Bright Lights: what one woman's 25-year gambling addiction really cost

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‘Sharon’ has been addicted to poker machines 'pokies' since they first arrived in Australia in 1992.
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Through this animated documentary, she reveals the devastating impact gambling has had on her life. Her story culminates with an incident that pushes her over the edge: an encounter with her seven-year-old daughter and her precious piggy bank.
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@theGuardian 3 жыл бұрын

If you want to know more you can read our Q&A with the filmmaker ► www.theguardian.com/news/2021/jan/25/bright-lights-an-animated-exploration-of-the-devastating-grip-of-poker-machines

@kennethcarpenterii7636 4 ай бұрын

Do a video on pull tabs. Business owners drop thousands a day in the chase for the win

@astropioneer3296 12 күн бұрын

Great short film. Creatively evokes what the living nightmare for this woman and her family. I remember when gambling was illegal. Now it is state sanctioned as a way to generate revenue, nevermind how many lives are destroyed in the process. I hope “Sharon,” and the countless others in active addiction, find help and a way out.

@thebpulse6477 Жыл бұрын

The absolute worst feeling in the world is when you get back into your car after a really bad loss and look off into the distance completely stunned trying to comprehend the massive error you’ve made

@chinita249 Жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one

@smellsuperb1 Жыл бұрын

You're not the only one, either of you 🤦🏾‍♂️☹️😭 5 years and 3 days gambling free

@5trace Жыл бұрын

@@smellsuperb1 That's amazing.

@gucciadjective7745 Жыл бұрын

I'm not an addict but I know that feeling after losing winnings.

@BlusViews Жыл бұрын

You are so right!

@user-qh1mj5zq8e 8 ай бұрын

The thing about gambling addiction is that it doesn't matter how much you win; you're not playing to win. You're playing to keep playing.

@adrianserpas5191 7 ай бұрын

Facts

@barryschalkwijk9388 6 ай бұрын

And even if you can resist sinking your wins (i did for a long time) the graph still keeps dipping down. There is no win at the end of the tunnel that can save you either way.

@kevlyth1712 4 ай бұрын

Play poker, be patient, people give money away, casinos don’t.

@ZachAsaD 2 ай бұрын

You actually win though

@stevensbrugnera5454 Жыл бұрын

”there’s not a jackpot big enough to win back what you’ve lost and you’re still there" That hit hard

@diamondbackdtb Жыл бұрын

gambling is no joke. I am lucky that I keep a budget and control my gambling somewhat, but every time i get stuck chasing losses. my mind would focus on those losses and I would trick myself into thinking that I could win it back. you win more by not playing at all really.

@joshuamoore9751 Жыл бұрын

@@diamondbackdtbthanks for your comment. So true

@sexydudeuk2172 Жыл бұрын

That's why I never gamble. You lose more then you win and it exploits your greed

@joshuamoore9751 Жыл бұрын

@@sexydudeuk2172 sexaddictduquie that's a true comment.

@hbrotha1866 Жыл бұрын

@@sexydudeuk2172 it’s evil, it plays on you’re emotions.

@marcel693 11 ай бұрын

This is genuinely more horrifying than any horror movie I've ever seen

@cal3576 11 ай бұрын

It is True though it’s a mugs game and your a fool if you play it and a fool if you believe it Particularly with pokies or slots it’s not only money you loose It’s particularly dangerous for your own health

@vtech920 8 ай бұрын

Gambling is the worst when you lose and walk towards your car feeling like you just lost all your money.

@mattjohnson8090 3 ай бұрын

Ya did lose it

@nhialor5321 2 жыл бұрын

I started gambling at 19 and stop at 27. 3 years later, started again at 30 playing blackjack when I went to Vegas and lost 2g. A week later, I drove to the casino and remembering a voice telling me it’s not too late to turn around cuz you will empty your bank account. Of course, I thought it ain’t gonna happen. In a matter of 2 weeks I lost all the money that I saved up the last 3 years I been working so hard. Kept trying to chase my loss and been losing for the last 4 years. It’s been 7 days since I last gamble and to be honest, I still have itch, but it’s time to forgive myself. It’s something I haven’t been able to do the last 4 years. Forgive yourself if you been through what I been through. FYI, I lost more than 100k the last 4 years. I’m 35 and I don’t want to be broke by the time I’m 40 if I live till then. Take care!

@nhialor5321 2 жыл бұрын

@@mason2450 a month sober so far.

@nhialor5321 2 жыл бұрын

@kdr711 they say it takes 21 days to break a habit. Don’t gamble for 21 days and see if that helps. It work for me. Best of luck!

@veganandlovingit Жыл бұрын

It's an awful feeling afterwards, the self hatred for failing again. I just did it tonight. I hope you are doing ok

@nancybogart3899 Жыл бұрын

NIHA LOR --- yes “ forgive your self and LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE. CONGRATS

@nancybogart3899 Жыл бұрын

@kdr711 bAND YOUR SELF. PLEASE. I’m speaking with my “ story “ it almost killed me … I had NOTHING left. Took me YEARS TO CLIMB OUT.

@caylarayla13 Жыл бұрын

As a mother, the scene where she took her daughters piggy bank money made me tear up. I can’t imagine going through an addiction like this.

@mondaysimon2241 Жыл бұрын

Omg!!

@michelleandnatalieskiffing7477 9 ай бұрын

I cried 😢

@thomasedwardharrison2879 8 ай бұрын

Yeah. Kids stealing money from their parents is one thing. But parents stealing money from their kids is something else

@animegeek3109 8 ай бұрын

Yeah, my mom went into my room when I was at work and stole from my safe the silver and gold I had in there, that I was going to pass down to my nieces, it broke me to pieces knowing that she was so sweet until then

@LoveLightVibration 7 ай бұрын

@@animegeek3109This makes more sense than the script. Sorry that happened to you, too. A person with that type of addiction would know the contents of the average piggy bank wouldn’t be enough for even a spin.

@freeopinion2140 3 жыл бұрын

"When the fun stops, STOP" Doesn't work because the fun only stops when it's too late.

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

INDEED! Everybody we spoke to in the making of the film, really struggled to walk away time and time again. Thanks for watching. :)

@SkidCudi 3 жыл бұрын

You can't walk away very difficult

@nunobettencourt2716 3 жыл бұрын

@@SkidCudi I tried so many times and I have, to say gamestop worked

@SuicideApple-wm6et 3 жыл бұрын

Aand thats why dopamine detox exists

@jimmysnailshoes 3 жыл бұрын

That slogan was probably thought up by a bookies or casino, theyre already indicating that it was fun, when reality is, it was never fun, why not have a slogan with when the misery continues STOP

@barcode7601 2 жыл бұрын

I was hooked up for 10 yrs but since this pandemic, I haven't gone to pub or done any sort of gambling. This pandemic has been a blessing for me

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

This is so great to hear! Wishing you the very best in staying away even once things open up. Thanks for taking the time to watch the film. Charby :)

@hassanaboulhamayed9117 2 жыл бұрын

@@clairgoodall1363 disgusting comment

@deka3549 2 жыл бұрын

Please be safe

@SEliteGuitarist 2 жыл бұрын

@@hassanaboulhamayed9117 I'd rather have people like this do this disgusting habit at home then walking back and forth at the store I work at cause they need "one more ticket"

@bilbo_gamers6417 2 жыл бұрын

That's great. It's a horrifying thing to get addicted to. Hope you can remain clean :). I hear some people say to buy a gambling machine just for your house so you can play without losing money, but I don't know how well that works. I imagine that's not how it works.

@dagmarramgad5441 7 ай бұрын

One of my best friends squandered his entire inheritance at the casino. He literally lost EVERYTHING. His marriage, his home, his car, his business. He’s deeply in debt without a dime to his name. I hope he can find a way to eventually turn his life around, but what a brutal awful addiction. It’s no joke

@Lebowski333 3 ай бұрын

That’s what bankruptcy is for. Hope he’s ok

@gabrielpowers766 3 ай бұрын

He just needs a little stake money to win it all back.... ask him.

@mathildesm954 3 жыл бұрын

I think it's a similar problem to the micro-transactions you see in gaming. When you don't "see" the money leave your pocket, that's when it's dangerous.

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

Too true! Thanks a bunch for taking the time to watch. :)

@starman1004 3 жыл бұрын

For someone like myself that has had micro-transaction addictions in the past (still do today) this is a very clever comment. I never thought about it that way but it is oh so true.

@mrbungle3310 3 жыл бұрын

Its the same

@analvss7965 2 жыл бұрын

Yes it's very true. Now I'm experiencing something similar to this.

@andstill3095 2 жыл бұрын

100%

@Nobe616 Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately this kind of addiction I feel like it's not taken seriously enough

@riggsvsoliver 2 ай бұрын

It isn’t, people just look at it as “well just don’t throw away money, it isn’t hard to stop!” But yet they treat substance abuse how it should be, which is with understanding, the problem with gambling is it’s all mental instead of physical (eventually becomes physical after you can’t do anything)

@parksoo-kim6908 6 ай бұрын

I don't gamble, but this may be the most depressing video I've ever seen. The animation and music are incredible.

@charbyibrahim 4 ай бұрын

Appreciate the feedback... sorry to depress, but yeah - we wanted to portray the misery and destruction of these machines and industry.

@farmer__ 3 жыл бұрын

The illustrations and graphics for this are brilliant

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! Our animators definitely put in some hard yards...

@gabebarbieri194 2 жыл бұрын

@@charbyibrahim This is so well done, so creepy and dramatic. The sound design is amazing too, very off-putting

@gabebarbieri194 2 жыл бұрын

@@charbyibrahim It’s almost similar in style to the film ‘Requiem for a Dream’. Was this film an inspiration for you?

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

@@gabebarbieri194 - Thanks for the feedback, Gabe. The sound design was inspired by the hypnotic nature of the venues and machines themselves. I spent quite a bit of time researching at various places, and began hearing these sounds even in my down-time. As for Requiem for a Dream' - it's one of my favourite films... so maybe? But not intentionally. Thanks for watching. :)

@swaldron5558 2 жыл бұрын

Same as mobile phone.

@4ktrash4lyf 5 ай бұрын

This is pure art. The pain of it was incredibly palpable. The visual and audio design kept me arrested the whole way through. Bravo to the artists behind this very important piece. We need more art that speaks to the soul of our society.

@charbyibrahim 4 ай бұрын

Very kind of you, and thanks for watching. Our animation team worked tirelessly to realise the vision. Best!

@mpazinambao2938 Ай бұрын

It's is very engaging.

@hellohellohello6847 2 жыл бұрын

This is a world class bit of work. From the graphics to the story telling. Just 100% world class!

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

So lovely of you, Phil. You really made my day. Thanks kindly for watching and commenting. Charby :)

@maryanne1830 3 жыл бұрын

Omg, so sad. It could happen to anyone. The minute you think you're too smart to get sucked in, it's got you.

@djayjp 3 жыл бұрын

No, only to dumb people (or those on Abilify--shocking but true).

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

It really can! All the people we interviewed for this film never thought they'd end up with such a crippling addiction... it was hard for them to ever imagine how bad things could get. Thanks for taking the time to watch. :)

@Neeva01 3 жыл бұрын

@@djayjp that’s an ignorant response bro you obviously haven’t dealt with this specific disease of addiction. If anyone’s dumb, you are

@djayjp 3 жыл бұрын

@@Neeva01 I'll forgive the ad hominem. Consider: they should know that, overall, they are mathematically guaranteed to lose money. The moment they attain that insight all appeal should vanish. It's really just a cognitive fallacy. I blame poor education in our schools in regards to financial literacy.

@staples4335 3 жыл бұрын

@@djayjp All gamblers know the machines are rigged. Yet still go and play. Has nothing to do with how smart someone is. As any addiction people know the risks and know it destroys lives but they still do it for the excitement and dopamine hit. For a lot of people its not even about winning but just the excitement of playing.

@BryantEnglishTV Жыл бұрын

I worked in pubs in Sydney and watched people week after week come in and feed their whole wage or pension into those machines... sometimes in just a few hours... and they'd all rise with the same glazed look of horror as they stumbled back out onto the street. Tradies, single Mums, middle-class shiny shoe types, poor people, old diggers... all the same in the Pokie room... It's pure evil.

@repubug1365 8 ай бұрын

Usually, in average how much they will lose in one single night ?

@1jo_king 3 ай бұрын

@@repubug1365hundreds to thousands mate

@josephmclaughlin9865 3 ай бұрын

Well written, Bryant. Thank you.

@jenreejohndebil8919 3 жыл бұрын

The more you win, the more you'll have to lose.

@jjii4182 2 жыл бұрын

Omg super deep comment. I started off playing penny machines now I'm at 25-50$ a spin to be happy. Its destroyed me. 😔

@stephenperry4245 2 жыл бұрын

I started with 50 dollar bets on roulette and now I bet 100 plus a time on grey hounds.I put 900 on a dog the other week after being up 1500 from the day before.I reckon I have gambled 200,000 in three years.Gambling has destroyed my health and im lucky to be alive .I eat very little as a result of squandering 1_2 thousand a week.

@jjii4182 2 жыл бұрын

@@stephenperry4245 yes it's a painful addiction that kills almost everyone who is hooked. Many take their own lives because they can't beat the addiction,

@josearguettabitoni6448 2 жыл бұрын

@@jjii4182 if you want to gamble play something else the slot machines is just giving money away

@Maros554 8 ай бұрын

My friend told me a story about his dad's ex colleague, who lost 300 000 euros from a company's account in one night betting on some random football matches. Dude lost his entire life in one night.

@jessepond2062 2 жыл бұрын

Horrifying, exactly how my gambling starting, I won $128 dollars and then I got addicted and started stealing from my family to get my selfish high. 3 years clean now

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Jesse! That is no mean feat. Thanks for watching our film. All the best!

@nancybogart3899 Жыл бұрын

Are we related ? Cause she did it to me. I’ll never forget, & NEVER TALK TO HER AGAIN.

@jessepond2062 Жыл бұрын

@@nancybogart3899 haha I do not know a Nancy but sorry about your situation ❤️

@pinciukauskas Жыл бұрын

One day at the time. I am clean 6 years.

@jessepond2062 Жыл бұрын

@@pinciukauskas ty yeah I’m clean still 😀 Ty bro

@joelreyes9600 8 ай бұрын

Sadly im 67 im homeless i threw all my money saving investment ira 401k into slot machines i only rely on social security live in my car my two daughter's dont talk to me anymore my wife left me all because i became addicted stay away please just stay away dont ever touch one 😢😢😢

@gabrielpowers766 3 ай бұрын

How much approx was it though? I'll feel less sorry for you if it's like $20 million vs $400K or something.

@Yurple88 17 күн бұрын

I hope you're doing better. Stay strong my friend.

@theexpresidents 8 күн бұрын

Joel, you owe me money.

@ringspecies 11 ай бұрын

It's even worse when compounded with an already existing condition, bipolar disorder being a prime suspect. During the manias, I lost a lot. Then, suddenly I won big enough to recoup all those losses, just as I was coming off of one of the periods. It allowed me to retrospect what I have been doing, and I swore to never even step foot in a casino as long as I live. Nine years and counting at the time of writing this.

@KimJilene 8 ай бұрын

I am in the same boat. How did you stick to your resolve to never go back?

@ringspecies 8 ай бұрын

@@KimJilene I wish I could say some profound words on how I reached enlightenment and learned to disregard, but sadly it's the mundane rule I set for myself "If I am feeling happy and I am sure something will succeed, or if my friends warn me that I am manic, I am forbidden to buy or pay for absolutely anything that is not food or another necessity, and need to literally move to the other sidewalk if I know the casino is in my way if need be".

@1kenodave1 9 ай бұрын

The worst thing for a gambler is to win.

@lcs8512 2 ай бұрын

This hit me HARD.

@Teddy31976 Ай бұрын

Very true.

@yolanowak1909 3 жыл бұрын

That is my life in a nutshell. Exactly 25 yrs of torture and still trying to stop.

@markenver6430 3 жыл бұрын

What game do u play

@yolanowak1909 3 жыл бұрын

@@markenver6430 like the dragon, lightning link. Any new slot machine. Basically love to gamble, my weakness

@Niceguy1510 3 жыл бұрын

@@yolanowak1909 bro I don't understand how anyone would ever expect to win money from a slot machine. It's electronically setup for you to lose

@lisalangille2071 3 жыл бұрын

😮 Are you serious?!? 25yrs gambling? I don’t mean to seem judgmental, because I’m honestly not! I’m just shocked! This is entirely none of my business, but how have you been able to afford it all this time? I notice you said “and still trying to stop” have you sought help for gambling addiction? I really hope you can stop (Easier said than done, I understand) Truly, I hope you can. 💜

@zenosama8505 3 жыл бұрын

I would wish you luck but luck will not help you quit only you can do that you can talk to someone which I recommend but in the end only you can do this and I believe in you

@jk22222sd 2 жыл бұрын

Very disturbing because of how true this is. I am so glad I have no desire to gamble. Ever.

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad for you too!

@prativaneupane2306 Жыл бұрын

Why you are here then🤔

@Tube2097 8 ай бұрын

@@prativaneupane2306Perhaps they have gambled the odd bill here and there just nothing big nor becoming addicted themselves but can see the risks and why some people are snared by it. A drinker can see the dangers of alcoholism without being one themselves, too.

@pedenmk 3 жыл бұрын

I'm thankful I never got into gambling. Worst addiction of all I've been told.......

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad for you too... the people we interviewed were shocked to find how difficult is was to walk away, even very early on in their addiction journey.

@pedenmk 3 жыл бұрын

@@charbyibrahim I once had a friend who was a gambler. He was unable to stop REGARDLESS. Sad situation.

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

@@pedenmk Totally heartbreaking stuff man... something has to change!

@pedenmk 3 жыл бұрын

@@charbyibrahim yes it is. And there's many who do it.

@junc2191 Жыл бұрын

The non stop sound that the jackpot machine makes keep one going- almost like someone cheering for you

@oogabooga1023 2 жыл бұрын

Gambling addiction has been an 8 year struggle for me. It's hard to overcome and caused me to acquire so much unnecessary debt

@VincentKathakraoff 2 жыл бұрын

How is it going?

@NoTaboos 2 жыл бұрын

Who cares? Survival of the smartest.

@goddesst 2 жыл бұрын

Same.

@Kumorini Жыл бұрын

@@NoTaboos Okay edgy boi

@rssureshcool Жыл бұрын

Ya bro me to from past 6 years .I also have huge debt of 6 laks.

@jonathanfarrington15 Жыл бұрын

this is literally one of the most amazing things i’ve ever seen in my entire life

@DodongoManoof Жыл бұрын

When I get home and I can hear phantom sound effects and see the lights behind my eyes trying to sleep, i realize how insidiously these machines are designed to destroy my willpower

@gregoryrobertwall 2 жыл бұрын

Gambling cost me absolutely everything I have worked for. Now at age 39, I am in enough debt to pay for an entire house because of gambling. Its an absolute illusion. Losing losing losing. It kills relationships, friendships, businesses, families and has caused so many people to turn to suicide. Casinos are poison. I was a high roller player for years. I now never put a penny down again. Gambling WILL ruin you.

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear about how gambling impacted your life... but so glad that you came out the other side. Thanks for taking the time to watch our film. BEST!

@mountainofthunder92 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I’ve lost so much money over the last 4-5 years. I’d win, then put it all back. It is always difficult for me to just walk away. I walked in one time with $200. I got up to $800. Walked out with $200. It a no win situation. If someone loses $500 then go back the next day and win $2000, that $500 you lost the day before is gone forever. You will never get it back. Stay away from the casino. It’s a den of iniquity filled with vipers.

@RoIIingStoned 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing and your honesty

@mountainofthunder92 2 жыл бұрын

@@RoIIingStoned You’re welcome ☺️

@binbindu6159 2 жыл бұрын

write a book and share it with the world, democracy is not working for.the majority.. for a long time

@crystalidx 3 жыл бұрын

Gambling addiction suicide rate is the highest among addictions.

@forextrading4556 3 жыл бұрын

Have you tried out trading stocks and shares earn from investing

@forextrading4556 3 жыл бұрын

I’ll assist you, you can trade and earn comfortably.

@Damian-qv6wh 2 жыл бұрын

@@forextrading4556 that’s just another form of gambling

@mrkings8340 Жыл бұрын

Forex is also gambling

@michaelday6590 2 жыл бұрын

Living in Vegas I’ve struggled so much with gambling addiction. It started when I was working at a restaurant (I hated) inside of a casino i was constantly exposed to the machines. It started out on my breaks and it gave me an adrenaline rush and I was hooked. I’ve been struggling with it for 4 years. It’s such a trap. The I can win back what I’ve lost thought constantly running through my mind. There is no jackpot big enough to get back what I’ve lost. I’ve had those nights where I’ll see the poker cards in my dreams. It’s sickening. It’s the escape from reality that throws me deeper in it. I’m doing better now. This past year has been great I’ve learned to stay away from casinos and the smaller ones that dot every corner here. Every now and then I can feel it beckoning me in. Occasionally I give in only to lose what I’ve worked hard for. Then the staring at myself in the car mirror cussing out myself because I should’ve known better ensues.

@fuzzmosisr8601 2 жыл бұрын

Man, I feel this hard. I'd be lying in bed after, close my eyes and it's like I could physically see slot machines spinning in the black of my eye sight. It's a nasty addiction. It's so easy to be immersed in it because it's game after game after game at lightning pace. You just need to understand the psychological reasons for why you're playing and realize that it's just become a compulsion.

@fred-youtube 2 жыл бұрын

@nancybogart3899 Жыл бұрын

Micheal day Just STOP & REMIND YOUR SELF. OF THE. PAIN. ALL. DAY LONNG

@AnnaBulaklak369 Жыл бұрын

@@fred-youtube Same. I like games better I barely gamble, and do not gamble a lot.

@kevgambles241 3 жыл бұрын

Been trying to quit but I keep thinking about the loses and how I could potentially win it all back but I know I can’t. It’s actually sickening. Low appetite lost of sleep.

@uioplkhj 3 жыл бұрын

Las Vegas wasn't built on winners.

@whynot2030 3 жыл бұрын

@@uioplkhj I am on the same boat

@peterchen632 3 жыл бұрын

You have glorious future ahead of you when you quit gambling. Let go of your past because the money you lost will not belong to you anymore

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

Wishing you the very best in recovery... this disease is too real! I hope there are services that can support you in your region. BLESS!

@rajinder84singh 3 жыл бұрын

I lost a lot in last 15 days and not able to sleep, eat now.

@brian-j9924 2 жыл бұрын

I need a reminder like this once in awhile. I used to make decent money and spent all of my extra money at the casinos (slots and video poker). I think it filled my time and I found people who also enjoyed the casino. Worst part is the fact that I’ve spent thousands and only ever won a bonus worth just over $500 and never even a Jackpot. Fortunately I no longer live near actual casinos, but we have shady establishments all over the US called “Skilled Arcades” where they feature a game called fish tables which are way more addicting then slots. The odds seem to be much better, but they can still destroy ur life

@RockTheClock247 3 ай бұрын

When she quietly snuck into her daughters room to steal her piggy bank I was like 😱🥺😭

@shannsimms9072 Жыл бұрын

I hate gambling. I saw it destroy someone I was close to. He’d run in the gas station for gas and he’d come back out to the car furious because he just lost 2-5k in one of these. I watched him make almost a million in two years (selling drugs) and loose all of it in a few months. He was a bad person but I didn’t realize how real gambling addiction was until I saw him go through this.

@SevenEllen Жыл бұрын

Was he really a bad person? If he didn't have that gambling addiction, why would he sell drugs? It sounds more like it was to feed the addiction, not about the money.

@patrickprendergast9589 11 ай бұрын

can u tell us more

@shannsimms9072 10 ай бұрын

@@SevenEllen no he sold drugs way before he gambled

@gabrielpowers766 3 ай бұрын

@@shannsimms9072 Everyone needs to know a Dr. Feelgood. He was providing a valuable service. LOL

@Ashcon2 2 жыл бұрын

Gambling’s ruined me. My mood revolves around if I’m up or not. I’ve lost my life savings in 6 months, I had so many plans for my future. I’ve tried to get help but I just can’t stop. Only reason I haven’t killed myself is because it wouldn’t be fair to my parents or girlfriend. I’m miserable 24/7 now and I have no one to blame but me

@silent_jav 2 жыл бұрын

I hope one day you realize that it isn’t money that’s important, but the people around us. Treat the world as your family and you won’t have to worry as much. There will always be someone willing to lend a helping hand. A lot of people are bitter and have a hard time trusting others because they’re afraid to be heartbroken. No matter what happens to you in this life you can overcome it with the right mindset. I’m promise you this!

@fred-youtube 2 жыл бұрын

Get on Gamstop, it stops tou from gambling

@goddesst 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you're doing ok

@Ashcon2 2 жыл бұрын

@@goddesst I’m not but thanks for asking

@rachealrock3638 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear I know the struggle everyday is a new day to change

@lolly5453 2 жыл бұрын

Important story that needs sharing, more often and loudly! I don’t think many of us truly realise the grip gambling can have, and its impact on the lives of those affected. Was always difficult for me to understand how it can be so addictive - until you’ve been caught up in it, blinded by the bright lights and drawn in, despite the financial, emotional and personal losses, and experienced the torment inflicted by gambling; only then, when it’s too late, do you fully understand. Thanks for spreading this important info and also making a great film!! I would be interested to see more of your work in future! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@jamanitsme Жыл бұрын

I can totally find myself in this video, I've been a gambling addict for a very long time, wasted alot of money, wich is a shame cause I work hard as a mover, and money doesn't come easily, so now I'm 37 and made a brand new start, quit gambling about 2 years ago, but I still feel the urge to gamble, believe me they should ban casino's, and it's crazy, somehow when I first started gambling I actually won a couple of times in a row, wich made me hooked and also made me believe I could always earn money the easy way, well guess what I had to find out the hard way, so please take me as an example,never start gambling in the end you always lose, so let's say I easily wasted 70000 dollars, I could have done so much amazing things with that amount of money, so to all the younger viewers here, if u read my comment, please stop gambling immediately, u can have an amazing life without, that's it greetings😉

@charbyibrahim Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing that... and for watching our film. Wishing you the very best in your recovery journey. :)

@theuberman7170 Жыл бұрын

The piggy bank scene was absolutely horrifying and true.

@charbyibrahim Жыл бұрын

YUP! A real heart-breaker...

@michelleandnatalieskiffing7477 10 ай бұрын

I cried

@anthonyfarandatos7839 8 ай бұрын

@@michelleandnatalieskiffing7477 Me too!

@joelreyes9600 8 ай бұрын

It happen to me I'm homeless now live in the streets

@huntinbuddy 7 ай бұрын

@@joelreyes9600 Yet you still have Internet access....probably even a device to connect with....so how bad off are you really?

@gabipimentel1493 Жыл бұрын

This is incredibly well done and amazingly well narrated. Thank you.

@charbyibrahim Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the lovely feedback, Gabi!

@cal3576 11 ай бұрын

@@charbyibrahim this is Actually true it does happen and you will never end up on Top you loose More then money believe me it’s a fools game should never been introduced or allowed it’s very dangerous for your health in so many aspects ways

@jethrowegener Жыл бұрын

And as with any addiction, it often comes from pain. A very real, very deep, dark pain within that forces people to seek some way to relieve that pain. We need to be kinder. To help people with their pain, rather than make it worse.

@charbyibrahim Жыл бұрын

TOO TRUE! Whether it's drugs, alcohol, or gambling. So much comes from pain. Thanks for sharing :)

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Жыл бұрын

It's the hole in the soul and it's been there forever. It WILL move, too. Drunks tend to eat too much/too little and smoke/coffee obsessive. Some wiop gamble. Too.

@mikethemechanic7395 Жыл бұрын

Wife is Asian. Gambling is huge and part of their lives. It’s insane how much time they spend at the casino. I saw my wife’s uncle slowly die of cancer. He spent his last 2 years alive at the casino. You think he would travel or do fun things he never got to do. My wife’s parents only brag when they win. They loose more then win. They call it entertainment. It’s all a lie. My father in law retired and still goes to the casino like it’s nothing. I don’t get the attraction… My addiction is coffee. I spend 320 a month at Starbucks. But it at least goes to my stomach…

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Жыл бұрын

Buy Peet's Major Dickerson's Blend. Corse grind, French Press. 20 for 2lbs, Costco.

@bluedick321 2 ай бұрын

Which type of Asian, just wondering?

@mikethemechanic7395 2 ай бұрын

@@bluedick321 Lao

@theexpresidents 8 күн бұрын

First sentence: wife is Asian. Should been the last sentence, brah. Or, maybe, never even relayed to us.

@trevormj 3 жыл бұрын

The best solution is to buy an old slot machine and play it at home - be the punter and banker at the same time...

@stuartaustin2378 3 жыл бұрын

That's a terrible idea. Why would that help?

@trevormj 3 жыл бұрын

@@stuartaustin2378 - if need to explain then you'd best get back to Las Vegas and those slot machines....

@jsledge8557 2 жыл бұрын

That’s like telling an alcoholic to drink non-alcoholic beer. It doesn’t work.

@stejer211 2 жыл бұрын

@T MJ You may want to look up what gambling addiction actually means. Spoiler: the slot machines are only means.

@trevormj 2 жыл бұрын

@@stejer211 - Well it worked for a mate of mine - even paid for his annual holidays. So what is your great idea then??

@AP-dv5vk 3 жыл бұрын

Look at the society we live in. Bookies, casinos, alcohol all flashed in our faces. The vulnerable will always be drawn in. Consumerism holds more value to industry than morality, this is why I advocate for a remodelling of our own economy here in the UK, but that will only gain support through education and it is NEVER the priority of the state to educate. Because with education comes revolution.

@georgehoffman3439 3 жыл бұрын

I was talking to a friend about this, you don’t see any adverts promoting tobacco or smoking, yet you see pay £10 and get £30 to play every time you go on the tube, or the betting rebellion.

@crypastesomemore8348 2 жыл бұрын

Lol as opposed to dying of some miserable disease at age 20 in nature?

@DiaJasin 2 жыл бұрын

If you have a moral society away from consumerism you'll likely just be like any poor conservative country

@rosswilliams5740 2 жыл бұрын

The animation in this video is absolutely brilliant! So nice to look at!

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the feedback, Ross! Our animators worked tirelessly to get this done. Thanks for watching. Charby

@julioculio 2 жыл бұрын

A tear ran down my face

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry Julio - but thanks for stopping by to watch out film.

@Jimmy4video 3 жыл бұрын

What an awful situation. These machines should be banned.

@skair5425 3 жыл бұрын

More importantly, companies are taking the same gambling mechanics to lootboxes in videogames and selling them to children. Raid: Shadow Legends, for example.

@depfeffel6455 3 жыл бұрын

@@skair5425 this terrifies me for my daughter's future, I have no knowledge of computer games except her cousins love Fortnite... They tried to explain it to me once, no chance

@skair5425 3 жыл бұрын

@@depfeffel6455 As a longtime gamer myself, I think I can explain it pretty well. A decade or so ago, every game came with an upfront cost. You knew what you were paying for, and the price of that experience. That way, if you read a review and felt like it wasn't worth it, you'd simply not buy. Now, however, we've shifted over to the freemium model, where games are free to get into, but use psychological manipulation to nudge players into paying for cosmetics or tools or whatever, and basically suck them dry. If you have a great deal of self-control, then maybe it's fine to play these games. But I wouldn't bet on it.

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

YES PLEASE! PS - Thanks for taking the time to watch. :)

@Paul__Allen 3 жыл бұрын

Or how about people take personal responsibility. The majority of people don't have a problem and gamble within their limits.

@hyperiondragon 3 жыл бұрын

Sad story but beautifully told and beautiful animation

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the feedback!

@jungersrules 8 ай бұрын

Just interesting side note: "The incidence of pathological gambling in Parkinson's patients is significantly greater than in the general population. A correlation has been observed between dopamine agonist medication and the development of pathological gambling." I heard a story on NPR of a woman who was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease and was prescribed a medication to help with the tremors. However, she started gambling. It was only after she had gotten into deep that she found out her medication specifically stated that one of the side effects is compulsive gambling. Once she stopped using that med, the addiction went away.

@mpazinambao2938 Ай бұрын

The art and storytelling are so well done.

@charbyibrahim Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and engaging with the film. Very kind of you!

@steveh5307 Ай бұрын

Winning on your first time gambling is the WORST thing that could happen. The hook is set.

@Fqllout 15 күн бұрын

I've won 200 before on dollar spins and didnt even phase me, only use money you can burn and play for fun, its like only sheep minded folks get addicted to gambling, or people looking for more money. 3 Rules of slots, 1. Only play money you can burn safely 2. expect to lose but play for the chance to win 3. gamble for occasions, like hanging out, birthday or have extra money.

@zibane6246 2 күн бұрын

What most people who aren't gambling addicts don't understand about gambling addiction is that it robs you of more than your money, it robs you of any other joy that you may have in your life. A gambling addict doesn't enjoy anything else outside of gambling. If he doesn't have a pair of dice in his hands or his hand on a slot machine, he doesn't feel anything that approximates joy. And, after a while, even the joys of gambling fade until he becomes a husk who is merely acting on habit.

@JadeAngelina 5 ай бұрын

to anyone struggling, you WILL overcome this addiction!

@smartluck5290 3 жыл бұрын

This is a huge problem at least in my country. We have online casino adds even on kids channels. There’s no statistics proving how many people are actually addictive. There’s no policy that can protect their family members! I’ve been studying this problem from every angle. I’m also planning to do either documentary or research paper to address this issue to our society! The problem of our society is that “you must be ashamed by speaking it out”. I personally lost almost everything for paying out the debts that I never acquired.

@wasimakhtar2347 3 жыл бұрын

I lost my all money my father has earned I don't know what I will say to him

@urmum8540 2 жыл бұрын

@@wasimakhtar2347 get help for your addiction

@baltazar5326 2 жыл бұрын

Which country?

@samik3184 Жыл бұрын

Hope you were able to work on your documentary. I lost thousands this week. I'm depressed and hate the casino industry.

@reagan7406 Жыл бұрын

I lost all my money and assets at 14 cuz of the online casinos. But i still wouldnt blame it on the casinos. It was my fault. I did loose 50k$ though

@rac5341 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this video!!!!!

@artanme 2 ай бұрын

I think the worst part is not the money you lost, it's what gambling do to you, and the pain it brings to people that loves you.

@JC-jb9ug Жыл бұрын

This was an amazing documentary all around. Great job.

@reneejanssen4953 3 жыл бұрын

the video animation is fantastic and really drew me into the story

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the lovely feedback, and taking the time to watch! :)

@usamagideir9396 3 жыл бұрын

@@charbyibrahim did you make this? It's really well made

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

@@usamagideir9396 - Yes, I did. Thanks so much for the kind word. Very much appreciated brother.

@regentvros4968 3 жыл бұрын

Wooo what an masterpiece please make more videos like this

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

HAHA - Shucks! I shall do my best. Thanks for the lovely words - very kind. :)

@jonathanlovesadventure7838 8 ай бұрын

The biggest thing you can do to avoid problem gambling is read a ton of books about how Vegas makes their odds and how these machines work.

@theexpresidents 8 күн бұрын

Or do drugs.

@dawood121derful 10 ай бұрын

That’s a powerful video and message.

@quincy3367 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful film. This needs more views

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

Your view means the world to us... thanks for watching our film. BLESS! :)

@mexrevilia780 Жыл бұрын

Final journey of my gambling addiction its today, enough of losing money, enough of depressed, enough of heart breaking.

@pratiwi1523 Жыл бұрын

Me too.. March 29, 2023, took me long enough and losing all my money, depressed, and could not even have courage to look my parents in the eyes anymore.

@grojahbojat2402 Жыл бұрын

Hows it goin?

@KimJilene 8 ай бұрын

I decided to quit a week ago. I AM DONE WITH THIS ADDICTION. Sick of losing. I want to be a winner in life and gambling is not getting me there. How is your journey going?

@KimJilene 8 ай бұрын

@@pratiwi1523 How is it going?

@jacktaylor9290 11 ай бұрын

The animation and score are absolutely haunting!

@beaucasey7768 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for thos documentry

@DendyJungle 3 жыл бұрын

Me being so condescending to the woman then halfway through the vid I remember how much I lost on stocks and crypto

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

The comparisons are REAL! Thanks for watching :)

@leialmasy1 3 жыл бұрын

Very real crypto and stocks just safer. I have gambling addiction. I fuel it with stocks and crypto. Im well off but stressed all the time.

@juanshaftpatel7488 3 жыл бұрын

how did you lose? its a bull mkt.. you must be a poor

@mcpartridgeboy 2 жыл бұрын

Not the same you can win on the stocks and investments but you cannot win on slot machines

@GudMarty 2 жыл бұрын

@@juanshaftpatel7488 cause they sell lol you can’t lose if you don’t sell. There will be a bull market again 🤷‍♂️

@Tony-hk4zq Жыл бұрын

it looks so easy to give it up but it's so difficult to do

@skillZ141 Жыл бұрын

"just don't gamble, just stop, it's not worthy of it, why do you gamble, what's funny in gamble, you lost so much" and then u are there again, hoping to win big , but also asking yourself why the f I am here again...

@user-jw5iv1qz5g 3 ай бұрын

I have gamble for 22 year ... Lost everything. I don't know how to quit

@bobird6099 3 жыл бұрын

The breakdown and dehumanisation of so many ordinary individuals, perfectly captured and projected via your amazing animation.

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

It's a heart-breaking situation to be sure. Thanks for the kind feedback, Bo... and for watching our film. BLESS!

@jackcarraway4707 2 жыл бұрын

"I never trust a dollar I hadn't earned." Scrooge McDuck

@oniluka 2 жыл бұрын

golden

@Mark-lj1dj Ай бұрын

Amazing 😂

@happyhermit2022 3 жыл бұрын

Let's make a comparison with the social media of today. Addictive, demoralising and destructive.

@noonespecial1178 3 жыл бұрын

agree

@ottolaakso1944 3 жыл бұрын

log off then

@AshArAis 3 жыл бұрын

When I was home for Christmas, my parents had terrestrial TV on. There are no alcohol ads on Irish TV anymore iirc, but there were three gambling ads per slot. I was really dismayed at these companies being allowed to be vultures to really vulnerable people. I know some people can moderate but so many lose their lives to it - and their families suffer. I hope things can improve. A little disclaimer whispered at the end of an ad does nothing.

@AshArAis 3 жыл бұрын

Freemium/Pay to Win mobile games are also a serious issue. Loot boxes just the same as gambling.

@douglascampbell4993 3 жыл бұрын

Yep! 100%! I can’t believe it’s apparently ok to use such manipulative psychology designed to draw you in more and more with dopamine hits when ever those little tunes play, tricking your brain into believing you’re winning, or even really close to a big win, when the reality is you just rolled 20 credits to win 8... the only game in the world that you can be losing and still think you just won by design..

@eatsleepheal4420 3 жыл бұрын

@@douglascampbell4993 after enough of years you just actually want zero wins to be skint fast so it's over for another week till pay day coz if you win you just keep going till you lose its like small win just prolongs the pain

@douglascampbell4993 3 жыл бұрын

@@eatsleepheal4420 wow, and that just says it all... and at the end of the day it’s still only a distraction from something that we want to think about even less..

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Жыл бұрын

"Terrestrial TV" reminds me of aliens 👽 lol

@charzee18 Жыл бұрын

I’ve won 3k the first time i Went to the casino and lost so much since i then stopped but listen don’t start playing

@nuckchorris5031 3 жыл бұрын

gambling is a cancer in today’s society

@roadrunnerstill5437 Жыл бұрын

I met the girl of my dreams and im going to lose her because I can't stop playing. I haven't lost everything yet but im close. I dont know what to do. I just lost 5.5k tonight. she doesn't know how bad it is but I won't be able to hide it for long.

@charbyibrahim Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Are there gambling help services in your local area? I've heard that they can be very useful... and often free! Wishing you the very best.

@a.b.8606 3 жыл бұрын

Just Like Smoking, there should be a warning sticker put on these machines to warn the user that gambling causes addiction

@davidcooks2379 3 жыл бұрын

Just ban both

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

AGREED! We'd ideally like to see them abolished entirely, but warnings are absolutely necessary in the meantime. It's impossible to make an informed decision, WITHOUT INFORMATION! PS - Thanks for taking the time to watch.

@chilliecheesecake 3 жыл бұрын

@@davidcooks2379 You dont actually solve anything by banning stuff, you just drive the problem underground.

@Zebra.Lionfish 3 жыл бұрын

Government makes way too much money on taxing both of these problems, you'll never see addictive money makers go away no matter what form they take.

@davidcooks2379 3 жыл бұрын

@@chilliecheesecake you just need to find a replacement. We need much better sports and social clubs, then people won't need to smoke and gamble. For tobacco, snus may provide a replacement. And now we are out of the EU we can make it legal (the only ever advantage of being outside the EU - we should use it)

@ArnoldJamesXT Жыл бұрын

Quit while you're behind

@casualmime2792 6 ай бұрын

Gambling definitely rivals hard drugs

@johnfrank8734 3 жыл бұрын

Gambling is the worst thing in the world it kills you mentally especially after a big loss and you know you cant do anything about it but regret every second you spent wasting on the machines and with the regrets comes the suicidal thoughts 😩

@forextrading4556 3 жыл бұрын

Have you tried out trading stocks and shares? Earn from investing!!

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

Sending you bags of well wishes. Thanks for sharing!

@daneilrafael4824 2 жыл бұрын

John Frank calm down we're all here we feel what you feel. Don't you ever forget there's alot of people in your life who truly loved you from their heart think of peoples who loved you.

@kristianmopsticc2887 2 жыл бұрын

Trading covered my gamble funds plus. More

@chuachua-hj9zd Жыл бұрын

The one doing this video deserve a raise!! It seems like this person has been to the casino before

@saludsinfiltros6854 Жыл бұрын

I feel so, i ve struggling to quit, it's difficult because sometimes is a way of escaping reality, and then u come accross with what you have done and it hits u hard, all the things u could have done.

@ayandabazimukile990 Жыл бұрын

Yeah its kinda hard to quit. I guess its true when they say it is an addictive thing. I have lost more than 60 K and itskinda hardto stop

@KimJilene 8 ай бұрын

@@ayandabazimukile990 I am in debt around the same amount. I decided to quit a week ago. I used it as an escape from reality. I am watching vids like these to reinforce my will to never gamble again.

@michaeldehuy3163 2 жыл бұрын

One of the most enjoyable youtube videos i’ve ever watched

@michaeldehuy3163 2 жыл бұрын

hi hayley

@eddiew2325 2 жыл бұрын

@@michaeldehuy3163 hey Mike did you know you look exactly like Chris Pratt

@MetroVancouverASMRGuy 2 жыл бұрын

That was terrifying, great video.

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! 🤣

@jt5625 6 ай бұрын

This video is really great. Very well made.

@charbyibrahim 4 ай бұрын

Thanks heaps for taking the time to watch!

@Tattybeanpie 2 ай бұрын

That animation where they are falling down off the casino chair at the end. That was actually me once

@charliejenkins6355 2 жыл бұрын

I do security and she's telling the truth I see it everyday.

@madarabalode271 2 жыл бұрын

😪😪😪it is so heartbreaking 💔 and beautifuly and effectively made short movie!!! It is so true unfortunately! I have realised I have problem and this really inspired me to stop right now and never end up this way ! Thank you!

@chriscarlos6651 2 жыл бұрын

it taking a toll on my life right now .!! thnsk for sharing 👏

@animalsarefriends4342 2 жыл бұрын

Casinos is a big curse, whatever you win even big jackpots you always end up putting it back, it comes a time you won't be able to stop.....u will keep going back & back, it's worse than drugs as you will lose all your money for rent, food necessities...& your sleep finally your mind. I am glad the pandemic closes all casinos but now they are reopen again, hope I can stay away!

@dylantracey6503 Жыл бұрын

Im up $91 and I never plan on playing again. I really never considered how if I get addicted then ill mathematically end up losing my winnings and more. The feeling of being down money and needing to break even when the odds are against you sounds horrific.

@noonespecial1178 3 жыл бұрын

For one person to win a lot of people have to loose that is so true of all kinds of gambling haunting words me my thoughts are on scratch and wins should be called scratch and loose

@charbyibrahim 3 жыл бұрын

This line really haunted me too... I remember when it was said in one of the interviews, and I felt chills run down my spine.

@a.tanner8524 3 жыл бұрын

Lose

@ThePeterDislikeShow 3 жыл бұрын

Doesn't it work the same way in every money transaction? Someone making a lot of money means someone else spending it?

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Жыл бұрын

Keep the ones that lost, that's what I did. Paper clip each 100 wasted. Wow.

@Ironheart73 2 жыл бұрын

In statistics there is what we call the law of large numbers. To explain simply, a coin can land heads or tails. If you toss if for the first 10 times, its possible that all the outcomes would be tails. But try tossing it 1000 times. Youd get an equivalent value of 498 heads and 502 tails. Closer to the expected odds. Now, no casino game has a 50:50 odds. The odds usually favor the house. So which means you are not even gambling your money. The more you bet, the more you will lose. Winning in your first early bets is the luck. but that only encourages you to keep on betting. And eventually, you will lose. It is a scientific fact.

@charbyibrahim 2 жыл бұрын

And to add to that, these machines are rigged to lose WAY more than win. PS - Thanks for watching and sharing insight.

@gabrielpowers766 3 ай бұрын

That's why you have to either play poker, or learn to count cards and play blackjack, or perhaps become very knowledgeable on some sports such that you could bet and win enough to profit. I suggest poker. It's easier to learn and you can practice in penny stakes online. There's always a fish at the poker table and the casino's don't care if you win fish's money as long as you aren't winning the casino's money. They are happy with the rake.

@miss_jas4537 10 ай бұрын

i’m only 21 and i’m in debt currently by 2k and can never get ahead because i’m constantly always feeling the need to gamble. I’m extremely lonely and do it just so i can feel happy and it makes me feel less lonely. It causes fights between my family becsuse i should have heaps saved up by now… i feel lost and like i can’t stop… i wish i could save my money