Hi FAM! I appreciate all your comments about this vlog. We all have our own thoughts and opinions naman about diff matters (tho yung iba ay sobrang G na G na parang may nagawa akong mali sa kanila 😅 and sobrang easy to judge) pls let them be, ganun talaga ang life 😅To everyone, pls know that kaming magpipinsan ay all chill abt this. We’ve known each other since childhood and wala ito sa amin. I just shared my sentiments sa vlog as what I always do, no sugarcoating whatsoever. Also if you’ve been watching the vlogs for the longest time, you would know that it was never my intention to shame my cousins :) We are all happy, no beef at all 💖💖💖

JM you are authentic, and I am sure you love your cousins, parents, sister, brother-in-law…nephew… thanks for sharing your life with us. Keeping your senior parents involved with your vlog is so endearing! ❤❤😊

huge fan of JM. his vlogs helped me sa mga solo travels ko but recently ang off ng mga sinasabi niya especially sa cousins niya kaya madalas hindi ko na tinatapos. respect everybody's time? that's a bit rich coming from him when he's always late for work and may time pa na kinailangan niya sumingit sa immigration kasi maiiwan na siya. practice what you preach na lang sir. pagsabihan ng maayos and be considerate dahil nagcocommute lang ang cousins na may ambag naman sa content mo.

He won't understand this anymore since iba na ang life nya ngayon. Before, same pa sila ng mga cousins nya na grinding for life and daily living like normal people. Because he already achieved success, everything is centered to him. His time, his space and his needs are far more important than what is happening sa mga couz regardless if may need maglaba, magtrabaho, byumahe at pagod sa work. Sya kasi, nagiisip na lang ano pwede gawin at icontent for the day and huge money flows in, in a snap. You need to make time for him, kasi "Lilibre" ka naman nya. Otherwise, "Ekis" ka.

I don't care if this gets deleted. MY GOD. Some people here are missing the point. Hindi niyo ba nabasa or inintindi yung comments? Point here is, *bakit kailangang i-vlog ni JM yung mga ganung bagay? Prone to unnecessary bullying/bashing ang mga cousins.* Worse is, paulit ulit pa sa vlog. He is a corporate employee so he should know the phrase *praise in public, criticize in private.* JM, okay lang sayo na tinatawag ng *FAM* mo ang cousins mo ng *nakikikain, palibre, bastos, walang kwenta?* Again, *i don't tolerate tardiness.*

Jusq yung mga nag cocomment 😂 wala naman awkwardness, all in good light. Ganun lang talaga sila magbiruan. Kaya mahirap talaga magshare ng life. Dami perpekto at puro mema. Kahit mga cuz chill lang jusmiyo ❤

This is the first time na ndi ko natapos agad ang vlog, i feel off sa pag rarant ng late in public :( im sorry fam. Opinion ko lng ito. No hate feelings.

mukhang mas madami nag call out kay JM sa pag call out nya sa mga cousins nya haha medyo nakaka off nga naman pag call out nya sa pinsan ny publicly haha

I'm sorry po but medyo off po sakin itong pag call out mo sa mga couz sa vlog. This is not the right venue for it and preach "Respect Everybody's Time" when you yourself had instances na nalate (e.g., Recent Nagoya Trip [not once but twice na late ng gising], late sa office). Kawawa mga couz. I'm an avid viewer pero there's something different talaga lately. I hope you consider this and huwag po mag delete ng comments na maayos naman po ang intention.

SociaL media is such a harsh flatform na hindi natin kayang controlin. I got JMs view at kahit ako imbierna ako sa mga late and lalo na sa work which is sa totoo lang normal na yata yan sa pinas. Pero dalhin mo sila sa abroad number 1 sa compliance sila. But on a very constructive way hindi talaga magandang tingan na i criticise mo ang mga cousins mo sa vlog kasi everyone can see it. Paano kung ako ang employer ng mga cuz mo tapos may ganun din pala na attitude sa work so ma confirm lang na ay tru pala late pala talaga palgi. Just hypothetical lang naman. Kaya di mo rin mapigilan ang mga followers mo na mag commenr kasi everything u said im sure may massabi sila. I guess once ang for all have a sit down vlog with ur cuz para malaman ang feelings nila for transparency ba

Let's see if the comments will be deleted again. Again, take these comments as constructive criticisms, nothing more, nothing less.

Im also not okay with people who are verryyy late like more than an hour is nakakainis na. But… you have to be aware that this is youtube and your videos will remain as long as have it in your channel, so lahat ng makakanood negative na ang magiging tingin sa mga pinsan mo. It’s okay to correct people but make sure it’s in private, not in public like this. With lots of people will also share their thoughts on them. This is just my 2 cents about this. But will visit this cafe when im back at ph! Thanks for sharing!

I hope you will treat your cousins better, you are being tactless , yes you are kind pero stop bashing them online. Di sila tulad mo na may sariling car, and they had been so helpful with you, they could have used their personal time sa ibang bagay but they chose to help you before,hope you dont do this again sa kanila in future vlogs.

ang awkward nung sinabi na masarap talaga kasi pag dating kakain na. parang d ko na maeenjoy food pag ganyan lol

19:40 “Lami talaga kasi pag dating nyo kakain nalang kayo” - eto talaga yung malala. Secondary nalang yung non stop niyang pag call out dahil late ang mga caz. Kahit ikaw nagbayad ng food, it doesn’t give you the right na magsalita ng ganyan. Sad to say, makikita mo talaga other side ng tao pag naka-angat na siya sa buhay. Hanggang “Hala” nalang sagot mga caz.

Naka kainis naman talaga mag Antay ng 1hr, Tapos may kasama pa seniors.

JM: Wakes up late twice for Nagoya Trip - "I was so sleepy!" JM: Cousins late to just eat food - "respect my time, never be late"

I agree with JM, he is talking in general also, not only for his cousins…have respect to elders also, wasting their time waiting.

JM, not to invalidate your feelings, but a more mature way to handle situations like this is to discuss it with them offline and complain less about them online. After all, your cousins have been very helpful to you and your family before, during, and after your move to your new home. Not justifying their behavior, I noticed they’re often late, but please cut them some slack.

JM sorry to say this ah but ur cousins have been so helpful to you throughout ur lipat journey so its very negative for you to say things about them tas nung andyan na parang okay lang lahat or puro parinig ang nangyayari which is very immature lalo nat lahat naman kau matatanda na, better talk to them privately about it lalo nat lagi nga naman nangyayari yan kasi papangit ang imahe ng mga cousins mo 😢

Feedback is a gift😊

Hi JM, it’s understandable to feel frustrated because they’re late, but I think addressing these issues privately might be more effective and respectful. Publicly calling them out can potentially strain your relationship with your cousins and might not come across well to your viewers. I also think it’s important to consider how these public rants might affect your viewers. Many of us come to your channel for a bit of escape and positivity. Of course, it’s your channel and your choice how you wish to handle these situations, but I just wanted to share my perspective as a loyal viewer who loves what you do.

Long time viewer of JM as well. Recently he has been very mataray and maarte, not the usual JM before na very humble and calm. He also become clickbaity with all the bragging of the things he bought. Ganyan ata nagagawa pag yumaman na through KZfaq

One thing i observed. Pinsan mo sila still part of your family pero kung ibabash mo sila sa video mo or vlog ano na lang iisipin ng ibang tao. We know how to respect everybody's time is important pero mas professional siguro tignan kung off cam mo na lang sinabihan or kinausap. Not your basher ❤ Just my opinion lang.

Please do not delete this comment, JM. To be clear, pet peeve ko rin ang mga late and I am not justifying this behavior of fiesta gang. The point here JM was this whole "ekis kayo sakin sa time/respect everybody's time" ordeal should have been cut out from the vlog. Because of this: 1. Cousins are being compared to each other by netizens 2. Netizens saying mean things: bastos, nakikain, walang kwenta etc. At least give them some dignity naman. Learn to set boundaries. Hindi lahat ng bagay kailangang i-vlog.

Di naman lahat dapat vina vlog. Yung pag call out mo sa kanila and make them as your drama content is so below the belt. Di excuse na close na close kayo. Pinapahiya mo sila in public. Spare them from the unnecessary hate kasi sila lang naman lagi content mo, without them your vlog will be so bland and lifeless. They were very helpful to you sa lahat ng vlogs mo and every chance you get, you diss their appearance, their quirks. So sad for them. They deserve better.

Actually dapat nga bibigyan nia mga pinsan nia kasi sinasama nia sa mga vlogs nia eh.. kumikita din sya tru his cousins.. just saying😢

I have been following you since day 1 pero parang off ka dito JM. I've seen how these cousins of yours have been there for you every step of the way even kahit mga ganap mo they cook and help you out. sana lang naging considerate ka kahit konti since they don't have their own car like you and who knows what happened kaya na late sila... I hope FAME don't change you and you stay grounded because I feel you've changed and started to become 'Malaki na ang ulo'. syempre napapansin namin yun mga followers mo kasi di ka naman dating ganyan.. please remember where you started and hope you stay the same person you were when we first followed you.. DON'T CHANGE. BE AUTHENTIC, BE GENUINE AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, STAY HUMBLE. Kasi baka ma EKIS ka rin sa ming mga followers mo pag nawala na yung dating JM.

Magawa mo kayang sabihin niyang Don’t be Late sa mga Influencer friends mo. Pinagkakakitaan mo na nga ung Pinsan mo tapos kaw pa galit haha. Wow!

Agree na nakakainis yung late as it is a sign of disrespect pero calling them out "ekis" on vlog seems foul. Dahil lang nalate sila (commuters) this time eh ekis na. This vlog also says to their employers and other friends na ganun na agad tag sa kanila, that they cant be trusted regarding time -- and as a viewer, i feel bad for them.

Hi JM, I know you we're frustrated with your cousins being late pero sana next time just talk to them personally and dont share your frustrations with them in your vlog. You're opening them up for people here in the comment section to bully them and say mean things na sana between you and your family nalang. Thanks! Not bashing here just giving constructive criticism.

Hmmmm they're enjoying mutual benefits. The cousins nakalibre ng dinner, si JM naman may pangcontent. Lugi pa nga mga cousins kasi na-bash pa but si JM will earn from this vlog. 😂 kaya happy lang si JM, wala naman mawawala sa kanya kaya for him okay lang and chill lang, he will earn naman at the expense of the cousins.

Ok lang ma late basta mag heads up. Pero kung everytime na lang kc na late, un ang hindi na maganda

as for the wise words of Wil Dasovich, drama is good for the vlog!😂

Kakamiss si cous vanessa. Lately hindi sya nakakasama sa mga galaan/lakad. Ang layo kasi ni cous vanessa. Sya lang nasa manila. Lahat nasa cavite.

Sarap mag hang out jan sa 10/23.. i love their referesher and 10/23 sandwich.. we live 5 mins away lang sa 10/23 sometimes its traffic papunta jan because of they have construction jan sa my open canal kaya i understand kung late sila merz especially kapag galing ka sa aguinaldo hwy iikot ka pa, kase sa construction… sa mga taga malagasang we call that the new edsa sa sobrang traffic sa crossing papasok sa open canal… normally kme nga 5 mins away pede ilakad kapag naka 4 wheels it takes 30 to 40 mins dahil sa traffic sa crossing… So sa mga nag cacall out kay JM be kind.. his being honest and for sure di naman sinasadya nila merz kase di din nila control yung traffic

Less talk na sana ulit tulad ng dati mong mga vlogs. 😊

Tama! Dapat talaga matuto tayo rumespeto sa oras ng iba. Ang ikli lang nang buhay tapos sayangin lang oras mo. Di mo pa naman mababalik ang oras na nawala.

His cousins are all helpful and mabait but let's not invalidate JM's feelings too. I appreciate his honesty too, He seldom rants so it's ok. But having to wait for almost 2 hours with seniors in tow is never ok. He is just sharing his other side and that's OK and this will also serve as a good reminder to us all to always be on time and respect other people's time.

I agree to respect everyone's time. The problem is Filipino is usually late. I honor you for being patient and composed even if you were a bit annoyed. You take care.

What I don’t understand is why super affected ng mga tao. Hindi naman natin alam ang family dynamics nila. Let them be and just enjoy their content.

My technique sa people na laging late… tell them meet up time is 6pm but real time is 8pm.. lol hahaha

HAHAHA! And the "Gara-Gara Award" goes to.... LOL! ibang level ang patience mo, mamsh JM--admirable!

Happy Bonding With Cousins & Great Skin Care Tips JM 🫰🏻Relaxing Vlog ❤️

Pinaghintay na nga ng almost 2 hours, na-bash pa tuloy sa sariling vlog. Na-miss ko siguro sa video ung pag apologize at ung sagot nila sa paulit-ulit na tanong ng mga senior kung bakit sila late. Miss ko na tuloy si cous Vanessa.

Been noticing this kind of attitude towards his cousin. I prefer the travel vlogs

Wala kong nakikitang mali sa pag call out niya ng mga late cuz. Ang nakikita ko lng is real person. 💯 kung matagal n kyong follower they we’re really close tlg. And yes he mentioned, he dont sugar coat.

Icall daw out ba ang family members sa vlog? Sobrang off, nakakotse ka and your cousins commute their way dyan so di mo alam ang situation kahit pa malate sila ng sobra. Nagmamataas na ba porke sagot mo yun dinner? Wag sana malimutan na viewers mo ang nagdala sayo dyan hehe 😉

True naman, time is the most important thing that you can give anybody. It is really annoying especially if it is more than an hour, i think too much na yun.

Agree ako to call out tardiness and respect other people’s time but we should also respect other people’s privacy. Your cousins are not vloggers kasi.

this is to justify na tama mga redditors sa mga napansin nila, take note og viewers nila yun na nagbibigay ng constructive criticism pero deleted agad sa comment section

I just hope that all those comments whether in good faith or not will not affect the relationship bet. you and ur cuz. I understand ur genuine feeling of being tired of waiting esp. with ur senior parents around, i don't think money had changed you but this socmed will put you under a microscope. Just learn from it, continue the goodness and be more cautious on ur next vlogs. I will always watch and enjoy every vlog u make coz it's my routine before going to bed. Good luck, more blessings and keep ur feet on the ground as always❤️💚💜

pag late better call and apologize. Nun nakita mga seniors dapat mag sorry lasi kapagod mag anntay at least mag communicate Kung nasan na para hindi sana kayo unalis ng maaga ng parents mo.

matagal naman talaga yun 1.5hr... pero guyz baka naman ordinary lang sa kanila yun way ng salita ni JM.. mas malala p kami na magpipinsan diyan.. pero yun nga iba iba ng opinion tao hindi lahat mauunawaan ka.. ganyan tlga pag pinili mong ipublic ang life mo.my mga criticisms

Buti pa si couz vannessa di nalalate sa meetup kahit malayo. Nakakainis talaga pag ang kasama late sa mga scheduled time esp kung may kasamang elderly na madali din mapagod.

Anong brand ng specs mo JM? TIA

Yes, respect everybody's time👍🏼

Ang saya ng kwentuhan! Chillax lang :)

Ang dami nung “hala!” Sayang di ko nabilang 😆

Haaaay very toxic kapag laging late😒

Inuna ko basahin ang comment, d naman sobrang oa ng pagcall out sa mga cousins nya. Msyado oa mga ngcomment, siguro lage kayo late. hahaha eme. May mali si JM kasi ngcall out siya sa vlog pa, mdmi kasi nanunuod sa vlog na to dhil positivity tapos hahaluan ng negative, gigil siya and si papang ay halata ang sama ng loob. Pero valid din naman ang feelings, ganyan din ako pag ako manlilibre tapos late pa mga ililibre nkkawalang gana, siguro tama na dpat off cam na lang sinabi.

Hi JM, ask ko lang regarding hotels in Tokyo with good, convenient and not too expensive place to stay. Thanks

ang saya ng kwentuhan. I wish I have cousins like them. pabiro naman nagsabi si JM, don't be too serious. imagine kung mag isa ka lang naghintay ng 1 hr. you're kind pa nga mag-order for them. it's ok to 'rant', valid reason naman. at least hindi filtered just to make everything 'nice, sugar and spice' ...😉

Woohooo!!!

grabe! everybody going in off in the comments. halatang halata na sanay sa FILIPINO TIME. there is nothing wrong with the callout. 2 hours na late ay sobra sobra na. lalo pa may senior parents in tow. max na yung 30 min siguro as a rule. kung alam naman na malayo ang panggagalingan, mahirap sumakay o traffic, it's best to leave early para may leeway in case may mga mishaps na kung ano man. RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE's TIME should always be a rule. masyado tayo nasanay sa FILIPINO TIME. the lesson is not just on the cousins but also to share sa audience.

I think wala naman masama sa pg rant ni JM typical convo lng rin yan ng friends niyong may late sa galaan at biru biruan but sympre mas nice sana kung snbi nlng rin ng mga couz na malalate sila kse may senior din kasama

“Kung hindi pa ako kikilos, mamaya pa kami kakain.” 😬 “Ako pa pinag-order nyo sa loob? Ang haba-haba ng pila. Ako pa talaga ang pumila.” 😬 Expected pala na yung mga pinsan to serve JM? Kasi sya magbabayad? E gamit na gamit nga sila sa content. Anyway, well-compensated naman ata sila. 😬

Ayoko rin ng late. Nakakabastos kasi. Ganyan na ganyan barkada ko kaya nagpapa-late na lang rin ako huhu male-late lang siguro ako for 30mins to adjust 😢

Next time, pinakalate ang magbabayad ng foodang

I understand. Ako din kasi on time lagi o earlier pa.

I like the time with your cousins. Even you calling them out is refreshing. Instead of an ordinary vlog parang reality show ang dating.

Inabangan ko alin part ng vlog ang OA sa call out..para skin pag super close ganyan tlga ang way na magsalita natawa tuloy ako.. kse ilang beses ko pa binalikan 😂 saka mukang nainip nman din tlga ang mga seniors..kaya pati si papang bumabanat na

May nag sorry sa pagiging late nila?

Ako na lang po sana ininvite niyo hehe 😂. Mas maaga pa sa mas maaga 😊

Tama ka respect yung oras ng iba pareho tayo hindi ako nalalate sa oras naiinis ako isang oras na mahigit nakakainis yang ganyan kahit pamilya kopayan

Andaming sensitive dito, mga sanay kasi sa filipino time. Haaaaay naku, try nyo naman lumabas ng pinas paraa alam nyo attitude ng ibang lahi re: time.😂😂😂

na try kona yan. sa umpisa ok pero mabilis mag wane yung adhesive kasi pag nabilad sa araw natutunaw pandikit. 😮

for sure yung mga nagkocomment diyan, maiinis din kung late ng 2 hours. jusko

Watching from Germany nice all your vlogs❤❤❤

ang bait mo talaga Jm at ng Parents mo, one and a half hour na paghihintay is not a joke.

Relate ako sa nagdala ng sariling rice! 😂

oo nga kuya nakakainis kapag super late yung kasama mo sa lakad. Next time kuya JM mag challenge kayo, Mag se set kayo ng time. kung sino ang ma.lelate sya magbabayad ng total bill ng kinain nyo.

i think being late some of us filipinos habit na tlga and i don’t thinkJm mean seriously deep about his cousins , maybe initial reactions lang na 1 hr nag wait pero upon seeing his cousins naman nag meltdown naman cia, wag na nating intrigahin un pagsasama nila bilang magpipinsan,Jm is not bossy he was respected by his cousin’s being the eldest among them…stop po being negative, un pagsasama nila magkakilala na sila since bata pa kaya nakakapag biruan sila sa isat isa without being negative pagkatapos lumaki cla close so i think walang space sa knila un tampuhan…. not all cousins are like that❤

Sir JM, San po ang address nito??

His reaction is normal. Some people need to lighten up. Come on. Chill!

Nice!

kaya si cuz Vanessa ang pinaka favorite ko n cuzin’ mo JM kasi marunong siya rumespeto sa time ng iba 😊 hindi siya late kapag niyaya mo siya lumabas 😊

Bad vibes ung late ha. Naawa ako sa parents mo. Anyways- they should do better na lang nxt time. Or off the record mo ung sermon. Hehe.

Sana wag kayong magkasamaan ng loob gusto ko pa naman nakikita ang mga cousins mo 💕

Sarap kumain ni ariel! 25:00

ayy sus akala ko naman super lala ng pag callout 😅 for me okay lang naisinali pa din sa vlog kasi para satin din naman yun na matuto din talaga tayo maging on-time.. kudos sa pasensya ni Kuya JM 😊 kung yung iba yan as in makikita mo talaga na imbyerna to the highest level talaga tipong sisimangutan at pagsasalitaan ng kung ano ano yung tao.. naalala ko tuloy yung nangyari sakin dati sa Enchanted Kingdom, na ako yung sinigawan kasi ako yung adult ei sinamahan ko lang naman yung mga bata dun na sumakay dun sa boat na pinapadyak, mind you ako yung inutusan nila na samahan mga bata kasi walang ni isa sa kanila ang may gusto sumama, ei syempre mahaba pila kaya antagal din namin, so nung nasa boat na kami paikot na pabalik ,biglang sumulpot common-FIL ko tas sinigawan kami tas sabi sakin kakain na kami nalang inaantay, jusme guys yung feeling na para kang natunaw sa kahihiyan kasi andaming nakarinig sa sobrang lakas ng sigaw samin, tapos pagdating namin sa table, di pa pala sila nakakaorder 🤦🏻‍♀️ dedecide palang kung ano oorderin kakaloka.. grabe talaga yun as in nawalan ako ng ganang kumain tas lumayo talaga ako saka ako umiyak kasi nanginginig ako sa sobrang sama ng loob ko.. nag silent treatment talaga ako nun kaya alam nilang wala na ako sa mood, tas yun pinagsabihan din ng partner ko yung dad niya, aligaga kasi sila nun dahil kasama namin yung mga balae at manugang nila na akala mo naman talaga ang perfect family 😅 anyways naikwento ko lang, ang babaw lang ng pag callout ni Kuya JM sa mga cuz.. wag niyo masamain guys,, para satin lahat yan , tsaka ansaya saya naman nila..

I hoper your mother is okay. For me sa late issue, wala naman ako nakikitang masama. Next time if sabihin ng mga cousin mo na 7 pm alis kayo ng house mga 8 pm hehe..since alam mo na papanu sila when it comes to time. Pag ganyang kain kain sa labas okay lang ma late. Pero sa ibang bagay like flights or tour hindi maganda yang late. Mukang sa ganyang bagay pag kita kita lang eh late sila.

Sino kaya ang pasimuno ng late? Kung ako ayan uwi na ako nyan. Sila nag yaya sila pang late. 🙄 Award pa sakin sa GC yan. Bakit nyo pipigilan yung pang aaward nya in public sa mga pinsan nyan late e deserve naman yun. Bait pa nga nya e.

If kaya mo sana makapag-daily upload para 1 to 4 days recent ang uploads mo. 2 weeks or more kasi is too late/old na. Congrats sa 150k subs na! :)

Buti pala sinama ni JM parents nya. Kung hindi, almost 2 hours sya mag isa sa cafe. Communication amd honesty is the key. Like if hindi pa makaalis, sabihin sa other party na later na sya umalis or what. If you really care for the other person, ayaw mo din sya mag mukhang engot maghintay.

16:04 galing timing.

Pledge mo jm,, relo😂 bka ma-late din sa kasal😅,, charot😄

Nagefeel ko ang inis mo JM…pati si Papang eh….haaay…hindi man lang nag apologize for being late. Nakakahiya nmana talaga considering iisang town lang panggagalingan niyo.

Everyone is too sensitive about him telling off his cousins for being late. They are a really close family and seem comfortable being open and honest with one another. His cousins help him a fair bit, but he is also very generous with them by the looks of it. It's a two way street.

Pareho namang may kamalian si JM at cousins nya. I hope this will be a lesson sa kanilang lahat.