I love that she is very honest and chooses not to define her children by appearance or society's standards.. Truth is we all need such spaces in our homes. Seems to me like it is all about love. Loving our children for who they truly are and therefore celebrating their uniqueness... I hope that we can hear some more on how she has identified her children's callings and dreams and how she stirs them to it mostly spiritually & psycologically.

Uncle Derrick; this conversation is so cardinal.

I really like how you merged Runyankole and English to convey it. You simply make me proud of my lineage.

Wonderful message..most children have left their parents' homes due to criticism

Top tier content. Relevant to all generations. A safe space for Vulnerability must be cultivated by parents for transparency and effective communication to children = relationship.

This is such a powerful message! Kudos! Definitely sharing with every old parent I know.

Such an insightful conversation handsdown

An authentic conversation! Beautiful !

I was patiently waiting for it kudos to Wondor Jr it's educative and it has powerful insights to learn I I wish you God's blessings

This is dope. Nice conversation.

If all the mother's can take a leaf 🍀 from all this important message,Big bro for all the awareness

Such an awesome time to be alive!

So much truth in this. Keep them coming!

Hardest thing to do is raise a child...really. Like how do you mould a person for almost 25 years and present the product to the world...like, that's my child standing right there...the emotions that go between both entities, how you tame them, etc...looking at what all our parents have done for all of us, maaannn, how do you even pay them...how much they've forgiven us for our ignorant decisions, how they've put their backs as shields for us, simanyi nakumanya, bikaabya n'amaziga...

Great conversation. Thanks for bringing it to light 🙏

I like Mrs Allen Kaginas wisdom All parents should take a leaf 🌿

This is awesome content

I love this and I’m in my 40’s 😂😂. Subscribing

Thanks so much for being exemplary

Beautiful show thank you Mr.Wonder 🥰

This has really been timely. I am raising a 6year old and yooooo this young lady runs to the door as I leave the house and she says Mummy today am going to listen....I laugh knowing that she means the reverse and as I pray and mother her..I surely know that there is a strong beautiful person behind her. I need to play my role and not compare her to the society standards.. Thanks alot Mum for sharing. I really admire you and the grace that is reflected on the outside of you. To these gentlemen Thanks for being open and selfless 🙏

This was so good, you are really doing Gods work bridging the gap between generations. Something i have personally been unpacking is how much abuse specifically child sexual abuse is happening so secretly imbedded in a lot of family cultures and yet sometimes it feels like that behavior is so normalized and i dont think its a natural part of our culture. Grateful for this space and for you all who are stepping up to make our cultures better and more loving. Also boys are so neglected but put on such a pedestal and adultified Girls too in their own ways but Boys be carrying so much in some of our cultures. Also I am so curious what that generation thought post colonialism was going to be like

I think this is a Lovely conversation, especially in the Ugandan / African context. I enjoyed the "vybes" haha. There is a lot that I agree with, and some that I don't. I find that there are two common parenting styles; the first parenting style, I would call 'the Commander' who must be obeyed otherwise kiboko. The Commander is common in Uganda [and perhaps Africa]. The second parenting style, I would call 'the Colleague' who befriends the child and grants independence. The Commander hopes to protect you from mistakes. The Colleague hopes to be with you when you make the mistakes. The Bible is the best place to learn how parents ought to raise their children, since children are a gift from the God of the Bible. Using the two earlier examples, I believe the Bible paints parenting as a combination of both parenting styles - a parent who clearly shows the boundaries, warns when you're walking toward danger, trains you in godliness - AND - weeps with you over mistakes, helps you repent, rejoices with you over God's direction for your life even when it's different from what they expected. One more thing the Bible offers in wisdom is that if the parent is / becomes a Christian, they can pray to the Lord for the salvation of their children - something that no person can do for/to another.

Such a wholesome conversation. Glad I bumped onto this!

I really appreciate this podcast. Thanks guys for tackling the hard topics that people always want to shy away from yer they are very important and essential to both families and society. Thanks Mum for doing a great job of raising very individualistic children yet so respectful. Kudos to you. Keep it going.

Mark is a dope guy bambi🤠

Yessirrr🔥 #conversationsthatmatter

Woooooooow love this

What an insightful dialogue! Thankful for spaces like this 🙏 Keep up the good work wonder 👏

As i watch this video i observe elements of sharing independent opinions,shaping advices in a flexible way and a degree of maturity.Thank you for this video.

Keep doing what your doing. This was a great listen, i enjoyed it.

Great job you deserve fruits of your hustle

She’s so graceful ✨

Wonder, this is lovely.

This is as real as it gets. Surely delighted to have come across this.

I would have loved to hear more from Mark, him seems to be a very sharp chap

Well spent 25 minutes watching this...subscribed ,liked, 🔔 for notifications

🥰🥰 amazing conversation

Very nice....I wish we had heard more from Ms Allen Kagina.....she is really full of wisdom

This guy is a prophet of our time.

wow.....this is an interesting piece...great stuff WonderJr

Wow very beautiful en honest conversation

Yessss

This is truly an amazing exchange, kudos

Lots of love.

Insightful ❤

Kwonka please next time let the guest talk more. We want to learn from them

Heartwarming conversation

Wow 👍 great conversation

Good content. Great!

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Thanks for sharing.

So dopee! Learnt a lot from this ep🤩

We need to educate our children more than "force " them. Like persuading or training them in right principles such that they see the benefits and don't depart from them.

Love it 👌👏

This is nice

How comes had not seen this channel 👌

The background music at some point was a bit loud

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I love you guys😍

Where have you been?? Nice show. Really Nice.. Big up

Mr. JR, with all due respect to you, kindly try giving enough time to your guests and we hear more from them, am not trying to re-empty your views and values.

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She makes very many good points but let me just say this...I hope in the near by future you could use better cameras while shooting your production

If all mothers understand like her singa Kati Uganda esinga bulaya

Good interview, but dude you talk more than the people you've hosted.

Wow. 😭

On behalf of single association,, is Allen's son married 😅😅

She aren't ready to describe her son by his looks.

Moderator u r too wordy, we need to here the old ladies opinion on bridging the gap.

Amazima nimarungi omwana w'omwojo kukuza atyo ishokye kandi ari omunyankore nihano, Allen kagiina hona eki nenkyi 🤔🤔🤔 let's be honest!!!

@wonderjr fabulous work