The fist story both parents are wrong the husband for lying to his daughter and the wife for trying to appeal to racists

also for the story where the woman told her step daughter to not be in a couple of the photos people are calling her raicst, but she was literally trying to stop a bunch of racist people from being hurtful and rude to her? She wasn't excluding her step daughter because she was black, she was excluding her step daughter to protect her feelings. and it was literally only a couple of photos that were going to a family they don't speak to. Why cause an argument over people you don't speak to over someone you love?? And that dad was in the wrong. Not for being mad, but for telling his daughter. That was an adult conversation that she should have been left out of, and he hurt her feelings out of spite. He should have worked it out with his wife instead of telling his daughter something hurtful and not even telling her the full story. Now her step daughter might think her step mom hates for something she can't control, which could leave her feeling horrible and left out for the rest of her life.

For the story about the mom shaving her 5 yr old daughters unibrow Honestly she isn’t the a hole because she kept saying that she was still beautiful both ways and also she was worried that she’d get bullied, because her cousins teased her which made her feel ugly so no she isn’t the a hole

(1st) both are wrong. Though mostly the husband, just saying “because you’re black” is wrong. Nothing else to add there. It should never be said to a child like that, specially when they already (might) feel a disconnect from their siblings. (My cousin had that happened). As for the wife and wife’s family.. I don’t think that you should change because of family members because it hurts, but I get it. I’ve been there (related situations, not about race or ethnicity) so I know that it hurts when family has different views. However, She did the right thing in not wanting to expose a child to a harsh cruelty.

Honestly that unibrow story, I agree with the mother. Id have done it too. And the kid is probbaly gonna be much happier for it

Young kids don't understand beauty standards, but they do understand insults and the younger the kid , the more underdeveloped the social filter. They are vicious and that sort of bullying leaves deep scars that affect how the kid grows up and interacts with others. This mom did good, not bc she made her daughter more "beautiful" (that is a subjective opinion) but bc she chose her daughters personal comfort above trying to make a point about what beauty is. Her daughter was clearly distressed about how kids treated her bc of it, all her mom did was help relieving that distress. When she is older and more competent, maybe her mom can sit her down for a discussion about beauty then, but for now this was a good move imo

The fake perfume one is stupid like the guy said oh I’ll get that for you and she said NO but he looked and it was 300 so he got a fake one and she finds out it’s fake and doesn’t complain and he calls her ungrateful like WHAT

Petty yes wrong NO. I’m here for the pettiness he had it coming. 😂

5:25 NOT THE START OF THE STORY BUT WHERE THEY SAY IT dude, you retracted yours words, bought them a fake, being dishonest then call them the brat for calling you out but still saying the thought was there? what sense is that??

For the first one the wife was trying to protect the girl and the dad was wrong for what he said but I can see he said it out of anger

10:30 I agree with the mother it's the kids happy with it then the mother and father should be happy with it

Story 3: well tbh ur gf said thank u but since it’s fake you can’t expect a big reaction tbh you should have both just talked it out or u could’ve found another perfume she liked but cheaper

8:07 you should report them

First story, dude wth the dad was an a hole bc the mum was being generous and he just up and lied to his daughter like bro if her parents are racist don’t make ur daughter be in the Christmas card photos bc the family will just get a bunch of crap bc of it

Why would you exclude a child from a family photo. Then have her take the pictures. The family would’ve just been short on getting a Christmas card. Not hiding my family for anyone

Listen, I was NOT ready for this😭😆😂🤣🤣 #subscribed!!!!!

What the heck did I just listen to? I’m so confused 😩😩😂😂

Love it

(the first one) in my opinion in her card to her family if there racist don't let her in but make her feel not left out. if the dad wanted a photo with her then do one and just send it to your family?

What wax are you using?

I really love the last candle

First story Both of those were pretty wrong but how were caring for her was very kind. Maybe instead of just acting on the fact that your parents are racist, ask your husband or whomever and try to find a better solution or just say you didn't want her there because of your family's beliefs beforehand.

Doesn't matter what they think or say... if u love the child then you know what to do

Hey bestie sorry I’m late :(

For the one about the car, I think the cousin was in the wrong, but it wasn’t cool to buy HIS dream car.

I don't really care about the stories cuz they' boring to me and I can just listen to the same story later :) These candles are cute BTW :]

You don’t have to have kids lol if you don’t want kids and don’t think you will be a parent don’t bring a kid into the world

For the unibrow story I have one to and I haven’t waxed it ever

You are amazingly talented!! Do you mind listening what products you use?

Hallo sorry I'm late

1st: no, u were protecting her from people that would possibly ruining self confidence 2nd: ur a good friend 👏

Idk why people think its ok to associate with racist family & act like its them and not you. If you still deal with them and allow them to disrespect your kids you're just as bad and you shouldn't have a interracial family in the first place if you're so afraid of what your family says that's your choice they should accept it and fk off if they don't! Also was she really protecting the child or herself? The kid doesn't know wtf is going on. The so called Mom is making excuses and sheltering her from the truth isn't helping either and the dad's explanation was shitty as well. These kids have a journey ahead of them...

I think that if the child wants it then it’s fine she’s not like I can’t stand it we’re waxing I can understand the dad but it makes her feel more comfortable without it

Where’s the final result for the candle carving one ;-;

The one about the perfume: you are definitely in the wrong. Calling her a brat and materialistic when she was at least trying to be gratefully is just crappy. If you knew you didn’t have the money you could’ve just told her and maybe she would’ve been more understanding.

Verdict…you are Not the asshole on all charges. People need more emotional intelligence. 🤷🏽‍♀️

hallooo

ok these comments are just people saying who’s right and wrong. stating your opinion is fine but saying who’s right and wrong like you know and your opinion is the only one that matters is just annoying

2nd story: Your friend asked u so- no

WTF 😳 IS SHE READING A NOVEL!? 🤦🏻‍♀️

for the first story, you aren't the mole cus you helped you're friend to catch her bf cheating on her. If she saw him cheating sooner, She'll feel depressed or She saw him cheating after. But you had secound thoughts . So you're a part time mole

I agree with the Dad about the unibrow . You gave her a complex . This is why it's important we build confidence in the home . And the cousins should have been checked and then asked to leave if they continued. In those moments and by cutting the unibrow you taught her 1 : that bullies are right and it's okay 2. She is only beautiful if her beauty is acceptable to society or others 3 you don't have her back and won't defend her.

1st. Both yes you are. You could’ve like not sent your parents any if they won’t accept one of YOUR children that you have now taken into your heart. Second the husband was being a complete jerk just blurring that out

Ok the first one so sort of sort of not mostly yes

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That’s the first story you’re kind of racist because yeah she might be that but you can’t exclude her because of the color of her skin and your parents you need to accept that

Bro the husband is a jerk for her wife taking off her unibrow and wife was right to do that because just one person bullying is bad and that’s how kid go into things like depression and anxiety and sometimes bullying never stops it will get worse. So no the mom is not wrong

No not

Hello

Why are all these stories either about boyfriends or racist family situations

Can we all not protest and just watch the goddamn video?

The voice over is distracting.

For the first I say the mom isn’t in the wrong all the way, I have some pretty racist family and I’m very glad I’ve never met them or had them talk to me especially as a kid.

So the mother and the daughter unibrow one she isn’t the as**ole she is quiet a good mother her daughter got made fun of at 5 because of the unibrow told the mother she didn’t want it anymore than when she woke up she thought she was beautiful every 5 year old should think that they are it’s cruel if people say that they are ugly

she could have showed her frida instead. teach her not to give af.

Kinda making me mad u care what others think

Terrible reading