This is an in-depth interview with Tudor Laska about the problem of lack of brotherhoods in today's world. After years of not seeing it or denying it he eventually decided to speak out loud about it - what takes a lot of courage and deserves a lot of respect. Tudor noticed that back in time brotherhood was something natural and essential for people to exist. Now, with technology development, we can technically afford to live alone and in isolation. But the truth is: we are social beings and it's in our nation to live in a group and even if we manage to live on our own for years eventually the need for others will catch up with us and put us into depression. It's a very common problem these days. Tudor is strongly longing for brotherhood and is full of hope to still build it. In his engaging speech he touches many aspects of the issue. He mentions neighbors before were form of brotherhood, he talks about the fact that lack of brotherhood is more common in western countries. There is no doubt people are afraid to talk about it or to admit they miss other people and they are very shy. He's comparing brotherhood to friendship, with sadness concluding that there's no real brotherhood in sports too. But he also says that there's never too late to build brotherhood. He mentions he tried to connect with people for many years, but it just didn't really happened despite his very open attitude etc. He underlines that in brotherhood one needs to give and be able to take freely. There's no doubt significant amount of people is needed to create brotherhood - and they all parts need to want it. Tudor is sharing his plan how to achieve it. He points that gangs are usually only substitutes of brotherhood - they are fake brotherhoods. He sees that people are very keen to find excuses not to form brotherhood and they show zero interest in it. Tudor also can't accept that being in brotherhood should cost us money or force us to travel - it ought to be free and local. Being in brotherhood or sisterhood can help with stress relief and to fight depression. Unfortunately we lie to ourselves and pretend we don't need it - but it will come back to us in future in form of depression and anxiety. Tudor notices we live so close to each other, but we all seem to be so far away. Reason behind people not engaging in brotherhood fear. We are afraid to be judged, to be misinterpreted, to be rejected etc. We are scared to simply be ourselves. You know your place in brotherhood - he says. Brotherhood will accept you with your flaws too - cause none of us is perfect. He sees that there's still some spirit of brotherhood among sports fans. etc etc etc.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 What is brotherhood?
00:24 I want brotherhood
01:45 Neighborhood
03:01 I miss brotherhood
03:24 I didn’t find it in Ireland
03:57 Others must want too
04:04 People afraid to talk about it
04:42 It’s more than friendship
05:06 No real brotherhood in sports clubs
06:30 Depends on the country
07:07 There’s never too late
07:33 I’m not a member of any
07:49 For years no connections
08:07 I‘ looking for it right now
08:35 Need to have a lot in common?
08:51 People need to give and take
09:16 No real brotherhood in sports clubs
11:14 Problem with Western culture
12:09 To build it must be a lot of people
12:53 What’s the plan
13:38 It’s not a gang
14:14 What brothers do?
14:32 People look for excuses
15:19 Should be free and local
15:42 People have no interest
16:02 Excuses, busy life etc.
16:18 We expect people should come to us
16:30 Why not at own location?
16:40 In the neighborhood
17:01 As stress relief
17:12 We life to ourselves we don’t need it
17:26 We’re not honest with ourselves
17:48 I have enough - I want brotherhood
18:02 Trying with wrong people
18:43 Using substitutes
18:52 Building on lies / depressing
19:15 Even after many years it will get you
19:58 People prefer isolation
20:28 People are shy
20:41We live close, but far
20:49 Reason FEAR
21:26 Fear of rejection judgment etc.
21:38 People afraid to be themselves
21:51 In neighborhood you know your place
22:13 Whole you will be accepted with defects
22:39 Pretending being perfect
22:54 Brotherhood vs friendship
23:50 Sports fans
24:43 It will make you better person
25:13 It’s all about being together
25:38 Division in society - Be yourself
26:17 Negative influence of divided society
26:42 Brotherhood is a must
27:25 It was essential in ancient times
27:47 Not essential in today’s world to survive
28:37 Awaking the instinct
29:11 New stress: society stress
29:49 Brotherhood is for everybody
30:22 It’s easier for women
31:46 Helps fight depression epoch
32:39 The plan
33:08 Brotherhood in gangs‘ world
33:43 Invisible enemy: society stress
34:31 Living in denial: we will suffer in future
35:36 Brotherhood in the past
36:20 Brotherhood is possible today
36:35 Too superficial today
37:00 Not profound and not deep
38:36 We all need it
39:26 I try to build it
40:06 Let’s talk about it
40:35 Who am I?
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