@I Love God Amen that would be a key component of hiding your identity

I say grow a pair , practice your right to free speech without a mask while you still can. If you don't like what I have to say then don't listen, but try to shut me up you'll be met with violence.

@I Love God Amen Are you dumb or are you dumb?

Very true, I stopped giving af long ago and I only focus on myself, my job & having fun if anything compromises that I don’t need it in my life

That's male privilege for you.

Praise your mom! 🎉 She’s right. It shows your maturity to wait for that part of your life. It doesn’t mean you’re a different gender identity.

W mom

@BklynGrl74 My mom is amazing. She raised my to be education and focused, so I was never interested while my friends were all sexually active. That never crossed their minds that I was just making a choice

So many people don't know what asexuality even is. It's got nothing to do with whether or not you have had sex or want it. Basically, it's how a straight person would react to a sexualised version of the same sex, and how a gay person would react to a sexualised version of the opposite sex: it's not sexually attractive. That's pretty much it. Though a lot of people are getting confused with being asexual when they're minors, like... thank god you're not messing around illegally? Or it's to do with hormone imbalances, mental/physical illnesses, etc. which prevent or alter arousal/attraction, which isn't a sexuality.

It feels like a lot of young people put on the asexuality label out of fear of not fitting it. I was a late bloomer. I wasn't really interested in sex until my late 20s. But, when everyone around you is heavy into hooking up, serial monogamy and casual pornography you might feel like you're not keeping up. If I was a Gen Z and didn't grow up with in a Christian home with a healthy view of sexuality, I probably would have questioned my sexuality, too.

Amen to that brother. I feel you.

Amen brother ✝️

Same! I’ve never shared this, and some stuff I’m gonna say is so disgusting it hurts me to say but I think it’s a good testimony to show how bad and dangerous this stuff is. I always used to believe in “God” and would pray, and all that, but I was believing in a made up “God” in my head, the “God” I was believing in was not the biblical Jesus Christ, it was not God. Since I was around 10 I got addicted to porn, I actually told my mum because I genuinely thought something was wrong with my brain, I was watching stuff I knew was wrong and disgusting, but in a way I liked it. My mum explained how it’s wrong, that it’s normal for me to be curious but that what I was watching wasn’t good for me, and how it’s unethical and unhealthy to consume. After I would then continually try to stop watching but I would always end up going back to it. (Keep in mind I hadn’t even touched myself at this point because I didn’t know that was a thing but I was just watching it) then when I was 13 my friends were talking about masturbation (I can’t believe that was a topic especially at that age) but then I was like, “maybe I should try it”. After that I became completely addicted, doing it daily, sometimes multiple times a day, it was bad. I started getting to the point where I would delve into some disgusting and horrendous topics/fetishes (candid stuff of innocent people, farting, peeing, even pooing, I had seen animal stuff, everything! It was disgusting and my mind was corrupted beyond any self saving) then earlier this year I started delving deeper into trans stuff, and it got to the point that I was almost trying to manipulate my mind into being gay, it was like I was working myself up to watching gay stuff, but that was always the point where no matter what I just couldn’t sit through it, but I had become addicted to trans stuff, it was bad. It felt as if I was genuinely just looking for the most obscure and disgusting thing to possibly do it to, it was the lowest point of my life. At this point I was trying desperately to quit, but it was so bad that nothing was working, at this point I had already lost almost all my belief in a god, I had tried different philosophies and some would help but then would fail after a little while, at some point I was at my lowest point, and I just called on Jesus to save me, to help free me from my sin, and He did! Christ forgave me despite how disgusting I was, He saved me from the lowest I could go, He pulled me out of the darkness and lit up my path! Since then there have been times I’ve stumbled, but I am no longer ruled by my sin, I am on the path Christ is lighting before me, and He is my Lord and Saviour! Without Him I am nothing, without Him I would fall, without Him I was ruled by my flesh and by the dark kingdom, but Christ overcame all the darkness I was falling to, I was losing the battle with no sight of a way out, but Christ warded off ALL of the enemy, He saved me and I am forever grateful! My past self disgusts me, but I am reborn in Christ Jesus my Lord, my Saviour, my Redeemer, The King of the universe!

yup this is so true

you have at least not ben abandon by him like he did to me

Walking W gf

beautiful, so proud of you. how did she help you? me and my bf want to get rid of it as well but i just don't know what the approach should be

@@deligeorgieva8535as someone who did it completely on their own, distracting the mind with other things and finding better hobbies and things to do definitely helps the process. Exercising, playing with your friends, playing video games, literally anything could be a distraction. Just find out what your bf likes doing and at least try your best to keep him distracted. Call him if you can. Have conversation with him as much as you 2 are available. I could go on and on, but that’s the best advice I could give.

My ex indirectly helped me get off of it. She never knew it was an issue until our breakup when I thanked her for it. Having someone to help you through something they don't even know about is amazing

Same mate.

Same

I would get deported

Same here boys.

Fr

Dude the peer pressure of today's generation of your sexuality and gender identity is very intense because i have experienced it myself. I've always felt like being straight was like boring and basic because of how much today's generation is always like "straight, white, cis men like are trAsh" and seeing internet arguements fighting about this character's sexuality on whether the straight or not and how its like seen as boring or the default setting and tbh i tried to make myself like girls even tho i barely felt anything around them, so after awhile and finally just figuring out on who i am and my preferences i can finally say, im straight although it may be basic on this new generation i really cannot deny it. I love and respect the lgbt community but personally im just confident that im a straight woman. Yup veeerrry basic indeed

I'm so sorry!😢

Same I always had people telling me I was a lesbian bc I wasn’t as girly as my peers and I had a “deeper voice” compared to them.

​@@elainini funny how having a deeper voice makes someone lesbian, I mean in teen years, during puberty, everyone experiences body changes. I'm an 18 yrs old boy and my voice became as feeble as a child's, and now it is slowly recovering to being somewhat deeper

I’m so sorry

The only teenagers that don't go thru such things are the psychopaths. (Do not conflate psychopath with sociopath.)

Everyone kinda does at that time & actually until like 25. The mental swings are crazy for no reason

Everybody struggles, it doesn't matter who you are or what walk of life you're from. We all have that in common.

I’m a straight-A hella academic student and I’m reasonably good at sports, I excel in Cricket (Yep, I’m English 😂) and I don’t think I’m as happy as I could be. I’m not as unhappy as I was, but being a teen is hard, especially leaving school and starting a career as things change so fast and you can’t keep up. I am that stereotype of “oh you got it easy” and sure, I have it easier than most, but that’s still very difficult. Not sure what my point is, but I guess it’s that everybody struggles, no matter how able or confident they are. I think we just have to remember that if you work hard, being an adult will be better, and happier.

I do have a question for all of you males, do you guys feel like you have some one that you can ask any question to, or that you trust to not judge you for any question you ask and to give you their honest opinion? Because personally I don't feel that way. There are people that I would trust with certain things but not everything. There are questions that just float around my head that I never get answered because I never ask them cause I either don't trust anyone with them, or I don't know if anyone will know the answer. One of the biggest questions that I have is basically, who am I and what is my true self? I feel like I actually don't know who my true self is because of how I my brain has been trained, and how I have trained my brain. I find that when I meet new people or step into a new environment that I don't fully show myself, or I guess, my most common attributes between my multiple selves if that makes sense. Cause I act and do stuff differently depending on who I am with and what environment that I am in. I basically weave a character to match basically what I want people to see or think about me, but I find that I do this unconsciously. I think I know some reasons of to why I do this, but I think in the process of all of this happening and me doing this, I have lost my sense of who I am, because I have made so many me's that I can no longer distinguish which one is the true one and which one is the act. If yall have an answer please let me know cause I am all ears.

@@NoahSmith-uh9wo I don't know that I necessarily have an answer to your question, however I can absolutely say that you are not alone in feeling this way. I personally struggle with being overly self conscious. I overthink a lot and I also have an urge to be understood as well as liked. Unfortunately, what that means is that, as you said, I always mold myself into what I think the situation demands me to be. This then has the unwanted side effect of me feeling as though I don't truely know who I am as a person. I overthink my response so much that I lose sight of what my genuine reaction might be. I think there is some comfort in that everyone deals with this on some level. Of course, there are those who struggle more and maybe that is you. Not great to hear but we all have things that come easier or harder to us than others. Everyone has a shadow side and our society has grown to avoid and criticize this behavior as not being something that is natural. Personally I find that aggressive sports, activities or music provides a safe space to experiment with your harsher side. :) Love the comment!

⁠@@NoahSmith-uh9wowell when u go into new environments or meet new people u usually have comfortability levels so like u would start like at 0 so u would completely be uptight and nervous and usually have like a mask to put on to present ur self to progressively get more comfortable with that certain someone or environment, usally u have to spend more time with the thing u fake things to see the real thing and then u can decide on whether u take off ur mask or not

@@NoahSmith-uh9wono

​@@NoahSmith-uh9woI personally (I emphasize on the personally here, because I don't speak for all guys) feel the exact same thing, but with less negative side affects in a sense. For me, I know who I am, and only I know who I am. The thought that nobody knows a lot about me doesn't bother me, so that may inadvertently lead to less negative effects you so describe with things like identity, which is a pretty major issue in my opinion. I don't exactly know how to put this, but my advice is to let your mind rest. I felt the best innerly when I wasn't constrained by so many rules and social norms that I finally just let myself be who I naturally am to myself. And my identity is hidden, locked into my mind, and no one can physically and completely see through me. So, I could go on with putting up a front of what could get me through a certain social situation with more mental ease. Or outright just not put up a front, become a jerk pulling middle fingers to anyone aforementioned jerk mildly dislikes, after all all you spur is a minor annoyance to those people anyway. Suppose there is a joy in being disrespectful and free like that.

With a capital G*

That's terrifying...

that group is the most hateful group i have ever witnessed. they are often either terrible people, or at least they say and do terrible disgusting things. this just further prooves my opinion on them.

And that’s exactly why I distance myself from this „community“ even if my sexuality makes me „part of it“. I can’t go out there wanting acceptance for my sexuality but on the other hand not accepting straight people. What the hell is that?! I just don’t understand that and I‘m sorry your child had to witness this.

Alphabet soup people are so toxic and pushy. It scares me for my children.

I work at a car shop and my boss wrote a part up as a "trans" meaning a transmission, and someone called him out on it and the part delivery was delayed because the person on the other end was like "I hope you don't mean transgenders" This is absurd. Even if he did, calling a trans person a trans person isn't offensive so I don't get the point. This was someone just trying to make a scene for the sake of doing so.

@@peves- As a professional, he should have known better. The proper term is 'Trannie'.

I call myself a Tomboy....I have a biz that has Tomboy n it. Being a tomboy is amazing. I don't fit into a box...I like what I like...& I refused to allow society to tell me that because I enjoyed traditional boy stuff made me gay or not feminine. I like the fact that we can b individuals. It's NOT a negative thing to b called a Tomboy.

@@LifeHappens83 Everyone is so victim minded today because the school curriculums are programming student's to think this way. It's super manipulative to the younger generation and makes them susceptible to being manipulated because they get offended over the wrong pronoun, sexual identity and blah blah blah. Also this is happening to men because testosterone levels are at a all time low, and very little testosterone makes them timid, or possibly don't behave manly like and affects our appearance with less masculine features. It's causing some men to turn into SJW soyboys.

@@Th3M4larky just sounds like ur toxic

That was a beautiful story man. I bet your son and daughter are very happy to have you =).

I am lucky to not have lost someone close to me yet, but Im still in high school and planning to go down the same route in the military and special operations because that’s what I hold in my values.

Wow, all of these adversities you had to go through. Strong asf.

I do have a question for all of you males, do you guys feel like you have some one that you can ask any question to, or that you trust to not judge you for any question you ask and to give you their honest opinion? Because personally I don't feel that way. There are people that I would trust with certain things but not everything. There are questions that just float around my head that I never get answered because I never ask them cause I either don't trust anyone with them, or I don't know if anyone will know the answer. One of the biggest questions that I have is basically, who am I and what is my true self? I feel like I actually don't know who my true self is because of how I my brain has been trained, and how I have trained my brain. I find that when I meet new people or step into a new environment that I don't fully show myself, or I guess, my most common attributes between my multiple selves if that makes sense. Cause I act and do stuff differently depending on who I am with and what environment that I am in. I basically weave a character to match basically what I want people to see or think about me, but I find that I do this unconsciously. I think I know some reasons of to why I do this, but I think in the process of all of this happening and me doing this, I have lost my sense of who I am, because I have made so many me's that I can no longer distinguish which one is the true one and which one is the act. If yall have an answer please let me know cause I am all ears.

@@NoahSmith-uh9wo Yes for me I do have a few people that I can trust and rely on in that way. Sometimes I have struggled with finding out who I am but that can take some time and it doesn’t meant just jumping to the first conclusion I make. I often look at my own attributes and take from those to define myself, for example, I really enjoy to draw, watch animated movies, write stories and do combat sports like martial arts and such. Those attributes I feel define my personality and who I am. For you it might be different. Sometimes I do change when I am around other people in terms of mood and personality to either impress them or maybe just to relate. But this is all just my opinion and this mostly comes from my own experience but by asking to is question you actually gave me quite a lot to think about so I thank you for that. God Bless!

@@NoahSmith-uh9woI have a few, but mainly for different purposes and reasons. It’s rough and things keep looking worse for us long term

same

​@@NoahSmith-uh9wo no once I thought my friends were the ones to tell but it ended backfiring and I basically got blackmailed even though it wasn't an actual threat And literally no one tells their parents their secrets

It’s crazy how much better this place could be if we could all be a bit more vulnerable around each other.

bro i tried to be honest and tell my friend a dark secret about me and he immediately told all my other friends 😞

@@Deareck Sorry to hear that

@@Deareck good riddance then

@@Deareck damn, that’s not really a good friend then if you can’t even be honest with them and have trust in them. Hate to say it but may be time to ditch them and find better friends.

Istg

Good comparison

Unless the person is mentally challenged, he or she knows both porn and Fast and Furious are just movies. Pretty much everyone has seen action driving movies before first driving, porn before having sex and action movies before going to the shooting range, yet there is no problem. Why? Because people understood the difference between movies and real life.

@@petrmaly9087damn

I swear my 6th grade health teacher said this💀

Brett’s an old soul and is mother material that what makes her so great

Yeah porn is a real issue that not many talk about

Keep it up, man. You are doing the right thing.

i think that at least in puberty it is useful. As a man you learn to control yourself also because you donß´t have crazy hormones going around messing with you

Having a real girlfriend? Exploring real sex? I dont know what to blame, the technology that is turning us into garbage...

Did a professional say you have a porn addiction?

Same here

Hello fellow teen

I haven’t been a teen for a few months, but I agree

yep

she is a roll model for young women everywhere

I'm so sorry for what you had to go through. I really hope you are in a better place in your life now. Please don't give up on yourself. I have faith in you😊 (this is coming from a teenage girl who wants to understand boys and men well). I hope you have a nice day😊

i had a similar thing. A friend who had a very similar personality to mine. I opened up to her, talked to her without pretending to be someone i wasn't. She was pure. Not more mature than me, but very relatable so we didn't judge eachother. She is very pretty too and has one of the best personalities as a person I've ever seen so naturally i developed feelings towards her. But I didn't try anything cuz i never thought she'd ever feel the same way. But then one day out of the blue, she told me she had feelings for me. We clicked off immediately. But we did end up having a few problems in our relationship. She started kind of ignoring me and not talking to me a lot. I genuinely thought i had messed up or she had maybe lost feelings. I was really terrified of losing her. But it was kind of a communication gap. She ignored me because she was scared of getting attached, as her parents went through a divorce and that messed her up. Both of them are still involved with her in her life but she was still disturbed by it. So a lot of reassuring and talking and now we're both kinda secure about eachother and i think I'm gonna marry her. Hope it ends nicely. And good luck to you too with your life.

Thank god you met her again dude my heart dropped the moment you said you never saw her again 😢

​@@MHJ1117 good luck bro i hope it goes well for you

Probably because its also so accessible, you dont have to buy it, youre one tab away from it at all times

It's a shame that some used "news mommy" in the creepiest way possible and ruined it, because my friends and I use it in a context that's the most endearing way possible

@@alienJIZ1990Anybody that says “mommy” is just a weird creep.

@@honeyandlavender_ if it's sexual then yeah, agreed. But it all depends how it's used. Brett exudes a mom-like disposition and it's cute and funny to point out. Is that going to cause men with mommy issues to say weird shit? Absolutely. But it all depends on context and intent. You can say "News Mommy" and have it not be creepy, similar to sardonically saying "jee, thx mom" Not everything you don't like is automagically "creepy"

@@alienJIZ1990 I get where they're coming from tho. When my nephew was born I felt really weird referring to my brother as "daddy" when talking to his son. Society has just oversexualized the words, unfortunately. I know it's not weird, I'm more comfortable saying it now when talking to my nephew, but I get why so many people feel uncomfortable with those words.

@@nickcunningham6344 oh for sure, I fully understand all that. But that was kinda my point, that it's a shame people made the sexual association in such a pseudo Oedipal fashion, because it's definitely possible to use it in a non sexual context, the word has just been tainted. So I get where there they're coming from too but they basically doubled down on the tainted view and essentially said "Nope, always creepy. Zero exceptions." which was why I responded the way I did, it only perpetuates the sexual association if you don't call it out when it's being reinforced

My brain cells cannot handle much more stupidity,oml. They literally made up a name for what relationships are SUPPOSED to be 🤦‍♀️

@@GabrielleTollerson I think it's more like they don't even get crushes or have fantasies or have any kind of attraction to strangers or people in media. Like emotional attraction, sure that's normal but sexual attraction is more surface level and I don't think demi sexuals experience that unless they first form an emotional connection.

I feel like there’s more sexual identity’s that Aline with having emotional feelings to have sex with someone bc u can’t find a lot of loyalty anymore in this day and age lol.

thank you!!!

@@DanimationYT that's normal though

You’ll get through it G. Nobody that I’ve talked to has exposed me or anything but the idea of that for sure spooks me out. Don’t know what you believe but I wanna let you know that if you try to find peace in the things of this world it won’t work, it’s all like drugs, it feels good while it lasts but in the end it leaves you unsatisfied. Jesus is the only way to find true peace. Anyways I’m just tryna help. Jesus loves you man I’ll be praying for you

I appreciate it, I'm a Christian myself and I've been trying to look to him for guidance

@@braxonus9788 Good bro

facts

It's not that hard. You just need to bring more healthy hobbies to spend time on (like riding bike) and then you will completely forget about it.

I could understand since sex is a big thing in the U.S.A. It's everywhere in the media and it's disgusting. The highest porn viewers are in the U.S.A.

I’ve tried telling people this years and years ago. Porn is basically the third major “drug” behind alcohol and illegal drugs. Quickly making its way to the top of the list. It activates the same centers that alcohol and other drugs do that get you addicted and then it becomes a mental issue. Then if you have deep mental issues already it becomes deeply rooted and becomes extremely hard to stop.

@@Nilithic It definitely is that hard. Cause for a lot of people that are trying to quit, it's a lifestyle change. The addiction subtly encourages you to live the kind of lifestyle that spends a lot of free time by themselves usually in their room. For a good bit of people they just don't see it as that bad and society does not and fails to recognize the true nature of this addiction. All of these things combined create a hard deterrent for those that want to quit. I still struggle with it today, but I've gotten better. The first step to quitting is to recognize that there is a problem.

As a fellow 15 year old, please tell me u don’t watch.

@@fairyfightsgt6772not watching it is kinda hard when you get into at a super young age I am also 15 and right now I am trying to stop but I started watching it at like 9 or 10 so it’s became like an addiction.

@@R4T_VortexX why is it hard to stop?

​@@fairyfightsgt6772dopamine's a mean chemical 😢

@@fairyfightsgt6772 dopamine, porn is a serious addiction that’s hard to stop if you want to know more just research on google and shit

I want to say as a teenager who battled depression and being suicidal at one point I have never watched corn I am Muslim but seeing this is shocked it says a lot about the west nowadays😢

@saifjassim6067 it is very sad what going on in the west and the world today, I am praying for everyone to see the light and to help us get past all this, but I truly know that its only going to be better when Jesus comes back. God Bless you, and keep you, and make His face to shine upon you.

@@GrahmHorner and my Allah make your life full of blessings have a great day

@@saifjassim6067 thank you

@@GrahmHorner no problem I don’t care about the fact we are diffrent religions we are brothers in humanity

yes

And she looks like Ben Shapiro

Unfortunately I’ve noticed a lot of people my age including me are wiser the older people

​​​@@yungtrick7405yeah not to disrespect Brett shes definitely pretty intelligent and well spoken, but so was I at 21 now 24, I dont think I lack anything in comparison. Also it has nothing to do with your type of school leaving certificate or your interests. At the end of the day it comes down to facts, as most sane and common people tend to have a similiar view of the world. Also if people want to lecture you by their experience, mostly its bs. Older people in my company that did years of the same work explain it to me how its done, 2 weeks later I come up with a even better method or solution. A lot of people are stuck in their ways because of tradition and hierachy. You’ll only get to the top if you have trust in yourself you can make it, question everyone and everything until proven otherwise and make certain mistakes on your own so you can learn from them. As long as you continue to learn you're safe

@@Metaljunk39 following facts and understanding things and minding your business then you’ll be successful for the most part

Well we live in a hyper sexualized culture. If students were segmented into isolation pods and communicated anonymously without knowing each other's gender, they would still be pressuring and mocking one another for not using toys or self pleasuring. Humans are so easy to anticipate, we truly haven't evolved much from our baser level instincts.

You just described the W NBA. There needs to be a Me too movement for the Wnba. So many cases so wild shady shxt goes down.

Same thing in prison. The guys get horny and can’t touch any women for years and they start becoming gay because of the sexual drive. You can’t separate the 2 sexes

This makes one wonder about the idea that everyone who says they are gay was born gay. The case at your school surely seems to have a social component.

That is so crazy! I thought families that sent their kids there were more conservative.

Keep being you my guy, don't let them decide who you are. Props to you for not giving in to their peer pressure of madness.

It’s less sinister than that really, more like identifying as LGBTQ+ has become a teenage phase as well as a self discovery process💀

LGBTQetc is cult programming. And like every cult, the members self regulate with peer pressure and emotional manipulation. It’s sad. But more so it is evil in its anti-family, anti-human ideology

The fact that you felt the need to use "cis" in your self description tells me that you are still dealing with those feelings that were implanted in you. Just know that they want you to feel that way because *they* don't feel comfortable with themselves. Stay strong and be true to yourself. You aren't alone and you don't have to have a label to be special. 🫂

Gunna piss off some people with this comment but it's fine. There's no such thing as sis, you're normal. If you're straight then you are just fine don't let people who don't know what they want themselves question what you are attracted to.

ya i was shocked!

Wait she’s 21? Goddam

She looks 28

I'm 30 and I was totally shocked with her age! She is killing it! 🎉

Yes, exactly.

Fight one of them, beat him real bad

It sucks, but just know that when you're in your 30s you aren't going to see or associate with anyone that you went to high school or even college with unless you really want them in your life. I know it's hard to see now, but all of their views and opinions and completely and utterly irrelevant.

@@WilC379 👈🏻great answer. I know it’s tough for now. Definitely be firm, stand your ground. Be immune to the taunts. Some girl worth her weight in gold is going to notice that and start talking to you, sooner or later. And from then on, you won’t have to worry about the taunts, because you’ll have a naturally developed relationship with a good bond. I tell my kids, if a person is calling you gay, they are most likely very gay, ashamed, and looking for a target to project it on to. Please remember that. Every single kid that I knew from grade school that called others gay as a taunt or to pick on people is now ‘out’. They look for someone normal and respectable to pin it into because that is what they wish they could be and do they lash out in jealousy, with intent to deflect from their truth. I know what I’m saying is 100% the truth because I’m old and have witnessed the outcome every single time. So take courage.

Find real friends brother. It is not gay to feel. I would encourage you to go to a church and start reading the Bible. The book of John is what Christianity is about. People are sinful and can be real jerks don't let them tear you down. You can't do it alone. surround yourself with others who build you up!

@@lovakiller78 thank you bro...been a devoted Christian all my life 💪

Fr lol

No then she would have to do the 100 gther genders. Ha ha

This should be done lol

@@thetechboyorg lmfao

@@thetechboyorg Why? There are just 2 sexes, and 2 genders.

Search roma army

@@SashyaTheStrange what I was abt to say lol

That attitude you were referring to about some women viewing men as privilege is absolutely valid.

I'm not sure what you're talking about, the modern stereotype for women is to be "strong and independant".

@@jamesrussell2936 Yes, it is overemphasized and it has led a lot of women to hyper-independence which is very unhealthy. I know a lot of women who are very dear to me who struggle with hyper-independence because it's been taught to them for so long that they need to be independent and they can't rely on anyone for anything and they are always going to be alone in their struggle because of it. I wish they weren't taught these kinds of lies. It's also a product of weaponized incompetence that's a serious issue, especially among men. To be completely honest, I wouldn't expect you to understand because you haven't gone through the same social conditioning as I have because you are a man and I am a woman.

@@jamesrussell2936 yes, but it's "strong and independent" not "strong, independent and feminine" women who try to follow the stereotype tend to subconsciously or consciously believe they must abandoned the feminine to follow it

I’m 14 and love Brett’s video with a whole heart and how much she brings up my womanhood and raises my opinion fairly and when she said that it made me feel so empowered mainly because I’ve always been a really independent person and I was always kind of worried that makes me unattractive to men but I’m really glad that I’m not the only one who has a strong personality and opinion but also expresses her femininity how I feel comfortable and enjoyable for me you know it’s just such a powerful statement that really just hit the heart for me as a young teenage girl

@Don Stanley keep being you and you're doing great 🫶🏻

These are my thoughts exactly

My thoughts aswell

Yes, totally why they are watching xD Now take ugly girl and give her the same script xD

Chronic Masterbation and diet are probably 2 of the causes of low testosterone in young men. Stop eating sweets and drinking pop and eat a pound of red meat a day. Drink only water and a high fat high protein diet consisting mostly of meat and eggs. The liver turns cholesterol into testosterone, it requires a ton of fat to keep it from cannibalizing you. And stop beating off women can smell that stink on you. You do all that and your testosterone will go up.

I can say porn helps me a bit, it's a form of visual pleasure, good for my mental health. I don't think I'm abusing it.

@Ks-101 for what

@@BobbyeLane-bl5zz A "pick me girl" is a derogatory term for women who are vocal about siding with men on an issue, it's meant to imply you want male attention and that's your main reason for voicing your opinion. Them saying "pick me" like that is an insult, they don't value your opinion for what it is.

@@MonkeGeorge ok I get it. Well that sucks I didn't mean to come off that way, I was being genuine. I just care about people. Cause I want them to feel less pain and sadness. Not cause I want attention....what a bummer , can't even care about your fellow human without being accused of having malevolent intentions. This is the world we've build for one another, I suppose.

@@MonkeGeorge and also, to anyone who sees my comment as me "siding" with men is not understanding me.... I'm not picking a side, I just feel empathy for their struggles just as I would for a woman or anyone else .

@@BobbyeLane-bl5zz Really don't worry about it, someone calling a woman a pick me is like calling a guy a simp. It's a really low effort insult at this point, so don't take it personally.

I feel u even as SOMBODY who never watched corn I was depressed and suicidal at one point Brett cooper is one of the few females that understand males struggle under feminism as women already have equal right

I'm so sorry to hear that. If she broke up with you for opening up, it just means she is not mature enough. You deserve a woman who is willing to listen and allows you to be vulnerable. And I'm sure you will find her someday. God bless you :)

Not all girls are like that remember

If there are shitty people, there will always be the opposite too.

1. I love that your name is Brett 2. You will find someone one day that will give you their heart and soul. My bf was completely hopeless and broken for 4 years being single until we found each other. The same will happen for you

It's the fantasy role comment that I really resonate with. Looking back when I was in my early 20s, myself, and my friends would put these 'perfect' relationships on a pedestal and the men had the pressure to make me happy. I expected my partner to know how I was feeling, to see the world as I did and to know exactly what I wanted them to do at every point of the day (and sometimes still fall into this urge in my 30s). It's fucking EXHUASTING and a huge pressure on men. I don't know how old you are, or where you are at in life. But people do come to the realisation that love is hard, it's work and it's something you have to continously decide to love this person you're with. Through the hard times and the good times. You've got to be willing to be reflective and accountable. It's hard work. I hope you heal and find people to spend your time with who make your life fun, safe and purposeful.

On the inverse, I was taught it is OK to be both sensitive and emotive and a man. Good parents are gold.

Don’t forget butch & weak! That’s always a good combo too

@@funkyjbass7762 that is not okay bro, imagine you and your gf gets caught in a bad situation and you got all emotional and started crying........ emotions cloud reason . stay strong bro don't listen to your parents.

@@m3gad3ath Your pathetic, you don't know the difference between "emotive" and "emotional"? You think the only demonstration of emotion is "crying"? That is what is not ok. And I don't have to "imagine". When my wife was going through chemo I was both strong for her when she needed it, and emotive with her and empathetic. And cried with her. And you know what? that was OK. But I am sure your girlfriend will respond well in the same situation when you tell her to toughen up and take her concrete pill. And I am not your bro. I would be ashamed to be your bro.

@@m3gad3ath that's not what he meant. And we don't have that kind of protection duty to our girlfriends. Not anymore, not since feminism. The right thing to do is to be the way the situation calls for. If the situation calls for protection of you and your gf and the task falls on you then you shouldn't be sensitive and emotive, you have to gather all your strength and confidence and get yourselves out of danger. But when it's been a long day and you need to let the steam out, bottling it up because "what if this specific thing happens and I turn into a baby" will just make you break one day. Emotions can sometimes cloud reason. You are right in that. But emotions are also human nature, and we NEED to embrace them if we want to lead happy lives. Don't fall victim to toxic masculinity. Stay strong yourself.

“5 you have questioned your sexuality” Me during the boys sleepover:

She use to be very EVASIVE and Rude as Fuck. I appreciate bhee growth

Brett is so male-identified 😂I can see it now. When the girl cried about being assaulted at 7, Brett never once said anything or said that men that do that are a**holes. But as soon as a guy cried about a girl dumping him for opening up to her, Brett calls the girl who dumped him a B*tch. If you have self hatred as a woman, just say so ..

@@incognito3599 wish I knew the context better but as a woman she's more positioned to call out other women. Not saying I agree with her. I don't. But she's a woman and that comes with bias.

@@eatonkuntz this comment is almost too stupid to break down, first as a woman she should want to protect other women. next you act as if bias is a female trait, that makes me think you have never talked to a woman or any human. men are equally biased you are just too stupid to know. last, being a woman does not make her any more qualified to recognize awful behaviour.

Why still suicidal? You seem to be in a good place.

It's all a battle, man. But it's not hopeless. Stick with it.

What a Giga Chad man. It already sounds like such an improvement man. I am jealous 💪

Stay on your grind bro, don't worry about the ladies, cause once you have reached max level, they will be coming to you. And be very selective of them, most will just use you for your resources, not actually caring about you. But there are still some good girls out there, and as long as you are picky, you'll find a great one! Good luck brother, you got this!

Same boat, bro. Keep pushing

i’m 23 i want a woman like her such a breath of air when it seems like so many have dyed hair and anti family views

It could easily be taken that way, and at a minimum it is at least strange. Proud signifies "feeling pleasure and satisfaction because you or people connected with you have done or gotten something good." The fact you think what she is doing is good and that you get pleasure from it is great, but unless you are related, friends, or on the same sports team etc... It's just a strange way to say it. How about "you are doing great!" or "I really enjoy your content", or "it’s very refreshing to see a very driven woman still have family and feminine values". Those are great ways to say it. Not that you asked but those are my thoughts...

I caught a few errors in the video First one that comes to mind is that masturbating does not lower testosterone permanently, only momentarily and not masturbating or having sex for long periods of time also lowers testosterone. My extrapolation of the data: basically unexpectedly binge masturbating would lower testosterone a lot because your testosterone production is not adapted to the frequency of your masturbating and unexpectedly abstaining would increase testosterone a lot. masturbating often will increase production of testosterone but also masturbating will also deplete testosterone, not masturbating will decrease production of testosterone but not deplete it as much. Essentially either option masturbating often or not often, your body will adapt and have the same testosterone. Also having high testosterone correlates with masturbation frequency. There were other errors that I don't remember.

What are her feminine values? That she wears dresses? Lmao shes not feminine, shes masculine and probably unbearable as a gf

@@ProfessionalRageBaiter so, you want a woman that looks like ben shapiro wearing a wig.. xD mmm, sexuality repressed much? ;)

Hey there, I'm a teenager who has struggled with a similar issue, and just a bit of advice is to tell them whenever they feel like going back to [insert bad habit here], open their music and listen to worship, open their bibles and press play, or just simply sit down and think (no phone, no music, just sit and be) about everything. Who they want to become. Where they want to go. How they want to live. That kind of stuff. Also pray with them and break off addictions and generational curses, because addiction can 100% be a generational curse. That's all, let me know if any of this helps :) God bless, Jesus loves you, and so do I ❤

You could bring up some health benefits If not watching Porn/masterbating and talk to them about how they want their future to go, be honest and say, hey porn won’t ruin all your lives but without it, it does make life easier, you’re more motivated, you Don’t develope as much or as bad acne, you get more things done, you get more Out of life and you will find a gf quicker. (You can look up more health benefits but the important thing is, shoot straight with them. Don’t try to fear monger them but rather show them the grass is infact greener, so even if you don’t stop completely, narrow it down to like 1 day a week.

i was atheist i turned to god and he helped guide me in the right direction to stop this addiction, i heard someone say once porn is like a drug that is in your pocket at all time

some have problems with it. some do not. It is important that it exists but we need to learn to engage with it in a healthy manner and leave it up to the individual to define what that is based on their ethics, morals, goals and desires.

And they will argue that theres nothing wrong with it and that its not harming them, because they are addicts. While we can see that its damaging their mental response to natural things and ruining their expectations of real people and real life.

Your meme game is weak. Try using normal spelling and grammar.

@@SanchoPanza-wg5xf Sorry, im not even close to America, still can speak English and 3 other languages. How about you?

Men created “men’s issues” because they dislike playing on a level playing field and they resent the consequences of their own perversion. Please try to remember and understand that ALL of this was brought on by old men attempting to normalize pedophilia and “free sex”. They want it all, for themselves.

Damn, your husband is a lucky man

Lmaoooo okay Pearl

That's pretty sexist ngl

Society doesn’t care about men’s issues

There's a girl version? Lol I can't wait to see how self absorbed they're gonna be judging by your comment

Even if they are blaming other people don’t trash on it

I just came from that one. Every answer was given from a point of their perceived victimhood.

@@froliczreflex6001 not trashing on it. Just pointing out how much there is a victim mentality rather than accountability

@@theceltbeserk1 Tru. Honestly it's not really their fault bc kids don't raise themselves

Praying for you brother. God is with you. Surround yourself with other believers and keep digging into the word!

Thank you very much!

Lol the atheist kids are the ones that people stay away from at my school we're in the south

I agree with Isaiah. I’ll be praying for you too. The biggest things are surrounding yourself with like minded believers and staying in the word. You’re probably about to head out to college, so make it your priority to find a solid church wherever you go, and get involved in campus ministries too.

Mathew 5:12

When I was growing up in the 90's, not that long ago, sexuality was not really brought up that much other than in jokes and such. Now it appears it has become the main talking point/identity of most children in schools which is beyond strange to me. And this was obviously forced on them by older perverts/weirdoes. Sure, it's part of life but I don't believe it's healthy to obsess about it and try to force an identity based on it, especially while kids are growing up and their hormones are going crazy! My advice is stay a virgin Chad until you get married to the right girl/woman for the best long-term happiness/success.

im 26 now but i was like the timid scared teenager, i was innocent and didnt know how to talk to girls etc school was horrible due to the peer pressure to get involved in such things at a young age, best advice i can give you is focus on education, grades etc and dont ever chase or force relationships. all things come to those who wait regarding relationships and love, the right time will come with the right person, it may take 5 or 10 years but it'll come. do not ever feel pressured or threatened by people who try to drag you for not being a women chaser.

As a fellow 14yo, and as a female, we exist, we want to give you a little ray of hope for these problems you have. We hear you. *I* hear you. And it breaks my heart that it seems like no one cares or wants to hear what you say. Keep going my brother, you have so much to live for.

It mostly goes away when you get older. At young ages, all through high school and college it was a social pressure to have sex, but as you get older it goes away for the most part, and people stop caring.

🌈 lol 😂

I understand in the military if someone gave you shit for getting emotional because you need to be strong and have emotional control in high stress situations such as combat. But as long as you're not inconsolable and letting your emotions affect your actions its not an issue. I'm just saying there could be good reason for that concern in that context. Most men don't know how to control their emotions its either full blast rage/sadness or just bottling everything up, no in between

The most detrimental aspect of the red pill mens movement is the idea that men cannot express their emotions. There's obviously a point where breaking down and crying as a man is a stretch too far, but this idea that something wholesome bringing a tear to my eye makes me feminine? Lol say that to my face 😂

#1 most important thing is a father figure these days kids don't get it and are raised by the internet. I'm thankful I have so many good men in my life else I dont know what to would be like.

That's the strongest type of male, the one who thinks and feels for himself and doesn't act a part just because it's what other's demand or expect. I'm glad you had such a great role model.

@@therepublicrestored I get where you're coming from but when I was emotional it was during training, and running on little sleep and caffeine. When it came to combat I was actually really calm. I didn't have problems in the moment, It was when I had time to think about what I had done that I started to develop some issues. Diagnosed with PTSD, got help, and everything is all good now.

Why does she look female Ben shapiro?

​@@Gonnafuckmaybe she is lmao

@@Gonnafuckidk go ask her

The "it's ok phrase" is always associated with accepting weakness and bad behavior

Wrong, not in Brett's case and many others. Grow a brain, Phil K. @@phillipkleopas7230

@@phillipkleopas7230If you think acceptance is bad, than I suppose accepting you into school to teach you how to speak was also a bad idea.

@@poliznia Accepting weakness and bad behavior can not be compared to accepting someone in school

@@phillipkleopas7230does’t mean its always though

Be proud and I know it‘s hard, but try to speak your mind. All of us being vulnerable and truthful is the only way out of this misery!

As an EX Adult ⭐ say it!! Use these videos. Ur not alone

Hey don't say generation because this is only happening in certain countries, everywhere else as freedom of speech

Bro I think I am watching too much attack on titan, I read Female Titan at the start.

Just know, 5 years after school, you will only see a handful of those same people from school. Dont worry about what they think. Be nice, respectful, but f--- 'em.

Don’t give up man and lean on God’s grace so you can have the strength to fight it.

@@beatrizcorrea5618 I won't. I pray to the lord for strength so that I can continue to fight my demons.

So sorry to hear about your struggle. Don’t give up and keep fighting. Go forward as the defender of innocence and take what you have learned to help others

This is honestly so raw and open and I love it. It's so hard to be vulnerable to people these days, so the fact that you can post this comment despite all the self hatred is just so awesome to me. I understand the struggle of going back to something that will hurt you, and what I find helpful is listening to music or distracting myself, if that doesn't help I open up my Bible app and just hit play wherever I left off last. It's a very difficult battle and it's hard to talk about, but I am so proud of you for trying to break the pattern, overcome, and grow, as well as leaving this here for other people to understand and be encouraged. Thank you for having the courage to be honest, and I truly hope you win this battle and realize that it's alright to be human, but living for God is about being more than just human. You got this. If you need support you can respond to me and I can give you contacts. God bless you hun, Jesus loves you and so do I ❤

@@alli_ocat Thank you so much... I've been praying to the lord for strength to help fight my demons and telling very close friends about my predicament to set up a support system. It's been a real hard struggle. Every day it's like I'm engaged in a battle of wits with the devil himself, trying to deny the intrusive thoughts that barge their way in. Each one more visceral and tempting than the last. "If I'm struggling this much, I may as well give up and wait until I'm in a better place." "What if I just give in? wear it out so that it's no longer appealing? Maybe that'll work..." "It doesn't really matter, does it? I mean, none of it's real, none of it's hurting anyone..." These are the kind of thoughts I get on a daily basis, thoughts that only last until post-nut clarity and I realize the gravity of my mistake. But I've been doing it. Day in, day out. Fighting the good fight so that I can feel deserving of god's love and the love of those around me, and finally feel clean, free from all this corruption.

Remember, all fee mails support perjury by fee mails. You should be asking your mother why she supported fee mails crimes against men because as a teen girl you are going to live with the backlash your mother and grand mother caused.

Think 4chan.

In jail.

Lol. That would never happen.

@@GomersPile01 is fee mail supposed to be female? either way i got a stroke reading this

same

I lost my person, too. My twin sister died September 27, 2021 .... I couldn't imagine losing her that young!

I was gonna say something similar but this sums it up. Well said, dude. But to add one thing: to share someone’s pain and triumph temporarily through a screen as they’re laying events out how they experienced them, is so powerful. It amazes me how that passes by us so quickly now. It’s become part of our daily phone experience so we forget the power of it. Follower counts and views are so unimportant to the power of a video.

Brett is NOT genuine at all , she is being paid to sit there and and voice an opinion that she reads off a telepromter she does not write her own copy or responses. Do not forget this girl is only 21 years old and she tries to come across as someone with 30 or 40 yeas life experience, wich she clearly does not have.

@@willemoranje She's actually very genuine, to talk about something like that, in such a personal way, it's very unlikely that it wasn't truly coming from the bottom of her heart. I believe she said and meant every word of it. I am certain it wasn't written on a teleprompter (you cannot see her reading it, and when she looks up from the side angle she's just looking at the main camera), but even if it was, it's still genuine.

I am the oldest and have 2 younger brothers and i couldnt imagine

Good stuff. I still deal with insecurity sometimes, which I can say for sure has to do with porn. Just keep it up and set yourself up for success in your adult years. I've squandered so much time, but I'm getting back on track and I'm happy with how things are. But I'd be doing better if I had just cut out porn and just ignored social media. I just use KZfaq for hobby stuff and positive content like this video. It's much better than opening twitter to drake's penis and seeing the women opine about penises.

I'm proud of you man. Also though, your YT handle might be your full name, so I would think of changing that unless it's a pseudonym

Im glad you could quit bro!! I quit last year in october, while being a junior. Life changer. Hows everything goign now?

The porn addiction thing didn't exist when I was a teenager, internet didn't really exist properly until my 20's, and we where going to parties every weekend chasing girls, today is a different world and not for the better.

@@kingcosworth2643 bro I would have done anything to be a teenager in like the early 00s or even late 00s

A partner's body is just so much better when you are not under the numbing effect of porn.. Every good thing becomes toxic if you over do it.

Man wrote an entire 7 million word essay of porn

I sick and tired of it too buddy. Two days ago I swore to myself to not m@sturbate but today I ended up watching porn and m@sturbating. I hate myself for not being able to control myself, It hadn't been a decade for me, but it has been half a decade. Anything you wanna share on how to get rid of this addiction?

@@rookiedraconian7852 find other things to do like going outside

@@rookiedraconian7852 Me too, I have tried, but failed yet am trying everyday. At best what i realised contemplating on this addiction and how it attacks is that as soon as I hit my triggers, my brain autopilots into this storm of urge to consume porn, the goal being unnatural amount of dopamine release. So what I am currently trying to do is, avoid triggers like staying up late, soft porn content etc, and I am also trying to replace that habit of porn for dopamine, with exercise and prolly a journal where I can write for better clarity. You know something that makes me feel good about myself. However, I can only talk about things that I have gone through buddy, you will have to sit with yourself and contemplate at a much deeper level and experiment with what works and what doesn't. You can also got professional help. I do recommend the book ''Power of habit'' I am also in the middle of it and have found some answers there, I hope it will be of some help to you too. All the best brother, you are not the only one.

Jesus cares

Man that sounds painful. What happened to you?

Fr even tho their faces where censored n stuff it still takes a certain amount of courage to go in front of the camera like that

@@J.I.D.999 Yep, I agree.

That sucks, it is honestly depressing that you can't share your opinion, even with respect. This really shows who is the real "oppressed" group. Also, why do they think you are gay? Doesn't make any sense, but at least you didn't get suspended. And one last thing, really sucks that schools are that way now, mine would have not suspended your friends, and isntead really search what happened, they have never taken serious consequences on someone without proper investigation. I am lucky to be in a good school.

Just more reason to NEVER hang out with any sort of rainbow person. Just rats looking to mess with everyone else. We need to go back to NOT including them in everything.

I was also always thought of as gay even though I repeatedly expressed I was not.

Hell I'm gay and nobody suspected a thing until last year where I changed my attitude to be more effeminate. My sister would even argue that I'm homophobic and whatnot because I didn't support the LGBT, I secretly just didn't want to be associated with the cringe I saw irl and online.

Ya

That is terrible, how can these people question your grief? My heartfelt condolences to you!

I hope you feel better, My condolences.

Those aren’t true friends brother I’m sorry. Even if you don’t understand just be there for those you care about

You should get new friends because those ones are kinda toxic

They're not your friends.

R.I.P. sorry for your loss😢❤🙏

@@laurenmasters Thank you

My little brother was murdered in November. He was 28. Still hard to fathom. He wasn’t involved in drugs or violence or anything. He had just beat cancer a few months prior after many months of chemo. He was happy, had lots of friends, and a big heart. He just couldn’t say no to people in need. But when finally he had to push someone away for their manic behavior and violent tendencies, they showed up unannounced on a Sunday morning. They walked into his house and walked out 6 minutes later. Still hard to believe.

@@r.t.hannah9575 I'm so sorry! May he rest in peace!

I'm so sorry for your lost. May she rest in peace

FR yeah

Agreed!

agreed

Hang in there kiddo. I promise it gets better. “This too shall pass.” You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and a great perspective of life. You got this sweetheart! Your generation is going to guide my elderly years!❤

Keep pushing bro, you got this!

You got this

It’s pretty disappointing that Brett gets perceived as an “industry plant” instead of just being recognized for talent, heart, and competence

FACTS

Ew boy mom