Casual Relationships Minus Emotions How Do They Affect You?
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5 жыл бұрынSadhguru answers a question on whether and how casual relationships without emotional involvement can affect us.
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@amansinghbist3111 5 жыл бұрын
These topics are not so easy to discuss in so simple and profound way....Only a great yogi can do....
@naynasheth1004 4 жыл бұрын
Why is anybody asking questions about multiple partners .such quedtions should be specialist or expetienved in such field
@sameerrao2032 2 жыл бұрын
@@naynasheth1004 why
@EricFu-qh5fw Жыл бұрын
because the specialist does not know the answer
@rajeebbarma 5 жыл бұрын
It is so beautiful to see our youth getting close to the truth finally.
@bipuldas1883 2 жыл бұрын
Really so proud feeling
@kabiryaduvanshi5348 4 жыл бұрын
Simple explanation: If you keep going on casual sex, sexwithout any emotions, you will lost your ability to feel sex- that is pleasure! So later on in life, when you settle with the final person, you wont be able to feel love with your partner. LUST will kill you LOVE.
@rashikajain1703 3 жыл бұрын
True ❤️😌
@smritisaha8534 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true....keep spreading such comments....this generation needs to understand this where making a century sounds more cool than staying focused in life / being loyal to someone.
@radhika4378 2 жыл бұрын
It also not about pleasure but being more sensible and discipline rather than a hedonist like animal.
@lucifermorningstar9424 2 жыл бұрын
@@smritisaha8534 loyal :-) nice
@lol-rw7yd 2 жыл бұрын
@@radhika4378 splendidly correct 👍👍
@lifeofdarshit 5 жыл бұрын
"It's not the question of morality, it's the question of living sensibly." Very beautiful you've explained the things that I've experienced myself and I hope more and more people start living sensibly as it's going to make our life mote joyful and happy.
@KIIXI 5 жыл бұрын
He is talking more on evolutionary basis, and consequences long term, up to us what kind of race humans want to end up as.
@Laadla_boy 5 жыл бұрын
I was noticing for so many days in all the video it is Not tye question of morality or it it is not about morality, i want to ask what is morality then? In the video of adultery or extra marital Affair he said the same it is not about morality, how it can't be about morality ?? If a person don't feel happy he should break the Marriage instead of cheating. I really don't like theory without examples and single result. But i really like sadguru because the insights and opinion he give is really very good and meaningful
@Laadla_boy 5 жыл бұрын
What is your case ? You Said you have experienced it, What you experienced, would you Like to share it?
@iamvishique 5 жыл бұрын
The less the distortion, the lesser the drama or the physical confusion. It's not about abiding to senses rather than mixing up with societies morals. Excellently explained by Saadhguru.
@symphonimason8578 5 жыл бұрын
Viswajith Vijayan can you please explain this video to me?
@paruln111 6 ай бұрын
@@symphonimason8578shall I explain
@swatiaspirant4812 5 жыл бұрын
Such a logical insight to such intricate confusing human emotions.
@ArchanaSingh-qf6vy 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@AnmolTheRationalist 3 жыл бұрын
@@ArchanaSingh-qf6vy .....
@ArchanaSingh-qf6vy 3 жыл бұрын
@@AnmolTheRationalist tu har jagah pahunch jaata h😂!
@netra8311 4 жыл бұрын
Our soul takes the memories of everything we come in contact with ❣️ Had never come across such complex things explained so beautifully...I love him❣️❣️
@Helen-kq5ts 4 жыл бұрын
I have 'never' had a casual relationship. I am happy to be on my own in between important significant people in my life. I let 2 partners go by realising that we all have free will to make the best choices for ourselves in this one precious life. These choices lead us to our destiny. On that basis I must have amazing Runanubandha 😉🌞🌞🌞😊
@indumathy9447 5 жыл бұрын
🙏 Living sensibly🙏 Namaskaram Sadhguru! You throw light on every nook and cranny of any subject. We are blessed to have you as our GURU🙏
@Rightdifference 5 жыл бұрын
This Youth and Truth program is a boon to the students.. I don't know how many of them take these answers to the heart but atleast if 1% of them truly implement this, this nation would be great!!!
@vijaybhangur6884 5 жыл бұрын
The reason why I always felt not make such intimate relationship and follow what most of the people are doing today is now being understood. Thanks to Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏 for making me and this society understand the reality ....♥
@dddddddd172 5 жыл бұрын
That's why break - up take such a big toll on you . Lots of memory 😂
@KIIXI 5 жыл бұрын
U didnt get what he said or was it intentional?
@Suman_ 5 жыл бұрын
@@KIIXI he is joking 😂😂
@segarinnajohnson4092 4 жыл бұрын
@@KIIXI he has a point
@alizashahi2057 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful that we have sadhguru to clarify all the complicated emotions 😘😘😘 Legend 🙏🙏
@symphonimason8578 5 жыл бұрын
Aliza Shahi can you please explain this question to me?
@symphonimason8578 5 жыл бұрын
I mean Sadgurus answer
@lucifermorningstar9424 2 жыл бұрын
@@symphonimason8578 i also don't get it , I also wanna find ans
@lucifermorningstar9424 2 жыл бұрын
@@symphonimason8578 he is saying whatever we touch ,smell or see is stored in our mind as memory If we make physical relationship without emotions ( casual relationship) it'll make lots of memories Bcz he / she will too much closer by us than all other people, and if we create lots of memories we can't be peacefully live , We can enjoy that pleasure ( by physical relationship) but we can't be truly happy
@lucifermorningstar9424 2 жыл бұрын
@@symphonimason8578 what do you think... many people make relationship by saying lie & having no genuinely love/ emotions with each other they engage with each other just Bcz they attract/like each other,they enjoy each other company & they want to experience such a divine pleasure ( se x ) ... should they prefer casual relationship as a friend/ commit with each other? or what's your perspective towards casual relationship?
@harirate 5 жыл бұрын
Omg, that salt thing is still followed in my home too, my mom used to blame me when I give salt container directly to her hand ,now I understood why she did that 😃
@Aloewells 5 жыл бұрын
Salt container is OK but not salt. But to preserve knowledge down to generations, some customs becomes rules.
@KrishNa-rx7fu 4 жыл бұрын
Yes still followed in my home...
@ArchanaSingh-qf6vy 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't understood this theory can you explain me ?
@trijit96 Жыл бұрын
What is science behind this its sodium cloride right ? How dies that transfer memory?🤔
@suryanag4336 5 жыл бұрын
Throw a Planet of questions at him & what remains might be just a pebble,... Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@THEUNDERCOVERMONK 5 жыл бұрын
Nice articulation
@user-hg7xz9oc5m 3 жыл бұрын
He has the wisdom that goes beyond the physical. We never get taught about these things that relates to conscious choices, how to deal with our emotions, etc. Such an important topic to talk about especially for the young. We get damaged easily relating to emotions which we fall in the trap where we get confused with reality. We don't know if we should look at a situation logically or emotionally which we lose control of ourselves and our inner world gets shaky and unstable. So we have to decide what we want out of life consciously and get a clear vision.
@inMeditation_PSSM 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for asking such a wonderful question.👌👍
@raghu1858 5 жыл бұрын
No Bish Bash Bosh for all of us anymore folks. Time to find that significant other permanently.
@aishwaryaduttmishra8091 5 жыл бұрын
Most valuable knowledge youths can ever receive.
@ariesred777 5 жыл бұрын
Every age, we never stop learning
@manuelaalboreto2280 5 жыл бұрын
thanks to remember to us the MEMORY BODY ~ ...Karma memory,... MEMORY of computer too ~ thanks to tecnology
@rajrao1149 5 жыл бұрын
This is 100% true and can easily experienced by people doing meditation everyday. Vipassana is meditation technique used by Buddha, which uses reverse process to remove memory from our system. Every memory has a sensation, by experiencing sensation again and completing incomplitions with that memory, you will remove that memory from system. It may be from past birth or this birth. Different paths and meditations use different techniques to remove memory to access the ultimate God particle inside us... which has been covered by 8 types of memory.
@nagapuriin2312 5 жыл бұрын
Sadguru i bow down to your intteligence
@manjunathgangadharg7392 5 жыл бұрын
Intellect at its best... no words to say. Such a logical response to such an sensitive question.
@InspiringStoriesHindi07 5 жыл бұрын
Very simply and beautifully explained one of the most complex confusion in our young generation.Superb 👌
@aparnadevanathan1934 5 жыл бұрын
What a logical and responsible way of answer, bow down to u sadhguru.
@pragnayadav 5 жыл бұрын
I want to thank this girl who asked such a sensible question
@geepee2 5 жыл бұрын
Perfect sadhguru ji. Love, Respect and honor, Harkirat singh
@timestuber 5 жыл бұрын
Koti Namaskaram Sadhguru!
@Tanmoymondal2 5 жыл бұрын
Wow such a profound answer, jaya jaya jaya gurudev
@BallSackGames 5 жыл бұрын
7:10 sexual supernova... sounds like a great name for a band xD
@ankitchandola3511 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@debangshuhaldar3147 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@rupeshg1536 5 жыл бұрын
Very well explained... It's not question of morality but living sensibly
@jigarshah4009 5 жыл бұрын
What a Profound understanding of such a complex issue of life which most youngsters go through.😍😍😊
@lakhanibusiness 5 жыл бұрын
Om namha Shiva Jai Shree Sadhguru You are awesome You rock
@rosariolongoria7604 5 жыл бұрын
My teacher! Thank You!🙏
@mihirpanchal447 5 жыл бұрын
This man , has immense amount of *wisdom*
@xavierpaololedesmamandreza 5 жыл бұрын
The Body actually has its own Memory.....I didn't realise it up until now. Romantics will really have a very difficult time trying to listen to Kyabje on these matters. 😶
@tamaleesen2759 5 жыл бұрын
This was a needed lesson.
@welcomeappz1130 4 жыл бұрын
exactly. now I am going through depression,anxiety,panic attacks. It would be great, If I listened to his at 16years. now I became the sexual super nova and its became hard to turn back.
@love-yh8ki 3 жыл бұрын
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@santhony84s 2 жыл бұрын
Hard but never impossible
@akankshawarudkar4482 2 жыл бұрын
Really is it hard..cuz i already suffer from depression n anxiety. I just entered this casual thing. Pls if this is true,tell me. I m ready to step back
@rachana777 Жыл бұрын
Trust me it’s possible…..i’m in a spiritual path right after going through all that. First you need to come off medications if you are taking any by following a very good diet- anti histamine and anti inflammatory diet ( this is must to bring back right kind of energy into your body) and by making good lifestyle changes. It took me an year of dedication to do all this. Then you can start with yoga and meditations
@manasac3102 Жыл бұрын
@@akankshawarudkar4482 Thats probably one of the reasons why soo many people live with mental illnesses in the West, despite having a high quality of life, comparatively less pressures in life, mental health is down the drain in the West! They also find it difficult to build a stable family as a result
@mariasoares6758 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!! ❤️
@arjunkrishna5163 5 жыл бұрын
This man is a revolutionary.... no doubt about that
@radhikamodi4737 5 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully explained
@shreepadbhat9739 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading! Sadhguru - RESPECTS!
@alappuzha9 5 жыл бұрын
A complicated question very nicely answered by sadhguruji....
@VijaySinghiitk 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing that we have got a wise man
@abhishekchakradeo2632 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sadguru ji!!!!!!
@anaykumar108 10 ай бұрын
Blessed to have such guru's in India.
@arjunarjun3539 5 жыл бұрын
I would like to strongly convey this is Natural mechanics it's needed according to running age because physical emotion relate to emotional pleasure.
@Ray-yn8md Жыл бұрын
as a teenager, i do feel lost abt many things but istg sadguruji always has smth to say that helps me, thanks again guruji
@gurug9797 5 жыл бұрын
Long live Sadguru in our hearts minds and bodies
@reema_singh Жыл бұрын
Sadhguru 🙏you changed my perception about life..thank you so much for bringing enlightenment in this life
@likhilpareek3857 4 жыл бұрын
Best moment of this video :D 2:02 The way she laughed 😍
@sureshreddy5074 5 жыл бұрын
other than sadhguru who can give such befitting answers in this life time?
@Inspireinbites Жыл бұрын
You have explained this topic in beautiful way!
@adarshshrivastav7552 5 жыл бұрын
Controversial issue made so easy and factual to understand...!!!👏👏👏👏
@pubgclips1636 5 жыл бұрын
2.06 her smile 😍😍😍
@darwinorean 5 жыл бұрын
Sadhguru always enlighten me.
@rudyponzio6466 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻wow O’m stunned! What darkness slipped in the back door as a friendly choice. It’s a black hole and gives u one of your own.🙏🏻
@vasoolee 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing.. He is a living legend.
@srd-srd 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you sadguruji
@PriyaSingh-pq2pw 5 жыл бұрын
Wat an answer 😇...Simply adorable🙏
@itsjustart24 2 жыл бұрын
Very true Sadhguru it's best to be at a distance till u can commit to one person for life..so beautifully explained.
@anandkrishnan851 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sadhguru for talking about Runanu bantha
@heaven9142 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent answer
@KKKaTTT123 5 жыл бұрын
So very true.
@nicholdsouza6482 5 жыл бұрын
If there's a marriage they must bond by emotion. If the husband or wife doesn't understand or feel each other's emotions then there's no proper marital relationship..m
@shivanshcx 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@nehanair4447 5 жыл бұрын
Love the way you explain to the present generation. Morality is definitely not the grounds which would satisfy the present generation. And honestly the way you tell that folding hands is better than a hug -is definitely a eye opener and makes us more proud of our Indian system n culture.
@Laadla_boy 5 жыл бұрын
What is morality then ? He said in another video extramarrital Affair is not about morality or it is not about right or Wrong . How it Can't be right or wrong and how it is not about morality, it is clearly immoral to have extramarrital Affair. In this video also he said live sensibly But didn't answer anything clearly. I mean if i ask one night stand is right or wrong or it is moral or immoral then what will be his answer ?
@mystories2385 5 жыл бұрын
Namaskaram Sadguru.plz come to odisha.
@sanskriti_2023 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent teaching sadguru
@janinebohl7488 5 жыл бұрын
hmmm, the presupposition of body memory is very interesting. However, I would form a different conclusion (except if one seeks to become a yogi possibly) - I would say it is not unreasonable to feed the body with memory. But it is important that what physically happens is aligned with emotions and spirit. If someone is basically meaningless to you, you haven't connected in any deeper way, or they have harmful energies - don't sleep with them. Going from Sadhgurus logic and combining it with my personal opinions, that would mean that a rift or dissonance is created and your body is confused then: being physically close to someone doesn't mean anymore that one is mentally and emotionally close to someone, even if the body wants that. And I do think closeness can be there in a short encounter, but not when you get to know each other in a club, hook up drunk and leave before breakfast to not see that person ever again. So, thanks, Sadhguru, you gave me a new insight!
@KPITGangsta 5 жыл бұрын
He’s saying that your body remembers everything you allow it to interact with physically even more so than your memory built up in your mind. This is why you’ll experience touch from a new partner that jolts memory from a previous distant physical encounter that will create a rift in your stable relationship now. Nothing is ever forgotten even if you say you don’t remember it, parts of you never forget and this is why being proactive with interactions is best. Either way, best of luck to you through life’s journey and undiscovered adventures.
@Laadla_boy 5 жыл бұрын
@@KPITGangsta What is your opinion for one night stand and casual relationship ? According to sadhguru or you but plzz tell answer in simply and conclusively
@naraendrareddy273 2 жыл бұрын
Seems like you're not that interested in spiritual pursuits
@janinebohl7488 2 жыл бұрын
@@naraendrareddy273 i don't need to take his every word at face value I guess
@sudheer596 5 жыл бұрын
Emotional security : one spouse
@geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132 5 жыл бұрын
I agree. We have to ask ourselves why we do anything.
@Rohitash66 5 жыл бұрын
🙏 I beseech each one of you to spread the wisdom, flowing through Sadhguru. We can do simple things like Increasing Twitter Followings by Requesting our dear ones. 🙏
@totalwomanja9105 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@mruthyunjayasiddalingaiah7489 5 жыл бұрын
Namaste Sadhguruji
@abhidwij212 5 жыл бұрын
Great answer.
@poojapandey7085 5 жыл бұрын
Thanku so much!!! I was looking for this question as well :)
@poojapandey7085 5 жыл бұрын
satish kumar that body remembers!! And makes us more complex person...So keep it simple. Don’t go with flow..choose consciously, decide sensibly!We just say that these relationships are casual but internally it makes memory then create it with Only one person:)
@drajaykalyankar8314 4 жыл бұрын
He is a very great man.
@saumyamishra5346 5 жыл бұрын
Sexual supernova 😇🤣😂 But what makes sense is that it’s not question of morality but living sensibly. Awesome 👏🏻 explanation
@davekeyl1961 5 жыл бұрын
Wow...just amazing...
@aakashsharma1190 5 жыл бұрын
A person like sadhguru occurs in ages..
@rudyponzio6466 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻Ha. I’m glad I’m fine with the depth and richness from being all in. And glad I didn’t fill my head n living with this vacant question. Your heads or tails🙏🏻
@maqsudaquoreshi6612 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@udaykhera3116 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant explanation!!🙏🕉
@manuelaalboreto2280 5 жыл бұрын
17 set 2018 from Italy ~
@abhishekchakradeo2632 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you🇮🇳
@JagroopSingh-mh4bf 5 жыл бұрын
Sadhguru is the Best 💝💝
@AnilkumarGulia 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent reply guruji
@SJMeenz 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent👌🏾
@Happy2bAmerican 5 жыл бұрын
Love his logic!
@gauravsatia5180 2 жыл бұрын
Real relationship is real casual person lived casual.Namaskaram Sadhguru
@niteshsehgal5974 5 жыл бұрын
Best in my view...!🙏🙏🙏
@odinsmeadhorn196 4 жыл бұрын
Everything we do clings to us like a million threads of spider web, it doesn't matter what it is, it will cling, it will bind and it will become.
@sunilhuilgol8615 5 жыл бұрын
Now that's a unique perspective
@baburajtmv4350 5 жыл бұрын
This explanation of runanubhandha is extradinary.but some people across the India trying to break the some values.
@hemantdurgia943 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome 🙏
@dreamphoenix 3 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@deekshapathak3790 5 жыл бұрын
Always namaskaram🙏🙏
@mm-st2rj 5 жыл бұрын
perfect like always
@ganeshbandgar881 5 жыл бұрын
About salt same thing in maharashtra also.
@abhaysinghchauhan5579 5 жыл бұрын
these things are found in all of india
@ganeshbandgar881 5 жыл бұрын
@@abhaysinghchauhan5579 Nice Our duty is to keep it alive
@bhoomikamohan933 4 жыл бұрын
Why dont they take salt ? What’s wrong with that ?
@KrishNa-rx7fu 4 жыл бұрын
We can find these things all over india
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