hold each other up. You've absolutely got this Meg, we are all backing you and so proud of you, and by watching this video it has allowed me to start backing myself a little bit more too, so I can only say thank you ❤

@Bigstareventing Жыл бұрын

You are so brave Meg! Having a fall like you did is really scary but you will figure out how to put that aside. Thank you for being so open and showing others that it is ok to be afraid. I look up to you so much! Continue the great work!! You got this Meg!!!!❤❤❤

@Momandminiequestrian Жыл бұрын

I came off this fall for the first time in 6 years and I gained a fear I've never had. It's been a real struggle to over come it. I'm no longer trusting my extremely trustworthy pony. Thank you for sharing and remind us that we aren't alone in our feelings.

@CheskiDee Жыл бұрын

Confidence is such a fragile thing and the fact no one really talks about it makes it even worse when you lose it so thank you for this honesty. Everyone knows you and Dee will smash badders together so keep up with your amazing work and you’ll be there in no time ❤xx

@bethhibbert453 Жыл бұрын

Aww Meg this broke my heart. We all know this feeling so well. I felt totally inadequate compared to my horse a few months ago. Just thought I couldn’t ride, he’s too much for me and I’m slowly building back confidence to jump again! You will get there ❤❤

@jenniferhaas3874 Жыл бұрын

Oh, Meggy. My heart aches for you. You are so, so honest and brave to share these REAL moments with us. After a fall/accident it takes so long to build yourself back up. I’m so grateful Lucinda and Ellie are there to support you. You are in the right hands, and Dee is amazing.

@rparr Жыл бұрын

I have been feeling exactly the same way. After a fall off my horse where I was injured, I have hit a wall with my confidence that I have had a terrible time trying to overcome. I can get on other horses and feel fine but on him I can barely ride. It's incredibly frustrating. Thank you for showing us that you struggle like this too.

@ChloeJoness21 Жыл бұрын

Aw I hope you are okay Meg! I love your channel! I hope all the ponies and horses are well xx

@elphick.event.ponies Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@_Side-eye_ Жыл бұрын

I love that Meg posted this because it shows that not everyday is a good day especially amazing such as herself. It also helps me and other equestrians that struggle with confidence know that we are not alone and that everyone has these confidence knocks all the time! Lots of respect goes out to you Meg !!!!

@lynnemorris7516 Жыл бұрын

It's something you can work through and your confidence has been knocked, talking does help. One thing has come out of this is you now know that your beautiful pony can do it all. Don't forget, you trained and brought her on, so you can be very proud of that.

@lilly_eq Жыл бұрын

Had me sobbing when Meg was doubting her riding and how she can’t ride when she is really good I know confidence blocks are really hard but you always end up better than ever and even with bicton Meg still made it to badminton with both ponies which is a great achievement. Meg you are a good rider, your my horsey idol!

@sihnpax6220 Жыл бұрын

Thankyou for not only showing us the highs of this trip but the lows. We have all been there as riders Meg, you can do this!

@Geeoorrggiiaa45 Жыл бұрын

Oh Meg I was crying with you. I think as equestrian’s we all have that fall that is always at the back of our heads that no matter how hard we try still stays there rent free. I let that fall stop me and I gave up , but I know you’re not going to give up. Look at the two wonderful ponies you’ve produced, the fact Ellie made Dee look incredible is because of you ! Give yourself some credit yeah, you’re so incredibly talented & knowledgeable and that absolutely reflects on your horses . Take some time , speak to someone about the mental side of things , but most importantly remember why as an equestrian we do it in the first place, to have fun ❤ you’ve got this❤

@abigaild-r9552 Жыл бұрын

This is all so relatable so thank you for making all the times I've cried on a horse feel validating

@nataliep4349 Жыл бұрын

Wow, this is one of the most relatable videos I’ve ever seen. It would have been so nice to have videos like this back when I was more active with riding

@alicowls1605 Жыл бұрын

I knew this was going to be a tough one to watch. Your confidence took a massive hit at Bicton. We all have confidence in you to find it again, love how Lucinda and Tina were there for you and just supported you through this. It’s good to get this out of your system now, re-focus and get ready for Badminton on your girlies. You’ve got this x

@Adventures.of.a.gingernut Жыл бұрын

Oh Meg you don’t know how much I needed to see this ❤ I’ve had 3 falls in the last 3 weeks and having a bit of a confidence crisis. Love knowing I’m not alone x

@kirstenbolt-ez2vg Жыл бұрын

good on you for posting this, we all go through this and it’s good for all of us to realise that this stuff happens to even the best not everything goes perfect. so proud of you and keep pushing for your goals and achievements, you got this Meg we all support you xx

@alixgray6038 Жыл бұрын

I so appreciate you showing this. I have been there so many times, I am so happy to know that I am not alone in feeling this way.

@maslynl.6258 Жыл бұрын

It’s so good to have moments like this before going out for the season! You’re processing some really scary stuff, it’s wonderful that you’re doing it at Lucinda’s!

@chloesoutdoorlife6294 Жыл бұрын

I love that you were so honest in this video. It makes people who look up to you that are going through the same thing feel less alone. Thank you for posting this for us to watch.

@stellajelly1661 Жыл бұрын

Well done I’ve had many melt downs because I’m scared it’s nice to see raw content that it happens to us all

@matildatrickett16 Жыл бұрын

such a nice take on the real ups and downs of riding. It's never easy, you're so admirable meg - these moments is what makes all the best moments the way they are ! 💗💗

@kristinarunyeon9875 Жыл бұрын

I felt this so deeply. Thank you for being honest and posting this.

@Latarielle Жыл бұрын

SO proud of you, I know how hard this is. I can't even canter my horse anymore because he's bucked me off a few times now and every time I try I get flashbacks of my fall.

@lillybubbles1000 Жыл бұрын

Awh Meg! We’ve all been here, thanks so much for posting this video it an honest reflection of what we end up going through! Don’t over think it, you’re more than capable trust that ❤️❤️❤️

@taylorwollerson2561 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this and being truly raw and authentic. I can’t imagine how hard this was too share, but I’m so glad you did. This is greatly inspirational and we are all rooting for you!

@lizzyrbits1283 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Meg, it must have been really tough to edit this. But look how incredible Dee is! And you will get your confidence sorted and you will ride her to be that incredible! :)

@mariahlarson92 Жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you. We all go back and forth with our confidence depending on accidents and injuries. ♥️

@rebekahlazarova-dp2lf Жыл бұрын

You are so brave, posting this, and getting back to jumping again. It isn’t easy, your emotions are more than valid. You’ll be back soon better than ever it will just take some time and that’s totally okay ❤️ you got this xx

@emmasturm6028 Жыл бұрын

You’re such an amazing rider and seeing you make progress like this and not give up and still have trainers to help through it gives me hope for myself as a rider. Thank you so much and never forget the love and passion you have for riding.

@Katietheequestrian Жыл бұрын

It’s really great that your showing both sides. There are days where confidence is a hard thing to have. Your showing us as the viewers that it can be hard. Your only human. You don’t have to be strong all the time.

@kathleenellefson1956 Жыл бұрын

I think Meg is very brave. She has a hard job, while showing us all her ups and downs as well. It’s very refreshing to realize that we are all growing everyday and sometimes we struggle. Meg helps to make me feel I’m not alone in my own horse riding struggles!! Thank you Meg & the beautiful Hobbit. ❤❤

@angiedyer1511 Жыл бұрын

Truly grateful that you shared this Meg. The world needs more of you. Bless Lucinda , what an amazing coach and friend. You are amazing and this is the true honesty of the sport. Bless you meggy. 👏❤️

@doodlehorseygirl5155 Жыл бұрын

I love how you have shared this all and we’ll soon be cheering you round badminton, on hopefully both of the girls. You’re such an inspiration!

@Katherinekirbydressage Жыл бұрын

You are so brave for sharing such a vulnerable video, and it breaks my heart to watch you like this! Confidence is the absolute worst as it takes the longest time to build and yet, can come crashing down in an instant. You’ve got this xx

@jessicaruhl7314 Жыл бұрын

You’re so brave for sharing and filming all of this. Every rider has times where confidence is lost, you’ll come out of all this stronger than ever ❤

@elizabethtopolskaya1020 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your journey, despite it being so vulnerable. We are all routing for you ❤

@gemmastubbs4284 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, this is a side to our sport so rarely shared but so frequently experienced. You will get through this.

@tessface28 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for showing this side to riding.. I think it’s one that doesn’t get shown a lot. You’ve come such a long way since I started watching you. You’re a great rider, keep telling yourself that, the only thing holding you back is confidence!

@PotterheadCentral Жыл бұрын

Im going through this right now meg with my pony... i know how hard it is i cant even trot him without crying at this point. please stay strong we can both get through this.... your helping me by even posting this.. showing thats these feelings are okay... thank you

@totally247 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this, I was crying along with you/for you, it's so awful loosing your confidence! You are such an amazing rider, the confidence knock is no reflection on your ability!

@sydneyfranczak2026 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for showing this. I struggle a lot with confidence and it helps so much seeing someone you look up to showing us that everyone goes through their own confidence struggles. it's a really nice reminder that we can do it and nothing has to be perfect all the time ❤️

@elliegerber___ Жыл бұрын

I NEEDED TO SEE THIS I really genuinely appreciate this because I have been having a really hard time jumping recently because me and my lease horse have had a hard time with our communication recently and many of my lessons have ended in tears and I needed to see that it is normal and ok to feel this way as an equestrian.

@lilpetchannel Жыл бұрын

Oh bless you Meg 😔 We have all hit that wall with confidence and it’s horrendous but you will get it back. Well done for sharing the reality, I know how hard it can be to share these lows ❤

@ashleybrady9366 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing us this. We all have had moments just like this. Thank you for keeping it so real with us. Dee is an amazing little mare. We all love you Meg.

@beccalu04 Жыл бұрын

You are so amazing and it’s so understandable to feel like this. I was absolutely sobbing watching but thank you for sharing such an honest video. We all know you’ll come back stronger as you’re an incredible rider and I hope that you believe in yourself too. I hope that you reading all of the comments on this video, and all your other videos, helps you to know that you are supported by so many people who love what you do. Sending so much love ❤

@nicoleclarkson4007 Жыл бұрын

Good for you for knowing you weren’t in the proper headspace to give your pony the ride she needs and getting off. So many of us are taught to push through fear and we end up doing our horses a disservice. Dee got a wonderful school from Ellie and you got to see how well you’ve trained her! It takes a humble and wise person to get off for the good of their horse.

@tooscaredtoshowjump Жыл бұрын

Broke my heart to watch this! Have just experienced a similar crisis following my accident and know just how hard it is to find the confidence! You are so brave to share this and just know you aren’t alone! 💕

@emmacostello6235 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Meg for being so real and posting this, I know exactly the feeling and it’s so nice to hear Lucinda’s comments. It makes me feel so much better knowing it’s not just me experimenting a lack of confidence at the minute x

@poppymiller4203 Жыл бұрын

Oh Meg!! I really feel for you. Thank you for posting this. I had a fall around the same time as you did (it wasn’t a bad fall and both me and my pony were fine) while I was cross country training. I lost all my confidence and couldn’t even trot my pony round a field without panicking! It is always nice to know you are not alone in this world. Dee is so talented once you have your confidence nothing will stop you two! ❤️❤️

@heathersullivan6269 Жыл бұрын

This is so honest and thank you for being brave enough to show this side of riding. I think it's something every equestrian has to deal with at some point. I had a nasty fall last year that landed me in the hospital for a few days and still dealing with the mental side of it. Hang in there--you're doing all the right things to get your head back in the game.

@caeleikane4453 Жыл бұрын

This has been my favourite video so far. It’s so pure and shows the reality of what equestrians go through. Thank you Meg

@charlotteperrelle7922 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing that with us, it was incredibly raw but you aren’t alone in what you are feeling. Things don’t always go right and that is ok. Take a step back & just have some fun again x

@maisiejohnson3875 Жыл бұрын

Meg we always have bad days and accidents always throw our confidence! You are an amazing rider! Keep at it and believe in yourself 💕

@sophiaedgley3304 Жыл бұрын

aww meg. i genuinely cried watching this. you did amazing!!!!! Lucinda is such a good coach i could only dream. i could also only dream of you eq! your my biggest inspiration, wishing you the best for everything

@mingreece Жыл бұрын

This made me ball 😭😭 I really respect you showing your vulnerability! watching your videos make you so real and relatable xxx

@susan_brehm_art Жыл бұрын

Awww I'm shedding tears along with you. I've had to work through this fear as well. It's hard. Give yourself time, it's ok to take little steps of progress. 😊😊