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Can a Woman Take Her Ḥijāb Off In Front of a Potential Spouse? | Ask Shaykh YQ

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Yasir Qadhi

Yasir Qadhi

3 жыл бұрын

Today's Question: Can a Woman Show Her Hair to a Man Who Has Proposed to Her?
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@Trs0o.
@Trs0o. Жыл бұрын
Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne’ (ayat al-kursi) after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entry into Paradise but death.” Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr 7406
@Kamal_AL-Hinai
@Kamal_AL-Hinai 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for clearing my question Sheikh
@mdshoaibahesan8887
@mdshoaibahesan8887 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks you very much u cleared my doubt
@oceanflyer7078
@oceanflyer7078 3 жыл бұрын
Sh Yasir is always more knowledgeable than many of us, JazakAllah khayr Shaykh.
@etoys77
@etoys77 3 жыл бұрын
Lol no he is a deviant
@abdiganisugal825
@abdiganisugal825 3 жыл бұрын
Even if he is a deviant, he's statement is correct. He has studied for years under proper scholars, what happened after doesn't make him lose knowledge. Perhaps, you can say he's understanding is wrong.
@wouldyounot7971
@wouldyounot7971 3 жыл бұрын
In the end, knowledge is useless when u use it to misguide others... Am not targeting YQ specifically but making a good point to think about
@etoys77
@etoys77 3 жыл бұрын
@@wouldyounot7971 exactly
@abdiganisugal825
@abdiganisugal825 3 жыл бұрын
@@wouldyounot7971 It is a good point
@Wisal911
@Wisal911 3 жыл бұрын
JazakAllah
@LegendaryZakaria
@LegendaryZakaria 3 жыл бұрын
Peace from California
@truthseeker185
@truthseeker185 3 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah. The question then is : why do majority not allow it when we these incidences from the sahaba? What is their counter argument. My most respectful shaikh yq usually would usually dig deep into this question too, and I was hoping that he would discuss that too.
@MH-go9wn
@MH-go9wn 3 жыл бұрын
I was hoping for the same as well
@Kkkkyaah
@Kkkkyaah 3 жыл бұрын
@Shaun Shaikh culture what? If I may ask
@absolutelynobody3837
@absolutelynobody3837 3 жыл бұрын
They argue its a time of fitnah. Too many bad boys just wanting to see our sisters m
@RIPer-rg2cz
@RIPer-rg2cz 2 жыл бұрын
@@absolutelynobody3837 and by using this method, you'll successfully push many many boys from halal marriages. If one can't even see the spouse without the scarf then how many would choose the halal way? And these scholars wonder why people are straying from halal and running towards haram in light speed.
@TheManOfPeace
@TheManOfPeace Жыл бұрын
@@absolutelynobody3837 Proof? Trust me bro!
@azraa7110
@azraa7110 3 жыл бұрын
Salaam from Nottingham Uk
@5heeshi
@5heeshi 3 жыл бұрын
Wsalam from Nottingham.
@sohail6759
@sohail6759 3 жыл бұрын
W/salaam east London UK 🇬🇧
@yoursister99
@yoursister99 3 жыл бұрын
Salaam from Indonesia
@noureddinebougraou3934
@noureddinebougraou3934 3 жыл бұрын
Doctor Yasir can u please talk about how to choose a woman for marriage and what are the qualities that a man must seek to find in his future wife?
@danishanwar6757
@danishanwar6757 3 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rK6Eg693ut2pnGg.html You should watch this video. It is about Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w)’s first marriage. The sheik does a great job and gives an answer to your question through metaphor.
@brother6862
@brother6862 3 жыл бұрын
Shaykh makes me laugh so bad when he says "vulgur"
@farhanasultana9213
@farhanasultana9213 2 жыл бұрын
the subtle stalking lol
@sweetpapayasourpeach
@sweetpapayasourpeach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for clearing that up. This explains why I've never heard of this opinion since it isn't of the three major schools of thought. Just some food for thought, if a sister does choose to show her hair before the nikkah, wouldn't you agree that kinda spoils a big junk of the suspense to see one's wife after tying the knot? (Assuming she wears hijab, of course)
@mohammedsalimahmed5230
@mohammedsalimahmed5230 2 жыл бұрын
I mean of course but many wouldn't want to risk such a thing until after tying the knot. I've seen some request to see the hair with the intention of seeing whether the potential spouse has any illness with hair etc.
@Yatagurusu
@Yatagurusu 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't you make this argument for anything. Why meet your wife at all before proposing, don't you want to be surprised by her personality after marriage.
@anthony.ismail1681
@anthony.ismail1681 3 жыл бұрын
The Hadith of Jabbir - Hiding's meant he didn't look at her in the eyes and hid his the attentions in front of her. I don't know about a woman going out to feed the chickens and put out the washing without a hijaab. And Allah knows best
@RIPer-rg2cz
@RIPer-rg2cz 2 жыл бұрын
Well you're assuming your culture is universal.
@JemimaRuby29
@JemimaRuby29 Жыл бұрын
The woman wearing makeup and clothes with adornments wouldn’t be allowed for the Marriage meeting
@bobbobby3905
@bobbobby3905 3 жыл бұрын
please post more recitations of the Quran just like the start of the video pleaseeeee
@Andalusian_
@Andalusian_ 3 жыл бұрын
Most Muslim women already do this and more. Amazing how someone would be creeped out by any of those things which were said, when women already put themselves on display anyway.
@Slanovich
@Slanovich 2 жыл бұрын
Some women may receive a dozen or more proposals before a suitable husband is found. So if she wants to she can take off her hijab in front of all of them? This position makes no sense logically. Also, as a man, I wouldn't be happy knowing my wife showed her hair and beauty to a bunch of non-mahram guys before I met her.
@farghani4279
@farghani4279 2 жыл бұрын
You were not her husband before you met her... Therefore she's not in your command before marriage
@Slanovich
@Slanovich 2 жыл бұрын
@@farghani4279 No duh, but that has nothing to do with my point.
@Yatagurusu
@Yatagurusu 2 жыл бұрын
But that is irrelevant, the prophet and the sahaba married Widows, married divorcees and freed slaves and married them. What do you thing, a'uthubillah for having to point this out but it must be say, those divorcees and widows and slaves did with their previous husbands, and the sahaba didn't complain?
@brokenwingbird2552
@brokenwingbird2552 Жыл бұрын
Shame Slavonic
@Slanovich
@Slanovich Жыл бұрын
@@Yatagurusu Nobody is complaining about that bro. The women you refer to were obviously all chaste and their husbands were completely entitled to see them without any clothing because they were MARRIED. What I'm saying is, it doesn't sit right with me that a potentially large number of NON-MAHRAM dudes who have no legal right (IMO) to see your wife without hijab may have seen her simply because they brought a proposal to her family at some point in the past. They were/are nothing to her and she was/is nothing to them. Why should they be allowed to see anything beyond what the general public can see? Anything beyond seeing her face isn't necessary at all IMO to make a decision about marriage.
@flyingboy8908
@flyingboy8908 3 жыл бұрын
Gud
@a.person_
@a.person_ 3 жыл бұрын
This makes sense. Imagine marrying someone and you hate the way they look without hijab. It’s more hurtful to say that to someone after you’ve married them.
@Ahmed-ob6ec
@Ahmed-ob6ec 3 жыл бұрын
You can easily have your mother or sister see what the bride looks like without Hijab and describe it to you. The evidence mentioned here does not say anything about a non-Mahram man being permitted to see the Awrah of a woman for any reason before marriage.
@BD-hm3fb
@BD-hm3fb 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ahmed-ob6ec what’s pleasing to your mother or sister may not be pleasing to you
@Ahmed-ob6ec
@Ahmed-ob6ec 2 жыл бұрын
@@BD-hm3fb You don't need to see someone's awrah to know if they are pleasing to you since their overall appearance (height, weight, face, etc.) will already be apparent. If someone is pleasing to you with their hijab on, then they will usually be even more pleasing without their hijab as well. The mother and sister will simply verify that they have hair and aren't bald.
@RIPer-rg2cz
@RIPer-rg2cz 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ahmed-ob6ec it's not the same. My mother's taste and my taste are as different as day and night. This goes for more than a significant number of boys
@RIPer-rg2cz
@RIPer-rg2cz 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ahmed-ob6ec you seriously didn't see people take the hijab off, did you? It's not the case at all because the hijab decrease the attractiveness you carry yourself with. It's basically saying, someone could run a marathon the next day they were released from a hospital because back in the hospital, they could walk with someone's help. So when they're released, they'd be super Saiyans. If only that were the case.
@omareldasher7083
@omareldasher7083 3 жыл бұрын
Brothers, please heed. This is not a pass. This is advice FOR THE WOMAN. And nowadays, there is very little knowledge about this known to the people. Most likely if you request this, the woman and her family will turn away from you.
@MH-go9wn
@MH-go9wn 3 жыл бұрын
Stick with the majority, that’s the advice of our prophet pbuh
@absolutelynobody3837
@absolutelynobody3837 3 жыл бұрын
If she turns away, it shows her ignorance. If she knew, she should say that she follows the other opinion.
@omareldasher7083
@omareldasher7083 3 жыл бұрын
@@absolutelynobody3837 I wouldn't call it ignorance. Maybe decency or shyness (Hayaa) is a more appropriate term.
@natasha23950
@natasha23950 4 ай бұрын
The majority said it is haram to show your hair. Why follow the minority. This idea sounds to me like a pervert. l will reject the suitor who ask for this stupid request to show my hair.
@muhammadaziz8923
@muhammadaziz8923 3 жыл бұрын
Assalamualiakum Shiekh.. What do you mean by hijab... Does it mean covering the hair or face?? Jazakallah
@SkillaTronGaming
@SkillaTronGaming 3 жыл бұрын
Hair
@AbdulWahid-im2iu
@AbdulWahid-im2iu 3 жыл бұрын
Salam sheikh, leading on this from this, there are a few muslimah who are unsure what constitutes the necessary requirements for the covering of ones self in this modern day. They would not like to jump in to wearing an Abaya etc, but would feel more comfortable wearing a maxi dress for example, which operationally is the same as an Abaya with slight differences. There are other sisters who seem to believe it is okay to wear slightly loose jeans or slightly loose trousers etc. What advice would you give for modern muslimah to fulfill the criteria of hijab/awrah, so that they have the tools to understand the Allah’s order and apply it to their lives in a way which is easy for them?
@missysj7970
@missysj7970 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, there is so much confusion. I hope and pray that he addresses this question.
@userunknown-lb8qw
@userunknown-lb8qw 2 жыл бұрын
@@missysj7970 there really isn't any confusion amongst ahlul sunnah. research it
@favhwdg
@favhwdg Жыл бұрын
Warning to future brothers reading this, the comments are all teenagers who have no idea what marriage is like
@Amatullah.574
@Amatullah.574 3 ай бұрын
I know of a bald woman who didn't allow her husband to see her. Not fair
@Ahmed-ob6ec
@Ahmed-ob6ec 3 жыл бұрын
There doesn't seem to be any Hadith from the Prophet which explicitly states that it's permissible to remove Hijab in front of a non-Mahram, therefore the minority position does not make sense to me.
@absolutelynobody3837
@absolutelynobody3837 3 жыл бұрын
The hadith where the guy was encouraged to look at her.
@Ahmed-ob6ec
@Ahmed-ob6ec 3 жыл бұрын
@@absolutelynobody3837 The Hadith doesn't say to look at her without her Hijab.
@nesarulalam8268
@nesarulalam8268 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ahmed-ob6ec Why you guys using these words like majority minority positions when in reality you are all layman commenting.Its not your job to make sense,just do Taqlid.Follow the Madhab of your country
@Ahmed-ob6ec
@Ahmed-ob6ec 3 жыл бұрын
@@nesarulalam8268 The Shaykh himself referred to this position as the minority position.
@Slanovich
@Slanovich 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It is inferring something which is not found in the texts.
@thtguyish
@thtguyish 3 жыл бұрын
Cannot wear tight clothing......half of the ig hijabis just checked out
@kiyotakaayanokouji722
@kiyotakaayanokouji722 3 жыл бұрын
What is Hijab?
@ahmadibrahim6232
@ahmadibrahim6232 3 жыл бұрын
The scarf that Muslim women wears on their heads
@hmahmed
@hmahmed 6 ай бұрын
Sheikh Qadir can Man see Niqab face cover women face for Marriage intention?
@MUSLIM_GIRL___111
@MUSLIM_GIRL___111 8 ай бұрын
Do I have to obey my husband if he asks me to remove my hijab please please tell me
@natasha23950
@natasha23950 4 ай бұрын
Of course no. Allah is your Creator and Master. He is above your husband.
@MUSLIM_GIRL___111
@MUSLIM_GIRL___111 4 ай бұрын
@@natasha23950 jazakaallah
@abelievereverrising283
@abelievereverrising283 4 ай бұрын
The prophet saw famously remarked "There is no obedience to creation in disobedience to the Creator"
@MUSLIM_GIRL___111
@MUSLIM_GIRL___111 4 ай бұрын
@@abelievereverrising283 jazakaallah
@michael75358
@michael75358 3 жыл бұрын
What if the lady has hijab but u can't see her and she turns out to be bald what then
@kevadanyelle8314
@kevadanyelle8314 3 жыл бұрын
Please forgive me but I never thought about this!
@RIPer-rg2cz
@RIPer-rg2cz 2 жыл бұрын
You're screwed
@wouldyounot7971
@wouldyounot7971 3 жыл бұрын
That makes no sense.. There is no way I can believe that a women can let him look at her without her hijab
@wouldyounot7971
@wouldyounot7971 3 жыл бұрын
@Bl nooooo. I did not say without make up. A lady shudnt be wear make up anyway but if she does the man should have the right to see her without make up so he isnt fooled! Im saying that there is no way I could believe that she can uncover her hair like she does with her father! Assimal hakim didnt say she could do this
@wouldyounot7971
@wouldyounot7971 3 жыл бұрын
Saying that a woman can uncover hair in front of a potential spouse is like fatwa shopping for your desires. There is no proof whatsoever!
@wouldyounot7971
@wouldyounot7971 3 жыл бұрын
@Bl I'll believe you in that he said it. At the same time though, I do remember watching one of the videos and hearing only that the future groom's sister/mother can look at the future wife and explain how she looks to the groom. Why would Assimal Hakim say this if he also believes that the man can look at the woman himself? I see I found a link to his fatwa on this right here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nsifndSpnJPQaWw.html So he just stated that the hanbali schools allows it but he did say majority says that you can only see the face and hands The furthest I will consider this is just as one of the minority opinions that we should not follow. I suggest you follow the majority on this matter brother/sister. Why do I say this? I will admit that sheik Assimal Hakim is a very good scholar but he only stated the two opinions so in reality its up to us to decide. The evidence that is used for this opinion is not good evidence. There is no proof whatsoever showing that it is permissible. The hadiths we find tell the people to glance at the women, especially a particular hadith of muhammad s.a.w. telling a man to look at the EYES of a certain ansari woman he wanted to marry. This shows a more emphasis on the face which can be proof towards the majority opinion. And a future spouse is still non mahrem. A woman may not reveal her adornment to a non mahrem man UNLESS there is proof that allows her to uncover. The handbalis have no good proof. According to Yasir, its just so that he can see if he likes her (awrah). Yet this claim is only based on our own logic and no proof from the hadith. You should look at the face for her beauty, and the hands to see her weight/plumpness Yes this is a very long message but this needs to get out. We have to use our own logic and not rely on just an opinion that uses their own logic rather than the meanings of hadith. So please brother/sister becaredul in the opinion you follow/. If there is no proof that the opinion is right, and it sounds wrong to us, we shouldnt follow it. and especially since this is a minor opinion adding on to the two other cons of following this opinion
@alexojideagu
@alexojideagu 3 жыл бұрын
Would you buy a car or a house without checking it out first? Arabs wouldn't even buy a camel back then without checking it. Yet you want to Marry a woman without seeing what she looks like.
@wouldyounot7971
@wouldyounot7971 3 жыл бұрын
@@alexojideagu Yes I agree with you. However, we use the sunnah, not out own logic. You can still check a lady out while she is covered, her face shows her beauty while her hands shows her weight. If you want to see a women without hijab, thats up to you. But Im just warning everyone not to follow the wrong opinion because you could commit a major sin b4 marriage. If you find me one narration that says “you can see the awrah of a woman before marriage” or some clear proof, I will gladly apologize for my misinformation.
@e.k874
@e.k874 3 жыл бұрын
that hadith from Jabir is so creepy tbh
@Anon-uv9mj
@Anon-uv9mj Жыл бұрын
استغفر الله Have some respect, that’s a noble companion.
@sulaymanjatta895
@sulaymanjatta895 3 жыл бұрын
Can we the Muslim ummah celebrate our beloved messenger birthday
@etoys77
@etoys77 3 жыл бұрын
No, its an innovation and don't ask knowledge from this man. He is a deviant
@amiramz7869
@amiramz7869 3 жыл бұрын
@@etoys77 why are u even here U should refrain from calling Muslims with such names I don't think u are a scholar and doing this isn't ur right
@etoys77
@etoys77 3 жыл бұрын
@@amiramz7869 same with yasir. How can he be called as scholar when he tries to goes against shariah rules
@etoys77
@etoys77 3 жыл бұрын
@@amiramz7869 this fool doesn't even quote any scholars name. He also did an online video call with a little sister name Maryam. If he is a scholar he should have refrain since Maryam isn't a small girl anymore and she have grew, and she is non mahram to him.
@faysalahmed9157
@faysalahmed9157 3 жыл бұрын
@@etoys77 Maryam is a little girl & she was wearing a Hijab in that video. Even if she was grownup - there is nothing wrong conversing with the opposite gender respectively when there is a genuine need or beneficial purpose as long as it's done within the shariah guidelines. There are many incidents from the life of the prophet (saw) where he conversed directly with women.
@Kakashi-nl9cl
@Kakashi-nl9cl 3 жыл бұрын
And so does the fatwa shopping begins :D
@Naijiri.
@Naijiri. 3 жыл бұрын
😂 😂
@MH-go9wn
@MH-go9wn 3 жыл бұрын
@Shaun Shaikh “...following their forefathers blindly...” more like following the majority opinion of respected scholars. With all due respect to Sh YQ. He only gave us obscure evidence for a weak minority opinion. He did mention that the majority opinion of 3 of the 4 major schools of thought all agree that a woman can’t take off her hijab for a non mahram. But he didn’t mention the evidence the majority is using.... he usually does 🤔
@MH-go9wn
@MH-go9wn 3 жыл бұрын
@Shaun Shaikh please stop putting words in peoples mouth and read what I actually said.
@MH-go9wn
@MH-go9wn 3 жыл бұрын
@Shaun Shaikh how about I just post my original comment again. Maybe it arrived different on your end the first time...read it again and tell me what’s wrong with what i said please. “...following their forefathers blindly...” more like following the majority opinion of respected scholars. With all due respect to Sh YQ. He only gave us obscure evidence for a weak minority opinion. He did mention that the majority opinion of 3 of the 4 major schools of thought all agree that a woman can’t take off her hijab for a non mahram. But he didn’t mention the evidence the majority is using.... he usually does 🤔
@MH-go9wn
@MH-go9wn 3 жыл бұрын
@Shaun Shaikh my only contention was the fact that sh YQ usually mentions evidences and counter evidences when there are opposing opinions. I’ve been following the sheikh for over 8 years and this isn’t his style to skip critical information. What evidences do the majority of scholars base their opinion on?
@unionofconcernedpolarbears1006
@unionofconcernedpolarbears1006 3 жыл бұрын
I used to love the old YQ. Its sad what has happened to him since.
@cinnamon88
@cinnamon88 3 жыл бұрын
What happened?
@unionofconcernedpolarbears1006
@unionofconcernedpolarbears1006 3 жыл бұрын
@@cinnamon88 i wish i knew
@umarhussain1432
@umarhussain1432 3 жыл бұрын
@@unionofconcernedpolarbears1006 stop... just stop
@PlayGuy200
@PlayGuy200 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing happened tf u sayin
@soloist9495
@soloist9495 3 жыл бұрын
why are men speaking on women issues a lady should explain this and lay the guidelines
@Naijiri.
@Naijiri. 3 жыл бұрын
Are you calling Imam Ahmad sexist?
@soloist9495
@soloist9495 3 жыл бұрын
@@Naijiri. no im just saying in the present time womean should be qualified to clear these matters they have a say
@Naijiri.
@Naijiri. 3 жыл бұрын
@@soloist9495 If a woman is knowledgeable and she wants to do so, she may. If a man, he may. Stop trying to force a contention.
@Andalusian_
@Andalusian_ 3 жыл бұрын
Simp
@Ahmed-ob6ec
@Ahmed-ob6ec 3 жыл бұрын
Women need to step up and take initiative then to become scholars and address these issues. Nothing is preventing women scholars from making KZfaq videos to answer questions related to women.
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