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"if you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best", translation: "I have borderline personality disorder"

Red flag #1 if she shows any disrespect . Because that's all that matters

You're on a date and you run into her friends and she doesn't introduce you

I briefly dated a girl who was recently divorced. One night she wants to wear my work jacket home because she was cold. The next day she excitedly tells me how jealous her ex was when he saw it, come to find out she was still living with the guy as they're finalizing the papers. Sometimes you get a few red flags in a row, sometimes they get dropped shipped all once!

I've dated two legit narcissists. Both described themselves as "social butterfly." It's a smokescreen that means they need a lot of attention and validation. Narcissists are very FOMO and have lots of "friends" but no real relationships with anyone.

Any woman who is more interested in her cell phone on your first date should be Red flagged ,

If she talks about her exes negatively, because that’s future you

My ex girlfriend often asked me how much I made. She thought it was weird that I never told her and I said it was rude to ask. She said she just wanted to know if we could survive together our salaries. I just said that I can take care of myself so that's all she needs to know. I asked her if she was a golddigger and if I was being compared to other candidates. Naturally we broke up.

Pet worship is a huge red flag. You are dealing with a narcissist. It takes no effort to make a pet "love you." When these girls start referring to their pets as family members, or even worse say they love pets more than people, huge warning sign. Forming relations with people takes effort and sacrifice, relationships with pets do not.

If a woman says "if you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best", then her best is not worth her worst.

RED FLAG, when she tells you that all her ex boyfriends were psychos and cheaters!

Does not ask you ANY QUESTIONS = No curiosity about you. Shallow/Low Self Esteem/Hiding her past, so she does not want to open up a conversation that would lead her to reveal her poor past decisions.

Worst red flag was no red flags. Turned out to be a narcissist revealed only after emotional attachment and a wiff of commitment around the 6 month mark. I'll give her the W, she dismantled me pretty easily. When I finally met the parents walking through their front door, I was a little nervous as one tends to be about meeting her father. He didn't even stand up or make eye contact with me until after her mother concluded her own theatrical introduction. Something still doesn't sit right with me about that.

When she says "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve my best," that just means no one has ever seen her best and nobody ever will, until she grows up

How about multiple red flags on the first date? - Tells me she never met with a guy before (myself) without knowing him that well then moments later admits to hooking up with a guy in the same situation in the past. - Asks me randomly how my parents are still married and how they put up with each other (her parents are divorced). - Tells me about her ex boyfriend who was a lawyer who dumped her for not agreeing to a prenup. - Wants to become a lawyer (she has a bullshit degree from a uni, currently works as junior HR) and also expects a man to wife her up and have kids while doing so. Superwoman??? - Debt up to her eye balls to begin with (student loan and brand new car) and "loves to travel all the time" then complains about having no money. - Randomly asks me if I have ever been to jail Talk about an impeding train wreck

Several red flags I encountered- Her inviting me to the gym with her and her guy friend. Her always saying blanket statements like “Everyone knows i’m the best (thing). Her screaming at her parents in front of me. Telling me she hacked into her ex’s computer. Smoking weed all day every single day without fail. Being late everywhere. Blaming everyone else for anything that goes wrong.

I have a big one: 1.If she’s clingy from the get-go, and says things like ”you’re perfect, you’re a genius”, to the point where it’s a bit embarrasing, and throws the words ” i love you after 5 months.Stalking your social media. I mean , it’s a bit flattering in one way, right? B U T....(as i found out 2,5 years later) There is a chance that she has BPD, borderline personality disorder, and as soon as you let go and start falling for her, she starts devaluing you, and picking fights, and from one day to the next-hates you. It’s traumatic. Read up on it. I’m not kidding.

Been single a few months. I can’t believe how much information I have learned. Not only is it insane how much information I have yet to learn, but I’m shocked that dating/relationships has become such a problem for guys that channels like Rich are blowing up. Rich is doing gods work. Definitely steering me clear of a bunch of TRAIN WRECKS!

Chicks with horses, major red flag

I'm loving all of this!... I've been married twice, trying to replicate my parents 54 year marriage. I grew up in a Christian household and I just had no idea that I needed to just work on myself, instead of building up beta bitches and bettering their lives instead of mine. After this last 18 month relationship, where I did nothing but pay her bills and work myself half to death, she suggested we break up unless I fix what I do. I finally told her that I'm moving out and she can be her own bank and be responsible again for her bills. Late in life learning all this, but I'm better off for sure.

Red flag: She doesn’t post you on her socials but post herself and her friends. She gets angry at you when you ask her about it. She protecting someone else’s feeling bruh. She’s flaking on you

Red flag: tells you " you are not my usual type"...

There are so many men in my family that seriously need this channel. Every woman wants an alpha male, but not many women want to put in the work to earn it - therefore, insert the red flags. Great content in your videos, i try to suggest your channel to the (beta) men in my family that really need this, and I’ll keep trying.

There are so many red flags, but for me the biggest is one that appears in so many different ways, It is the red flag of an alpha widow. She will seem to be into you, but when you take off the rose coloured glasses, You realise that they are only dating you because their alpha didn't want them, so they only make a mediocre attempt at all things in the relationship. They will always have a reason why they couldn't make an effort (for you), and in the past I have made the mistake of thinking it was due to their inexperience in relationships. My own personal experience of ignoring 2 very big red flags early on were: 1) She quit her job without having another one lined up, moved back in with her parents (in a city a few hours away), and was unemployed for several months.... like 3-4 months (shows a lack of commitment and responsibility) 2) A few months after her unemployment started I went overseas with my mum to visit family, I was gone for about a month. And guess who couldn't be bothered to meet me at the airport when I returned..... The excuse was: "I would had to have gotten up early to drive down to meet you at the airport, so I thought I would wait until you guys had arrived home and settled in" Oh and the kicker, her excuse for delaying driving down for several hours after I had arrived back: "I just need to do my washing first" Classic alpha widow behaviour, She had several family members that she could have stayed the night with so that she wouldn't have to drive down that morning, she should have done her washing in the lead up to me arriving back. But she didn't, because I wasn't her first choice. I was just some guy that she was willing to date, because her alpha didn't want her....... If a woman does these things, check to see if there is some underlying lack of relationship experience, And if there is none, and you hear excuses like "on the weekend I just like to wear my comfy clothes" etc Break up with them, they are an alpha widow. Whatever you do DO NOT MARRY THEM TRUST ME.

Blames all her previous relationship failures on the men in her life. Did not even once acknowledge that she may have contributed to any of the breakups. Always playing the victim and has accumulated emotional baggage that she has not gotten over yet. Now YOU are EXPECTED to put up with the attitude and emotions while they act like they’re some sort of prize worth having. Best not get involved with people who you know have had many partners or just broke up from a serious relationship. Tattoos and facial piercings are another sign of emotional baggage because tattoos are predominantly drawn to symbolise something of significance to its canvas - the person. Pay particular attention to number of tattoos and what they are of. Ask if you’re curious and believe me, you should! Names of people are a definite red flag. Also sorry to say, but the more partners women have, the more mentally screwed they are most likely to be. Men on the other hand can have sexual relationships without an emotional attachment - that’s the BIG difference between male and female body counts.

She discloses to you that she's "crazy". Believe her....and run. If her apartment or car is a mess then it's a synchronous window into her personality. If she gets disrespectful with you once again after you tell her to cut it out, then exit center stage bc she will only get worse as time passes. If she oogles other men in front of you, what will she do with him behind your back? If she flirts with other men in front of you, refer to the previous bullet point. If she either flirts with or oogles other men in front of you, dump her immediately because both behaviors are extremely disrespectful and very telling of her lack of character and lack of loyalty.

I thank god every day that I'm still single.

Here's an easy one. Her main focus isn't on you. I was in a band. My girlfriend came to a practice and spent much more time checking out the guitarist. Next she failed to go to a really great gig at which I was playing, she claimed being tired. Yet she was shocked when I bailed. So if you're not number one to her, time to bail.

VERY early on, I kinda got the hint that things would be bad, when I caught her on a weekend trip with a guy "friend".....lol. TRUE story...(all I can do is laugh now) . Yes, I still stayed and tried to work it out, but woke up and left 4 years later (after taking a beating emotionally)....better late than never. (sigh)

I would venture to say that the number of broken women today is larger than it’s ever been in human history.

Worst red flag: when she tried to tell me that we have been lied to about Rudolph. Because Rudolph was actually a strong red nosed FEMALE reindeer

I’m a single mom and I appreciate your videos. I have two daughters and it’s important for me to raise them respecting not only themselves but good men. My dad was not supportive growing up and I definitely had issues that stemmed from that. Hindsight is 20/20. Being a good person means taking responsibility for the choices you make. Unfortunately society and feminism has destroyed men and women and glad there are strong rations male voices out there to hopefully educate young men to protect themselves. I have nephews and I worry about them more than my daughters sometimes. We need to realize we are all in this together and it shouldn’t be men vs women, but good vs bad. I took responsibility for my life, my boyfriend is an amazing man and also an entrepreneur. So for the single moms out there, I think it’s important that they are introspective and it’s more important to be a good parent than it is to keep bringing lower men into their lives. The right person will come along when you’re not looking.

I think this is one of the best BTT's you've done...I have a suggestion about a new video or series of videos about job red flags to look out for when accepting or leaving a job

If I find a woman attractive then later find out she’s a single mum, from that point she might aswell be a dude to me

To add to the animals thing: years ago I began dating a girl who was just finalizing her divorce. She got the house in the settlement. Tiny 800 Square foot home. She had 2 German Shepherds and a stray cat living there. They were allowed to run a muck destroying the house (separation anxiety when she was at work). She wanted me to move in and help with the bills. I refused because she showed more devotion and love to them than she did me. From the dogs climbing into bed at night to the cat crawling on me and meowing all night, I finally lost interest really fast. She couldn't understand why I was exiting the relationship. Guys, a woman will never respect you or love you if they have pets that are allowed to do as they please without any repercussions or solutions applied afterwards. No matter how much you provide or throw money at them, you will always be lower in the rankings. My exit led me to find the red pill. Thank you!

My experience with dating single mothers has been that they look more at what all you can bring to the table and offer them than who YOU are..

And they wonder why we have zero interest in marriage anymore...

The wife of one of my buddies asked me in his car how much money I make in front of him while he was driving. I briefly met her only once before. I think this is a huge red flag but he doesn't seem phased by it. I feel sorry for him.

If you take a woman out, and she drops the "I'm a princess" bomb on you... You need to very bluntly tell her right then and there, "Well, you'll have to drop that idea if you want to be with me in any way." No leeway should be given here.

On a date a 48 yr old told me she had 3 kids by 3 different fathers . When I asked her what she was doing on the weekend she said she was on another date ...?!! At the end of the date I literally ran to my car.

My older brother was hooking up with a girl back in the day that kept hounding him about being in a relationship. He told her as a joke that he wouldn’t commit unless she got his name tattooed on her neck. A few days goes by and she shows up to his apartment while I was there. She pulls back her hair and in bold letters is his name tattooed in black ink on her neck! This was her first tattoo! It just goes to show, women will go to great lengths to be with a man they perceive as high value.

RED Flag: I learned many years ago: Visit her where she lives, go to the bathroom, check out the medicine cup board for RX meds. Write down with the ball point pen on a crib sheet and later check them out online ! They walk among us.

Used to work with a woman. Behind her back we called her Nine Iron. One time she and her former boyfriend had a fight, she left his place and took a golf club to his car. She broke out all of the windows and caused serious body damage to the car. She did get arrested by the police.

No such a thing as a women with no red flags, if your really into it for a long term relationship,and this applies especially today ,that their are complex compromises and hope's you both have to jump through.

If she spends any time telling a victim story, she's probably a covert narcissist - Run!

The chick staring at you saying “you’re the plan” sounded bonkers. Lol. Much love brotha.

Love you man, seriously. You've helped me so much already, and I'm only about two weeks in to your videos.

You my friend are savage and I've just been red pilled. Just received my copy of The Tactical Guide to Woman and am looking forward to doing the work. Thank you big man.

She's always on Instagram taking selfies when she is with you. Definitely red flag.

Great episode man.. loved it!

Awesome vid. I was wondering what was going to come from your poll. Great content, sir.

My heart aches as I listen to all of these comments. I went thru all of these red flags you speak of with my ex. I finally mustered up enough courage to call her out and break up with her for good. Thank you Mr. Cooper. You are an inspiration and possibly a life saver for many. Where can I email you my story?

A subtle red flag for me was when she received a text message from someone named "Hubby". She acted like nothing happened and I just laughed, paid the check and left.

... if they are too hot...in general, and has been my experience, it comes with extra headaches....same with smoking.. not so much the smoking in and of itself , but, i have never met anyone who smokes that didn’t have issues...oh, and as stated by many, “free spirit”, does not scream “stable”....

Here's one I haven't seen mentioned. She picks fights with you in her head. She wins the fight, then projects on you in real life and your like WTF did I do?.. happened to me a few times. Most people aren't going to even know it just happened.

Good stuff Rich! Keep spreading the positive message and boundaries that men today need and deserve. 😎

I'm independently wealthy. When I get "what do you do for a living?", it's "I'm unemployed".

Hey Rich, great video. You seemed in a lighter mood today, more relaxed? Keep up the great content brother

My ex-boyfriend said the same about his 2nd ex-wife being abusive but it turns out he was a cheater and speaks terribly about both his ex-wives. My bad for ignoring the red flags.

You ROCK ! Keep it funny and serious , but the laughs keep it down to earth. No PC , BS here.

I dated a physical 9 once, worst experience, worst sex ever. I immediately bought a flesh light.

When she tell you the bar / restaurant she wants to go to, and the bar tender says in front of you and her (to her): "When do I get my kiss?"

California surfer girlfriend of 2 years once told me it was "difficult dating a man who drove a Toyota". Even my parents told me "boy, she has lots of problems". Long gone now.

Lol “there are women out there-(pause, shakes his head) -for the love of god” that cracked me up haha

Hey Rich I been following you since you had 12k subscribers. I have been a fly on the wall but I take it all in. I try to navigate my friends towards your your channel. You do amazing work and you are making a difference for a lot of young guys. Thank you!

This was simply one of the best BTT

This is educational stuff, very eye opening thanks Rich.

Super comments on real issues thank you Richard for a great show!

Such great advice for this entering the dating game. I agree 100% that you never put up with their BS games (tests). Dumped a type a pediatrician yesterday - already getting texts saying she misses the boat. Ha! Already have a date lined up for Friday - and better looking. Don't put up with their BS.

Married woman here without kids married a man without kids. both, our 2nd marriages. I consider myself extremely lucky!!!! The dating world is hard out there. I still love your channel and find it interesting reading/hearing about the stories

Great episode Rich! I will be getting a vasectomy for Christmas.

Great work Rich. You are doing God's work. I am happily married with kids, all set up, just watch more for interest and concern for the decline of our civilization. All young men should watch your stuff.

I have learned so much in just a few videos!

Someone who twists something honest/innocent that you've said into a big deal (ok, most women to some degree) then when you ask what on earth they're arguing about, they accuse you of gaslighting...Which is gaslighting in itself! Dealt with that one a couple times recently. Unfortunately for her, I have some training, some experience in, and a good understanding of psychology and what gaslighting is. Can still catch you unawares, though. The same person is obsessed with Narcs. "He's a narc-", "She's a narc-", "my ex's were narcs". I think I found out who the real narc was.

Excellent resource! Keep up the great work, you are very appreciated. 🐋🤙🏼🧜🏻‍♀️🌟🌺

Here's a shit test recipy for all the men out dating: 1. At the very start of the date when you've met up with the woman: Show her that you are turning off your Phone and mention casually that you don't want to be disturbed. 2. If, at any point in the date except at the very end, she's on her Phone without a very good reason (medical emergency in the family for instance) she's failed the shit test. Show and enforce your values.

I'm gonna throw one in, though it might sound a bit of a non-sequitor. If your'e on a date with a woman and she is 'asking you questions', as in not engaging in an actual conversation like would an adult human being, then I would consider that a red flag, or some where close to it on the color scheme.

Only has guy friends. Gives you ultimatums

AS ALWAYS Rich....Awesome stuff! Thanks!

14:15 that’s honestly so true. So many people with that victim mindset: they’ll cite some random diagnosis to excuse why they don’t behave up to par

These were great! I learn so much from your channel. Even though I am a single woman interested in men some of these red flags are the same for me in dating men. Oh thanks for saying about the face photos on dating apps. I am not a super thin women. I have T&A but I usually don’t use a full length photo but now I will.

If she’s got all male friends

Thank you for the video! Right on and well said, as always... 👍❤️

Rich, thank you man for opening my eyes, I’m from Morocco, a muslim dude with different culture different langage and different on so many levels yet your word makes sense. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Single moms,single moms,single moms!stay a way from them

No Joke..... My ex wife's sister wanted me to get her pregnant.... like we were just going to do it and everything would fine. I've never been so freaked out in my entire life. She even joked with my wife about it in front of me.... I couldnt believe it.

Just coming to your channel Rich 6 months late to the party (I was in AFG). 'baby rabies' is hysterical!!

Thanks Rich for the continued confirmations

When she brings a red flag to the first date.

I walked into a coffee test without knowing. I was late for a date, i let her know, she was waiting for me , for five mins or so. Once i walked, we said hello hugged, i said i was going to place an order and i will be right back. Placed my order, sat back down and her mood and face changed. I asked what is wrong, she tells me that i should have offered to pay for her coffee. She had already ordered...i dig around for some cash, place it on the table and wish her a good evening.

You are without a doubt the coolest guy on KZfaq. Where were you ten years ago when I needed you. LOL...

Really enjoyed this episode!

I had a chick ask me out 1 night and made sure she threw her husband out before the date night. After a month of dating the husband followed me and pulled over ready to kill the guy to find he was thrown out the day after I was asked to dinner. I had no clue. She was a real trash bag

I was sent a text from her, by "accident" ment for her girlfriend. Saying how I wast her normal type not 6'3 blabla.. first red flag 🚩 amongst many. She always tryed to change me into a form of what she was truly looking for. Ended it. Guess who is trying to crawl back. She is over 35 broken. I went Casper.

Thank you Rich, it's a great video ever! Please talk about gifts. My new rule of thumb here is, never give a gift to a woman that is more expensive than the sifts dhe's been giving you. In my experience, I've always given more expensive gifts to a woman than the gift they have given me, especially on Valentine's Day. Her birthday, anniversary or Christmas. Have a great day!

Great video Rich

Late 90's I joined the internet. I noticed how tall all these women were but the photographs were all cropped to narrow them further to make the subject look slimmer :)

She likes to cause drama and getting you into fights out on dates

Priceless information.. Thx Rich!