#153

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In this episode, Vishal Punjabi, founder of The Wedding Filmer, takes us through his remarkable journey from working with Bollywood legend Shah Rukh Khan to becoming a pioneer in cinematic wedding filmmaking.
Vishal recounts the pivotal moments in his life including his deportation from India, challenges in Ghana, and the creation of his highly regarded wedding films. He delves into the intricacies of wedding emotions, cultural differences in marriages, and the hurdles of capturing high-profile weddings.
Additionally, Vishal reflects on personal struggles like a shelved film, a breakup, and his divorce, and shares his most valuable lesson from Shah Rukh Khan. This heartfelt conversation concludes with insights into his upcoming wedding and the lessons he's learned about love and destiny.\
00:00 The Beginning of a Career and Unexpected Deportation
01:47 The Wedding Filmer: From Concept to Reality
05:23 Challenges and Triumphs in Wedding Filmmaking
13:26 The Evolution of Indian Weddings
29:17 Love Stories and Modern Relationships
32:58 Changing Narratives of Love
33:40 Coping with Divorce While Filming Weddings
35:33 Struggles and Therapy
38:43 Marriage for the Wrong Reasons
40:09 Wedding Traditions and Customs
44:35 Choosing Clients and Filming Challenges
51:08 A Special Wedding Experience
54:33 Personal Love Story and Belief in Destiny
01:02:13 Lessons from Shah Rukh Khan
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@adimudgal 12 күн бұрын

How many people here came after the news on the big bollywood celebrity caught by his wife with another Bollywood actress.

@rishabh9627 12 күн бұрын

I just want to know what time period is he talking about If its after 2022 or covid then I can make a calculated guess on who that actor is and with which actress he slept with

@rachanasingh2025 12 күн бұрын

Same

@rishabh9627 12 күн бұрын

@@adimudgal does anybody know the timestamp when he said this in the podcast

@janhavisavla9654 12 күн бұрын

Timestamp!

@user-xw2fp2jj7m 12 күн бұрын

Who could he be talking about ..ranveer ?

@chitramohanraj26 21 күн бұрын

Apart from the content of the podcast, it's amazing how softly he speaks.

@vidyaasvideos 21 күн бұрын

This man filmed my very close friends wedding and he shot me dance for her! When I saw the film reel I cried, it was so beautiful! So surreal!

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

Love this, he really is the best 💛

@Dr.vascodagama 13 күн бұрын

Ikr really want some one like him but how much does it costs tho?

@shreyasiddhi2367 6 күн бұрын

How much does he charge?

@bilal_ahmed1011 20 күн бұрын

There's something arrestingly alluring about the interviewer that really struck out for me. Kudos to her, loved the interview.

@shamspuri2493 12 күн бұрын

Hats off to this guy - when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade was the secret of some of his success in rural Ghana.

@laptoproyale4681 17 күн бұрын

This man is so pure and the purity is visible in his wedding videos

@florettt 22 күн бұрын

Easily one of the best conversations! So calm, so therapeutic. Lots of love.

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words 💛

@preyasarkar4522 7 күн бұрын

Having seen too many podcasts by now. I think this is one of the most naturally flowing ones with great followup questions depending on the previous answers and it felt so smooth and natural. Great quality content i would say. Something really calming about shivani and how she frames the questions. Very comforting.

@rishikajain8722 18 күн бұрын

This is the most heartfelt podcast I've ever seen. For someone who loved love to becoming someone who is now so frightened of it. This video lights a little spark in my heart. Love is clearly to be embraced and not feared. Congratulations, @vishalpunjabi, on finding love. I love this video. Thank you both for having made this. And KZfaq algorithm or destiny or perhaps the Ambani wedding drama that I found this. Love and light to everyone in love out of love and learning to love again.❤

@moumitadey1014 6 күн бұрын

This feels less like a podcast and more like a therapy session, thanks for this heart to heart ♥️

@ImranFazalIIlahiphoenix 15 күн бұрын

This man Vishal seems a great guy. Wishes for him, his team, Shivani and her team

@surbhisardana3029 22 күн бұрын

The conversation is so relatable. His voice is so soothing and how he is making sure that he puts his heart out there, makes me connect with it even more. ❤

@ShivaniPauPodcast 22 күн бұрын

Ah thank you so much for watching!!

@sridevni 13 күн бұрын

Seems like a nice conversation but his voice is so soft can't hear clearly 😢😢

@learnwithpreetha 21 күн бұрын

Aww..This guy is so warm… I wish I find someone like him ❤❤

@NS11174 20 күн бұрын

This was such an amazing interview as Vishal has shared his life journey it sounded so beautiful. That all pain & struggle seems healed. Lovely conversation the questions were just right to ask the answers were just filled with real deep insights! I thoroughly enjoyed it till the end. Also when he mentioned about the sensitivity about Man that they often get misunderstood and don't really get chances to tell their story. I can feel that pain for a man ❤ Wishing you a blessed and happy married life and loads of success! Great efforts Shivani amazing narrative & work 👏!

@tamtam1971 21 күн бұрын

Loved this interview… he seems so genuine and honest person!

@ShivaniSharma-vt5bx 16 күн бұрын

Absolutely loved his interview! I loved all the anecdotes! He is so candid! Loved his stories! Wow he does a great work magical videography! A life well lived ❤

@NamraShahid-mp1qx 6 күн бұрын

He is such a deeep and honest man. RARE. ❤

@truptilokhande8948 22 күн бұрын

Heyyy lovely conversation...he is answering so calmly and frankly.

@ShivaniPauPodcast 22 күн бұрын

Thank you!! Yes he’s such a wonderful person! Loved our convo!

@nasreenshaikh6071 21 күн бұрын

I have not watched any interview at the length thus far but this one was truly amazing both the guest and the host were Outstanding!!!

@nishthamahawar 22 күн бұрын

Congratulations on your wedding Vishal. Such a lovely interview. ❤

@winniebuxani5847 7 күн бұрын

A very interesting insight into the brilliance behind the man who brings emotions in weddings to life. Also you’re amazing at navigating the interview to bring out his authentic self in this interview.

@prernachauhan8780 20 күн бұрын

Always been a fan of this man's craft! What a heartwarming podcast, fell in love with his personality too! So articulate and soft spoken,both of you! It was like a melody.. great conversation! Watched your podcast for the first time Shivani, you're gorgeous!!!! All your reactions were soooo US! haha like id react the sameee way. Thanks for an amazing one hour guys! Congratulations Vishal :)

@ShivaniPauPodcast 20 күн бұрын

Lovely message and feedback to read 💛 Thank you for watching

@saz741 20 күн бұрын

Very interesting conversation and yet he had so much more to say .!

@Archer396 22 күн бұрын

His family is the most interesting of all😂😅 Lovely podcast…. Apt questions! And Congratulations Vishal🎉

@kalpanar1371 22 күн бұрын

One key takeaway...experimenting with something one loves and being good at it...

@shreyasiddhi2367 6 күн бұрын

His voice his therapeutic...❤❤❤ This video is like a Therapy

@veenaann11 15 күн бұрын

Loved this interview . Vishal is so down to earth and hilarious !!

@anushreeshukla6178 22 күн бұрын

Saw this on the reel and immediately came to KZfaq to find the whole video. Really nice. Would love to connect with you some time and I’m too into the creative field !

@vincesalzer9855 6 күн бұрын

This was very unique and different for me. Learned lots of new things...which I love to do Thank you!

@divyanshi1996 15 күн бұрын

Suchhhhhh a nice podcast!!!! Amazing listen ❤❤❤ lots of love to both of you 🙏🙏💗💗

@truthserum106 21 күн бұрын

A very eloquent interview...after soo many years

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for listening 💛

@sudiptahoskote103 19 күн бұрын

Like? I love this chat! I chanced upon this one, this has really taken me by surprise. Never knew Vishal Punjabi has so much of history & geography to his life ;) Entire chat is lovely but the real scoop starts from 52:00-56:00 that blew my mind :)) Btw, Belated Happy Birthday, Vishal! & Thank you Shivani for doing this :)

@farhanaahmed2176 17 күн бұрын

Awesome interview, Congratulations 🎉

@Hope-uq1vn 11 күн бұрын

Not heard of this gentleman prior to this podcast. What a delight he is. Name me any woman who did not fall in love with him after this interview.

@TJ-ym6nv 12 күн бұрын

i've never heard of this guy, but i kept listening to him.

@zebarizvi9393 8 күн бұрын

He voice is so soothing .. listening him can ve good bedtime story

@srk54989 14 күн бұрын

I love his videos. I'm enjoying this interview even more. I think he has amazing personality.

@aakhyasharma9949 6 күн бұрын

oh my god! such a BEAUTIFUL man he is! RARE!

@hastaqshidhingra2931 19 күн бұрын

awesome 😍the destiny, the love❤❤

@HouseofAmu 22 күн бұрын

This was a brilliant conversation ✨

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

So kind, thank you for watching 💛

@anchitasrivastava7608 7 күн бұрын

This conversation reminds me of the show made in heaven

@zerogravityblues 10 күн бұрын

Such a beautiful interview ❤

@subhra_mohanty 22 күн бұрын

I couldn’t stop smiling the entire 59 minutes ❤

@ShivaniPauPodcast 22 күн бұрын

Awwwww 💛💛💛

@subhra_mohanty 22 күн бұрын

@@ShivaniPauPodcast This has to be one the best podcasts I’ve ever watched ❤️

@84LA84 14 күн бұрын

Hey, just wanted to clarify that the song in Deepikas and Ranveers wedding was a Sikh prayer not a song ❤

@Hope-uq1vn 11 күн бұрын

Precisely, thank you pointing that out.

@gayatriugra4380 11 күн бұрын

@@AMPA33Sikhs : pronounced Sikhs or Seekhs please, not Sicks

@swetadutta6447 16 күн бұрын

It was less of a podcast, more of a spiritual journey!

@pranil.s.mhaisgawali6072 18 күн бұрын

A beautiful podcast❤

@DearSamClan 12 күн бұрын

Lv the conversation...

@Canyouseemeanna 10 күн бұрын

The PR team is really coming on strong in this comment section. It was a pretty average interview and the comments are behaving as if some big philospher was talking 😂. Reply to my comment if you can see this and its not deleted.

@GS-ky5ts 9 күн бұрын

For sure 😂😂

@PriyankaSharma-ee8sb 6 күн бұрын

😅

@neisham7478 4 күн бұрын

Agree this guy has no problem throwing people under the bus in his other interviews.

@ronitafernandes 5 күн бұрын

That comment of choosing to be with the person you’ve married even if you want to throw them off a building made by Vishal is so true. Love is indeed a choice and not a feeling. That’s often the mistake that people make. If they don’t feel the butterflies they felt during their courtship period they think they relationship ain’t working. There are genuine deal breakers. However, those who want the marriage to work need to put in an equal amount of work to keep the relationship alive.

@9vigil 5 күн бұрын

I had to stop the video and write this comment. They mentioned love and, religion and customs as separate entities. I beg to differ. A marriage has lots to do with family, values and traditions (because wedding itself is traditions or else live-in works for some). Also, Kanya Daan is not handing over control, rather lovingly guiding one's daughter to her new roles and responsibilities (like every adult should for the society to continue functioning) and doing so sacrificing a father's selfish love for his daughter. Kanya Daan is considered the pious of all sacrifices parents make. Of course in this day and age and technology everyone is closer and connected. No one really loses touch with anyone and are financially well off and capable to take care of multiple people. But this tradition is beautiful as it signifies the love and sacrifices of parents and also a young woman who is going to take on new responsibilities.

@yeshajain7366 12 күн бұрын

feels like watching making of 'mAde in heaven' web series so relatable

@nabilaxo9157 21 күн бұрын

what an interesting guest! enjoyed every second, you always have the best conversations

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

Ahh that's so kind of you, thank you for listening 💛

@sweettooth7472 10 күн бұрын

Congratulations Vishal🎉

@saz741 20 күн бұрын

Just wondering aloud whether the wedding photographer in made in heaven was inspired by him .😀coz so many things add ! When I was listening to him it was just like going flash back to the made in heaven series.

@saniaasan 11 күн бұрын

Totally adds up, yup!

@Kathakathan11 10 күн бұрын

I am sure there are many like that… go to any top wedding page and stalk the different professional pages, I do that as I am interested in the field for a while

@deepalinayak6519 11 күн бұрын

Who is here after that spicy news 😂😂 hit likes 👍

@ElvinEmmanuel 22 күн бұрын

Congrats Vishal & Niki, great interview.

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 💛

@riyabaid2443 22 күн бұрын

Loved this one so much…. Therapeutic

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

You're so kind, thank you for listening 💛

@mayageorge9375 11 күн бұрын

Loved the podcast

@Enshootmadbeka 18 күн бұрын

So Made in Heaven is this guy’s story 😁

@faiaz1685 20 күн бұрын

The man has an amazingly soft voice!

@priyaonthego6113 5 күн бұрын

He overstayed his visa. Took it casually! Come on, thats serious. Imagine if it was a US visa and he overstayed. 😮

@dimpleramchandani5914 18 күн бұрын

Amazing interview ❤

@NC-dm4wc 21 күн бұрын

Your make up looks amazing! This interview rocks🎉

@ShivaniPauPodcast 20 күн бұрын

You're so sweet. Thank you so much 💛

@JG-hq4cd 11 күн бұрын

He says he didnt get a chance to explain as generally men are at fault when theres a divorce but he named his ex wife and said she cheated on him and he was working on the relationship on a public platform. Amazing😂

@Canyouseemeanna 10 күн бұрын

He also never mentions breaking up with his girlfriend in Ghana.

@sanaafsal 21 күн бұрын

Just when you think you can't love Shah Rukh Khan anymore, he gives you another reason ❤

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

He's the best there is 💛

@bunny_kapoor 10 күн бұрын

He is rapist

@vishakha20111 9 күн бұрын

His conversation style and speaking is so much like SRK

@priyankabiswas3716 11 күн бұрын

I think ow actor Farhan Aktar hei... & shibani... Because vishal punjabi ki Instagram story highlight mein dono ki weddings picture hei... But koi wedding video nehi hei.... 😮😮 farhan aktar e hoga...

@deepanshirawat9526 22 күн бұрын

Wow great podcast ❤

@ShivaniPauPodcast 21 күн бұрын

Thank you so much 💛

@KomalSharma-yk6mz 7 күн бұрын

Who came here after The Spill Bee??

@payalyadav5985 7 күн бұрын

Present ma'am 😂

@KomalSharma-yk6mz 6 күн бұрын

@@payalyadav5985 😂😂

@sumitkain 2 күн бұрын

I was brought here automatically after the spill bee video ended

@akshatha1kesari 11 күн бұрын

@Mrwhosetheboss - awwww....how nice to hear about you feom him...

@snehaelizebeth6146 19 күн бұрын

Ih my God, his voice❤❤❤❤❤

@bumblebee2956 22 күн бұрын

Just one suggestion…keep your wedding intimate and small 🎉😅

@avik6771 6 күн бұрын

His voice ❤

@user-nn6de9dd2i 10 күн бұрын

Mr. Punjabi,you haven't been to a real Goan Christian wedding. We have a beautiful church ceremony with vows and blessings. At the receptionist we do have the cutting of the wedding cake with raising of the toast to the couple speeches and dancing and partying.

@rhichadilipdharurkar9182 16 күн бұрын

Kanyadan is not literally the meaning of it, Pandit ji nowdays explains meaning of every ritual all the rituals are meaningful and pure

@chintuperi 5 күн бұрын

Renewal of Visa is a basic rule to follow. And when an individual does not get renewal and they are deported for the same. He says they just made a huge thing about it? Sir, the rules are made for our convenience, you just follow the rules and not make a huge deal about it.

@usersname11 4 күн бұрын

Thank you! Generally found him just manipulative with his tone. Change of government after 26/11? Visa ban lifted by Pranab Mukherjee? Grooms footing wedding bills?

@kiransahni100 11 күн бұрын

Kanyadaan is the essence of Indian marriage, its the most misunderstood ritual,it was meant as a "Daan" act of charity to the boys family, because women were given a very high status in Vedic culture, but over centuries has morphed and become a burden, its actually an act of special donation to the groom.

@Kathakathan11 10 күн бұрын

No, in my mother’s wedding her grandfather did kanyadaan and he said to my father that she will always be my daughter first whatsoever, I don’t care how, but when I call and she wants to come back, she should never be stopped. If you honour that then only marry my daughter. My father kept that promise and whenever we would get call from her father, in good times, in bad times, my father would drive us there without any hesitation….

@anushkashirke 22 күн бұрын

He sounds like SRK

@akshatashetty3643 11 күн бұрын

Kanya daan doesn't mean giving away your daughter.... it means I am doing a favor (daan) by giving you my daughter take care of her.... here daan means upkaar like rakt daan

@PragPh15 17 күн бұрын

This was an eye opener!.. Didn't knew this man has shallow views for Indian traditional customs that are done in most of Indian weddings. The way he is mocking important customs like Kanyadaan and Gur-chadai only shows how irrelevant he is to Indian weddings. No wonder he himself is divorced and has a playboy history wherever he lived for 2 years.😅 ...Somebody saying having a pregnant girlfriend is not a good enough reason for marriage, only shows what his life principles are.Thanks for showing his real face.😂

@sdeva1016 10 күн бұрын

Do u know the meaning of Kanyadaan 😅

@Kathakathan11 10 күн бұрын

Sikh hai, kya hi expect karoge,.. He didn’t tell you that there are matrilineal families in Kerala, mostly Kerala Brahmins. In many coastal communities there is no dowry system. Dowry exists among all religions actually, as long as it’s an arranged marriage.

@Oshin15 16 күн бұрын

This man seems to be such a class liar.. I could smell lies when he talked about his ex wife and kind of threw her under the bus for the separation.. and then his first meeting with his now wife seems to be too Bollywood dreamy sequence to be true.. finally, he could come back to India because of SRK and did not even stick around with him for a moment.. that blows my mind !

@priyaonthego6113 5 күн бұрын

And who will believe that the foreign minister of the Republic of India intervened for someone who overstayed his visa!

@ChitraPoojari123 9 күн бұрын

SRK genuinely is a nice person. Everyone has good things to say about him.

@namitasud2100 9 күн бұрын

Kanyadaan is not giving away your daughter to the other family. It is giving away of the gotra(the lineage you are born under) of the parents' family & accepting the gotra of the husband's family coz you will be carrying the boy:s family name ahead. People without knowledge have misinterpreted the word Kanyadaan into literal translation of the word. Please be educated about your own customs & traditions.

@Subhashish69 10 күн бұрын

Great self marketing, selling by Vishal - his remarks on a Bollywood philanderer has gone viral...

@user-uj8jk1gi7c 5 күн бұрын

His mic placement is so far, I can barely hear him so i keep cranking up the volume but the girls voice is LOUDER. I wish the volumes for both speakers were matched. I just CANNOT hear the guy.

@mominaelahe 20 күн бұрын

Hey I am your 131 subscriber 🙋🏻‍♀️ Mai apko ye kahna chahti hun ke ap ne bohut difficult Hindi boli hain Agar ap chahte ha ke apko aur log be dekhay tu ap apne channel ka name Thora attractive rakhy aur essay words bola kare ta ke Indian ke wergra be log apko dekh sakhy Lots of love from 🇵🇰

@monabhishek 13 күн бұрын

This was a great podcast to watch . Many congratulations to Vishal and Nikki , I wish them all the very best and all the happiness ❤🎉. P.S. : About Kanyadaan, it's been misinterpreted, Kanyadaan is about the Kanya ( bride) Daan ( donating ) her gitra back to her parents because she is going to adapt her husband's family gotra. Also , I don't see anything wrong in apologising to the guests that is the groom side if there has been any error in the hosting , we all do in our day today lives infact even the Ambanis did that . If we can see beauty in multiple divorces and yet coming back together , I think the perception has to be applied in our customs as well ❤❤❤. Best wishes .

@jarnailgrewal1796 22 күн бұрын

You guys needs better mic …poor voice

@user-fm8ld1ui3p 18 күн бұрын

It's not bad ..he's really soft spoken 😊I can hear Shivani properly but I had to use headphones to hear Vishal n if you hear his other interviews that's how he talks .really softly

@priyaonthego6113 5 күн бұрын

Yes, my headphones are top volume

@Blacklisted747. 21 күн бұрын

Amazing podcast ❤ but voice quality is really poor.

@bhavyakapoor2050 21 күн бұрын

sound quality so bad

@anukakar3370 12 күн бұрын

Who might be the bollywood actor he is referring to

@suhailpasha1734 12 күн бұрын

I too came here to know abt it😊😂

@Mariyamalisid 12 күн бұрын

Timestamp?

@somamangnaanii4787 2 күн бұрын

24 years ago

@Abd12312 22 күн бұрын

❤

@yasminniazi6494 18 күн бұрын

Congratulations Vishal .... Hope you & Nikki have a beautiful life together 🫶 I just loved your story of how you fell in love ... & You seem to be a beautiful soul.