Can a person from a broken home make a good spouse
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@kwadwosheldonstudios Жыл бұрын
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@richiemd777 Жыл бұрын
Growing up from a broken home or two-parent household is one thing, then being raised on love versus survival is another. One doesn't necessarily present an advantage over another when it comes to marriage. Maybe Socio-economics and social mobility but not necessarily marriage. I've dated and known people who were raised in a two-parent household but are extremely entitiled, inconsiderate or narcissistic because they've always had it. I've also known people who were raised in broken homes that used their upbringing as a catalyst for self improvement & build a better family structure for themselves. Introverts respond to these environmental exposures far different than extrovert and can shape ones temperament. Religiousity in Ghana can be a tool to obscure behaviors like chronic cheating, childhood traumas & hypocrisy. Then there's sexual history & past relationship experience that needs to heavily scrutinize far more than the household they grew up from.
@pythoneeringdjango8 ай бұрын
Scanty's opening take on the subject is true. Scanty understands a lot about the society in which we live in now.
@barbarakwashie620111 ай бұрын
Most women from broken homes are normally manipulated because we didn't get that fatherly love and for that we see a father figure in the men we go into relationships with
@nanaboateng875211 ай бұрын
Let’s take Sheldon for example, he said he lost his dad when he was a child, Sheldon is always her mom(old girl). But Sheldon is a very good person even though he dey gymie small 😂😂 but he is a good guy. You considering that the person is a broken or not doesn’t matter, if the person is okay for you go ahead. That’s my suggestion
@darksonplays Жыл бұрын
Scanty being so serious about money at the end and almost preaching is just golden 😂😂
@jaughnekow11 ай бұрын
Money is everything.
@darksonplays11 ай бұрын
@@jaughnekow not everything
@BigAkwes Жыл бұрын
There’s a perspective that none of you seem to be able to see or maybe don’t care to share, yes people coming from broken home can have these traits but it mostly comes from how the individual sees the world. The are people who grew up seeing their dad beat their mom and vice versa and swear they’ll never touch their woman. It’s all how they see the world and how they interpret it. There are two possible outcomes for every situation.
@visiontech781 Жыл бұрын
W bro ❤
@hopeetornam4286 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom right there ❤
@charlesclayman390911 ай бұрын
I completely agree 💯
@jaughnekow11 ай бұрын
Good point
@manlikejunior971111 ай бұрын
Good point
@tonyadu9198 Жыл бұрын
Let scanty mention his “critique” in peace 😂😂😂
@amadarlington9879 Жыл бұрын
I'm here for Scanty's submission🤣🤣. Always on point.
@atokwamena1915 Жыл бұрын
After dating two ladies who didn’t hv a father figure at home, what scanty is saying is very true and I just realize the reason why they fold and becomes selfish and self centered.
@breezytraps3184 Жыл бұрын
The Brie girl she dey be oo 😭😭🔥🔥
@mickeykwesi6008 Жыл бұрын
Adwoa Addy's guy must be lucky, she looks, she can really love him forever
@elvisnyarko2595 Жыл бұрын
true what scanty is saying is very true especially when they are been brain washed that the dad is been noted as bad
@kimberly9110 Жыл бұрын
Petition to make bants and rants everyday , plus please bring back nabeela the OG
@reuelsenpai7273 Жыл бұрын
We need the OG
@asarerabbi39011 ай бұрын
Chale
@lateephakimos729911 ай бұрын
We need the OG ❤
@TomDryden98 Жыл бұрын
You guys need to give us 1hr max per video, we be missing the show too much 😊
@alfredamoateng286711 ай бұрын
Sure we need that
@kingebenezer3087 Жыл бұрын
Two sides of the coin. It is a factor but not a key factor. It all boils down to the individual and how he or she sees life
@kwakumiller732311 ай бұрын
I once had a girlfriend who always yearned for me to lay my hands on her. Eventually, she told me that’s how her dad used to treat her mom. Our relationship didn’t work because of that. Broken homes really have a big impact on relationships and marriages
@stellaok32511 ай бұрын
That girl needs therapy ….!
@mstephen_steve11 ай бұрын
I think it does count because I’m an example. When growing up my parents were separated for a while and then later came back after like some years. During that time I stayed with my Dad and I grew up not really to value the importance of women, I feel like I can do all things all by my self. Even though my mom is back, it still make me feel like I don’t really needs her even though we are very cool. So I think someone from a broken home will have a great effect in the person being a good partner. Aside that I have a female friend too who stayed with her mom whilst growing till date, and with her conversation it’s mostly related to her mom and that kind of feeling that males aren’t that more important. So I think it really count. It affects how we treat our partners
@stephenagyepong7779 Жыл бұрын
I agree with Bri, it all bores down to training. Someone could leave with just the grandmother and end up being a great spouse. It doesn't really matter
@hopeetornam4286 Жыл бұрын
Boils down please
@CruiseComrade Жыл бұрын
scanty is always extra ordinary 😂😂😂
@yaaobenewaah1697 Жыл бұрын
Scanty can't speak English
@CruiseComrade Жыл бұрын
@@yaaobenewaah1697you're wrong i don't think so.
@mhixtaken523511 ай бұрын
@@yaaobenewaah1697 so what he has been saying is Latin ?
@original_godey5311 ай бұрын
@@yaaobenewaah1697what is the most spoken language here in Ghana?
@Akosua2511 ай бұрын
What scanty said at 8:35 is true. Because of my situation growing up, I can’t keep a man . As a result of that I have so many exes . Something I’m not proud of 😢
@andyadase11 ай бұрын
Some of us we take a lot from this show so we don’t want anyone that will come here that won’t say anything better
@nanaboateng14 Жыл бұрын
This is gender specific. Most women will say it's not necessary and most men will differ, because, men look at women's past and women look at men's future. So, if a woman is coming from a broken home, she's statistically behind and has to fight to catch up with status quo. On the contrary, a man will use it as motivation to be better, based on the fact that, he'll logically access the situation. But women have the penchant to decide things with emotions compared to men. P.S. This doesn't mean all women are bound to be like that, but generalization runs society. We don't talk about the exception but the rule, so if you're an exception, don't think that's the rule. Great conversation. Keep it up. Scanty is the real deal
@CruiseComrade Жыл бұрын
You're saying facts, that's why women need to make money these days.
@ksurvive835211 ай бұрын
Scanty always got us laugh even before speaking 😂😂
@barbarakwashie620111 ай бұрын
I want to point out that it's mostly we that come from broken homes that most men usually take advantage of
@user-go9ts2ye7t Жыл бұрын
Chale back to back ❤❤❤ Eii scanty, oh joo
@kwadwosheldonstudios Жыл бұрын
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@user-go9ts2ye7t Жыл бұрын
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@boareabdul-rahman1518 Жыл бұрын
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@Just_Linus Жыл бұрын
@@kwadwosheldonstudiosthis your show de3 I would love to be on and be part of your team paa ooo. They have quite an interesting set of topics to discuss
@davismartey690211 ай бұрын
Scanty ein barber do am yawa ooo😂😂😂
@danielkaiser3656 Жыл бұрын
What Scanty is saying is so true
@austinamponsah129711 ай бұрын
Real
@Edikanokonmusic Жыл бұрын
Really intresting topic, i wish it was explained fully in English so that i could get the full gist.
@steveosabutey4196Ай бұрын
what scanty said about girls who grew up without fatherly love is very true
@Emmanuel_Amoah11 ай бұрын
Mitigate risk by considering a good background/home in your preferences when mate selecting. It’s not a full-proof consideration but it sure is a hopeful starting point. There’s an entire psych-science behind this already. Read up on it. Only compromise this when the broken-home consideration exhibits exceptional self discipline on various things. Self discipline is a good indicator of a proactive personality type, and proactive people aren’t ‘who they are’ because of what ‘they’ve been through’. If not, proceed at your own risk
@bismarkowusu211611 ай бұрын
Eeeeeeiiiii scanty firestick say u dey wear banku😂😂😂
@Atsu_88168 Жыл бұрын
Scanty just makes it look easy😢❤❤
@wisdomofori961211 ай бұрын
Yes, true! Training can make a 'girl' treat a man right or wrong and vice versa. I know people, I see people, I have experienced people and I know how this affects the individual very much..... infact according to research, "Children in divorced families are more likely to be anxious, depressed and their mental health problems tend to persist when they become adult". So yes this is a problem, that being stated an individual can also become a better person whether from a broken home or not.
@joeymordey223 Жыл бұрын
Why I dey feel scanty like that?😂😂😂😂😂
@clipflix100 Жыл бұрын
of course
@dennisayitey60038 ай бұрын
Most of your discussions are related to relationships. It's really interesting but the other fields should be involved. Politics, Economy, Health, Business, etc 😊
@felixamoako5701 Жыл бұрын
How scanty de watch Ojoe like👀👀 ...😂🤣😂😂
@user-qt1dj3zk4m11 ай бұрын
Brie and Adjoa looking dashing as always .
@alexyeboah634022 күн бұрын
My mum insulting my dad always makes me angry because I don’t want to face such things in my life
@kwesicharmin890411 ай бұрын
Critique is a correct word. Scanty is very good
@Bra.dela1 Жыл бұрын
Well... From my experience, regardless of ones background, if you are "bad" you are "bad"... Despite the fact that background plays a role in a person's life... Its simply up to an individual to determine how he or she would treat the people around him. You meet one guy who is the worst person on earth... But may be the best husband or the best father in world. So regardless of the financial status at home... How you view relationships and people determines how u treat them.
@eugeniuslamptey11748 ай бұрын
Scanty is right about the critique look about ladies not having a father figure when growing ❤
@richmondntim9015 Жыл бұрын
Witnessed a couple going to through divorce at the court for about 3-5 years and still living together , same room ,same bed , everyone cook their own meals,no conversations except when they meet in court .
@CruiseComrade Жыл бұрын
go forbid that's hell
@kofibankson_11 ай бұрын
Scanty is very right
@user-lt3yr6dy2u Жыл бұрын
I never know say O'Joe dey tear bl3 like this😂...wey Sheldon dey worry am like that🤣🤣
@delaliakussah663111 ай бұрын
I know 😂
@thedatadetectiveshow5 ай бұрын
It is possible for couples to separate and still live in the same apartment initially. Here in the Uk, and even in the US, it is a very common case.
@yawsarpong45237 ай бұрын
I hundred 100 percent agree with the independent aspect of people from broken homes. They mostly survivors.
@KobbyJunior-co3zm Жыл бұрын
Ojoe speaks like our assist 2 1 by 1
@adwoaaddy Жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo 😭😂😂
@cultist835311 ай бұрын
Brie ein side view be solid🔥🔥😂 Shouts to the camera man
@Mediaofbest Жыл бұрын
Scanty is right.
@kobenorths Жыл бұрын
Wen a man grows without a father figure he becomes soft n finds love in d movies , wen a woman grows without a father figure she always thinks u will leave her so she will alwqys try to leave u first 😊
@Royal_PriestMusic10 ай бұрын
Critique😀 Prince Scanty always makes my day. Brie🥰
@mimiasabea5213 Жыл бұрын
Money and love like terms "o" and "e" they are both the second and fourth same place 🤔
@Kofisterlin8 ай бұрын
Scanty is really wise seriously
@Corporate_Ghana9 ай бұрын
Scanty is the real gem.He just lay it raw no polish
@loonyking Жыл бұрын
Scanty be too much critiiiiique look at things 😃 😀 my ribs out
@daylitesonofinspirations22578 ай бұрын
some people from broken home, advice themselves based on their experience not to let their kid go through same,so they sometimes do everything to keep their marriage
@itsnotme9545 Жыл бұрын
OJoe Gh you're not alone
@kingebenezer3087 Жыл бұрын
33:10 Adwoa hitting the Jackpot at this point 🎉
@elijahoware9287 Жыл бұрын
Scanty is soo good my bestee is a perfect example
@jayq-1713 Жыл бұрын
Another life lesson ❤
@kwadwosheldonstudios Жыл бұрын
👏
@staysillim572 Жыл бұрын
Among my partner and I. I’m the one from a family that my mom and dad are divorced! But he’s from a blended family.
@dzifahbethel174511 ай бұрын
YES PLEASE SOMEONE FROM A BROKEN HOME CAN BE A GOOD SPOUSE ❤❤❤
@reuelsenpai7273 Жыл бұрын
Phish's definition is right if you look at it. Some of us grew up in these instances so you cant say its wrong if you don't relate to it. Scant can't say its wrong. I've lived it.
@philipspodcast2 ай бұрын
Chale I miss Adwoa 😢❤
@barbarakwashie620111 ай бұрын
So scanty, are you saying we the ladies that come from broken homes can't be in healthy relationships
@lilceetellem3249 Жыл бұрын
Growth is a Nature and Nurture this thing. De Nature is about de Genetic and inbuilt of a person whiles the Nurture is de environment one found him or herself in. So choosing a partner, one must consider that too.
@richiemd777 Жыл бұрын
Well, you can't fix your genetic makeup so considering it isn't necessarily going to help
@soniaainos724411 ай бұрын
Parents should learn to talk to their children about relationships. If they learn from the street, they'll make mistakes before getting it right.
@ephraimm.1750 Жыл бұрын
Tell Bridget to straighten/ shape ln the wig well, cos it looks separated and not together.
@francisaggrey11 ай бұрын
I promise. O Joe and I did the eye wink at the same time
@meshachyeboah357411 ай бұрын
scanty we support you!!!!!
@creepnews Жыл бұрын
When you marry a lady from a broken home who lived with her mother alone for the most part, the likelihood of your marriage ending is about 95% unless of course you the man are a simp. Such woman are mostly disrespectful and no matter how much they hide it, the disrespect with eventually come out.
@soniaainos724411 ай бұрын
Well.... sometimes, people unlearn bad behavior. Also, it takes 2 people to make a marriage work. If the lady is the only one putting in the work, don't expect a 'perfect' marriage/relationship.
@akosuaasiedu394911 ай бұрын
Not true dear I'm a product of a broken home and I have vowed not to give my children such experience Don't generalise everything
@simplyinspiration11 ай бұрын
@@akosuaasiedu3949Where is the generalisation? I was careful to use words like “mostly” and “likelihood”. No statement is absolute.
@halidmusah5334 Жыл бұрын
Adwo de3 sometimes she dey vex me oo😂😂 Odo as3m y3 ne d3 too much
@frimpongshadrack141011 ай бұрын
Scanty ein hairline be funny waaa😂😂😂😂
@eugeniuslamptey11748 ай бұрын
Scanty I support u bro
@user-kf4eu7gw9d Жыл бұрын
What Scanty is saying is true, is very difficult to keep a man
@sarfoandy251611 ай бұрын
oww my.... scanty with that serious face🤣🤣🤣🤣
@manlikejunior971111 ай бұрын
Ojoo
@Just_Linus Жыл бұрын
You are what you are exposed to most of the time and we have something called modeling which we pick up most of the time so it tends to affect people even when they are not aware of
@rexfordyeboah8489 Жыл бұрын
Adwoa google dey suffer for ur hands top😂
@elladollie9 ай бұрын
It’s true with what scanty is saying ,I know someone who said she hate men because of what his dad did ,she now a lesbian some broken home can be very toxic 😢
@nanaansah700911 ай бұрын
The individual is a product of his/her environment
@fiadzordziclement63537 ай бұрын
Brie is always in a hurry when talking who is after her 😂
@Kofisterlin8 ай бұрын
Father’s play a very critical role when growing up especially with both parent
@ebenezerduah7967 Жыл бұрын
Adwoa and Brie you are too beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
@patrickrumbu290211 ай бұрын
11:29 Brie nailed this one.
@kuunami15 күн бұрын
Saying that coming from a broken home doesn't matter is absolutely ridiculous to me.
@kwakumiller732311 ай бұрын
There’s always an exception to the rule but more often than it it does
@MrTheprince8111 ай бұрын
Great and wonderful topic 👏🏾 👌 👍
@sirr_simon10 ай бұрын
SCANTY IS VERY RIGHT
@sirr_simon10 ай бұрын
THE RICH WILL ALWAYS WIN
@jaughnekow11 ай бұрын
Broken homes means broken bond or relationship between partners.
@benandoh477411 ай бұрын
charlie charlie if u guys know oh joe will be on bants and rants yall need to put some item 13/ small chops there la 😂
@Kofisterlin8 ай бұрын
Bree shouldn’t say you having a father figure in your life doesn’t change anything because it does anything you are exposed to when growing up may or will affect you either positive or negative
@kofibankson_11 ай бұрын
I love Adwoa ooo 🥲😌
@mimiasabea5213 Жыл бұрын
I think if you grow up in a home that a father is beating a wife, the wife always advice her children because experience is certainly the best teacher.
@TimewithKelly Жыл бұрын
First here !!
@andyadase11 ай бұрын
That director Kelly guy,make he never come the show top again ohh He’s not saying anything better
@staysillim572 Жыл бұрын
So the wise advice is! Work and make money to take care of your self! Not looking for someone to give you money! That’s why you repeat that circle in the family