Celeste Headlee: 10 ways to have a better conversation | TED

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8 жыл бұрын

When your job hinges on how well you talk to people, you learn a lot about how to have conversations -- and that most of us don't converse very well. Celeste Headlee has worked as a radio host for decades, and she knows the ingredients of a great conversation: Honesty, brevity, clarity and a healthy amount of listening. In this insightful talk, she shares 10 useful rules for having better conversations. "Go out, talk to people, listen to people," she says. "And, most importantly, be prepared to be amazed."
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@roselynn8688
@roselynn8688 3 жыл бұрын
Any introverts here?
@sl9105
@sl9105 4 жыл бұрын
I am still waiting when will Ted is gonna talk
@YukthaSuresh-zw5de
@YukthaSuresh-zw5de
extroverts left the chat
@dinohall2595
@dinohall2595 3 жыл бұрын
This woman is an amazing presenter, and her points all stick. You can tell she's the person to ask about how to have a better conversation.
@swetaprasad390
@swetaprasad390 21 күн бұрын
Anyone came here from youtube shorts
@Pulldatcashout
@Pulldatcashout 2 жыл бұрын
Feel like a robot trying to learn to be human
@Allstar_gaming867
@Allstar_gaming867
Those who are after watching reels 😂
@ganjiblobflankis6581
@ganjiblobflankis6581 8 жыл бұрын
Was expecting the worst on this one. Turned out the title was literal and honest. I have seen so many similar titles that misuse words like "Conversation" that I have grown a tad jaded. That was actual good advice and well presented.
@leadgindairy3709
@leadgindairy3709 3 жыл бұрын
Man, Trump and Biden needed to watch this before their debate tonight lol
@kaylasheehan2167
@kaylasheehan2167 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like something she neglected to touch on, and that teens especially struggle with a lot, is that you should not rely on others opinions or others responses too much. Listen to the right people and avoid being swayed by those who are trying to force a change that's not to improve you . Have the ability to listen well enough to interpret what is worthwhile to take in. Don't push your opinion, but hold by it well enough to discuss it with someone
@dakk3
@dakk3 4 жыл бұрын
"Number five: If you don't know, say that you don't know."
@michaelkoro1739
@michaelkoro1739 5 жыл бұрын
"Most people don't really listen, they're just waiting for their turn to speak"
@ayushshukla651
@ayushshukla651 Жыл бұрын
Celeste Headlee: 10 ways to have a better conversation:-
@andrewxymusic
@andrewxymusic 3 жыл бұрын
"10 ways to have a better conversation"
@lola-br4ps
@lola-br4ps 5 жыл бұрын
"A good conversation is like a miniskirt;short enough to retain interest,but long enough to cover the subject"
@HairDresserAlbury
@HairDresserAlbury 2 жыл бұрын
who would have thought - in 2021, we are even more divided on those same topics Celeste speaks about back in 2016!
@intriguedheart6479
@intriguedheart6479 2 жыл бұрын
I was never taught any of this from a young age so now I must teach myself to change my incompetent communication habits.
@Edward_Lejeune01
@Edward_Lejeune01 3 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised how much a person will reveal if you just listen. In a world where everyone is talking, people truly want to be heard.
@ToyotaCorrolla
@ToyotaCorrolla Жыл бұрын
1: Be 100% present in the moment
@Smashachu
@Smashachu
I've frequently re-watched this video dozens of times over the last 4-5 years and it's actually changed my social life completely. I used to struggle to be able to hold a conversation with anyone, now after practicing and utilizing these skills i'm literally able to have a fun conversation with anyone while smiling and laughing.
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