Can't forgive?

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12 жыл бұрын

The weight of unforgiveness is heavy. God never intended us to carry the pain and consequences of this bitter spirit. Dr. Charles Stanley explores this attitude, and shows why it is so unwelcome in the life of a Christian. In Touch Ministries, 2012. For more messages from Charles Stanley, including this week's broadcast, go to www.intouch.org/watch

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@yucatansuckaman5726 Жыл бұрын

This man is one of the best preachers of our time.

@MrAdriancooke 4 ай бұрын

I need to forgive: may God help me do this

@rhondacooper668 3 ай бұрын

In the precious name of Jesus, we pray.

@shonda8927 18 күн бұрын

Me too I need to forgive, Holy Spirit help me too. In Christ Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏾 and I pray for others struggling as I.

@ExquisitelyPamperedNailSpa Ай бұрын

Thank you, Father God, for showing me ME! Thank you for YOUR deliverance in my heart.❤ Thank you for helping me (DAILY) to LIVE and WALK in FORGIVENESS every day so that I do not sin against YOU. Any unforgiveness I have in my heart, I ask that you help me where it hurts. Cover me Father God. Cover my family and whoever else struggles with unforgiveness. Unforgiveness is demonic, and WE NEED YOU Father God! Thank you for your LOVE and FORGIVENESS towards us. In Jesus name according to YOUR WORD, Amen. ❤

@venom7774 6 жыл бұрын

I struggle with this daily. I say I can’t fake forgiveness w God. He knows what’s in my heart. It pains me so much though.

@Campcrystal1 4 жыл бұрын

I understand what u say and I admire your honesty because I struggle with this I can't fake forgiveness even though I've tried so hard to forgive it still hurts big time and the last thing u need to hear is some peacock sayn it's as simple as this do this

@lovetitleist69 3 жыл бұрын

I've struggled with it to until listening to Dr. Stanley. Listen to his sermons on ANGER (I believe its 3 parts). That was my cure. He teaches you how to have a forgiving spirit. Only with God's help can you forgive, you can't do it alone.

@miraclesfollowme 4 жыл бұрын

Well God is going to have to help me because i cant do it by myself

@zestydude87 11 жыл бұрын

im dealing with this right now. and it is destroying me. This video helps a lot

@StevenSWM 12 жыл бұрын

I watched the complete sermon over this past weekend. I thought I had dealt with my own unforgiving spirit several years ago. Listening to Dr. Stanley made me more aware of the lack of forgiveness that I still harbored in my heart. It also revealed what should have been obvious to me, but yet wasn’t…that an unforgiving spirit is sin, and hinders my relationship with God. I think now I will be successful in dealing with this matter once and for all.

@JackieBQuick Ай бұрын

I absolutely agree! Can you please share the title of the entire sermon?

@stephenhymesjr.9996 4 жыл бұрын

One of the hardest things for me to do but I know I have to figure it out

@mcjgg- 4 жыл бұрын

This one is short but it helps a lot. Thank you. God bless you!

@beaberean3842 Ай бұрын

A spirit of rebellion against almighty God. Lord have mercy. Please help me to forgive and get right with you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@myleereagan4545 3 жыл бұрын

I watched this 4min video for myself, little did I know would be giving my GODLY Advice.. just a reminder we all have different struggles, issues and trying to get it right

@johntait6265 Ай бұрын

Isn't it interesting and glorious the way God works,His timing is as always bang on? What an amazing message and an unbelievable timing. Although mister charles has passed or in the words of Billy Graham changed addresses his message, wait God's word. Is still powerful and sharper than any 2 edge sword.all glory to god

@jtynanjnr 7 жыл бұрын

Nothing impossible to God...He is able to do far more than we can ask or imagine...forgives, heals, redeems crowns and satisfies...Psalm 103 Than's my God.

@BodyCareBoutique 12 жыл бұрын

As always Pastor Stanley, you have shared, once again, a most powerful and lifechanging message! I needed to hear this, and was just pondering and praying about your daily devotional on forgiveness the other day, and am thankful God put this message right in front of me to hear, to reflect on in my life, and to make the changes I need to make within my heart to obey God in this area of my life. Praise you for sharing God's word, and helping to transform lives. Your spiritual Granddaughter, Mel

@Bushcraft242 3 жыл бұрын

In the name of Jesus I forgive my sins amen 🙏

@melissamelodies3729 5 жыл бұрын

Amen thank you for this

@meganschwartzbauer282 6 жыл бұрын

Very good, thank you for this. Truth is that sin=rebellion against God.

@macdogq 4 жыл бұрын

I have a Christian Brother who has a unforgiving spirit against me. I in need of prayers for him.

@dmwiguy9235 Ай бұрын

I prayed to God about the situation and tried to be kind. All I got was cheated and insulted. Prayer and forgiveness didn't work so unforgiveness is all I have left. I quit God and church because of it.

@christiansoldier2732 4 жыл бұрын

So true

@MrGloriousg 4 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@dianablack2739 4 жыл бұрын

SHALOM!💖😇🙌☝

@yamicanada 3 жыл бұрын

💖💖💖

@sunflower260285 4 жыл бұрын

I do not know how to forgive a sibling,I cannot stand them.

@marcusmorris460 4 жыл бұрын

Candice I feel you siblings can push your emergency 🚨 alarm buttons but we must forgive as Jesus has forgiven us I know it may seem difficult at times but we have to bite the bullet, something that can help you & me is thinking about all the bad stuff we did & God was merciful enough to forgive us so how can we not forgive others besides God can’t bless an unforgiving heart I’m writing this message for me as well, God bless u

@SacredFire777 4 жыл бұрын

I have the same issue. Please pray for me.

@TheNinja691 4 жыл бұрын

It’s one of the hardest things to do, but you need to so God can heal you and let you move forward. It will also then open a door for God to deal with them in a way we never could. 🙏

@TrailBlazerSS502 4 ай бұрын

If you can’t forgive a sibling, you can’t stand them; if you can’t stand them, ignore them.

@Nicolee7764 3 ай бұрын

Yes, God forgives, however if the heart doesn't change, we will still have to give an account. The enemy makes it look as though the other person is getting away with what they did. God sees all things.The Christian walk isn't a game. It's about truly changing the heart and living for the Heavenly Father.

@AmericaNumberOne1 11 жыл бұрын

One way Jesus drew people to him was through his ability to love and forgive all people. When we dont forgive a non-brother we cast them away, they see and feel this and then they are not drawn to us to learn what they can from us and be drawn to Jesus. Had Jesus also cast people away but his brothers he would have had no followers, no brothers! They were all sinners at that time until he taught them the way and the truth. He was able to teach them because they were drawn to his love for them!

@shereepfeiffer6356 11 жыл бұрын

Harboring Unforgiveness - Bible Questions with Michael Pearl - try this guy...he talks about how it's just your brother you are to forgive and the rest might be best left to the devil to get sorted out...if we forgive without them asking for it, they can end up never having to deal with their actions. I can't quite get it right but maybe it can help you.

@starwars_chola7001 4 жыл бұрын

Hi. I read your comment and I've had experiences with Lord and still am. I really do believe when we get convicted by The Holy Spirit when we're harboring unforgiveness/resentment and we recognize it,repent ,and choose to ask God for forgiveness he will forgive us and also pray for the person who hurt you,because God knows the why. I always think how Jesus died for us and I'm not showing that person the same grace towards that person like Jesus did for us. I seriously have to pray and ask God to search my heart and get this poison out of me ,otherwise it affects our loving relationship with the one and true God. He will always have our backs but in his timing he will work through others. It brings tears to my eyes because that person is hurting and broken and God will deliver them and set them free. I hope it all makes sense. May God bless you and be strong

@rconnjr 4 жыл бұрын

How does one forgive a great wrong?

@joshuaromulo9880 4 жыл бұрын

Hello :) Perhaps we must look to the example of Jesus. If anyone had the right to be angry, it was Jesus, but he chose to forgive. He was mocked, beaten up, and crucified, yet his words were "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."

@joshuaromulo9880 4 жыл бұрын

(To give the proper credit, I learned this from one of Charles Stanley's sermons)

@shesharpe2701 4 жыл бұрын

How can one forgive a great wrong? Good question, especially if we aren’t God??? We are human. I don’t know, I think some things are unforgivable.

@lovetitleist69 3 жыл бұрын

Listen to Dr. Stanley's sermons on anger and forgiveness. You'll never regret it.

@maria3042 3 жыл бұрын

i have forgiven everybody..i think. But some people, I dont show affection too because for some reason i'm scared too and i feel uncomfortable and awkward around them. Does that mean I haven't forgiven some people?

@myleereagan4545 3 жыл бұрын

Maria yes yjat means you haven't forgive, listen to the testimony of "judgement day" this minister thought He had forgiven his ex.. but I don't recall the minister name at the moment, but irs a 14 min utube testimony viewed millions of times

@rhondacooper668 3 ай бұрын

How can I find the full sermon?

@63kimmike 3 жыл бұрын

Most of us including myself Will Forgive but do not forget! I have forgiven many but there are many times I have not forgotten the things that others have done to me. I have also in my lifetime have also been forgiven by others for my on actions. We all need to forgive as we are forgiven!

@neeneediamond2959 6 жыл бұрын

What would you advise someone who has been hurt badly by a person several times and trying to move on from the past who does not wish to see the people who hurt them so badly (for fear of being hurt again) but the offending people do not leave the person who they hurt alone?

@RobertMOdell 3 жыл бұрын

Did Jesus forgive Judas ?

@milesnolan9188 3 жыл бұрын

Well noone should be bullied for the way they look.Maybr on my death bed I could forgive .But it went on well into my adult hood and would still go on but i learned to stay away from people

@lbhjvv6974 6 жыл бұрын

You have to forgive wether I like it or not .

@theanointedwarrior974 6 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, certain things cannot be forgiven

@shesharpe2701 4 жыл бұрын

The Anointed Warrior I agree.

@marcusmorris460 4 жыл бұрын

The Anointed Warrior you must realize that forgiveness is important having unforgiving heart can make you sick, more importantly if God forgives you of your mess ups we have to forgive others I’m not saying it’s always easy but we have too

@TrailBlazerSS502 4 ай бұрын

Amen; it’s best to just walk away and forget about the whole thing.

@RameyRocks 5 жыл бұрын

My daughters mother in law caused my daughter to miscarry my first grandchild and since then I have a living grandchild who my daughter lets the mother in law keep several times a week. I have had to be around this woman a couple of times and I just about come unglued every time I see her. My daughter also told me the woman claims to be a white witch. I absolutely cannot tolerate the thought of my grandchild being around her much less alone with her for several days and nights a week. I don’t know how to deal with this. It’s obvious she is a sister in Christ. Matthew 18:21 says if a brother or sister sins against us. So does the same command of forgiveness apply to her?

@myleereagan4545 3 жыл бұрын

Missi R yes it applies to your enemy, But when you stand before GOD He Will point out your individual sins, remember JESUS told his disciple to forgive 70 x 70,(sounds funny don't it.. jus kidding 😊...you need to confess to GOD your deep hate toward this woman, ps51 says create in me a clean heart.. renew a right spirit within me.. and plead BLOOD of JESUS against this person if she's really a witch, right away you need to watch john hagee or Derrick Prince teachings & sermons on that issue!!