"I want a man in between 27 and 35 that makes 150k a year, tall and handsome..." Does she think she's the type of woman that type of man would want?

Poor woman. She doesn't realize that "situationships" don't lead to anything long term.

The Alpha Widow problem Brian is talking about is only part of that problem. When a woman has a long list of men she has been with she starts pulling all of the positive traits from her past guys and melding them into the amalgamation of the perfect man in her fantasy world.

It’s insane how she can shake her head “yes” at everything they’re saying, but have absolutely no awareness of how it applies directly to her. “I only wanna be pretty” because that’s all she will ever have to offer

“That’s where sex and partnership are different to me.” So she’s saying she’s had so much sex already that she’s emotionally incapable of being truly intimate with any future partner. She’s damaged goods

She is 25? my goodness. i thought she was 40!

Next time you think you owe loyalty or commitment to a woman, just remember how quickly a widow starts shopping around for a new man after her old one dies.

The bartender is only a 4, lmao! If anyone actually marries her, they will be cheated on by this girl within 2 years of the marriage because he isn’t her dream guy!

TRANSLATION of "womanese." She said "The NFL players had sex; the Brad from IT gets a relationship." TRANSLATED: NFL Tyrone got the sex. Brad from IT will have to do a monkey dance for DUTY/PITY sex. It will be INFREQUENT and he will NEVER compare."

Australian dude is based and well spoken. Take some notes Brian!

The biggest problem with modern women is they don't respect the role of the housewife or motherhood. To them, those are responsibilities you take on when you're too old, lame, and boring to party or have fun anymore.

A lot of people think that the problem with millenials and Gen Z is a lack of common sense, but I think the real problem is a complete lack of self-awareness

Did she say her situationship is going to marry her and make her a stay at home mother??

She’s completely lost and has no idea whats going on. Her parents (specifically her mom) has failed her.

I once dated a single mother whos husband died 3 months before our first date. I was fully integrated in her life, slept on the husbands side of the bed, used his side of the wardrobe and taught her kid new things. Relationship lasted 6 weeks. If the mother of my children gets over me so easily and fast, theres something wrong with her and I couldnt get over this fact. She showed me videos of him and I became very sad and felt bad to replace him, while she behaved like watching spongebob

If you are sleeping with a man you wouldn't date you shouldn't be sleeping with him. You are destroying your chance of successfully pair bonding with a decent man.

It's hilarious that she expects to get the thing that she has ensured she doesn't qualify for because of her life choices

She's looking a little rough for 24. I figured she was 30 or so. That bartending/partying life sure does age a girl.

Her path in life is easy to predict. She'll hit 30ish, decide she wants a kid, deal down her standards for marriage or an LTR, or get intentionally knocked up by an alpha. She'll raise troubled kids... like single moms do.... then hit the wall of regret in her early to mid 40's at the latest

It is laughable that all this talk about equality has actually made society more unequal.

As a man, I never once thought about height, weight, or income when dreaming up my dream woman. I just wanted her to genuinely like animals, be nice to everyone but have her boundaries to protect us, and to be loyal and understanding. I'm 33 and have yet to find a girl who checks all three, but have found plenty that ask for 1000 times more than what I do while offering less.

The level of entitlement is absolutely stratospheric

The problem is the 24yo bartender hasn't done the math, yet or refuses to accept reality. The kind of man she wants, won't want her. Situationships are the friendzone for girls. She is in one with this guy, because she is great in bed and gives it up, but even he knows she isn't relationship material. So he will string her along for as long as he can. Wife-material women don't get situationshiped. Their BFs put a ring on it as soon as they can. This woman will probably go along with it until she gets closer to 30. But when she demands he marries her, he will bounce. Then, the only men she will be able to get are simps.

This is absolutely the best condensed explanation of the problem I have ever seen! Good work!

It's amazing. It wasn't that long ago when we as a whole didn't put nearly this much thought/conversation into dating/ marriage. Dating wasn't so complicated, and people overall weren't so morally bankrupt . Social media has Absolutely blurred the lines on what's acceptable and not acceptable in relationships.

German army helmet girl is the best part of this podcast lmao

4:10 Her: "That was s(e)x. I would never date the football players that I was sleeping with." 🥴😐 So, you will give complete s(e)xual access to random men, and these men can only view you as a "hole." On the other hand, the man you want to marry must jump through hoops to fit boxes of being a good father, total provider in the house, value you, and the like. In the words of Mr. Kevin Samuels, "You can't make this up." I genuinely feel bad for single men in the west.

"I just want to be attractive" yea well I want a billion dollars 😂😂😂😂😂

All Facts NO feelings!!!💯💯💯

The problem is this. Even if the woman can truly not compare her current guy to the previous Chad, the current guy will not believe her. The current guy will always second guess himself and feel less than and that will destroy the relationship over time.

felt called out as soneone called kevin and working in IT.

This is so sad. The 'magic' is gone between boys and girls .. I'm going to go watch The Notebook again and reminisce about the good olde days ..

A ran through bartender wanting a high earning husband.. 😅

One second she says he doesn't have to be tall fit and good looking and 2 minutes later says she wants a tall fit good looking guy.

That dude had them eating out of his palms. The guy definitely held a presence to where they would follow his lead. And, he wasn't mean about the truth. Which I'm okay with other guest being mean. The truth is harsh a lot of the time.

I just loose my shit when these women say partner....NO, its your HUSBAND, who we've established you want to be more competent, taller, stronger, than YOU. So there IS NO EQUALITY so there is no partnership, there is dominant and a submissive.

she is 24?thought she was 35 sheez

The main point she makes is that the marriage is about getting what she wants, not building a life together and working towards common goals. She just wants someone to pay for everything. Some of these ladies that what these tall, high earning men want for wives is 304s.

4:16 she is the epitome of run thru😂😂😂

just for the record, you do NOT need 120k a year to be a single income household. People regularly live comfortable middle class at $40k. If you take care of yourselves, remove vices and be smart with your money. Things Americans steadfastly refuse to do.

"Sex and partnership are different." No, no they aren't, they're absolutely related and inextricably linked. To say that is absolutely delusional. It isn't that Kevin from IT will compare himself to JaMichael the QB, it is that she will compare them. She'll never accept Kevin, she'll always long for and assume she's deserving of JaMichael.

I have that same hairclip in my hair rn and I think I just died inside. Edit: I’m shook she thinks that like, she has options. Shook. Oh god back again: I don’t care if this is mean, she looks ROUGH for being 24. Like holy hell, worse than me and I’m 25.

She’s never going to stop looking

If you use the word 'situationship', unironically, you're mental!

A successful guy who can supper a family on his income MIGHT want to marry up a girl with her mentality, but she needs to be a 10, not a weak 6, and she can't have the body count that comes with "that was just sex, I wouldn't date him" approach.

so rare and happy to see a group of respectful people. :)

Wow, 24 and looks 38 😮

Ya my sister tried that bartender single life and now she in her 30's with no kids or a man and is hating life..😂😂 I tried to warn her..

She's doomed. Finished. Most of them are. It's gonna be fun to watch.

1:30 As if earning 120k a year was realistic, that's 10k per month, as if 50k a year wasn't enough to live a good life with a family.

That's why we avoid alpha widows like devil the holy water... The more guys she had the higher the likelihood that there was one...

Amazing how a 5 can claim to be able to get an 8.

I feel sad for these women. I started dating a man and we have been going out for 3 months and he already bought an engagement ring for me and told his family, friends, co workers he loves me and his plans. I was shocked but when a man finds a good woman who is serious for marriage he will treat you well. I told him from the beginning what I was looking for and I have never done hookups, situationships, played around. When a man would approach me I would tell him I was looking for marriage and they would be honest with me, if they were looking for temporary, fwb, companion, etc and I would say thank you and goodbye. I knew what I wanted and didn't get into the wrong situations. Now my boyfriend makes me so happy and we are looking to find a place to live when we marry.

That dude speaking is way too nice. Girls like her get no guy longterm. Maybe a 50-60 yr old would marry her bc he has no other options. Young broke dudes will use her, and guys 30-45 are not going NEAR her.

This is the story of information young women need to hear That when they get older and don't have the relationship they have always wanted but see so many other women with it they ask "Why can't i have that too?". The answer is "because you ruined your chances at it" And that's it ladies, YOU are doing this to yourselves

It's sad that the sex doll that is usually in the room has a far better chance of attracting a man for a long term relationship than the live women in the room.

The woman featured in the video at the start and first woman speaking illustrate why I despise the "peaked in high school" types. I can't even relate to their mentality .

When a girl that dwells beneath you starts listing off standards in men that are above you.

Under 35, makes over $100k I mean, it happens. But that is a very small percentage of men. And she is not a 10, or a 9, or an 8, or a 7....

I think that it's safe to assume that these women will be raising any kids that they have, on their own.

''I don't have a type'' ..... but must earn $120K, have a decent body, aged 27 to 35, tall, handsome. You can't make this sheet up !!!

Bring a grandmother into these meetings with all these women believing their holding out for a celebrity equivalent in the community. lol. she'll set them straight.

"I don't want to work." Sort of like......a child

Damn! He broke nailed that explanation.

She's 24? I thought she's 40

They don't care what men want. Logically, therefore, we should not care what they want. Unless you want to be a Wallet and a Simp. Which means simpleton, in this case.

Absolutely delusional

Never underestimate human capacity for self-deception

Men value purity, kindness, supportiveness, youth, and beauty.

No guy like she wants is going to pick her how do they not understand that , a guy like she wants has options and why pick her when he can have a girl with the same good qualities she thinks she has that’s not a 304 . Yea she can find a simp but she won’t respect that

Lmao how insane...truly insane.

She's a 4 and looks like she's 38.

shes 24???? she looks like shes pushing 35

I blame GenX. GenX were raised to be tough & not give an F, which is good, it means we will survive in ANY climate Unfortunately, when GenX tried to instill discipline in their millennial and GenZ kids, when they rebelled, GenX was supposed to put their foot down ...but they didnt, they just said "well F u then..." that's why GenZ is weak and has no home training their GenX parents didn't give a rats ass

SHE IS 24? OMG SHE LOOKS CLOSER TO 44 THEN 24! Put down the makeup ladies as its aged you horribly!

she looks 30 lmao

Every Whatever clip i see from now on, when I see Maddison I'll think "8".

Where the want list kind of falls apart is the age/income window. I met my wife when I was 18, we both had zero income. There were lots of single guys/gals our age who also had zero income hooking up and some getting married. It's called a college dorm. A 20-something chick needs to be looking for a 20-something dude with prospects and then be willing to join that team and work together to succeed in life.

Did he just ask if a man who is going to be a father needs to make over 60k? In Colorado you need almost 60k just to afford a single bedroom apartment all by yourself. A single bedroom apartment will cost around of $1500 per month. Apartments generally demand that you make income of 3x rent. That means you need to make $4500 per month, times 12 months, makes $54,000 per year.

She looks alot older than 24. Sheesh!

None of those women looks like someone you want to date. They will never find a man that are going to commit to them.

"why you look 50 and you're 24"

The juice is definitely not worth the squeeze

Man 27-35 $120K 6ft or over and handsome. Let’s do the math 9% financial. Height 16%. Handsome let’s say 30%. That is 0.0004 percent of the population. Now about 5.6 of the population are men from 27-35 so she is limited to 0.00024% of men. There are ~3,628 in America.

Her little tirade is the biggest turn off.

she literally has no shot at that man

Here's the thing to agree with him saying once you have dated a certain type you can never truely move on from that. In my prime I was dating 8s and higher. Now I'm nearing 40 I'm not in my prime anymore I know I can't pull 8s and higher anymore and yet I won't even entertain trying to give anyone a change lower than that. It's hard to lower standards

The standard is too high before even chemistry, loyalty and care or respect are even considered.

"I'm in this situationship for a reason." Yeah. The reason is that the guy wants sex, but doesn't want to date you seriously, long term, and possibly marry you.

4:20 Why should a man that can afford to support a family want a woman that's ran through? i mean at 24 she should already be married and having her first children with a good man.

They can’t actually believe that maybe they go on podcast to try and convince themselves of it but come on . All they will get after sleeping and partying around is a simp but I guess that’s fine they will just cheat and take all his money anyway

Jamichael the quaerterbacj hahahhaa. Great term

"S*x and relationship are different" Yeah, this is a recipe for disaster. She will either unhappy and leave/divorce him or will cheat and he will divorce her. And you get a broken home with children who are suffering the most from this mess.

24?! Damn getting ran through ages you. 😂

They have NO IDEA ! Who filled their lil heads with such delusion?

Back in the 70's we had a simple term. "Screwed Stupid".

For those TRULY aspiring to be stay at home moms - you may want to be well educated in your late teens/early 20's in arenas that are helpful to being stay at home moms: nursing, early childhood education, homesteading/home business, culinary arts, etc. Being a bartender or OF model won't offer much practicality.

Bro said “JaMichael” and stood on it! 😂

It's simple: the "high profile" guys who they "just have sex with" ... clearly aren't long-term relationship material (or aren't interested in THEM for longterm) ... so the smart chicks realise it's best to cut straight to the chase and go for "Kevin from IT." It's the usual thing: nothing worthwhile is ever easy to get but worthwhile men won't ever take the hoe who thought she would "just have some fun while I'm young"

She's 24???